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Hi Maurice,

How are you?

Maurice replies,

I am fine thanks.

She replies,

I know it has been ages since we last spoke but I thought it was time to update you on my marriage and sex life. As you remember hubby and I had issues in 2015 and you did your best to resolve those issues of which I am thankful. I have good and bad news, honestly I do not know which one to begin with lol.

Maurice replies,

I suggest you begin with the bad news.

She replies,

You remember hubby paid and endorsed my sexual discovery through your sessions of which we had five?

Maurice replies,

Yes I do remember our sessions. By the time you approached me you were convinced that you had a damaged vagina of which you did not. You also disclosed that you thought you were among the most boring sexual lovers on the planet. In short, your self esteem had hit rock bottom. But we soon rejuvenated your sexual prowess and confidence.

She replies,sexyebonyIIIIIIIIIIIIII

Oh yes, I was damaged or so I thought. Anyway after you proved to me that I had potential and could eventually achieve orgasm my attitude about myself changed and I definitely grew more confident. My girls also noticed a massive change hence the referrals I gave you, FYI you confused one of my friends after you made her squirt all those times lol, but that’s a topic for another day. Matheka, you really made a difference in my life. Even at work I feel confident and womanly. Oh and I stopped having a short fuse! Those sessions meant the World to me and I will be forever grateful. So now hubby finally came out of is shell and told me why he constantly cheated on me over our 11 years of marriage. He told me that he found it difficult to satisfy me and that bruised his ego and instead of sharing his shortcomings with me, he gained an ego boost through his conquests of women, 7 to be precise.

Maurice replies,

Do you remember, at our first session before meeting your husband you asked me to outline common reasons why men cheat and at the top of the list was what you just described.

She replies,

Yes I recall but never did I think my husband would fall under the category of men who can’t be man enough to share their sexual difficulties. I guess it is in our nature as women to protect our men with our delusions of ‘that can’t be my man’. He told me that after our honeymoon he knew he was going to cheat. At 33 I regret that I only knew two men sexually. The one who broke my virginity when I was 17 and was horrible in bed and then my hubby a few years later. Matheka, if I knew then what I know today I would have made different choices and explored to find some form of compatibility instead of rushing for comforts that defined my years of misery and emotional torment. After our sessions and profiling my marriage I realized something I always knew and that was my husband and I were never friends. It was like an arrangement that was masked by many ‘I love you moments’ but now that to me was just a formality and I also think I fell in-love with the idea of loving a man without even getting to know him. I digress! He told me that he only paid for my sessions because he felt guilty for neglecting my  sexual needs. He apparently felt better about himself when the sessions started to work for me but what was hurtful was to have him say that he initially married me because he found me conservative, naive and that no man would want me because I was a boring lover. Basically he wanted a maid type of woman, who would tend to his every domestic need and give him children. Last year in April, he officially moved out citing he cannot handle my new found self but was happy to have contributed to the transformation.

But that said and done. I am actually an extremely happy soul. The Universe has been so good to me. I got a promotion at work. Traveled abroad for a 4 month training programsexyebonyflying and came back home highly rejuvenated. I met three guys, went on dates and decided to date two of them ‘obviously they don’t know’ but they are both giving me pleasures I never thought possible. Remember you told me to ‘let my hair down and live a little’, that is what I am doing. You also taught me to take charge of my relationship and one of the reasons I decided to date both of them is because they reacted very well, apart from the third guy who I dropped like a hot potato, when I told them that my sexual nature is all down to your sessions. One of them said ‘fair play, the dude is actually making sex enjoyable for women’. Now that kind of liberal thinking is a turn on for me. Matheka what can I tell you! You have made this woman happy. If you told me just 3 years ago that I would be able to achieve ebonysquirting33orgasms & squirt over and over, I would have slapped you for mocking me. I have really mastered the vaginal muscle movements but waaaah I think I over squirt because I literally soak half the bed but these two men LOVE IT! You have no idea what it feels like to have men worship and adore you, it is out of this World. Matheka, let me end by saying that you never failed me. You were truth to your word and you held my hand through that journey since 2015. I will be forever indebted to you. By the way, my girl from Narok is doing very well. I told her I was going to share with you and she asked me to let you know she is pleased with her sex life being an FGM victim. She is going to call you. I think their chama want a group session in November but she also wants any excuse to feel your magical fingers lol. Matheka, I can go on and on so let me leave it there for now. Thank you for everything.


