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Dear Maurice,

I really need your help! I am desperate for a solution.

Maurice asks,

What is going on?

She repliesworriedebony

My fiance is being very controlling and dictating a lot to me and my family. We are meant to get married in September this year and he just wants a simple wedding whereas I want a white wedding with my family and friends plus all the trimmings.

Maurice replies,

When you say a simple wedding please expound.

She replies,ebonywedding

He wants a small church service for about 2 hours max. He says we will have both families at the service, serve them tea and accompaniments, thereafter we have an after party with only his friends and my friends, no family allowed. The reason I need your help is because after I complained he told me to either go along with his plan or the entire wedding is off. Don’t you think he is being unfair?

Maurice replies,

Well, it is not really about being unfair, my first impression is that your relationship has a very weak foundation because at this point the two of you should not be dictating to each other, it highlights an eventuality where your marriage will never be functional, you will gain titles but not each other. If I may, I need to ask you a few questions, I feel as if there is a back story that may reflect on your current predicament.

She replies,

I am not following. Are you saying he has a right to treat me like this?

Maurice replies,

Absolutely not. But that said, you must be truthful so I can make a factual deduction of your relationship. How old are you and how old is he? For how long have you been dating and how did you meet? What led him to propose? If you can share then perhaps I can help you.

She replies,women-arguing

I am 24 and he is 39 years old. We have been dating on and off for 4 years. I have known him since I was 16. He has not told me why he proposed but he had two options and he chose me. I have had a crush on him since I was in high school. He used to date my neighbour who was friends with my older sister. I never disclosed my feelings until later on when I found out from social media that he was fucking a close friend of mine and yet she knew how I felt about him.

Maurice asks,

So he dated your older sister’s friend who I can only assume lived with her parents, is that correct and how old is your sister?

She replies,

My sister and her friend are age mates, they are 31. Yes she lived with her parents but in the guest wing. It is a separate house in the compound.

Maurice asks,

Your friend whom you found out was seeing your crush and current fiance is your age mate?

She replies,ebonystudymates (2)

We were best friends and classmates since high school. We shared all our secrets, I did not expect her to back stab me. She said she messaged him on facebook in 2014 and one thing led to another. Apparently it was just a fling. But I found out they were still seeing each other after I started to see him. He told me she was not willing to let him go and that he would end it without pressures from me. He told me to back off otherwise he would leave us both. I let him be and I believe they stop communicating last year in November. She does text him but he shows me all her stupid love text then he deletes them in-front of me.

Maurice replies,

I am curious, not that people should get married by any particular age or time, but has he ever told you if he was ever married or why he has waited to get married now?

She replies,

While he was fucking my friend he was in a serious relationship for 5 years but it did not work out because at the time he was not ready to have children, that is what he told me.

Maurice replies,

I am guessing your on and off was because you were sharing him with your friend?

She replies,

He was seeing her like a sponsor fuck mate arrangement and still playing mind games with my sister’s friend, the one he had a ‘serious’ relationship with. So now he said that during their fling he fell in-love but when I came along he got confused because he suddenly loved us both.

Maurice replies,

Let me ask you, does he financially support you during all these love triangles?

She replies,

What are you getting at?

Maurice replies,

I am trying to understand his relevance despite his obvious manipulative character. You say he plays mind games so in my view I feel for a man to become centre of focus for three women he must possess a character trait where he carefully chooses his words to create a reality that keeps him relevant and once you blend that with finances you have an intoxicating cocktail of seductive tales but a very cunning and ingenious man.

She replies,

Are you saying he is playing me as well?

Maurice replies,

We can debate that till the cows come home but what is clear is that you are most likely his best option. He may love you and I am sure he tells you that more often than the average man but I fear that it may not be the kind of love you subscribed to. I sense a character in him that will groom you into the type of wife he needs. And I mean wife, not lover, not a friend but a wife, a woman who will facilitate for his homely and family needs assuming he now is ready to procreate. He may be a great husband to a woman who seeks to be submissive at all times, never questioning his authority, but if you are looking for a marriage where you are friends, partners for life, where you grow together and he allows you to have a voice as his equal then I am afraid that might be the marriage you have in your dreams. I have been profiling couples for many years and based on the variables you have shared the odds of him being the man you want are bleak.

She replies,

Oh my God. I never looked at it that way. But Matheka we are too far along to stop. He visited my parents in April and gave my mother three hundred thousand and he is yet to pay dowry in 2 weeks time.

