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Love wrangles to English breakfasts

August 20, 2018 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Maurice,love wrangles1

I need your thoughts on a situation. Since 2015 I have been dating a guy on and off mainly because of exclusivity issues that arise and we break it off then return back to one another. I met him through mutual social circles and I fell for him. He just has a way of confusing me and his sex is great, like really good.

Maurice replies,

He sounds like a guy whom you have a sexual connection with. What is the problem?

She replies,

Ok, for one, he stopped confusing me as he used to. This is complicated so let me break it down. I found out, like in 2016, that one of the chicks in our social circle used to date him and why I found out late was because she got married to another man, left our social group, but kept in touch with him ‘my boyfriend’. I asked him and he denied. After her marriage collapsed, she left her husband then pursued him again to the point they would meet frequently as he was dating me. She gathered my clothes at his place and cut them up and had them delivered to my office ‘can you imagine the nerve’. I confronted him and he apologized stating that he only allowed her to go to his place unsupervised because he wanted her to pick any thing she may have at his place so that he can commit to me. Obviously I knew he was trying to seduce me with his bull shit (I follow your work so I know men better, I am much wiser). Yes I was mad but I kept my cool with him. Late last year after we broke off for the last time he had text me that his girlfriend ‘the ex chick’ who was once a friend of mine did not like us communicating and that he had been pressured to text me the message. So what I did, is seduce him and implied I wanted his dick knowing he had a weakness for my pussy ‘you know lol’. I went over to his office and picked his house keys. I had bought a new pair of scissors. I went over to his place and cut all her clothes and shoes. Especially one pair of shoes he had given her as a gift and she flossed on social media saying ‘my boo bought me these’ blah blah blah. I even sent her real time photos as I was cutting them. I text her that her so called man was sucking my pussy, the previous night, while I was wearing her panties lol I was lying but it hurt her. I needed her to picture it.

Maurice replies,

OOOOOOOK…. clearly you were out for some form of revenge. If I may ask, at what point did you break off for good assuming you are now done with him and were you both dating others during your breaks.

She replies,

Maurice it’s like you are reading my mind. I was getting there. Whenever we broke up we were not exclusive. Early last year some married guy I met on social media came for my birthday. He surprised me and all my friends noticed ‘something between us’. Thoughlove wrangles3 he gave me space with my friends and just mingled. My boyfriend’s friends went and told him that some ‘dude’ came to my birthday and that we looked close. My boyfriend was not in attendance cause he had to travel. He later asked me and I told him that yes a male friend came to my birthday and after he persisted with many questions I admitted that this man had given me the best sex ever. That nigga can suck pussy!!! He wasn’t happy as you can imagine but he had prior hurt me numerous times with stories of his team mafisi behaviours. That was the beginning of the end or so I thought.

Maurice replies,

So what’s the story with you and married guy and what do you mean by ‘so I thought’?

She replies,

My ex is now texting telling me how he regrets his actions and that he wants me back. Anyway, I met the married guy and we hit it off. This man totally gets me. We can talk for hours and he can take me places for hours if you know what I mean #shymoment. He just gets me. He is not pushy and he knows how to make me feel like a woman. I guess his patience and maturity helps. For example, there is time we hookup for some nasty night of pleasures but for some reason my body was not feeling the whole venture. Unlike most men who would behave like apes that have been denied sex, he just engaged in conversation and watched me sleep. When I woke up he was by my side and he cooked me a full English breakfast. Like I said he gets me and he makes me smile. It’s the small things that us women really care about and he encompasses those things.

Maurice replies,

I hear you. What I have gotten from this story is that your boyfriend dated a girl, she got married, quit the marriage and at some point came back to your boyfriend. I understand you were on and off but you were in this web of relations. So what advice do you seek from me?

She replies,

My ex is on my case. Now what could he be wanting from me after he made it clear he had a girlfriend, he says he misses me and what we had and that he loves me?

Maurice replies,love wrangles2

In my opinion, your ex just knows that he has gotten away with his team mafisi antics plenty of times before, he is good at feeding women with the stories of hope they want to hear and that is why he is so confident in his pursuit. He is also channeling your emotional competitive side as women, creating a scenario where two women hate each other and never the man who inflicts all the pain. Unless you are turned on by relationship disorder you would be wise to explore new territories and take a needed long break from that love triangle.

She replies,

Do you think this married guy is an option?

Maurice replies,

I am not a big fan of titles. I only seek happiness for all those who approach me and at times that happiness does not materialize in a conventional manner. What I would like to know is…. does he make you happy, do you feel good around him, has he a way of reminding you that you are sexy and luring. If the answer is yes, then explore, have fun, take a break from buying scissors and enjoy more best sex & English breakfasts. Invite happiness to your soul and go with the flow. If I may add, I hope there is squirting in all this sexual exploration before and after English breakfast, just saying!

She replies,

Funny you mention. He attended a session with you years ago. He said you taught him a few tricks so yes he does make me squirt, like loads, the bed is soaked until sleeping becomes a problem but I am not complaining. His wife refused to go for the session sighting it is unholy. Too bad for her I am going to enjoy the fruits. Thank you Maurice. I knew I could count on you to give me needed perceptive. By the way, there is a girlfriend of mine who needs a really good fuck and to learn to squirt. Can you organize, she is willing to pay. She says free is cheap so she wants orgasmic guarantees.

Maurice replies,

You are very welcome my dear. Tell her to contact me, I can facilitate for one’s fantasy/fetish.

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Penetrative Issues!

July 23, 2018 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Maurice,

I need your help. I don’t know where to begin because I don’t want judgement. I need to figure out why my girl is stepping out on me. I am Ghanaian. I have lived in Kenya for 6 years.

Maurice replies,

My job is not to judge, that’s the job for non professionals. Once I have all the social variables of your story, mine is to profile, deduce and share my analysis of your predicament. Does that make sense?

He replies,

Yes it does. Thank you. I was a bit worried because I consulted with a religious counselor and there was nothing but judgement.

Maurice replies,

Worry not, please do share.

He replies,foreignlover

I have been seeing this lady for the last 2 years. It’s an affair that went beyond it’s expiry date but I am not complaining because I grew to really like her but now I noticed, after going through her phone, that she is still fucking her ex-husband who lives with another woman.

Maurice asks,

You mentioned it was an affair, does that mean she is currently dating someone else, I just need to be clear with the facts?

