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Dear Maurice,

I hope you are good. I decided to contact you after the Whatsapp session we had with my group last week. It was very informative and quite the eye opener. Oh, I must mention that at first we were very skeptical about inviting you to our Whatsapp because most of the men thought you were fake, actually if it wasn’t for the female vote who were in fullblackmanthinking support of you the session would not have taken place. But once you commenced with your voice notes and you spoke a lot sense you suddenly became the best speaker we have ever had in our forum. Some of your previous haters are not your biggest fans, it was a job well done. Now, I have an issue that I could not share in the group though I did ask a few questions and I appreciated your responses. I am 32 and a self made successful software developer. For 3 years I have been dating my soul mate. I could marry her tomorrow but I am so afraid to give her my love. Truth be told 4/5 years ago I was a womanizer but since meeting her, life shifted for me. I fell in-love and her sex is off the hook, it feels great to be with her. But even though she professes to love me I don’t think she is ready to be fully mine.

Maurice asks,

Why would you doubt her?

He replies,blackwomantexting

She is constantly on her phone, especially at night, chatting, chatting and more chatting. I even tested her concentration span towards me over a period of 9 months and she has failed miserably. How do you text people when out on a diner date. I would expect conversation but all I get is divided attention. I got tired of fussing and now I pretend I am ok but I am not. She also jumps at any out of town plan without a thought of what I think. I have never given her conditions, I don’t support regimental attitudes but there is only so much a man can take.

Maurice replies,

I need to ask. Has she ever been different in the 3 years? How old is she and what does she do for a living if at all?

He replies,blackcoupleplayinginbed

For the first 2 years we were not living together but for the last year I have seen a side of her that I can’t handle. She is 28 and she works as a restaurant manager. She has been in hospitality for the last 4 years. She works crazy hours at times so when we are together I expect her to catch up with me not social media. I miss the way we would fool around in bed and just consume each other in our own bubble. Am I being unreasonable?

Maurice replies,

You are not being unreasonable. However, when you started dating, was it just fun and more fun without future expectations? I ask because I sense that she may not have had long term focus in your relationship. This has nothing to do with her loving you, love is just a psychological condition which does not guarantee mutual future goals or possibilities. One can love someone for particular reasons that don’t have any connection with relationship advancement like marriage. That does not mean one loves you less, it just means that your journey may not be towards the same destination.

He replies,

Okay, wow. I did not look at it that way. So what does that mean for me?

Maurice replies,

Can you say that you and her are close friends, apart from having fun that is sexually influenced, would you confidently say you that you cuddle up to each other and feel like the World would end without each other, do you share a closeness that redefines logic,blackcoupleinabubble do you have laughs that leave your ribs hurting, do you go out socializing and instead of allowing your environment to control you you stay united and embrace each moment together, do you sometimes feel like you breath the same air, yours is uncontaminated and pure? If none of the above resonates with your relationship attributes then my friend, your relationship was most likely formed on a weak foundation. Loving someone is sweet and intoxicating, you can even taste it in your mouth but the problem is, that sweetness is not replicated in her mouth for you to share in the delights. She is most likely enjoying the tidal wave not knowing that in the horizon you seek to find calmer shores where you can settle with her.

My professor once told me that love is extremely dangerous because loving someone only guarantees how you feel and that there is no way of measuring another human being’s love for you not unless you are shallow enough to perceive love by material things you gain.

Does that make sense?

He replies,

Boss, you are good. I really love this woman but as I was reading your sentiments it hit me that you have more or less described my relationship.

Maurice replies,

I am not good but thank you. I have just witnessed this scenarios for a long time and I make my deductions based on information shared. Human behaviour is pretty predictable if you understand the variables involved. If I may, when you met her, what were the striking things about her? And please I know you are in love but don’t sell me some lovey dovey story because you did not know her when you made your move.

He replies,

Hahaha… mate she was fly as fuck. She has this coke bottle figure and for sure I wanted to tap that ass. We got acquainted and at some point my mission was accomplished. I had no plans to continue contact but after a few outings I got to know her and enjoy showing her off and here we are years later.

Maurice replies,

You have just described how 95% of men view there initial contact with a woman they end up marrying. It is always good to accept your initial intent as a man, other things just develop as a bonus to the male lust factor. The irony if I may call it that, is that you are now the one in your relationship who can’t get enough of her.

