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Dear Maurice,

I am in a real twist and I need your help to figure out things in my life. I have been dating someone going onto 3 years now and it has been exciting but in the last 4 monthsHappy Newlyweds in Front of Mansion I have been trying to slow things down in relation to our overly active kinky lifestyle. I have been hinting that I want to settle down with her but she has resisted claiming that we are fine as we are. She even put me in a situation where I had to make her choose between me and her girlfriend.

Maurice asks,

Interesting, what do you mean by her choosing between you and her girlfriend?

He replies,

One of the things I liked about her when we met is that she is bi-sexual and I love that in a woman. A few months ago we met this girl who she has been sexually involved withebonythreesome II within the confines of my home but I never felt threatened until she walked out when I asked her to choose between us.

Maurice asks,

What is made you feel like settling down?

He replies,

It hit me that I have attended so many of my friends weddings, to be precise four close pals have married. I feel like its my turn. There is also pressure from family to bring them a girl.

Maurice replies,

Many people get to that point in their life where they feel like they need to fulfill some right of passage but you must ask yourself if you truly understand what marriage is. The reason I say this is because I meet plenty of married folk who are regretful, depressed, miserable and bored. Many of them looking for avenues to leave or psychologically detach themselves from their marriage, and when I say many I mean about 90% of people in marriage. I am not trying to discourage you but I need to highlight the facts that I deal with. But most of all I want to deal with your relationship dynamic. From the little you have shared I can tell that you are in a functional relationship based on mutual likes between you and your woman. However I fear, if you do get married your change of mindset within marriage will damage your bond. For example, if you do marry her, will carry on as usual or will you ask her to change?

He replies,

To some degree I will want her to change. I need her to be the mother of our future children. So her dressing and mannerisms will have to change, I mean that is standard rite?

Maurice replies,

That is the problem right there. These so called ‘serious’ relationship are detrimental to others. You want to marry her and you also expect her to conform in accordance to ‘unwritten’ societal rules of how a married woman should conduct herself. That in my opinion is absolute bollocks. I can imagine you will want her to kill her sexual persona or will you allow her to be herself?

He replies,

I know I can’t have a wife who goes around kisses other women so she will have to give up that lifestyle at some point.

Maurice replies,

I can see why she is resisting your advances to settle down. Let me break down, you currently have a woman who facilitates in relation to your sexual preferences. You enjoyebonythreesome III watching her make out with other women and I am sure you indulge in threesomes and more, am I on the right track?

He replies,

Yes, this is our current lifestyle.

Maurice replies,

And you are trying to convince me that you will sacrifice your fetishes and have a content life with one woman, is that what you are saying?

He replies,

Don’t judge me but I will still have that life but with other women. We both know that in the African setting your wife can’t behave like a whore, plus the respect I will grant her will not allow me to look at her in the same way. I need her to be my home maker.

Maurice replies,

With all due respect, that is rubbish. This is why women end up with a raw deal. I am glad that you are being honest but it also proves that you are already preparing your mindset and perceptions towards her to change. Once she becomes your wife you will over time cease to view her as your sexual mate, she will stop being your ‘fun factor’ and that is why you are honest enough to state that you will explore your sexual preferences with other women. Is she aware that you think of her as a whore?

He replies,

I don’t mean it literally. I just need her to act like a wife. But at the moment we are not even talking. Could she be in love with that girl?

Maurice replies,

I don’t think it is appropriate to call your woman a whore and yet if she changes to this morally up right wife you won’t even want to have sex with her. You are embarking on a journey to corrupt your mind towards your woman and that will gradually create a rift between you. My friend, if indeed she is in love with the girl then you might be in more trouble than you think. There is a much higher chance of getting your woman back if she is having an affair with another man, but when it is another woman you will need a miracle to get her back. Take it from me, I have seen grown men crying after realizing that they have lost their woman to another woman. To add to injury, your display of insecurity when you asked her to choose did not help your course. It made you look weak. Give her time to decide what she really wants. I recommend that you rethink your settling down dynamic, let it be inclusive. We both know if you kill her personality you will only seek sexual pleasures and adventures from other women. But if you desperately need to get married to someone who you can control, why not find a conservative submissive character, just saying. I do not subscribe to terminating a woman’s persona and sexual liberation for selfish reasons. If you will it, you can have best of both Worlds with one woman. There is no logical reason for you to mold a woman into someone you will cease to have a desire for. It makes no sense.

He replies,

I hear you bro. Thank you for your comments. I will take a break for a few months and hopefully rethink like you said.


