Dear Maurice,
I hope you are good. I have followed your work for the last 4 years and I must say you are doing a great job and I think it is time for me to come out of my shell. I am 32 years old, with very little experience with men and in sex matters. I know for sure I have never experienced an orgasm. I have been with only two men, the one who broke my virginityand the last asshole who just wasted my time with awful sex and constant cheating. He said all the right things but did all manner of things behind my back. He was a real fisi and to think I was prepared to marry him. I broke my virginity at the age of 24 then I waited 6 years before I gave myself to the man I thought would be my last. Though as much as I want to be married I am also very afraid of marriage. You have actually had a session with two of my girls separately. You taught them how to squirt, one of them because of FGM thought she was broken but you gave her self confidence when she achieved her first orgasm. But non of them is enjoying marital sex, they both have explosive orgasms with other men but not at home. This is my fear, if this is the norm then what is the point. According to them their husbands are care givers and the other men are there is provide sexual bliss. Matheka, my question to you is why is this happening in so many homes?
Maurice replies,
In my opinion, courtship that only follows up with the so called ultimate goal to get married is one major reason functional marriages are rare. Many casual relationships are initiated with a primary sexual agenda especially with men but for many social reasons that relationship is elevated into a marriage where the problems begin to unveil themselves. You find a lot of ‘I love you’ sentiments but true friendship lacks in that marriage hence why external influences are able to penetrate that marriage and avail social freedoms that cultivate enhanced sexual cravings.
She replies,
Matheka, are you saying that all men want is sex from a woman?
Maurice replies,
What I am stating is that before a man knows your name or anything about you, his immediate attraction is based on his visual cortex which relays your feminine attributes which can either repel or lure him. Whether conscious of it or not his first attraction is sexual, thereafter he sells you what he believes you want to hear and that is why over the years in one on one sessions with men it has been common to hear a man say ‘I love my wife but initially when we met my only agenda was sex’, which means once he prolonged their fling expiry date that relationship grew into a boyfriend & girlfriend’ setting and later into a marriage. Do not get me wrong, there are functional marriages where both parties are committed to each other without external influences but those are the minority in society. After profiling those minority couples I have always found that their secret is genuine friendship where no one feels caged or micro managed by the other. The other important psychology behind their success is that they were not out to gain social status. They married because they wanted to officiate their bond but it was never to please society or family which seems to be the case with many couples. Unfortunately majority of marriages are driven by degrees of insecurities and falsehood characters, relying too much on a human emotion called love which is merely a psychological notion of attachment and extremely erratic. Friendship is the most powerful ingredient when it comes to sustaining any relationship format.
She replies,
I really wish I knew of you when I was in my early 20s, you would have given me the knowledge I needed.
Maurice replies,
It is funny you say that, when in reality young women in their 20s mostly don’t think they need my consult until it’s too late. Majority approach me when they are in their 30s only for me to profile that their core issues started in their 20s. If young men and women began early mentoring then they would be better equipt to handle relationships later in life.
She replies,
I guess in our early 20s we are not fully aware of what we need or what will affect us a decade later. My girl told me that if she knew half the things you taught her years ago she would have made different choices. Matheka, why would a man promise you marriage knowing that he was never intending to marry you, why can’t a man just be a man and state his true intentions, it’s not like us women can’t handle casual relationships?
Maurice replies,
My dear let us be honest, women are very good at saying they can handle a casual relationship with no strings attached but you are usually the first ones to nullify that contract, overnight you move the goal posts and begin needy dialogue! And that is why men choose to tell you what they think you want to hear. I agree, men should state their true intention, but men know that avenue increases chances of sleeping alone! For example, this asshole you speak of, he met you at an age where he most likely felt obligated to promise you some form of commitment which would keep your interest towards him, hence the marriage angle. It is unfortunate that men have to lie their way into your vagina, but truth be told most men are willing to say anything to get laid. If women were more open to hearing the truth in regards to intentions then I am sure men would begin to tell it as it is.
She replies,
I never looked at it that way. Anyway, the past is the past. Matheka, I want to start sessions with you. I want to learn how to achieve a real orgasm and squirt. I want to know how to pleasure myself. I have never touched myself and from your teachings I know sexual liberation starts with freedom of self discovery. I also want to know more about the male psychology. I want to learn to be more appealing in the eyes of a man. I want to learn how to seduce a man and much more but first I need to feel like a woman. I have thought of myself as a lesser woman because I have never had an orgasm, sleepless nights and me crying needs to be a thing of the past and my girls said you are the man for the job. I hope I am not putting too much pressure on you but this is me at the age of 32 saying I need your help. Oh, last question I promise, my pussy lips are not equal, one is much longer than the other and I have always been embarrassed and self conscious not knowing what a man thinks when he sees my pussy.
Maurice replies,
What you are describing is your labia minora, am sure all is well but I shall examine your entire vulva during our session. You are in good hands. I will mentor you in all the areas of interest and with your commitment to our sessions you will transform into an extremely confident women both in your day to day life and in your sexual life. The key to your transformation will be your commitment, I will guide you but you must stick to the program otherwise your goals will be futile.
She replies,
Matheka, I am going to be very committed. By 2020 I need to be a new woman. When do we begin?
Maurice replies,
We will need at least 4 progressive sessions. It’s a matter of scheduling our sessions based on our availability. We only need to agree on date, time and venue. You provide the venue.
She replies,
I am open to weekday sessions from 4pm, my weekends are usually busy due to work. Next week Tuesday works perfect for me. We will have the session at my place.
Maurice replies,
Super. See you then.
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Interesting read.. I am envious.
Interesting read.. I am so envious.
I love your blog. I want to learn to orgasm through intercourse. I will contact you soon.
Xoxo
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