He replies,

Yes, she separated with her ex-husband 6 years ago. She has a current boyfriend, they have been together about 3 years. When we met she told me she quickly realised she did not love him and at the time they met she just needed a companion. They live apart because of her two children.

Maurice asks,

How old are you and how old are the people in this love nest if you don’t mind me asking?

He replies,

I am 41. She is 32. Her ex is 47 and her current boyfriend is 35.

Maurice asks,

Have you confronted her with the information and why would you do through her phone? What are you seeking to be in her life?

He replies,

I did not tell her I went through her phone but I told her that I had a feeling she was fucking another man and she did not hesitate to casually share with me that she was sexual active with her ex.

Maurice replies,

Well, why is that a problem considering you are also having sexual relations with her, it can’t be an issue of exclusivity because you are tasting her vagina without consent from her boyfriend, isn’t that fact?

He replies, dollarsseduction

I was just shocked and hurt that she was fucking another behind my back. I am okay with her fucking her boyfriend but I don’t expect to share her with two men. I am spending over $1,000 every month to give her a certain lifestyle so she should limit her sexual activities to me and her boyfriend.

Maurice asks,

Did you ask her why she was still having sex with her ex and I am curious, do you by any chance know their sex schedule?

He replies,sweetdick

From their chat, they normally meet at different venues. I could not believe that she was honest enough to tell me that they made a pact that if they ever broke up she would still have the privilege of his ‘sweet dick’. How could she share such with me, your Kenyan women are strange. Where I am from a woman would not dare to reveal such in fear of a beating.

Maurice replies,

My good man, let us stay away from beating women, not unless you are referring to a tongue lashing on her clit that makes her cum in your mouth. Anyway, I digress, as you have said, you had no intention of making your affair long term but due to human feelings that grow and change the relationship dynamic at some point you got hooked. Most of all, you forgot your relevance in your relations with her. You were her fling, her avenue of thrills but once you prolonged your stay, your psychology became one of provision. You became what Kenyans call a ‘sponsor’. I am sure you did not receive the memo but that is your relevance at this point in time. Her ex-husband’s relevance is ‘his dick’ and that is why despite having you and her boyfriend she indulges with his shaft. For those who care to listen, I have always stated that lust is the driving force behind human sexual behaviour. In my opinion, her boyfriend is her companion. Someone she finds stability with, with whom she can attempt to love and co-exist. She may not love him the way she once thought she could but he still has some relevance. You, my friend, were her foreign thrill and still remain to have relevance but your main problem right now hence why you approached me, is the story of that man’s penis. I don’t know whether she ever complimented your sexual prowess but this revelation about her ex’s sexual skills is burning you from the inside out and has most likely made you doubt your own manhood.

The reason why she confidently shared is because she feels you have that liberal friendship and connection that allows for anything to be shared. My only worry for you, is that if you show her that you are intimidated by her sharing trait then she might in turn point out that your relationship is not about exclusivity nor conservative relations. I hope you understand what I am saying otherwise you need to rethink your relationship with her. Sometimes a woman just needs a liberal male friend she can fuck once in awhile and most of all a man who is a non-judgmental friend with whom she can share her life stories with. Perhaps her boyfriend is not the listener type. Unless you want to leave, if I were you I would be working on improving my relevance, be a better listener, a better lover, work on new ways of delivering orgasmic intimacy and stop thinking about a penis that is not on your body.

He replies,

Boss, you do not mince your words do you! I never looked at it that way. Very insightful. But also not easy to accept but I appreciate your candor. Actually a Kenyan friend of mine was like Matheka will lay it down for you.

Maurice replies,

I am curious, after 2 years of this affair what made you suspicious of her?

He replies,

I have known her routine and she is usually honest about her day to day activities. But there is a day I asked her where she was and she lied she was at work. She works in Nairobi but her phone locator said she was in Naivasha. She told me they had a Directors meeting only for me to find out she was in another type of ‘meeting’. I asked her why she had never told me about fucking her ex expeditions and she replied “I don’t tell him about you fucking me and neither do I ask you if you are fucking anyone else”.

Maurice replies,

Clearly she knows what she wants from her relations. It’s time you realign yourself into the network or you eject yourself. I do not see her conforming to any restrictive conservative parameters.

He replies,

Thank you Maurice. What I have understood is that I was ready to fool around with someone’s woman but the minute I grew feelings for her I became obsessive and emotionally invested in a relationship I manufactured in my head.

Maurice replies,

That is a very good prognosis of your psychological condition. So now, its down to choice. Please do keep me posted.

 

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Troubled Lustful Waters

June 29, 2018 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Maurice,

I hope this finds you well. I wanted to update you on my marriage. Last year in May when we approached you and we had our three sessions with you things got much betterInfatuationcouple between my wife and I. During the sessions I honestly got to understand my manhood and especially got better at pleasuring my wife. She even complimented my efforts for a period of time. But I believe our marriage is in troubled waters. After all the strides we have made to better our connection, a week ago I found out that she was still having an affair with the young man who caused us to seek your consult. As you know after 9 years of nothing but loyalty towards her it is extremely hurtful to know that your wife shares a bed with another man or in this case a 24 year old boy.

Maurice, I need you to explain to me why she could go back to him. How does a 29 year old woman fall for a boy. When we met she told me she was only interested in older men so is a 41 year old man not enough for her and considering I have given her everything she has ever wanted.

Maurice replies,

If I may, let me take you down memory lane. You married her when she was 20 and pregnant. You then took responsibility and embarked on a journey to learn how to love her and keep her happy and safe. Am I on the right track so far?

He replies,

Yes, what’s your point?

Maurice replies,

In an ideal World, all your actions towards your wife should brand you as man of the year but due to the many social variables that also influence our relationship, as you took on your responsibilities you neglected to make her feel like a woman. As you confirmed there was little affection other than your ability to flood her with luxury. Granted, you are actually a good man when it comes to providing for your family but you failed in the area of emotion and dispensing of love. Your sex life completely lackedyoungboylove seduction. For most of your years it was obligational sex. Then the so called boy uncloaks within her periphery. She had only known you as her only sex partner. For almost 8 years she had nothing to compare. Here comes a young man who unveils to her another World of pleasures and confuses her sexual orbit. When sexual stimulus is registered in our brain it usually becomes an addiction which lapses until ignited again. When you both came to me, I made it very clear that moving forward would have to be mutual and that you needed to leave the past to have a chance of a new beginning. For the duration of our sessions, I witnessed a lot of commitment from both of you and what made it easier was that you were both willing to reconnect by doing things that were out of your comfort zone. We dealt with both your relationship & sexual psychology and by the time we had our last session you were heading in the right direction. So in your opinion what changed, have you confronted her about her continued affair?

