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Dear Maurice,

As I told you after our online session, I am in need to share more about my sex life and how I have felt conflicted as a Catholic girl who grew into a woman, an independent woman if I may add. I am actually very happy 😊 but my back story was not easy to overcome. At 14 I knew who was going to be my husband but he was clueless about my feelings. I was madly in love with this boy who was 17 at the time. We were family friends, our parents were extremely tight. We vacationed together a lot and through the many family parties at ours and at their’s we grew closer and closer. When I just turned 18 we shared our very first kiss which graduated into a passionate snog. In my head it youngebonygirlcatholicwas passionate 🤣 I was certifiably in love 😍 and mama approved, Dad was the challenge, a story for another day. So we began dating and it was lovely and Churchy ‘you know what I mean ☺️ , our parents or should I say our mothers spear headed this agenda and were our relationship consultants, whom even though they loved the idea of us being together did a good job of demonizing any form of affection, the whole sex in marriage nonsense. Anyway by my 20th birthday the charming Prince had cheated on me with another girl who was also in our social circles. What I appreciated is that he confessed to having kissed another girl and to justify it, he told me he was too young to get serious with anyone, as a grown woman I get it but as a young girl, I was crushed. Now to the juicy part of my story. I never told a soul but at 16 I went to this daytime party ‘noon to 5pm to be precise and one thing led to another, this girl who was my age lured me into a kiss and OMG 😋 that must have been the most confusing experiences of my life. Maurice, by far it was the best sensation ever. How she looked at me, how she touched me. I literally had the shivers which Mr Charming young boy never induced. You can image as a Catholic girl I went home and prayed thinking it was a dirty act and I recall washing my sinful mouth, it’s funny now but back then I had booked a first class ticket to hell. I have always known that I was bi-sexual and I also noticed my love for male companionship was based on my social & psychological conditioning.

Maurice replies,

Please expound on that conditioning.

She replies,

As women, for the majority of us, we are taught to need a man who will facilitate for our needs and give us child. My psychology was different. I was never keen to have child or 20200520_185540have a man for that purpose. If a man was in my life, it was more about enjoying each other and sharing in the laughter. I have had my share of flings and relationships but I get bored very fast especially with traditional mindsets and that is why I reached out to you. It was always in my bucket list to learn how to squirt and as I told you learning the technique of making myself squirt and making a woman squirt. I say a woman because I have two like minded female friends who love to play with me and just the other night after a few 20200520_191021glasses of wine we experimented on making ourselves squirt which led to sex. I was so shocked that I could learn how to squirt and teach another woman how to do it. I can tell you we were at it for hours. I had no idea a woman could squirt as much. I thought I enjoyed sex but after our session I am at another level of pleasure. You are so right when you say sex is about stimulus, I never understood you until I followed your work, and your WhatsApp status sex video tips have really helped though sometimes I just masturbate. Yes Maurice, I masturbate to your videos ‘sue me’ 😆 and your captions illicit some horniness, plus they are humorous at times.

Maurice replies,

I am not complaining at all. My captions are meant to provoke a reaction.  I am flattered that you shared.

She replies,

You are doing a great job out there. You will be surprised how many times I have been in a forum of women and your name comes up. So far I have met four women whom you have helped to the next level of pleasures & satisfaction. Five years ago I used to think you were just some chap who likes talking about sex but after reading your blogs and receiving five star reviews from people I grew an interest in following all your posts and 20200520_190606here we are. It’s amazing how things work out. So there is this man who I see casually and since my new talent of being able to squirt, he can’t go a day without texting or calling me. The man is obsessed. He even revealed his fantasy which was for a woman to squirt on his face. Maurice, this is not a complaint but rather an observation. He has suddenly gained sexual prowess and an eagerness for sexual play. I can’t explain his sky rocketing craving for sex, his foreplay has also increased. This man cannot get enough of my squirt in his face. I know you said that my squirt projectile would take a while to increase with the vaginal muscle exercises you taught me but the good news is, I must be a fast learner. I am splashing or gushing as you like to say. And he says my squirt tastes fruity, explained by the orange & pineapple mix that you recommended, you are a such a darling, you have no idea how you have helped my sex life. Even at work I feel more womanly, full of confidence. I can see how men look at me as if attracted by my confidence but I guess many are too intimidated to approach or compliment. Oh did I tell you I love to dress up, my girl and I have all sorts of kinky costume wear for our sexual play dates. I am going to get this man a super hero suit for our play dates. He is into Superman and he watches Star Trek.

Maurice replies,

I am loving your story. Your male playmate sounds like a fetish more than a fantasy or he has experienced a fetish trigger. The first stage of a fetish is having your first experience which leads to a degree of  ‘a healthy sexual addiction’ which graduates to an action or object that needs to be applied for one to fully enjoy a sexual episode. I am so glad to 20200520_190404know your squirting projectile has progressed sooner than later. Your feedback is why I still have passion in elevating people’s sexual knowledge and application. The thrills of recreational sex are worth the journey of rediscovery. Yes, the orange + pineapple is healthy and adds to the flavour of your juices as long as you consume as a lifetime. Confidence in a woman is something many men are attracted to as long as the context is fun and relaxed. Funny enough I am also a massive fan of Superman and Star Trek since the early 80s. If that’s his thing, keep gushing all over his face, it’s squirt not Chernobyl. I am happy that you finally got aware of yourself and what things drive you rather than follow society expectations that can be more demanding than lead to bliss. It is always encouraging for me to hear stories like yours. You mentioned ‘like minded’, it is so important to associate with like minded people who share in your school of thought and understand liberal sexual desires instead of attempting to fit in with a vast society with brain washed and judgmental miserable folk. In my many years of experience and practice I have learned that those who judge are usually unhappy in their cocooned merry-go-round type of life. What you do is ignore and move on. You are lucky to have the opportunity to enjoy both sexual Worlds to satisfy your craving for male and female species. Having found your true identity as a bi-sexual is a good thing for both body & soul. Keep exercising your vaginal motions until it is second nature to achieve spasms that cause you to orgasm to the point of squirting. Embrace your sexual urges and display them whenever possible, be open minded and spontaneous as great stimulus is only given & received from a mind that does not over think the agenda at hand. Continue hosting your sexual play dates with your girl(s), have fun, sip on your wine and indulge in the seduction you generate with positive energy stemming from like minded people.