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Dear Maurice,

I hope this finds you well. I wanted to update you on my marriage. Last year in May when we approached you and we had our three sessions with you things got much betterInfatuationcouple between my wife and I. During the sessions I honestly got to understand my manhood and especially got better at pleasuring my wife. She even complimented my efforts for a period of time. But I believe our marriage is in troubled waters. After all the strides we have made to better our connection, a week ago I found out that she was still having an affair with the young man who caused us to seek your consult. As you know after 9 years of nothing but loyalty towards her it is extremely hurtful to know that your wife shares a bed with another man or in this case a 24 year old boy.

Maurice, I need you to explain to me why she could go back to him. How does a 29 year old woman fall for a boy. When we met she told me she was only interested in older men so is a 41 year old man not enough for her and considering I have given her everything she has ever wanted.

Maurice replies,

If I may, let me take you down memory lane. You married her when she was 20 and pregnant. You then took responsibility and embarked on a journey to learn how to love her and keep her happy and safe. Am I on the right track so far?

He replies,

Yes, what’s your point?

Maurice replies,

In an ideal World, all your actions towards your wife should brand you as man of the year but due to the many social variables that also influence our relationship, as you took on your responsibilities you neglected to make her feel like a woman. As you confirmed there was little affection other than your ability to flood her with luxury. Granted, you are actually a good man when it comes to providing for your family but you failed in the area of emotion and dispensing of love. Your sex life completely lackedyoungboylove seduction. For most of your years it was obligational sex. Then the so called boy uncloaks within her periphery. She had only known you as her only sex partner. For almost 8 years she had nothing to compare. Here comes a young man who unveils to her another World of pleasures and confuses her sexual orbit. When sexual stimulus is registered in our brain it usually becomes an addiction which lapses until ignited again. When you both came to me, I made it very clear that moving forward would have to be mutual and that you needed to leave the past to have a chance of a new beginning. For the duration of our sessions, I witnessed a lot of commitment from both of you and what made it easier was that you were both willing to reconnect by doing things that were out of your comfort zone. We dealt with both your relationship & sexual psychology and by the time we had our last session you were heading in the right direction. So in your opinion what changed, have you confronted her about her continued affair?

He replies,

I admit I was not the most affectionate husband but after I forgave and agreed to change she still goes ahead and betrays me again. She is a mother of a 9 year old boy. She is meant to be a respectable house wife not acting like a whore.

Maurice replies,

Just based on your last comment, need I remind you that you were once a 31 year old man who preyed on a young girl and I am sure it’s her whore-ish attributes that you were interested in at that period. You have every right to be annoyed but do not forget the fact that your courtship foundation was weak. It comprised of lustful moments and periods shared between you and her. The two of you were never in-love but you were soaked in infatuation which is not a bad thing but considering your predicament today your initial intent never had futuristic projections.

He replies,

I hear what you are saying but it does not justify her behaviour does it?

Maurice replies,

For me right now its about finding out why she went back to that young man. I can only make a relevant deduction once I have the facts. You did not answer me, have you confronted her?

He replies,

Yes, I was avoiding that question. She said something hurtful.

Maurice asks,

Which was?

He replies,

She said, she is not sure if she ever really loved me. She said, she was too young to know what it really means to love a man. She allegedly has feelings for him that she never had for me. She mentioned that his touch was different, what the hell does that even mean!histouchWere those words not just meant to hurt me! Is she not just dicktimised and going through a phase. For me to write you, I am willing to do anything to fix this. You have my consent to reach out to her and tell her that this is madness. Is she willing to sacrifice the lifestyle I afford her for this loser. Remind her that with all my opportunities I never ever cheated on her. My only failure was thinking that splashing her with money and gifts was enough. Maurice, I don’t know what magic you will have to perform but I need my wife back. Whatever classes we need to attend I will but this cannot be the begin of the end.