He replies,

I admit I was not the most affectionate husband but after I forgave and agreed to change she still goes ahead and betrays me again. She is a mother of a 9 year old boy. She is meant to be a respectable house wife not acting like a whore.

Maurice replies,

Just based on your last comment, need I remind you that you were once a 31 year old man who preyed on a young girl and I am sure it’s her whore-ish attributes that you were interested in at that period. You have every right to be annoyed but do not forget the fact that your courtship foundation was weak. It comprised of lustful moments and periods shared between you and her. The two of you were never in-love but you were soaked in infatuation which is not a bad thing but considering your predicament today your initial intent never had futuristic projections.

He replies,

I hear what you are saying but it does not justify her behaviour does it?

Maurice replies,

For me right now its about finding out why she went back to that young man. I can only make a relevant deduction once I have the facts. You did not answer me, have you confronted her?

He replies,

Yes, I was avoiding that question. She said something hurtful.

Maurice asks,

Which was?

He replies,

She said, she is not sure if she ever really loved me. She said, she was too young to know what it really means to love a man. She allegedly has feelings for him that she never had for me. She mentioned that his touch was different, what the hell does that even mean!histouchWere those words not just meant to hurt me! Is she not just dicktimised and going through a phase. For me to write you, I am willing to do anything to fix this. You have my consent to reach out to her and tell her that this is madness. Is she willing to sacrifice the lifestyle I afford her for this loser. Remind her that with all my opportunities I never ever cheated on her. My only failure was thinking that splashing her with money and gifts was enough. Maurice, I don’t know what magic you will have to perform but I need my wife back. Whatever classes we need to attend I will but this cannot be the begin of the end.

Maurice replies,

I will reach out to her but I cannot make any promises. The most I can do is get her side of the story and profile your relations within the last 12 months inclusive of establishing any triggers that may have caused her diversion.

 

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Millennial Exposure & Insights

May 7, 2018 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Maurice,millennialgirl

I am 18 years old and I am a big fan of your blog, especially your videos on facebook. You tell it as it is and I would like to share my story with you as long as you do not name me.

Maurice replies,

You have nothing to worry about, in the last 8 years of blogging I have never mentioned anyone in any of my stories. I only seek to share human relationship and sexual experiences. Please feel free to share.

She replies,

I am 18 like I mentioned and from a middle class family. I have never lacked in my life and I am grateful for that. However, my parents have never been keen to educate me on matters sex. There is a massive failure of parents especially as we millennials reach 10 to 14, we are exposed to so much and if you do not have an adult to guide you, you can easily be led astray by social media and peers.

I was lucky enough to have my Dad’s friend mentor me in the different stages of my life. My Dad asked him to be my mentor because I always looked up to him as my ‘uncle’. He was the father figure that was willing to talk to me about boys. My mum refused to mentor me, all she ever said was that boys were evil and she would only be comfortable talking about boys once I was legally an adult but to this day she still feeds me useless information thinking am still a child. Anyway, if it wasn’t for you and my Dad’s friend I would have made a lot of mistakes that girls make at the age of 14, where we rush into sex because most of our friends are doing it. Parents think we are stupid and immature, and yet we know right from wrong but we choose to defy them because we either do not want to be ‘left out’ or we just reach a point where being treated like a baby just makes us vengeful.

Maurice asks,

So what you are saying is that many girls at 14 years of age will enter into sexual relations because they want to fit in with their peers?

She replies,

Exactly, and when your mum tells you that boys are evil, she makes you curious enough to want to find out ‘how evil can they be’. You get me Maurice?

Maurice replies,millennialgirlfriends

Oh yes, I get you loud and clear but unfortunately most parents don’t want to have this discussion. Then you have a segment of parents who don’t want their unless parenting skills to be questioned. I recall a concerned mother contracting me to have several sessions with her 14 year old daughter and one of her concerns was social media. Her exact question was ‘if I take away my daughter’s phone she finds an alternative source of communication so how do I protect my daughter from men on social media, how do I make sure they don’t text her’. I told her that her biggest error was attempting to mask her daughter from the real World. So in our sessions, all I did is expose her daughter to the realities of social media and how to counter and manage her surroundings (how to deal with those men). It is vital to empower young people with social tactics so they can protect themselves.

She replies,

I agree. It is important to empower girls with ways of dealing with predators instead of imprisoning us then releasing us into the World with zero skills. It is equivalent to releasing a goat into a Lion infested savanna. Maurice, I lost my virginity last year and I am thankful it was with a man who gave me a good experience compared to most of my girlfriends who had really bad experiences, enough to put them off sex. As young girls we always hear how magical and amazing sex is so we become curious but with fear of the act and judgement. This leads me to the real reason I approached you. For almost 8 years the person I could confide to about my feelings and boys was my Dad’s friend.

Maurice replies,

Sorry to butt in but how old is your Dad’s friend?

She replies,

He is 44, my Dad is 43.

Maurice replies,

Please continue, so the only person you could confide to was your Dad’s friend….

She replies,

Yes, I got to like him a lot because he was always there for me, he even attended my school events and took me out on picnics with his kids when my parents were too busy. By the time I was 16 a level of attraction kick in, he became my biggest crush. Please don’t judge me, I don’t know where the feelings came from , they just manifested and it gets worse. Last year at a family function I told him that I wanted to fuck him. He was like ‘what stop messing around, you shouldn’t say such things to me’. He further went on with ‘I am like your Dad’ , I responded ‘true but you are not’. He said ‘you are like my daughter’. I said ‘true but you are not blood’. I made it very clear that he needed to fuck me or I would run to my Dad and tell me that ‘uncle tried to touch me inappropriately’. I told him that he had to make a choice, have sex with me or say bye bye to his long friendship with my Dad. Even if he proved that he never advanced on me I knew my parents would never trust me again. One thing I have learnt is that people are very emotionally fragile so taking advantage is so easy.

Maurice replies,

So you black mailed him and I need to ask why considering he was there for you?

She replies,

This was in July and earlier in the year my first experience was so bad and I reckoned an older patient and experienced man was what I needed. It was a gamble that paid off.

Maurice asks,

How old was the guy who gave you the bad experience and is he still in your life?

