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Dear Maurice,

I am 22 years old. I am a campus student. I have been formulating how to share with youebonyquarel my issues since last year December. Friends & family have always told me that I am way ahead of my years and yet every morning all I see in the mirror is youthful me! Anyway, here goes. I am dating a guy who is 27 but my problem is that I find him so immature. He lacks assertiveness and he is very indecisive which puts me off. We have been dating for 4 years, but we do not live together and honestly in the beginning I thought I loved him but after sharing my dilemma with my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend, he said that it is most likely I was in love with the idea of being in love, which made a lot sense. Could this be the case, that I was in love with the idea more than the actual person?

Maurice replies,

Let’s back up a bit. So you have two boyfriends, the younger and the other is how old if I may ask?

She replies,

He is 46 years old and married with 3 kids. And Maurice, with all due respect I do not expect condescending remarks from you. I would like you to treat me like a grown woman. I hate when people remind me that I am young and assume that I am naive.

Maurice replies,

I can assure you that you shall not experience such with me. To answer your question, yes there are cases a woman or man have entered into a relationship to the point of getting married only to realise that they do not love their partner in the way they thought they did. Then again, this should not be surprising because humans fall in and out of love all the time. The societal enforced illusion is that love lasts forever, in books perhaps, in reality not so much.

As we continue, I would like to understand your core issue and the dynamic that caused you to have the two men in your life, it allows me to have a better profile of you.

She replies,

As we have established, when I met my boyfriend I was so happy to have a mature man’s attention and at 18 when a man promises you the World, you tend to fall for him of which I did. He spoke of waiting for me to finish my studies then one day he would marry me and take care of me. When I was turning 21, he and his friends throw me this ebonyridingblackamazing birthday at some club and that is the night I met my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend. He was there with his boys and as he said ‘I caught his eye’. What I loved about him was his eye contact, confidence and when he spoke he commanded me in a way that really confused me. Remember I was with my boyfriend, our friends, on my birthday and yet here I was so smitten by this mystery of a man. I do not know why or how we exchanged numbers but that was the beginning of a very steamy relationship. I thought my boyfriend broke my virginity but after what I felt waaaah! His penis really spread my pussy. I had never felt anything close. The pleasure of finally cumming was experienced, and he lasts so long he makes me moist. I get horny just thinking about it! My boyfriend had always refused to go down on me but my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend would lick & suck me in places that made me scream. I didn’t know I could scream during sex, like that really puzzled me at the time.

Maurice replies,

So I need to clarify a few things. Your boyfriend never made you orgasm, neither did he go down on you, is that correct?

She replies,

Yes Maurice that is correct. I only cum with my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend. Can you imagine dating someone who can’t make you cum?

Maurice replies,

Well, I do not possess a vagina but I can only imagine that state of not receiving sexual stimulus that ignites my pleasure senses. It is unfortunate that that has been your predicament.

I am curious, how did you get to learn about me?

She replies,

You gave a talk, that I attended at a campus in 2018. It was very enlightening and I loved your straight talk no chills approach. You taught two of my girls how to squirt, they both ebonysquirtteenapproached you after the talk. I am jealous of their experience. One even came with her sex toy and you showed her how to make herself squirt using the toy. I told my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend about you and he already knew of you and he is easy about me having a session with you. He has wanted to see me squirt for the last year. That is another thing about my boyfriend that I dislike. He is so insecure about my male friends. I have to pretend not to have male friends and only hook up with them when he is not around which I find so irritating and childish.

Maurice, what should I do? My mum likes my boyfriend and keeps reminding me that he will make a great husband one day.

Maurice replies,

I am guessing your boyfriend visited your parents to state his intentions and they approved?

She replies,

Yes he did. After 8 months of dating he insisted to meet my parents. He was not going to invest in a girl who’s parents would eventually reject him. Once I am done with my studies he intends to wed me.

Maurice replies,

Both men aside, here are the facts. Your primary focus should be your studies. Make sureebonystudying you gain your qualifications that you will rely on to map out your life.  When it comes to who you should be with, whatever you do, do not follow what any one person or society expects of you. Follow what makes you happy. Many before you have embarked on journeys enforced by society and are today miserable or depressed. Do not join that club. Establish your own life structure and do your best to affiliate with positive energy at all times. Indulge in the thrills that give you most joy. As they say life is not a rehearsal, live it well and create your own happiness.