She replies,

I told my girls about you and they would like to have a Zoom session. We are six to eight ladies. What I know is six have confirmed. And my play mate wants to have a session with his boys so I gave him your number. His boys are all over the Globe so your Zoom session should be quite interesting with the variety of cultures and outlooks on sexuality. He is Kenyan and frankly I find him more liberal than his foreign friends. Is that something you have experience, Kenyan men can be pretty backward and conservative but not all can be described that way, what is your take?

Maurice replies,

Kenyan men inclusive of men around the World, all come from a background of influences like religion and specified traditions that they follow from birth. As you grow up you pick up on other influences and only you can decide on whether you follow your desires & likes or stick to social conditioning which outlines social rule & expectations. Those who follow society to the letter are normally those we label as conservative and those like me who questioned societal rules are usually branded as very liberal or too mzungu like and yet there are plenty of mzungus (Caucasians) who are conservative beyond believe. It is down to an individual to decide their own path, hopefully not pressured by society to be someone they are not. So yes, there are liberal Kenyan men out there though they are not represented by the majority, that is just a societal reality.

She replies,

Thank you for confirming that liberal men exist. Some of my girls are suffering with conservative men. They will tell you their stories during our session. Oh and some have never had an orgasm after years of marriage 😰. Maurice, you need to help them get to my level. How can you be 36 and you have never cum, it is mind boggling to say the least. 20200520_190231But I know you will come through for them. Can we also have the squirting demo as part of our session. Some of the girls have never seen a woman squirt LIVE so witnessing will make them more eager to have a one on one session with you. I told them to come over to my house and watch me squirt, they refused. They said they want to learn from the Professor not the student. Maurice, you and I can chat for ages and right now I have errands and then as a good student I have a date with myself later. I am going to have a solo session of making myself squirt, so I have that to look forward to thanks to you 😘

Maurice replies,

The pleasure was and is all mine. I look forward to our Zoom session with your girls and I will await his call so we can schedule the boys session. See you soon and enjoy your solo session.


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Dear Matheka,

I hope you are doing well since our video session. You requested for an update on my progress and this is it. Firstly, I want to thank you for your professionalism even though what you teach can be very sexually demanding of your client, as in me lol. As I told you, my husband and I despite many things over the last 14 years, are good friends. We have created a space for us to be free with our feelings, hurtful or not. We talked about us seeing you but last minute he made it about me. I was a bit disappointed at first because as his wife I wanted it to be our session as a couple. You know us women can be emotional in context. Anyway, as it happens it was a good outcome for us to have theezgif.com-crop video call between us. I was skeptical about learning via video call but you made me comfortable and that helped in the process. The second thing is that I cannot believe that I can make myself squirt. After a routine where 100% of the time he cums and I maybe 20% of the time. It was frustrating to have sex with no ability to naturally orgasm and as I told you, my husband can go for long but as you said, he may have sexual stamina but lack the knowledge of how to stimulate my inner upper vagina. You see, I am a good student. I was tempted to ask you if I was your best ever student but I thought that to be an unfair question considering the magnitude of vaginas you have seen. It’s called personally insecurities, moving on. Oh, another thing that helped was that you are both patient and you push someone out of their comfort zone otherwise I do not think our session would have been as successful. As a Catholic girl, I was taught that touching myself is a sin and now through your wisdom I am able to orgasm and enjoy sex with my husband go figure! I need to ask, will I be able to squirt when he is inside me. Right now he has to pull out when I feel that pressure and he rubs his penis on my clitoris and urethra as you showed me. Do not get me wrong, he is like a kid with candy but I want to be able to squirt with his penis inside me. You are probably thinking, she has achieved so much compared to where she was and yet she wants more. Yes Matheka, I want more lol.

Maurice replies,

There is nothing wrong with wanting more. I have always asked for people to explore, it is the only way to discover the peaks of pleasures that can be experienced.

She replies,

He tried to vacuum suck my vagina as per your instructions and I can’t let go. I feel the pressure building up but it won’t come out. I am also thinking that my fear of squirting in his face has something to do with it. I know you told me not to think of him in that manner, but this is the father to my children. What if the kids notice that their Dad’s face is smelling of squirt even after showering lol. Matheka, I am so grateful to you because beyond the sex you have given my marriage a leaf of life. I am so glad you convinced me to do the video session though despite the madness going on I was willing to come to you. It would have been worth the trip.

Maurice replies,

Well, as we discussed. After corona and all is clear we can have a refresher one on one session.