Maurice replies,

Forgive my bluntness, but he seems to have managed to buy his way into your family through your mother. As a social scientist I do not see the relevance of that money and I am willing to bet that there is no custom that demanded for such an exchange. If we were to debate your worth then he who is a mortal man would never afford you. Like I indicated, this man has an agenda in my experienced opinion and if you go ahead and exchange vows I do not believe he will fulfill his promise to you. Then again, he may marry you and provide for you and your future kids but your heartaches will come from you having a husband by title but not in the flesh. Too often do I meet married women who say ‘if I knew what I know today I would not have gotten married’. Many just had the dream and hopes that many women have, that they would have the picket fence family and life. Many just followed social order and some ran at the opportunity when a man decided to go on bended knee and thought to herself, if I say no who else will ever marry me. I have heard all the stories that lead up to marriage and many unfortunately involve two humans who do not aspire to the same future, to make it worse one of them is usually an illusionist.

She replies,

Oh gosh. I do not know what to say. I came to you to solve the issue of the limited menu and you have opened a can of worms that have confused me. But you are also saying that he may change with time?

Maurice replies,

My dear, that is your womanly ‘hope factor’ kicking in hence the notable question to a reality I did not reflect was a possibility. It is always good to hope but in this case I do not see a turn out that will avail a blissful marriage of any kind. Let me ask you, these messages from your friend when was the last one?

She replies,

She is a bitch and persistent. She text him last week. Before you ask me why he has not blocked her,  it is because he did block her on his other line and she still found him and he said that we should just let her chat herself until she gets the message. He told me that she knows that he cannot change his current line because his clients communicate through that line.

Maurice replies,

Question, don’t you find it odd that he provides you with possible eventualities based on his hypothesis knowledge of female behaviour. If she wanted to be malicious, she would be texting him about how amazing their last encounter was, most likely in a sexual context hoping you stumble upon the damning evidence. Have any of the text been of that nature from your recollection?

She replies,

No.

Maurice replies,

Food for thought! I am not a betting man but if I were, I would bet that there is a high chance that they are still in touch. Showing you those messages is just a smoke screen tactic to gain your trust while the real magic is his secret life. Note, it is only my opinion, though it holds water in explaining his willingness to show you his hand of transparency which deflects you from the truth.

She replies,

Matheka, I really appreciate your advice but what if there is a chance for me and him to be happy once we get married. He is generous and he takes good care of me.

Maurice asks,

What does he do that makes him generous?

She replies,

He pays for my lifestyle. He caters for all my bills and housing. We are going to move into a four bedroom house in Karen once we get married.

Maurice replies,

There you go. That is his true relevance. He has passed the criteria of provider with flying colours. There is nothing wrong with you wanting the finer things in life but at what cost. Like I said, you can gain a title but having him as your friend and affectionate companion may be a tall order as your life unfolds.

She replies,

But I have rich parents. My only issue is that I can’t keep running to them for shelter and stability. My job is good but it can’t afford me the lifestyle I would like to maintain.

Maurice replies,

Well, you seem to know what you want from him despite the bleak future. I have also concluded that in the beginning as a follow up to your crush for him, that you loved the thrill of competing with the other women and once you fell head over heels the dynamic changed. Your next chapter was to secure him for yourself and establish a ‘serious relationship’ and that is when your dilemmas begun. Be honest, is there any truth in my evaluation?

She replies,

I have no reason to pretend. Yes you are right but I wasn’t competing I was trying to show him that I had loved him for years and that I was his soul mate he just didn’t know it.

Maurice replies,

Soul mate or not, you have a choice to make. If you make the wrong choice your future troubles are going to be bigger than tea and samosas.

She replies,sadebony

My friend who referred me was right. You are brutal but I do appreciate your forward breakdown of what my future could look like. You have given me a lot to think about you have no idea. Ati tea and samosas lol. What I have taken from this is that I might end up being a wife who only acquired the title making my parents and friends happy forsaking my own happiness to live with a man who only accommodates my lifestyle but provides little or no affection unless obligational.

Maurice replies,

I could not have put it better myself. Take the assessment and ask yourself what truly matters then follow through.

She replies,

Thank you Matheka. I will update you once I make my decision.


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Dear Maurice,

I hope you are good. I have followed your work for the last 4 years and I must say you are doing a great job and I think it is time for me to come out of my shell. I am 32 years old, with very little experience with men and in sex matters. I know for sure I have never experienced an orgasm. I have been with only two men, the one who broke my virginityYoung Woman Thinkingand the last asshole who just wasted my time with awful sex and constant cheating. He said all the right things but did all manner of things behind my back. He was a real fisi and to think I was prepared to marry him. I broke my virginity at the age of 24 then I waited 6 years before I gave myself to the man I thought would be my last. Though as much as I want to be married I am also very afraid of marriage. You have actually had a session with two of my girls separately. You taught them how to squirt, one of them because of FGM thought she was broken but you gave her self confidence when she achieved her first orgasm. But non of them is enjoying marital sex, they both have explosive orgasms with other men but not at home. This is my fear, if this is the norm then what is the point. According to them their husbands are care givers and the other men are there is provide sexual bliss. Matheka, my question to you is why is this happening in so many homes?