Maurice replies,

I will reach out to her but I cannot make any promises. The most I can do is get her side of the story and profile your relations within the last 12 months inclusive of establishing any triggers that may have caused her diversion.


 

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Dear Maurice,

I have been silently following your blog and I find myself in a situation where I need your opinion on something that recently happened to me. I used to have a close friend, this was like 16 months ago and after a few incidents we broke off our friendship. It all began when he met this girl and he fell for her.

Maurice replies,

Ok, I am a bit unclear. So this friend of yours is no longer a friend because of some other girl?

She replies,

We were friends for 4 years and then we once made out while camping in Nakuru and decided to be fuck buddies.

Maurice asks,

Did your fuck buddie relationship have any exclusivity terms & conditions or was it strictly casual?

She replies,teenlove

We fucked and saw other people but after two years around the time he met his girlfriend I had developed feelings for him but I could not tell him because we had both agreed that signs of love would destroy everything we had. I dated two others guys during our friendship and I always wanted to spend more time with him because there was always brutal honesty between us.

Maurice replies,

You do realise that true honesty is mostly witnessed between two people who are sexually connected but have not labeled their relationship. Hence why people find it easier to share with friends than with their own partners. For many couples once they define their relationship then it automatically bring about a change of mindset, secrecy begins to blossom, jealousy thrives which leads to insecurity and before you know it your friendship withers.

She replies,teenlove2

Yes, tell me about it! Feelings of love can be so messy. So anyway, I got jealous and worst yet he asked for my blessings as his best friend ‘as he used to call me’. I pretended and wished him well, and I did ask him if we would still be fucking even though he had a girlfriend. He said yes but as their relationship went on he showed no sexual interest in me. I felt betrayed and even though he still treated me like his best friend I ended up fucking his girlfriend and his father.

Maurice asks,

You did what!!!!!!!!!

Now this is juicy. How did you manage to fuck his Dad?

She replies,

LOL…. his father would flirt with me whenever we were socializing or at their place. I ebonykissingoldermanthink his mother suspects LOL. Oh by the way, my best friend and I are 22. His father is 46. He is so hot, he was a former rugby player. So anyway, I found out that his father was taking a trip out of town with his boys and I tagged along with a girlfriend of mine who got pregnant after that trip. But that’s a story for another day. In case you are wondering, I made out with his girlfriend over drinks at his place while he was out with his boys.

Maurice replies,

Clearly rugby guys are busy in this Kenya of ours! lol #amonthefloor #rugbyalumnioperations

So let me get this straight. You had sexual affairs or as you call them ‘incidents’ with your best friend’s girlfriend and Dad to get back at him for breaking your heart, even though technically he did not intentionally break your heart because you were just having a friends with benefits arrangement, isn’t that correct?

And as much as I appreciate you sharing your story, I am curious to know what opinion you seek from me?

She replies,

I am not done with my story. After he found out about my deeds, he colluded with his pals to trick me into falling for them. They agreed to pursue me and whoever achieved their goal would be rewarded. I stupidly fell for two of his friends and the reward for fucking me was an expensive Whiskey.

Maurice replies,

What you are saying is that you were somewhat tag teamed. Please forgive me but I need a moment to LMAO…. I am curious, which Whiskey was awarded?

She replies,

They love Dalmore 18. Aki Maurice, you are laughing at me.

Maurice replies,

Come on, even you know it’s hilarious!!!!

And I really hope you are not playing victim because one deed deserves another. You were the orchestrator of this game. Once you fucked his Dad and girlfriend you rolled the dice and sealed your current fate. By the way, this is not unusual among male close friends. If you dare to mess with one of us, we will unleash the wrath of the group. Some men call it ‘sharing is caring’. It’s never a good feeling to be played but in this case I call it ‘fair play’. You found a way to unsettle him and he did the same. I hope this ends here. You’re not planning to fuck his mother are you?

She replies,

LOL no I am not. You’re funny!

Maurice replies,

I am guessing you now have my opinion on the matter. And again, thank you so much for sharing. It was entertaining to hear your story. Question, are you still banging his Dad and if you don’t mind me asking who is the better shag?

