mauricetherapy

Dear Maurice,

For once you are getting a positive story which came to be through one of your sessions in 2009. After listening to you during your session I got the idea of doing something out of the norm with my husband. It was easy because we constantly share ideas and are pretty open and we discuss everything without getting offended by one’s opinions or as you call it ‘desires’.

We had always discussed having a threesome and we did. We both agreed on a suitable candidate that we both fancied and we approached her, to our surprise she was game and we all got tested then we had a wild night out, had plenty of drinks as we pub crawled and eventually booked into an hotel. The hotel room was breathe taking (arranged by my hubby) and boy did we have an erotic night. Again as per your comments from the session we played kinky games of which we made up as the night matured. I must admit when my husband started to touch her for a second I was a bit worried but then I just snapped out of it consider how far we had already gone to make this night a reality and to my surprise my hubby was more interested in watching me and our threesome partner performing our girl on girl action. Is it every man’s dream to see women playing with each other? It was a new and thoroughly enjoyable experience I would have it everyday but we do have a family life lol. I never imagined a woman going down on me, I experienced orgasm so fast I was shocked and for awhile my body seemed to be on auto drive, words can not describe the sensations that went through my body.

I had asked my hubby to enjoy himself so as he was having sex I actually got turned on ‘weird ah’ as I also touched our threesome partner constantly playing with her size C cup breasts that looked more like a D cup, it was a fantasy come true especially for me because my hubby had already had this experience during his youthful days. ‘You see’ we shared everything about each other and I for one was not intimidated by the information we shared and for us to have a threesome was the peak of all erotic desires. My hubby is good in bed but clearly having a threesome was a real boost for him because he lasted for more than one hour without ejaculating, he was definitely the stud of the night. I’m sure you want to know how old we are and for how long we have been married. Well we are both under 45, been married for over 10 years and that’s all I’m saying because some of my friends read your blog.

I did leave out some info lol. So let me tell you that your tooth paste fore play idea actually did make my vagina tingle ‘thank you so much’ Dr Love. I know you hate that name ‘tough’ you are good at what you do, keep up the good work, I know you said that you don’t always manage to save all situations but I’m sure you have made a difference for many relationships.

By the way a friend of mine wants to meet you in person; she kinda has a crash on you and she especially wants to learn how to squirt. I told her about the session.

Thank you for inviting a new flavour to my marriage sex life.

Maurice I can only imagine that your sex life is awesome. I am curious would you like to share and tell what your most erotics moments and fetishes so that my husband and I can also try. Sorry to put you on the spot.

 Maurice’s reply:

Indeed you have put me on the spot but really this blog is not about my adventures. What I can reveal is that there’s very little I haven’t tried with one or more and I do have a few fetishes! I’ll leave the rest to your imagination.

Reading your story gives me hope that as Africans we are slowly coming out of the closet and showcasing ourselves for who we really are. Instead of hiding behind out dated customs, traditions and cultures that most of us only use when it suits our agenda. Many people will not agree or understand why you and your husband can allow a third party in your marriage but it’s not their place to outline what is right or wrong. Many will have religious reasons to why your actions are wrong, of which I would rather not comment about for now.

All I can say is there are numerous ways to spice up a relationship and you found yours. I take everyone’s lifestyle and sexual preference as a way of life that is comfortable for them without judgement. You only live once so enjoy your sexual escapades and explore your limits. Whether you are liberal or conservative try something once and if it’s not for you then at least you tried rather than living life asking yourself ‘what if’ or ‘shoulda coulda woulda’ avoid looking back at life and wishing you had done things differently.