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Dear Maurice,

I am 18 years old and I am a big fan of your blog, especially your videos on facebook. You tell it as it is and I would like to share my story with you as long as you do not name me.

Maurice replies,

You have nothing to worry about, in the last 8 years of blogging I have never mentioned anyone in any of my stories. I only seek to share human relationship and sexual experiences. Please feel free to share.

She replies,

I am 18 like I mentioned and from a middle class family. I have never lacked in my life and I am grateful for that. However, my parents have never been keen to educate me on matters sex. There is a massive failure of parents especially as we millennials reach 10 to 14, we are exposed to so much and if you do not have an adult to guide you, you can easily be led astray by social media and peers.

I was lucky enough to have my Dad’s friend mentor me in the different stages of my life. My Dad asked him to be my mentor because I always looked up to him as my ‘uncle’. He was the father figure that was willing to talk to me about boys. My mum refused to mentor me, all she ever said was that boys were evil and she would only be comfortable talking about boys once I was legally an adult but to this day she still feeds me useless information thinking am still a child. Anyway, if it wasn’t for you and my Dad’s friend I would have made a lot of mistakes that girls make at the age of 14, where we rush into sex because most of our friends are doing it. Parents think we are stupid and immature, and yet we know right from wrong but we choose to defy them because we either do not want to be ‘left out’ or we just reach a point where being treated like a baby just makes us vengeful.

Maurice asks,

So what you are saying is that many girls at 14 years of age will enter into sexual relations because they want to fit in with their peers?

She replies,

Exactly, and when your mum tells you that boys are evil, she makes you curious enough to want to find out ‘how evil can they be’. You get me Maurice?

Maurice replies,

Oh yes, I get you loud and clear but unfortunately most parents don’t want to have this discussion. Then you have a segment of parents who don’t want their unless parenting skills to be questioned. I recall a concerned mother contracting me to have several sessions with her 14 year old daughter and one of her concerns was social media. Her exact question was ‘if I take away my daughter’s phone she finds an alternative source of communication so how do I protect my daughter from men on social media, how do I make sure they don’t text her’. I told her that her biggest error was attempting to mask her daughter from the real World. So in our sessions, all I did is expose her daughter to the realities of social media and how to counter and manage her surroundings (how to deal with those men). It is vital to empower young people with social tactics so they can protect themselves.

She replies,

I agree. It is important to empower girls with ways of dealing with predators instead of imprisoning us then releasing us into the World with zero skills. It is equivalent to releasing a goat into a Lion infested savanna. Maurice, I lost my virginity last year and I am thankful it was with a man who gave me a good experience compared to most of my girlfriends who had really bad experiences, enough to put them off sex. As young girls we always hear how magical and amazing sex is so we become curious but with fear of the act and judgement. This leads me to the real reason I approached you. For almost 8 years the person I could confide to about my feelings and boys was my Dad’s friend.

Maurice replies,

Sorry to butt in but how old is your Dad’s friend?

She replies,

He is 44, my Dad is 43.

Maurice replies,

Please continue, so the only person you could confide to was your Dad’s friend….

She replies,

Yes, I got to like him a lot because he was always there for me, he even attended my school events and took me out on picnics with his kids when my parents were too busy. By the time I was 16 a level of attraction kick in, he became my biggest crush. Please don’t judge me, I don’t know where the feelings came from , they just manifested and it gets worse. Last year at a family function I told him that I wanted to fuck him. He was like ‘what stop messing around, you shouldn’t say such things to me’. He further went on with ‘I am like your Dad’ , I responded ‘true but you are not’. He said ‘you are like my daughter’. I said ‘true but you are not blood’. I made it very clear that he needed to fuck me or I would run to my Dad and tell me that ‘uncle tried to touch me inappropriately’. I told him that he had to make a choice, have sex with me or say bye bye to his long friendship with my Dad. Even if he proved that he never advanced on me I knew my parents would never trust me again. One thing I have learnt is that people are very emotionally fragile so taking advantage is so easy.

Maurice replies,

So you black mailed him and I need to ask why considering he was there for you?

She replies,

This was in July and earlier in the year my first experience was so bad and I reckoned an older patient and experienced man was what I needed. It was a gamble that paid off.