She replies,

ebonyinbedwitholdermanHis father is a stallion. He does things to me that I can’t explain. I always thought men my age group were better at sex. Have you ever being addicted to a man and you can’t explain why, that is my current situation and I am loving it.

Maurice replies,

Good for you. And no I have never been addicted to a man, just good pussy with loads of squirting in the mix!

She replies,

Can you teach me how to squirt?

Maurice replies,

Oh yes, that I can do. You want to add a new skill to your repertoire. We can always schedule a session.

She replies,

Maurice, Maurice, Maurice… I admire your professionalism but don’t you get tired of making a woman squirt and not traversing her entire body. Am a whiskey and cocktails girl, both have a way of opening me up, care to find out how open I can be!!!!

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Dear Maurice,ebonycry

I really need your help. I made one small mistake and now my man does not want me back in his life.

Maurice asks,

What did you do, and when you say your man, is he your boyfriend or husband?

She replies,

He is my ex boyfriend. Three years ago I left him because we were struggling financially. I left him with our child who was 2 years old at the time. We lived in an SQ in South B.

Maurice asks,

Why did you leave him?

She replies,ebonymoney

Please do not judge me. I just felt he was not trying hard enough to progress in life and I fell for another man who promised me a lot that I wanted only for him to disappoint me. I wanted bigger things in life and thought this other man would offer me a better life but all he did was use me.

Maurice replies,

So why do you want your ex back?

She replies,

Even though I was with the other guy I always followed up with my ex especially on social media. When I found out that his catering business had gained traction and that he had moved from the SQ to a two bedroom house I felt guilty for leaving him so I came back and begged him to see my son. He agreed and told me that he had never restricted me from seeing our son but we are done as a couple because I chose to leave him for another man. I have been staying with him since November because the man I was with stopped paying for my one bedroom apartment. I have tried everything to seduce him into bed but he said he can not even get an erection for me. Maurice, I am so stressed. Can you imagine he allows his casual girlfriend to sleep over with our son in the same house. When I am sleeping with my son I sometimes hear them having sex in the other room. This is so wrong. Please help, how do I get him to chase her and want me again?

Maurice replies,

Honestly, I really don’t see you having a future with him. The minute you left him because you felt he was not providing as you expected he was most likely hurt for a while and at some point he moved on. You are actually lucky you have a good ex who is mature enough not to punish your son by preventing you from contact. As for his ‘casual girlfriend’, that’s his house, you abide by his rules or you find your own place. He is very much entitled to have sex with whomever he wants. You have no right to attempt to dictate. You should be grateful that you have a roof over your head and I am sure he is feeding you. I am curious, this other man who let you go, what happened?

She replies,

Maurice, you are being so harsh with me. I made a mistake and I regret it.

Maurice replies,

That is fair enough, but it’s my duty to point out the facts. So what happened with the other guy?

She replies,

He is married. I was with him for 3 years. He treated me like a queen and last year in September out of nowhere he told me that he no longer loved me and that he was giving me 2 months to find a place to stay. I pleaded with him but he told me he had already invested more than he had planned to. He had promised marriage but kept delaying so last year in July I called his wife and told her that I no longer wanted to be a secret and that did not please him. He continued to pay my rent and upkeep but he went quiet for a month.

Maurice replies,

So you dated a married man for 3 years hoping that he would deliver paradise. I hope you realise that all your current problems are self inflicted. You left a man who was struggling with his hustle and decided to become another man’s lust factor, and then you killed that lust by disrupting his family. How old are you if I may ask?

She replies,

I am 24.

Maurice replies,

My dear, you need to humble yourself and slow your roll. I feel that you have a sense of entitlement and that you believe that you deserve luxury just because you are ebonyflauntwoman. You will not survive the social arena with that attitude. You have a commodity called a vagina and once men establish your material desires they will dangle that carrot and surely you will be baited ‘hook line & sinker’. By the time you realise your social errors your vagina will have mileage with nothing to show for it. Yes you made a mistake but it was not a small one. You crushed a man’s ego and now you want him back because he is doing well for himself which in my books means you want to be a parasite in his life. It is offensive to men to think that your wrongs can be rectified or forgiven by the use of your feminine lure. You are mistaken. I have seen your photo and I can attest to the fact that you are an attractive young woman but to your ex, your vagina lost value the minute your devalued his manhood. It’s as simple as that. For how long as he allowed you to stay at his place and if he were to ask you to leave where would you go?

