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Mr Matheka. I hope this finds you well. I have a pressing matter and I was referred to you by a counsel that I had initially consulted. He was not able to satisfy my quest, he implied you were more open to tackling sexual matters.

Maurice asks,

What is your issue?

He replies,confusedblackmale

Firstly, I am 36 years old. I am an accomplished Engineer and a giver at heart. My issue is about a lady who is currently in my life. She is 25 and jobless. I cater for all her needs. I bought her an apartment and a car. I maintain her day to day life and I do my best to love her but after all this pampering she dares to insult me with her sexual needs.

Maurice asks,

Would you say you are conservative?

He replies,

Matheka, don’t get me wrong. I am exposed, in my studies I have traveled the World but I do not see why I should indulge in unnatural acts. For example, she wants me to suck orblowjobebony lick her private parts, am not sure which is which. She tries to touch and suck my member during sex and it feels very uncomfortable when she sucks me. There is a time I felt like doing my business in her mouth and she was not fearing me cumming, what is wrong with this woman. I told her about my past sex life where I would climb the woman and after I was done that was it. She told me there was more to sex between a man and woman. She tells me to hold it in and I can’t. it is alleged men go for long like 10 to 15 minutes, is this even practical? I do not know why she insists on this kind of engagement.

Maurice replies,

What you may call unnatural acts are natural sexual acts for many people in our ever evolving World. You may be well traveled but I have a feeling your travels were about your studies and field of expertise so I highly doubt you dabbled in sexual exploration hence your demeanor. There is actually nothing wrong with your sexually preference, each to their own, but your problem is stemming from the fact that you are dating a woman who is more versed in the sexual realm. In my professional opinion, a conservative should never date a liberal because at some point your persona differences will creep up and begin to tare into your relationship.

He replies,

I have told her to quit behaving like she does. Considering I am running her existence can she not sacrifice her ungodly exposure and settle with me without stressing my life.

Maurice asks,

I am curious, for how long have you dated her?

He replies,

I have known her for almost 2 years. By the way, I consider her my second wife. I am married with children. I want to tame her. She needs to conform to my traditional lifestyle.

Maurice replies,

If I may ask, did you not begin your relationship with her for her to be your fun factor considering you have a wife?

He replies,

Yes, I got bored with my wife and found a lot fun with her. What is your point?

Maurice replies,

Well, you may not understand male sexual psychology but the fact is if you attempt to change her, when she is meant to be your girlfriend not wife, you will only be molding another wife and at some point you will again find boredom in another woman and the circle will repeat itself. You will replace her, I guarantee you. For whatever reason you found your wife boring and proceeded to seek thrills elsewhere, men do this all the time. But I urge you not to transform your girlfriend into a wife, your mindset, your perception about your union will kill your relationship.

That said, in context, your relationship will be difficult. Unless she is willing to transform into your ideal conservative traditional woman, of which I do not advocate for, I foresee a string of future issues and many will be driven by her resentment towards you. Humans have been known to change their entire character to please others but that creates room for long term resentment. Only you and her can come to a mutual agreement but in an ideal World you would seek out for an equally conservative woman and officiate your second wife union with consent from your wife. Again, I remind you, despite your distaste for cunnilingus and fellatio you engaged another woman for her ability to give you thrills that lack in your home. If you continue with your current trajectory your lust factor for her will disintegrate.

He replies,

I am confident that she will conform otherwise I will take back everything I her availed for her.

Maurice replies,

That my friend is your prerogative. However, in my book it defines you as a man who is willing to use his financial prowess to in-slave a woman. She is most likely grateful that you are taking care of her but do not ignore the fact that there is a part of her that in time will rebel especially if she feels entrapped beyond her threshold to persevere with what she may rightfully perceive as harsh conditions. My job is to highlight the possible social variables that may destabilize your relationship. Take my consult into consideration and re-evaluate you true need for another woman in your life.

He replies,

Matheka, as much as I did not want you to over analyse me, I respect your trade and I will consider your advice. I am curious as to why you did not ask or bring up my wife?

Maurice replies,

Only amateurs would bring up your wife. Your consult was about your relationship with girlfriend. I deal with each case as presented. To give you constructive consult I must address your issue with facts relating to your dynamic and not through emotional disposition or social psychological engineering. People like yourself come to me because my job is not to judge you but to understand your dilemma and give you information, based on a professional perceptive, that will aid in your quest, what you do with that information is entirely up to you.

