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Dear Maurice,

I have been following your work for quite a number of years. I find your insights on human interaction interesting which brings me to picking your brain on my dilemma. Iblackmanwithwhitegirl am a Kenyan but most of my up bringing has been outside the Country. Since I was 16, I have only dated Western girls. My parents gave me an opportunity to discover the World since I was 14. I am 27 years old and successful. I currently work in Vienna. I have three holiday destination that I must visit every year, Spain, Malaysia and Kenya. Kenya is home but it’s not home at the same time, if you get my drift. I always have this culture shock especially on people’s weird behaviours and disloyalty. The amount of money that I have lost due to non starter projects is colossal but that is a story for another day. What is wrong with Kenyan women?

Maurice replies,

What do you mean, be specific?

He replies,

They are always out for money even the ones who earn good salaries. I have dated both younger and older thinking that age would make a difference but all seems to have similar traits. They just use different tactics to lure you into their seductive traps. There is this woman I was dating or so I thought, she was 30 years and successful in her own right but after investing $8,000 in some project we were doing together, I found out that she is married and yet she had told me that she was 4 years into her separation. She talked a good game and I believed her, I had no reason not to. I haven’t lived in a society where you second guess or doubt one’s honesty. Whenever I visited Kenya, I would stay at her place. After she owned up she admitted that was a house her husband was not aware of. His travels for business accorded her social flexibility and cause of work she also does a bit of travel. I was so shocked considering we dated comfortably for 2 years. I only found out when her husband called me and told me to keep off but he was pretty understanding when I made it clear that I was misled. In good conscious I would not date a married woman, that is just a no no but it seems to be normal in Kenya. I ended our relationship in December 2017. In your opinion, why do people get married, what is the point of vows that are hardly kept?

Maurice replies,

The short version of the answer is basically social pressures to qualify and conform to societal/religious expectations. It’s like a way of passage to gain social status and respect. There are couples in Kenya who lead very productive relations but they are the exemption not the norm.

He replies,

I thought so. Out of 12 men who I consider my boys through keeping in-touch, all have a side chick so I get your synopsis of the Kenyan phenomenon. I still have another 7 years out here and I do want to find a worthy woman to make my own but what I have witnessed is not encouraging. I do have a fuck mate in Spain, she is 24, a Spanish beauty, and she knows that one day we shall end our fling but for now we have an incredible sex life, we see each other 4 times a month. She knows about you from me and we tried out your teachings and wow she is such a squirter since last year February. I met her during a 4 day relaxation trip, the irony considering we do not relax whenever we meet lol. I BBWsquirtswas in Kenya in April and I took a trip out of Nairobi with a freaky 26 year old BBWI met online and boy did she show me what Kenya is made of, it was a wild weekend, full of nakedness and squirting, that shit is magical bro. She invited her pal to join us on our second night out there. I was in Kenya for 3 weeks so you can imagine the stuff that went down. My boys got me covered but after all that squirting, the major put off is the random solicitation of money. You have lived out here so you know that shit does not happen over here. Two consenting adults have sex for mutual fun but in Kenya the roller coaster is thrilling however it ends up leaving a bad taste in your mouth when you get the feeling that some woman did you a favour sleeping with you and yet I financially covered for the entire experience. No offense bro, but you guys started a culture of paying for shit that you have no need paying for. I have had Austrian, Spanish, Italian and Eastern European women take me out for dinner or on a trip, and you know how fine they can be, without the sense of doing each other favours, just two consenting adults treating each other to a good time. I am so used to going dutch, so the concept of having to pay for everything is not appealing.

Maurice replies,

I hear you loud & clear, and I do agree that the culture is not the most appealing. Personally, a woman who can spend on me is extremely a turn on. And it’s not about keeping count, but just having a man and woman who do not mind treating each other. Though, some of our brothers claim to feel manly when they take up the tab but still complain about women using them to fellow men! Then again, some have no social skills so the wallet gets them female company.

He replies,

By the way, thank you for your time. This has been good banter. I need to ask though. If I do decide to move back and settle, what would you advise I go for when it comes to finding  what I would deem as a good woman for me?

Maurice replies,

It is all about compatibility but most rely on being loved or loving which is a weak ingredient to sustain any relationship. The question is, what does moving to Kenya look like for you, you need a woman who understands your version of existence rather than the common norm of being a provider just because you happen to have testicles!

He replies,

Hehehe.. I see what you did there. A move to Kenya for me has to be away from the concrete jungle. I would most likely build a cottage like home over looking some amazing scenery. I have been to such homes around Maanzoni. The morning and sunsets are out of this World. I am a consultant so thankfully I would not be confined to an 8 to 5. Have a few top breed dogs. My home must have a clay built hot tub. I am a believer of using building material locally sourced, I love a natural look. It’s like having a mini resort that happens to be your home. Two off road vehicles. I am a Land Rover kind of guy. I have traveled the World and I live a descent life but even then I always subscribe to simplicity in life.