He replies,

So there is no future with her?

Maurice replies,

I did not say there is no future with her. Even if you left her because you were in a hurry to marry, you have likely odds that you might meet someone who’s compatibility is much worse. The pastures are not always greener. I can tell you that despite your current in-love feelings for her, once you marry her, her newly acquired title of wife can easily change your perception of her, instantaneously you can go from the man who could not breath without her to a man who takes her for granted every day because you suddenly view her as your property and not as your soul mate. It happens to a majority pool of men. One day you were the King of love and the next day you are that guy who disappears like Kalonzo or comes home at 4am smelling of another woman.

From one man to another, I know us men pretty well. Love is great but it’s not enough to keep you interested once you begin to feel you own her, you need to understand that your love right now is fueled by your lust factor. You need to nurture and keep alive the side of you that looks at her as your hot coca cola bottle woman/girl. If you don’t that intoxicating flame will be extinguished by a sudden shift of psychology when you picture her as your wife and future mother of your children. My good man, all this love you have will disappear and you might notice any change until its too late. Too many couples fall under that sequence of events and it’s not necessary. If marriage happens for you and her let it be a bonus. It should never be the deciding factor of whether you are going to be together or not. In short, I do not want to save your relationship in the future, I would rather hear you tell me that you found an equilibrium and that you still happily together 10 years from now than hearing that you got married only to experience 10 years of misery. The ball is in your court.

He replies,

Hahaha ati Kalonzo. I hear you bro. What can I say, it has been enlightening and I will apply your knowledge. I agree, I don’t need to be married to quantify my happiness, that makes a lot of sense. I think you need to talk to my boys, out of 7 of them non is faithful and they find me weak when I share my love stories. Thank you. I will keep you in the loop if you don’t mind?

Maurice replies,

You are welcome. Please do . My goal is to keep your relationship flame burning with you making the right choices. Like I said, 95% of men behaviour and think like your boys. Its funny how it is forbidden in many male forums to admit you can love a woman and yet about 50% of those 95% are like a little poddle in their homes.

He replies,

True that, cheers bro.


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Dear Matheka,

Happy New Year. I hope you are keeping well since our session in November. I recall you asking for feedback so here goes. Firstly, I would like to thank you for the eye opening candid chat we had during our session. It was depressing to have you confirm a few things about my marriage but I guess I always knew but lived in denial for manyebonyfamily years. Secondly, apart from my sexual life, which I will go into, I am thankful for the information you shared which hit home in relation to my marriage. My husband and I had a serious talk where we looked at our viable options and we recently decided not to get a divorce but live together as friends. Frankly, a divorce would be too expensive and we feel our kids still need both of us to live under one roof. Even though my husband refused to attend our initial consult session he agreed with 80% of what you shared with me. We have a guest wing and that is where he will be living and we shall review that status after 2 years. Our discussion also touched on the sensitive matter of dating other people and we came to a mutual agreement. We have a transition to adapt to but I am confident that the harmony you spoke about will be achieved.

Now to my sex life. I have consistently followed your program on a daily basis and I must admit true to your word you have transformed my womanhood. Like I said when we first met, I thought squirting and even multiple orgasms was a myth but I guess when you are dealing with the maestro himself aka vagina whisperer, you can’t fail. I also discovered what you meant when you told me that my vagina does not respond to social ebonypussylickingdefined labels but responds to a stimulus which contradicted what we are taught by society, that you will only enjoy sex with the man you love. Your stimulus theory has been confirmed repeatedly because despite loving him and thinking of him as my ultimate man, sex with my husband was nothing but obligational and has been for years. Then a week into our session I applied what you taught me with some other guy and the water works were in full display. He even commented ‘your husband doesn’t appreciate this’, I had to tell him that it had never happened with any other man. You should have seen the pride in his face, as if he had conquered the World. Just as instructed I told him to patiently alternate between licking my urethra zone and my clit. I felt the build up and he told me to let go. I splashed on his face. He got up with this mighty look on his face totally convinced he could move Mountains and like you recommended I gave him the credit. Oh, before I forget, I ventured out and tried out myebonybisexual fantasy with a woman and I love it. It was by far the most sensual sex I have ever experienced. All in all my sex life and over all outlook on life has changed. As you well noted, one of my main issues was that I was a stickler for societal rules and morals. I have since learnt to be more flexible in my day to day life. I have also learnt to find happiness within myself instead of relying on external love and affirmation. I believe that the work you do is critical in changing mindsets and giving people direction in their relationships. Many of us are sold into the Disney version of marriage ‘happily ever after’ and to be perfectly honest, if I could turn back time, I would never have rushed for a marital status that would become my source of misery for 8 years out of 9. Anyway enough with memory lane, I will now only focus on the things that bring me joy and Matheka you have bought me a lot of joy and I will be forever indebted to you. I have asked a friend of mine to see pronto, she is also a member of the denial club and I know she will benefit from your session(s). God bless you and have a marvelous 2018.

