Dear Maurice,
I am 18 years old and I am a big fan of your blog, especially your videos on facebook. You tell it as it is and I would like to share my story with you as long as you do not name me.
Maurice replies,
You have nothing to worry about, in the last 8 years of blogging I have never mentioned anyone in any of my stories. I only seek to share human relationship and sexual experiences. Please feel free to share.
She replies,
I am 18 like I mentioned and from a middle class family. I have never lacked in my life and I am grateful for that. However, my parents have never been keen to educate me on matters sex. There is a massive failure of parents especially as we millennials reach 10 to 14, we are exposed to so much and if you do not have an adult to guide you, you can easily be led astray by social media and peers.
I was lucky enough to have my Dad’s friend mentor me in the different stages of my life. My Dad asked him to be my mentor because I always looked up to him as my ‘uncle’. He was the father figure that was willing to talk to me about boys. My mum refused to mentor me, all she ever said was that boys were evil and she would only be comfortable talking about boys once I was legally an adult but to this day she still feeds me useless information thinking am still a child. Anyway, if it wasn’t for you and my Dad’s friend I would have made a lot of mistakes that girls make at the age of 14, where we rush into sex because most of our friends are doing it. Parents think we are stupid and immature, and yet we know right from wrong but we choose to defy them because we either do not want to be ‘left out’ or we just reach a point where being treated like a baby just makes us vengeful.
Maurice asks,
So what you are saying is that many girls at 14 years of age will enter into sexual relations because they want to fit in with their peers?
She replies,
Exactly, and when your mum tells you that boys are evil, she makes you curious enough to want to find out ‘how evil can they be’. You get me Maurice?
Maurice replies,
Oh yes, I get you loud and clear but unfortunately most parents don’t want to have this discussion. Then you have a segment of parents who don’t want their unless parenting skills to be questioned. I recall a concerned mother contracting me to have several sessions with her 14 year old daughter and one of her concerns was social media. Her exact question was ‘if I take away my daughter’s phone she finds an alternative source of communication so how do I protect my daughter from men on social media, how do I make sure they don’t text her’. I told her that her biggest error was attempting to mask her daughter from the real World. So in our sessions, all I did is expose her daughter to the realities of social media and how to counter and manage her surroundings (how to deal with those men). It is vital to empower young people with social tactics so they can protect themselves.
She replies,
I agree. It is important to empower girls with ways of dealing with predators instead of imprisoning us then releasing us into the World with zero skills. It is equivalent to releasing a goat into a Lion infested savanna. Maurice, I lost my virginity last year and I am thankful it was with a man who gave me a good experience compared to most of my girlfriends who had really bad experiences, enough to put them off sex. As young girls we always hear how magical and amazing sex is so we become curious but with fear of the act and judgement. This leads me to the real reason I approached you. For almost 8 years the person I could confide to about my feelings and boys was my Dad’s friend.
Maurice replies,
Sorry to butt in but how old is your Dad’s friend?
She replies,
He is 44, my Dad is 43.
Maurice replies,
Please continue, so the only person you could confide to was your Dad’s friend….
She replies,
Yes, I got to like him a lot because he was always there for me, he even attended my school events and took me out on picnics with his kids when my parents were too busy. By the time I was 16 a level of attraction kick in, he became my biggest crush. Please don’t judge me, I don’t know where the feelings came from , they just manifested and it gets worse. Last year at a family function I told him that I wanted to fuck him. He was like ‘what stop messing around, you shouldn’t say such things to me’. He further went on with ‘I am like your Dad’ , I responded ‘true but you are not’. He said ‘you are like my daughter’. I said ‘true but you are not blood’. I made it very clear that he needed to fuck me or I would run to my Dad and tell me that ‘uncle tried to touch me inappropriately’. I told him that he had to make a choice, have sex with me or say bye bye to his long friendship with my Dad. Even if he proved that he never advanced on me I knew my parents would never trust me again. One thing I have learnt is that people are very emotionally fragile so taking advantage is so easy.
