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Is he being selfish????

Dear Matheka,

I want to thank you for the advice you gave me during the session with my chama. But I think I have put myself in hot soup since then. Due to my frustrations in my marriage I frustratedblackwomandecided to embark on my own adventure and now I am conflicted in so many ways. As you know I have been married for 6 years and despite trying to spice things up my sex life has been extremely pathetic. My husband has always reminded me that we are Catholics and that sex is sacred. He only knows missionary and he says any form of oral sex is sinful and demonic. I am only 26, please help me.

Maurice replies,

You mentioned hot soup!

She replies,

I was getting to that. I kind of flirted with your friend who was part of the live sex duringlickingebonypussy the chama session. We exchanged numbers solely for his massage service and we ended up doing much more. Matheka, please do not judge me but I had never felt a penis that big, my husband’s is very small in comparison. The way he licked my pussy was amazing and I had never given a blowjob before. He said I was a good student. It was the first time for me to orgasm without having to play with my clitoris. How do I get over him?

Maurice asks,

When you decided to explore with him, what did you mutually agree to? I know him well so I am sure this is just a fling.

She replies,

He was very clear that it was just fun but after fucking him several times, I can’t do without him. He told me we can fuck for as long as I want, as long as I know the rules. But I feel he is being selfish.

Maurice asks,

How is he being selfish and if I may ask, how many times have you had sex with him since you met him in November?

She replies,

He is selfish because he wants me to provide a venue and pay him every time we have sex and yet he is also enjoying the sex. I have met him 5 times.

Maurice replies,

You do realise that you need him more than he needs you. He has acquired his sexual ebonypoundingprowess over the years so for you to experience him you must pay him. I believe those are part of the rules that he stipulated. A man who has his level of sexual vigor has value. It’s unfortunate that we live in a World where ‘the penis’ has no or little value. Men who are procreational may not have value but all the guys I work with in relation to delivering sexual ecstasy are recreational sexual lovers. I have taught them to value their penis. I am also a bit conflicted because I am wondering how I can be of help in your predicament.

She replies,

I understand what you are saying but does he have to charge me all the time. I feel I can be more of value to him in the long run if he treats me like a woman instead of a client. I feel like he is holding back, he told me he likes me and misses our time together, does that not sound like a man who is playing safe?

Maurice replies,

My dear, I hear you but to me you sound like a woman who just wanted to venture out and at some point you fell in-love with a man who you knew was out of reach. Men generally have some form of liking towards a woman they are having sex with. It’s also normal for a man to miss your sex and your company but it is not a sign of exclusivity or obligation towards you. If the sex was bad we would not be having this dialogue, so it is good to love the sex but don’t over step the terms & conditions and love the man. I also need to remind you that I cannot have any part in your romance. You have a choice, extinguish your fling with him and return to your Catholic husband or continue your arrangement with expectations that do not go beyond ‘having fun’.

She replies,

He said he has a girlfriend and if so where is he continuing his relations with me?

Maurice replies,

I cannot speak on is behave, only he can answer that question. However, you must have known that your relations are both fun and business for him. And even if he has a girlfriend that is none of your business. I am certain he is not bothered about you having a husband either. Again, you are asking questions as if this fling could ever graduate into something else more exclusive. Clearly from your own marriage status you have learnt that acquiring marital status is overrated especially when your compatibility is lacking. As much as money is great, if he has agreed to see you 5 times then he must enjoy sex with you. I know him, he is extremely picky. If that is not good enough for you then you need to reconsider your sexual escapades with him before you land yourself into an emotional place of no return. He is a seasoned man, set in his ways. He can sustain a casual sex affair for years without plaguing unnecessary emotions into it. That is something most women can’t do, so understand the game you are playing and decide on whether you are in or out.

She replies,

I am meeting him on Saturday, I will let you know how it goes.

Maurice replies,

Have fun.


 

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Dear Maurice,

I was having a chat with my very close friend the other night and your name came up as we discussed my problem. She is usually the one with all the answers but on this case she advised I seek your opinion. I did google you so I am confident you are the right person to give a non judgmental view. I am 32, married for 10 years and I have 2 adorable children. My husband is 45. He is filthy rich, coming from old money but about 9 years ago I realised I was a trophy wife, married into wealth as a convenience. My husband and I once had a talk where he pointed out that he and his boys, who also come from wealth, courted suitable candidates that they would have fun with as girlfriends but one day marry to fit into family expectations. In short, what he was saying is that all the wives should not complain when the men have their cake and eat it too because we have all been given a lavish life with an endless supply of money and luxury.  Needless to say, I stopped fighting for his love after that talk.