Maurice replies,

In my opinion, courtship that only follows up with the so called ultimate goal to get married is one major reason functional marriages are rare. Many casual relationships are initiated with a primary sexual agenda especially with men but for many social reasons that relationship is elevated into a marriage where the problems begin to unveil themselves. You find a lot of ‘I love you’ sentiments but true friendship lacks in that marriage hence why external influences are able to penetrate that marriage and avail social freedoms that cultivate enhanced sexual cravings.

She replies,

Matheka, are you saying that all men want is sex from a woman?

Maurice replies,

What I am stating is that before a man knows your name or anything about you, his immediate attraction is based on his visual cortex which relays your feminine attributes which can either repel or lure him. Whether conscious of it or not his first attraction is sexual, thereafter he sells you what he believes you want to hear and that is why over manluredthe years in one on one sessions with men it has been common to hear a man say ‘I love my wife but initially when we met my only agenda was sex’, which means once he prolonged their fling expiry date that relationship grew into a boyfriend & girlfriend’ setting and later into a marriage. Do not get me wrong, there are functional marriages where both parties are committed to each other without external influences but those are the minority in society. After profiling those minority couples I have always found that their secret is genuine friendship where no one feels caged or micro managed by the other. The other important psychology behind their success is that they were not out to gain social status. They married because they wanted to officiate their bond but it was never to please society or family which seems to be the case with many couples. Unfortunately majority of marriages are driven by degrees of insecurities and falsehood characters, relying too much on a human emotion called love which is merely a psychological notion of attachment and extremely erratic. Friendship is the most powerful ingredient when it comes to sustaining any relationship format.

She replies,

I really wish I knew of you when I was in my early 20s, you would have given me the knowledge I needed.

Maurice replies,

It is funny you say that, when in reality young women in their 20s mostly don’t think they need my consult until it’s too late. Majority approach me when they are in their 30s only for me to profile that their core issues started in their 20s. If young men and women began early mentoring then they would be better equipt to handle relationships later in life.

She replies,ebonysad

I guess in our early 20s we are not fully aware of what we need or what will affect us a decade later. My girl told me that if she knew half the things you taught her years ago she would have made different choices. Matheka, why would a man promise you marriage knowing that he was never intending to marry you, why can’t a man just be a man and state his true intentions, it’s not like us women can’t handle casual relationships?

Maurice replies,

My dear let us be honest, women are very good at saying they can handle a casual relationship with no strings attached but you are usually the first ones to nullify that contract, overnight you move the goal posts and begin needy dialogue! And that is why men choose to tell you what they think you want to hear. I agree, men should state their true intention, but men know that avenue increases chances of sleeping alone! For example, this asshole you speak of, he met you at an age where he most likely felt obligated to promise you some form of commitment which would keep your interest towards him, hence the marriage angle. It is unfortunate that men have to lie their way into your vagina, but truth be told most men are willing to say anything to get laid. If women were more open to hearing the truth in regards to intentions then I am sure men would begin to tell it as it is.

She replies,

I never looked at it that way. Anyway, the past is the past. Matheka, I want to start sessions with you. I want to learn how to achieve a real orgasm and squirt. I want to know how to pleasure myself. I have never touched myself and from your teachings I ebonypussydiscoveryknow sexual liberation starts with freedom of self discovery. I also want to know more about the male psychology. I want to learn to be more appealing in the eyes of a man. I want to learn how to seduce a man and much more but first I need to feel like a woman. I have thought of myself as a lesser woman because I have never had an orgasm, sleepless nights and me crying needs to be a thing of the past and my girls said you are the man for the job. I hope I am not putting too much pressure on you but this is me at the age of 32 saying I need your help. Oh, last question I promise, my pussy lips are not equal, one is much longer than the other and I have always been embarrassed and self conscious not knowing what a man thinks when he sees my pussy.

Maurice replies,

What you are describing is your labia minora, am sure all is well but I shall examine your entire vulva during our session. You are in good hands. I will mentor you in all the areas of interest and with your commitment to our sessions you will transform into an extremely confident women both in your day to day life and in your sexual life. The key to your transformation will be your commitment, I will guide you but you must stick to the program otherwise your goals will be futile.

She replies,

Matheka, I am going to be very committed. By 2020 I need to be a new woman. When do we begin?

