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Dear Maurice,

I have been married for the last 8 years to an amazing soul or so I thought but I have recently found out that she is cheating on me, its an office romance. It has been going on for a long while based on their chats. It broke my heart to know that she has contemplated leaving me for her personal assistant. I have dedicated my life to her and to think I left a man for her, though I don’t regret that I am just wondering how she could throw away all the years we have shared. I am 34 and I don’t think I can start all over and love again.

Maurice replies,officeromancetwowomen

I need to understand your predicament for us to move forward. You are a woman who is married to a woman and your spouse is having an affair with another woman or with a man?

She replies,

My partner is having an affair with a woman. We got married abroad and settled in Kenya some years ago. I was never into women but when we met 10 years ago I knew she was the human being I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. It has not been easy being with a woman in this Country. We have both sacrificed a lot to be together so how in the hell can she complicate my life like this. I have read your blogs for years but never did I think I would be a victim of love. Can I get her back?

Maurice replies,

You need to be honest with me, how is your marriage, is your relationship still functional or have you been in deep stormy waters?

She replies,

I wish I could say we were in a bad place but we are OK at home. We are not as sexual as we once were but we are happy if that makes sense. Could it be my work?

Maurice asks,

Why do you ask that?

She replies,

Last year I received a promotion which came with long hours at work and at times I work late at home. I do a 60 hour week.

Maurice replies,

I cannot be 100% sure but your type of working schedule has been known to drift couples apart. It is not about it being your fault but over a period of time your partner may have felt neglected and succumb to other lures. Social influences of lust are officeromancetwowomen IIall around us and some leave a sweet taste in our mouth. Again, I can only speculate at this point but it is fact that office romance is on the rise Worldwide. When you spend 40 to 60 hours with specific office colleagues a gradual connection develops, it starts with innocent coffees and lunches then it becomes routine, you and that person begin to share and at some point your union becomes an addiction. You can’t wait to see that person, they make you feel whole, you get a sense that they understand you better than anyone and yet it is usually artificial feelings that may manifest as love or a strong liking for someone otherwise known as infatuation.

She replies,

Are you saying there is a chance for us? And if so why would she think of leaving me for this bitch?

Maurice replies,

You must understand that lust is an extremely powerful emotion, it knocks out love any day. Lust causes people to utter all sorts of things because of the psychological charge it delivers. Most of those futuristic promises are usually momentary. So yes, there is a chance that you can revive your bond but it must be a mutual process. You need to calmly confront her and tell her you know about her affair and that you come in peace. She needs to feel secure otherwise if she is faced with a harsh environment then she will put up her defenses. The question is, do you want drama and rage or do you want to establish her true feelings and hopefully work towards mending your relationship. Please note, you need to be ready for the worst, she may want out. But we will cross that bridge if and when we get there. The ball is in your court.

She replies,

But Maurice, why do I have to be civil with her and yet she is the one hurting me?

Maurice replies,

If you want the marriage to survive, you must be civil. If you want to risk it and approach her with your rage and dislike for her then that is your choice but from experience with such cases that course of action will only further deepen the rift between you and pin her firmly in the arms of her lover who will be the consoling factor. If she admits to the affair and you both want to work things out then we can have a session and see how best we can move towards repairing your relationship.

She replies,

I just want her to feel my hurt but I do understand what you are saying. I will talk to her tonight, I need to know where we stand. I will update you. Thank you for your time.


 

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Dear Maurice,

I hope you have been good. I actually did not think I would be calling out for your help again. I don’t think there is anything to save in my marriage anymore. My recent revelations have really drain me and I feel revengeful.

Maurice replies,

I thought 2 years ago I left you and your wife in a better place even though I had warned you there was a chance of the harmony being short lived. What is going on, talk to me.

He replies,

She swore that she would never betray me again and all has been well until the latest discovery. Just over an year ago my nephew came to live with us so that he can attend a local University having relocated from another. My wife has gone back to her ways.worriedman Something told me to go through her phone and to my horror she has been drugging me with sleeping pills and sneaking off to the guest room at the far end of our home to screw my nephew. From the chats I can tell its been going on for awhile and here I thought my marriage was on full throttle. I can’t even tell my brother that his son has been fucking my wife. It would be a family scandal. She is such a slut.

