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Dear Maurice,

I have been married for the last 8 years to an amazing soul or so I thought but I have recently found out that she is cheating on me, its an office romance. It has been going on for a long while based on their chats. It broke my heart to know that she has contemplated leaving me for her personal assistant. I have dedicated my life to her and to think I left a man for her, though I don’t regret that I am just wondering how she could throw away all the years we have shared. I am 34 and I don’t think I can start all over and love again.

Maurice replies,

I need to understand your predicament for us to move forward. You are a woman who is married to a woman and your spouse is having an affair with another woman or with a man?

She replies,

My partner is having an affair with a woman. We got married abroad and settled in Kenya some years ago. I was never into women but when we met 10 years ago I knew she was the human being I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. It has not been easy being with a woman in this Country. We have both sacrificed a lot to be together so how in the hell can she complicate my life like this. I have read your blogs for years but never did I think I would be a victim of love. Can I get her back?

Maurice replies,

You need to be honest with me, how is your marriage, is your relationship still functional or have you been in deep stormy waters?

She replies,

I wish I could say we were in a bad place but we are OK at home. We are not as sexual as we once were but we are happy if that makes sense. Could it be my work?

Maurice asks,

Why do you ask that?

She replies,

Last year I received a promotion which came with long hours at work and at times I work late at home. I do a 60 hour week.

Maurice replies,

I cannot be 100% sure but your type of working schedule has been known to drift couples apart. It is not about it being your fault but over a period of time your partner may have felt neglected and succumb to other lures. Social influences of lust are all around us and some leave a sweet taste in our mouth. Again, I can only speculate at this point but it is fact that office romance is on the rise Worldwide. When you spend 40 to 60 hours with specific office colleagues a gradual connection develops, it starts with innocent coffees and lunches then it becomes routine, you and that person begin to share and at some point your union becomes an addiction. You can’t wait to see that person, they make you feel whole, you get a sense that they understand you better than anyone and yet it is usually artificial feelings that may manifest as love or a strong liking for someone otherwise known as infatuation.

She replies,

Are you saying there is a chance for us? And if so why would she think of leaving me for this bitch?

Maurice replies,

You must understand that lust is an extremely powerful emotion, it knocks out love any day. Lust causes people to utter all sorts of things because of the psychological charge it delivers. Most of those futuristic promises are usually momentary. So yes, there is a chance that you can revive your bond but it must be a mutual process. You need to calmly confront her and tell her you know about her affair and that you come in peace. She needs to feel secure otherwise if she is faced with a harsh environment then she will put up her defenses. The question is, do you want drama and rage or do you want to establish her true feelings and hopefully work towards mending your relationship. Please note, you need to be ready for the worst, she may want out. But we will cross that bridge if and when we get there. The ball is in your court.

She replies,

But Maurice, why do I have to be civil with her and yet she is the one hurting me?

Maurice replies,

If you want the marriage to survive, you must be civil. If you want to risk it and approach her with your rage and dislike for her then that is your choice but from experience with such cases that course of action will only further deepen the rift between you and pin her firmly in the arms of her lover who will be the consoling factor. If she admits to the affair and you both want to work things out then we can have a session and see how best we can move towards repairing your relationship.

She replies,

I just want her to feel my hurt but I do understand what you are saying. I will talk to her tonight, I need to know where we stand. I will update you. Thank you for your time.

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