Dear Matheka,
Happy New Year. I hope you are keeping well since our session in November. I recall you asking for feedback so here goes. Firstly, I would like to thank you for the eye opening candid chat we had during our session. It was depressing to have you confirm a few things about my marriage but I guess I always knew but lived in denial for many
years. Secondly, apart from my sexual life, which I will go into, I am thankful for the information you shared which hit home in relation to my marriage. My husband and I had a serious talk where we looked at our viable options and we recently decided not to get a divorce but live together as friends. Frankly, a divorce would be too expensive and we feel our kids still need both of us to live under one roof. Even though my husband refused to attend our initial consult session he agreed with 80% of what you shared with me. We have a guest wing and that is where he will be living and we shall review that status after 2 years. Our discussion also touched on the sensitive matter of dating other people and we came to a mutual agreement. We have a transition to adapt to but I am confident that the harmony you spoke about will be achieved.
Now to my sex life. I have consistently followed your program on a daily basis and I must admit true to your word you have transformed my womanhood. Like I said when we first met, I thought squirting and even multiple orgasms was a myth but I guess when you are dealing with the maestro himself aka vagina whisperer, you can’t fail. I also discovered what you meant when you told me that my vagina does not respond to social
defined labels but responds to a stimulus which contradicted what we are taught by society, that you will only enjoy sex with the man you love. Your stimulus theory has been confirmed repeatedly because despite loving him and thinking of him as my ultimate man, sex with my husband was nothing but obligational and has been for years. Then a week into our session I applied what you taught me with some other guy and the water works were in full display. He even commented ‘your husband doesn’t appreciate this’, I had to tell him that it had never happened with any other man. You should have seen the pride in his face, as if he had conquered the World. Just as instructed I told him to patiently alternate between licking my urethra zone and my clit. I felt the build up and he told me to let go. I splashed on his face. He got up with this mighty look on his face totally convinced he could move Mountains and like you recommended I gave him the credit. Oh, before I forget, I ventured out and tried out my
fantasy with a woman and I love it. It was by far the most sensual sex I have ever experienced. All in all my sex life and over all outlook on life has changed. As you well noted, one of my main issues was that I was a stickler for societal rules and morals. I have since learnt to be more flexible in my day to day life. I have also learnt to find happiness within myself instead of relying on external love and affirmation. I believe that the work you do is critical in changing mindsets and giving people direction in their relationships. Many of us are sold into the Disney version of marriage ‘happily ever after’ and to be perfectly honest, if I could turn back time, I would never have rushed for a marital status that would become my source of misery for 8 years out of 9. Anyway enough with memory lane, I will now only focus on the things that bring me joy and Matheka you have bought me a lot of joy and I will be forever indebted to you. I have asked a friend of mine to see pronto, she is also a member of the denial club and I know she will benefit from your session(s). God bless you and have a marvelous 2018.
ps: when I googled you and saw you rate card I thought you were too affordable considering the value you offer. I think you should charge a premium rate, after all what value do people put on their relationship. Having been a participant of an extravagant wedding, I now believe people spend unnecessary amounts, hundreds of thousands, millions on their wedding day. So they should equally want to pay premium to sustain their relationship. Food for thought.
Maurice replies,
Thank you so much for the feedback. The above is what keeps me motivated to do my job. It is important that one finds inner peace and happiness. It is equally important for people to understand the social variables that determine a functional cordial relationship opposed to a relationship that offers nothing but boredom, misery, insecurity and an assortment of emotional constant distress. Psychology teaches us that there is how you think things should be and then there is the reality of how things will undoubtedly be if you do not adopt a program to cultivate an endless yield of mutual goals, desires and aspirations that nurture a loving and conducive relationship between two people. As long as I can help one person at a time, that’s fulfilling enough for me. Have yourself a superb 2018.
In 2018, more couples need to embrace sexual knowledge and discovery.
More women need sexual liberation, they should learn how to orgasm to the point of squirting.
We must all say NO to FGM aka STOP the cut.
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#teammasimba
confidence and self esteem was at its lowest point but through our sessions I gain self awareness and inner love for myself that had be beaten out of me for 9 years. Marriage is overrated and until I met you I actually thought it was my fault that my husband repeated emotionally crucified me. If I knew then at 22 what I know today I would have taken my time before getting into marriage of which I thought was the epitome to becoming a woman. I believed in my husband, he was my King almost a God in my World. How could a man who loved me hurt me was my thinking. I always heard women complain about men but I told myself that my baby was different, he was the exception to the rule. Little did I know he fed me a false narrative, constantly seduced me with his charming ways as he cultivated relationships with other women who facilitated in his sexual escapades. Then I met Matheka. The man who tells you as it is and truth be told I kind of hated you for telling me the truth about my marriage. One trait I hope you maintain is your ability to listen, that was refreshing. You let me vent without judgement and for that I appreciate your patience.
towards sex has totally changed for the better all thanks to you. When you kept saying you teach a woman to own 70% of her ability to orgasm, I had no idea what you meant but now I know and I am a beneficiary of your teachings. Excuse my TMI moment but after months of practicing the vagina muscle movements you taught me, I had sex with that stud I told you about and he was so thrilled when I squirted. The man can’t stop texting and calling me, he always finds an angle to bring up squirting. It’s laughable, the things that excite you men but I am not complaining. After your counsel I am getting to learn the true nature of men rather than the mythical man most of us women want men to be. Matheka, because of you and I never thought I would say this but I am able to have casual sex and enjoy sex like never before, whom am I kidding, in my marriage orgasms were miracles almost unheard of but today I can make it rain lol. As you can see I am on a roller-coaster which was influenced by you. You took me from a very dark place to a place full of peace, hope and happiness. Thank you for all that you did for me and I hope my story will encourage other women to spread their wings and rediscover themselves. Be blessed Matheka.
that her pussy was sweet (words my husband would never use), apparently her pussy makes him really hard, is he bewitched? He told her he loved how she gave him a blow job and how he got turned on when she swallowed his cum. He also said “my wife would never allow such”. In the 14 years I have known this man he has never asked or shown interested in such acts. Our sex has never gone for longer than a few minutes and because he is the only man I have known sexually I thought we were both happy. Matheka, this man has shocked me, he is very prayerful and extremely strict in his home. I really don’t know what has happened to the man I knew, how can my husband text another woman how he longs to eat her pussy all night long when he has only given me minutes! Is it possible for a man to have double personality?



