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Dear Maurice,

May I start by saying, that I was utterly gobsmacked to find a therapist of your liberal demeanor in Kenya. One of my Kenyan girlfriends referred me to your blog and I must say I was pleasantly surprised after perusing through your posts. I am a British lass or woman which ever you prefer. I have some troubling revelations to share and I seek resolution from you. I am married to a Kenyan man from the Agikuyu tribe. I am 26 and he is 29 years old. We have been married for 3 years so I find it odd that I write you with a disturbed mind in our early years of marriage. We met  6 years ago in the UK while he was pursuing his post graduate. He was charming, romantic and funny. I have a thing for a man who can make me laugh and be goofy at times. I must admit he was my first black man so a heightened level of curiosity drove me to want to traverse, if you get my drift. He promised me the World and while we were in the UK, the World was my oyster but ever since we moved to Kenya things have gone from bad to worse. We moved here in March 2018. We both secured employment before moving so on that front all is well. Then again his family is minted, but that was never an attraction. I am more about character and the character I am witnessing is not the exotic loving man I once met.

Maurice replies,

What has changed?

She replies,

Why do I begin. He leaves me in the house to socialize which he never did when we were back in the UK. Something about it being a bad look to have your wife gallivanting in certain social gatherings. He used to take me every where with him. We would go for our weekly curry, Cinema, fun take outs with close friends, indoor movie/popcorn nights and trips exploring together. He used to cook for me more often than I did for him. He was the icing on the cake. I was so thoughtful compared to any other boyfriend and that’s saying a lot considering all were right proper gents. I have never had a bad apple until now. I love him but I do not think I can tolerate his behaviour for much longer. His family and friends keep telling me that this is acceptable behaviour. This may be customary in Kenya but I am not having any of it. I told my ma and she advised I get on a plane back home. I have two burning questions, is it normal for a man’s friends to hit on you even though they know that you are married to their friend and my second question is why do people here find it weird that in life couples fall in and out of love all the time? I ask because my Kenyan friends do not get it that my exs were all great men but due to circumstances and a shift in life trajectory we parted amicably. In my view, people here tend to tolerate and accommodate situations that cause them misery for years.

Maurice replies,

I can see you have profiled a Kenyan dynamic that sadly exists and all manner of traditional & cultural excuses have been established to maintain status quo. To answer your first question, the reason why you find men hitting on someone’s wife is simply because we adopted a culture of disrespecting the sanctity of marriage. It is human to be attracted to a fellow human that bears your attributes of attraction however it should be the sanctity that presents itself by way of wedding band that prevents you from courting that person. That unfortunately is not the case in my Country. Hence why we have the mafisi & fisilet epidemic. Are you aware of this phenomenon?

She replies,

Yes I am very much aware of this sub-species that plagues your country.

Maurice replies,

Plagues is the appropriate description. To answer your second question, there is this delusion, also known as social teaching that empowers people with the notion that love is forever like in Vampire movies, a thousands years and what not, you get the gist! Whether people are miserable or not divorce is a no no and separation is also frowned on though more and more Kenyans are moving away from the mentality of settling for bullshit.

She replies,

Which takes my back to my case. I cannot take anymore of this bollocks, excuse my French. I told my husband that we need to see an expert in sorting out couple relations and he said he is fine with it but in the same breathe said that for him to be a man in Africa things will change a bit and that he still loves me. Which if you ask me is absolute hogwash. You actually sorted out a friend of a friend’s marriage. I am sure you have plenty of sessions but you had several therapy sessions with them and the good review was that you sorted their relationship friendship and sex life. My sex life is amazing but I just need the Kenyan man I met in the UK back. One of the reasons why I sought you out is because we are planning to start a family next year now that we have settled down as per our schedule. Even though I work, I never want to feel like all I am worth is being a submissive wife and bearing his children, plus washing after him which I can never be. If I cannot have him back I would rather cut my losses and head back home. Maurice, if you could see me I am biting my tongue with loads of curiosity. As I was researching on you I came across articles that you have written about squirting. I know it is off topic but it got me so damn curious. YOU TEACH WOMEN HOW TO SQUIRT, yes the cabs were necessary wow wow wow. I know of a lady who happens to be a sex therapist in Australia who teaches women how to orgasm but not in a million years did I expect to find a man of your skill set in Africa. I tell you what, if you give me back the husband I know, I will definitely have that squirting session with you. I need my man back and you need to get him back for me. My husband travels a lot but he will be available mid September. We would like to have our therapy session at our home in Kitisuru. I will confirm suitable dates then we align with your availability. Thank you Maurice and thank you for your time. No pressure but you are the only person standing between me and a flight back to Stratford-upon-avon.

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