Maurice replies,

Then what I recommend, is that you take you time and find a woman who would love to live your kind of life. If you date a City mentality woman or a woman who will periodically attempt to move you nearer to her comforts you will just experience constant headaches and as you know mara moja does not squirt. I also feel that you will need a woman of your class or by some luck a woman who happens to love the Countryside life you aspire to establish. And this has little to do with her age but everything to do with her chilled out open minded attitude. For example, you cannot live in Maanzoni with a woman who does not appreciate nature, wild animals and especially lacks the love for K9s. If her natural habitat is frequent visits to expensive salons and mall and the oh so frequent ‘ can you do me a favour’ malarkey then my good man you stay in Kenya will be one of discontentment. You have been socialized in a different social order so a typical Kenyan will not suit you. The woman you need is out there, it is a matter of finding her. I believe what you put out to the Universe is what you attract, there is hope, you just need to socialize in the right circles.

He replies,

So true Matheka. I tell you what, I visit in December or April so let us keep the banter spanishsquirtinggoing and we can meet up and  have a good single malt as we discuss my options. Again, thank you for your time. For now, I will maintain my fuck mate relations that keep us mutually entertained in more ways than one. Oh, I should have mentioned, I love a woman who has a bisexual nature. We can’t be in all that wilderness and not explore with a imported third party, you feel me bro?

Maurice replies,

I share your sentiments and I live that reality. You cannot be overly liberal and date an opposite, that is pure madness. I look forward to that single malt.


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Dear Maurice,

I am curious about the Eros group. It is a friend of mine who forwarded one of your ebonyonadatevideos where you have women looking for serious men. I want to join but I want you to clarify a few things about men. I am 37 and I have never been lucky with love. I have dated six men in my life and all turn out to have very different outlooks to life. I want a family. I want a man who is present at all times. I want a man who can play with his children and be there for me at my lowest moments. Are there men out there who want to be serious with a woman?

Maurice replies,

It would be easy for me to tell you that there are plenty of men who can fulfill a woman’s needs but for me to give you an accurate response it is better I give you a view of the broader picture by asking you to clarify a few things. Out of the men you dated, how long was the shortest and longest relationship?

She replies,

The shortest was 4 months and the longest was 3 years.

Maurice replies,

Why did those relationships end and because I know women I request you give me a brief version, be to the point?

She replies,

The 4 month relationship was amazing but I had to flee because the sex ebonyridingbecame addictive and he had already told me that he had come out of a 11 year marriage and was not looking to settle down again. I saw him every week and despite our agreement to be each other’s friend with benefits the feelings flooded in. At that point I asked him to let me go and he did. We were like a couple but not quite, you know what I mean!

Maurice replies,

Yes I do. He was like a boyfriend but without the title.

She replies,whitegirlblowjob

He made me feel things that I was not meant to feel. He had a way of bringing out the white girl in me! He is also the only man to hold me after sex, most just turn round and sleep. He was great at the sentimental parts and for me that just made me fall deeper for him. I respected him for his honesty from the onset.

Maurice replies,

What about your longest relationship, why did that not work?

She replies,

The man was married. Matheka, when I met him through a work’s seminar I told him that I do not do married men but he persisted. He is a senior guy and could not take no for an answer. He showered me with gifts at the office and I found myself loving the attention. He was a gentleman and never pressured me for sex for about 9 months, then he flew us to Australia and that is where we had sex for the first time.

Maurice replies,

What kept him relevant for 3 years considering he caused you to break your married men rule, were you deeply in love, was it the sex, did he promise to make you his second wife?

She replies,

If I am honest, his networks and what they did for me made him as you say relevant. Did I love him, yes but I have loved more before. He treated me like a woman would like to be treated and his ability to open doors for me was an added bonus. Because of him I live in the home I have always wanted. He did not buy me my home he just made it possible for lucrative tenders to come my way. I left him earlier this year when I found a text message between him and a much younger woman. He is 52 and his wife is 44. I confronted him and he did not deny that he was having a fling with her. As we exchanged words, he reminded me of all the things I had gained from knowing him and told me I had no right to question because his own wife doesn’t. After that I knew it was time to leave.

Maurice replies,

So here we have a profile of two men who you were involved with and both had their unique relevance. Out of the six men, is there a worthy additional profile you would like to mention?

She replies,

Actually Matheka, the shortest relationship was about a month but he is not worth mentioning. Out of the six, the two are the only ones I connected with.

Maurice replies,

If I may ask, your lover who was married for 11 years, did he by any chance tell you why his marriage ended?

She replies,

He said at their 6th year, they stopped being friends and that the idea to marry only came about when she got pregnant. It was more family pressure than them wanting to get married at that point of their life. Their divorce was a mutual decision. What I admire about them is that they found a way to still be civil and friends. I would over hear them talking family things on the phone and she once found me at his place and funny enough she was absolutely cool. Then again, he had told her about our arrangement.