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Dear Maurice,

I need to pour my heart out to someone and you are one of the few people I know might understand my existing dilemma. I have been married for 9 years and to my shock I thought my marriage was fairly good but my husband’s revelations have confirmed to the contrary. We met in campus, dated for 2 years then drifted apart and rekindled 3 years later.

Maurice replies,

What is your dilemma?

She replies,Frustrated Woman Using Laptop

My husband has been having an affair with a good friend of mine and with some other side chick. He forgot to log off our shared laptop and I found conversations between him and the two women. I read enough to conclude that they have been seeing each other for over 2 years.

Maurice asks,

Does he know that you know?

She replies,

Yes he does. I confronted him and he did not deny his involvement with both women. He proceeded to tell me that he is glad that he has been caught, he said he was tired of living a double life. I did my best to hide it but I was terrified because it sounded as if he was about to announce that he was leaving me. I could tell in his voice that he was not afraidSadblackcouple of me finding out and that made me feel vulnerable. I asked him why would he cheat, and his reply was “you lied to me years ago, we made a pact that if ever we were to get married we would not be sexually conservative like most married people” he added “you have declined all our opportunities to explore our kinky side and have concentrated squarely on your career and family life forgetting that your man needed your undivided attention, so when you failed to deliver I opted for other fruitful avenues”. I asked him, did you have to fuck my friend. He replied, you were the one who fed her information about your short comings and she availed herself , I could not resist her offer. She knew exactly what I wanted and she offered with extra bonuses, deal with it, this is a situation of your own making.

Maurice asks,

Is any of what he is saying true? I can only give you conclusive answers about your dilemma with facts, I cannot answer you based on emotions or morals. Did you make that pact with him and have you neglected him as he implies?

She replies,

Yes, we made that pact. But that was years ago. I did not foresee him remembers words we shared while in campus. He has been consistent in his sexual nature but I thought he would tone down once we caught married. I usually have a 50 hour week and I do stay away from home a lot because of work related schedules but I thought he was content with the sex we occasionally have when I am home and during the two week vacation that we take annually, I thought that would sustain him. I admit I have declined all of his sexual adventures but its because I did not deem it appropriate for us to indulge in our once mutual fantasies within our confines of marriage. Was he justified to take those adulterous actions?

Maurice replies,

In all honesty even I would cheat living under those conditions. Your problems begun when you started having your own perception of what marriage should be and you clearly did not loop or consider your husband’s idea of marriage. Do you know how boring ‘confines of marriage’ sounds. I thank you for accepting your part in these revelations. My job is not to question whether your husband was justified or not, that would be counterproductive, my role is attempt to reconnect you that’s if you are interested?

She replies,

He actually gave him two options, to stay and remodel myself to the woman he thought he was married to or to leave him. He said he is not willing to sacrifice his wants and needs in life to survive in marriage. I can’t afford to lose him.

Maurice replies,

Your husband has basically given you a chance to reignite your lust factor and reconnect not just as a married couple but as ‘boyfriend & girlfriend’ and that is one of the stronger ingredients that matter to keep the juices of lust flowing. In my opinion, a marriage with no lust is a dead marriage of convenience. You need to trace back where you left that open minded girl within you and let her back into your relationship, that’s the girl in marriage not the individual you have become. The problem we face in this continent called Africa, is that we don’t envision marriage as a fun place but have for a long time branded marriage as ‘hard’,’difficult’, using words like ‘compromise & sacrifice’ to justify and cushion the imprisoning features within marriage. If you want to out survive other marriages then you cannot conform to societal norms and unwritten strict rules of marriage.

She replies,

You are right. I need to reintroduce him to the girl he once dated. Maurice, I guess sometimes we readjust and fall into a comfort zone which feels safe but as I have witnessed has its downfalls. I will willingly conform to things that my husband likes and it should be easy because I once wanted the same. I am happy we have chatted but what about my friend, she has no idea I know about her sexual affair with my husband?

Maurice asks,

The question is simple, do you hate her or are you open enough to see past that and engage her on a more positive note? Does your husband’s assortment of desires involve third parties like a threesome or a tribbing voyeur fetish. The reason I ask is because ifebonythreesome your husband has already nurtured a connection with her then it is only logical in the realm of sexual preference to involve her. There is a high probability that he will not connect with any other women you may want to involve at this junction, perhaps later. Blatantly omitting her will also make you look sexually insecure and that won’t trigger well in your sexual escapades with your husband. Remember you need to showcase the kinkier you not the vulnerable wife! Plus we don’t even know whether she would like to be party to any of this. Anyway, that’s my professional advice, mine is to share crucial key indicators, what you do from there on is your choice.