Maurice replies,
So you black mailed him and I need to ask why considering he was there for you?
She replies,
This was in July and earlier in the year my first experience was so bad and I reckoned an older patient and experienced man was what I needed. It was a gamble that paid off.
Maurice asks,
How old was the guy who gave you the bad experience and is he still in your life?
She replies,
It was my friend’s brother, he is 22. My experience with him was traumatic. His inexperience was evident and that is why girls my age opt for older men who hopefully know what they are doing.
Maurice replies,
So you had sex with your Dad’s friend?
She asks,
Daaaah. It was incredible.
Maurice asks,
Did that not affect your relationship with him being like your father figure for all those years?
She replies,
He did not look traumatized while inside me so no that did not change much. Though, I do not see him as much at our place. But I know he meets with my Dad at the club every week. I think he is more upset that the sex stopped when I got him out my system. He failed to understand that he was only relevant the 4 times I needed his amazing sex. It’s bizarre how a grown ass man can sulk when he misses good pussy LOL.
Maurice asks,
So he wanted more even after his initial reluctance?
She replies,
Maurice, granted I am new in this game but after seeing his reaction while having sex even you would want more of this!
Maurice replies,
Let us keep me out of the equation. Question, what was your main reason of sharing this story?
She replies,
You have a following and many are parents. I want people to know that how they are
going about with their parenting is out dated. As you said, if my mother and father are not equipt with the know how of how to mentor us and empower us with how to deal with the real World then teenage pregnancy will remain a norm. There are many girls in high school who have had more than two abortions and part of the problem is parents who think keeping the girl child indoors is the answer. At some point we are let out and it only take less than 10 minutes for me to sample that evil boy between the shopping mall and home.
Maurice asks,
You want to shock parents into changing their conservative mindset to sexual education?
She replies,
Yes, even you Maurice. Because you are out spoken and practical in your delivery you must be part of the solution. We are brought for some uninteresting speakers and mentors in schools but we lack someone with your knowledge. Parents scare us with illogical truths, you however would be listened to because you would engage us as adults and tell us the consequences of our actions. We do not need to be shouted at, or addressed like children. We need a non judgmental person who will give us the low down with options, take door A and your choices may fail you, take door B and you can experience life in stages. That is what my generation wants, a person who scares us with the realities of today’s World not yesterday’s but also reminds us that ultimately it’s our individual choice that will map out our destiny.
Maurice replies,
I have tried to engage governing bodies for this to be a National debate that translates to a curriculum to empower young people who in turn nurture better morals in the fabric of society but the religious types and uninformed moral police are too stuck in the old conservative ways of educating society. In my professional opinion, their goal to save our African culture will fail because they do nothing but bandage a growing wound. Understanding the sexual psychology of an ever evolving generation will allow you to formulate social projects/programs that make a difference in the long run. I must say it has been enlightening to chat with you and thank you very much for sharing. It is just unfortunate that the deeper social problems in our society today will be ignored or ridiculed by those who evaluate through emotions that project their own inner insecurities opposed to being debated by progressive thinkers who can recognize a problem and see potential in implementing out of the box solutions that impact our society positively. Again, thank you for sharing.
Oh, one more question. What is your take on the boychild, specifically boys of your generation.
She replies,
Empowering girls is great but if you do not empower boys in the same measure then you will cultivate a society where the boychild is not able to handle the girlchild. I can speak for all girls but I know that when we date a boy our age it is just mainly for show to our peers. He is there for coffee dates, ice creams runs, pizza dates but our primary attraction is the older guy who not only fucks us for his pleasures but also empowers us with information that adds value in our day to day life. One day the boychild will be my boyfriend or husband. I know we won’t gel but I will keep him around to please mother but I will secretly have an older guy who understands me better in every single way. It is exciting to have a man who arouses your thought process, he just has relevance despite me having a boyfriend or husband. Personally I view marriage has an illogical process where the rules favor the same repressed boychild.