She replies,

Yes, most definitely. My husband will be calling you, he wants a video call session with you. He wants you to explain to him how he can make me squirt through penetration. Is that viable?

Maurice replies,

Yes it is viable. We can have a three way video, with myself, a model to demonstrate actual squirting or just the two of us and I explain to him step by step. It depends on what he is comfortable with. Tell him to call me, we shall work out a session that best benefits his needs.

She replies,

Matheka, all this time my husband is here watching me type with a smirk on his face. I told you we are pals. He is asking which app will you use for the video call?

Maurice replies,

So far I have used WhatsApp, Houseparty and Google Hangouts apps for my video call sessions. WhatsApp allows four people maximum to video call. Houseparty allows for eight people and Google Hangouts allows for a maximum of 25 people. I must say technology has greatly helped continue my sessions since last month.

She replies,

He is OK with any of the above. He says hi. Oh before I forget one of my girls is interested589924602 in the same video session we had. Her main concern was privacy and she was shy to touch her pussy at first but after I told her of my experience she is yearning to have the same.

I told her Matheka is very professional and has no interest in recording his sessions. I told her this because she asked if we recorded my session. Have you ever recorded any session if I may ask?

Maurice replies,

I do not record sessions and no I have never recorded any. My clients demand and expect a high level of privacy & confidentiality of which I abide to strictly. The only videos that have ever been recorded is when the client wants to video record herself squirting during the session using her own phone. Then like yourself I have client who share videos of their progress, it is normally just a clip of their vagina squirting as they self stimulate. For a client to share her video, even though her face is not involved, has entrusted in me the for your eyes only policy. Needless to say, I am extremely passionate about my work and I safeguard my client’s trust & privacy always. I will be waiting for her call then we can schedule our session. I am currently offering discounts for video call sessions so tell her to call me asap.

She replies,

Yes please give her a good deal. We both have many ladies and couples in our circles who would be interested in your teachings. So Matheka, thank you so much for your class. I really look forward to our refresher once things go back to normal plus it will be good to meet you in person. I want to pick your brain amidst the squirting lol. Forgive me but humour keeps me sane especially doing these unprecedented times that we are facing.

Maurice replies,

Humour is the best medicine right now. You are very welcome. I will await your husband and your friend to call me. Thank you. Be well my dear and keep safe.


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Dear Maurice,

I am 22 years old. I am a campus student. I have been formulating how to share with youebonyquarel my issues since last year December. Friends & family have always told me that I am way ahead of my years and yet every morning all I see in the mirror is youthful me! Anyway, here goes. I am dating a guy who is 27 but my problem is that I find him so immature. He lacks assertiveness and he is very indecisive which puts me off. We have been dating for 4 years, but we do not live together and honestly in the beginning I thought I loved him but after sharing my dilemma with my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend, he said that it is most likely I was in love with the idea of being in love, which made a lot sense. Could this be the case, that I was in love with the idea more than the actual person?

Maurice replies,

Let’s back up a bit. So you have two boyfriends, the younger and the other is how old if I may ask?

She replies,

He is 46 years old and married with 3 kids. And Maurice, with all due respect I do not expect condescending remarks from you. I would like you to treat me like a grown woman. I hate when people remind me that I am young and assume that I am naive.

Maurice replies,

I can assure you that you shall not experience such with me. To answer your question, yes there are cases a woman or man have entered into a relationship to the point of getting married only to realise that they do not love their partner in the way they thought they did. Then again, this should not be surprising because humans fall in and out of love all the time. The societal enforced illusion is that love lasts forever, in books perhaps, in reality not so much.

As we continue, I would like to understand your core issue and the dynamic that caused you to have the two men in your life, it allows me to have a better profile of you.

She replies,

As we have established, when I met my boyfriend I was so happy to have a mature man’s attention and at 18 when a man promises you the World, you tend to fall for him of which I did. He spoke of waiting for me to finish my studies then one day he would marry me and take care of me. When I was turning 21, he and his friends throw me this ebonyridingblackamazing birthday at some club and that is the night I met my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend. He was there with his boys and as he said ‘I caught his eye’. What I loved about him was his eye contact, confidence and when he spoke he commanded me in a way that really confused me. Remember I was with my boyfriend, our friends, on my birthday and yet here I was so smitten by this mystery of a man. I do not know why or how we exchanged numbers but that was the beginning of a very steamy relationship. I thought my boyfriend broke my virginity but after what I felt waaaah! His penis really spread my pussy. I had never felt anything close. The pleasure of finally cumming was experienced, and he lasts so long he makes me moist. I get horny just thinking about it! My boyfriend had always refused to go down on me but my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend would lick & suck me in places that made me scream. I didn’t know I could scream during sex, like that really puzzled me at the time.

Maurice replies,

So I need to clarify a few things. Your boyfriend never made you orgasm, neither did he go down on you, is that correct?

She replies,

Yes Maurice that is correct. I only cum with my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend. Can you imagine dating someone who can’t make you cum?

Maurice replies,

Well, I do not possess a vagina but I can only imagine that state of not receiving sexual stimulus that ignites my pleasure senses. It is unfortunate that that has been your predicament.

I am curious, how did you get to learn about me?

She replies,

You gave a talk, that I attended at a campus in 2018. It was very enlightening and I loved your straight talk no chills approach. You taught two of my girls how to squirt, they both ebonysquirtteenapproached you after the talk. I am jealous of their experience. One even came with her sex toy and you showed her how to make herself squirt using the toy. I told my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend about you and he already knew of you and he is easy about me having a session with you. He has wanted to see me squirt for the last year. That is another thing about my boyfriend that I dislike. He is so insecure about my male friends. I have to pretend not to have male friends and only hook up with them when he is not around which I find so irritating and childish.

