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August 25, 2013 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Maurice,ebonysidekick

I am currently jobless and I have a man in my life who is not adding value as he promised. He has promised me over and over and over but he never delivers.

Maurice asks,

Who is he to you, is he your boyfriend?

She replies,

I have been dating him for 5 years.

Maurice asks,

What are these promises and are you sure you are both on the same boat in regards to the direction of your relationship?

She replies,

Since we met he has only fulfilled one promise. After a few months of dating he started to pay my rent and utilities bills. But he refused to buy my food because I was working at the time. I have to remind him and pester him to do stuff for me. I have to eat. I have a car to maintain. I wanted to sell my car mid last year but he discouraged me saying he would be there for me. What pisses me off is that these days he seems reluctant to pay anything on time.

Maurice asks,

For how long have you been out of work?

She replies,

For 2 years.

Maurice asks,

What have you done to regain employment?

She replies,

If I am honest I was extremely aggressive in my job search for about 1 year then I just gave up. He told me that I should not worry and that he would take care of me. But now it seems like I am a burden to him.

Maurice asks,

How serious is your relationship, do you plan to wed?

She replies,

That might not be a possibility?

Maurice asks,

Why not?

She replies,

He is married with 2 kids.

Maurice replies,

I see. So you understand there’s only so much he can do for you?

She asks,

What do you mean?

Maurice replies,

Regardless of what you were promised, a lot that was said over those benefited him more than you, otherwise why play the game. It was a means to an end. With most men who choose to maintain a side kick there is always a rule book and only he knows all the rules. While together he will only reveal those rules that gain him an advantage over you and those that make sure that you do not interfere with him primary family. I call it social time share management. Men are gifted in a variety of ways, some with the gift of the gab, others the power of their wallet. Every angler has his method of applying his bait and securing his catch.

If I may ask, why is it that you do not have children with him, do you use protection?

She replies,

Before we met I was using the coil because I was not ready for children. Since we met we have always gone for random HIV tests because he has never been keen on using condoms.

Maurice asks,

With the fact that you were not hurrying to have a baby you were his dream come true. Many married men with girlfriends can attest to the pressure they receive in relations to baby making.

Do you trust that apart from his wife he is exclusively sleeping with you?

She replies,

Considering how careful he has been I am inclined to trust that he is not seeing any other woman or women.

Maurice asks,

Based on what you have told me he will never be yours so what do want from him?

She replies,

After what you have said I am no longer sure of the future with him. What do you advise?

Maurice replies,

In my opinion I believe he is reluctant to help because for the last 2 years he feels that the extra burden is not what he signed up for. As you said he committed to paying for your rent and utility bills but when your status went from employed to unemployed the dynamics of your relationship changed for him. He most likely feels like he has two families to look after.

Despite contributing financially his ultimate driving force towards you was the fact that you represented a side of his life that was fun and adventurous, perhaps you even provided for the only home where he did not feel judged but appreciated. But currently with you pestering him your role in his life is no longer a positive reflection. Whether you are with him or not you only have one option. If you believe in yourself you will land that job but you must get back to being aggressive in your search. You must empower yourself and get back on your feet. Do not rely on a man that does not belong to you. He is not obligated to you and the reality is there are plenty of married women who have unreliable husbands. Taking up responsibility is a choice.

Something tells me that you are not going to leave this relationship so do yourself a favour and gain financial independence and learn to live with his unwritten rules.

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Trophy wife

August 12, 2013 by MauriceTherapy

Hi Maurice,

I was introduced to your blog by a friend and I must say you are good at what you do especially the sex pieces are so awesome but I must admit some of those sex position tips are over board for me, kudos.

Now to my contribution. I feel I must share my story. I have been married for 12 years and I have 3 beautiful children that I love dearly but I have never loved their mother in the context of what people call love.

Maurice asks,

So why marry her and have kids?

trophywifeHe replies,

I am going to seem like a complete asshole but I am sure you are not one to judge. I married her because it suited me to wed a beautiful woman who would bear my children and make me a family as well as satisfying my mother’s wish to have grand children.