He replies.

Asante Matheka. If you don’t mind I shall revert back for more consult once I figure out what I want. Be blessed.

Maurice replies,

You are very welcome.


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Dear Maurice,

I am in a real twist and I need your help to figure out things in my life. I have been dating someone going onto 3 years now and it has been exciting but in the last 4 monthsHappy Newlyweds in Front of Mansion I have been trying to slow things down in relation to our overly active kinky lifestyle. I have been hinting that I want to settle down with her but she has resisted claiming that we are fine as we are. She even put me in a situation where I had to make her choose between me and her girlfriend.

Maurice asks,

Interesting, what do you mean by her choosing between you and her girlfriend?

He replies,

One of the things I liked about her when we met is that she is bi-sexual and I love that in a woman. A few months ago we met this girl who she has been sexually involved withebonythreesome II within the confines of my home but I never felt threatened until she walked out when I asked her to choose between us.

Maurice asks,

What is made you feel like settling down?

He replies,

It hit me that I have attended so many of my friends weddings, to be precise four close pals have married. I feel like its my turn. There is also pressure from family to bring them a girl.

Maurice replies,

Many people get to that point in their life where they feel like they need to fulfill some right of passage but you must ask yourself if you truly understand what marriage is. The reason I say this is because I meet plenty of married folk who are regretful, depressed, miserable and bored. Many of them looking for avenues to leave or psychologically detach themselves from their marriage, and when I say many I mean about 90% of people in marriage. I am not trying to discourage you but I need to highlight the facts that I deal with. But most of all I want to deal with your relationship dynamic. From the little you have shared I can tell that you are in a functional relationship based on mutual likes between you and your woman. However I fear, if you do get married your change of mindset within marriage will damage your bond. For example, if you do marry her, will carry on as usual or will you ask her to change?

He replies,

To some degree I will want her to change. I need her to be the mother of our future children. So her dressing and mannerisms will have to change, I mean that is standard rite?

Maurice replies,

That is the problem right there. These so called ‘serious’ relationship are detrimental to others. You want to marry her and you also expect her to conform in accordance to ‘unwritten’ societal rules of how a married woman should conduct herself. That in my opinion is absolute bollocks. I can imagine you will want her to kill her sexual persona or will you allow her to be herself?

He replies,

I know I can’t have a wife who goes around kisses other women so she will have to give up that lifestyle at some point.

Maurice replies,

I can see why she is resisting your advances to settle down. Let me break down, you currently have a woman who facilitates in relation to your sexual preferences. You enjoyebonythreesome III watching her make out with other women and I am sure you indulge in threesomes and more, am I on the right track?

He replies,

Yes, this is our current lifestyle.

Maurice replies,

And you are trying to convince me that you will sacrifice your fetishes and have a content life with one woman, is that what you are saying?

He replies,

Don’t judge me but I will still have that life but with other women. We both know that in the African setting your wife can’t behave like a whore, plus the respect I will grant her will not allow me to look at her in the same way. I need her to be my home maker.

Maurice replies,

With all due respect, that is rubbish. This is why women end up with a raw deal. I am glad that you are being honest but it also proves that you are already preparing your mindset and perceptions towards her to change. Once she becomes your wife you will over time cease to view her as your sexual mate, she will stop being your ‘fun factor’ and that is why you are honest enough to state that you will explore your sexual preferences with other women. Is she aware that you think of her as a whore?

He replies,

I don’t mean it literally. I just need her to act like a wife. But at the moment we are not even talking. Could she be in love with that girl?

Maurice replies,

I don’t think it is appropriate to call your woman a whore and yet if she changes to this morally up right wife you won’t even want to have sex with her. You are embarking on a journey to corrupt your mind towards your woman and that will gradually create a rift between you. My friend, if indeed she is in love with the girl then you might be in more trouble than you think. There is a much higher chance of getting your woman back if she is having an affair with another man, but when it is another woman you will need a miracle to get her back. Take it from me, I have seen grown men crying after realizing that they have lost their woman to another woman. To add to injury, your display of insecurity when you asked her to choose did not help your course. It made you look weak. Give her time to decide what she really wants. I recommend that you rethink your settling down dynamic, let it be inclusive. We both know if you kill her personality you will only seek sexual pleasures and adventures from other women. But if you desperately need to get married to someone who you can control, why not find a conservative submissive character, just saying. I do not subscribe to terminating a woman’s persona and sexual liberation for selfish reasons. If you will it, you can have best of both Worlds with one woman. There is no logical reason for you to mold a woman into someone you will cease to have a desire for. It makes no sense.