Maurice replies,
Wow, you should definitely consider majoring in some form of psychology. At your very youthful age you understand human behavioural science better than women two to three times your age.
She replies,
Maurice, they are seeking to be loved. We millennials are seeking relevance in our life, you can love us but if you don’t add value you can keep your love. Older women like my mum package love and sex together hence why she constantly has issue with my Dad who just wants pussy that motivates him. It’s not my fight so I do not meddle, but I could teach my mum a thing or two about men.
Maurice replies,
Oooook.
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think his mother suspects LOL. Oh by the way, my best friend and I are 22. His father is 46. He is so hot, he was a former rugby player. So anyway, I found out that his father was taking a trip out of town with his boys and I tagged along with a girlfriend of mine who got pregnant after that trip. But that’s a story for another day. In case you are wondering, I made out with his girlfriend over drinks at his place while he was out with his boys.
His father is a stallion. He does things to me that I can’t explain. I always thought men my age group were better at sex. Have you ever being addicted to a man and you can’t explain why, that is my current situation and I am loving it.
woman. You will not survive the social arena with that attitude. You have a commodity called a vagina and once men establish your material desires they will dangle that carrot and surely you will be baited ‘hook line & sinker’. By the time you realise your social errors your vagina will have mileage with nothing to show for it. Yes you made a mistake but it was not a small one. You crushed a man’s ego and now you want him back because he is doing well for himself which in my books means you want to be a parasite in his life. It is offensive to men to think that your wrongs can be rectified or forgiven by the use of your feminine lure. You are mistaken. I have seen your photo and I can attest to the fact that you are an attractive young woman but to your ex, your vagina lost value the minute your devalued his manhood. It’s as simple as that. For how long as he allowed you to stay at his place and if he were to ask you to leave where would you go?
the variables your odds are extremely slim. Maybe in the future he may want you back for some reason or another but for now I would advice that you live by his rules and seek out an alternative place to stay. Find a balance, live within your means as you reconnect with your son and find ways to improve your business. Those in my opinion are the things you need to concentrate on and stop meddling in your ex’s affair otherwise he might eject you sooner. I strongly urge you to remodel yourself and strife to becoming a better focused independent woman. If you continue to flaunt your youthful beauty the vultures of this World will devour you and if you meet the wrong click they will turn you in their recreational centre.
decided to embark on my own adventure and now I am conflicted in so many ways. As you know I have been married for 6 years and despite trying to spice things up my sex life has been extremely pathetic. My husband has always reminded me that we are Catholics and that sex is sacred. He only knows missionary and he says any form of oral sex is sinful and demonic. I am only 26, please help me.
the chama session. We exchanged numbers solely for his massage service and we ended up doing much more. Matheka, please do not judge me but I had never felt a penis that big, my husband’s is very small in comparison. The way he licked my pussy was amazing and I had never given a blowjob before. He said I was a good student. It was the first time for me to orgasm without having to play with my clitoris. How do I get over him?
prowess over the years so for you to experience him you must pay him. I believe those are part of the rules that he stipulated. A man who has his level of sexual vigor has value. It’s unfortunate that we live in a World where ‘the penis’ has no or little value. Men who are procreational may not have value but all the guys I work with in relation to delivering sexual ecstasy are recreational sexual lovers. I have taught them to value their penis. I am also a bit conflicted because I am wondering how I can be of help in your predicament.