Maurice asks,

Do you have any feelings for your wife?

I care for my wife. I have given her every comfort a woman can dream of and I still perform my role as her husband. And that is it, it is just a role I have played for 12 years. Every week we go out for our lunches and dinners. It is also part of my promise to take her on holiday abroad once a year and I do it willingly.

Maurice replies,

Indeed it is not ethical to judge I leave that to my readers. I comment and give my views based on information. From my experience your scenario is not uncommon. You may not fit the societal rules of marriage but despite your lack of love for your wife you are probably providing more than many men who claim to love their wives. Have you come across men who are in your situation?

He replies,

Yes I have. Two of my close friends from my line up are married and not out of love. One of them relates to me, he married his wife because she got pregnant, she was supposed to be a weekend fling but her bedroom skills kept her in the loom longer than expected. Our only difference is that he finds it very difficult to provide willingly in his 9 years of marriage. As you can imagine they are always entertaining us with their dramas. The other friend married because of pressures at work. He could see a promotion coming and as you know most corporates do not advance careers of single men.

Maurice asks,

Have you ever been in-love?

He replies,

Good question. I have read much of your work so I am confident that you understand male psychology in relation to women. To be perfectly honest I have never known what love is in the Universal context but I know that I love certain things about a woman. I love my wife’s bodily attributes. She thinks I love her career progression but really I careless but you must please a woman with flowery words. I love how she makes me feel like a man in and out of bed. If she was not female and was unable to quench my manly requirements I would have no use for her and I know many men who feel the same way but at home they act their part like I do.

Maurice asks,

So do you think that men should come out clean and tell their wife why they are still relevant?

He replies,

Maurice I think we both know that would never go down well in the fairy tale World that women try and mold. Most men adopt a role that fits their woman’s expectations only the degree varies. For me I know that I took on responsibilities and I made a conscious decision to provide for my family. What drives me is the continuation of my family name through my children.

My wife says she loves me but I logically know that love is not unconditional. I fulfill her needs as a wife and mother by my financial power and my ability to provide long term security. If I was spending more on friends and other women she would not be so loving.  Nothing in life is free especially with this species called women, so unconditional love is a mythical notion if you ask me.

Maurice asks,

Do you have other women in your life?

He replies,

I am glad you asked. In my 12 years of marriage I have only had brief encounters with women. The rule is simple, we meet, we have a good time, we have protected sex and then we are done. When I meet women those are my terms and I never go without sex, it works for me. Unlike a lot of men I do not have the time or patience to provide for a girlfriend or another family. I have only had 2 repeat shags and that was due to their sexual nature.

Maurice asks,

Would I be correct to say that your wife was a trophy wife, that her physical attributes were visually enticing for her to qualify as your wife?

He replies,ebonynipples

You are correct.

Maurice asks,

And despite your lack of love you still find her sexually appetizing?

He replies,

Well put, she still arouses me. Personally I am a boob guy and I also like a curvy woman. Even though she is a size 12 from size 8, my wife has kept her shape and her filthy wild sexual character is still as adventurous as the day we first had sex 14 years ago.

Today I witness men who say they are in-love with their wife but are unable to attain an erection for the same wife. Clearly the penis does not know love.

Maurice replies,

That is scientific fact that the primal sexual calling in men has nothing to do with love. It is all to do with neurochemicals but most people are afraid of the raw facts.

He replies,

Thank you Maurice. It has been a pleasure chatting with you. I look forward to the responses you will receive once you post this. Keep up the good work.

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Is she ready?

August 6, 2013 by MauriceTherapy

smilingblackcoupleDear Maurice,

I think you are the only guy I know who can make sense of an issue I have in my relationship. I have been dating my girlfriend for 14 months and she is a dream come true apart from one thing about her.

Maurice asks,

What is that one thing?

He replies,

She has many male friends and I have a problem with a few of them.

Maurice replies,

Do you have a problem with her having male friends or is it specific male friends?