Now to my issue. I have been secretly dating a girl who is 24 and the relationship has gone on for almost 3 years. In case you are wondering my initial attraction for her was ebonybodybased on her amazing body and sex with her is beyond anything I have ever experienced with a man. I have given her a lifestyle to die for but I am disappointed that she can’t stay exclusive to me. She is bi-sexual and I know she fucks around with men behind my back. With everything I do for her would you not expect her to be loyal to me considering my husband and I only have sex like 4 to 5 times a year if that?

Maurice asks,

When you started to date, did you label your relationship or was it a let’s see how it goes format? I am also curious to know what kind of lifestyle you have given her?

She replies,

At first it was just a fling with no expectations but after our first year together I askedebonywomensex her to be exclusive and she stated my demands were not fair. I dress her with designer wear, I pay for her Muthaiga mansion, I bought her a brand new BMW, I cover for her club membership and her annual trips abroad (mostly shopping). She has a monthly standing order allowance of $3000.

Maurice asks,

What does your friend think of your affair?

She replies,

She is one of the wives, most of us have lovers. She advised I give her an ultimatum but we were very interested to hear your opinion before I make my decision.

Maurice replies,

There are many forms of relationships out there but unfortunately society only concentrates on boyfriend/girlfriend and husband/wife settings. Labels are good and bad, but what really matters is the context of the relationship. You are married and unhappy hence why you have a lover. Now, if you push your lover to make a decision based on your ultimatum, it will change her lust factor for you and you will end up in another convenience relationship where you are constantly fighting each other, so in-essence you will be behaving like a married couple. My dear, one thing about humans, and especially women, you love the word LOVE and the psychological feelings its induces. But the truth is regardless of what label or tag you give it, your attraction for your lover is sustained by your level of LUST. I am sure you love your husband despite all your issues but you no longer lust for him. A relationship of convenience can survive with the notion of love and no lust, but a relationship which encompasses sensuality, intimacy and seduction cannot survive without the most vital ingredient called LUST.

When you assert too many rules that break the original mould then the relationship texture and lather ceases to be enjoyable. She is your lover, not your prospecting second husband, it is imperative you understand the psychological elements that define and keep your lust vibrant. What you give her in form of lifestyle is fantastic but if you wage a manipulative war with her you might as well just break up because you will inevitably kill the bond you currently possess.

My question to you is, have you had sexual relations with anyone else?

She replies,

I had flings with 2 men before I met her but those men were married and one of them was too needy and demanding for my taste.

Maurice replies,

So, do you want to remain sexy and lustful in the eyes of your lover or do you want to label your relationship and erode your fun factor? The ball is in your court.

She replies,

OOKKKK… I never even knew that such elements would affect or influence my affair. I had to read it 3 times for your explanation to sink in. What I have understood is that a degree of mystery, lust, jealousy keeps our affair exciting. That makes a lot of sense to me. I definitely don’t need a second husband or wife lol. I now know I can’t afford to spoil what I have. Maurice, thank you so much.

Maurice replies,

You are welcome, just be sure to keep me posted.

She asks,

I had to ask, I read somewhere that you teach women how to squirt, can you teach me and my lover, knowing her that’s the kind of thing she would be interested in?

Maurice replies,

I have those type of sessions every week but first decide on the direction you are going to take then we can schedule a session.


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(our chat before the session)

Dear Maurice,

From what I hear you facilitate for people’s fantasies.

Maurice replies,

Yes I do. What do you have in mind?

She replies,southcoastromance i

My husband and I have been discussing having a threesome for a while now. He is far more adventurous than I am and to be honest this experience is more for me. He has had his share of threesomes in his past relationships. Though I do have one concern, as much as I am willing to bite the bullet I would hate to be in a situation where I am competing with the other woman. Is there any assurance that she will not snatch my man?