Maurice replies,

We will need at least 4 progressive sessions. It’s a matter of scheduling our sessions based on our availability. We only need to agree on date, time and venue. You provide the venue.

She replies,

I am open to weekday sessions from 4pm, my weekends are usually busy due to work. Next week Tuesday works perfect for me. We will have the session at my place.

Maurice replies,

Super. See you then.


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Dear Maurice,

It has been quite the journey. You once told me that you would hold my hand as we embarked on my journey to reconnect with my husband and most importantly through the journey of self discovery. You kept your word and I really appreciated your commitment. I do not know where to start lol. Let me begin by stating that it took me a while to truly understand and appreciate our sessions. I think like most people we are always looking for quick solutions, we are the plug & play generation, but at 27 years of age I still feel old lol. I only realized that you were mentoring me to be a better womaninlovewithidea like a life coach. As you said, you were teaching me how to control my environment instead of my environment controlling me. In talking to my husband, with my new way of thinking, and less over thinking. I noticed I was far more rational in my thought process and that petty things were no longer affecting me. If we are honest many of us go into relationships with unrealistic expectations and totally unprepared on how to communicate with less emotions but with practicality. One thing that my husband and I agreed on is that after you delivered your profile of us, we were both in-love with the idea of having a future but we were not ready to face the work that comes with that kind of commitment. I for one was so excited to finally find a man who could propose to have me as his wife but once the dust settled and the thrill subsided, I was not able to fulfill the attention he expected, more so I was not in-love with him but with the idea of love. Your profile was harsh but accurate, I guess we are never prepared to hear the truth. As I told you my husband and I went for marriage counseling at two separate places before we were referred to you.

Maurice replies,

Yes I remember. After delivering my profile what did you both decide?

She replies,

We had the candid chat that you recommended and we addressed the specific areas that 6109-08537140were of concern. At the end he admitted that he was not interested in rediscovering our bond. He confessed that after 6 years of marriage he fell out of love with me and fell in-love with another, and I accepted it because as you well put it, never force a man to love you and never be with a man who only comes home because he feels obligated, it only means his physical self will be home but his thoughts are elsewhere.

Maurice replies,

Hold on, as I recall we had 4 sessions of which two were with your husband and from what we both witnessed he was very eager to learn.

She replies,

Matheka, you are clearly not aware of your talent and influence. One very important thing you gave us was the freedom to say it as it is. Unknowingly my husband and I attended those sessions for our own separate reasons but we made it look like we were interested in rekindling. He opened up during our chat and disclosed that especially the sexual session was for him to learn new skills on how to pleasure a woman and alsofuckedtillsquirt assess whether ‘we’ still had the spark as he put it. He said that he loved the session but he always knew that he never had the sexual prowess a woman like me needs. Before I met you, I would not have understood what he meant but now I do. The truth is, during our session he saw a woman who had sexual potential that he was not willing to work towards hence why he prefers the other woman because she is docile in bed. And that is why I requested we have sessions just the two of us because:

a) I wanted to learn me, know how to control my ability to achieve multiple orgasms andselfsquirt even though I thought squirting was a myth you totally shocked me when I saw myself squirt numerous times and at that point Matheka I knew the following:

b) That I am done with mediocre sex. I used to read your articles and watch your bold videos and think to myself, all this confidence in one man, and true to your word a woman can actually harness her ability to orgasm and squirt. Nowadays, I am taking videos of me making myself squirt. I digress lol, I am doneblowjobqueen with boring sex. If I can now make myself squirt then as a man you better put effort into sucking my pussy till I scream and cum and not necessarily in that order lol. Touch my breasts and nipples until my clit rises, apply foreplay and don’t just remove your dick like you are going to War, take your time. Matheka you have taught me so much that I can’t hack a man who cannot explore my bodily and figure out in what sequence I need my buttons pressed. And seriously, why am I giving a man oral sex when he refuses to do the same. Speaking of oral sex, I must master how to give a man a blow job till he goes crazy, expect a call real soon.

Oh, and my girls are interested in having a session, we are still deciding on which package but I know like three of them want a one on one with you. After the stories I gave them they can’t wait.

Maurice replies,

It was important for you as a woman to know of your sexual potential. Question, are you and your husband separating?

She replies,

For now we are co-existing, cohabiting, whatever you call it. We have so far managed for the last 7 months without issues. We have become friends and we both take turns to care for our 3 year old daughter as we spread our wings and enjoy our separate social life. But what I know for sure is that the harmony we currently have would not be realized if we had not sought for your counsel.

Maurice replies,

Are you still following the vaginal regiment that I told you to enforce and embrace?

