Hi Maurice,
I was introduced to your blog by a friend and I must say you are good at what you do especially the sex pieces are so awesome but I must admit some of those sex position tips are over board for me, kudos.
Now to my contribution. I feel I must share my story. I have been married for 12 years and I have 3 beautiful children that I love dearly but I have never loved their mother in the context of what people call love.
Maurice asks,
So why marry her and have kids?
He replies,
I am going to seem like a complete asshole but I am sure you are not one to judge. I married her because it suited me to wed a beautiful woman who would bear my children and make me a family as well as satisfying my mother’s wish to have grand children.
Maurice asks,
Do you have any feelings for your wife?
I care for my wife. I have given her every comfort a woman can dream of and I still perform my role as her husband. And that is it, it is just a role I have played for 12 years. Every week we go out for our lunches and dinners. It is also part of my promise to take her on holiday abroad once a year and I do it willingly.
Maurice replies,
Indeed it is not ethical to judge I leave that to my readers. I comment and give my views based on information. From my experience your scenario is not uncommon. You may not fit the societal rules of marriage but despite your lack of love for your wife you are probably providing more than many men who claim to love their wives. Have you come across men who are in your situation?
He replies,
Yes I have. Two of my close friends from my line up are married and not out of love. One of them relates to me, he married his wife because she got pregnant, she was supposed to be a weekend fling but her bedroom skills kept her in the loom longer than expected. Our only difference is that he finds it very difficult to provide willingly in his 9 years of marriage. As you can imagine they are always entertaining us with their dramas. The other friend married because of pressures at work. He could see a promotion coming and as you know most corporates do not advance careers of single men.
Maurice asks,
Have you ever been in-love?
He replies,
Good question. I have read much of your work so I am confident that you understand male psychology in relation to women. To be perfectly honest I have never known what love is in the Universal context but I know that I love certain things about a woman. I love my wife’s bodily attributes. She thinks I love her career progression but really I careless but you must please a woman with flowery words. I love how she makes me feel like a man in and out of bed. If she was not female and was unable to quench my manly requirements I would have no use for her and I know many men who feel the same way but at home they act their part like I do.
Maurice asks,
So do you think that men should come out clean and tell their wife why they are still relevant?
He replies,
Maurice I think we both know that would never go down well in the fairy tale World that women try and mold. Most men adopt a role that fits their woman’s expectations only the degree varies. For me I know that I took on responsibilities and I made a conscious decision to provide for my family. What drives me is the continuation of my family name through my children.
My wife says she loves me but I logically know that love is not unconditional. I fulfill her needs as a wife and mother by my financial power and my ability to provide long term security. If I was spending more on friends and other women she would not be so loving. Nothing in life is free especially with this species called women, so unconditional love is a mythical notion if you ask me.
Maurice asks,
Do you have other women in your life?
He replies,
I am glad you asked. In my 12 years of marriage I have only had brief encounters with women. The rule is simple, we meet, we have a good time, we have protected sex and then we are done. When I meet women those are my terms and I never go without sex, it works for me. Unlike a lot of men I do not have the time or patience to provide for a girlfriend or another family. I have only had 2 repeat shags and that was due to their sexual nature.
Maurice asks,
Would I be correct to say that your wife was a trophy wife, that her physical attributes were visually enticing for her to qualify as your wife?
He replies,
You are correct.
Maurice asks,
And despite your lack of love you still find her sexually appetizing?
He replies,
Well put, she still arouses me. Personally I am a boob guy and I also like a curvy woman. Even though she is a size 12 from size 8, my wife has kept her shape and her filthy wild sexual character is still as adventurous as the day we first had sex 14 years ago.
Today I witness men who say they are in-love with their wife but are unable to attain an erection for the same wife. Clearly the penis does not know love.
Maurice replies,
That is scientific fact that the primal sexual calling in men has nothing to do with love. It is all to do with neurochemicals but most people are afraid of the raw facts.
He replies,
Thank you Maurice. It has been a pleasure chatting with you. I look forward to the responses you will receive once you post this. Keep up the good work.
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wow maurice that was an eye opener, i have learned alot from your posts.
Well in.. finally I find somone who shares the same views. When will humans realise that this thing called love other than the storge love is superficial? When two strangers come they can be attracted to each other. However let’s admit that after a certain time this excitement /flame burns or dies out. Often we get eros love the kind that triggers ‘high feeling’ in a new relationship-simply an emotional and sexual love. Usually doesn’t last.
In short people should stop equating marriage and love. Totally different things. Marriage is for society. Get babies, move up the progression ladder and fullfil parents desires period!
This takes me back to my courtship days when my boyfriend, who is now my husband of 7 years, was very clear on what he loved about me. I always wanted to be loved for me until I realized that men love things and actions not women statues. It was upsetting to know the truth but I still married him and true to his word he still loves my femininity.
My fellow ladies please hear me and hear me loud and clear, men are visual and even though we try and make them more spiritual and emotional like us it all boils down to the visual he sees. Are you sexy, are you confident about yourself, are you annoying, are you a constant nag, have you ballooned and done nothing about it. You may cook the best food but do you make your man feel welcome in his home. I am a senior manager at work and I earn as much as my husband but when I get home HE IS THE BOSS.
DO NOT lose your husband to little girls because you also want to assert your manhood. You are a woman act like one. There can only be one bull in any home.
@Eve – slight correction…just because we are visual doesn’t mean we can’t be spiritual or have emotions. Men and women have differences in perspective and hence expectation…everything else follows that. I agree with everythingelse you say lakini.
Maurice,again you are on point,and for Eve,well said.
Most women tend to think that we men care or fear there professional status which is a lie.Eve i salute you.
After 23 years of marriage I agree with Eve. 19 years ago I almost lost my husband for being too forceful which made me the 2nd man in our home. I am very head strong but a man is a man and he must feel like a man. If today my husband had an affair I would look within myself first because men need more than our cooking and house keeping skills to keep them returning home every night. Once I took a back seat and observed my husband I then was able to be the wife he wanted. Women forget that men propose to us. For your husband to stay interested you must adhere to his needs and interests.
I must point out one thing about a certain generation of women today. They remind me of the film Temptations where a wife has a good man who just loses his focus on her and instead of steering him back to her she chooses to have adventure with a man who ends up becoming her worst nightmare. What you have at home is gold. Do not rush for short lived passion outside your marriage or for riches that will not bring you happiness. It is our duty as women to steer and nurture our men through thick and thin. Our mothers did not always have it good but look at what their long term persistence earned them; they live in their own homes not mortgaged apartments and mansions. Be a wise woman and stick by your man and grow with him from scratch.
Finally women who took time to understand their husband
Matheka good job
The question here is the omnipresence of LOVE!!! you are an all rounder good in everything like the guy explained,beautiful, curvacious and so on but love absent and that what begs the question, why is it that a dude has a perfect wife (if there Exist One) would still have a mpango wa kando or a night stand?