Maurice replies,

That is a valid concern. However you need to look at the dynamic where the other woman would have reason to snatch your man, the most common motive is the opportunity to gain finance followed by a mutual attraction that may lead them to an affair. The women I work with are well vetted and work within set guidelines of engagement. In your case, your man wants to give you this experience which only means he trusted you enough to share his desire to make a threesome a reality. If a man merely wanted a threesome it would be far safer to omit you from the equation. The fact that you aware is because you are relevant in his sexual adventures, many wives are not for an array of reasons. I applaud the relationship you have cultivated with your husband. In my experience majority of couples married or not do not have that degree of openness hence the social issues in our society.

in relation to the woman, what are your preferences?

She replies,

He does not like fat women, she needs to be size 10/12. She must be open minded.

Maurice replies,

Don’t you worry, my girls are extremely open minded. Will you engage in anal sex cause only some of my girls will follow through and because that falls under the category of fetishes it will cost more?

She replies,Attractive couple cuddling on the couch

Baby steps Maurice, as I said this will be my first time and I can’t believe we are having this discussion lol. Anal sex will not be on the menu.

Maurice replies,

I will share photos for the two of you to approve then we agree on a date and venue.

She replies,

We would like to have you and your girl over for a weekend, we will book a secluded venue out of town from Friday till Sunday. Is that possible? We also want you to profile us as a couple over the weekend and give us a comprehensive sincere report on where we can improve, do you do that?

Maurice replies,

The weekend stay is possible and yes I will be able to profile you from the minute I arrive to the minute we part ways. As I tell all couples I profile, you need to prepare to hear things about you that you may not necessarily like but knowing the truth will give you the avenue for improvement. It is the difference between having a functional relationship and having a relationship of convenience where both of you just coexist within your own comfort zones with maximum compromise. Just prepare to have a kinky erotic weekend. I will also teach you how to squirt.

She replies,

Wow, are you sure I will and does your girl squirt?

Maurice replies,

Let’s put it this way, you and my girl will be squirting as you go through the motions of the threesome with your husband.

She replies,

You and my husband have similar traits, he will be over the moon when I relay your optimism. Maurice, please give us the best experience. I am counting on you to elevate our sexual connection for the better.

Maurice replies,

Don’t you worry, you will be a rejuvenated woman and your bond with your man will be more solid as you progress in your sexual exploration.

 

Feedback after the session:

Hi Maurice. I hope you are keeping well. I do not know where to the start. The weekend long session was awesome. The sexual segment was great and I was shocked at my ability to squirt (go figure). However, what was most interesting was your eye openingsouthcoastromance lust statements about the relationship setting we should maintain to out survive other relationships. Your share on male psychology really hit home and made sense even though at times I wish some realities were not so. I appreciated that you were not conservative with the truth. I believe I am more informed on how to communicate with my husband going forward. I will do whatever it takes to please my man and keep him seeing me not only as his wife but more importantly for him to see me as his relevant sexual mate. Thank you for your professionalism and guidance.

Maurice replies,

You are very welcome. I thoroughly enjoyed the weekend. Please keep being the woman you are, it is always refreshing to meet a woman who is willing to get out of her comfort zone to explore new ways of relating with her man. As you witnessed, a man is driven by thrills (society calls them cheap thrills but the excitement levels for a man cannot be ignored). A man seeks thrills and fun and if you can be part of the solution (not problem) you will prevail. Oh, before I forget, keep pampering him as you do so well. Every man has a 5 year old within him, when you consistently use your feminine side to pamper a man you will gain from your gestures. One of the problems we have with this equality malarkey is that some women have found it in themselves to become men or rather behave like a man towards their man. If you dare confront a man with male traits you will be commanding him to do what comes naturally and he will go on the defense. Keep up the good work.


 


 

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Hi Maurice,

I would like to start by saying ‘well done’, that was a great session. You demystified many sexual things of which many I thought were pure myths. My wife and I are indebted to you. You my friend are a magician of sorts. You asked me to state the things that stood out and made a difference during the session. Let me start by stating that I had neverrevampedsexlife seen or imagined a woman could squirt within minutes. I could not believe my eyes when I managed to accomplish that for my wife. At first though, I was not understanding the technique but once I understood the flood gates began. After a lot of practice I now understand what you call ‘the swelling of the inner upper wall’. She has been squirting continuously, our only issue is wet sheets but like you said better a wet then a constant dry bed. The session was out of this World. I tell you us men have a lot to learn but the problem as I told you is that many of us think we know it all. I must confess I was once that man but since reading your blog and finally interacting with you I am a changed man and for the better because now my wife can orgasm and squirt and that was unheard of in our matrimonial bed. I must also mention how professionally you conduct yourself together with your session partner. Kweli this was your calling. I am yet to gain the skill set you presented but I am getting there. I will definitely refer my friends to try out package 6.  My only question is, how do you get a woman to squirt with the tongue motion you showed us, I have forgotten, I was too engrossed in what you were demonstrating. You said it was around the urethra area, can I video call you show use once more?