She replies,

It was my friend’s brother, he is 22. My experience with him was traumatic. His inexperience was evident and that is why girls my age opt for older men who hopefully know what they are doing.

Maurice replies,

So you had sex with your Dad’s friend?

She asks,

Daaaah. It was incredible.

Maurice asks,

Did that not affect your relationship with him being like your father figure for all those years?

She replies,

He did not look traumatized while inside me so no that did not change much. Though, I do not see him as much at our place. But I know he meets with my Dad at the club every week. I think he is more upset that the sex stopped when I got him out my system. He failed to understand that he was only relevant the 4 times I needed his amazing sex. It’s bizarre how a grown ass man can sulk when he misses good pussy LOL.

Maurice asks,

So he wanted more even after his initial reluctance?

She replies,

Maurice, granted I am new in this game but after seeing his reaction while having sex even you would want more of this!

Maurice replies,

Let us keep me out of the equation. Question, what was your main reason of sharing this story?

She replies,

You have a following and many are parents. I want people to know that how they areteenage pregnancy going about with their parenting is out dated. As you said, if my mother and father are not equipt with the know how of how to mentor us and empower us with how to deal with the real World then teenage pregnancy will remain a norm. There are many girls in high school who have had more than two abortions and part of the problem is parents who think keeping the girl child indoors is the answer. At some point we are let out and it only take less than 10 minutes for me to sample that evil boy between the shopping mall and home.

Maurice asks,

You want to shock parents into changing their conservative mindset to sexual education?

She replies,

Yes, even you Maurice. Because you are out spoken and practical in your delivery you must be part of the solution. We are brought for some uninteresting speakers and mentors in schools but we lack someone with your knowledge. Parents scare us with illogical truths, you however would be listened to because you would engage us as adults and tell us the consequences of our actions. We do not need to be shouted at, or addressed like children. We need a non judgmental person who will give us the low down with options, take door A and your choices may fail you, take door B and you can experience life in stages. That is what my generation wants, a person who scares us with the realities of today’s World not yesterday’s but also reminds us that ultimately it’s our individual choice that will map out our destiny.

Maurice replies,

I have tried to engage governing bodies for this to be a National debate that translates to a curriculum to empower young people who in turn nurture better morals in the fabric of society but the religious types and uninformed moral police are too stuck in the old conservative ways of educating society. In my professional opinion, their goal to save our African culture will fail because they do nothing but bandage a growing wound. Understanding the sexual psychology of an ever evolving generation will allow you to formulate social projects/programs that make a difference in the long run. I must say it has been enlightening to chat with you and thank you very much for sharing. It is just unfortunate that the deeper social problems in our society today will be ignored or ridiculed by those who evaluate through emotions that project their own inner insecurities opposed to being debated by progressive thinkers who can recognize a problem and see potential in implementing out of the box solutions that impact our society positively. Again, thank you for sharing.

Oh, one more question. What is your take on the boychild, specifically boys of your generation.

She replies,

Empowering girls is great but if you do not empower boys in the same measure then you will cultivate a society where the boychild is not able to handle the girlchild. I can speak for all girls but I know that when we date a boy our age it is just mainly for show to our peers. He is there for coffee dates, ice creams runs, pizza dates but our primary attraction is the older guy who not only fucks us for his pleasures but also empowers us with information that adds value in our day to day life. One day the boychild will be my boyfriend or husband. I know we won’t gel but I will keep him around to please mother but I will secretly have an older guy who understands me better in every single way. It is exciting to have a man who arouses your thought process, he just has relevance despite me having a boyfriend or husband. Personally I view marriage has an illogical process where the rules favor the same repressed boychild.

Maurice replies,

Wow, you should definitely consider majoring in some form of psychology. At your very youthful age you understand human behavioural science better than women two to three times your age.

She replies,

Maurice, they are seeking to be loved. We millennials are seeking relevance in our life, you can love us but if you don’t add value you can keep your love. Older women like my mum package love and sex together hence why she constantly has issue with my Dad who just wants pussy that motivates him. It’s not my fight so I do not meddle, but I could teach my mum a thing or two about men.

Maurice replies,

Oooook.

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I fucked his….

April 11, 2018 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Maurice,

I have been silently following your blog and I find myself in a situation where I need your opinion on something that recently happened to me. I used to have a close friend, this was like 16 months ago and after a few incidents we broke off our friendship. It all began when he met this girl and he fell for her.

Maurice replies,

Ok, I am a bit unclear. So this friend of yours is no longer a friend because of some other girl?

She replies,

We were friends for 4 years and then we once made out while camping in Nakuru and decided to be fuck buddies.

Maurice asks,

Did your fuck buddie relationship have any exclusivity terms & conditions or was it strictly casual?

She replies,teenlove

We fucked and saw other people but after two years around the time he met his girlfriend I had developed feelings for him but I could not tell him because we had both agreed that signs of love would destroy everything we had. I dated two others guys during our friendship and I always wanted to spend more time with him because there was always brutal honesty between us.

Maurice replies,

You do realise that true honesty is mostly witnessed between two people who are sexually connected but have not labeled their relationship. Hence why people find it easier to share with friends than with their own partners. For many couples once they define their relationship then it automatically bring about a change of mindset, secrecy begins to blossom, jealousy thrives which leads to insecurity and before you know it your friendship withers.

She replies,teenlove2

Yes, tell me about it! Feelings of love can be so messy. So anyway, I got jealous and worst yet he asked for my blessings as his best friend ‘as he used to call me’. I pretended and wished him well, and I did ask him if we would still be fucking even though he had a girlfriend. He said yes but as their relationship went on he showed no sexual interest in me. I felt betrayed and even though he still treated me like his best friend I ended up fucking his girlfriend and his father.

Maurice asks,

You did what!!!!!!!!!

Now this is juicy. How did you manage to fuck his Dad?

She replies,

LOL…. his father would flirt with me whenever we were socializing or at their place. I ebonykissingoldermanthink his mother suspects LOL. Oh by the way, my best friend and I are 22. His father is 46. He is so hot, he was a former rugby player. So anyway, I found out that his father was taking a trip out of town with his boys and I tagged along with a girlfriend of mine who got pregnant after that trip. But that’s a story for another day. In case you are wondering, I made out with his girlfriend over drinks at his place while he was out with his boys.