Maurice, what should I do? My mum likes my boyfriend and keeps reminding me that he will make a great husband one day.

Maurice replies,

I am guessing your boyfriend visited your parents to state his intentions and they approved?

She replies,

Yes he did. After 8 months of dating he insisted to meet my parents. He was not going to invest in a girl who’s parents would eventually reject him. Once I am done with my studies he intends to wed me.

Maurice replies,

Both men aside, here are the facts. Your primary focus should be your studies. Make sureebonystudying you gain your qualifications that you will rely on to map out your life.  When it comes to who you should be with, whatever you do, do not follow what any one person or society expects of you. Follow what makes you happy. Many before you have embarked on journeys enforced by society and are today miserable or depressed. Do not join that club. Establish your own life structure and do your best to affiliate with positive energy at all times. Indulge in the thrills that give you most joy. As they say life is not a rehearsal, live it well and create your own happiness.

By the way, why do you call him sponsor boyfriend?

She replies,

Lol. It was my way of differentiating between the two men. They both finance my life though the way I think of it, is that one takes care of my well being and the other takes care of my bodily needs. Next month we must have our session. Thank you for your time.

Maurice replies,

You are welcome. See you next month.


 

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Dear Maurice,

I hope you have been well since our last session. I am very happy with your mentorship and yes I do give you permission to publicize my journey as long as you do not publish my name of which I know you wouldn’t. I wanted to break down what has happen since the sessions I had with you.

Let me put it in context for my readers: My good man here, an Eros Group member, 36 years old, is dating two women. Each woman has her own relevance and thrill factor. The sessions we had with each woman separately, on separate weekends, was a way for him to evaluate the degree of friendship and sexual compatibility that he had with each woman. It was also the best avenue for me to deliver an analysis on his profile and what type of woman best suited him.

Firstly, I want to say that the out of town destination was extremely ideal and did set the tribbingebonyNOVmood for each weekend. As you know woman number one whom we can name Alice (26 years old), is so much fun, adventurous and far more liberal than woman number two whom we can name Betty (29 years old). When I told Alice to surprise me during our get away you saw that she brought along a friend and you got to teach both of them how to squirt and I got to witness my fantasy of watching two women making out. It was by far the tribbingebonyNOV2freakiest visual excitement I have ever had. Watching them was like watching a piece of art being created. I was not aware that women were so sexy together, all that licking and sucking was such a turn on. Even though there was no nakedness, I found the segment where we had our discussion very valuable. it gave me insights on the major differences between us men and women. It was also refreshing to know that women do not all have the same expectations when it comes to sex and relationships. The discussion on polyamory was especially intriguing to say the least. Though sadly Betty was not open to it as Alice was.

Maurice replies,

How do you feel about Betty and how do you feel about Alice, and considering I threw in sensitive topics in our discussion segments to mainly evaluate the reaction each topic would ignite?

He replies,

Betty in my opinion is grounded and coming from her corporate image she is very set in her ways. She is ‘homely’ if I may call her that. She is pretty but her lady attitude is always evident. With her I have to think before I speak.

Maurice replies,

Do you recall the character in her that finally came out once she had a few drinks? What was your opinion of her other side?

He replies,

Once she was out of her shell, she was loads of fun and she was so open to being naked and learn how to squirt. But my only concern in that respect is having to intoxicate a woman every time I need to have fun with her would at some point be tiring and non attractive. The other thing I disliked was that she was so conscious of sexual intensity. Like for example, when she over squirted on the bed, she was worried about house keeping, who does that!!!! She almost put me off completely but the horny side of me was not going to waste the trip. After a few more squirting episodes she stopped caring about house keeping.

Maurice replies,

What were your thoughts in the morning?

He replies,

I had fun, the session experience was priceless but I don’t know if you could tell, I wanted us to have breakfast and checkout. My entire manhood was not responding to her morning love. Comments she had made and things she had done the previous night all hit me like a massive wave. Even in the morning, as much as I was hoping to have sex, my penis just refused to comply. I guess this is the part where women tag us men as ‘hit and run’. Only small boys hit and run but your negative vibes will make me disassociate with you.

Maurice replies,

I am glad you brought that up. Only boys hit and run. The one thing that can make a man eject himself after a weekend together is your negative attitude as a woman. Things you say or do that just paint you as a party pooper.

From the day I met you and Betty at Java before we went on our session trip, I knew that you and her were not compatible. I think for you, Betty is a safe woman to have a relationship with. She can uniquely be a wife and child bearer for the convenience of creating the family unit and that is one mistake men partake in. Because despite your professed love for such a woman, you will always ultimately indulge in sexual thrills with other women who can provide what she will never be able to provide, the thrill factor. The thrill factor is fueled by lustful intent, it’s that ignition of dopamine that gives a man a rock solid erection, the only you get when you are buying fruits thinking of how you are going to manipulate a woman’s vagina. Every man knows that feeling and Betty kind of women can never spark that arousal. The survival of sexual intent is all about character perception. Hence why you find especially married men struggling to gain an erection at home. Some even want to gain an erection but their dominant psychology of this is my wife, mother of my children has over time distorted her from being a sexual being to just having the designation of ‘home manager’.

He replies,

If you already knew that Betty and I were not a viable match then why did you not say anything earlier?