Maurice replies,

So to answer your question. Whenever women look for a boyfriend, companion, partner, lover, husband, whatever you label those potentials! The one word that truly ‘fucks the broth’ is the word ‘serious’. What they need to be looking for is a man who can be their best friend, a man who can hold an honest conversation, and not a man who can say all Black couple having an argumentthe right things. This is where women come to regret that word ‘serious’ when they end up with a man who seriously lies, seriously tells a woman what she wants or needs to hear, a man who says he loves you out of obligation but also tells others he loves them but in this regard the ‘I love you’ is based on how he is made to feel by external influences. A man who is serious can seriously hurt you, it is important to remember that. The couples I have ever met who I can confidently say have a functional relationship, all have something in common. No, it is not love but genuine friendship. Their relevance for each other is maintained by brutal honesty whether good or bad. They allow themselves to cry and have fun together. It is a friendship that lacks in many marriages in my experienced opinion. The other thing, and I really wish men were more honest about this. Men do not mind being providers but many today are tired of having that label define them. Economic times have changed and many men do not prescribe to women who believe in ‘my money is mine and his money is ours’ mentality. blackmanstressedI know for a fact that this reality is causing men to withhold financially. Men are always seeking thrills, if you are not part of the thrill you are part of the problem. There must be a balance between family and fun. Some will say, fun does not pay bills or school fees, which is true. But remember thrills and fun cause erections which are not evoked by bills! Even those tenders are driven by heightened testosterone which allows for doors & vaginas to open alike! One must always find their relevance and work on maintaining it without affecting the relationship psychology. The simple equation is to meet a bigger pool of men, not for sex, but to enable you to meet an assortment of characters who you can evaluate and hopefully find compatibility rather than falling for any man just because he seems to say all the right things and most likely he is in a position to fulfill your eagerness to get married. Thereafter you become my client complaining how you gain the title but lost the man. There are also times when unknowingly women have met a perfect guy but spoil it by displaying insecurity and neediness that renders a woman unattractive.  Again, know your relevance.

It is far better to meet a man who tells you things you would rather not hear but makes it his life to protect you and be your exclusive man not because he has to but because he made a conscious decision to share good and bad times without feeling obligated to that course of life.

She replies,

Wow, I was not aware of so much. There is such a major difference between men and women. But Matheka, men are not speaking out their truth.

Maurice replies,

You are right. Many of my brothers are pretending in silence. It is time for men to tell it as it is otherwise our social problems will only get worse.

She replies,

Matheka, I am willing to go by your guidance. I need to find this potential friend and hopefully we can be genuine enough to find mutual interests and map out a future. What I do know is my age bracket of interest is mostly of men who are married so I hope we can find at least a divorcee.

Maurice replies,

Only time will tell, I shall do my best.


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Dear Maurice,

May I start by saying, that I was utterly gobsmacked to find a therapist of your liberal demeanor in Kenya. One of my Kenyan girlfriends referred me to your blog and I must say I was pleasantly surprised after perusing through your posts. I am a British lass or woman which ever you prefer. I have some troubling revelations to share and I seek interracialcoupleresolution from you. I am married to a Kenyan man from the Agikuyu tribe. I am 26 and he is 29 years old. We have been married for 3 years so I find it odd that I write you with a disturbed mind in our early years of marriage. We met  6 years ago in the UK while he was pursuing his post graduate. He was charming, romantic and funny. I have a thing for a man who can make me laugh and be goofy at times. I must admit he was my first black man so a heightened level of curiosity drove me to want to traverse, if you get my drift. He promised me the World and while we were in the UK, the World was my oyster but ever since we moved to Kenya things have gone from bad to worse. We moved here in March 2018. We both secured employment before moving so on that front all is well. Then again his family is minted, but that was never an attraction. I am more about character and the character I am witnessing is not the exotic loving man I once met.

Maurice replies,

What has changed?

She replies,

Why do I begin. He leaves me in the house to socialize which he never did when we were back in the UK. Something about it being a bad look to have your wife gallivanting in certain social gatherings. He used to take me every where with him. We would go for our weekly curry, Cinema, fun take outs with close friends, indoor movie/popcorn nights and trips exploring together. He used to cook for me more often than I did for him. He was interracialcouplekitchenlovethe icing on the cake. I was so thoughtful compared to any other boyfriend and that’s saying a lot considering all were right proper gents. I have never had a bad apple until now. I love him but I do not think I can tolerate his behaviour for much longer. His family and friends keep telling me that this is acceptable behaviour. This may be customary in Kenya but I am not having any of it. I told my ma and she advised I get on a plane back home. I have two burning questions, is it normal for a man’s friends to hit on you even though they know that you are married to their friend and my second question is why do people here find it weird that in life couples fall in and out of love all the time? I ask because my Kenyan friends do not get it that my exs were all great men but due to circumstances and a shift in life trajectory we parted amicably. In my view, people here tend to tolerate and accommodate situations that cause them misery for years.

Maurice replies,

I can see you have profiled a Kenyan dynamic that sadly exists and all manner of traditional & cultural excuses have been established to maintain status quo. To answer your first question, the reason why you find men hitting on someone’s wife is simply because we adopted a culture of disrespecting the sanctity of marriage. It is human to be attracted to a fellow human that bears your attributes of attraction however it should be the sanctity that presents itself by way of wedding band that prevents you from courting that person. That unfortunately is not the case in my Country. Hence why we have the mafisi & fisilet epidemic. Are you aware of this phenomenon?

She replies,

Yes I am very much aware of this sub-species that plagues your country.