She replies,

Wow Maurice, I really appreciate and admire your honesty. It’s now down to me to initiate and show my husband that I still have that naughty girl within me. I just need to find her and have words hehehe. We need to get our man back. Thank you. I will let you know how things go.

Maurice replies,

You are very welcome. If I can help people advance their bond and sexuality I am always game. Please make sure you market me to your friends.

She replies,

I sure will, many need your services. Depending on how things go, would you recommend package 6 for me and hubby, learning to squirt has been on my bucket list I might as well incorporate it into my new sexual journey?

Maurice replies,

First let’s reintroduce your husband to the girl he needs you to be thereafter anything is possible and once you reacquire your sexual bond then we can schedule that session. I have a feeling your husband would be very open to it.

She replies,

Oh, did I not mention he knows you. The other woman he was chatting with shared this article  https://mauricetherapy.com/2016/08/30/threesome-fantasy/  with him and he was extremely open to the content. So I know he will be open to our session with you.

Maurice replies,

That is super. Keep me posted on developments. I wish you the best my dear.


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Dear Maurice,

I know I have taken my sweet time but as they say better late than never. After our session my sexual life changed but I also have some bad news, as you stated I found out that my husband was never interested in elevating our sexuality and that is why he repeated declined our sessions together. I kept corning him with the topic and finally heconfident black woman broke his silence. He said he stopped finding me sexy years ago and to my shock he admitted that one of the reasons he went off me sexually was because I over powered him in the bedroom. I remember you mentioning that my sexuality most likely increased when I hit 30 and his either stagnated or decreased. Maurice, I really tried to make it work. I did all I could to revive our sexual life but clearly he stopped trying years ago. I did not tell you but during our session you highlighted quite a bit and many of the things have come to be. I have come to terms with my marriage status and that is why I made the step to call you and book our session. Like you said, sexuality is about me not him. Thanks to you I know my potential and thanks to you again I have been able to teach that guy I told you about. I bit the man’s bait and started an extremely electric sexual affair. If you saw me now you would be proud. I don’t know how you do it but you have transformed me completely. You remember I was once skeptical about you and you told me that until I experience the motions of squirting I would never know the feeling and the psychology behind it. I ammasturbation ebony so glad I made that call. You gave me back my confidence and as you predicted in time I would be a renewed woman. Despite your teachings I am amazed how I went from a woman who could not enjoy sex or even orgasm to a woman who can orgasm multiple times and I can make myself squirt endlessly, it is astonishing. At 32, I feel like I have wasted many years begging a man to love me. When I was in my early 20s I believed in Mr Right, the chivalrous knight in shining armour but after understanding male psychology from you I know better. It is time to rediscover and enjoy not good but great sex, and with your guidance I know I will never fail. All I can finish with is keep up the good work. I believe you are doing a lot to educate people about sexuality even if somethings it is tied with bitter truths of failed relationships.

My response:

You are very welcome. It was my pleasure. I only wish that more women between 20 and 25 would empower themselves with information that may save them from their commonly perceived fictional World and learn many realities about a big pool of men who end up being manageable boyfriends but later become brutal husbands.

Good men do exist (a small pool though) but in this age of economic reasoning and greed, a man’s character is usually a secondary attribute and is replaced and overridden by the depth of his pockets. Plenty of men have told me that there is no point being a good guy in Kenya, why, good guys do not prevail in the pecking order of men. Good men are regarded as ‘lower grade’, they are also in the bottom of the food chain aka mafisi chain. Why do you think the #teammafisi epidemic grew, it is a psychological conditioning that gives every man an avenue to prove himself in one way or another. It is the same epidemic that caused married women to be more luring than single women.


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Dear Maurice,

From what I hear you facilitate for people’s fantasies.

Maurice replies,

Yes I do. What do you have in mind?

She replies,southcoastromance i

My husband and I have been discussing having a threesome for a while now. He is far more adventurous than I am and to be honest this experience is more for me. He has had his share of threesomes in his past relationships. Though I do have one concern, as much as I am willing to bite the bullet I would hate to be in a situation where I am competing with the other woman. Is there any assurance that she will not snatch my man?