Maurice replies,

Careful with your words, you don’t want to objectify women and piss off feminists. Don’t mind me its an elongated story! Anyway back to you. I did tell you during our one on one session that in my analysis you and your wife were mismatched and she took you as a fool because of your up standing persona. It’s always recommended that you put things into context and in your case your wife married you for the comforts you could provide for her. My honest profile of you back then was that you are actually a nice guy and unfortunately nice guys who end up with a wife like yours get eaten for breakfast knowing she can get away with it. The reality of your predicament is that you have two choices, to stay and coexist without bothering each other or you legally show her the door. As I told you, your wife has an insatiably appetite for sex, she is the true depiction of a nympho of which I know you loved but other than that, she was not of any tangible value to your life.

He replies,suckcock

I know you made your views very clear but I was not ready to let go of my wife. I needed to give it one more shot. I don’t think a separation is the way to go because of my young daughter who is obviously an innocent party. Maurice, I want to hurt her, I am revengeful. I know its not the right thing to do but I need to do it to make myself feel good and give her a taste of her medicine. Her statement in their chats of how she loves to suck his big cock keeps replaying in my head. I need to do something.

Maurice asks,

What did you have in mind?

He replies,

I never did tell you how I met my wife, I mean the in depth story. I used to have a fling with her younger sister and then she came into the picture and dethroned the sister. They did not talk for a long while but they kind of do. However, the sister has constantly tried to lure me back into our affair and I have resisted for the last 6 years. I want to act on man instincts which are telling me rekindle that affair. What do you think?

Maurice replies,

Well, I am Sexologist not a traditional counselor, I sell a cookie, whom you share it with is none of my business. A man has to do what a man has to do. I hear you and understand you. That said, you need to consider the repercussions. She has proven to be a very cunning manipulative she devil who can drug you at a moments notice. I know you will want her to know of your deed with her sister but what if she can somehow prove to the authorities that you are unstable and she takes your daughter away! What if she whispers tales to your extended family, remember that scandal you spoke of! What if she draws the premeditated murder card, my good man you will dead. She has the motive to drug you and stab you in your sleep. I know by reading this you may be suffering from a mynute (minut) stint of erectile dysfunction but the variables must be spelt out before your ‘game of thrones’ venture lands you in a deeper hole, pun intended.

He replies,

Hahaha…. you are still as blunt as you were when I first met you and I respect that. Should I release the video?

Maurice asks,

What video? You have lost me.

He replies,

After my revelations I bugged the room and recorded them having sex.

Maurice replies,

We both know a multitude of people will be affected if you release that video. You entire life may be turned upside down. It’s not worth it mate. Do yourself a favour delete that video if not for you but for your daughter. I can see you are gunning to stir the pot. Do this, call me and I shall lay out a plan that will quench your revengeful thirst without hurting you family. Like I said, I sell a cookie so let me give you a taste of a cookie you will enjoy for a long time to come.

He replies,

Thank you Matheka. I will call you. I need to get somethings out of my system.


 

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Hi Maurice,

I would like to start by saying ‘well done’, that was a great session. You demystified many sexual things of which many I thought were pure myths. My wife and I are indebted to you. You my friend are a magician of sorts. You asked me to state the things that stood out and made a difference during the session. Let me start by stating that I had neverrevampedsexlife seen or imagined a woman could squirt within minutes. I could not believe my eyes when I managed to accomplish that for my wife. At first though, I was not understanding the technique but once I understood the flood gates began. After a lot of practice I now understand what you call ‘the swelling of the inner upper wall’. She has been squirting continuously, our only issue is wet sheets but like you said better a wet then a constant dry bed. The session was out of this World. I tell you us men have a lot to learn but the problem as I told you is that many of us think we know it all. I must confess I was once that man but since reading your blog and finally interacting with you I am a changed man and for the better because now my wife can orgasm and squirt and that was unheard of in our matrimonial bed. I must also mention how professionally you conduct yourself together with your session partner. Kweli this was your calling. I am yet to gain the skill set you presented but I am getting there. I will definitely refer my friends to try out package 6.  My only question is, how do you get a woman to squirt with the tongue motion you showed us, I have forgotten, I was too engrossed in what you were demonstrating. You said it was around the urethra area, can I video call you show use once more?