ps: when I googled you and saw you rate card I thought you were too affordable considering the value you offer. I think you should charge a premium rate, after all what value do people put on their relationship. Having been a participant of an extravagant wedding, I now believe people spend unnecessary amounts, hundreds of thousands, millions on their wedding day. So they should equally want to pay premium to sustain their relationship. Food for thought.

Maurice replies,

Thank you so much for the feedback. The above is what keeps me motivated to do my job. It is important that one finds inner peace and happiness. It is equally important for people to understand the social variables that determine a functional cordial relationship opposed to a relationship that offers nothing but boredom, misery, insecurity and an assortment of emotional constant distress. Psychology teaches us that there is how you think things should be and then there is the reality of how things will undoubtedly be if you do not adopt a program to cultivate an endless yield of mutual goals, desires and aspirations that nurture a loving and conducive relationship between two people. As long as I can help one person at a time, that’s fulfilling enough for me. Have yourself a superb 2018.


 

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Dear Matheka,

I wish you a happy new year. It has been a long journey since I met you in August 2016. I want to begin by thanking you for your patience with me. We chatted for months before I ever got the courage to meet you and you never gave up on me. Even though my marriage ended, I must admit that I am in a much better space. When I met you mysadblackwoman confidence and self esteem was at its lowest point but through our sessions I gain self awareness and inner love for myself that had be beaten out of me for 9 years. Marriage is overrated and until I met you I actually thought it was my fault that my husband repeated emotionally crucified me. If I knew then at 22 what I know today I would have taken my time before getting into marriage of which I thought was the epitome to becoming a woman. I believed in my husband, he was my King almost a God in my World. How could a man who loved me hurt me was my thinking. I always heard women complain about men but I told myself that my baby was different, he was the exception to the rule. Little did I know he fed me a false narrative, constantly seduced me with his charming ways as he cultivated relationships with other women who facilitated in his sexual escapades. Then I met Matheka. The man who tells you as it is and truth be told I kind of hated you for telling me the truth about my marriage. One trait I hope you maintain is your ability to listen, that was refreshing. You let me vent without judgement and for that I appreciate your patience.

In March 2017 I could not believe my husband’s actions when he brought his girlfriend into our home and gave me an ultimatum to stay or leave. He also was truthful enough to admit that he walk away from our last session because of your deduction that he may not have loved me as he had claimed. It was pretty hurtful to learn that my marriage was a convenience for him, that I was only a trophy wife. Matheka I cried for days after he told me but I overcame the hurt.

Fast forward, you periodically checked on me and I remember reading one of your posts about a woman who had rediscovered herself and it sparked my interest. We continued our chats and in September 2017 I told you that I was ready to turn a new leaf in my life and so we had our sessions. All I can say is wow wow wow, you have completely transformed me as a woman. For once in my life I can say I know myself. My mentalityHappyblackwoman III towards sex has totally changed for the better all thanks to you. When you kept saying you teach a woman to own 70% of her ability to orgasm, I had no idea what you meant but now I know and I am a beneficiary of your teachings. Excuse my TMI moment but after months of practicing the vagina muscle movements you taught me, I had sex with that stud I told you about and he was so thrilled when I squirted. The man can’t stop texting and calling me, he always finds an angle to bring up squirting. It’s laughable, the things that excite you men but I am not complaining. After your counsel I am getting to learn the true nature of men rather than the mythical man most of us women want men to be. Matheka, because of you and I never thought I would say this but I am able to have casual sex and enjoy sex like never before, whom am I kidding, in my marriage orgasms were miracles almost unheard of but today I can make it rain lol. As you can see I am on a roller-coaster which was influenced by you. You took me from a very dark place to a place full of peace, hope and happiness. Thank you for all that you did for me and I hope my story will encourage other women to spread their wings and rediscover themselves. Be blessed Matheka.