By the way, why do you call him sponsor boyfriend?

She replies,

Lol. It was my way of differentiating between the two men. They both finance my life though the way I think of it, is that one takes care of my well being and the other takes care of my bodily needs. Next month we must have our session. Thank you for your time.

Maurice replies,

You are welcome. See you next month.


 

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Hi Maurice,

How are you?

Maurice replies,

I am fine thanks.

She replies,

I know it has been ages since we last spoke but I thought it was time to update you on my marriage and sex life. As you remember hubby and I had issues in 2015 and you did your best to resolve those issues of which I am thankful. I have good and bad news, honestly I do not know which one to begin with lol.

Maurice replies,

I suggest you begin with the bad news.

She replies,

You remember hubby paid and endorsed my sexual discovery through your sessions of which we had five?

Maurice replies,

Yes I do remember our sessions. By the time you approached me you were convinced that you had a damaged vagina of which you did not. You also disclosed that you thought you were among the most boring sexual lovers on the planet. In short, your self esteem had hit rock bottom. But we soon rejuvenated your sexual prowess and confidence.

She replies,sexyebonyIIIIIIIIIIIIII

Oh yes, I was damaged or so I thought. Anyway after you proved to me that I had potential and could eventually achieve orgasm my attitude about myself changed and I definitely grew more confident. My girls also noticed a massive change hence the referrals I gave you, FYI you confused one of my friends after you made her squirt all those times lol, but that’s a topic for another day. Matheka, you really made a difference in my life. Even at work I feel confident and womanly. Oh and I stopped having a short fuse! Those sessions meant the World to me and I will be forever grateful. So now hubby finally came out of is shell and told me why he constantly cheated on me over our 11 years of marriage. He told me that he found it difficult to satisfy me and that bruised his ego and instead of sharing his shortcomings with me, he gained an ego boost through his conquests of women, 7 to be precise.

Maurice replies,

Do you remember, at our first session before meeting your husband you asked me to outline common reasons why men cheat and at the top of the list was what you just described.

She replies,

Yes I recall but never did I think my husband would fall under the category of men who can’t be man enough to share their sexual difficulties. I guess it is in our nature as women to protect our men with our delusions of ‘that can’t be my man’. He told me that after our honeymoon he knew he was going to cheat. At 33 I regret that I only knew two men sexually. The one who broke my virginity when I was 17 and was horrible in bed and then my hubby a few years later. Matheka, if I knew then what I know today I would have made different choices and explored to find some form of compatibility instead of rushing for comforts that defined my years of misery and emotional torment. After our sessions and profiling my marriage I realized something I always knew and that was my husband and I were never friends. It was like an arrangement that was masked by many ‘I love you moments’ but now that to me was just a formality and I also think I fell in-love with the idea of loving a man without even getting to know him. I digress! He told me that he only paid for my sessions because he felt guilty for neglecting my  sexual needs. He apparently felt better about himself when the sessions started to work for me but what was hurtful was to have him say that he initially married me because he found me conservative, naive and that no man would want me because I was a boring lover. Basically he wanted a maid type of woman, who would tend to his every domestic need and give him children. Last year in April, he officially moved out citing he cannot handle my new found self but was happy to have contributed to the transformation.

But that said and done. I am actually an extremely happy soul. The Universe has been so good to me. I got a promotion at work. Traveled abroad for a 4 month training programsexyebonyflying and came back home highly rejuvenated. I met three guys, went on dates and decided to date two of them ‘obviously they don’t know’ but they are both giving me pleasures I never thought possible. Remember you told me to ‘let my hair down and live a little’, that is what I am doing. You also taught me to take charge of my relationship and one of the reasons I decided to date both of them is because they reacted very well, apart from the third guy who I dropped like a hot potato, when I told them that my sexual nature is all down to your sessions. One of them said ‘fair play, the dude is actually making sex enjoyable for women’. Now that kind of liberal thinking is a turn on for me. Matheka what can I tell you! You have made this woman happy. If you told me just 3 years ago that I would be able to achieve ebonysquirting33orgasms & squirt over and over, I would have slapped you for mocking me. I have really mastered the vaginal muscle movements but waaaah I think I over squirt because I literally soak half the bed but these two men LOVE IT! You have no idea what it feels like to have men worship and adore you, it is out of this World. Matheka, let me end by saying that you never failed me. You were truth to your word and you held my hand through that journey since 2015. I will be forever indebted to you. By the way, my girl from Narok is doing very well. I told her I was going to share with you and she asked me to let you know she is pleased with her sex life being an FGM victim. She is going to call you. I think their chama want a group session in November but she also wants any excuse to feel your magical fingers lol. Matheka, I can go on and on so let me leave it there for now. Thank you for everything.