My good man, you are very welcome. I am glad you and your wife have rejuvenated your sex life and in time you will harness your skills and achieve much more in your sexual journey. By all means you we can schedule a video call, you just need a reminder of the specific area and in time you will be able to induce her squirting stimulus through gentle tongue motions as you saw during the session.


 

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Dear Maurice,

I would appreciate your advice. I am 22, an ‘A’ student and currently still studying as I figure out what I want to do with my life. But my relationship is entirely another matter! I have always liked dating an older girl, my previous girlfriend was 21 and I was 16 . Three years ago I met a woman who is 48 and we have dated ever since. She was married once but divorced 6 years ago. We live together and have done for just over 2 years. My problem is that she is overly possessive, she dislikes my pals and hates me around girls my own age. I do not think I can live under her conditions. How can I make her less stressing?

Maurice asks,

Very interesting dynamic, question, how did you meet? And what keeps you together and thirdly what led you to live with her, what do your parents think?

He replies,cougarwithprey

We met at a party, my older brother took me to some party and one thing led to another. She at first gave me a hard time, the whole ‘am too young’ vibe but I persisted and by some luck I got to fuck her. That is when things changed. She began to pursue me ‘guns blazing’, texts every day of how much she missed my dick blah blah blah. It felt good to be told how my dick was much bigger than her ex husband and that I lasted longer than she ever thought possible. She says am cute, and I am equally attracted to her, she has massive boobs and she puts many girls my age to shame. Maurice this woman is FINE. On finding out I was dating an older woman my mum threw me out. Dad had an issue but he did not give me the ultimatums that caused me to leave home. He pays for my education.

Maurice asks,

Do you have much in common in regards to conversation?

He replies,

I believe we do. She has always told me how mature I am but she just hates my other social circle.

Maurice replies,

Let us make one thing clear, my job is not to judge but to give you a practical analysis of your predicament and on that note I must speculate that she caters for you 100% under her roof. She basically caters for your everything is that correct?

He replies,

Yes she does.

Maurice replies,

If you do not mind sharing, can you tell me what she has done for you in way of investment?

He replies,

When we met one of the first things she did was to change my wardrobe and she has consistently kept me fashionable. In May last year she bought me a BMW and it is in my name. The list is endless, she is generous.

Maurice replies,

I hear you, but now my good man, you need to understand the lifestyle dynamic you live in comes with conditions. There is a reason men decline being kept by a woman. Some men have at some point in their life come across a woman who had the financial capacity to willingly take care of them as a trade off for something she craved but those men weighed their options, and though tempting they opted not to subscribe to living conditions that would only be short lived. If you are living under her roof, living off her money then you must abide by her rules or walk away. This is a grown woman with a somewhat set mind mould, there is no changing her perception on how you should behave within her space.

I am curious, when did your problems with her begin?

He replies,

Last year she followed me out of town and caught me red handed with another girl. She really embarrassed me in front of my friends. On the spot, she asked me to make a choice between her and my friends. She gave me 10 minutes as she walked towards her car. I  grabbed my stuff and we left in a convoy. It was a Friday night, it was in Naivasha. We did not even drive home, I followed her into some resort and we spent the weekend there. I thought we were done but clearly she had other plans. I remember she told me as we were fucking that if she ever catches me again we are done. I have been a good boy ever since.

Maurice replies,

I don’t envy you, you have had a taste of good living for the last 3 years. The question is simple, if you want freedom will you muster the will to walk away? It’s a similar choice that young women make when dating much older men. The good life is lustful, its succulent in so many ways, am sure it avails the sexual prowess conditions that keep you shafting her the way you do. My good man, you have a choice to make!