Maurice replies,

Clearly rugby guys are busy in this Kenya of ours! lol #amonthefloor #rugbyalumnioperations

So let me get this straight. You had sexual affairs or as you call them ‘incidents’ with your best friend’s girlfriend and Dad to get back at him for breaking your heart, even though technically he did not intentionally break your heart because you were just having a friends with benefits arrangement, isn’t that correct?

And as much as I appreciate you sharing your story, I am curious to know what opinion you seek from me?

She replies,

I am not done with my story. After he found out about my deeds, he colluded with his pals to trick me into falling for them. They agreed to pursue me and whoever achieved their goal would be rewarded. I stupidly fell for two of his friends and the reward for fucking me was an expensive Whiskey.

Maurice replies,

What you are saying is that you were somewhat tag teamed. Please forgive me but I need a moment to LMAO…. I am curious, which Whiskey was awarded?

She replies,

They love Dalmore 18. Aki Maurice, you are laughing at me.

Maurice replies,

Come on, even you know it’s hilarious!!!!

And I really hope you are not playing victim because one deed deserves another. You were the orchestrator of this game. Once you fucked his Dad and girlfriend you rolled the dice and sealed your current fate. By the way, this is not unusual among male close friends. If you dare to mess with one of us, we will unleash the wrath of the group. Some men call it ‘sharing is caring’. It’s never a good feeling to be played but in this case I call it ‘fair play’. You found a way to unsettle him and he did the same. I hope this ends here. You’re not planning to fuck his mother are you?

She replies,

LOL no I am not. You’re funny!

Maurice replies,

I am guessing you now have my opinion on the matter. And again, thank you so much for sharing. It was entertaining to hear your story. Question, are you still banging his Dad and if you don’t mind me asking who is the better shag?

She replies,

ebonyinbedwitholdermanHis father is a stallion. He does things to me that I can’t explain. I always thought men my age group were better at sex. Have you ever being addicted to a man and you can’t explain why, that is my current situation and I am loving it.

Maurice replies,

Good for you. And no I have never been addicted to a man, just good pussy with loads of squirting in the mix!

She replies,

Can you teach me how to squirt?

Maurice replies,

Oh yes, that I can do. You want to add a new skill to your repertoire. We can always schedule a session.

She replies,

Maurice, Maurice, Maurice… I admire your professionalism but don’t you get tired of making a woman squirt and not traversing her entire body. Am a whiskey and cocktails girl, both have a way of opening me up, care to find out how open I can be!!!!

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Vagina Entitlement!

April 9, 2018 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Maurice,ebonycry

I really need your help. I made one small mistake and now my man does not want me back in his life.

Maurice asks,

What did you do, and when you say your man, is he your boyfriend or husband?

She replies,

He is my ex boyfriend. Three years ago I left him because we were struggling financially. I left him with our child who was 2 years old at the time. We lived in an SQ in South B.

Maurice asks,

Why did you leave him?

She replies,ebonymoney

Please do not judge me. I just felt he was not trying hard enough to progress in life and I fell for another man who promised me a lot that I wanted only for him to disappoint me. I wanted bigger things in life and thought this other man would offer me a better life but all he did was use me.

Maurice replies,

So why do you want your ex back?

She replies,

Even though I was with the other guy I always followed up with my ex especially on social media. When I found out that his catering business had gained traction and that he had moved from the SQ to a two bedroom house I felt guilty for leaving him so I came back and begged him to see my son. He agreed and told me that he had never restricted me from seeing our son but we are done as a couple because I chose to leave him for another man. I have been staying with him since November because the man I was with stopped paying for my one bedroom apartment. I have tried everything to seduce him into bed but he said he can not even get an erection for me. Maurice, I am so stressed. Can you imagine he allows his casual girlfriend to sleep over with our son in the same house. When I am sleeping with my son I sometimes hear them having sex in the other room. This is so wrong. Please help, how do I get him to chase her and want me again?

Maurice replies,

Honestly, I really don’t see you having a future with him. The minute you left him because you felt he was not providing as you expected he was most likely hurt for a while and at some point he moved on. You are actually lucky you have a good ex who is mature enough not to punish your son by preventing you from contact. As for his ‘casual girlfriend’, that’s his house, you abide by his rules or you find your own place. He is very much entitled to have sex with whomever he wants. You have no right to attempt to dictate. You should be grateful that you have a roof over your head and I am sure he is feeding you. I am curious, this other man who let you go, what happened?

She replies,

Maurice, you are being so harsh with me. I made a mistake and I regret it.

Maurice replies,

That is fair enough, but it’s my duty to point out the facts. So what happened with the other guy?

She replies,

He is married. I was with him for 3 years. He treated me like a queen and last year in September out of nowhere he told me that he no longer loved me and that he was giving me 2 months to find a place to stay. I pleaded with him but he told me he had already invested more than he had planned to. He had promised marriage but kept delaying so last year in July I called his wife and told her that I no longer wanted to be a secret and that did not please him. He continued to pay my rent and upkeep but he went quiet for a month.

Maurice replies,

So you dated a married man for 3 years hoping that he would deliver paradise. I hope you realise that all your current problems are self inflicted. You left a man who was struggling with his hustle and decided to become another man’s lust factor, and then you killed that lust by disrupting his family. How old are you if I may ask?

She replies,

I am 24.

Maurice replies,

My dear, you need to humble yourself and slow your roll. I feel that you have a sense of entitlement and that you believe that you deserve luxury just because you are ebonyflauntwoman. You will not survive the social arena with that attitude. You have a commodity called a vagina and once men establish your material desires they will dangle that carrot and surely you will be baited ‘hook line & sinker’. By the time you realise your social errors your vagina will have mileage with nothing to show for it. Yes you made a mistake but it was not a small one. You crushed a man’s ego and now you want him back because he is doing well for himself which in my books means you want to be a parasite in his life. It is offensive to men to think that your wrongs can be rectified or forgiven by the use of your feminine lure. You are mistaken. I have seen your photo and I can attest to the fact that you are an attractive young woman but to your ex, your vagina lost value the minute your devalued his manhood. It’s as simple as that. For how long as he allowed you to stay at his place and if he were to ask you to leave where would you go?

She replies,

The married man never wanted me to work. He used to give me 40k per month after paying for my bills. I have a small salon but it is struggling. I can only afford a bedsitter but those areas are usually dangerous. He told me he is giving me until July to sort myself out. Instead of being rude can you give me a solution!