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My womanhood is intact III

Dear Maurice,

I know I have taken my sweet time but as they say better late than never. After our session my sexual life changed but I also have some bad news, as you stated I found out that my husband was never interested in elevating our sexuality and that is why he repeated declined our sessions together. I kept corning him with the topic and finally heconfident black woman broke his silence. He said he stopped finding me sexy years ago and to my shock he admitted that one of the reasons he went off me sexually was because I over powered him in the bedroom. I remember you mentioning that my sexuality most likely increased when I hit 30 and his either stagnated or decreased. Maurice, I really tried to make it work. I did all I could to revive our sexual life but clearly he stopped trying years ago. I did not tell you but during our session you highlighted quite a bit and many of the things have come to be. I have come to terms with my marriage status and that is why I made the step to call you and book our session. Like you said, sexuality is about me not him. Thanks to you I know my potential and thanks to you again I have been able to teach that guy I told you about. I bit the man’s bait and started an extremely electric sexual affair. If you saw me now you would be proud. I don’t know how you do it but you have transformed me completely. You remember I was once skeptical about you and you told me that until I experience the motions of squirting I would never know the feeling and the psychology behind it. I ammasturbation ebony so glad I made that call. You gave me back my confidence and as you predicted in time I would be a renewed woman. Despite your teachings I am amazed how I went from a woman who could not enjoy sex or even orgasm to a woman who can orgasm multiple times and I can make myself squirt endlessly, it is astonishing. At 32, I feel like I have wasted many years begging a man to love me. When I was in my early 20s I believed in Mr Right, the chivalrous knight in shining armour but after understanding male psychology from you I know better. It is time to rediscover and enjoy not good but great sex, and with your guidance I know I will never fail. All I can finish with is keep up the good work. I believe you are doing a lot to educate people about sexuality even if somethings it is tied with bitter truths of failed relationships.

My response:

You are very welcome. It was my pleasure. I only wish that more women between 20 and 25 would empower themselves with information that may save them from their commonly perceived fictional World and learn many realities about a big pool of men who end up being manageable boyfriends but later become brutal husbands.

Good men do exist (a small pool though) but in this age of economic reasoning and greed, a man’s character is usually a secondary attribute and is replaced and overridden by the depth of his pockets. Plenty of men have told me that there is no point being a good guy in Kenya, why, good guys do not prevail in the pecking order of men. Good men are regarded as ‘lower grade’, they are also in the bottom of the food chain aka mafisi chain. Why do you think the #teammafisi epidemic grew, it is a psychological conditioning that gives every man an avenue to prove himself in one way or another. It is the same epidemic that caused married women to be more luring than single women.


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My womanhood is intact II

Dear Maurice,

I am so sorry for the late feedback but better late than never. I totally enjoyed our session together though I must admit it was weird being with you as a stranger but your renown magic touch did the trick in more ways than one. You have a very calming effect if no one has told you that. I was nervous at first but once we started chatting you easedhappywomansquirter the process and I got comfortable. I have both good and bad news. The good news is that I have been able to gain orgasm and squirt following the weekly practice you recommended. I managed to squirt multiple times during sex, it was amazing but it was with the guy I told you about. The bad news is that with my husband it had failed completely and as you explained I think I stopped viewing him as a sexual partner awhile ago. Like I said, I do not love this other guy but his attitude and willingness to learn how to satisfy me just turns me on. After your teachings I even noticed that my vagina blossoms when I am with him but the same does not happened at home. He has even encouraged me to learn more from you. I wish those were my husband’s thoughts. I hate the fact that I have to be with another man to gain my sexual satisfaction but I am also not willing to sacrifice my sex life for my husband.