Maurice replies,

The mandate you gave me was not for me to give you versions that may sound like my own opinion without assessing how you are in the social arena. It was important for me to witness how you react to topics and to what degree does your character accommodate what you do not like. Men tend to have a failing when it comes to trying too hard to please a woman who does not understand your effort and in many cases does not deserve your effect. Like many men I saw you attempt to accommodate her views even when they made your skin crawl.

He replies,

Truth be told, I was not fully there. I did think about Alice, especially when Betty was stressing her point on why monogamy is the only relationship format she understands and will ever accept. I was not aiming to change her views but her attack on people who think differently was such a turn off. Honestly Maurice, I really liked Betty and Alice was more the woman I have amazing fun with but after your profiling I got to see her for who she really is.

Maurice replies,

I know what you mean, and that is why compatibility is so critical. You must ask the uncomfortable questions that lead to the truth and also showcase the real you. Whether in marriage or in casual relationships, if you do not display your likes and dislikes on the table then you are putting on an act and at some point you will get tired and remove the mask revealing your true colours. Then your partner will say she or he changed and yet all you did is finally unveil the real you.

He replies,

The other major, and I mean major issue is that Betty, in all her corporate-ness, has a problem treating a man. After our session with you, she actually felt obligated to take me out for dinner and she was candid enough to say that she did not like the idea of her as a beautiful woman ‘her exact words’ buying a fully grown man dinner. She said it was not African.

Maurice replies,

Did you remind her that less than 60 years ago it was not an African thing to go out for an A l Carte dinner as a couple! You recall me telling her that a woman is not under any obligation to treat a man to anything but if a woman meets the calibre of man who is of the school of thought that both gender can treat each other to lunch, coffee, dinner, movies, then she needs to fit in or bail before misunderstandings weaken the union. So my question is, are you still going to see Betty?

He replies,ebonyinoffice

Last time we were together, we had goodbye sex. We agreed that only our business dealings make sense. Then she surprised me!

Maurice replies,

With what?

He replies,

I was honest about seeing Alice when she asked during our goodbye sex pillow talk. Since then despite our agreement, her behaviour has contradicted our friends only policy. She is far warmer in her communication and she is attempting to sext me which is something she would not do in the past.  What the hell is going on?

Maurice replies,

Well, my good man, once you told her about your link with Alice, and she most likely thought your penis only had one lubrication point ‘hers’, her sexual demeanor towards you has changed. Alice has recalibrated her vagina. Her vagina was running on two cylinders when she thought you were solely focused on her areola but now she’s propelled by eight cylinders with maximum torque heading your way. You are in trouble my friend hahaha.

He replies,

Let her bring it, and I will remind her that we agreed to be friends, and that I will have sex with her if her flirting trail leads me down that road. What I really like about Alice is the freedom to be me. We talk about anything and everything. We are like good pals who have known each other for years and happen to share out of this World sex episodes. Her liberal out look is a breathe of fresh air and you Mr Matheka took it to another level when you taught her to squirt and you made me master the art of making a woman squirt and orgasm. Dude, you do not know how grateful I am for your teachings. You should double up as a life coach because apart from my sexual life, your motivational talk on life & work has really impacted me positively. I am hoping that my story will give more men the push to seek help. Our egos need to be put aside. Oh by the way, I am meeting up with Alice and her kinky friend for drinks and maybe more, who knows. Her pal has been sending us videos of her making herself squirt, boss you turned her into a freak lol. I have a question, why is it that Alice’s friend can make herself squirt and Alice can’t. She is mostly squirting when I penetrate her.

Maurice replies,

The reason is because Alice’s friend was free with self stimulus and by her own squirtingebonyNOVadmission she is a seasoned masturbator who also took it upon herself to make me show her over and over until she understood what it took to make herself squirt. She also made Alice squirts which was a clear sign of her keenest to learn the required motions within the vagina. I conditioned Alice’s inner upper vagina that’s why she can squirt during intercourse but I can bet that she has not been practicing as I had recommended. Women who make time to be in sync with their inner vagina make stronger orgasms and the ability to squirt second nature much faster than those who do not put in the effort. With your acquired skills you are now able to coach her in self stimulus. You understand the needed inner upper vagina motions so you can train her until she can make herself squirt.

He replies,

She has another pal who wants to learn so I am willing to pay for another session out of town. I am a sucker for more girl on girl action lol. I will be in touch. Thank you so much bro.

Maurice replies,

Super, looking forward to round three.


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Dear Maurice,

I have been following your work for quite a number of years. I find your insights on human interaction interesting which brings me to picking your brain on my dilemma. Iblackmanwithwhitegirl am a Kenyan but most of my up bringing has been outside the Country. Since I was 16, I have only dated Western girls. My parents gave me an opportunity to discover the World since I was 14. I am 27 years old and successful. I currently work in Vienna. I have three holiday destination that I must visit every year, Spain, Malaysia and Kenya. Kenya is home but it’s not home at the same time, if you get my drift. I always have this culture shock especially on people’s weird behaviours and disloyalty. The amount of money that I have lost due to non starter projects is colossal but that is a story for another day. What is wrong with Kenyan women?

Maurice replies,

What do you mean, be specific?