My advice to you, from one man to another. You need to concentrate on your studies and achieve those ultimate grades to secure and steer your own future. She could drop you tomorrow and then what!!!! Make sure she is not your only focus. As for your relationship, keep giving her what she likes (better you than men much older who will fail her between the sheets). In my book every woman deserve a tasty cookie (ok maybe not all). I believe you get my drift. Thank you for sharing your story. I am relieved to know that there is a younger generation of men that represent sexual alphas, I was getting worried!

He replies,

I see your point. Thank you Sir.


 

 

Dear Maurice,

I have followed your work for a long long time and I never thought I would need your generousguy ihelp, but here I am in a situation which I hope you can help with with. I have been dating this guy for 2 years and he is a great guy, very generous but I hate the way he controls my life.

Maurice replies,

What do you mean by controls your life?

She replies,

When we first met he was not as controlling, he would come over to my place and leave without fussing over some things. Nowadays, he fusses over every element of my life. He is so insecure, I realised this when I moved in with him one year ago. I think it even got worse when he bought me my Prado.

Maurice asks,

So am I to assume that he is your exclusive boyfriend?

She replies,

Yes Maurice, I love the guy so much but I hate the way he treats me. I have to follow so many rules and yet he is hardly here, I only get to see him twice a week if I am lucky.

Maurice asks,

If you moved into his place then why do you only see him twice a week?

She replies,

Because he has to go home to his wife and kids. He moved me into what he said used to be his play house, its an apartment where he used to bring girls and his wife has no knowledge of the place. He said he has had it for 9 years. I know he pays for my lifestyle but is there a way for me to change his attitude on caging me.

When I go shopping, I must be picked up by his driver. He monitors my movements through some app in installed on my phone. I have to drink whiskey in hiding with my pals. When we met he said that women should not drink whiskey and beer. I now have to pretend I like the wine he keeps buying for me.

Maurice replies,

You do realise you are dating a married man who in most cases is set in his ways and will enforce his law on you, which means the probability of changing his perceptions is nil. When you decided to couplefistembark on this journey of adventures you set in motion a trail that has gotten you into your current predicament. The truth is, this breed of man will not change. As you said he is catering for your lifestyle and I hate to speculate but if you were to try and put your foot done he would most likely eject you from his life. If you are living in his once play house it only means that he has found some form of stability with you, men do not easily give up the one place they can indulge in sex with multiple women. You are the next phase of his play boy life. There is something about you that enticed him enough to be done with his serial infidelity. I feel it has everything to do with his perceived power of you and the sexual and non sexual delights you offer him.

She replies,

You mean there is no changing him and why is he so insecure about men in general, he dislikes my male friends and at some point he hinted that I need to disconnect with them?

Maurice asks,

If I may ask, how is your sex with him, if you were to compare it with your experiences out of 10 what would you give it?

She replies,

I would give it a 4, because he cums before me and I hardly cum unless I fake it.

Maurice replies,

There you go, I know insecurity especially in a man is ugly and unattractive but you need to understand that every man on this Earth knows of his sexual prowess. Your man’s insecurity is valid in the context of his limited ability to perform between the sheets. He knows there are man who rank much higher than him so he uses his financial prowess to provide for you as his weapon. He also monitors you to keep you in check, which is all driven by his instinct to protect his ego. Team mafisi is real.

Last but not least, men pretend to women but he know that you are not in his life because of the sex, especially when he knows he does not rank highly in sexual realm that is dominated by sexual alphas. He has to secure his greatest fear of you two timing him with another man or men. You have a simple choice to stay or leave.

She replies,

You are right. I know my reasons for being in this relationship. I will do my best to keep my sanity. I am willing to do anything to try get him to trust in me more. Please send me some articles on seduction, perhaps I can implement a few tips. I need to have him play to my tune not the other way round. Thank you Maurice, you have been helpful.


 

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Dear Maurice,

A friend of mine said you could help me with a problem regarding my boyfriend. We have been dating for 9 months and I really love the guy, to be honest I am deeply in love with him.

Maurice asks,

What seems to be the problem?