Maurice replies,

Plagues is the appropriate description. To answer your second question, there is this delusion, also known as social teaching that empowers people with the notion that love is forever like in Vampire movies, a thousands years and what not, you get the gist! Whether people are miserable or not divorce is a no no and separation is also frowned on though more and more Kenyans are moving away from the mentality of settling for bullshit.

She replies,

Which takes my back to my case. I cannot take anymore of this bollocks, excuse my French. I told my husband that we need to see an expert in sorting out couple relations and he said he is fine with it but in the same breathe said that for him to be a man ininterracialcouplepregnant Africa things will change a bit and that he still loves me. Which if you ask me is absolute hogwash. You actually sorted out a friend of a friend’s marriage. I am sure you have plenty of sessions but you had several therapy sessions with them and the good review was that you sorted their relationship friendship and sex life. My sex life is amazing but I just need the Kenyan man I met in the UK back. One of the reasons why I sought you out is because we are planning to start a family next year now that we have settled down as per our schedule. Even though I work, I never want to feel like all I am worth is being a submissive wife and bearing his children, plus washing after him which I can never be. If I cannot have him back I would rather cut my losses and head back home. Maurice, if you could see me I am biting my tongue with loads of curiosity. As I was researching on you I came acrossinterracialcouplekissing articles that you have written about squirting. I know it is off topic but it got me so damn curious. YOU TEACH WOMEN HOW TO SQUIRT, yes the cabs were necessary wow wow wow. I know of a lady who happens to be a sex therapist in Australia who teaches women how to orgasm but not in a million years did I expect to find a man of your skill set in Africa. I tell you what, if you give me back the husband I know, I will definitely have that squirting session with you. I need my man back and you need to get him back for me. My husband travels a lot but he will be available mid September. We would like to have our therapy session at our home in Kitisuru. I will confirm suitable dates then we align with your availability. Thank you Maurice and thank you for your time. No pressure but you are the only person standing between me and a flight back to Stratford-upon-avon.


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Dear Maurice,

Have you ever had everything you wanted to say formulated in your head but once it came to sharing everything scatters lol. About 3 weeks ago my husband showed me your Whatsapp status and he was so excited by your raw views on sexuality. Plus I must admit it was a turn on for both of us, enough said lol. How he got your number is a story for another day. I have been married for 23 years. I am 42 and my husband is 53. We have 3ebonycouple children. I actually met you at a talk you gave in a bridal shower in 2010 but I will not lie to you, I was not attentive during your session mainly because my thoughts were elsewhere on that day. So, I have been researching on your work. I have gone through your blog and watched all your YouTube videos, very interesting find. I even shared your packages with hubby and we have agreed that I need to rediscover myself as a woman. I know for the last 19 years I have been more of a mother than a sexual wife so it is of a matter of urgency that I experience package 4b. We will then have package 6 with my husband at a later date. I know you have heard these couple stories and they all start sounding the ebonycouplemakeoutsame but I am grateful that my husband and I have always told each other the hard truth, even truths that should have broken us but we stand together no matter what. Like I said, I have not been the best wife in the bedroom department and neither has he been a great husband. He has 9 affairs to his name, some were inadvertently caused by me pushing him away and others were more about the thrills men seek. But anyway, that is water under the bridge, 2 years ago we mutually decided that we are going to rekindle our friendship and sex life. We also want a sex show in October because this time round our anniversary needs to be kink and fun none of these dinners and family parties that get you no sex at the end lol.

Maurice replies,

I applaud you for the maturity you possess and I am glad you found a way to move forward rather than dwell on the negatives of the past. I wish more couples would project their energies towards logical solutions instead of living in the past.

She replies,

I guess maturity comes with experience and right choices. There is something you said 9 years ago and only recently did it hit me that you were so right.

Maurice replies,

I have said many things over the years, please remind me.

She replies,

You pointed out that people tend to work on their family growth and careers at a much higher intensity and dedication compared to the attention they give their nucleus relationship which at some point begins to become a secondary entity/thought. It is sad but so true. I witnessed that in my own marriage. I used to demand a lot of family order, structure and respect from my husband until I noticed when it was too late that I had pushed him away. He would love his family and provide very well but his attraction for me had decreased. The day he told me I went from being a sexy girlfriend to being his mother was hurtful but true. Us women never like being wrong, we are quick to point the finger at our men, but at times we are the problem. But despite the past, after 23 years, I am still learning new things about my husband and soon with your help I want to transform into the sexual Goddess you keep talking about. You have actually had one on one sessions with 4 women I know and their reviews are the reason why I am sure you will make a difference in my knowing myself sexually. I am so envious of them so this needs to happen asap. Oh and by the way, my husband likes slender girls, so the sex show must have a girl of his liking, as for me anything goes. I need to ask, will I be allowed to make out with the girl. I used to have a bi-sexual life, we even had a drunken threesome with hubby when he was my new boyfriend then marriage and family happened, and our sex life went to the dogs!

Maurice replies,

When you say sex show, I assume that you want to watch a woman and a man in the sexual display of foreplay and sensual erotic love making?

She replies,

Yes that is exactly what we want. We shall have package 4b first then because we want an out of town session, we will combine package 6 with the sex show.  That means it will be you and a team of two is that right?

Maurice replies,

That is correct.