He replies,

They are always out for money even the ones who earn good salaries. I have dated both younger and older thinking that age would make a difference but all seems to have similar traits. They just use different tactics to lure you into their seductive traps. There is this woman I was dating or so I thought, she was 30 years and successful in her own right but after investing $8,000 in some project we were doing together, I found out that she is married and yet she had told me that she was 4 years into her separation. She talked a good game and I believed her, I had no reason not to. I haven’t lived in a society where you second guess or doubt one’s honesty. Whenever I visited Kenya, I would stay at her place. After she owned up she admitted that was a house her husband was not aware of. His travels for business accorded her social flexibility and cause of work she also does a bit of travel. I was so shocked considering we dated comfortably for 2 years. I only found out when her husband called me and told me to keep off but he was pretty understanding when I made it clear that I was misled. In good conscious I would not date a married woman, that is just a no no but it seems to be normal in Kenya. I ended our relationship in December 2017. In your opinion, why do people get married, what is the point of vows that are hardly kept?

Maurice replies,

The short version of the answer is basically social pressures to qualify and conform to societal/religious expectations. It’s like a way of passage to gain social status and respect. There are couples in Kenya who lead very productive relations but they are the exemption not the norm.

He replies,

I thought so. Out of 12 men who I consider my boys through keeping in-touch, all have a side chick so I get your synopsis of the Kenyan phenomenon. I still have another 7 years out here and I do want to find a worthy woman to make my own but what I have witnessed is not encouraging. I do have a fuck mate in Spain, she is 24, a Spanish beauty, and she knows that one day we shall end our fling but for now we have an incredible sex life, we see each other 4 times a month. She knows about you from me and we tried out your teachings and wow she is such a squirter since last year February. I met her during a 4 day relaxation trip, the irony considering we do not relax whenever we meet lol. I BBWsquirtswas in Kenya in April and I took a trip out of Nairobi with a freaky 26 year old BBWI met online and boy did she show me what Kenya is made of, it was a wild weekend, full of nakedness and squirting, that shit is magical bro. She invited her pal to join us on our second night out there. I was in Kenya for 3 weeks so you can imagine the stuff that went down. My boys got me covered but after all that squirting, the major put off is the random solicitation of money. You have lived out here so you know that shit does not happen over here. Two consenting adults have sex for mutual fun but in Kenya the roller coaster is thrilling however it ends up leaving a bad taste in your mouth when you get the feeling that some woman did you a favour sleeping with you and yet I financially covered for the entire experience. No offense bro, but you guys started a culture of paying for shit that you have no need paying for. I have had Austrian, Spanish, Italian and Eastern European women take me out for dinner or on a trip, and you know how fine they can be, without the sense of doing each other favours, just two consenting adults treating each other to a good time. I am so used to going dutch, so the concept of having to pay for everything is not appealing.

Maurice replies,

I hear you loud & clear, and I do agree that the culture is not the most appealing. Personally, a woman who can spend on me is extremely a turn on. And it’s not about keeping count, but just having a man and woman who do not mind treating each other. Though, some of our brothers claim to feel manly when they take up the tab but still complain about women using them to fellow men! Then again, some have no social skills so the wallet gets them female company.

He replies,

By the way, thank you for your time. This has been good banter. I need to ask though. If I do decide to move back and settle, what would you advise I go for when it comes to finding  what I would deem as a good woman for me?

Maurice replies,

It is all about compatibility but most rely on being loved or loving which is a weak ingredient to sustain any relationship. The question is, what does moving to Kenya look like for you, you need a woman who understands your version of existence rather than the common norm of being a provider just because you happen to have testicles!

He replies,

Hehehe.. I see what you did there. A move to Kenya for me has to be away from the concrete jungle. I would most likely build a cottage like home over looking some amazing scenery. I have been to such homes around Maanzoni. The morning and sunsets are out of this World. I am a consultant so thankfully I would not be confined to an 8 to 5. Have a few top breed dogs. My home must have a clay built hot tub. I am a believer of using building material locally sourced, I love a natural look. It’s like having a mini resort that happens to be your home. Two off road vehicles. I am a Land Rover kind of guy. I have traveled the World and I live a descent life but even then I always subscribe to simplicity in life.

Maurice replies,

Then what I recommend, is that you take you time and find a woman who would love to live your kind of life. If you date a City mentality woman or a woman who will periodically attempt to move you nearer to her comforts you will just experience constant headaches and as you know mara moja does not squirt. I also feel that you will need a woman of your class or by some luck a woman who happens to love the Countryside life you aspire to establish. And this has little to do with her age but everything to do with her chilled out open minded attitude. For example, you cannot live in Maanzoni with a woman who does not appreciate nature, wild animals and especially lacks the love for K9s. If her natural habitat is frequent visits to expensive salons and mall and the oh so frequent ‘ can you do me a favour’ malarkey then my good man you stay in Kenya will be one of discontentment. You have been socialized in a different social order so a typical Kenyan will not suit you. The woman you need is out there, it is a matter of finding her. I believe what you put out to the Universe is what you attract, there is hope, you just need to socialize in the right circles.

He replies,

So true Matheka. I tell you what, I visit in December or April so let us keep the banter spanishsquirtinggoing and we can meet up and  have a good single malt as we discuss my options. Again, thank you for your time. For now, I will maintain my fuck mate relations that keep us mutually entertained in more ways than one. Oh, I should have mentioned, I love a woman who has a bisexual nature. We can’t be in all that wilderness and not explore with a imported third party, you feel me bro?

Maurice replies,

I share your sentiments and I live that reality. You cannot be overly liberal and date an opposite, that is pure madness. I look forward to that single malt.