He replies,

I hear you bro. Thank you for your comments. I will take a break for a few months and hopefully rethink like you said.


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Dear Maurice,

I need to pour my heart out to someone and you are one of the few people I know might understand my existing dilemma. I have been married for 9 years and to my shock I thought my marriage was fairly good but my husband’s revelations have confirmed to the contrary. We met in campus, dated for 2 years then drifted apart and rekindled 3 years later.

Maurice replies,

What is your dilemma?

She replies,Frustrated Woman Using Laptop

My husband has been having an affair with a good friend of mine and with some other side chick. He forgot to log off our shared laptop and I found conversations between him and the two women. I read enough to conclude that they have been seeing each other for over 2 years.

Maurice asks,

Does he know that you know?

She replies,

Yes he does. I confronted him and he did not deny his involvement with both women. He proceeded to tell me that he is glad that he has been caught, he said he was tired of living a double life. I did my best to hide it but I was terrified because it sounded as if he was about to announce that he was leaving me. I could tell in his voice that he was not afraidSadblackcouple of me finding out and that made me feel vulnerable. I asked him why would he cheat, and his reply was “you lied to me years ago, we made a pact that if ever we were to get married we would not be sexually conservative like most married people” he added “you have declined all our opportunities to explore our kinky side and have concentrated squarely on your career and family life forgetting that your man needed your undivided attention, so when you failed to deliver I opted for other fruitful avenues”. I asked him, did you have to fuck my friend. He replied, you were the one who fed her information about your short comings and she availed herself , I could not resist her offer. She knew exactly what I wanted and she offered with extra bonuses, deal with it, this is a situation of your own making.

Maurice asks,

Is any of what he is saying true? I can only give you conclusive answers about your dilemma with facts, I cannot answer you based on emotions or morals. Did you make that pact with him and have you neglected him as he implies?

She replies,

Yes, we made that pact. But that was years ago. I did not foresee him remembers words we shared while in campus. He has been consistent in his sexual nature but I thought he would tone down once we caught married. I usually have a 50 hour week and I do stay away from home a lot because of work related schedules but I thought he was content with the sex we occasionally have when I am home and during the two week vacation that we take annually, I thought that would sustain him. I admit I have declined all of his sexual adventures but its because I did not deem it appropriate for us to indulge in our once mutual fantasies within our confines of marriage. Was he justified to take those adulterous actions?

Maurice replies,

In all honesty even I would cheat living under those conditions. Your problems begun when you started having your own perception of what marriage should be and you clearly did not loop or consider your husband’s idea of marriage. Do you know how boring ‘confines of marriage’ sounds. I thank you for accepting your part in these revelations. My job is not to question whether your husband was justified or not, that would be counterproductive, my role is attempt to reconnect you that’s if you are interested?

She replies,

He actually gave him two options, to stay and remodel myself to the woman he thought he was married to or to leave him. He said he is not willing to sacrifice his wants and needs in life to survive in marriage. I can’t afford to lose him.

Maurice replies,

Your husband has basically given you a chance to reignite your lust factor and reconnect not just as a married couple but as ‘boyfriend & girlfriend’ and that is one of the stronger ingredients that matter to keep the juices of lust flowing. In my opinion, a marriage with no lust is a dead marriage of convenience. You need to trace back where you left that open minded girl within you and let her back into your relationship, that’s the girl in marriage not the individual you have become. The problem we face in this continent called Africa, is that we don’t envision marriage as a fun place but have for a long time branded marriage as ‘hard’,’difficult’, using words like ‘compromise & sacrifice’ to justify and cushion the imprisoning features within marriage. If you want to out survive other marriages then you cannot conform to societal norms and unwritten strict rules of marriage.

She replies,

You are right. I need to reintroduce him to the girl he once dated. Maurice, I guess sometimes we readjust and fall into a comfort zone which feels safe but as I have witnessed has its downfalls. I will willingly conform to things that my husband likes and it should be easy because I once wanted the same. I am happy we have chatted but what about my friend, she has no idea I know about her sexual affair with my husband?