She replies,

The married man never wanted me to work. He used to give me 40k per month after paying for my bills. I have a small salon but it is struggling. I can only afford a bedsitter but those areas are usually dangerous. He told me he is giving me until July to sort myself out. Instead of being rude can you give me a solution!

Maurice,

It is unfortunately that all you have digested is my perceived rudeness. It would be great to instantaneously pull out a rabbit from my magical hat at this point but after analyzingebonybusinesswomanthe variables your odds are extremely slim. Maybe in the future he may want you back for some reason or another but for now I would advice that you live by his rules and seek out an alternative place to stay. Find a balance, live within your means as you reconnect with your son and find ways to improve your business. Those in my opinion are the things you need to concentrate on and stop meddling in your ex’s affair otherwise he might eject you sooner. I strongly urge you to remodel yourself and strife to becoming a better focused independent woman. If you continue to flaunt your youthful beauty the vultures of this World will devour you and if you meet the wrong click they will turn you in their recreational centre.

She replies,

So I am supposed to live under those conditions?

Maurice replies,

My dear, your ex is housing you and feeding you. After all you did to him he is also giving you access to your son. I know your issue is that you cannot handle rejection and that you hate having to see him sexually connected with his girlfriend but those are the consequences that befall you considering you were the one that planted the seed that led to this point. When I consider all the facts, it is not in my power to make your ex find you attractive. Like I said, your priority should be your son and your business. You should give love and men a break before they break you. I wish you luck my dear.


 

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Dear Matheka,

Let me cut to the chase. I urgently need your help. I have been married for 12 years. When I met my husband he was the most charming man. He promised me a life of luxuryweddingluxury and love. In my analysis, he delivered 100% on the luxury but in the department of love I can give him 2/10. He is the kind of man who has never apologized but finds it necessary to buy me a gift or take me out for an expensive dinner rather than say sorry and I have to put on a face of happiness. The only good thing to come out of our marriage is our 2 lovely daughters. Regrettably, if I knew what I know today I would not have entered into marriage. I don’t know whether these are words from a bitter woman but I think that men who overly shower women with money are compensating for something. I say this because I met my husband during a period when I was dating several guys and even though my husbandluxurydining has a sizable tool our sex life as been terrible. Yes, he is the father of my children but bad sex is just bad sex. I will quote your words ‘a vagina responds to stimulus, it does not recognize relationship labels’ ..PREACH ON. When I read those words, it’s like you were talking about my vagina. I have never had an orgasm with my husband, mind you he is built like a rock. He is one of those gym fanatics. To look at he looks delicious but his game is usually a 2 minute or less affair, he only has energy to lift weights lol. His spontaneous ejaculating has been horribly consistent. My ex who is married used to give me the most sweaty sex ever, complimented by his ability to make me orgasm with his tongue. I digress, its been 12 years of settling and I am done.

Maurice asks,

How can I help?

She replies,

I have a friend who will remain nameless and I want you to take me through the journey you took her on. For obvious reasons I can’t name her but she said if I mention “Meru delights” you will know who she is. You really helped her, I have been a witness to her transformation. I am willing to do whatever it takes. These are the areas I need you to work on, my self esteem, my damaged mind set towards men & sex and obviously I want to learn how to squirt. I want to be able to have casual sex and enjoy it. I don’t care how many sessions we need I just need to begin my transformation.

Maurice asks,

For me to fully understand the context of your transformation, I need to understand your journey to this point. Why did you marry your husband and why did you not have a life with your ex? You also said you are done, are you done settling with status quo and now you want to improve things with your husband?