She replies,

Maurice, I am sure you get all manner of questions. I was going to ask you this when weebonyblowjob meet but it is burning me. After my husband and I decided to rekindle and explore on our own we got into a habit of masturbating together in bed, normally triggered by the porn we watch together from our iPad, is this normal? Do not get me wrong, we love our new found freedom of expression but at our age we always have a laugh that we were past this kind of behaviour. Hubby is specific in his fetish nowadays, he is really into going down on me and blowjobs. He loves it when he cums in my mouth. I love it when he watches me masturbate and cum.

Maurice replies,

The word normal does not apply. Anyone having normal sex is most likely not enjoying it. You mentioned two key things that you share with your husband, freedom and the space to laugh. Unfortunately the majority of couples don’t share such freedoms and they don’t share meaningful laughs. If you and your husband have found a thrill factor inclusive of fetishes that excites you and reignites a sexual bond between you then, and mind my french, FUCK SOCIETY, just do you and ignore the negativity and judgement that’s out there. It is never too late to reinvent your sexual bond and experience pleasures you never thought possible. It is also about uplifting your self esteem, I am going to teach you how to own your sexuality.

She replies,

Your understanding is so refreshing. Will I learn to make myself squirt and I must learn how to achieve an inner vagina orgasm?

Maurice replies,

You can count on it. This will be the beginning of your sexual transformation as a woman. You may need two sessions to get you to the point you can orgasm through intercourse but you will get there. It is down to your commitment to this journey.

She replies,

Maurice, I do not have another 23 years to waste so I am fully committed. You might have to move into our neighbourhood so that you can be easily accessible lol.

Maurice replies,

I like the fact that you find time for humour, that’s a good social trait.

She replies,

Great chatting Maurice. I will send you a deposit as show of my seriousness then we have our first session before you head off to Watamu, you see I am following youkeenly. Be blessed and keep doing what you do. Good day.


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Dear Maurice,

I really need your help! I am desperate for a solution.

Maurice asks,

What is going on?

She repliesworriedebony

My fiance is being very controlling and dictating a lot to me and my family. We are meant to get married in September this year and he just wants a simple wedding whereas I want a white wedding with my family and friends plus all the trimmings.

Maurice replies,

When you say a simple wedding please expound.

She replies,ebonywedding

He wants a small church service for about 2 hours max. He says we will have both families at the service, serve them tea and accompaniments, thereafter we have an after party with only his friends and my friends, no family allowed. The reason I need your help is because after I complained he told me to either go along with his plan or the entire wedding is off. Don’t you think he is being unfair?

Maurice replies,

Well, it is not really about being unfair, my first impression is that your relationship has a very weak foundation because at this point the two of you should not be dictating to each other, it highlights an eventuality where your marriage will never be functional, you will gain titles but not each other. If I may, I need to ask you a few questions, I feel as if there is a back story that may reflect on your current predicament.

She replies,

I am not following. Are you saying he has a right to treat me like this?

Maurice replies,

Absolutely not. But that said, you must be truthful so I can make a factual deduction of your relationship. How old are you and how old is he? For how long have you been dating and how did you meet? What led him to propose? If you can share then perhaps I can help you.

She replies,women-arguing

I am 24 and he is 39 years old. We have been dating on and off for 4 years. I have known him since I was 16. He has not told me why he proposed but he had two options and he chose me. I have had a crush on him since I was in high school. He used to date my neighbour who was friends with my older sister. I never disclosed my feelings until later on when I found out from social media that he was fucking a close friend of mine and yet she knew how I felt about him.

Maurice asks,

So he dated your older sister’s friend who I can only assume lived with her parents, is that correct and how old is your sister?

She replies,

My sister and her friend are age mates, they are 31. Yes she lived with her parents but in the guest wing. It is a separate house in the compound.

Maurice asks,

Your friend whom you found out was seeing your crush and current fiance is your age mate?

She replies,ebonystudymates (2)

We were best friends and classmates since high school. We shared all our secrets, I did not expect her to back stab me. She said she messaged him on facebook in 2014 and one thing led to another. Apparently it was just a fling. But I found out they were still seeing each other after I started to see him. He told me she was not willing to let him go and that he would end it without pressures from me. He told me to back off otherwise he would leave us both. I let him be and I believe they stop communicating last year in November. She does text him but he shows me all her stupid love text then he deletes them in-front of me.

Maurice replies,

I am curious, not that people should get married by any particular age or time, but has he ever told you if he was ever married or why he has waited to get married now?

She replies,

While he was fucking my friend he was in a serious relationship for 5 years but it did not work out because at the time he was not ready to have children, that is what he told me.

Maurice replies,

I am guessing your on and off was because you were sharing him with your friend?

She replies,

He was seeing her like a sponsor fuck mate arrangement and still playing mind games with my sister’s friend, the one he had a ‘serious’ relationship with. So now he said that during their fling he fell in-love but when I came along he got confused because he suddenly loved us both.

Maurice replies,

Let me ask you, does he financially support you during all these love triangles?

She replies,

What are you getting at?