She replies,

I think he has been taking me for a ride, I feel we don’t want the same things in life.

Maurice replies,

Please explain.

She replies,laughingblackcouple

When we met it was all fun and games but after our talk the other day I kind of realised that is all he wants from me. I told him that its time to move to the next level, he asked what that meant and I told him that I wanted him exclusively as my man.

Maurice asks,

What did he say?

She replies,

His reply was both heart breaking and shocking, he said he was not built for a monogamous relationship. He reminded me of what he had said when we were on our first date.

Maurice replies,

Which was?

She replies,

He had told me that he was not into having one woman in his life and if we were going to have anything I needed to accept it or walk away. Maurice, I thought he was testing me at the time and I stayed on because we hadn’t gotten serious like we are now. I thought by now he would have changed his mind about his polygamous ways. I have given him my all, my body and mind. Why can’t he appreciate all that I have done for him. I have slaved in his kitchen to make him delicious meals and done his laundry only for him to reject me despite the love I have for him. Maurice is this fair?

Maurice replies,

I can only give you my analysis on your predicament based on facts. It is evident that he made it crystal clear that he was not going to be exclusive to you. It is also clear that your thoughts reflect certain expectations that were not shared on your part during your first date. That is where all your problems started. He read you his terms and conditions and you jumped right in and signed on the dotted line. You did not even need to read the fine print, the contract you were embarking on was clear as day.

She replies,

Does that mean I must tolerate his going out ‘with the boys’ where I know he meets other women? Maurice, I don’t think you understand what I have done for this guy. I have never been so sexual with any other guy. For 9 months, I have given my body to him, constantly on the phone wanting more of him. I have gone the extra mile to please him. Which leads me to my other issue with him. He hardly initiates a conversation on chat, its always me. Granted when we are together he makes me feel good but I want more from him. Its like we only have fun together, having sex, going out, eating and more sex. That can’t be all we will ever have.

Maurice replies,

If I may ask, is the sex close to the best or the best you have ever had?

She replies,

OK Maurice, to be honest, it is beyond the best. I am so sexually connected to him and that is why I want more from this relationship.

Maurice replies,

Well, great sex due to the stimulus levels the body receives has a way of bonding you to a person and that is exactly what has happened here. As the connection intensified you grew to know him and at some point you gradually fell in love. I can guess that sometimes he doesn’t even pick your calls because he believes it will only lead to a fight, is that correct?

She replies,

Yes, that is the excuse he uses a lot.

Maurice replies,

It is not an excuse, it is the reality. He knows he can’t deliver what you want from this relationship so he finds avenues to minimise quarrels. The truth is he never lied to you about how he wanted your relationship to work. He gave you the format and you went a long with the program. Right now you have a choice, to stay or walk away before you invest even deeper emotionally.

She replies,

Are you saying he will never change? Will he never want to settle down?

Maurice replies,

Well, only he will decide on what he wants in the future and considering he said he is not built for monogamy, I would not bet against him. There are men who are not designed for the picket fence, children and dog setting. You need to accept what you signed up for or move on. The ball is in your court.

She replies,

Maurice, I love this guy. What if I don’t find another like him?

Maurice replies,nakedblackcouple

Despite his stand on monogamy, the questions you should be asking yourself are, does he make you happy, does he make you feel like a woman…. and to add to the pudding if his sex is as great as you say it is, if I were you, considering you can’t detach his penis, I would stick around.

The fact is you can do far worse with a man who marries you and promises you bliss and ends up feeding you nothing but misery ‘day in day out’ with a combination of horrid sex. Like I said, the ball is in your court.

She replies,

Thank you Maurice. I will weigh my options and seriously consider your consult. Though I wish by some miracle he could see things through my eyes.

 

Lessons to learn:

Never assume a relationship will always move to the next level (whatever that means)

DO NOT associate sex with love (sex is a source of stimulus, it is driven by degrees of LUST)

Having good/great sex does not mean we are dating, it does not mean we are going to get married (it means we mutually have sex with beneficial outcomes)

Appreciate a man who tells you the bitter truth and stop celebrating men who only tell you what you want to hear as a means to an end, either way you will be fucked in more ways than one!