She replies,

As I said, my husband is a charmer which is evident from the 8 women he has had affairs with. But the blame also falls on me because I left great sex because my ex was not ready to commit to marriage. So I know I chose security over a man who was my compatible and a great friend till this day. Matheka, at 36 I am no longer naive, I know underneath all that charm and romance I was nothing but a conquest and because of my beauty I got the extra luck of being married to a rich man. They say it’s every girl’s dream. Thankfully, I am a woman who knows better. I plan to leave him by August.

Maurice asks,

If I may ask, have you ever stepped out on him?

She replies,

Unfortunately I have only known one sexual partner despite his 8 women. We have notfrustratedwoman made love in 14 months and since 2009 we have probably had sex once or twice a year. Matheka save me from my frustrations! What has kept me busy has been my children and work. So are your magical fingers up to the task, I would like us to begin in 2 weeks? I have an apartment in Kilimani of which my husband does not know of (a girl must take care of herself lol) and that will be our venue for our sessions. Oh, I also want you to teach me how to engage and manipulate men. May be I am old skool. I have always given a man the lead but now the confidence instilled by our sessions should give me the upper hand, does that make sense?

Maurice replies,

It makes a lot of sense now that I understand the context. One of the things that keep me motivated in my line of work is that I have the skill to empower a woman’s sexuality and elevate her self esteem which is reflected in her day to day life. I look forward to our sessions, there is much for you to learn and experience. Who said I have magical fingers?

She replies,

lol Matheka, it is a known secret among women, your name pops up in women forums more than you think. Take pride, no other has your kind of fame. I am a marketer, my advice is own your brand and run with it. You are a very lucky man because no one can match you or take that status from you. Thank you so much for your time. I eagerly await. I will share specifics in due course. Have yourself an awesome week.


 

 

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Dear Maurice,

I hope you are good. I decided to contact you after the Whatsapp session we had with my group last week. It was very informative and quite the eye opener. Oh, I must mention that at first we were very skeptical about inviting you to our Whatsapp because most of the men thought you were fake, actually if it wasn’t for the female vote who were in fullblackmanthinking support of you the session would not have taken place. But once you commenced with your voice notes and you spoke a lot sense you suddenly became the best speaker we have ever had in our forum. Some of your previous haters are not your biggest fans, it was a job well done. Now, I have an issue that I could not share in the group though I did ask a few questions and I appreciated your responses. I am 32 and a self made successful software developer. For 3 years I have been dating my soul mate. I could marry her tomorrow but I am so afraid to give her my love. Truth be told 4/5 years ago I was a womanizer but since meeting her, life shifted for me. I fell in-love and her sex is off the hook, it feels great to be with her. But even though she professes to love me I don’t think she is ready to be fully mine.

Maurice asks,

Why would you doubt her?

He replies,blackwomantexting

She is constantly on her phone, especially at night, chatting, chatting and more chatting. I even tested her concentration span towards me over a period of 9 months and she has failed miserably. How do you text people when out on a diner date. I would expect conversation but all I get is divided attention. I got tired of fussing and now I pretend I am ok but I am not. She also jumps at any out of town plan without a thought of what I think. I have never given her conditions, I don’t support regimental attitudes but there is only so much a man can take.

Maurice replies,

I need to ask. Has she ever been different in the 3 years? How old is she and what does she do for a living if at all?

He replies,blackcoupleplayinginbed

For the first 2 years we were not living together but for the last year I have seen a side of her that I can’t handle. She is 28 and she works as a restaurant manager. She has been in hospitality for the last 4 years. She works crazy hours at times so when we are together I expect her to catch up with me not social media. I miss the way we would fool around in bed and just consume each other in our own bubble. Am I being unreasonable?

Maurice replies,

You are not being unreasonable. However, when you started dating, was it just fun and more fun without future expectations? I ask because I sense that she may not have had long term focus in your relationship. This has nothing to do with her loving you, love is just a psychological condition which does not guarantee mutual future goals or possibilities. One can love someone for particular reasons that don’t have any connection with relationship advancement like marriage. That does not mean one loves you less, it just means that your journey may not be towards the same destination.

He replies,

Okay, wow. I did not look at it that way. So what does that mean for me?