He replies,

After reading your blog it hit me that my concern of male friends having sexual intentions is real. That is why I am asking for your opinion.

Maurice replies,

In regards to the stats of 60% of male friends having other intentions towards their female friend is real, over decades there have been plenty of studies that have confirmed this fact. But I can only advise you more accurately if you give me all the facts in your relationship.

He replies,

My issue is that a few of them still call her at odd hours of the night when she is at my place.

Maurice asks,

What are odd hours?

He replies,blackwomanonphone

Calls at midnight when we are enjoying our quality time, even as late as 4am she will still pick calls. They proceed to imply they could pick her up for a night out. It gets frustrating that she does not always make it clear she is at her boyfriend’s place and even when she does I can imagine those guys have no respect for me at all. Would they appreciate me calling their women at odd hours? I do not think so. They must see me as a passing cloud.

Maurice asks,

How old are you both and are you exclusive to one another and what does she want from this relationship?

He replies,

Yes as far as I know we are exclusive. She is 29 and I am 34. She wants us to take it further in September 2015, she wants us to get married and have kids.

Maurice replies,

I am guessing you want the same?

He replies,

Yes I do. She says I am paranoid and that insecurity in a man is not attractive. What she forgets is that I have plenty of female friends too but I made a choice 6 months ago to have her as my priority and those who are real friends will understand and be supportive of my relationship.

Maurice replies,

Well, in my opinion there’s a very thin line between being paranoid and seeing the obvious. I believe your concern is valid and if she really wants this relationship to work long term she needs to realise that lifestyle adjustments are required otherwise she will cause you to lose interest if you have to fight for simple things. Phone calls from male friends at odd hours will not benefit your relationship. The same way odd hour calls from females directed to you would not be tolerated by her. That said, we must consider her status.

He replies,

What do you mean?

Maurice replies,

Is she ‘really’ ready to commit to you with the same level of commitment? The answer will determine your future. She may genuinely want to be with you but she may also not be willing to disconnect with her social life. In your case it is a reality that has not yet be laid on the table. She has probably noticed your dedication to her and decided to play along in form of words but in reality she wants to balance you and her social life, to maintain her life that she had before you came into the picture. What I do know is that ‘balancing’ is not workable because one partner ‘you’ will feel that they are giving more to the relationship. That sentiment alone will inevitable be destructive if you do not establish a mutual way forward.

He replies,

Maurice, I have told her over and over but she always wiggles out with some justification or by making me feel I am fussing for no reason.

Maurice replies,

One thing I do not advocate for is begging. Out of love and many other emotional feelings one can attempt to prove themselves and end up looking desperate. Do not get me wrong I believe if someone is worth fighting for then you should do your best but there comes a point where you can do no more. It takes two to tango. She must also be able to identify a man who is committed and from that she is able to showcase her commitment to you willingly. You can’t and should not force it, her feelings towards you should be as clear as a blue sky. If indeed she wants to spend her life with you she should make you feel like the most important person in her life by default. That is the foundation that will give your relationship a living chance in the long term.

He replies,

Thank you. I think I will make her read this.

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How do I seduce a man?

August 1, 2013 by MauriceTherapy

black woman smilingWell, well, well. It is a common question and the answer is usually simple. You being of the opposite sex and looking sexy alone usually does the trick but if you really want to get results you need to fully implement the following to turn the hunter into the hunted.

Lets get one myth out of the way. Opposites do not attract, not unless you are experimenting in the sciences! Men are more drawn to women with similar interests hence why compatibility is an essential social agent in foundation making.

If you are in a club for instance you will find mirroring or mimicking a man will get you his attention. How does this work, its simple, if he sips his drink, you sip yours. It creates a sense of connection but it is important to establish some formcoupleinlaughter of eye contact for a period of time. Why is eye contact important? Most men are never good at reading signals so the more eye contact a man receives the better. If you glance at a man twice he may not get the message but if you glance at him 10 or more times he may actually gain the confidence to walk up to you. So make sure he gets your attention before you end up drinking litres of liquid in the search of a one night adventure or love.

