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Dear Matheka,

Let me cut to the chase. I urgently need your help. I have been married for 12 years. When I met my husband he was the most charming man. He promised me a life of luxury and love. In my analysis, he delivered 100% on the luxury but in the department of love I can give him 2/10. He is the kind of man who has never apologized but finds it necessary to buy me a gift or take me out for an expensive dinner rather than say sorry and I have to put on a face of happiness. The only good thing to come out of our marriage is our 2 lovely daughters. Regrettably, if I knew what I know today I would not have entered into marriage. I don’t know whether these are words from a bitter woman but I think that men who overly shower women with money are compensating for something. I say this because I met my husband during a period when I was dating several guys and even though my husband has a sizable tool our sex life as been terrible. Yes, he is the father of my children but bad sex is just bad sex. I will quote your words ‘a vagina responds to stimulus, it does not recognize relationship labels’ ..PREACH ON. When I read those words, it’s like you were talking about my vagina. I have never had an orgasm with my husband, mind you he is built like a rock. He is one of those gym fanatics. To look at he looks delicious but his game is usually a 2 minute or less affair, he only has energy to lift weights lol. His spontaneous ejaculating has been horribly consistent. My ex who is married used to give me the most sweaty sex ever, complimented by his ability to make me orgasm with his tongue. I digress, its been 12 years of settling and I am done.

Maurice asks,

How can I help?

She replies,

I have a friend who will remain nameless and I want you to take me through the journey you took her on. For obvious reasons I can’t name her but she said if I mention “Meru delights” you will know who she is. You really helped her, I have been a witness to her transformation. I am willing to do whatever it takes. These are the areas I need you to work on, my self esteem, my damaged mind set towards men & sex and obviously I want to learn how to squirt. I want to be able to have casual sex and enjoy it. I don’t care how many sessions we need I just need to begin my transformation.

Maurice asks,

For me to fully understand the context of your transformation, I need to understand your journey to this point. Why did you marry your husband and why did you not have a life with your ex? You also said you are done, are you done settling with status quo and now you want to improve things with your husband?

She replies,

As I said, my husband is a charmer which is evident from the 8 women he has had affairs with. But the blame also falls on me because I left great sex because my ex was not ready to commit to marriage. So I know I chose security over a man who was my compatible and a great friend till this day. Matheka, at 36 I am no longer naive, I know underneath all that charm and romance I was nothing but a conquest and because of my beauty I got the extra luck of being married to a rich man. They say it’s every girl’s dream. Thankfully, I am a woman who knows better. I plan to leave him by August.

Maurice asks,

If I may ask, have you ever stepped out on him?

She replies,

Unfortunately I have only known one sexual partner despite his 8 women. We have not made love in 14 months and since 2009 we have probably had sex once or twice a year. Matheka save me from my frustrations! What has kept me busy has been my children and work. So are your magical fingers up to the task, I would like us to begin in 2 weeks? I have an apartment in Kilimani of which my husband does not know of (a girl must take care of herself lol) and that will be our venue for our sessions. Oh, I also want you to teach me how to engage and manipulate men. May be I am old skool. I have always given a man the lead but now the confidence instilled by our sessions should give me the upper hand, does that make sense?

Maurice replies,

It makes a lot of sense now that I understand the context. One of the things that keep me motivated in my line of work is that I have the skill to empower a woman’s sexuality and elevate her self esteem which is reflected in her day to day life. I look forward to our sessions, there is much for you to learn and experience. Who said I have magical fingers?

She replies,

lol Matheka, it is a known secret among women, your name pops up in women forums more than you think. Take pride, no other has your kind of fame. I am a marketer, my advice is own your brand and run with it. You are a very lucky man because no one can match you or take that status from you. Thank you so much for your time. I eagerly await. I will share specifics in due course. Have yourself an awesome week.