Maurice replies,

Can you say that you and her are close friends, apart from having fun that is sexually influenced, would you confidently say you that you cuddle up to each other and feel like the World would end without each other, do you share a closeness that redefines logic,blackcoupleinabubble do you have laughs that leave your ribs hurting, do you go out socializing and instead of allowing your environment to control you you stay united and embrace each moment together, do you sometimes feel like you breath the same air, yours is uncontaminated and pure? If none of the above resonates with your relationship attributes then my friend, your relationship was most likely formed on a weak foundation. Loving someone is sweet and intoxicating, you can even taste it in your mouth but the problem is, that sweetness is not replicated in her mouth for you to share in the delights. She is most likely enjoying the tidal wave not knowing that in the horizon you seek to find calmer shores where you can settle with her.

My professor once told me that love is extremely dangerous because loving someone only guarantees how you feel and that there is no way of measuring another human being’s love for you not unless you are shallow enough to perceive love by material things you gain.

Does that make sense?

He replies,

Boss, you are good. I really love this woman but as I was reading your sentiments it hit me that you have more or less described my relationship.

Maurice replies,

I am not good but thank you. I have just witnessed this scenarios for a long time and I make my deductions based on information shared. Human behaviour is pretty predictable if you understand the variables involved. If I may, when you met her, what were the striking things about her? And please I know you are in love but don’t sell me some lovey dovey story because you did not know her when you made your move.

He replies,

Hahaha… mate she was fly as fuck. She has this coke bottle figure and for sure I wanted to tap that ass. We got acquainted and at some point my mission was accomplished. I had no plans to continue contact but after a few outings I got to know her and enjoy showing her off and here we are years later.

Maurice replies,

You have just described how 95% of men view there initial contact with a woman they end up marrying. It is always good to accept your initial intent as a man, other things just develop as a bonus to the male lust factor. The irony if I may call it that, is that you are now the one in your relationship who can’t get enough of her.

He replies,

So there is no future with her?

Maurice replies,

I did not say there is no future with her. Even if you left her because you were in a hurry to marry, you have likely odds that you might meet someone who’s compatibility is much worse. The pastures are not always greener. I can tell you that despite your current in-love feelings for her, once you marry her, her newly acquired title of wife can easily change your perception of her, instantaneously you can go from the man who could not breath without her to a man who takes her for granted every day because you suddenly view her as your property and not as your soul mate. It happens to a majority pool of men. One day you were the King of love and the next day you are that guy who disappears like Kalonzo or comes home at 4am smelling of another woman.

From one man to another, I know us men pretty well. Love is great but it’s not enough to keep you interested once you begin to feel you own her, you need to understand that your love right now is fueled by your lust factor. You need to nurture and keep alive the side of you that looks at her as your hot coca cola bottle woman/girl. If you don’t that intoxicating flame will be extinguished by a sudden shift of psychology when you picture her as your wife and future mother of your children. My good man, all this love you have will disappear and you might notice any change until its too late. Too many couples fall under that sequence of events and it’s not necessary. If marriage happens for you and her let it be a bonus. It should never be the deciding factor of whether you are going to be together or not. In short, I do not want to save your relationship in the future, I would rather hear you tell me that you found an equilibrium and that you still happily together 10 years from now than hearing that you got married only to experience 10 years of misery. The ball is in your court.

He replies,

Hahaha ati Kalonzo. I hear you bro. What can I say, it has been enlightening and I will apply your knowledge. I agree, I don’t need to be married to quantify my happiness, that makes a lot of sense. I think you need to talk to my boys, out of 7 of them non is faithful and they find me weak when I share my love stories. Thank you. I will keep you in the loop if you don’t mind?

Maurice replies,

You are welcome. Please do . My goal is to keep your relationship flame burning with you making the right choices. Like I said, 95% of men behaviour and think like your boys. Its funny how it is forbidden in many male forums to admit you can love a woman and yet about 50% of those 95% are like a little poddle in their homes.

He replies,

True that, cheers bro.


Green Tea Fat Burner EDIT 2018

Green Tea Fat Burner II 2018

 

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I ventured out….