She replies,

Yes yes yes yes… I am obsessed with squirting. I made myself squirt in a car park the other day, the double thrill of being caught and squirting was unbelievable. Matheka, we can chat for ages and I need to pen off. Awaiting confirmation of our next session just the two of us and with my girls. 2019 is my year to explore explore explore. Take care and see you soon.


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Dear Maurice,

I do hope you have been keeping well. I do not know whether you recall my case in May 2011 when I contracted you to spend the weekend with my now husband, or should I say he has been my husband since August 2012. Despite your deductions I still went ahead and accepted his marriage proposal or which to date I regret.

Maurice replies,

Yes I do recall. You requested that I spend the weekend with you so that I can profile the possibility of your relationship working and at the end of my time with you I shared my preliminary findings which were followed by a follow up consult session with both of you. I gave you my honest assessment and as I remember you were not a tad pleased with my feedback.

She replies,

I am so sorry Matheka. I was not ready to hear you out which sounds strange because what I sought was the truth but I was not prepared to accept your recommendations. He has turned out to be exactly what you had predicted if not worse.

Maurice replies,

I am curious to know how my profile of him came to be true!

She replies,

During our first session, you told me that knowing each other for 14 months was not long enough to rush into marriage. You also told me that based on my narration, I was more infatuated by him because of his pedigree and the lifestyle that comes with it. You mentioned the above before you met him, so once we had the weekend and follow up sessions, your final report listed that we were not compatible, that he would never be sexually exclusive to me and that he was too privileged with a set psychology to ever understand what I wanted from him as a man or husband. I must admit I was so in love and I wanted him to be the one guy you are wrong about. You were also right about how he would treat me as wife opposed to when I was his girlfriend. I so wanted you to be wrong but oh my G’s you were so right. He stopped taking me out, like no more out of town adventures but he still gets to go with his boys and fuck whomever he wants. All the lavish expensive dinners ended the minute we said I do. I still have the top grade lifestyle, basically money is never a problem, luxuries are all around me but I feel empty inside. I used to feel sexy and beautiful around him but no more. The only outing I can speak of is when he finds time for his daughter who is 6 years old.

That all said and done, I am glad we had our sexual session with you though he neverebonymasturbation quite learnt how to get me there but fortunately I was keen and dedicated enough to master how to get myself to orgasm and squirt during sex, with or without a man. It is the one gift that you gave me that I really cherish if that is the right word. I was miserable until last year November. I don’t have the perfect home but my distraction is worth it.

Maurice replies,

Sounds juicy, please do share.

She replies,

This is so weird. Last November I met this guy on facebook and he is actually a friend of yours but I can’t mention his name, we both have much to lose if our affair were to become public. He noticed me after I liked one of your crazy posts lol. Long story shortsensualfuck.gif within days he was making me squirt like you can never imagine. I don’t envy the house keepers in the Hotels we frequent. Even that vacuum sucking you teach, he is a master, making my clit swell until it’s almost the size of me husband’s penis lol. He really knows his way around a woman’s body. He gives me a good sensual fuck in the bath tub. Oh by the way, when my husband miraculously made me orgasm during our session with you in 2011, that was sadly the last time he made me cum. That is why I am grateful that you upgraded my sexual know how to being able to make myself orgasm with those vagina muscle movements. What makes me enjoy this guy is his sexual patients and foreplay.

Maurice replies,

I am somewhat happy that there is some good news that came of this. I gave you my profile of him and it was then your choice to decide what to do with that information.

She replies,

So the new guy wants us to explore. He admits that he did not marry his sexual threesomewithmatecompatible so it has just been boring in the bedroom for the last 9 years. But that’s not my business. I just need to reboot and rediscover my sex life. He says he is open to a session with you. He wants us to venture into anal sex, a threesome with another man involved, so they both pleasure me and he also wants a foursome. That’s his bucket list and funny enough I am equally agreeable to explore. Though my ultimate desire is to make another woman squirt. That is definitely on my bucket list. I know a girlfriend of mine who had a session with you in 2016 achieves out of this World orgasms from anal penetration and I want to experience the same. He said whether it takes multiple sessions or not he is willing to take time to give me the experience I deserve. You see, that patience from a man is such a turn on.

Maurice replies,

Wow, the tone or is it mood has taken a drastic welcomed changed.

She replies,

I was reaching out to vent and tell you that you can now tell me ‘I told you so’ but I was also fighting the urge to tell you that I finally met a man who can satisfy me and he gives me the freedom to be me and feel sexy without judgement.

Maurice replies,

As you well know my job is not to judge but to profile social

 

variables, make my analysis based on the model of relationship you have compared with what you seek and present you with deductive logic. You mentioned he knows me, how does he know me?