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Dear Maurice,

I am curious about the Eros group. It is a friend of mine who forwarded one of your ebonyonadatevideos where you have women looking for serious men. I want to join but I want you to clarify a few things about men. I am 37 and I have never been lucky with love. I have dated six men in my life and all turn out to have very different outlooks to life. I want a family. I want a man who is present at all times. I want a man who can play with his children and be there for me at my lowest moments. Are there men out there who want to be serious with a woman?

Maurice replies,

It would be easy for me to tell you that there are plenty of men who can fulfill a woman’s needs but for me to give you an accurate response it is better I give you a view of the broader picture by asking you to clarify a few things. Out of the men you dated, how long was the shortest and longest relationship?

She replies,

The shortest was 4 months and the longest was 3 years.

Maurice replies,

Why did those relationships end and because I know women I request you give me a brief version, be to the point?

She replies,

The 4 month relationship was amazing but I had to flee because the sex ebonyridingbecame addictive and he had already told me that he had come out of a 11 year marriage and was not looking to settle down again. I saw him every week and despite our agreement to be each other’s friend with benefits the feelings flooded in. At that point I asked him to let me go and he did. We were like a couple but not quite, you know what I mean!

Maurice replies,

Yes I do. He was like a boyfriend but without the title.

She replies,whitegirlblowjob

He made me feel things that I was not meant to feel. He had a way of bringing out the white girl in me! He is also the only man to hold me after sex, most just turn round and sleep. He was great at the sentimental parts and for me that just made me fall deeper for him. I respected him for his honesty from the onset.

Maurice replies,

What about your longest relationship, why did that not work?

She replies,

The man was married. Matheka, when I met him through a work’s seminar I told him that I do not do married men but he persisted. He is a senior guy and could not take no for an answer. He showered me with gifts at the office and I found myself loving the attention. He was a gentleman and never pressured me for sex for about 9 months, then he flew us to Australia and that is where we had sex for the first time.

Maurice replies,

What kept him relevant for 3 years considering he caused you to break your married men rule, were you deeply in love, was it the sex, did he promise to make you his second wife?

She replies,

If I am honest, his networks and what they did for me made him as you say relevant. Did I love him, yes but I have loved more before. He treated me like a woman would like to be treated and his ability to open doors for me was an added bonus. Because of him I live in the home I have always wanted. He did not buy me my home he just made it possible for lucrative tenders to come my way. I left him earlier this year when I found a text message between him and a much younger woman. He is 52 and his wife is 44. I confronted him and he did not deny that he was having a fling with her. As we exchanged words, he reminded me of all the things I had gained from knowing him and told me I had no right to question because his own wife doesn’t. After that I knew it was time to leave.

Maurice replies,

So here we have a profile of two men who you were involved with and both had their unique relevance. Out of the six men, is there a worthy additional profile you would like to mention?

She replies,

Actually Matheka, the shortest relationship was about a month but he is not worth mentioning. Out of the six, the two are the only ones I connected with.

Maurice replies,

If I may ask, your lover who was married for 11 years, did he by any chance tell you why his marriage ended?

She replies,

He said at their 6th year, they stopped being friends and that the idea to marry only came about when she got pregnant. It was more family pressure than them wanting to get married at that point of their life. Their divorce was a mutual decision. What I admire about them is that they found a way to still be civil and friends. I would over hear them talking family things on the phone and she once found me at his place and funny enough she was absolutely cool. Then again, he had told her about our arrangement.

Maurice replies,

So to answer your question. Whenever women look for a boyfriend, companion, partner, lover, husband, whatever you label those potentials! The one word that truly ‘fucks the broth’ is the word ‘serious’. What they need to be looking for is a man who can be their best friend, a man who can hold an honest conversation, and not a man who can say all Black couple having an argumentthe right things. This is where women come to regret that word ‘serious’ when they end up with a man who seriously lies, seriously tells a woman what she wants or needs to hear, a man who says he loves you out of obligation but also tells others he loves them but in this regard the ‘I love you’ is based on how he is made to feel by external influences. A man who is serious can seriously hurt you, it is important to remember that. The couples I have ever met who I can confidently say have a functional relationship, all have something in common. No, it is not love but genuine friendship. Their relevance for each other is maintained by brutal honesty whether good or bad. They allow themselves to cry and have fun together. It is a friendship that lacks in many marriages in my experienced opinion. The other thing, and I really wish men were more honest about this. Men do not mind being providers but many today are tired of having that label define them. Economic times have changed and many men do not prescribe to women who believe in ‘my money is mine and his money is ours’ mentality. blackmanstressedI know for a fact that this reality is causing men to withhold financially. Men are always seeking thrills, if you are not part of the thrill you are part of the problem. There must be a balance between family and fun. Some will say, fun does not pay bills or school fees, which is true. But remember thrills and fun cause erections which are not evoked by bills! Even those tenders are driven by heightened testosterone which allows for doors & vaginas to open alike! One must always find their relevance and work on maintaining it without affecting the relationship psychology. The simple equation is to meet a bigger pool of men, not for sex, but to enable you to meet an assortment of characters who you can evaluate and hopefully find compatibility rather than falling for any man just because he seems to say all the right things and most likely he is in a position to fulfill your eagerness to get married. Thereafter you become my client complaining how you gain the title but lost the man. There are also times when unknowingly women have met a perfect guy but spoil it by displaying insecurity and neediness that renders a woman unattractive.  Again, know your relevance.

