mauricetherapy

Dear Maurice,

For once you are getting a treat with a positive story which came to life through one of your sessions in 2009. After listening to you doing your session I got the idea of doing something out of the norm with my husband. It was easy because we constantly share ideas and are pretty open and discuss everything without getting offended by one’s opinions or as you call it ‘desires’.

We had always discussed having a threesome and eventually we did. We both agreed on a suitable candidate that we both fancied and we approached her, to our surprise she was game and we got tested then we had a wild night out, had plenty of drinks as we pub crawled and eventually booked into an hotel and the hotel room was breathe taking (arranged by my hubby) and boy did we have a ball. Again as per your comments from the session we played kinky games of which we just made up as the night matured. I must admit when my husband started to touch her for a second I was a bit worried but then I just snapped out of the jealous state considering how far we had already gone to make this night a reality and to my surprise my hubby was more interested in watching me and our threesome partner performing our girl on girl action.

Is it every man’s dream to see women playing with each other? It was a new and thoroughly enjoyable experience I would have it everyday but we do have a family life. I never imagined a woman going down on me, I experienced orgasm so fast I was shocked and for awhile my body seemed to be on auto drive, words can not describe the sensations.

I had asked my hubby to enjoy himself so as he was having sex I actually got turned on ‘weird ah’ as I also touched our threesome partner constantly playing with her size C cup breasts that looked more like a D cup, it was a fantasy come true especially for me because my hubby had already had this experience during his youthful days. ‘You see’ we share everything about each other and I for one was not intimidated by the information we shared and for us to have a threesome was the peak of all erotic desires. My hubby is good in bed but clearly having a threesome was a real boost for him because he lasted for more than an hour without shooting one off, he was definitely the stud of the night. I’m sure you want to know how old we are and for how long we have been married. Well we are both under 40 and that’s all I’m saying because some of my friends read your column.

I did leave out some info so let me tell you that your tooth paste fore play idea actually did make my vagina tingle ‘thank you so much’ Dr Love. I know you hate that name ‘tough’ you are good at what you do, keep up the good work, I know you said that you don’t always manage to save all situations but I’m sure you have made a difference for many relationships.

Maurice would you care to tell your readers if you have had a threesome and do tell us of wild things you’ve done in your life that maybe we too can try out? Sorry for putting you on the spot but it shouldn’t be a problem for you to share considering your vast experiences and liberal character. Btw a friend of mine wants to meet you in person. She kinda has a crash on you and she especially wants to learn how to squirt. I told her about the private session you hosted where you demonstrated to me and my girls how a woman can squirt. So?

Maurice’s reply:

Indeed you have put me on the spot but really this column is not about my adventures. What I can reveal is that there’s very little I haven’t tried with one or more and I do have a few fetishes! I’ll leave the rest to your imagination.

Reading your story gives me hope that as Africans we are slowly coming out of the closet and showcasing ourselves for who we really are. Instead of hiding behind customs, traditions and cultures that most of us only use when it suits our agenda. Many people will not agree or understand why you and your husband can allow a third party in your marriage but it’s not their place to outline what is right or wrong. Many will have religious reasons to why your actions are wrong, of which I would rather not comment about for now.

All I can say is there are numerous ways to spice up a relationship and you found yours. I take everyone’s lifestyle as a way of life that’s comfortable for them without judgement. You only live once so enjoy life the best way possible. Whether liberal or conservative try something once and if it’s not for you then at least you tried rather than live life asking yourself ‘what if’ or ‘shoulda coulda woulda’ avoid looking back at life and wishing you had done things differently.