Maurice replies,

For once I am speechless. Such feedback is why I keep doing what I do to help individuals like yourself. We all love a great story especially if it has a happy ending. But not all relationships will witness bliss or end as per the vows couples exchange. Life is unpredictable, in our society today there are far more social variables that can collapse or discourage a functional relationship than those who impact on a relationship positively. Despite all the cultures, traditions and religious elements that are meant to enforce social discipline, people will still misbehave and break the unwritten rules of society. However, if we were more open to discussing and debating human behaviour based on proven scientific research we might solve some of our social problems that plague our society. It all begins with catching up with data that updates you with the ever evolving human being. Happy New Year to you, be well and be safe.

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Mr Matheka. I hope this finds you well. I have a pressing matter and I was referred to you by a counsel that I had initially consulted. He was not able to satisfy my quest, he implied you were more open to tackling sexual matters.

Maurice asks,

What is your issue?

He replies,confusedblackmale

Firstly, I am 36 years old. I am an accomplished Engineer and a giver at heart. My issue is about a lady who is currently in my life. She is 25 and jobless. I cater for all her needs. I bought her an apartment and a car. I maintain her day to day life and I do my best to love her but after all this pampering she dares to insult me with her sexual needs.

Maurice asks,

Would you say you are conservative?

He replies,

Matheka, don’t get me wrong. I am exposed, in my studies I have traveled the World but I do not see why I should indulge in unnatural acts. For example, she wants me to suck orblowjobebony lick her private parts, am not sure which is which. She tries to touch and suck my member during sex and it feels very uncomfortable when she sucks me. There is a time I felt like doing my business in her mouth and she was not fearing me cumming, what is wrong with this woman. I told her about my past sex life where I would climb the woman and after I was done that was it. She told me there was more to sex between a man and woman. She tells me to hold it in and I can’t. it is alleged men go for long like 10 to 15 minutes, is this even practical? I do not know why she insists on this kind of engagement.

Maurice replies,

What you may call unnatural acts are natural sexual acts for many people in our ever evolving World. You may be well traveled but I have a feeling your travels were about your studies and field of expertise so I highly doubt you dabbled in sexual exploration hence your demeanor. There is actually nothing wrong with your sexually preference, each to their own, but your problem is stemming from the fact that you are dating a woman who is more versed in the sexual realm. In my professional opinion, a conservative should never date a liberal because at some point your persona differences will creep up and begin to tare into your relationship.

He replies,

I have told her to quit behaving like she does. Considering I am running her existence can she not sacrifice her ungodly exposure and settle with me without stressing my life.

Maurice asks,

I am curious, for how long have you dated her?

He replies,

I have known her for almost 2 years. By the way, I consider her my second wife. I am married with children. I want to tame her. She needs to conform to my traditional lifestyle.

Maurice replies,

If I may ask, did you not begin your relationship with her for her to be your fun factor considering you have a wife?

He replies,

Yes, I got bored with my wife and found a lot fun with her. What is your point?

Maurice replies,

Well, you may not understand male sexual psychology but the fact is if you attempt to change her, when she is meant to be your girlfriend not wife, you will only be molding another wife and at some point you will again find boredom in another woman and the circle will repeat itself. You will replace her, I guarantee you. For whatever reason you found your wife boring and proceeded to seek thrills elsewhere, men do this all the time. But I urge you not to transform your girlfriend into a wife, your mindset, your perception about your union will kill your relationship.

That said, in context, your relationship will be difficult. Unless she is willing to transform into your ideal conservative traditional woman, of which I do not advocate for, I foresee a string of future issues and many will be driven by her resentment towards you. Humans have been known to change their entire character to please others but that creates room for long term resentment. Only you and her can come to a mutual agreement but in an ideal World you would seek out for an equally conservative woman and officiate your second wife union with consent from your wife. Again, I remind you, despite your distaste for cunnilingus and fellatio you engaged another woman for her ability to give you thrills that lack in your home. If you continue with your current trajectory your lust factor for her will disintegrate.