It is true that most men like to conquer a woman but there is a thin line between playing hard to get and putting a man through a military drill to becoming a killer ranger. If you like a man make it clear to him that he can have you after playing your ‘cat and mouse’ game. In today’s World just like in a supermarket there are endless products so make sure your brand of woman is visually enticing and accessible otherwise a man will assume you to be nothing but a tease and he will move on.

Does food seduce a man. No, but it fills his belly. On the other hand if you are attempting to seduce him during a light meal I recommend avocado as part of the serving, it may not yield instant results but it has the properties to elevate a man’s arousal. Whatever you do, ‘do not’ feed him with 1kg of avocado hoping to accelerate his libido you might as well taking him sky diving and scare him to death. If you can get your hands on raw cacao powder it will surely stimulate a man’s neurochemicals.

Will you seduce a man with a short dress, tight jeans, mini skirt, sexy slutty lingerie, with cleavage shouting ‘suck me’. You most probably will attract the kind of man who sleeps with anything that moves but something tells me that is not the quality you are looking for. Men are attracted by a woman’s dressing because we aresexyebonycampusgirl visual by nature and if your dressing shows off your female attributes (minus your great heart), we will response by staring with a ‘I want to eat you in many ways’ face.  But what really stands out is your confidence. You may wear a sexy number but your beautiful face shows vulnerability that is not always attractive.

If you do not have confidence in yourself how do you expect to reflect a positive signal in a man’s eyes. Whether a size 8 or 16, what matters most is your confidence. Hence why most men get confused when we hear “baby my ass has grown too big”, there is no such thing as a too big ass, we like to see it, touch it (that rounded formation is awesome), we want to suck it, lick yoghurt off it and spank it. The same applies to your breasts otherwise referred to as ‘boobs’, we loved suck on them as babies and we still do as grown men. Hmmm the thought of rock hard nipples and lactation just does it for me.

Lastly (as I smile), men themselves may not know this but for decades studies have shown that men identify women who are ovulating, it should not be strange considering our earthly function is to procreate and how do you guarantee life goes on if you don’t have the natural instinct to pick the right one to mate with.

A word of caution to those women who get along better with male friends. You may not know this but about 20% of affairs are with women who indirectly seduce their male friend (one thing leads to another). You may think you are part of the boys click but in reality 60% of your male friends have sexual intentions towards you but may never tell you.

Good hunting….

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He is married ‘so what’

August 1, 2013 by MauriceTherapy

unhappyBcouple.Hi Maurice,

I am taking issue with you.

Maurice replies,

What issue?

She replies,

Something you implied on your facebook status regarding women dating married men.

Maurice replies,

So what did I imply?

She replies,

You made it sound like married men are innocent in their affairs. Married men have a choice to stay faithful or not so do not put the blame solely on women.

Maurice replies,

Yes, you are right they do have a choice but that was not my point. Question, are you married?

She replies,

No I am not.

Maurice asks,

So are you having dialogue with me defending the actions of single women?

She replies,

I am single in the sense that I do not have a boyfriend but I am dating a married man.

Maurice asks,

Is he your first married man and for how long have you dated this guy?

She replies,

He is my second official married man and we have been together for 4 years.

Maurice replies,

I can’t help but notice your reference of ‘official married man’ and your use of the phrase ‘we have been together’. Is that your way of justifying your relationship with a married man?

She replies,

I might as well be his wife and I am not justifying anything nor do I apologize for dating a married man, so what if he is married. If the wife was doing her job women like me would not be doing her job for her. Like I said this is my second married man and I make him feel like a man of which he doesn’t at home.

Maurice replies,

Before you give me the ‘I know him better than the wife speech’, what does he gain from you that the wife can’t give him?

She replies,

I give him what you write about. Come rain or shine I fulfill his sexual needs ???????????????????????????????????????????????????whenever and I learned a long time ago that sex for men is like breathing, too bad his wife thinks she can give it to him only when she feels like it. When he comes over to my place I make him fresh meals and I have done so for 4 years. His wife of 5 years plays the ‘I am tired’ card and yet I work the same hours but the difference is that I am willing to play the universal woman’s role and make my man feel like a King.