Maurice, it is hard being a woman, you are a mother of 3, a wife, emotional supporter offering obligational sex to a man who mounts you and falls asleep leaving you hanging, house manager, career woman and yet when you ask your husband to be more attentive he decides to rush for cheap thrills on the side and at times I feel sorry knowing thesesquirtingebony blog women are receiving substandard sex from a man who thinks he knows it all. Apart from my ability to enjoy sex like never before, one thing you did for me of which I am forever grateful is that you boosted my self esteem. I thought for years that I was the problem but our session confirmed that all I needed was to rediscover my womanhood. If you thought I squirted a lot during our session you should see me now only 2 months later. This guy I am with is your big fan and I am thinking of inviting him to the next session. He is very open minded and I would like him to learn more about sensual love making and that clitoris vacuum sucking, if he gets that right, I will be the happiest woman in Kenya.

Maurice replies,

I am glad that our session yielded positive results for you and thank you for the review. I am all about sexual empowerment so I welcome a session with you and your partner, just let me know when and where.


 

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Dear Maurice,

I have followed your work for a long long time and I never thought I would need your generousguy ihelp, but here I am in a situation which I hope you can help with with. I have been dating this guy for 2 years and he is a great guy, very generous but I hate the way he controls my life.

Maurice replies,

What do you mean by controls your life?

She replies,

When we first met he was not as controlling, he would come over to my place and leave without fussing over some things. Nowadays, he fusses over every element of my life. He is so insecure, I realised this when I moved in with him one year ago. I think it even got worse when he bought me my Prado.

Maurice asks,

So am I to assume that he is your exclusive boyfriend?

She replies,

Yes Maurice, I love the guy so much but I hate the way he treats me. I have to follow so many rules and yet he is hardly here, I only get to see him twice a week if I am lucky.

Maurice asks,

If you moved into his place then why do you only see him twice a week?

She replies,

Because he has to go home to his wife and kids. He moved me into what he said used to be his play house, its an apartment where he used to bring girls and his wife has no knowledge of the place. He said he has had it for 9 years. I know he pays for my lifestyle but is there a way for me to change his attitude on caging me.

When I go shopping, I must be picked up by his driver. He monitors my movements through some app in installed on my phone. I have to drink whiskey in hiding with my pals. When we met he said that women should not drink whiskey and beer. I now have to pretend I like the wine he keeps buying for me.

Maurice replies,

You do realise you are dating a married man who in most cases is set in his ways and will enforce his law on you, which means the probability of changing his perceptions is nil. When you decided to couplefistembark on this journey of adventures you set in motion a trail that has gotten you into your current predicament. The truth is, this breed of man will not change. As you said he is catering for your lifestyle and I hate to speculate but if you were to try and put your foot done he would most likely eject you from his life. If you are living in his once play house it only means that he has found some form of stability with you, men do not easily give up the one place they can indulge in sex with multiple women. You are the next phase of his play boy life. There is something about you that enticed him enough to be done with his serial infidelity. I feel it has everything to do with his perceived power of you and the sexual and non sexual delights you offer him.

She replies,

You mean there is no changing him and why is he so insecure about men in general, he dislikes my male friends and at some point he hinted that I need to disconnect with them?

Maurice asks,

If I may ask, how is your sex with him, if you were to compare it with your experiences out of 10 what would you give it?

She replies,

I would give it a 4, because he cums before me and I hardly cum unless I fake it.

Maurice replies,

There you go, I know insecurity especially in a man is ugly and unattractive but you need to understand that every man on this Earth knows of his sexual prowess. Your man’s insecurity is valid in the context of his limited ability to perform between the sheets. He knows there are man who rank much higher than him so he uses his financial prowess to provide for you as his weapon. He also monitors you to keep you in check, which is all driven by his instinct to protect his ego. Team mafisi is real.

Last but not least, men pretend to women but he know that you are not in his life because of the sex, especially when he knows he does not rank highly in sexual realm that is dominated by sexual alphas. He has to secure his greatest fear of you two timing him with another man or men. You have a simple choice to stay or leave.

She replies,

You are right. I know my reasons for being in this relationship. I will do my best to keep my sanity. I am willing to do anything to try get him to trust in me more. Please send me some articles on seduction, perhaps I can implement a few tips. I need to have him play to my tune not the other way round. Thank you Maurice, you have been helpful.


 

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Dear Maurice,

A friend of mine said you could help me with a problem regarding my boyfriend. We have been dating for 9 months and I really love the guy, to be honest I am deeply in love with him.

Maurice asks,

What seems to be the problem?