Maurice asks,

How old was the guy who gave you the bad experience and is he still in your life?

She replies,

It was my friend’s brother, he is 22. My experience with him was traumatic. His inexperience was evident and that is why girls my age opt for older men who hopefully know what they are doing.

Maurice replies,

So you had sex with your Dad’s friend?

She asks,

Daaaah. It was incredible.

Maurice asks,

Did that not affect your relationship with him being like your father figure for all those years?

She replies,

He did not look traumatized while inside me so no that did not change much. Though, I do not see him as much at our place. But I know he meets with my Dad at the club every week. I think he is more upset that the sex stopped when I got him out my system. He failed to understand that he was only relevant the 4 times I needed his amazing sex. It’s bizarre how a grown ass man can sulk when he misses good pussy LOL.

Maurice asks,

So he wanted more even after his initial reluctance?

She replies,

Maurice, granted I am new in this game but after seeing his reaction while having sex even you would want more of this!

Maurice replies,

Let us keep me out of the equation. Question, what was your main reason of sharing this story?

She replies,

You have a following and many are parents. I want people to know that how they are going about with their parenting is out dated. As you said, if my mother and father are not equipt with the know how of how to mentor us and empower us with how to deal with the real World then teenage pregnancy will remain a norm. There are many girls in high school who have had more than two abortions and part of the problem is parents who think keeping the girl child indoors is the answer. At some point we are let out and it only take less than 10 minutes for me to sample that evil boy between the shopping mall and home.

Maurice asks,

You want to shock parents into changing their conservative mindset to sexual education?

She replies,

Yes, even you Maurice. Because you are out spoken and practical in your delivery you must be part of the solution. We are brought for some uninteresting speakers and mentors in schools but we lack someone with your knowledge. Parents scare us with illogical truths, you however would be listened to because you would engage us as adults and tell us the consequences of our actions. We do not need to be shouted at, or addressed like children. We need a non judgmental person who will give us the low down with options, take door A and your choices may fail you, take door B and you can experience life in stages. That is what my generation wants, a person who scares us with the realities of today’s World not yesterday’s but also reminds us that ultimately it’s our individual choice that will map out our destiny.

Maurice replies,

I have tried to engage governing bodies for this to be a National debate that translates to a curriculum to empower young people who in turn nurture better morals in the fabric of society but the religious types and uninformed moral police are too stuck in the old conservative ways of educating society. In my professional opinion, their goal to save our African culture will fail because they do nothing but bandage a growing wound. Understanding the sexual psychology of an ever evolving generation will allow you to formulate social projects/programs that make a difference in the long run. I must say it has been enlightening to chat with you and thank you very much for sharing. It is just unfortunate that the deeper social problems in our society today will be ignored or ridiculed by those who evaluate through emotions that project their own inner insecurities opposed to being debated by progressive thinkers who can recognize a problem and see potential in implementing out of the box solutions that impact our society positively. Again, thank you for sharing.

Oh, one more question. What is your take on the boychild, specifically boys of your generation.

She replies,

Empowering girls is great but if you do not empower boys in the same measure then you will cultivate a society where the boychild is not able to handle the girlchild. I can speak for all girls but I know that when we date a boy our age it is just mainly for show to our peers. He is there for coffee dates, ice creams runs, pizza dates but our primary attraction is the older guy who not only fucks us for his pleasures but also empowers us with information that adds value in our day to day life. One day the boychild will be my boyfriend or husband. I know we won’t gel but I will keep him around to please mother but I will secretly have an older guy who understands me better in every single way. It is exciting to have a man who arouses your thought process, he just has relevance despite me having a boyfriend or husband. Personally I view marriage has an illogical process where the rules favor the same repressed boychild.

Maurice replies,

Wow, you should definitely consider majoring in some form of psychology. At your very youthful age you understand human behavioural science better than women two to three times your age.

She replies,

Maurice, they are seeking to be loved. We millennials are seeking relevance in our life, you can love us but if you don’t add value you can keep your love. Older women like my mum package love and sex together hence why she constantly has issue with my Dad who just wants pussy that motivates him. It’s not my fight so I do not meddle, but I could teach my mum a thing or two about men.

Maurice replies,

Oooook.

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