My good man, you are very welcome. I am glad you and your wife have rejuvenated your sex life and in time you will harness your skills and achieve much more in your sexual journey. By all means you we can schedule a video call, you just need a reminder of the specific area and in time you will be able to induce her squirting stimulus through gentle tongue motions as you saw during the session.


 

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Dear Maurice,

I need your help.

Maurice replies,

What seems to be the issue?

She replies,sexuallyworriedebony

I am 34 and married. I love my husband to bits but I don’t have sexual feelings for him. I find myself getting excited by other men when I am at work or out socialising but when I get home, I feel obligated to have sex that I have really never enjoyed.

Maurice asks,

What do you mean by ‘I have really never enjoyed’?

She replies,

That’s just it, I have never in the last 8 years achieved orgasm by him. I have faked it all along. What is wrong with me?

Maurice replies,

I think the question is, why were you attracted to him initially that led you to be his girlfriend and later for you to accept his hand in marriage?

She replies,

I fell in-love I guess.

Maurice asks,

Would I be right in saying that a major part of your criteria was based on his ability to provide?

She replies,

Maurice, he is a great husband and yes he provides for all my needs. He has never failed in that regard.

Maurice replies,

Well, his character is not in question but from your own narration I can’t but deduce that your compatibility was tied to financial provision which led you to fall in-love with the comforts he offers. He may be the best guy on earth but you overlooked one vital ingredient called lust. The fact is, because of a woman’s initial criteria that makes a man a potential, the sexual elements of the relationship are usually not considered and that is why you are not lusting for your husband. He has never been your sexual mate and now your body is demanding for a more defined stimulus. That stimulus can never been gain just because you love someone. Bodily sexual functions do not and will never recognise the emotion or notion of love or romance, that is a psychological disposition.

If you don’t mind sharing, have you ever achieved orgasm?

She replies,

Yes I have with former partners and I miss it.

Maurice replies,

Which is understandable because you wouldn’t know unless you had someone to compare with.

She replies,

So, what you are saying is that sex has little or nothing to do with love and that is why I have never enjoyed sex with my husband?

Maurice replies,

Correct, he has never stimulated your womanhood. To put it into perspective, you do realise the vagina and penis do not know whether one is married or not and that the emotion called love only gives humans an illusion in relation to sex where the lust factor plays a role in inducing the levels of excitement aided by the neuro-chemicals that rush our brains. That is why so many who are in-love still experience below average or just plain horrid sex (experienced more by women than men).

She replies,

Is there a solution or am I doomed?

Maurice replies,

Well, luckily despite your lack of lust for your husband there is a proven way to make you enjoy sex with him based on a technique that makes you crave sex more after learning how to induce a degree of pleasure. If indeed you still want to have sex with your husband but are only put off by his inability to arouse you to your desired level, then its only logical to learn how to own 70% of your orgasm process to ensure every time you have sex you orgasm at least once or twice. For those women who take the my teachings serious they end up enjoying sex much more and having the ability to orgasm multiple times in one single sex session with their partner.

The same applies for that woman who’s man ejaculates within minutes. Instead of her opting for an alternative source of assumed pleasure, why not teach her to orgasm within those few minutes. It is all down to applied technique. Does that make sense?

She replies,

Yes, it does. When can I learn?

Maurice replies,

I am only a call away. We can schedule a private session. The pastures out there are not always as green as people say, so why not try reload your sex life which in turn will positively influence your marriage. There are solutions to sexual hurdles but the question is how bad do you want to prevail? If your husband is a willing participant it would be a welcomed bonus to the session.

She replies,

Thank you Maurice, you have been helpful and I will be calling you to schedule that session.