Maurice,

It is unfortunately that all you have digested is my perceived rudeness. It would be great to instantaneously pull out a rabbit from my magical hat at this point but after analyzingebonybusinesswomanthe variables your odds are extremely slim. Maybe in the future he may want you back for some reason or another but for now I would advice that you live by his rules and seek out an alternative place to stay. Find a balance, live within your means as you reconnect with your son and find ways to improve your business. Those in my opinion are the things you need to concentrate on and stop meddling in your ex’s affair otherwise he might eject you sooner. I strongly urge you to remodel yourself and strife to becoming a better focused independent woman. If you continue to flaunt your youthful beauty the vultures of this World will devour you and if you meet the wrong click they will turn you in their recreational centre.

She replies,

So I am supposed to live under those conditions?

Maurice replies,

My dear, your ex is housing you and feeding you. After all you did to him he is also giving you access to your son. I know your issue is that you cannot handle rejection and that you hate having to see him sexually connected with his girlfriend but those are the consequences that befall you considering you were the one that planted the seed that led to this point. When I consider all the facts, it is not in my power to make your ex find you attractive. Like I said, your priority should be your son and your business. You should give love and men a break before they break you. I wish you luck my dear.

 

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Is he being selfish????

March 28, 2018 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Matheka,

I want to thank you for the advice you gave me during the session with my chama. But I think I have put myself in hot soup since then. Due to my frustrations in my marriage I frustratedblackwomandecided to embark on my own adventure and now I am conflicted in so many ways. As you know I have been married for 6 years and despite trying to spice things up my sex life has been extremely pathetic. My husband has always reminded me that we are Catholics and that sex is sacred. He only knows missionary and he says any form of oral sex is sinful and demonic. I am only 26, please help me.

Maurice replies,

You mentioned hot soup!

She replies,

I was getting to that. I kind of flirted with your friend who was part of the live sex duringlickingebonypussy the chama session. We exchanged numbers solely for his massage service and we ended up doing much more. Matheka, please do not judge me but I had never felt a penis that big, my husband’s is very small in comparison. The way he licked my pussy was amazing and I had never given a blowjob before. He said I was a good student. It was the first time for me to orgasm without having to play with my clitoris. How do I get over him?

Maurice asks,

When you decided to explore with him, what did you mutually agree to? I know him well so I am sure this is just a fling.

She replies,

He was very clear that it was just fun but after fucking him several times, I can’t do without him. He told me we can fuck for as long as I want, as long as I know the rules. But I feel he is being selfish.

Maurice asks,

How is he being selfish and if I may ask, how many times have you had sex with him since you met him in November?

She replies,

He is selfish because he wants me to provide a venue and pay him every time we have sex and yet he is also enjoying the sex. I have met him 5 times.

Maurice replies,

You do realise that you need him more than he needs you. He has acquired his sexual ebonypoundingprowess over the years so for you to experience him you must pay him. I believe those are part of the rules that he stipulated. A man who has his level of sexual vigor has value. It’s unfortunate that we live in a World where ‘the penis’ has no or little value. Men who are procreational may not have value but all the guys I work with in relation to delivering sexual ecstasy are recreational sexual lovers. I have taught them to value their penis. I am also a bit conflicted because I am wondering how I can be of help in your predicament.

She replies,

I understand what you are saying but does he have to charge me all the time. I feel I can be more of value to him in the long run if he treats me like a woman instead of a client. I feel like he is holding back, he told me he likes me and misses our time together, does that not sound like a man who is playing safe?

Maurice replies,

My dear, I hear you but to me you sound like a woman who just wanted to venture out and at some point you fell in-love with a man who you knew was out of reach. Men generally have some form of liking towards a woman they are having sex with. It’s also normal for a man to miss your sex and your company but it is not a sign of exclusivity or obligation towards you. If the sex was bad we would not be having this dialogue, so it is good to love the sex but don’t over step the terms & conditions and love the man. I also need to remind you that I cannot have any part in your romance. You have a choice, extinguish your fling with him and return to your Catholic husband or continue your arrangement with expectations that do not go beyond ‘having fun’.

She replies,

He said he has a girlfriend and if so where is he continuing his relations with me?

Maurice replies,

I cannot speak on is behave, only he can answer that question. However, you must have known that your relations are both fun and business for him. And even if he has a girlfriend that is none of your business. I am certain he is not bothered about you having a husband either. Again, you are asking questions as if this fling could ever graduate into something else more exclusive. Clearly from your own marriage status you have learnt that acquiring marital status is overrated especially when your compatibility is lacking. As much as money is great, if he has agreed to see you 5 times then he must enjoy sex with you. I know him, he is extremely picky. If that is not good enough for you then you need to reconsider your sexual escapades with him before you land yourself into an emotional place of no return. He is a seasoned man, set in his ways. He can sustain a casual sex affair for years without plaguing unnecessary emotions into it. That is something most women can’t do, so understand the game you are playing and decide on whether you are in or out.

She replies,

I am meeting him on Saturday, I will let you know how it goes.

Maurice replies,

Have fun.

 

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I left great sex

March 18, 2018 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Matheka,

Let me cut to the chase. I urgently need your help. I have been married for 12 years. When I met my husband he was the most charming man. He promised me a life of luxuryweddingluxury and love. In my analysis, he delivered 100% on the luxury but in the department of love I can give him 2/10. He is the kind of man who has never apologized but finds it necessary to buy me a gift or take me out for an expensive dinner rather than say sorry and I have to put on a face of happiness. The only good thing to come out of our marriage is our 2 lovely daughters. Regrettably, if I knew what I know today I would not have entered into marriage. I don’t know whether these are words from a bitter woman but I think that men who overly shower women with money are compensating for something. I say this because I met my husband during a period when I was dating several guys and even though my husbandluxurydining has a sizable tool our sex life as been terrible. Yes, he is the father of my children but bad sex is just bad sex. I will quote your words ‘a vagina responds to stimulus, it does not recognize relationship labels’ ..PREACH ON. When I read those words, it’s like you were talking about my vagina. I have never had an orgasm with my husband, mind you he is built like a rock. He is one of those gym fanatics. To look at he looks delicious but his game is usually a 2 minute or less affair, he only has energy to lift weights lol. His spontaneous ejaculating has been horribly consistent. My ex who is married used to give me the most sweaty sex ever, complimented by his ability to make me orgasm with his tongue. I digress, its been 12 years of settling and I am done.

Maurice asks,

How can I help?

