Women too often complain about the man’s ability to perform cunnilingus or lets call it oral sex, ‘going down town’, personally I love my Chinese if you get my drift.
There are millions of women who are gagging for a good suck! Its time men ‘took time and interest’ to learn the vagina and the amazing things that guys (and girls) can do to it with their tongues.
If you’re not much of a vaginal vacuum and are hesitant to try oral sex because of odors or whatever other preconceived notions that you have, ensuring that she has just come out of the shower will ease your tension and you’ll be able to let loose orally. There are men who absolutely refuse to perform oral sex; I suggest you get over yourself, because your woman likes to receive oral sex as much as you like to receive a blow job.
Sensual licking, gentle sucking or all around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris will surely make you popular with her. It is paramount that you handle the vagina with care, many men tend to mess up by moving in there like a bulldozer, stop it. When you begin to give her oral sex, it’s important to start slowly. Women like it when a man takes his time to appreciate her body. What she won’t like is an overachiever who jumps right in with an aggressive tongue, remember the bulldozer!
Pretend that her entire vagina is an cone ice-cream with multiple scoops of your favorite flavour; if you don’t like ice cream suck it like you would a lolli pop. Apply your tongue to lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris. Remember to chill out and relax; her vagina is not relocating to her jaw anytime soon, so take your time, enjoy yourself and don’t get tense and end up biting her. Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. Once you’ve done that, draw her vaginal lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other side ‘it’s only fair you tend to her entire vagina’ be generous with your tongue.
Gents, were you aware that the tongue is the body’s strongest muscle? So with that info, imagine what you could do with your tongue if you were giving her stimulating oral sex. Since you have more control with your tongue than with your penis, the sensations will drive her crazy. Not only is your tongue naturally lubricated with saliva, you can maneuver it in ways that a penis never could or ever will (unless your penis is elastic). So why not use your tongue to have sex with her? Thrust your tongue in and out of her vagina, and take a break from time to time to explore her inner walls. While you’re roaming around down there, vary your cadence (rhythmic flow) and the firmness of your tongue. Use your firm, flexed tongue for pinpoint accuracy, such as when you circle the clitoris, and use a limber, flat tongue to cover more ground. Remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation. However, don’t apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off. Start out gently and increase pressure and speed according to her reaction, her body language.
When you have her as hot as a lioness on heat, applied oral sex techniques are going to drive her wild. It is crucial that you pay attention to her reactions and body language at all times. With her clitoris still exposed, give it quick little sucks by enveloping it with your mouth momentarily and releasing it. This will definitely have a positive effect on her entire body. Next, take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it while you simultaneously flick your tongue over and around it. You can perform this oral technique very lightly or aggressively, depending on what she likes, follow her instructions, ask her how she wants it. If you combine these oral sex techniques with your fingers, she is more likely to experience a mind blowing orgasm.
Gents, please remember following instructions does not mean you don’t know how to please her, that said, she is the one with a vagina so it only makes sense that you keenly follow her instructions so that over time you become the stud of licking pussy. I believe many men would love that ‘title’.
Above all, have fun down there, and keep her on her toes (or off as the case may be).
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I’m all for it ;)!
and what do you do when your gf won’t let you? and it’s not because i’m not good at it. i’ve seen the results many times and have been begged to do it again and again. but this one just isn’t into it, and it’s my favorite. i’d rather do that than fuck sometimes. i’d have no problem if someone said, “ok, i want you to do this to me, but i’m not doing anything to you, i’m just rolling over and going to sleep.” i’d say, “no problem.”
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Awesome Read! XD
lessons well learned
what a lovely read. I love to do this more than anything else! Gives a man such power over his woman, just as when a woman goes downtown on her man, gives her.
Mhmmmm…..too true!well said π
Yeah, it’s all about getting curious with your tongue and paying attention. A woman will let you know if she likes what you’re doing.
I am so wet right about now
oho, really?
Maurice I hope you practice what you preach so well then again something tells me you do
All men who have reservations about dining on southern cuisine should read this and if you are a woman who is too scared to let your man dine on you, you are missing out on a great sexperience! I advocate for oral sex both ways, I love to give and receive π
That is hoooooooooooot…….
which woman would not want this…..
As a woman who loves a good munch fest, its nice to see so many men claim this is one of their favorite activities when it comes to the sport that can be sex.
I think one of my favorite lines in here for some reason is “…many men tend to mess up by moving in there like a bulldozer, stop it.” However, there should be an exclamation point there. π
Some bonus advice you could add is some women (not me personally), like a little clit nibbling with the front teeth. Or to spice things up a bit, sucking on some ice or a mild mint (NOT AN ALTOID) can also add to the experience for her.
Great read! It did make me a bit hot. π
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