She replies,

Matheka, you are saving many out there. I have never been in a women’s forum and notmakehersquirt.gif heard your name brought up for one good deed or another. And clearly men too follow you on the down low. Let us just say that you have met several times, he is more a friend or a friend and he speaks highly of you. There is a time you organize a kinky stag party for his boys and he was there. He trusts you and your privacy discreet policy and that is why he wants us to have our first session in May. Somewhere in all this exploration you must make sure I get to learn to make a woman squirt.

Maurice replies,

I see, super. Keep me posted.

She replies,

You will hear from me soon to confirm our booking. Take care Matheka.


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Dear Maurice,fakemarriage

I am a married man with a wife and three kids who I love but I am at roads end. I have followed your work for years and witnessed many share their story. I guess this is my time to share mine. I have been married for 18 years but with a heavy heart having to pretend that I achieved fulfillment. I love my wife and kids but I have never had romantic passionate love for my wife. It has all been a show, a long show, to please my mother, friends and to gain societal acceptance, approval, it has been an agonizing journey not to be with the one I truly desire and love.

Maurice asks,

Whom do you desire?

He replies,

I am gay and always have been. Ever since I was in primary I knew I liked boys more than I should. I did my best to try and like the opposite sex but to no avail, though I never revealed my true desires until later. When you live in a society where being gay is demonized you do your best to cloak you true sexual orientation. When in campus I healthyblackmen_orgfound my best friend and lover. We never once presented our relationship and we made sure we stole every moment and it has been the case for the last 26 years. We are both married and our wives know each other. They have always thought of us as close friends but they have no idea how close. Our life has been like a social experiment, at every corner pretending we are heterosexual, following societal rules and expectations that add to the challenge of ever being together. We once contemplated on moving to Europe considering we can both qualify for good jobs but we thought of the damage it would cause of families. My question to you is, we are thinking of coming out to our family and telling them the truth, would you recommend that course of action?

Maurice replies,

Well, my question to you is why now, why have you reconsidered your move which you once thought not wise?

He replies,

Our kids are all grown and we feel that we have given enough of ourselves to accommodate society. It is time for us to enjoy each other, even in hiding but at least we shall be together at last. Our bond and love is true to the core and based on following your work, our relationship has out lasted majority of heterosexual marriages where people are dwelling in misery and pretense.

Maurice replies,

My job is to understand not judge. I am an advocate for happiness. If you have it go for it however there are consequences to your actions, what about your careers, we both know that the corporate & business World will not accept your gay relations if found out. You know Kenyans are extremely nosey and as effective as Sherlock Holmes when it comes to unveiling the truth. How will you survive a scandal?

He replies, richblackman

We are both well off. We have far more than we need and our wives are not aware of investments that date back 24 years. If we have to relocate we will. We currently have properties in two Countries that are friendly to our choice to live a gay life. If we were to be denied work we would manage at least 20 years not needing an income stream. In case you are wondering our families will be well taken care of.

It is sad that we live in a society that enforces harsh law on people like us and this heterosexual partnership are not working for even those who would never conceive being gay. My gay partner and I both have male friends and we can attest that all 12 close pals who are married to amazingly beautiful women are all calculating cheats. We were there when they met their wives and courted them with immense charm only to mold their wives into household slaves where men are excused by society but women are judged harshly for doing the same thing. It is such a disgrace that we have normalized the behaviour of such men. I am glad that your work sexually liberates women, keep up the good work. My gay partner and I have lusted for one other for 26 years, if that is not genuine love then what is!!!! It is unfortunate that leaving Kenya might be our only choice for real freedom but we are willing to take that leap. You only live once, why not spend that time with your ultimate true love.

Maurice replies,

The fact is, each one of us should make conscious decisions that suit us, not society, I believe too much sacrifice eats into your soul and begins to kill you from within. If you want to live on an Island and fish for a living until the day you depart this Earth, that is your right. It is unfortunate that as Africans we are pressured to live life to cater for others and never ourselves. Even after your children leave the nest, there is always some family member(s) that needs financial support and many a times you have to be present so your dreams to one day live on an Island are never realized. Sadly that is our exists and we justify it by saying that that is our noble duty, it’s laughable. My take is simple, if you have the opportunity to realize you dreams and desires seize the moment and live it to the full. Those who judge you as you said are most likely suffering in pretense and envious of your boldness to steer your life as you see fit. Good luck mate, enjoy your voyage and do not look back.

He replies,

Asante Matheka. Your maturity and understanding of human dynamics is refreshing. We shall seize the moment and for once break out of our incarceration. Thank you for your time.


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Dear Maurice,somaliebony

I am ready to share my story but I request to remain anonymous.