She replies,

I have a friend who will remain nameless and I want you to take me through the journey you took her on. For obvious reasons I can’t name her but she said if I mention “Meru delights” you will know who she is. You really helped her, I have been a witness to her transformation. I am willing to do whatever it takes. These are the areas I need you to work on, my self esteem, my damaged mind set towards men & sex and obviously I want to learn how to squirt. I want to be able to have casual sex and enjoy it. I don’t care how many sessions we need I just need to begin my transformation.

Maurice asks,

For me to fully understand the context of your transformation, I need to understand your journey to this point. Why did you marry your husband and why did you not have a life with your ex? You also said you are done, are you done settling with status quo and now you want to improve things with your husband?

She replies,

As I said, my husband is a charmer which is evident from the 8 women he has had affairs with. But the blame also falls on me because I left great sex because my ex was not ready to commit to marriage. So I know I chose security over a man who was my compatible and a great friend till this day. Matheka, at 36 I am no longer naive, I know underneath all that charm and romance I was nothing but a conquest and because of my beauty I got the extra luck of being married to a rich man. They say it’s every girl’s dream. Thankfully, I am a woman who knows better. I plan to leave him by August.

Maurice asks,

If I may ask, have you ever stepped out on him?

She replies,

Unfortunately I have only known one sexual partner despite his 8 women. We have notfrustratedwoman made love in 14 months and since 2009 we have probably had sex once or twice a year. Matheka save me from my frustrations! What has kept me busy has been my children and work. So are your magical fingers up to the task, I would like us to begin in 2 weeks? I have an apartment in Kilimani of which my husband does not know of (a girl must take care of herself lol) and that will be our venue for our sessions. Oh, I also want you to teach me how to engage and manipulate men. May be I am old skool. I have always given a man the lead but now the confidence instilled by our sessions should give me the upper hand, does that make sense?

Maurice replies,

It makes a lot of sense now that I understand the context. One of the things that keep me motivated in my line of work is that I have the skill to empower a woman’s sexuality and elevate her self esteem which is reflected in her day to day life. I look forward to our sessions, there is much for you to learn and experience. Who said I have magical fingers?

She replies,

lol Matheka, it is a known secret among women, your name pops up in women forums more than you think. Take pride, no other has your kind of fame. I am a marketer, my advice is own your brand and run with it. You are a very lucky man because no one can match you or take that status from you. Thank you so much for your time. I eagerly await. I will share specifics in due course. Have yourself an awesome week.

 

 

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I am married but I lust for another!

March 8, 2018 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Maurice,

I was having a chat with my very close friend the other night and your name came up as we discussed my problem. She is usually the one with all the answers but on this case she advised I seek your opinion. I did google you so I am confident you are the right person to give a non judgmental view. I am 32, married for 10 years and I have 2 adorable children. My husband is 45. He is filthy rich, coming from old money but about 9 years ago I realised I was a trophy wife, married into wealth as a convenience. My husband and I once had a talk where he pointed out that he and his boys, who also come from wealth, courted suitable candidates that they would have fun with as girlfriends but one day marry to fit into family expectations. In short, what he was saying is that all the wives should not complain when the men have their cake and eat it too because we have all been given a lavish life with an endless supply of money and luxury.  Needless to say, I stopped fighting for his love after that talk.

Now to my issue. I have been secretly dating a girl who is 24 and the relationship has gone on for almost 3 years. In case you are wondering my initial attraction for her was ebonybodybased on her amazing body and sex with her is beyond anything I have ever experienced with a man. I have given her a lifestyle to die for but I am disappointed that she can’t stay exclusive to me. She is bi-sexual and I know she fucks around with men behind my back. With everything I do for her would you not expect her to be loyal to me considering my husband and I only have sex like 4 to 5 times a year if that?

Maurice asks,

When you started to date, did you label your relationship or was it a let’s see how it goes format? I am also curious to know what kind of lifestyle you have given her?

She replies,

At first it was just a fling with no expectations but after our first year together I askedebonywomensex her to be exclusive and she stated my demands were not fair. I dress her with designer wear, I pay for her Muthaiga mansion, I bought her a brand new BMW, I cover for her club membership and her annual trips abroad (mostly shopping). She has a monthly standing order allowance of $3000.

Maurice asks,

What does your friend think of your affair?

She replies,

She is one of the wives, most of us have lovers. She advised I give her an ultimatum but we were very interested to hear your opinion before I make my decision.

Maurice replies,

There are many forms of relationships out there but unfortunately society only concentrates on boyfriend/girlfriend and husband/wife settings. Labels are good and bad, but what really matters is the context of the relationship. You are married and unhappy hence why you have a lover. Now, if you push your lover to make a decision based on your ultimatum, it will change her lust factor for you and you will end up in another convenience relationship where you are constantly fighting each other, so in-essence you will be behaving like a married couple. My dear, one thing about humans, and especially women, you love the word LOVE and the psychological feelings its induces. But the truth is regardless of what label or tag you give it, your attraction for your lover is sustained by your level of LUST. I am sure you love your husband despite all your issues but you no longer lust for him. A relationship of convenience can survive with the notion of love and no lust, but a relationship which encompasses sensuality, intimacy and seduction cannot survive without the most vital ingredient called LUST.

When you assert too many rules that break the original mould then the relationship texture and lather ceases to be enjoyable. She is your lover, not your prospecting second husband, it is imperative you understand the psychological elements that define and keep your lust vibrant. What you give her in form of lifestyle is fantastic but if you wage a manipulative war with her you might as well just break up because you will inevitably kill the bond you currently possess.

My question to you is, have you had sexual relations with anyone else?

She replies,

I had flings with 2 men before I met her but those men were married and one of them was too needy and demanding for my taste.

Maurice replies,

So, do you want to remain sexy and lustful in the eyes of your lover or do you want to label your relationship and erode your fun factor? The ball is in your court.

She replies,

OOKKKK… I never even knew that such elements would affect or influence my affair. I had to read it 3 times for your explanation to sink in. What I have understood is that a degree of mystery, lust, jealousy keeps our affair exciting. That makes a lot of sense to me. I definitely don’t need a second husband or wife lol. I now know I can’t afford to spoil what I have. Maurice, thank you so much.

Maurice replies,

You are welcome, just be sure to keep me posted.

She asks,

I had to ask, I read somewhere that you teach women how to squirt, can you teach me and my lover, knowing her that’s the kind of thing she would be interested in?

Maurice replies,

I have those type of sessions every week but first decide on the direction you are going to take then we can schedule a session.

