Dear Maurice,
I need your thoughts on a situation. Since 2015 I have been dating a guy on and off mainly because of exclusivity issues that arise and we break it off then return back to one another. I met him through mutual social circles and I fell for him. He just has a way of confusing me and his sex is great, like really good.
Maurice replies,
He sounds like a guy whom you have a sexual connection with. What is the problem?
She replies,
Ok, for one, he stopped confusing me as he used to. This is complicated so let me break it down. I found out, like in 2016, that one of the chicks in our social circle used to date him and why I found out late was because she got married to another man, left our social group, but kept in touch with him ‘my boyfriend’. I asked him and he denied. After her marriage collapsed, she left her husband then pursued him again to the point they would meet frequently as he was dating me. She gathered my clothes at his place and cut them up and had them delivered to my office ‘can you imagine the nerve’. I confronted him and he apologized stating that he only allowed her to go to his place unsupervised because he wanted her to pick any thing she may have at his place so that he can commit to me. Obviously I knew he was trying to seduce me with his bull shit (I follow your work so I know men better, I am much wiser). Yes I was mad but I kept my cool with him. Late last year after we broke off for the last time he had text me that his girlfriend ‘the ex chick’ who was once a friend of mine did not like us communicating and that he had been pressured to text me the message. So what I did, is seduce him and implied I wanted his dick knowing he had a weakness for my pussy ‘you know lol’. I went over to his office and picked his house keys. I had bought a new pair of scissors. I went over to his place and cut all her clothes and shoes. Especially one pair of shoes he had given her as a gift and she flossed on social media saying ‘my boo bought me these’ blah blah blah. I even sent her real time photos as I was cutting them. I text her that her so called man was sucking my pussy, the previous night, while I was wearing her panties lol I was lying but it hurt her. I needed her to picture it.
Maurice replies,
OOOOOOOK…. clearly you were out for some form of revenge. If I may ask, at what point did you break off for good assuming you are now done with him and were you both dating others during your breaks.
She replies,
Maurice it’s like you are reading my mind. I was getting there. Whenever we broke up we were not exclusive. Early last year some married guy I met on social media came for my birthday. He surprised me and all my friends noticed ‘something between us’. Though he gave me space with my friends and just mingled. My boyfriend’s friends went and told him that some ‘dude’ came to my birthday and that we looked close. My boyfriend was not in attendance cause he had to travel. He later asked me and I told him that yes a male friend came to my birthday and after he persisted with many questions I admitted that this man had given me the best sex ever. That nigga can suck pussy!!! He wasn’t happy as you can imagine but he had prior hurt me numerous times with stories of his team mafisi behaviours. That was the beginning of the end or so I thought.
Maurice replies,
So what’s the story with you and married guy and what do you mean by ‘so I thought’?
She replies,
My ex is now texting telling me how he regrets his actions and that he wants me back. Anyway, I met the married guy and we hit it off. This man totally gets me. We can talk for hours and he can take me places for hours if you know what I mean #shymoment. He just gets me. He is not pushy and he knows how to make me feel like a woman. I guess his patience and maturity helps. For example, there is time we hookup for some nasty night of pleasures but for some reason my body was not feeling the whole venture. Unlike most men who would behave like apes that have been denied sex, he just engaged in conversation and watched me sleep. When I woke up he was by my side and he cooked me a full English breakfast. Like I said he gets me and he makes me smile. It’s the small things that us women really care about and he encompasses those things.
Maurice replies,
I hear you. What I have gotten from this story is that your boyfriend dated a girl, she got married, quit the marriage and at some point came back to your boyfriend. I understand you were on and off but you were in this web of relations. So what advice do you seek from me?
She replies,
My ex is on my case. Now what could he be wanting from me after he made it clear he had a girlfriend, he says he misses me and what we had and that he loves me?
Maurice replies,
In my opinion, your ex just knows that he has gotten away with his team mafisi antics plenty of times before, he is good at feeding women with the stories of hope they want to hear and that is why he is so confident in his pursuit. He is also channeling your emotional competitive side as women, creating a scenario where two women hate each other and never the man who inflicts all the pain. Unless you are turned on by relationship disorder you would be wise to explore new territories and take a needed long break from that love triangle.
She replies,
Do you think this married guy is an option?
Maurice replies,
I am not a big fan of titles. I only seek happiness for all those who approach me and at times that happiness does not materialize in a conventional manner. What I would like to know is…. does he make you happy, do you feel good around him, has he a way of reminding you that you are sexy and luring. If the answer is yes, then explore, have fun, take a break from buying scissors and enjoy more best sex & English breakfasts. Invite happiness to your soul and go with the flow. If I may add, I hope there is squirting in all this sexual exploration before and after English breakfast, just saying!
She replies,
Funny you mention. He attended a session with you years ago. He said you taught him a few tricks so yes he does make me squirt, like loads, the bed is soaked until sleeping becomes a problem but I am not complaining. His wife refused to go for the session sighting it is unholy. Too bad for her I am going to enjoy the fruits. Thank you Maurice. I knew I could count on you to give me needed perceptive. By the way, there is a girlfriend of mine who needs a really good fuck and to learn to squirt. Can you organize, she is willing to pay. She says free is cheap so she wants orgasmic guarantees.
Maurice replies,
You are very welcome my dear. Tell her to contact me, I can facilitate for one’s fantasy/fetish.
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I so feel her. How it happens I don’t know but married men just get you. Girl go have more breakfast lol.
Great advice Matheka. I love your brutal honesty and realism.