Maurice replies,

I never publicize people’s names or any sensitive/personal details. I just share stories. And thank you for accepting to share. Perhaps for my readers I should put our dialogue in context. You approached me by way of texting me on Whatsapp as you attempted to bait me with sexual chat and nudes of your vagina, is that correct?

She replies,

Yes that is correct.

Maurice replies,

I have always pointed out in my forums where I give talks that we have a time bomb on our hands. With economic social pressures what was once considered the norm is constantly mutating and people’s behavioural patterns are altering at a drastic rate. What would never be conceivable 10 years ago, today is part of life. If you may answer the following questions it will highlight an existing profile:

  1. How old are you?
  2. What is your education level?
  3. Do you currently have a job and what do you earn if you can share?
  4. Other than having a job, do you supplement your income in other ways

She replies,ebonysomaliswim

I am 26 and I love love swimming. I have a degree with honours. I am in marketing. I earn a net salary of ksh62,000. I supplement my income with what most would call prostitution but for me it is just another hustle.

Maurice replies,

Describe your hustle, what does it entail, are their strategies in place that increase your probabilities of earning?

She replies,

It is very simple. I chat approximately 25 men per week. They are all driven by their thirst for pussy so I feed them what they want to hear and see. Like in your case, I was gunning to lure you with my pussy but that did not work lol. I should have researched you before trying that on you.

Maurice replies,

Well, I give you an ‘A’ for persistence and your vagina has a pleasant symmetrical presence with fluffy minora, but I digress. So what you are saying is that your marks (prey) per month total to 100 men. Why 25 men, why that specific number and what are your monthly earning from your targets if any?

She replies,

I found 25 to be a manageable number for me and the conversation are usually the same. I don’t need to be creative, most of my conversations are copy paste but they are never the wiser. I have targeted men for 5 years and after that period you get to know their basic sexual needs and pattern of speech that turns them on enough to part with their cash. You give them small tests that involve an exchange of money for a visual of me naked. Normal 5k will do the trick. At that point he will either be a regular for video calls or via a personal sex session where I charge minimum 20k. Others will pay upto 80k to fulfill a fetish they may have. I have never gone without 20 men per month.

20 men a minimum of 2 video calls per month = 200k

20 men just one sex session = 400k

Maurice replies,

Where do you find your marks and what is their profile in relation to age group, single, married?

She replies,

I target these men on social media and certain hookup/dating platforms, all it takes is the first contact via inbox. However, Instagram has made it easier for them to find women like me.

Maurice replies,

Explain, what do you mean by ‘women like me’?

She replies,ebonysomali

About 80% are married men who lack fun in their marriage. The 20% is a cluster of men who have no time for relationship but have the money to spend. The most common age group is between 36 and 55. The younger men are cheap or are too busy fucking older women most likely women married to the men who like fucking me lol. When it comes to how I attract men, I have look at size 12, so they say. Men say I look exotic and delicious blah blah blah yet I am only a mix of Kikuyu/Meru and Somali. Women like me are only filling a void that a lot wives forget to fill and for our efforts to excite we get paid.

Maurice replies,

Please expound on this void you fill, what do you mean?

She replies,

Just because a man marries you, it does not give you the avenue to relax and have the illusion that love alone and your weak sex will keep him interested. If am not an expert, but if there is something I have learned about men, is that they constantly crave thrills and a level of pampering that most wives will always fail at. A man is not obligated to do anything for you as a woman or wife but if you learn how to seduce him even at his lowest points he will still strife to cater for your needs.

Maurice replies,

I see you have a future in my trade. So are you saying that women should use their feminine side more often opposed to their masculine side which many unfortunately have adopted?

She replies,

Yes, that is exactly what I am saying. I used to think men were complicated creatures until I was reeducated to understand men are about ego and sex. Us women are the complex ones with our delusions of love, focus on career and family which causes us to forget or down grade a man’s needs. Once I understood our errors I put time into figuring men out.

Maurice replies,

Question, despite your refreshing knowledge, don’t you think that you will one day have a man of your own and fall into the same psychology?

She replies,

I have a boyfriend who happens to be married so he cannot take up my time even if he wanted to. He is 32 and has his use, he plays his boyfriend part, fulfills my intimacy needs and pays for my upkeep. I love money so having my own husband is not on the cards and after all the stories I have heard from married men, I would rather be the other woman any day. My benefits far out way most wives. In my opinion the status of wife is overrated.

Maurice replies,

Question, you mentioned intimacy needs that your boyfriend fulfills. What is the difference for you in regards to the sex you have with your ‘clients’ and the sex you have with your boyfriend?