Maurice replies,

That is a valid concern. However you need to look at the dynamic where the other woman would have reason to snatch your man, the most common motive is the opportunity to gain finance followed by a mutual attraction that may lead them to an affair. The women I work with are well vetted and work within set guidelines of engagement. In your case, your man wants to give you this experience which only means he trusted you enough to share his desire to make a threesome a reality. If a man merely wanted a threesome it would be far safer to omit you from the equation. The fact that you aware is because you are relevant in his sexual adventures, many wives are not for an array of reasons. I applaud the relationship you have cultivated with your husband. In my experience majority of couples married or not do not have that degree of openness hence the social issues in our society.

in relation to the woman, what are your preferences?

She replies,

He does not like fat women, she needs to be size 10/12. She must be open minded.

Maurice replies,

Don’t you worry, my girls are extremely open minded. Will you engage in anal sex cause only some of my girls will follow through and because that falls under the category of fetishes it will cost more?

She replies,Attractive couple cuddling on the couch

Baby steps Maurice, as I said this will be my first time and I can’t believe we are having this discussion lol. Anal sex will not be on the menu.

Maurice replies,

I will share photos for the two of you to approve then we agree on a date and venue.

She replies,

We would like to have you and your girl over for a weekend, we will book a secluded venue out of town from Friday till Sunday. Is that possible? We also want you to profile us as a couple over the weekend and give us a comprehensive sincere report on where we can improve, do you do that?

Maurice replies,

The weekend stay is possible and yes I will be able to profile you from the minute I arrive to the minute we part ways. As I tell all couples I profile, you need to prepare to hear things about you that you may not necessarily like but knowing the truth will give you the avenue for improvement. It is the difference between having a functional relationship and having a relationship of convenience where both of you just coexist within your own comfort zones with maximum compromise. Just prepare to have a kinky erotic weekend. I will also teach you how to squirt.

She replies,

Wow, are you sure I will and does your girl squirt?

Maurice replies,

Let’s put it this way, you and my girl will be squirting as you go through the motions of the threesome with your husband.

She replies,

You and my husband have similar traits, he will be over the moon when I relay your optimism. Maurice, please give us the best experience. I am counting on you to elevate our sexual connection for the better.

Maurice replies,

Don’t you worry, you will be a rejuvenated woman and your bond with your man will be more solid as you progress in your sexual exploration.

 

Feedback after the session:

Hi Maurice. I hope you are keeping well. I do not know where to the start. The weekend long session was awesome. The sexual segment was great and I was shocked at my ability to squirt (go figure). However, what was most interesting was your eye openingsouthcoastromance lust statements about the relationship setting we should maintain to out survive other relationships. Your share on male psychology really hit home and made sense even though at times I wish some realities were not so. I appreciated that you were not conservative with the truth. I believe I am more informed on how to communicate with my husband going forward. I will do whatever it takes to please my man and keep him seeing me not only as his wife but more importantly for him to see me as his relevant sexual mate. Thank you for your professionalism and guidance.

Maurice replies,

You are very welcome. I thoroughly enjoyed the weekend. Please keep being the woman you are, it is always refreshing to meet a woman who is willing to get out of her comfort zone to explore new ways of relating with her man. As you witnessed, a man is driven by thrills (society calls them cheap thrills but the excitement levels for a man cannot be ignored). A man seeks thrills and fun and if you can be part of the solution (not problem) you will prevail. Oh, before I forget, keep pampering him as you do so well. Every man has a 5 year old within him, when you consistently use your feminine side to pamper a man you will gain from your gestures. One of the problems we have with this equality malarkey is that some women have found it in themselves to become men or rather behave like a man towards their man. If you dare confront a man with male traits you will be commanding him to do what comes naturally and he will go on the defense. Keep up the good work.


 


 

Dear Maurice,

I am so sorry for the late feedback but better late than never. I totally enjoyed our session together though I must admit it was weird being with you as a stranger but your renown magic touch did the trick in more ways than one. You have a very calming effect if no one has told you that. I was nervous at first but once we started chatting you easedhappywomansquirter the process and I got comfortable. I have both good and bad news. The good news is that I have been able to gain orgasm and squirt following the weekly practice you recommended. I managed to squirt multiple times during sex, it was amazing but it was with the guy I told you about. The bad news is that with my husband it had failed completely and as you explained I think I stopped viewing him as a sexual partner awhile ago. Like I said, I do not love this other guy but his attitude and willingness to learn how to satisfy me just turns me on. After your teachings I even noticed that my vagina blossoms when I am with him but the same does not happened at home. He has even encouraged me to learn more from you. I wish those were my husband’s thoughts. I hate the fact that I have to be with another man to gain my sexual satisfaction but I am also not willing to sacrifice my sex life for my husband.