It is far better to meet a man who tells you things you would rather not hear but makes it his life to protect you and be your exclusive man not because he has to but because he made a conscious decision to share good and bad times without feeling obligated to that course of life.

She replies,

Wow, I was not aware of so much. There is such a major difference between men and women. But Matheka, men are not speaking out their truth.

Maurice replies,

You are right. Many of my brothers are pretending in silence. It is time for men to tell it as it is otherwise our social problems will only get worse.

She replies,

Matheka, I am willing to go by your guidance. I need to find this potential friend and hopefully we can be genuine enough to find mutual interests and map out a future. What I do know is my age bracket of interest is mostly of men who are married so I hope we can find at least a divorcee.

Maurice replies,

Only time will tell, I shall do my best.


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Dear Maurice,

May I start by saying, that I was utterly gobsmacked to find a therapist of your liberal demeanor in Kenya. One of my Kenyan girlfriends referred me to your blog and I must say I was pleasantly surprised after perusing through your posts. I am a British lass or woman which ever you prefer. I have some troubling revelations to share and I seek interracialcoupleresolution from you. I am married to a Kenyan man from the Agikuyu tribe. I am 26 and he is 29 years old. We have been married for 3 years so I find it odd that I write you with a disturbed mind in our early years of marriage. We met  6 years ago in the UK while he was pursuing his post graduate. He was charming, romantic and funny. I have a thing for a man who can make me laugh and be goofy at times. I must admit he was my first black man so a heightened level of curiosity drove me to want to traverse, if you get my drift. He promised me the World and while we were in the UK, the World was my oyster but ever since we moved to Kenya things have gone from bad to worse. We moved here in March 2018. We both secured employment before moving so on that front all is well. Then again his family is minted, but that was never an attraction. I am more about character and the character I am witnessing is not the exotic loving man I once met.

Maurice replies,

What has changed?

She replies,

Why do I begin. He leaves me in the house to socialize which he never did when we were back in the UK. Something about it being a bad look to have your wife gallivanting in certain social gatherings. He used to take me every where with him. We would go for our weekly curry, Cinema, fun take outs with close friends, indoor movie/popcorn nights and trips exploring together. He used to cook for me more often than I did for him. He was interracialcouplekitchenlovethe icing on the cake. I was so thoughtful compared to any other boyfriend and that’s saying a lot considering all were right proper gents. I have never had a bad apple until now. I love him but I do not think I can tolerate his behaviour for much longer. His family and friends keep telling me that this is acceptable behaviour. This may be customary in Kenya but I am not having any of it. I told my ma and she advised I get on a plane back home. I have two burning questions, is it normal for a man’s friends to hit on you even though they know that you are married to their friend and my second question is why do people here find it weird that in life couples fall in and out of love all the time? I ask because my Kenyan friends do not get it that my exs were all great men but due to circumstances and a shift in life trajectory we parted amicably. In my view, people here tend to tolerate and accommodate situations that cause them misery for years.

Maurice replies,

I can see you have profiled a Kenyan dynamic that sadly exists and all manner of traditional & cultural excuses have been established to maintain status quo. To answer your first question, the reason why you find men hitting on someone’s wife is simply because we adopted a culture of disrespecting the sanctity of marriage. It is human to be attracted to a fellow human that bears your attributes of attraction however it should be the sanctity that presents itself by way of wedding band that prevents you from courting that person. That unfortunately is not the case in my Country. Hence why we have the mafisi & fisilet epidemic. Are you aware of this phenomenon?

She replies,

Yes I am very much aware of this sub-species that plagues your country.

Maurice replies,

Plagues is the appropriate description. To answer your second question, there is this delusion, also known as social teaching that empowers people with the notion that love is forever like in Vampire movies, a thousands years and what not, you get the gist! Whether people are miserable or not divorce is a no no and separation is also frowned on though more and more Kenyans are moving away from the mentality of settling for bullshit.

She replies,

Which takes my back to my case. I cannot take anymore of this bollocks, excuse my French. I told my husband that we need to see an expert in sorting out couple relations and he said he is fine with it but in the same breathe said that for him to be a man ininterracialcouplepregnant Africa things will change a bit and that he still loves me. Which if you ask me is absolute hogwash. You actually sorted out a friend of a friend’s marriage. I am sure you have plenty of sessions but you had several therapy sessions with them and the good review was that you sorted their relationship friendship and sex life. My sex life is amazing but I just need the Kenyan man I met in the UK back. One of the reasons why I sought you out is because we are planning to start a family next year now that we have settled down as per our schedule. Even though I work, I never want to feel like all I am worth is being a submissive wife and bearing his children, plus washing after him which I can never be. If I cannot have him back I would rather cut my losses and head back home. Maurice, if you could see me I am biting my tongue with loads of curiosity. As I was researching on you I came acrossinterracialcouplekissing articles that you have written about squirting. I know it is off topic but it got me so damn curious. YOU TEACH WOMEN HOW TO SQUIRT, yes the cabs were necessary wow wow wow. I know of a lady who happens to be a sex therapist in Australia who teaches women how to orgasm but not in a million years did I expect to find a man of your skill set in Africa. I tell you what, if you give me back the husband I know, I will definitely have that squirting session with you. I need my man back and you need to get him back for me. My husband travels a lot but he will be available mid September. We would like to have our therapy session at our home in Kitisuru. I will confirm suitable dates then we align with your availability. Thank you Maurice and thank you for your time. No pressure but you are the only person standing between me and a flight back to Stratford-upon-avon.


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