She replies,

I think he has been taking me for a ride, I feel we don’t want the same things in life.

Maurice replies,

Please explain.

She replies,laughingblackcouple

When we met it was all fun and games but after our talk the other day I kind of realised that is all he wants from me. I told him that its time to move to the next level, he asked what that meant and I told him that I wanted him exclusively as my man.

Maurice asks,

What did he say?

She replies,

His reply was both heart breaking and shocking, he said he was not built for a monogamous relationship. He reminded me of what he had said when we were on our first date.

Maurice replies,

Which was?

She replies,

He had told me that he was not into having one woman in his life and if we were going to have anything I needed to accept it or walk away. Maurice, I thought he was testing me at the time and I stayed on because we hadn’t gotten serious like we are now. I thought by now he would have changed his mind about his polygamous ways. I have given him my all, my body and mind. Why can’t he appreciate all that I have done for him. I have slaved in his kitchen to make him delicious meals and done his laundry only for him to reject me despite the love I have for him. Maurice is this fair?

Maurice replies,

I can only give you my analysis on your predicament based on facts. It is evident that he made it crystal clear that he was not going to be exclusive to you. It is also clear that your thoughts reflect certain expectations that were not shared on your part during your first date. That is where all your problems started. He read you his terms and conditions and you jumped right in and signed on the dotted line. You did not even need to read the fine print, the contract you were embarking on was clear as day.

She replies,

Does that mean I must tolerate his going out ‘with the boys’ where I know he meets other women? Maurice, I don’t think you understand what I have done for this guy. I have never been so sexual with any other guy. For 9 months, I have given my body to him, constantly on the phone wanting more of him. I have gone the extra mile to please him. Which leads me to my other issue with him. He hardly initiates a conversation on chat, its always me. Granted when we are together he makes me feel good but I want more from him. Its like we only have fun together, having sex, going out, eating and more sex. That can’t be all we will ever have.

Maurice replies,

If I may ask, is the sex close to the best or the best you have ever had?

She replies,

OK Maurice, to be honest, it is beyond the best. I am so sexually connected to him and that is why I want more from this relationship.

Maurice replies,

Well, great sex due to the stimulus levels the body receives has a way of bonding you to a person and that is exactly what has happened here. As the connection intensified you grew to know him and at some point you gradually fell in love. I can guess that sometimes he doesn’t even pick your calls because he believes it will only lead to a fight, is that correct?

She replies,

Yes, that is the excuse he uses a lot.

Maurice replies,

It is not an excuse, it is the reality. He knows he can’t deliver what you want from this relationship so he finds avenues to minimise quarrels. The truth is he never lied to you about how he wanted your relationship to work. He gave you the format and you went a long with the program. Right now you have a choice, to stay or walk away before you invest even deeper emotionally.

She replies,

Are you saying he will never change? Will he never want to settle down?

Maurice replies,

Well, only he will decide on what he wants in the future and considering he said he is not built for monogamy, I would not bet against him. There are men who are not designed for the picket fence, children and dog setting. You need to accept what you signed up for or move on. The ball is in your court.

She replies,

Maurice, I love this guy. What if I don’t find another like him?

Maurice replies,nakedblackcouple

Despite his stand on monogamy, the questions you should be asking yourself are, does he make you happy, does he make you feel like a woman…. and to add to the pudding if his sex is as great as you say it is, if I were you, considering you can’t detach his penis, I would stick around.

The fact is you can do far worse with a man who marries you and promises you bliss and ends up feeding you nothing but misery ‘day in day out’ with a combination of horrid sex. Like I said, the ball is in your court.

She replies,

Thank you Maurice. I will weigh my options and seriously consider your consult. Though I wish by some miracle he could see things through my eyes.

 

Lessons to learn:

Never assume a relationship will always move to the next level (whatever that means)

DO NOT associate sex with love (sex is a source of stimulus, it is driven by degrees of LUST)

Having good/great sex does not mean we are dating, it does not mean we are going to get married (it means we mutually have sex with beneficial outcomes)

Appreciate a man who tells you the bitter truth and stop celebrating men who only tell you what you want to hear as a means to an end, either way you will be fucked in more ways than one!

And please, when you have great sex DO NOT over value your vagina and down play the man’s function (when you were screaming his name and flooding the bed with squirt, someone asserted themselves to make it rain so take a moment and give credit where it is due)

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