He replies,

I am confident that she will conform otherwise I will take back everything I her availed for her.

Maurice replies,

That my friend is your prerogative. However, in my book it defines you as a man who is willing to use his financial prowess to in-slave a woman. She is most likely grateful that you are taking care of her but do not ignore the fact that there is a part of her that in time will rebel especially if she feels entrapped beyond her threshold to persevere with what she may rightfully perceive as harsh conditions. My job is to highlight the possible social variables that may destabilize your relationship. Take my consult into consideration and re-evaluate you true need for another woman in your life.

He replies,

Matheka, as much as I did not want you to over analyse me, I respect your trade and I will consider your advice. I am curious as to why you did not ask or bring up my wife?

Maurice replies,

Only amateurs would bring up your wife. Your consult was about your relationship with girlfriend. I deal with each case as presented. To give you constructive consult I must address your issue with facts relating to your dynamic and not through emotional disposition or social psychological engineering. People like yourself come to me because my job is not to judge you but to understand your dilemma and give you information, based on a professional perceptive, that will aid in your quest, what you do with that information is entirely up to you.

He replies.

Asante Matheka. If you don’t mind I shall revert back for more consult once I figure out what I want. Be blessed.

Maurice replies,

You are very welcome.


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(our chat before the session)

Dear Maurice,

From what I hear you facilitate for people’s fantasies.

Maurice replies,

Yes I do. What do you have in mind?

She replies,southcoastromance i

My husband and I have been discussing having a threesome for a while now. He is far more adventurous than I am and to be honest this experience is more for me. He has had his share of threesomes in his past relationships. Though I do have one concern, as much as I am willing to bite the bullet I would hate to be in a situation where I am competing with the other woman. Is there any assurance that she will not snatch my man?

Maurice replies,

That is a valid concern. However you need to look at the dynamic where the other woman would have reason to snatch your man, the most common motive is the opportunity to gain finance followed by a mutual attraction that may lead them to an affair. The women I work with are well vetted and work within set guidelines of engagement. In your case, your man wants to give you this experience which only means he trusted you enough to share his desire to make a threesome a reality. If a man merely wanted a threesome it would be far safer to omit you from the equation. The fact that you aware is because you are relevant in his sexual adventures, many wives are not for an array of reasons. I applaud the relationship you have cultivated with your husband. In my experience majority of couples married or not do not have that degree of openness hence the social issues in our society.

in relation to the woman, what are your preferences?

She replies,

He does not like fat women, she needs to be size 10/12. She must be open minded.

Maurice replies,

Don’t you worry, my girls are extremely open minded. Will you engage in anal sex cause only some of my girls will follow through and because that falls under the category of fetishes it will cost more?

She replies,Attractive couple cuddling on the couch

Baby steps Maurice, as I said this will be my first time and I can’t believe we are having this discussion lol. Anal sex will not be on the menu.

Maurice replies,

I will share photos for the two of you to approve then we agree on a date and venue.

She replies,

We would like to have you and your girl over for a weekend, we will book a secluded venue out of town from Friday till Sunday. Is that possible? We also want you to profile us as a couple over the weekend and give us a comprehensive sincere report on where we can improve, do you do that?

Maurice replies,

The weekend stay is possible and yes I will be able to profile you from the minute I arrive to the minute we part ways. As I tell all couples I profile, you need to prepare to hear things about you that you may not necessarily like but knowing the truth will give you the avenue for improvement. It is the difference between having a functional relationship and having a relationship of convenience where both of you just coexist within your own comfort zones with maximum compromise. Just prepare to have a kinky erotic weekend. I will also teach you how to squirt.

She replies,

Wow, are you sure I will and does your girl squirt?

Maurice replies,

Let’s put it this way, you and my girl will be squirting as you go through the motions of the threesome with your husband.

She replies,

You and my husband have similar traits, he will be over the moon when I relay your optimism. Maurice, please give us the best experience. I am counting on you to elevate our sexual connection for the better.

Maurice replies,

Don’t you worry, you will be a rejuvenated woman and your bond with your man will be more solid as you progress in your sexual exploration.

