Dear Maurice,
First let me say you are doing a great service telling it as it is on your blog. I have a problem, ok maybe it is not a problem but I want your opinion. I have been dating this guy for 1 year 2 months. He is a awesome guy, a great lover but I just cant keep up with him and he annoyed me with something he said a few days ago.
Maurice replies,
What do you mean with keep up?
She replies,
When we met we hit it off like wild fire, everyday we would have sex and it was out of this World. I just could not get enough of him and the same applies to him.
Maurice asks,
So where is the problem?
She replies,
I thought that after a few months the sex would slow down, it hasn’t. If anything his libido seems to be intensifying.
Maurice replies,
Again where is the problem?
She replies,
Imagine Maurice sometimes its too much for me to handle.
Maurice replies,
Let me take you down memory lane. You said that you had sex everyday is that correct?
She replies,
Yes.
Maurice asks,
For how long did this ‘everyday’ period last for?
She replies,
For about 4 to 5 months.
Maurice asks,
After that period did his penis suddenly mutate to something you do not crave anymore?
She replies,
Lol. No it did not.
Maurice asks,
Is your vagina tired, exhausted, does it need to take a break?
She replies,
Maurice I just can’t keep up with his sexual appetite.
Maurice replies,
This is my opinion. For those 4 to 5 months you mentally adopted to pleasing your man and now that you feel you own him, you have seized to go the extra mile. You are not alone, most first encounters force people to play a part to please and to keep the other person interested but once you realise your hunt is done people tend to slow down and stop acting the role they had taken up. Am I making sense?
She replies,
I guess I did play a role to keep him interested. Plus at the time there were other women who also wanted him.
Maurice replies,
So you went the extra mile to conquer the man’s attention, to make him yours. That was your driving force. I am curious what did he say to annoy you?
She replies,
During an argument about sex he said at least he is not fucking someone else but he is tired of initiating sex which I must admit he does most of the time.
Maurice replies,
I can not force my views on you but I must ask, are you ‘really’ sexually attracted to him or has the honeymoon period for you lapsed in that department?
She replies,
Maurice I wish you could be there to witness his appetite. He is the best lover I have ever had but waaah this nigga likes pussy too much.
Maurice asks,
The question is ‘who’s vagina does he like’, yours or someone else? My dear you do not have to have sex whenever he craves it but you need to snap back into that woman who was going the extra mile to please her man. I do not know your man but from your description of him he is most likely an alpha between the sheets. That breed of man is rear ‘trust me’.
A man who would rather have an argument about his sex craving towards one woman ‘you’ is a man who is true to you and you alone otherwise he would not bother with you at all. The other thing, your man knows that there are other men aka predators out there so he asserts himself fully to make sure that you are satisfied or in your case over satisfied.
My dear embrace the man you have, if you are tired or not in the mood, tell him that he will still receive your cookie the way he likes it once you are ready. His kind of breed likes to know that he is still wanted, that he is still your hunk, your stallion. Do not just say no to his advances and leave him hanging. That will only breed a man who eventually looks for it elsewhere. Men are visual sexual beings and only ignorant women overlook that fact, don’t be one of them.
Question, is marriage on the cards?
She replies,
Yes. I would marry him in a heart beat.
Maurice replies,
In that case have a firm grip on his penis before it falls in the wrong hands. What I am telling you applies to everyone. The reality of today’s World is if I do not satisfy my woman she may at one point seek it elsewhere. I am man enough to accept that fact of sexual nature in humans and so should everyone. If he is your chosen long term partner you must adapt to his craving for you or let him go.
She replies,
I get your point. I know I have a good man and from now on I will attempt to put effort like I did before.
Maurice replies,
Don’t attempt just focus on a positive mentality towards his advances and hold onto your man.
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On Saturday 29th June I have a session in Mombasa
you stupid woman can we swop you can have my dormant husband and I take your horny man the last time i was touched was 2 months ago
Mary you seem to be starved to the core……..just try to spice things up with your man or sought my assistance ASAP.
Can i volunteer myself Mary?
Chica, good to know you’ve finally seen the light. The cheats out there are so many and all they need is the excuse that their women aren’t keeping up with their appetite. You got it good so please keep the fire burning. If that doesn’t work for you, leave him for a lady with a sex drive to match his. N we are many out here gal…
gal their are so many ways to spice up sex one is have a positive view of it…then don’t try…have fun and go miles wht he doesnt expect do it to him with tym ull see the difference too. all the best