Maurice, it is hard being a woman, you are a mother of 3, a wife, emotional supporter offering obligational sex to a man who mounts you and falls asleep leaving you hanging, house manager, career woman and yet when you ask your husband to be more attentive he decides to rush for cheap thrills on the side and at times I feel sorry knowing thesesquirtingebony blog women are receiving substandard sex from a man who thinks he knows it all. Apart from my ability to enjoy sex like never before, one thing you did for me of which I am forever grateful is that you boosted my self esteem. I thought for years that I was the problem but our session confirmed that all I needed was to rediscover my womanhood. If you thought I squirted a lot during our session you should see me now only 2 months later. This guy I am with is your big fan and I am thinking of inviting him to the next session. He is very open minded and I would like him to learn more about sensual love making and that clitoris vacuum sucking, if he gets that right, I will be the happiest woman in Kenya.

Maurice replies,

I am glad that our session yielded positive results for you and thank you for the review. I am all about sexual empowerment so I welcome a session with you and your partner, just let me know when and where.


 

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Dear Maurice,

I have been married for the last 8 years to an amazing soul or so I thought but I have recently found out that she is cheating on me, its an office romance. It has been going on for a long while based on their chats. It broke my heart to know that she has contemplated leaving me for her personal assistant. I have dedicated my life to her and to think I left a man for her, though I don’t regret that I am just wondering how she could throw away all the years we have shared. I am 34 and I don’t think I can start all over and love again.

Maurice replies,officeromancetwowomen

I need to understand your predicament for us to move forward. You are a woman who is married to a woman and your spouse is having an affair with another woman or with a man?

She replies,

My partner is having an affair with a woman. We got married abroad and settled in Kenya some years ago. I was never into women but when we met 10 years ago I knew she was the human being I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. It has not been easy being with a woman in this Country. We have both sacrificed a lot to be together so how in the hell can she complicate my life like this. I have read your blogs for years but never did I think I would be a victim of love. Can I get her back?

Maurice replies,

You need to be honest with me, how is your marriage, is your relationship still functional or have you been in deep stormy waters?

She replies,

I wish I could say we were in a bad place but we are OK at home. We are not as sexual as we once were but we are happy if that makes sense. Could it be my work?

Maurice asks,

Why do you ask that?

She replies,

Last year I received a promotion which came with long hours at work and at times I work late at home. I do a 60 hour week.

Maurice replies,

I cannot be 100% sure but your type of working schedule has been known to drift couples apart. It is not about it being your fault but over a period of time your partner may have felt neglected and succumb to other lures. Social influences of lust are officeromancetwowomen IIall around us and some leave a sweet taste in our mouth. Again, I can only speculate at this point but it is fact that office romance is on the rise Worldwide. When you spend 40 to 60 hours with specific office colleagues a gradual connection develops, it starts with innocent coffees and lunches then it becomes routine, you and that person begin to share and at some point your union becomes an addiction. You can’t wait to see that person, they make you feel whole, you get a sense that they understand you better than anyone and yet it is usually artificial feelings that may manifest as love or a strong liking for someone otherwise known as infatuation.

She replies,

Are you saying there is a chance for us? And if so why would she think of leaving me for this bitch?

Maurice replies,

You must understand that lust is an extremely powerful emotion, it knocks out love any day. Lust causes people to utter all sorts of things because of the psychological charge it delivers. Most of those futuristic promises are usually momentary. So yes, there is a chance that you can revive your bond but it must be a mutual process. You need to calmly confront her and tell her you know about her affair and that you come in peace. She needs to feel secure otherwise if she is faced with a harsh environment then she will put up her defenses. The question is, do you want drama and rage or do you want to establish her true feelings and hopefully work towards mending your relationship. Please note, you need to be ready for the worst, she may want out. But we will cross that bridge if and when we get there. The ball is in your court.

She replies,

But Maurice, why do I have to be civil with her and yet she is the one hurting me?

Maurice replies,

If you want the marriage to survive, you must be civil. If you want to risk it and approach her with your rage and dislike for her then that is your choice but from experience with such cases that course of action will only further deepen the rift between you and pin her firmly in the arms of her lover who will be the consoling factor. If she admits to the affair and you both want to work things out then we can have a session and see how best we can move towards repairing your relationship.

She replies,

I just want her to feel my hurt but I do understand what you are saying. I will talk to her tonight, I need to know where we stand. I will update you. Thank you for your time.


 

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