Dear Matheka,

Happy New Year. I hope you are keeping well since our session in November. I recall you asking for feedback so here goes. Firstly, I would like to thank you for the eye opening candid chat we had during our session. It was depressing to have you confirm a few things about my marriage but I guess I always knew but lived in denial for manyebonyfamily years. Secondly, apart from my sexual life, which I will go into, I am thankful for the information you shared which hit home in relation to my marriage. My husband and I had a serious talk where we looked at our viable options and we recently decided not to get a divorce but live together as friends. Frankly, a divorce would be too expensive and we feel our kids still need both of us to live under one roof. Even though my husband refused to attend our initial consult session he agreed with 80% of what you shared with me. We have a guest wing and that is where he will be living and we shall review that status after 2 years. Our discussion also touched on the sensitive matter of dating other people and we came to a mutual agreement. We have a transition to adapt to but I am confident that the harmony you spoke about will be achieved.

Now to my sex life. I have consistently followed your program on a daily basis and I must admit true to your word you have transformed my womanhood. Like I said when we first met, I thought squirting and even multiple orgasms was a myth but I guess when you are dealing with the maestro himself aka vagina whisperer, you can’t fail. I also discovered what you meant when you told me that my vagina does not respond to social ebonypussylickingdefined labels but responds to a stimulus which contradicted what we are taught by society, that you will only enjoy sex with the man you love. Your stimulus theory has been confirmed repeatedly because despite loving him and thinking of him as my ultimate man, sex with my husband was nothing but obligational and has been for years. Then a week into our session I applied what you taught me with some other guy and the water works were in full display. He even commented ‘your husband doesn’t appreciate this’, I had to tell him that it had never happened with any other man. You should have seen the pride in his face, as if he had conquered the World. Just as instructed I told him to patiently alternate between licking my urethra zone and my clit. I felt the build up and he told me to let go. I splashed on his face. He got up with this mighty look on his face totally convinced he could move Mountains and like you recommended I gave him the credit. Oh, before I forget, I ventured out and tried out myebonybisexual fantasy with a woman and I love it. It was by far the most sensual sex I have ever experienced. All in all my sex life and over all outlook on life has changed. As you well noted, one of my main issues was that I was a stickler for societal rules and morals. I have since learnt to be more flexible in my day to day life. I have also learnt to find happiness within myself instead of relying on external love and affirmation. I believe that the work you do is critical in changing mindsets and giving people direction in their relationships. Many of us are sold into the Disney version of marriage ‘happily ever after’ and to be perfectly honest, if I could turn back time, I would never have rushed for a marital status that would become my source of misery for 8 years out of 9. Anyway enough with memory lane, I will now only focus on the things that bring me joy and Matheka you have bought me a lot of joy and I will be forever indebted to you. I have asked a friend of mine to see pronto, she is also a member of the denial club and I know she will benefit from your session(s). God bless you and have a marvelous 2018.

ps: when I googled you and saw you rate card I thought you were too affordable considering the value you offer. I think you should charge a premium rate, after all what value do people put on their relationship. Having been a participant of an extravagant wedding, I now believe people spend unnecessary amounts, hundreds of thousands, millions on their wedding day. So they should equally want to pay premium to sustain their relationship. Food for thought.

Maurice replies,

Thank you so much for the feedback. The above is what keeps me motivated to do my job. It is important that one finds inner peace and happiness. It is equally important for people to understand the social variables that determine a functional cordial relationship opposed to a relationship that offers nothing but boredom, misery, insecurity and an assortment of emotional constant distress. Psychology teaches us that there is how you think things should be and then there is the reality of how things will undoubtedly be if you do not adopt a program to cultivate an endless yield of mutual goals, desires and aspirations that nurture a loving and conducive relationship between two people. As long as I can help one person at a time, that’s fulfilling enough for me. Have yourself a superb 2018.


 

In 2018, more couples need to embrace sexual knowledge and discovery.

More women need sexual liberation, they should learn how to orgasm to the point of squirting.

We must all say NO to FGM aka STOP the cut.

#ProudlyKilungu

#teammasimba


 

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