Maurice asks,

The question is simple, do you hate her or are you open enough to see past that and engage her on a more positive note? Does your husband’s assortment of desires involve third parties like a threesome or a tribbing voyeur fetish. The reason I ask is because ifebonythreesome your husband has already nurtured a connection with her then it is only logical in the realm of sexual preference to involve her. There is a high probability that he will not connect with any other women you may want to involve at this junction, perhaps later. Blatantly omitting her will also make you look sexually insecure and that won’t trigger well in your sexual escapades with your husband. Remember you need to showcase the kinkier you not the vulnerable wife! Plus we don’t even know whether she would like to be party to any of this. Anyway, that’s my professional advice, mine is to share crucial key indicators, what you do from there on is your choice.

She replies,

Wow Maurice, I really appreciate and admire your honesty. It’s now down to me to initiate and show my husband that I still have that naughty girl within me. I just need to find her and have words hehehe. We need to get our man back. Thank you. I will let you know how things go.

Maurice replies,

You are very welcome. If I can help people advance their bond and sexuality I am always game. Please make sure you market me to your friends.

She replies,

I sure will, many need your services. Depending on how things go, would you recommend package 6 for me and hubby, learning to squirt has been on my bucket list I might as well incorporate it into my new sexual journey?

Maurice replies,

First let’s reintroduce your husband to the girl he needs you to be thereafter anything is possible and once you reacquire your sexual bond then we can schedule that session. I have a feeling your husband would be very open to it.

She replies,

Oh, did I not mention he knows you. The other woman he was chatting with shared this article  https://mauricetherapy.com/2016/08/30/threesome-fantasy/  with him and he was extremely open to the content. So I know he will be open to our session with you.

Maurice replies,

That is super. Keep me posted on developments. I wish you the best my dear.


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(our chat before the session)

Dear Maurice,

From what I hear you facilitate for people’s fantasies.

Maurice replies,

Yes I do. What do you have in mind?

She replies,southcoastromance i

My husband and I have been discussing having a threesome for a while now. He is far more adventurous than I am and to be honest this experience is more for me. He has had his share of threesomes in his past relationships. Though I do have one concern, as much as I am willing to bite the bullet I would hate to be in a situation where I am competing with the other woman. Is there any assurance that she will not snatch my man?

Maurice replies,

That is a valid concern. However you need to look at the dynamic where the other woman would have reason to snatch your man, the most common motive is the opportunity to gain finance followed by a mutual attraction that may lead them to an affair. The women I work with are well vetted and work within set guidelines of engagement. In your case, your man wants to give you this experience which only means he trusted you enough to share his desire to make a threesome a reality. If a man merely wanted a threesome it would be far safer to omit you from the equation. The fact that you aware is because you are relevant in his sexual adventures, many wives are not for an array of reasons. I applaud the relationship you have cultivated with your husband. In my experience majority of couples married or not do not have that degree of openness hence the social issues in our society.

in relation to the woman, what are your preferences?

She replies,

He does not like fat women, she needs to be size 10/12. She must be open minded.

Maurice replies,

Don’t you worry, my girls are extremely open minded. Will you engage in anal sex cause only some of my girls will follow through and because that falls under the category of fetishes it will cost more?

She replies,Attractive couple cuddling on the couch

Baby steps Maurice, as I said this will be my first time and I can’t believe we are having this discussion lol. Anal sex will not be on the menu.

Maurice replies,

I will share photos for the two of you to approve then we agree on a date and venue.

She replies,

We would like to have you and your girl over for a weekend, we will book a secluded venue out of town from Friday till Sunday. Is that possible? We also want you to profile us as a couple over the weekend and give us a comprehensive sincere report on where we can improve, do you do that?

Maurice replies,

The weekend stay is possible and yes I will be able to profile you from the minute I arrive to the minute we part ways. As I tell all couples I profile, you need to prepare to hear things about you that you may not necessarily like but knowing the truth will give you the avenue for improvement. It is the difference between having a functional relationship and having a relationship of convenience where both of you just coexist within your own comfort zones with maximum compromise. Just prepare to have a kinky erotic weekend. I will also teach you how to squirt.

She replies,

Wow, are you sure I will and does your girl squirt?