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Make her feel comfortable

Hi Maurice,

I really enjoyed our private session. I did not know what to expect despite reading about you and the work you do. I was extremely nervous to say the least. But you turned the tables round by being ‘that guy’. You have a way of making a woman feel comfortable in her own feelingsexyoctoberebonyskin. Once we got settled you became that ‘friend’ I could open up to, it was a relief.

Then we got chatting, loved your humour. You are such a clown. I also noticed your eye contact which in many aspects is good consider your line of work. Knowing my reason of seeking your consult was sexual I did experience spells of shyness as you can recall but I also felt good being there. Never in a million years did I think I could orgasm and squirt the way I did. Package 5 was the best thing I have indulged in in a long time.

OK Maurice, I am really trying to be as PC as possible with my feedback and it has just hit me that there is no PC way of saying you had a great sexual experience. Admittedly parts of me have been hurting for more reasons than one but I would have it no other way ‘licking my lips’. Needless to say I will be seeing you again ‘sooner than later’ and I will take you up on your kinky scenario of having, what was it again; yoghurt, grapes, cuffs and a bowl.

Maurice replies,

I equally enjoyed the session and thank you for your feedback. I eagerly look forward to our next session. I’ll bring the cuffs.


 

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Dear Maurice,

I have been dating this woman who I met 14 monoverlyhappyebonycoupleths ago but I fear she is playing me with some guy who keeps dropping her at my place.

Maurice asks,

Why do you suspect her, after all the man is dropping her at your place?

He replies,

I don’t know, but something does not feel right about him.

Maurice replies,

Can I assume she is your woman, based on that fact, are you not in the loop of who this guy is, have you not met him, spoken to him?

He replies,

I have met him once socially. She introduced me to him when we first started dating. They work together and she told me at the beginning that ‘that’s her boy’. He drops her at my place then she goes home later.

Maurice replies,

So you leave separately and she sleeps over at times?

He replies,

How do I put this, she is married. At some point she has to go home to her family. We both make time for each other and especially during the week, we both leave work early to take advantage of the few hours we have together.

Maurice asks,

So if you are having an affair with a married woman, why do you care who drops her? Aren’t you having a non exclusive relationship. Even if she was double dealing you and her ‘friend driver’aka work colleague, it shouldn’t bother you based on your relationship.

He replies,

Things got out of hand and I grew feelings for her a few months ago. This was not my intended outcome and that is why the husband is not aware as he should have been.

Maurice replies,

Suddenly I am curious, I hope this is not going where I think its going!

He replies,

In 2014 her husband pursued the woman I was to marry and he brain washed her with his money and got her pregnant. He has been housing her in an apartment since then. She left me a note, narrating how happy and content she was with him. She said, she never meant to hurt me after all the things I had done for her and the way I treated her like a Queen but she could not ignore her affections for this other man. That was the most painful time of my life. I am 34 and this asshole is 45, my ex is 26 and his wife is 32.

Maurice asks,

What was your initial game plan?

He replies,

After the heartbreak, I schemed to one day revenge by sleeping with his daughter or wife. The daughter angle did not result to anything fruitful but my lure finally worked on the wife. She has no clue. I have sex videos and photos of us in the nude and I was to mail them to him 5 months ago but in the process I fell for her. She says she is happy with the comforts he provides but their emotional bond and sex life is not the best, that was my way in. Why do these kind of men always get their way, women just run to them. I am convinced a big portion of women just enjoy some element of dysfunction in their relationship. Would she be grateful if she were to learn that I reconsidered my agenda for her, I highly doubt.

Maurice asks,

So, she is not even aware that your ex exists in her husband’s life?

He replies,

No she is completely in the dark.

Maurice replies,

You do realise, there is no happy ending in this story. The bottom line is that she belongs to another man and your affair has an expiry date. It is unfortunate that your ex did not stand by her man and decided to be with another. We can’t change the events that lead you here but you can start a fresh without digging yourself into more trouble. Men are being killed over women, is it worth it! I think not.

He replies,

Are you saying I should forget and move on?

Maurice replies,

I am just saying that if you do go through with your intended then be prepared for any repercussion that may follow. What I do acknowledge is letting go is easier said than done. Your premeditated revenge is sweet but at what cost is the question. Don’t punish this woman you now have feelings for thinking it will be the ultimate blow to her husband. You have a choice to continue playing this game of Russian roulette. However my advice, walk away, live to fight another day.


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