It is not my fault that his wife fails to be a woman for him. He has described his home having 2 men instead of a man and wife and that is why he has consistently come running to me for 4 years. Just like women, men love to be pampered and their egos stroked on a daily basis. Whether I am mad at him or not I constantly affirm to him that he is a man, my man. At home he receives verbal abuse for small issues and that makes him feel unwanted and useless. How many times have I instructed him to do something for his wife, plenty of times is the answer.

Maurice asks,

Are you saying that because of you the wife has benefited?

She replies,

Yes. If I may recall there is a time about 1 year ago that the wife really wanted a holiday and he was not for the idea but I convinced him to take her because it was only fair after I put myself in her shoes. He owed her that holiday based on other details I would rather not share.

Maurice asks,

Thank you for being so considerate. What do you gain from being the secret 2nd wife?

She replies,

Maurice I read all your articles and the best answer I can give you is that I gained compatible companionship. I pay my own bills but I have financially benefited from him and invested in properties that I own. When I met him he was just a guy I had fun with and before we knew it he was spending a lot of time with me and through that time he advised me on how to improve my life and he only promised things he could deliver. That is one reason I still have him in my life. There are plenty of men to embezzle from but I wanted more. I wanted a man who understood me, who listened without judgment and added value to my life. It is just too bad that it was a married man that filled that void 4 years ago. I have no regrets nor do I have expectations like him leaving his wife. When he is with me he is mine and I am content with that.

Maurice asks,

What is your opinion on marriages today in relation to your scenario?

She replies,

To be perfectly honest there are women out there who do not deserve the men they have. I have had my bad experiences with men so I will not say that all men are good but I have come to understand that men are not as strong as women think. Men also seek comfort, they want pampering like I had earlier said, they want to be acknowledged for the smallest of things and that is where us women fail. We expect men to be strong and solid at all times and that is not practical. I am no expert but I must be doing something right to receive daily text messages from him checking up on me. He has told me numerous times that he feels at home at my place and that when he sleeps he is at peace knowing when he wakes up he will encounter a friendly face.

Maurice replies,

Thank you for sharing.

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What can’t she tell me

July 15, 2013 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Maurice,

My wife and I have been married for 9 years. When we met we quickly discovered that we were very compatible in the extreme sexual preferences.blacklust We were candid enough to share our fantasies and fetishes and from there on we dated and eventually got married.

I am 37 and my wife is 33. We are your everyday family with 2 kids but while the kids are away my wife and I love to dapple in our sexual fantasies. I am seeking your opinion because after reading your posts I have related to your sex articles and I believe you are the right man to query with.

Maurice asks,

What is the issue?

He replies,

Until now my wife and I have been the envy of all our friends. We have always been known to defy all societal rules and we have been happy for years making our own.

Maurice asks,

So what has changed?

He replies,

As I said we are the extreme couple, we have had threesomes, foursome, you name it for years, once in awhile to spice a random weekend and it has alwaysGirlylust been a mutual thing but recently I over heard my wife telling one of our bunnies, that is what we call them, that she is in-love and is so confused because she also loves me. She also said “when am I seeing you again” to imply they met behind my back. For 9 years in marriage and another 3 years dating we have shared everything, it doesn’t matter how good or bad we have been an open book with one another so why can’t she just tell me that she has developed feelings towards one of our bunnies.

Maurice replies,

So let me get this straight, you are not pissed off by her love for this woman its more about not sharing with you, is that correct?

He replies,

Maurice you may think I am nuts but yes that is my only issue. Why now, what has changed for her not to be able to share with me. When we started to explore the extreme side of our fantasies it was her who had a problem and was a bit reluctant because she thought I would be lured by another woman while engaging in our adult games. But to date that has never happened because for me the thrill and excitement is only there if I am sharing that experience with my wife.