luxury and love. In my analysis, he delivered 100% on the luxury but in the department of love I can give him 2/10. He is the kind of man who has never apologized but finds it necessary to buy me a gift or take me out for an expensive dinner rather than say sorry and I have to put on a face of happiness. The only good thing to come out of our marriage is our 2 lovely daughters. Regrettably, if I knew what I know today I would not have entered into marriage. I don’t know whether these are words from a bitter woman but I think that men who overly shower women with money are compensating for something. I say this because I met my husband during a period when I was dating several guys and even though my husband
has a sizable tool our sex life as been terrible. Yes, he is the father of my children but bad sex is just bad sex. I will quote your words ‘a vagina responds to stimulus, it does not recognize relationship labels’ ..PREACH ON. When I read those words, it’s like you were talking about my vagina. I have never had an orgasm with my husband, mind you he is built like a rock. He is one of those gym fanatics. To look at he looks delicious but his game is usually a 2 minute or less affair, he only has energy to lift weights lol. His spontaneous ejaculating has been horribly consistent. My ex who is married used to give me the most sweaty sex ever, complimented by his ability to make me orgasm with his tongue. I digress, its been 12 years of settling and I am done.
made love in 14 months and since 2009 we have probably had sex once or twice a year. Matheka save me from my frustrations! What has kept me busy has been my children and work. So are your magical fingers up to the task, I would like us to begin in 2 weeks? I have an apartment in Kilimani of which my husband does not know of (a girl must take care of herself lol) and that will be our venue for our sessions. Oh, I also want you to teach me how to engage and manipulate men. May be I am old skool. I have always given a man the lead but now the confidence instilled by our sessions should give me the upper hand, does that make sense?
based on her amazing body and sex with her is beyond anything I have ever experienced with a man. I have given her a lifestyle to die for but I am disappointed that she can’t stay exclusive to me. She is bi-sexual and I know she fucks around with men behind my back. With everything I do for her would you not expect her to be loyal to me considering my husband and I only have sex like 4 to 5 times a year if that?
her to be exclusive and she stated my demands were not fair. I dress her with designer wear, I pay for her Muthaiga mansion, I bought her a brand new BMW, I cover for her club membership and her annual trips abroad (mostly shopping). She has a monthly standing order allowance of $3000.
support of you the session would not have taken place. But once you commenced with your voice notes and you spoke a lot sense you suddenly became the best speaker we have ever had in our forum. Some of your previous haters are not your biggest fans, it was a job well done. Now, I have an issue that I could not share in the group though I did ask a few questions and I appreciated your responses. I am 32 and a self made successful software developer. For 3 years I have been dating my soul mate. I could marry her tomorrow but I am so afraid to give her my love. Truth be told 4/5 years ago I was a womanizer but since meeting her, life shifted for me. I fell in-love and her sex is off the hook, it feels great to be with her. But even though she professes to love me I don’t think she is ready to be fully mine.
do you have laughs that leave your ribs hurting, do you go out socializing and instead of allowing your environment to control you you stay united and embrace each moment together, do you sometimes feel like you breath the same air, yours is uncontaminated and pure? If none of the above resonates with your relationship attributes then my friend, your relationship was most likely formed on a weak foundation. Loving someone is sweet and intoxicating, you can even taste it in your mouth but the problem is, that sweetness is not replicated in her mouth for you to share in the delights. She is most likely enjoying the tidal wave not knowing that in the horizon you seek to find calmer shores where you can settle with her.
years. Secondly, apart from my sexual life, which I will go into, I am thankful for the information you shared which hit home in relation to my marriage. My husband and I had a serious talk where we looked at our viable options and we recently decided not to get a divorce but live together as friends. Frankly, a divorce would be too expensive and we feel our kids still need both of us to live under one roof. Even though my husband refused to attend our initial consult session he agreed with 80% of what you shared with me. We have a guest wing and that is where he will be living and we shall review that status after 2 years. Our discussion also touched on the sensitive matter of dating other people and we came to a mutual agreement. We have a transition to adapt to but I am confident that the harmony you spoke about will be achieved.