 

Feedback after the session:

Hi Maurice. I hope you are keeping well. I do not know where to the start. The weekend long session was awesome. The sexual segment was great and I was shocked at my ability to squirt (go figure). However, what was most interesting was your eye openingsouthcoastromance lust statements about the relationship setting we should maintain to out survive other relationships. Your share on male psychology really hit home and made sense even though at times I wish some realities were not so. I appreciated that you were not conservative with the truth. I believe I am more informed on how to communicate with my husband going forward. I will do whatever it takes to please my man and keep him seeing me not only as his wife but more importantly for him to see me as his relevant sexual mate. Thank you for your professionalism and guidance.

Maurice replies,

You are very welcome. I thoroughly enjoyed the weekend. Please keep being the woman you are, it is always refreshing to meet a woman who is willing to get out of her comfort zone to explore new ways of relating with her man. As you witnessed, a man is driven by thrills (society calls them cheap thrills but the excitement levels for a man cannot be ignored). A man seeks thrills and fun and if you can be part of the solution (not problem) you will prevail. Oh, before I forget, keep pampering him as you do so well. Every man has a 5 year old within him, when you consistently use your feminine side to pamper a man you will gain from your gestures. One of the problems we have with this equality malarkey is that some women have found it in themselves to become men or rather behave like a man towards their man. If you dare confront a man with male traits you will be commanding him to do what comes naturally and he will go on the defense. Keep up the good work.


 


 

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Dear Maurice,

I have been married for the last 8 years to an amazing soul or so I thought but I have recently found out that she is cheating on me, its an office romance. It has been going on for a long while based on their chats. It broke my heart to know that she has contemplated leaving me for her personal assistant. I have dedicated my life to her and to think I left a man for her, though I don’t regret that I am just wondering how she could throw away all the years we have shared. I am 34 and I don’t think I can start all over and love again.

Maurice replies,officeromancetwowomen

I need to understand your predicament for us to move forward. You are a woman who is married to a woman and your spouse is having an affair with another woman or with a man?

She replies,

My partner is having an affair with a woman. We got married abroad and settled in Kenya some years ago. I was never into women but when we met 10 years ago I knew she was the human being I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. It has not been easy being with a woman in this Country. We have both sacrificed a lot to be together so how in the hell can she complicate my life like this. I have read your blogs for years but never did I think I would be a victim of love. Can I get her back?

Maurice replies,

You need to be honest with me, how is your marriage, is your relationship still functional or have you been in deep stormy waters?

She replies,

I wish I could say we were in a bad place but we are OK at home. We are not as sexual as we once were but we are happy if that makes sense. Could it be my work?

Maurice asks,

Why do you ask that?

She replies,

Last year I received a promotion which came with long hours at work and at times I work late at home. I do a 60 hour week.

Maurice replies,

I cannot be 100% sure but your type of working schedule has been known to drift couples apart. It is not about it being your fault but over a period of time your partner may have felt neglected and succumb to other lures. Social influences of lust are officeromancetwowomen IIall around us and some leave a sweet taste in our mouth. Again, I can only speculate at this point but it is fact that office romance is on the rise Worldwide. When you spend 40 to 60 hours with specific office colleagues a gradual connection develops, it starts with innocent coffees and lunches then it becomes routine, you and that person begin to share and at some point your union becomes an addiction. You can’t wait to see that person, they make you feel whole, you get a sense that they understand you better than anyone and yet it is usually artificial feelings that may manifest as love or a strong liking for someone otherwise known as infatuation.

She replies,

Are you saying there is a chance for us? And if so why would she think of leaving me for this bitch?

Maurice replies,

You must understand that lust is an extremely powerful emotion, it knocks out love any day. Lust causes people to utter all sorts of things because of the psychological charge it delivers. Most of those futuristic promises are usually momentary. So yes, there is a chance that you can revive your bond but it must be a mutual process. You need to calmly confront her and tell her you know about her affair and that you come in peace. She needs to feel secure otherwise if she is faced with a harsh environment then she will put up her defenses. The question is, do you want drama and rage or do you want to establish her true feelings and hopefully work towards mending your relationship. Please note, you need to be ready for the worst, she may want out. But we will cross that bridge if and when we get there. The ball is in your court.

She replies,

But Maurice, why do I have to be civil with her and yet she is the one hurting me?