Maurice replies,

I am trying to understand his relevance despite his obvious manipulative character. You say he plays mind games so in my view I feel for a man to become centre of focus for three women he must possess a character trait where he carefully chooses his words to create a reality that keeps him relevant and once you blend that with finances you have an intoxicating cocktail of seductive tales but a very cunning and ingenious man.

She replies,

Are you saying he is playing me as well?

Maurice replies,

We can debate that till the cows come home but what is clear is that you are most likely his best option. He may love you and I am sure he tells you that more often than the average man but I fear that it may not be the kind of love you subscribed to. I sense a character in him that will groom you into the type of wife he needs. And I mean wife, not lover, not a friend but a wife, a woman who will facilitate for his homely and family needs assuming he now is ready to procreate. He may be a great husband to a woman who seeks to be submissive at all times, never questioning his authority, but if you are looking for a marriage where you are friends, partners for life, where you grow together and he allows you to have a voice as his equal then I am afraid that might be the marriage you have in your dreams. I have been profiling couples for many years and based on the variables you have shared the odds of him being the man you want are bleak.

She replies,

Oh my God. I never looked at it that way. But Matheka we are too far along to stop. He visited my parents in April and gave my mother three hundred thousand and he is yet to pay dowry in 2 weeks time.

Maurice replies,

Forgive my bluntness, but he seems to have managed to buy his way into your family through your mother. As a social scientist I do not see the relevance of that money and I am willing to bet that there is no custom that demanded for such an exchange. If we were to debate your worth then he who is a mortal man would never afford you. Like I indicated, this man has an agenda in my experienced opinion and if you go ahead and exchange vows I do not believe he will fulfill his promise to you. Then again, he may marry you and provide for you and your future kids but your heartaches will come from you having a husband by title but not in the flesh. Too often do I meet married women who say ‘if I knew what I know today I would not have gotten married’. Many just had the dream and hopes that many women have, that they would have the picket fence family and life. Many just followed social order and some ran at the opportunity when a man decided to go on bended knee and thought to herself, if I say no who else will ever marry me. I have heard all the stories that lead up to marriage and many unfortunately involve two humans who do not aspire to the same future, to make it worse one of them is usually an illusionist.

She replies,

Oh gosh. I do not know what to say. I came to you to solve the issue of the limited menu and you have opened a can of worms that have confused me. But you are also saying that he may change with time?

Maurice replies,

My dear, that is your womanly ‘hope factor’ kicking in hence the notable question to a reality I did not reflect was a possibility. It is always good to hope but in this case I do not see a turn out that will avail a blissful marriage of any kind. Let me ask you, these messages from your friend when was the last one?

She replies,

She is a bitch and persistent. She text him last week. Before you ask me why he has not blocked her,  it is because he did block her on his other line and she still found him and he said that we should just let her chat herself until she gets the message. He told me that she knows that he cannot change his current line because his clients communicate through that line.

Maurice replies,

Question, don’t you find it odd that he provides you with possible eventualities based on his hypothesis knowledge of female behaviour. If she wanted to be malicious, she would be texting him about how amazing their last encounter was, most likely in a sexual context hoping you stumble upon the damning evidence. Have any of the text been of that nature from your recollection?

She replies,

No.

Maurice replies,

Food for thought! I am not a betting man but if I were, I would bet that there is a high chance that they are still in touch. Showing you those messages is just a smoke screen tactic to gain your trust while the real magic is his secret life. Note, it is only my opinion, though it holds water in explaining his willingness to show you his hand of transparency which deflects you from the truth.

She replies,

Matheka, I really appreciate your advice but what if there is a chance for me and him to be happy once we get married. He is generous and he takes good care of me.

Maurice asks,

What does he do that makes him generous?

She replies,

He pays for my lifestyle. He caters for all my bills and housing. We are going to move into a four bedroom house in Karen once we get married.

Maurice replies,

There you go. That is his true relevance. He has passed the criteria of provider with flying colours. There is nothing wrong with you wanting the finer things in life but at what cost. Like I said, you can gain a title but having him as your friend and affectionate companion may be a tall order as your life unfolds.

She replies,

But I have rich parents. My only issue is that I can’t keep running to them for shelter and stability. My job is good but it can’t afford me the lifestyle I would like to maintain.

Maurice replies,

Well, you seem to know what you want from him despite the bleak future. I have also concluded that in the beginning as a follow up to your crush for him, that you loved the thrill of competing with the other women and once you fell head over heels the dynamic changed. Your next chapter was to secure him for yourself and establish a ‘serious relationship’ and that is when your dilemmas begun. Be honest, is there any truth in my evaluation?

She replies,

I have no reason to pretend. Yes you are right but I wasn’t competing I was trying to show him that I had loved him for years and that I was his soul mate he just didn’t know it.

Maurice replies,

Soul mate or not, you have a choice to make. If you make the wrong choice your future troubles are going to be bigger than tea and samosas.

She replies,sadebony

My friend who referred me was right. You are brutal but I do appreciate your forward breakdown of what my future could look like. You have given me a lot to think about you have no idea. Ati tea and samosas lol. What I have taken from this is that I might end up being a wife who only acquired the title making my parents and friends happy forsaking my own happiness to live with a man who only accommodates my lifestyle but provides little or no affection unless obligational.