She replies,

I have perfected playing sexual mind games with men and as I lead them to the build up, I play out their fantasies and desires, am their sex kitten, I take them to sexual heightsebonysomalisquirt that cause them to go nuts. It’s never about me, when a man tell you that he has never cum so much semen or he has never felt his dick so hard then you get to know that your job is to facilitate their desires and hopefully give them new experiences that keep them coming back. With my man there is attraction, lust, friendship and real sensual intimacy, I love to feel his warm cum inside me whereas with my ‘clients’ I do not allow them to kiss me. After you declined my advances and became my therapist I did some researchebonysomalilearningtosquirt on you, so just the way you cause a woman to squirt, in your sessions, as you teach her about her body and make her vagina happy, I do the same with my male clients. The only difference is your impact benefits the woman for life, mine is only for the moment and no one gets to squirt lol not even me. I read somewhere that you have magical fingers and to have so many reviews of the same nature there must be some truth to it. Would you like to make me squirt as I also teach you a thing or two. I promise not to bite!!! I have fantasized over a man who can make me squirt through anal, are you that guy Mr Kilungu, will you make me scream!!!

Maurice replies,

Before any squirting and biting or screaming occurs I want to thank you very much for agreeing to sharing your story. Your story may be shocking or come as a surprise to many but it is the reality of an ever changing social dynamic within the social arena. Our society is becoming more and more competitive and with that comes the willingness to cross any acceptable social boundary to achieve one’s goal especially in relation to lifestyle. Thank you.


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Dear Maurice,

How have you been?

Maurice replies,

I have been well thank you.

She repliessexyhappyebony

I know it has been a while and I am sorry for my silence. Though, thanks to you my life is looking up. The sessions we had really helped my confidence, not that I wasn’t, but I am now on another level. Your prescribed transformation took place and I am a better and happier person because of it. So do you want the bad or good news?

Maurice replies,

I prefer we end on a positive note, let us hear the bad news.

She replies,

You recall we had one session with my husband followed by four session just the two of us, to work on my sexual prowess and confidence.

Maurice replies,

Yes I do recall.

She replies,

After our session with my husband he disclosed that he was not interested in advancing our sex life because he was not expecting to have a wife who is interested in sex. He just wanted a stay home wife & mother of his kids. As I told you, he was never supportive when it came to my job.

Maurice replies,

You do remember that after I profiled and evaluated your relationship, I told you both that I felt that your marriage was too technical with no friendship only regimental routines.

She replies,

Yes you did. Anyway, long story short. One day I came home from work and found thatmovingout.jpg he had left. He moved out and left us the house. He wrote a letter that basically said he wanted a modern woman with traditional character traits, that is not me. That was on the first week of December last year. He spent Christmas with the kids and I had them over new year’s. It was great to get some me time, it was refreshing. For once no man to constantly differ with.

Now to the good news. Do you remember my school mate who referred us to you after you changed her sex life?

Maurice replies,

Yes I do, what about her?

She replies,

She is the crush I told you about and the two of us have been seeing each other since Christmas. We were actually together during that period. Maurice, I have never experienced such breathe taking sex. She is so addictive and the way she flirts. Eight sexyebonysquirtsinmouthyears of trash, I feel so wasted by that man who used to ejaculate like a sperm dispenser lol. At work, I find myself getting so wet just by the thought of her. And because of your coaching I am no longer having unrealistic expectations and insecurities. I am going with the flow and enjoying every minute. To be honest when I first met you I thought you were mad and way too forward in your therapy approach but I guess your madness works. I don’t know whether I should share but here goes. When we have sex and I go down on her she squirts in my mouth and just like you said sexual exploration is immense fun. How does it feel to know you taught two women who are fucking each other how to squirt?

Maurice replies,

Well, as you know I love to empower women with sexual prowess and knowledge. The fact that the two of you are able to experience a new lease of sexual stimulus is a major squirtinggifdriving force for me to assist other women to get out of their comfort zone and achieve unknown sexual pleasures. In case you are asking if its a turn on to see two women play and squirt on each other the answer is yes. What is key is to enjoy the journey and refrain from the usual useless questions ‘where are we going’ ‘who are we’ ‘do you just see me as a sex object’. After our sessions I would shocked that you reverted to being that type of irrational woman.

She replies,

Maurice, I can assure you that that kind of woman will never be me again. I am so liberated and free. It is time for me to enjoy my life. For years I was only concerned about his happiness and never mine, then the kids came and again it was never about me. That changed when I met you. By the way, I need one or two sessions specifically about maintaining the current psychology of my relationship with her. She also wants to master making me squirt and using sex toys, oh did I mention, she has an assortment of toys so we shall book you to teach us how to use them effectively. We want an out of town session, I will call you in a week’s time. Thank you Maurice and see you soon.


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