Maurice replies,

Let’s put it this way, you and my girl will be squirting as you go through the motions of the threesome with your husband.

She replies,

You and my husband have similar traits, he will be over the moon when I relay your optimism. Maurice, please give us the best experience. I am counting on you to elevate our sexual connection for the better.

Maurice replies,

Don’t you worry, you will be a rejuvenated woman and your bond with your man will be more solid as you progress in your sexual exploration.

 

Feedback after the session:

Hi Maurice. I hope you are keeping well. I do not know where to the start. The weekend long session was awesome. The sexual segment was great and I was shocked at my ability to squirt (go figure). However, what was most interesting was your eye openingsouthcoastromance lust statements about the relationship setting we should maintain to out survive other relationships. Your share on male psychology really hit home and made sense even though at times I wish some realities were not so. I appreciated that you were not conservative with the truth. I believe I am more informed on how to communicate with my husband going forward. I will do whatever it takes to please my man and keep him seeing me not only as his wife but more importantly for him to see me as his relevant sexual mate. Thank you for your professionalism and guidance.

Maurice replies,

You are very welcome. I thoroughly enjoyed the weekend. Please keep being the woman you are, it is always refreshing to meet a woman who is willing to get out of her comfort zone to explore new ways of relating with her man. As you witnessed, a man is driven by thrills (society calls them cheap thrills but the excitement levels for a man cannot be ignored). A man seeks thrills and fun and if you can be part of the solution (not problem) you will prevail. Oh, before I forget, keep pampering him as you do so well. Every man has a 5 year old within him, when you consistently use your feminine side to pamper a man you will gain from your gestures. One of the problems we have with this equality malarkey is that some women have found it in themselves to become men or rather behave like a man towards their man. If you dare confront a man with male traits you will be commanding him to do what comes naturally and he will go on the defense. Keep up the good work.


 


 

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Dear Maurice,

I have been married for the last 8 years to an amazing soul or so I thought but I have recently found out that she is cheating on me, its an office romance. It has been going on for a long while based on their chats. It broke my heart to know that she has contemplated leaving me for her personal assistant. I have dedicated my life to her and to think I left a man for her, though I don’t regret that I am just wondering how she could throw away all the years we have shared. I am 34 and I don’t think I can start all over and love again.

Maurice replies,officeromancetwowomen

I need to understand your predicament for us to move forward. You are a woman who is married to a woman and your spouse is having an affair with another woman or with a man?

She replies,

My partner is having an affair with a woman. We got married abroad and settled in Kenya some years ago. I was never into women but when we met 10 years ago I knew she was the human being I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. It has not been easy being with a woman in this Country. We have both sacrificed a lot to be together so how in the hell can she complicate my life like this. I have read your blogs for years but never did I think I would be a victim of love. Can I get her back?

Maurice replies,

You need to be honest with me, how is your marriage, is your relationship still functional or have you been in deep stormy waters?

She replies,

I wish I could say we were in a bad place but we are OK at home. We are not as sexual as we once were but we are happy if that makes sense. Could it be my work?

Maurice asks,

Why do you ask that?

She replies,

Last year I received a promotion which came with long hours at work and at times I work late at home. I do a 60 hour week.

Maurice replies,

I cannot be 100% sure but your type of working schedule has been known to drift couples apart. It is not about it being your fault but over a period of time your partner may have felt neglected and succumb to other lures. Social influences of lust are officeromancetwowomen IIall around us and some leave a sweet taste in our mouth. Again, I can only speculate at this point but it is fact that office romance is on the rise Worldwide. When you spend 40 to 60 hours with specific office colleagues a gradual connection develops, it starts with innocent coffees and lunches then it becomes routine, you and that person begin to share and at some point your union becomes an addiction. You can’t wait to see that person, they make you feel whole, you get a sense that they understand you better than anyone and yet it is usually artificial feelings that may manifest as love or a strong liking for someone otherwise known as infatuation.

She replies,

Are you saying there is a chance for us? And if so why would she think of leaving me for this bitch?

Maurice replies,

You must understand that lust is an extremely powerful emotion, it knocks out love any day. Lust causes people to utter all sorts of things because of the psychological charge it delivers. Most of those futuristic promises are usually momentary. So yes, there is a chance that you can revive your bond but it must be a mutual process. You need to calmly confront her and tell her you know about her affair and that you come in peace. She needs to feel secure otherwise if she is faced with a harsh environment then she will put up her defenses. The question is, do you want drama and rage or do you want to establish her true feelings and hopefully work towards mending your relationship. Please note, you need to be ready for the worst, she may want out. But we will cross that bridge if and when we get there. The ball is in your court.