Maurice replies,

I could not have put it better myself. Take the assessment and ask yourself what truly matters then follow through.

She replies,

Thank you Matheka. I will update you once I make my decision.


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Dear Maurice,

I hope you are good. I have followed your work for the last 4 years and I must say you are doing a great job and I think it is time for me to come out of my shell. I am 32 years old, with very little experience with men and in sex matters. I know for sure I have never experienced an orgasm. I have been with only two men, the one who broke my virginityYoung Woman Thinkingand the last asshole who just wasted my time with awful sex and constant cheating. He said all the right things but did all manner of things behind my back. He was a real fisi and to think I was prepared to marry him. I broke my virginity at the age of 24 then I waited 6 years before I gave myself to the man I thought would be my last. Though as much as I want to be married I am also very afraid of marriage. You have actually had a session with two of my girls separately. You taught them how to squirt, one of them because of FGM thought she was broken but you gave her self confidence when she achieved her first orgasm. But non of them is enjoying marital sex, they both have explosive orgasms with other men but not at home. This is my fear, if this is the norm then what is the point. According to them their husbands are care givers and the other men are there is provide sexual bliss. Matheka, my question to you is why is this happening in so many homes?

Maurice replies,

In my opinion, courtship that only follows up with the so called ultimate goal to get married is one major reason functional marriages are rare. Many casual relationships are initiated with a primary sexual agenda especially with men but for many social reasons that relationship is elevated into a marriage where the problems begin to unveil themselves. You find a lot of ‘I love you’ sentiments but true friendship lacks in that marriage hence why external influences are able to penetrate that marriage and avail social freedoms that cultivate enhanced sexual cravings.

She replies,

Matheka, are you saying that all men want is sex from a woman?

Maurice replies,

What I am stating is that before a man knows your name or anything about you, his immediate attraction is based on his visual cortex which relays your feminine attributes which can either repel or lure him. Whether conscious of it or not his first attraction is sexual, thereafter he sells you what he believes you want to hear and that is why over manluredthe years in one on one sessions with men it has been common to hear a man say ‘I love my wife but initially when we met my only agenda was sex’, which means once he prolonged their fling expiry date that relationship grew into a boyfriend & girlfriend’ setting and later into a marriage. Do not get me wrong, there are functional marriages where both parties are committed to each other without external influences but those are the minority in society. After profiling those minority couples I have always found that their secret is genuine friendship where no one feels caged or micro managed by the other. The other important psychology behind their success is that they were not out to gain social status. They married because they wanted to officiate their bond but it was never to please society or family which seems to be the case with many couples. Unfortunately majority of marriages are driven by degrees of insecurities and falsehood characters, relying too much on a human emotion called love which is merely a psychological notion of attachment and extremely erratic. Friendship is the most powerful ingredient when it comes to sustaining any relationship format.

She replies,

I really wish I knew of you when I was in my early 20s, you would have given me the knowledge I needed.

Maurice replies,

It is funny you say that, when in reality young women in their 20s mostly don’t think they need my consult until it’s too late. Majority approach me when they are in their 30s only for me to profile that their core issues started in their 20s. If young men and women began early mentoring then they would be better equipt to handle relationships later in life.

She replies,ebonysad

I guess in our early 20s we are not fully aware of what we need or what will affect us a decade later. My girl told me that if she knew half the things you taught her years ago she would have made different choices. Matheka, why would a man promise you marriage knowing that he was never intending to marry you, why can’t a man just be a man and state his true intentions, it’s not like us women can’t handle casual relationships?

Maurice replies,

My dear let us be honest, women are very good at saying they can handle a casual relationship with no strings attached but you are usually the first ones to nullify that contract, overnight you move the goal posts and begin needy dialogue! And that is why men choose to tell you what they think you want to hear. I agree, men should state their true intention, but men know that avenue increases chances of sleeping alone! For example, this asshole you speak of, he met you at an age where he most likely felt obligated to promise you some form of commitment which would keep your interest towards him, hence the marriage angle. It is unfortunate that men have to lie their way into your vagina, but truth be told most men are willing to say anything to get laid. If women were more open to hearing the truth in regards to intentions then I am sure men would begin to tell it as it is.

She replies,

I never looked at it that way. Anyway, the past is the past. Matheka, I want to start sessions with you. I want to learn how to achieve a real orgasm and squirt. I want to know how to pleasure myself. I have never touched myself and from your teachings I ebonypussydiscoveryknow sexual liberation starts with freedom of self discovery. I also want to know more about the male psychology. I want to learn to be more appealing in the eyes of a man. I want to learn how to seduce a man and much more but first I need to feel like a woman. I have thought of myself as a lesser woman because I have never had an orgasm, sleepless nights and me crying needs to be a thing of the past and my girls said you are the man for the job. I hope I am not putting too much pressure on you but this is me at the age of 32 saying I need your help. Oh, last question I promise, my pussy lips are not equal, one is much longer than the other and I have always been embarrassed and self conscious not knowing what a man thinks when he sees my pussy.

Maurice replies,

What you are describing is your labia minora, am sure all is well but I shall examine your entire vulva during our session. You are in good hands. I will mentor you in all the areas of interest and with your commitment to our sessions you will transform into an extremely confident women both in your day to day life and in your sexual life. The key to your transformation will be your commitment, I will guide you but you must stick to the program otherwise your goals will be futile.