Maurice replies,

My job is not to judge people’s sexually escapades. I encourage sexually liberation. In your case its pretty simple. Based on what you have told me it should not be a problem rationally confronting your wife in a composed manner and telling her that you over heard her sharing what seemed like an intimate moment in the context of words with someone and you need her to know that you are not judging her but you need to know what that conversation was all about.

He replies,

I have a bad feeling about this. She could be planning to leave me.

Maurice replies,

Lets not go overboard and speculate, that will only stress you for no good reason. Unless you ask her you will never know the truth about that conversation she had.

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Help my man

July 9, 2013 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Maurice,

I was introduced to your blog a few weeks ago after a friend caught you on K24 and by some coincidence I came across your horny goat weed with maca post and for sure it has worked for me because I have been using it for 3 BcouplekissingIIyears. We were living in Europe and only came back home early last year.  Maca was good for me especially to boost my fertility and libido. I also suffered from an hormonal imbalance and it being an adaptogen has helped me over the years. I wanted to ask you about increasing my husband’s sex drive and as I can see you offer male versions but my problem is how do I present this issue to my egotistic husband. We have been married for 8 years. Our intimacy as we kiss and make out is great but him urge for sex and rising to the occasion has dropped. I do not want to imply the obvious to him and hurt his feelings but at the same time our sex drive has not been at par for a long while. He can do without sex for weeks, I on the other hand can’t bear the sexual frustrations and I find myself looking at other men and lusting after them and that is not the path I want to take. I have a great man who treats me well but because I have not told him about our dull sex life he believes everything is perfect between us. Can I crash the herbs into his food?

Maurice replies,

Absolutely not. I would never recommend that. Partnership is about 2 people not a one sided affair. If he ever found out you were more or less drugging him despite your positive intentions he would most likely never trust you and would probably question everything prepared by you.

I find it ridiculous that couples as they progress in their relationship vow to share everything and yet they never share in the real issues that plague relationships. This is not bad news that you are offering, it is an avenue to boost your husband’s sex drive for years to come. Question, he is aware that you use horny goat weed?

She replies,

Yes he is.

Maurice asks,

He thinks it is for what purpose?

She replies,

He knows it helps me with several things like hormone balance and libido.

Maurice asks,

Have you ever discussed an option for him?

She replies,

Yes but that was years ago, I guess we never followed through.

Maurice replies,

There you go, you have a platform to bring it up again. It is not what you say but how you say it. You have 2 options. You can either buy the herbal tablets and surprise him in the context of wanting him to maintain his sexual desire for you in decades to come or you can bring up the topic of how horny goat weed has worked for you and your sex drive and imply to him that you found a herbal supplement for him after you read ‘somewhere’ that men start to lose their sexual prowess and desire when they hit 30 which is fact. He needs to feel that he is not useless in bed and that you only want him to be able to rock your World in decades to come. It is all in the words you use to present your case. They must be words that paint a picture in his mind of him retaining the sexual stallion you see in him. Things can’t get worse they can only get better you just need to play your part and make your man feel like he has a mammoth penis that gives you endless orgasms.

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My K24 preview and survey

June 25, 2013 by MauriceTherapy

To my esteemed readers,

I am surprised and grateful that my readership has grown over the years and stems from all over the World.

Based on info from my back office we have readers from:

USA, UK, Germany, Qatar, Australia, Senegal, Pakistan, Nigeria, China, Canada, Austria, Brazil, Sweden, New Zealand, Norway, India, France, Uganda, Netherlands, Italy, South Africa, Switzerland…. if I have left out the Country you are in please list it on the comment area.

You can watch me on K24 every Wednesday at 10pm. Here is a preview of tomorrow’s show.

View link.

K24 KONNECT with Maurice Matheka

blackcouplekissingTo other matters, I want to do a survey using my blog’s ‘comments section’ and I hope you will assist me in coming up with some very crucial stats that I need in my line of work.