Maurice replies,

If you want the marriage to survive, you must be civil. If you want to risk it and approach her with your rage and dislike for her then that is your choice but from experience with such cases that course of action will only further deepen the rift between you and pin her firmly in the arms of her lover who will be the consoling factor. If she admits to the affair and you both want to work things out then we can have a session and see how best we can move towards repairing your relationship.

She replies,

I just want her to feel my hurt but I do understand what you are saying. I will talk to her tonight, I need to know where we stand. I will update you. Thank you for your time.


 

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Vengeful Lust

Dear Maurice,

I hope you have been good. I actually did not think I would be calling out for your help again. I don’t think there is anything to save in my marriage anymore. My recent revelations have really drain me and I feel revengeful.

Maurice replies,

I thought 2 years ago I left you and your wife in a better place even though I had warned you there was a chance of the harmony being short lived. What is going on, talk to me.

He replies,

She swore that she would never betray me again and all has been well until the latest discovery. Just over an year ago my nephew came to live with us so that he can attend a local University having relocated from another. My wife has gone back to her ways.worriedman Something told me to go through her phone and to my horror she has been drugging me with sleeping pills and sneaking off to the guest room at the far end of our home to screw my nephew. From the chats I can tell its been going on for awhile and here I thought my marriage was on full throttle. I can’t even tell my brother that his son has been fucking my wife. It would be a family scandal. She is such a slut.

Maurice replies,

Careful with your words, you don’t want to objectify women and piss off feminists. Don’t mind me its an elongated story! Anyway back to you. I did tell you during our one on one session that in my analysis you and your wife were mismatched and she took you as a fool because of your up standing persona. It’s always recommended that you put things into context and in your case your wife married you for the comforts you could provide for her. My honest profile of you back then was that you are actually a nice guy and unfortunately nice guys who end up with a wife like yours get eaten for breakfast knowing she can get away with it. The reality of your predicament is that you have two choices, to stay and coexist without bothering each other or you legally show her the door. As I told you, your wife has an insatiably appetite for sex, she is the true depiction of a nympho of which I know you loved but other than that, she was not of any tangible value to your life.

He replies,suckcock

I know you made your views very clear but I was not ready to let go of my wife. I needed to give it one more shot. I don’t think a separation is the way to go because of my young daughter who is obviously an innocent party. Maurice, I want to hurt her, I am revengeful. I know its not the right thing to do but I need to do it to make myself feel good and give her a taste of her medicine. Her statement in their chats of how she loves to suck his big cock keeps replaying in my head. I need to do something.

Maurice asks,

What did you have in mind?

He replies,

I never did tell you how I met my wife, I mean the in depth story. I used to have a fling with her younger sister and then she came into the picture and dethroned the sister. They did not talk for a long while but they kind of do. However, the sister has constantly tried to lure me back into our affair and I have resisted for the last 6 years. I want to act on man instincts which are telling me rekindle that affair. What do you think?

Maurice replies,

Well, I am Sexologist not a traditional counselor, I sell a cookie, whom you share it with is none of my business. A man has to do what a man has to do. I hear you and understand you. That said, you need to consider the repercussions. She has proven to be a very cunning manipulative she devil who can drug you at a moments notice. I know you will want her to know of your deed with her sister but what if she can somehow prove to the authorities that you are unstable and she takes your daughter away! What if she whispers tales to your extended family, remember that scandal you spoke of! What if she draws the premeditated murder card, my good man you will dead. She has the motive to drug you and stab you in your sleep. I know by reading this you may be suffering from a mynute (minut) stint of erectile dysfunction but the variables must be spelt out before your ‘game of thrones’ venture lands you in a deeper hole, pun intended.

He replies,

Hahaha…. you are still as blunt as you were when I first met you and I respect that. Should I release the video?

Maurice asks,

What video? You have lost me.

He replies,

After my revelations I bugged the room and recorded them having sex.

Maurice replies,

We both know a multitude of people will be affected if you release that video. You entire life may be turned upside down. It’s not worth it mate. Do yourself a favour delete that video if not for you but for your daughter. I can see you are gunning to stir the pot. Do this, call me and I shall lay out a plan that will quench your revengeful thirst without hurting you family. Like I said, I sell a cookie so let me give you a taste of a cookie you will enjoy for a long time to come.

He replies,

Thank you Matheka. I will call you. I need to get somethings out of my system.


 

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