She replies,

But Maurice, why do I have to be civil with her and yet she is the one hurting me?

Maurice replies,

If you want the marriage to survive, you must be civil. If you want to risk it and approach her with your rage and dislike for her then that is your choice but from experience with such cases that course of action will only further deepen the rift between you and pin her firmly in the arms of her lover who will be the consoling factor. If she admits to the affair and you both want to work things out then we can have a session and see how best we can move towards repairing your relationship.

She replies,

I just want her to feel my hurt but I do understand what you are saying. I will talk to her tonight, I need to know where we stand. I will update you. Thank you for your time.


 

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Dear Maurice,

I hope you have been good. I actually did not think I would be calling out for your help again. I don’t think there is anything to save in my marriage anymore. My recent revelations have really drain me and I feel revengeful.

Maurice replies,

I thought 2 years ago I left you and your wife in a better place even though I had warned you there was a chance of the harmony being short lived. What is going on, talk to me.

He replies,

She swore that she would never betray me again and all has been well until the latest discovery. Just over an year ago my nephew came to live with us so that he can attend a local University having relocated from another. My wife has gone back to her ways.worriedman Something told me to go through her phone and to my horror she has been drugging me with sleeping pills and sneaking off to the guest room at the far end of our home to screw my nephew. From the chats I can tell its been going on for awhile and here I thought my marriage was on full throttle. I can’t even tell my brother that his son has been fucking my wife. It would be a family scandal. She is such a slut.

Maurice replies,

Careful with your words, you don’t want to objectify women and piss off feminists. Don’t mind me its an elongated story! Anyway back to you. I did tell you during our one on one session that in my analysis you and your wife were mismatched and she took you as a fool because of your up standing persona. It’s always recommended that you put things into context and in your case your wife married you for the comforts you could provide for her. My honest profile of you back then was that you are actually a nice guy and unfortunately nice guys who end up with a wife like yours get eaten for breakfast knowing she can get away with it. The reality of your predicament is that you have two choices, to stay and coexist without bothering each other or you legally show her the door. As I told you, your wife has an insatiably appetite for sex, she is the true depiction of a nympho of which I know you loved but other than that, she was not of any tangible value to your life.

He replies,suckcock

I know you made your views very clear but I was not ready to let go of my wife. I needed to give it one more shot. I don’t think a separation is the way to go because of my young daughter who is obviously an innocent party. Maurice, I want to hurt her, I am revengeful. I know its not the right thing to do but I need to do it to make myself feel good and give her a taste of her medicine. Her statement in their chats of how she loves to suck his big cock keeps replaying in my head. I need to do something.

Maurice asks,

What did you have in mind?

He replies,

I never did tell you how I met my wife, I mean the in depth story. I used to have a fling with her younger sister and then she came into the picture and dethroned the sister. They did not talk for a long while but they kind of do. However, the sister has constantly tried to lure me back into our affair and I have resisted for the last 6 years. I want to act on man instincts which are telling me rekindle that affair. What do you think?

Maurice replies,

Well, I am Sexologist not a traditional counselor, I sell a cookie, whom you share it with is none of my business. A man has to do what a man has to do. I hear you and understand you. That said, you need to consider the repercussions. She has proven to be a very cunning manipulative she devil who can drug you at a moments notice. I know you will want her to know of your deed with her sister but what if she can somehow prove to the authorities that you are unstable and she takes your daughter away! What if she whispers tales to your extended family, remember that scandal you spoke of! What if she draws the premeditated murder card, my good man you will dead. She has the motive to drug you and stab you in your sleep. I know by reading this you may be suffering from a mynute (minut) stint of erectile dysfunction but the variables must be spelt out before your ‘game of thrones’ venture lands you in a deeper hole, pun intended.

He replies,

Hahaha…. you are still as blunt as you were when I first met you and I respect that. Should I release the video?

Maurice asks,

What video? You have lost me.

He replies,

After my revelations I bugged the room and recorded them having sex.