I need you to tell me the following:

 

 

 

How old you are and:

A: I am 16 – 20 and I have had x number of partners

B: I am 21 to 25 and I have had x number of partners

C: I am 26 to 30 and I have had x number of partners

D: I am 31 to 35 and I have had x number of partners

E: I am 36 to 40 and I have had x number of partners

F: I am 41 to 45 and I have had x number of partners

G: I am 46 to 50 and I have had x number of partners

Ladies and gents I really need your input. As you know I do not mention people names on my blog and the beauty of it is you can use your first name only and no one will know who you are, not even me, or you can use an alias name as long as it belongs to your gender.

Simple example:

Steve/Julie, 32 years, 4 sexual partners, 2 non sexual partners

It is that EASY. I await your comment posts….

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How to arouse a woman 101

June 17, 2013 by MauriceTherapy

One of my male readers after reading my article ‘erotic sex for couples’ has requested me to write about the basics of arousing a woman. So here goes….

First lets assume the woman finds you ‘the man’ sexually attractive and that she is in the right mood or you have your ways of inducing the mood. Otherwise everything I am about to write will not work.

It does not always apply to every sexual encounter but it is highly recommended that ALL men take their time to ‘warm up’ the woman whether makingoutyou think she is horny or not. Her vagina will not mutate into anything undesirable so take your time, flirt with her, seduce her and let the art of foreplay be second nature. Just like when you are about to embark on a long journey you check your car tyres for pressure, you check your engine oil and you also wash your car.

Well, the same applies with a woman. She is your long journey. You need to wash her down with seduction,  you need to oil her body and as you touch her your hands will slowly increase her temperature (unless you’re making out in Limuru or in the North Pole, good luck with that), and feel good chemicals will rush through her and sexual pressure will intensify.

Refrain your manly self from her vagina, slowly use your lips to awaken her arousal zones. Which are, her inner thigh, her neck, take your tongue to her upper back and follow the spine all the way to her butt then make your way back up. Listen to her moans they will set you on the right course.  When you turn her round lick 1 or 2 inches away from her nipple, you are now teasing her, then move to the next nipple before it starts to feel lonely. Now go south, again lick, kiss and suck her vagina’s out rim (her labia majora).

Lets assume her vagina is a City, it is your duty to form a circular by-pass around her vagina where your lips will do most of the ‘talking’. At this point with her so aroused she may pull you towards her ‘city’ but it is not time yet, there is much to do before you visit her secret garden.

Depending on how liberal you are, you can stimulate her clitoris with your finger (and be gentle, you are not preparing dough) or you can lick her. Listen and watch her reaction as you gently stroke her clitoris this will greatly aid you to maintain her arousal.

After you have indulged in the art of foreplay there will come a time when she will let you know that she is ready to embrace your girth. Again, its not a race to her ‘egg’, take your time. When you find the right momentum stick with it unless she requests otherwise. Sudden changes in sexual motion can set you back to point ‘A’ which means she may lose her arousal and interest.

That said and done it is VERY IMPORTANT that you keep a woman focused. Her mind should never be distracted, you should always make a woman feel sexy. black booty...Some women are insecure about their body and might be wondering what you think. Let her know that your erection can only be stimulated by a pleasing visual after all as men we are visual beings. Compliment her bodily attributes that arouse you and as you do that taste her skin, smell her neck (hopefully her designer perfume/soap won’t suffocate you).

Because I am directing this article to men PLEASE ‘guys’ be true with the words you whisper into her ear as you seduce her. Let the words be what you feel ‘as a sexual beast’ not what you think a woman wants to hear. So DO NOT tell her the following; she smells like tulips when you have no idea how a tulip smells like, her skin feels like silk WHAT!, her vagina smells like lavender (which man likes a lavender scented vagina) and when you look into her eyes you can see a universe of love…. REALLY! This is no time for a crash course in astronomy. Next you’ll be telling her when she farts you can see comets flying out of her ass.

Be real…. tell her what arouses you naturally. As you pass your hand across her body whisper about her ass, her breasts, her curvy hips, her erotic look (hoping you have gotten her to that level), about how she can please you as well. Remember your main goal is to arouse her to the point that she can not only physically but mentally induce an orgasm. Your satisfaction should stem from her satisfaction. Then and only then will you earn points.