She replies,

Matheka, I am going to be very committed. By 2020 I need to be a new woman. When do we begin?

Maurice replies,

We will need at least 4 progressive sessions. It’s a matter of scheduling our sessions based on our availability. We only need to agree on date, time and venue. You provide the venue.

She replies,

I am open to weekday sessions from 4pm, my weekends are usually busy due to work. Next week Tuesday works perfect for me. We will have the session at my place.

Maurice replies,

Super. See you then.


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Dear Maurice,

It has been quite the journey. You once told me that you would hold my hand as we embarked on my journey to reconnect with my husband and most importantly through the journey of self discovery. You kept your word and I really appreciated your commitment. I do not know where to start lol. Let me begin by stating that it took me a while to truly understand and appreciate our sessions. I think like most people we are always looking for quick solutions, we are the plug & play generation, but at 27 years of age I still feel old lol. I only realized that you were mentoring me to be a better womaninlovewithidea like a life coach. As you said, you were teaching me how to control my environment instead of my environment controlling me. In talking to my husband, with my new way of thinking, and less over thinking. I noticed I was far more rational in my thought process and that petty things were no longer affecting me. If we are honest many of us go into relationships with unrealistic expectations and totally unprepared on how to communicate with less emotions but with practicality. One thing that my husband and I agreed on is that after you delivered your profile of us, we were both in-love with the idea of having a future but we were not ready to face the work that comes with that kind of commitment. I for one was so excited to finally find a man who could propose to have me as his wife but once the dust settled and the thrill subsided, I was not able to fulfill the attention he expected, more so I was not in-love with him but with the idea of love. Your profile was harsh but accurate, I guess we are never prepared to hear the truth. As I told you my husband and I went for marriage counseling at two separate places before we were referred to you.

Maurice replies,

Yes I remember. After delivering my profile what did you both decide?

She replies,

We had the candid chat that you recommended and we addressed the specific areas that 6109-08537140were of concern. At the end he admitted that he was not interested in rediscovering our bond. He confessed that after 6 years of marriage he fell out of love with me and fell in-love with another, and I accepted it because as you well put it, never force a man to love you and never be with a man who only comes home because he feels obligated, it only means his physical self will be home but his thoughts are elsewhere.

Maurice replies,

Hold on, as I recall we had 4 sessions of which two were with your husband and from what we both witnessed he was very eager to learn.

She replies,

Matheka, you are clearly not aware of your talent and influence. One very important thing you gave us was the freedom to say it as it is. Unknowingly my husband and I attended those sessions for our own separate reasons but we made it look like we were interested in rekindling. He opened up during our chat and disclosed that especially the sexual session was for him to learn new skills on how to pleasure a woman and alsofuckedtillsquirt assess whether ‘we’ still had the spark as he put it. He said that he loved the session but he always knew that he never had the sexual prowess a woman like me needs. Before I met you, I would not have understood what he meant but now I do. The truth is, during our session he saw a woman who had sexual potential that he was not willing to work towards hence why he prefers the other woman because she is docile in bed. And that is why I requested we have sessions just the two of us because:

a) I wanted to learn me, know how to control my ability to achieve multiple orgasms andselfsquirt even though I thought squirting was a myth you totally shocked me when I saw myself squirt numerous times and at that point Matheka I knew the following:

b) That I am done with mediocre sex. I used to read your articles and watch your bold videos and think to myself, all this confidence in one man, and true to your word a woman can actually harness her ability to orgasm and squirt. Nowadays, I am taking videos of me making myself squirt. I digress lol, I am doneblowjobqueen with boring sex. If I can now make myself squirt then as a man you better put effort into sucking my pussy till I scream and cum and not necessarily in that order lol. Touch my breasts and nipples until my clit rises, apply foreplay and don’t just remove your dick like you are going to War, take your time. Matheka you have taught me so much that I can’t hack a man who cannot explore my bodily and figure out in what sequence I need my buttons pressed. And seriously, why am I giving a man oral sex when he refuses to do the same. Speaking of oral sex, I must master how to give a man a blow job till he goes crazy, expect a call real soon.

Oh, and my girls are interested in having a session, we are still deciding on which package but I know like three of them want a one on one with you. After the stories I gave them they can’t wait.

Maurice replies,

It was important for you as a woman to know of your sexual potential. Question, are you and your husband separating?

She replies,

For now we are co-existing, cohabiting, whatever you call it. We have so far managed for the last 7 months without issues. We have become friends and we both take turns to care for our 3 year old daughter as we spread our wings and enjoy our separate social life. But what I know for sure is that the harmony we currently have would not be realized if we had not sought for your counsel.

Maurice replies,

Are you still following the vaginal regiment that I told you to enforce and embrace?

She replies,

Yes yes yes yes… I am obsessed with squirting. I made myself squirt in a car park the other day, the double thrill of being caught and squirting was unbelievable. Matheka, we can chat for ages and I need to pen off. Awaiting confirmation of our next session just the two of us and with my girls. 2019 is my year to explore explore explore. Take care and see you soon.


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