And please, when you have great sex DO NOT over value your vagina and down play the man’s function (when you were screaming his name and flooding the bed with squirt, someone asserted themselves to make it rain so take a moment and give credit where it is due)

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Dear Maurice,

I have been following your work for some time now and I need your opinion on my current love life. I am dating 3 men. Let me explain. About 2 years ago I started dating this guy and by our fourth month I got bored and met this married man who treated me so well and still does to date. Then a year ago I met the third guy who I am in-love with but I feel the need to dump him because he treats me with a degree of arrogance. He is hardly there for me, he does not make any effort to pursue me. He loves it when its me in need of him. We can even be out clubbing and he decides to leave me there alone not minding how I will get home or even my safety.

Maurice asks,

How can I help?

She replies,

I fell in-love with him because he felt right, there was a sense of ownership, that I can have a man of my own, whom I don’t need to share. He was a distraction from the married man but shock on me. This guy mistreats me and only tries to make me happy when it suits him. He is hot and cold, but mostly cold and yet I find myself hanging out with him, why, only the Universe knows.

To be honest despite my love for Mr ‘mistreatment’, I still regard the married man as my firstbld059668 option. He is mature, focused, pleasant to speak to and has no dramas unlike Mr you know who. I love the way he wines & dines me. I love the fact that I get to dress up and look fabulous for him.

Did I mention Mr ‘mistreatment’ has a temper and likes fighting with men who look at me. I am laughing as I type because I have just remembered that I mentioned the interest of having a private session with you to Mr ‘mistreatment’ and he got so annoyed, he was so insecure. But when I mentioned you to the married man he was so up for it, his exact words were ‘go learn and teach me’. So open minded and believes in his own manhood. I find that sexy.

Whether he has been joking or not, the married man has be consistent in telling me that he can have me as his second wife if I am ready. I have always declined but now I want to give it a try. He has promised a lot and he is the only man who has been there for me financially without pressure for sex. Oh, by the way, we have not slept together in all that time even when we go out of town we just cuddle and spoon till morning. Maurice, this man is mature and responsible and I connect with him.

The other thing I like about him is that he does not speak ill of his wife. Though, I once had a confrontation with her but that is a story for another day. Maurice, this man can give me a good life and provide well for me. At first I was reluctant to invest my feelings hence how I met Mr ‘mistreatment’ but now I want to risk it. Unless I venture I will never know what could have been.

Maurice asks,

You seem to have left out the first guy, am curious to know whats going on there?

She replies,

He is like my spare wheel, he has his use when I need him to do a few things for me but his expiry date is coming up real soon.

Maurice asks,

How old are you and how old is the married man?

She replies,

I am 23, he is 35.

Maurice replies,

I am not one to follow societal rules but have you thought about your family, will they embrace your decision to date a married man and embark on the journey of being his second wife. Is the wife even aware that her husband plans to introduce polygamy to his matrimony! In short, are you ready for possible resistance from a variety of people. What you do with your life is your business but your choices will have consequences. Men can be extremely convincing when they have an agenda that suits them. You need to trend carefully as much as you believe he is being honest with you. You must ascertain that his words have substance so that you avoid being a victim of the euphoria of what could be your near perfect life. Indeed, your goal may be achieved but you must evaluate the down sides of your actions to avoid being just another statistic while the man continues living his life as you wallow in misery and regret.

She replies,weddingdress

Noted Maurice. I told him that I need to see him about the promises he made. He knows am ready to be his and I am willing to weather the storm until my wants and desires are realised with him. I told him if his wife was that good he wouldn’t be with me and anyway am not here to fight her, I just need to secure my place in his life. He wants a baby and I am giving him one without question. But first I need to dismiss the luggage I am carrying so I can concentrate on one man. He must also show that he will cater for me and the baby for the long haul. Maurice, thank you so much for your insight. I appreciate your time.

Maurice replies,

Anytime my dear. Please keep me in the loop.

She replies,

Will do. Have a good evening.


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