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Is she just enjoying the tidal wave!

January 31, 2018 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Maurice,

I hope you are good. I decided to contact you after the Whatsapp session we had with my group last week. It was very informative and quite the eye opener. Oh, I must mention that at first we were very skeptical about inviting you to our Whatsapp because most of the men thought you were fake, actually if it wasn’t for the female vote who were in fullblackmanthinking support of you the session would not have taken place. But once you commenced with your voice notes and you spoke a lot sense you suddenly became the best speaker we have ever had in our forum. Some of your previous haters are not your biggest fans, it was a job well done. Now, I have an issue that I could not share in the group though I did ask a few questions and I appreciated your responses. I am 32 and a self made successful software developer. For 3 years I have been dating my soul mate. I could marry her tomorrow but I am so afraid to give her my love. Truth be told 4/5 years ago I was a womanizer but since meeting her, life shifted for me. I fell in-love and her sex is off the hook, it feels great to be with her. But even though she professes to love me I don’t think she is ready to be fully mine.

Maurice asks,

Why would you doubt her?

He replies,blackwomantexting

She is constantly on her phone, especially at night, chatting, chatting and more chatting. I even tested her concentration span towards me over a period of 9 months and she has failed miserably. How do you text people when out on a diner date. I would expect conversation but all I get is divided attention. I got tired of fussing and now I pretend I am ok but I am not. She also jumps at any out of town plan without a thought of what I think. I have never given her conditions, I don’t support regimental attitudes but there is only so much a man can take.

Maurice replies,

I need to ask. Has she ever been different in the 3 years? How old is she and what does she do for a living if at all?

He replies,blackcoupleplayinginbed

For the first 2 years we were not living together but for the last year I have seen a side of her that I can’t handle. She is 28 and she works as a restaurant manager. She has been in hospitality for the last 4 years. She works crazy hours at times so when we are together I expect her to catch up with me not social media. I miss the way we would fool around in bed and just consume each other in our own bubble. Am I being unreasonable?

Maurice replies,

You are not being unreasonable. However, when you started dating, was it just fun and more fun without future expectations? I ask because I sense that she may not have had long term focus in your relationship. This has nothing to do with her loving you, love is just a psychological condition which does not guarantee mutual future goals or possibilities. One can love someone for particular reasons that don’t have any connection with relationship advancement like marriage. That does not mean one loves you less, it just means that your journey may not be towards the same destination.

He replies,

Okay, wow. I did not look at it that way. So what does that mean for me?

Maurice replies,

Can you say that you and her are close friends, apart from having fun that is sexually influenced, would you confidently say you that you cuddle up to each other and feel like the World would end without each other, do you share a closeness that redefines logic,blackcoupleinabubble do you have laughs that leave your ribs hurting, do you go out socializing and instead of allowing your environment to control you you stay united and embrace each moment together, do you sometimes feel like you breath the same air, yours is uncontaminated and pure? If none of the above resonates with your relationship attributes then my friend, your relationship was most likely formed on a weak foundation. Loving someone is sweet and intoxicating, you can even taste it in your mouth but the problem is, that sweetness is not replicated in her mouth for you to share in the delights. She is most likely enjoying the tidal wave not knowing that in the horizon you seek to find calmer shores where you can settle with her.

My professor once told me that love is extremely dangerous because loving someone only guarantees how you feel and that there is no way of measuring another human being’s love for you not unless you are shallow enough to perceive love by material things you gain.

Does that make sense?

He replies,

Boss, you are good. I really love this woman but as I was reading your sentiments it hit me that you have more or less described my relationship.

Maurice replies,

I am not good but thank you. I have just witnessed this scenarios for a long time and I make my deductions based on information shared. Human behaviour is pretty predictable if you understand the variables involved. If I may, when you met her, what were the striking things about her? And please I know you are in love but don’t sell me some lovey dovey story because you did not know her when you made your move.

He replies,

Hahaha… mate she was fly as fuck. She has this coke bottle figure and for sure I wanted to tap that ass. We got acquainted and at some point my mission was accomplished. I had no plans to continue contact but after a few outings I got to know her and enjoy showing her off and here we are years later.

Maurice replies,

You have just described how 95% of men view there initial contact with a woman they end up marrying. It is always good to accept your initial intent as a man, other things just develop as a bonus to the male lust factor. The irony if I may call it that, is that you are now the one in your relationship who can’t get enough of her.

He replies,

So there is no future with her?

Maurice replies,

I did not say there is no future with her. Even if you left her because you were in a hurry to marry, you have likely odds that you might meet someone who’s compatibility is much worse. The pastures are not always greener. I can tell you that despite your current in-love feelings for her, once you marry her, her newly acquired title of wife can easily change your perception of her, instantaneously you can go from the man who could not breath without her to a man who takes her for granted every day because you suddenly view her as your property and not as your soul mate. It happens to a majority pool of men. One day you were the King of love and the next day you are that guy who disappears like Kalonzo or comes home at 4am smelling of another woman.

From one man to another, I know us men pretty well. Love is great but it’s not enough to keep you interested once you begin to feel you own her, you need to understand that your love right now is fueled by your lust factor. You need to nurture and keep alive the side of you that looks at her as your hot coca cola bottle woman/girl. If you don’t that intoxicating flame will be extinguished by a sudden shift of psychology when you picture her as your wife and future mother of your children. My good man, all this love you have will disappear and you might notice any change until its too late. Too many couples fall under that sequence of events and it’s not necessary. If marriage happens for you and her let it be a bonus. It should never be the deciding factor of whether you are going to be together or not. In short, I do not want to save your relationship in the future, I would rather hear you tell me that you found an equilibrium and that you still happily together 10 years from now than hearing that you got married only to experience 10 years of misery. The ball is in your court.

He replies,

Hahaha ati Kalonzo. I hear you bro. What can I say, it has been enlightening and I will apply your knowledge. I agree, I don’t need to be married to quantify my happiness, that makes a lot of sense. I think you need to talk to my boys, out of 7 of them non is faithful and they find me weak when I share my love stories. Thank you. I will keep you in the loop if you don’t mind?

Maurice replies,

You are welcome. Please do . My goal is to keep your relationship flame burning with you making the right choices. Like I said, 95% of men behaviour and think like your boys. Its funny how it is forbidden in many male forums to admit you can love a woman and yet about 50% of those 95% are like a little poddle in their homes.

He replies,

True that, cheers bro.

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