Take the information above and be creative. She will appreciate the extra mile of effort.

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On Saturday 29th June I have a session in Mombasa

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He wants it all the time….

June 14, 2013 by MauriceTherapy

Dear Maurice,

First let me say you are doing a great service telling it as it is on your blog. IeroticcoupleIII have a problem, ok maybe it is not a problem but I want your opinion. I have been dating this guy for 1 year 2 months. He is a awesome guy, a great lover but I just cant keep up with him and he annoyed me with something he said a few days ago.

Maurice replies,

What do you mean with keep up?

She replies,

When we met we hit it off like wild fire, everyday we would have sex and it was out of this World. I just could not get enough of him and the same applies to him.

Maurice asks,

So where is the problem?

She replies,

I thought that after a few months the sex would slow down, it hasn’t. If anything his libido seems to be intensifying.

Maurice replies,

Again where is the problem?

She replies,

Imagine Maurice sometimes its too much for me to handle.

Maurice replies,

Let me take you down memory lane. You said that you had sex everyday is that correct?

She replies,

Yes.

Maurice asks,

For how long did this ‘everyday’ period last for?

She replies,

For about 4 to 5 months.

Maurice asks,

After that period did his penis suddenly mutate to something you do not crave anymore?

She replies,

Lol. No it did not.

Maurice asks,

Is your vagina tired, exhausted, does it need to take a break?

She replies,

Maurice I just can’t keep up with his sexual appetite.

Maurice replies,

This is my opinion. For those 4 to 5 months you mentally adopted to pleasing your man and now that you feel you own him, you have seized to go the extra mile. You are not alone, most first encounters force people to play a part to please and to keep the other person interested but once you realise your hunt is done people tend to slow down and stop acting the role they had taken up. Am I making sense?

She replies,

I guess I did play a role to keep him interested. Plus at the time there were other women who also wanted him.

Maurice replies,

So you went the extra mile to conquer the man’s attention, to make him yours. That was your driving force. I am curious what did he say to annoy you?

She replies,

During an argument about sex he said at least he is not fucking someone else but he is tired of initiating sex which I must admit he does most of the time.

Maurice replies,

I can not force my views on you but I must ask, are you ‘really’ sexually attracted to him or has the honeymoon period for you lapsed in that department?

She replies,

Maurice I wish you could be there to witness his appetite. He is the best lover I have ever had but waaah this nigga likes pussy too much.

Maurice asks,

The question is ‘who’s vagina does he like’, yours or someone else? My dear you do not have to have sex whenever he craves it but you need to snap back into that woman who was going the extra mile to please her man. I do not know your man but from your description of him he is most likely an alpha between the sheets. That breed of man is rear ‘trust me’.

A man who would rather have an argument about his sex craving towards one woman ‘you’ is a man who is true to you and you alone otherwise he would not bother with you at all. The other thing, your man knows that there are other men aka predators out there so he asserts himself fully to make sure that you are satisfied or in your case over satisfied.

My dear embrace the man you have, if you are tired or not in the mood, tell him that he will still receive your cookie the way he likes it once you are ready. His kind of breed likes to know that he is still wanted, that he is still your hunk, your stallion. Do not just say no to his advances and leave him hanging. That will only breed a man who eventually looks for it elsewhere. Men are visual sexual beings and only ignorant women overlook that fact, don’t be one of them.

Question, is marriage on the cards?

She replies,

Yes. I would marry him in a heart beat.

Maurice replies,

In that case have a firm grip on his penis before it falls in the wrong hands. What I am telling you applies to everyone. The reality of today’s World is if I do not satisfy my woman she may at one point seek it elsewhere. I am man enough to accept that fact of sexual nature in humans and so should everyone. If he is your chosen long term partner you must adapt to his craving for you or let him go.

She replies,

I get your point. I know I have a good man and from now on I will attempt to put effort like I did before.

Maurice replies,

Don’t attempt just focus on a positive mentality towards his advances and hold onto your man.

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On Saturday 29th June I have a session in Mombasa

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