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Dear Maurice,

I was having a chat with my very close friend the other night and your name came up as we discussed my problem. She is usually the one with all the answers but on this case she advised I seek your opinion. I did google you so I am confident you are the right person to give a non judgmental view. I am 32, married for 10 years and I have 2 adorable children. My husband is 45. He is filthy rich, coming from old money but about 9 years ago I realised I was a trophy wife, married into wealth as a convenience. My husband and I once had a talk where he pointed out that he and his boys, who also come from wealth, courted suitable candidates that they would have fun with as girlfriends but one day marry to fit into family expectations. In short, what he was saying is that all the wives should not complain when the men have their cake and eat it too because we have all been given a lavish life with an endless supply of money and luxury.  Needless to say, I stopped fighting for his love after that talk.

Now to my issue. I have been secretly dating a girl who is 24 and the relationship has gone on for almost 3 years. In case you are wondering my initial attraction for her was based on her amazing body and sex with her is beyond anything I have ever experienced with a man. I have given her a lifestyle to die for but I am disappointed that she can’t stay exclusive to me. She is bi-sexual and I know she fucks around with men behind my back. With everything I do for her would you not expect her to be loyal to me considering my husband and I only have sex like 4 to 5 times a year if that?

Maurice asks,

When you started to date, did you label your relationship or was it a let’s see how it goes format? I am also curious to know what kind of lifestyle you have given her?

She replies,

At first it was just a fling with no expectations but after our first year together I asked her to be exclusive and she stated my demands were not fair. I dress her with designer wear, I pay for her Muthaiga mansion, I bought her a brand new BMW, I cover for her club membership and her annual trips abroad (mostly shopping). She has a monthly standing order allowance of $3000.

Maurice asks,

What does your friend think of your affair?

She replies,

She is one of the wives, most of us have lovers. She advised I give her an ultimatum but we were very interested to hear your opinion before I make my decision.

Maurice replies,

There are many forms of relationships out there but unfortunately society only concentrates on boyfriend/girlfriend and husband/wife settings. Labels are good and bad, but what really matters is the context of the relationship. You are married and unhappy hence why you have a lover. Now, if you push your lover to make a decision based on your ultimatum, it will change her lust factor for you and you will end up in another convenience relationship where you are constantly fighting each other, so in-essence you will be behaving like a married couple. My dear, one thing about humans, and especially women, you love the word LOVE and the psychological feelings its induces. But the truth is regardless of what label or tag you give it, your attraction for your lover is sustained by your level of LUST. I am sure you love your husband despite all your issues but you no longer lust for him. A relationship of convenience can survive with the notion of love and no lust, but a relationship which encompasses sensuality, intimacy and seduction cannot survive without the most vital ingredient called LUST.

When you assert too many rules that break the original mould then the relationship texture and lather ceases to be enjoyable. She is your lover, not your prospecting second husband, it is imperative you understand the psychological elements that define and keep your lust vibrant. What you give her in form of lifestyle is fantastic but if you wage a manipulative war with her you might as well just break up because you will inevitably kill the bond you currently possess.

My question to you is, have you had sexual relations with anyone else?

She replies,

I had flings with 2 men before I met her but those men were married and one of them was too needy and demanding for my taste.

Maurice replies,

So, do you want to remain sexy and lustful in the eyes of your lover or do you want to label your relationship and erode your fun factor? The ball is in your court.

She replies,

OOKKKK… I never even knew that such elements would affect or influence my affair. I had to read it 3 times for your explanation to sink in. What I have understood is that a degree of mystery, lust, jealousy keeps our affair exciting. That makes a lot of sense to me. I definitely don’t need a second husband or wife lol. I now know I can’t afford to spoil what I have. Maurice, thank you so much.

Maurice replies,

You are welcome, just be sure to keep me posted.

She asks,

I had to ask, I read somewhere that you teach women how to squirt, can you teach me and my lover, knowing her that’s the kind of thing she would be interested in?

Maurice replies,

I have those type of sessions every week but first decide on the direction you are going to take then we can schedule a session.

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