defined labels but responds to a stimulus which contradicted what we are taught by society, that you will only enjoy sex with the man you love. Your stimulus theory has been confirmed repeatedly because despite loving him and thinking of him as my ultimate man, sex with my husband was nothing but obligational and has been for years. Then a week into our session I applied what you taught me with some other guy and the water works were in full display. He even commented ‘your husband doesn’t appreciate this’, I had to tell him that it had never happened with any other man. You should have seen the pride in his face, as if he had conquered the World. Just as instructed I told him to patiently alternate between licking my urethra zone and my clit. I felt the build up and he told me to let go. I splashed on his face. He got up with this mighty look on his face totally convinced he could move Mountains and like you recommended I gave him the credit. Oh, before I forget, I ventured out and tried out my
fantasy with a woman and I love it. It was by far the most sensual sex I have ever experienced. All in all my sex life and over all outlook on life has changed. As you well noted, one of my main issues was that I was a stickler for societal rules and morals. I have since learnt to be more flexible in my day to day life. I have also learnt to find happiness within myself instead of relying on external love and affirmation. I believe that the work you do is critical in changing mindsets and giving people direction in their relationships. Many of us are sold into the Disney version of marriage ‘happily ever after’ and to be perfectly honest, if I could turn back time, I would never have rushed for a marital status that would become my source of misery for 8 years out of 9. Anyway enough with memory lane, I will now only focus on the things that bring me joy and Matheka you have bought me a lot of joy and I will be forever indebted to you. I have asked a friend of mine to see pronto, she is also a member of the denial club and I know she will benefit from your session(s). God bless you and have a marvelous 2018.
confidence and self esteem was at its lowest point but through our sessions I gain self awareness and inner love for myself that had be beaten out of me for 9 years. Marriage is overrated and until I met you I actually thought it was my fault that my husband repeated emotionally crucified me. If I knew then at 22 what I know today I would have taken my time before getting into marriage of which I thought was the epitome to becoming a woman. I believed in my husband, he was my King almost a God in my World. How could a man who loved me hurt me was my thinking. I always heard women complain about men but I told myself that my baby was different, he was the exception to the rule. Little did I know he fed me a false narrative, constantly seduced me with his charming ways as he cultivated relationships with other women who facilitated in his sexual escapades. Then I met Matheka. The man who tells you as it is and truth be told I kind of hated you for telling me the truth about my marriage. One trait I hope you maintain is your ability to listen, that was refreshing. You let me vent without judgement and for that I appreciate your patience.
towards sex has totally changed for the better all thanks to you. When you kept saying you teach a woman to own 70% of her ability to orgasm, I had no idea what you meant but now I know and I am a beneficiary of your teachings. Excuse my TMI moment but after months of practicing the vagina muscle movements you taught me, I had sex with that stud I told you about and he was so thrilled when I squirted. The man can’t stop texting and calling me, he always finds an angle to bring up squirting. It’s laughable, the things that excite you men but I am not complaining. After your counsel I am getting to learn the true nature of men rather than the mythical man most of us women want men to be. Matheka, because of you and I never thought I would say this but I am able to have casual sex and enjoy sex like never before, whom am I kidding, in my marriage orgasms were miracles almost unheard of but today I can make it rain lol. As you can see I am on a roller-coaster which was influenced by you. You took me from a very dark place to a place full of peace, hope and happiness. Thank you for all that you did for me and I hope my story will encourage other women to spread their wings and rediscover themselves. Be blessed Matheka.
that her pussy was sweet (words my husband would never use), apparently her pussy makes him really hard, is he bewitched? He told her he loved how she gave him a blow job and how he got turned on when she swallowed his cum. He also said “my wife would never allow such”. In the 14 years I have known this man he has never asked or shown interested in such acts. Our sex has never gone for longer than a few minutes and because he is the only man I have known sexually I thought we were both happy. Matheka, this man has shocked me, he is very prayerful and extremely strict in his home. I really don’t know what has happened to the man I knew, how can my husband text another woman how he longs to eat her pussy all night long when he has only given me minutes! Is it possible for a man to have double personality?
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