lick her private parts, am not sure which is which. She tries to touch and suck my member during sex and it feels very uncomfortable when she sucks me. There is a time I felt like doing my business in her mouth and she was not fearing me cumming, what is wrong with this woman. I told her about my past sex life where I would climb the woman and after I was done that was it. She told me there was more to sex between a man and woman. She tells me to hold it in and I can’t. it is alleged men go for long like 10 to 15 minutes, is this even practical? I do not know why she insists on this kind of engagement.
I have been trying to slow things down in relation to our overly active kinky lifestyle. I have been hinting that I want to settle down with her but she has resisted claiming that we are fine as we are. She even put me in a situation where I had to make her choose between me and her girlfriend.
within the confines of my home but I never felt threatened until she walked out when I asked her to choose between us.
watching her make out with other women and I am sure you indulge in threesomes and more, am I on the right track?
of me finding out and that made me feel vulnerable. I asked him why would he cheat, and his reply was “you lied to me years ago, we made a pact that if ever we were to get married we would not be sexually conservative like most married people” he added “you have declined all our opportunities to explore our kinky side and have concentrated squarely on your career and family life forgetting that your man needed your undivided attention, so when you failed to deliver I opted for other fruitful avenues”. I asked him, did you have to fuck my friend. He replied, you were the one who fed her information about your short comings and she availed herself , I could not resist her offer. She knew exactly what I wanted and she offered with extra bonuses, deal with it, this is a situation of your own making.
your husband has already nurtured a connection with her then it is only logical in the realm of sexual preference to involve her. There is a high probability that he will not connect with any other women you may want to involve at this junction, perhaps later. Blatantly omitting her will also make you look sexually insecure and that won’t trigger well in your sexual escapades with your husband. Remember you need to showcase the kinkier you not the vulnerable wife! Plus we don’t even know whether she would like to be party to any of this. Anyway, that’s my professional advice, mine is to share crucial key indicators, what you do from there on is your choice.

statements about the relationship setting we should maintain to out survive other relationships. Your share on male psychology really hit home and made sense even though at times I wish some realities were not so. I appreciated that you were not conservative with the truth. I believe I am more informed on how to communicate with my husband going forward. I will do whatever it takes to please my man and keep him seeing me not only as his wife but more importantly for him to see me as his relevant sexual mate. Thank you for your professionalism and guidance.
all around us and some leave a sweet taste in our mouth. Again, I can only speculate at this point but it is fact that office romance is on the rise Worldwide. When you spend 40 to 60 hours with specific office colleagues a gradual connection develops, it starts with innocent coffees and lunches then it becomes routine, you and that person begin to share and at some point your union becomes an addiction. You can’t wait to see that person, they make you feel whole, you get a sense that they understand you better than anyone and yet it is usually artificial feelings that may manifest as love or a strong liking for someone otherwise known as infatuation.




Something told me to go through her phone and to my horror she has been drugging me with sleeping pills and sneaking off to the guest room at the far end of our home to screw my nephew. From the chats I can tell its been going on for awhile and here I thought my marriage was on full throttle. I can’t even tell my brother that his son has been fucking my wife. It would be a family scandal. She is such a slut.
seen or imagined a woman could squirt within minutes. I could not believe my eyes when I managed to accomplish that for my wife. At first though, I was not understanding the technique but once I understood the flood gates began. After a lot of practice I now understand what you call ‘the swelling of the inner upper wall’. She has been squirting continuously, our only issue is wet sheets but like you said better a wet then a constant dry bed. The session was out of this World. I tell you us men have a lot to learn but the problem as I told you is that many of us think we know it all. I must confess I was once that man but since reading your blog and finally interacting with you I am a changed man and for the better because now my wife can orgasm and squirt and that was unheard of in our matrimonial bed. I must also mention how professionally you conduct yourself together with your session partner. Kweli this was your calling. I am yet to gain the skill set you presented but I am getting there. I will definitely refer my friends to try out package 6. My only question is, how do you get a woman to squirt with the tongue motion you showed us, I have forgotten, I was too engrossed in what you were demonstrating. You said it was around the urethra area, can I video call you show use once more?