Maurice replies,

We both know a multitude of people will be affected if you release that video. You entire life may be turned upside down. It’s not worth it mate. Do yourself a favour delete that video if not for you but for your daughter. I can see you are gunning to stir the pot. Do this, call me and I shall lay out a plan that will quench your revengeful thirst without hurting you family. Like I said, I sell a cookie so let me give you a taste of a cookie you will enjoy for a long time to come.

He replies,

Thank you Matheka. I will call you. I need to get somethings out of my system.


 

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Dear Maurice,

I would appreciate your advice. I am 22, an ‘A’ student and currently still studying as I figure out what I want to do with my life. But my relationship is entirely another matter! I have always liked dating an older girl, my previous girlfriend was 21 and I was 16 . Three years ago I met a woman who is 48 and we have dated ever since. She was married once but divorced 6 years ago. We live together and have done for just over 2 years. My problem is that she is overly possessive, she dislikes my pals and hates me around girls my own age. I do not think I can live under her conditions. How can I make her less stressing?

Maurice asks,

Very interesting dynamic, question, how did you meet? And what keeps you together and thirdly what led you to live with her, what do your parents think?

He replies,cougarwithprey

We met at a party, my older brother took me to some party and one thing led to another. She at first gave me a hard time, the whole ‘am too young’ vibe but I persisted and by some luck I got to fuck her. That is when things changed. She began to pursue me ‘guns blazing’, texts every day of how much she missed my dick blah blah blah. It felt good to be told how my dick was much bigger than her ex husband and that I lasted longer than she ever thought possible. She says am cute, and I am equally attracted to her, she has massive boobs and she puts many girls my age to shame. Maurice this woman is FINE. On finding out I was dating an older woman my mum threw me out. Dad had an issue but he did not give me the ultimatums that caused me to leave home. He pays for my education.

Maurice asks,

Do you have much in common in regards to conversation?

He replies,

I believe we do. She has always told me how mature I am but she just hates my other social circle.

Maurice replies,

Let us make one thing clear, my job is not to judge but to give you a practical analysis of your predicament and on that note I must speculate that she caters for you 100% under her roof. She basically caters for your everything is that correct?

He replies,

Yes she does.

Maurice replies,

If you do not mind sharing, can you tell me what she has done for you in way of investment?

He replies,

When we met one of the first things she did was to change my wardrobe and she has consistently kept me fashionable. In May last year she bought me a BMW and it is in my name. The list is endless, she is generous.

Maurice replies,

I hear you, but now my good man, you need to understand the lifestyle dynamic you live in comes with conditions. There is a reason men decline being kept by a woman. Some men have at some point in their life come across a woman who had the financial capacity to willingly take care of them as a trade off for something she craved but those men weighed their options, and though tempting they opted not to subscribe to living conditions that would only be short lived. If you are living under her roof, living off her money then you must abide by her rules or walk away. This is a grown woman with a somewhat set mind mould, there is no changing her perception on how you should behave within her space.

I am curious, when did your problems with her begin?

He replies,

Last year she followed me out of town and caught me red handed with another girl. She really embarrassed me in front of my friends. On the spot, she asked me to make a choice between her and my friends. She gave me 10 minutes as she walked towards her car. I  grabbed my stuff and we left in a convoy. It was a Friday night, it was in Naivasha. We did not even drive home, I followed her into some resort and we spent the weekend there. I thought we were done but clearly she had other plans. I remember she told me as we were fucking that if she ever catches me again we are done. I have been a good boy ever since.

Maurice replies,

I don’t envy you, you have had a taste of good living for the last 3 years. The question is simple, if you want freedom will you muster the will to walk away? It’s a similar choice that young women make when dating much older men. The good life is lustful, its succulent in so many ways, am sure it avails the sexual prowess conditions that keep you shafting her the way you do. My good man, you have a choice to make!

My advice to you, from one man to another. You need to concentrate on your studies and achieve those ultimate grades to secure and steer your own future. She could drop you tomorrow and then what!!!! Make sure she is not your only focus. As for your relationship, keep giving her what she likes (better you than men much older who will fail her between the sheets). In my book every woman deserve a tasty cookie (ok maybe not all). I believe you get my drift. Thank you for sharing your story. I am relieved to know that there is a younger generation of men that represent sexual alphas, I was getting worried!

He replies,

I see your point. Thank you Sir.


 

 

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