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Our Sexual Exploration

Posted in Better Sex, Dear Maurice, Relationships on September 27, 2017| Leave a Comment »

(our chat before the session)

Dear Maurice,

From what I hear you facilitate for people’s fantasies.

Maurice replies,

Yes I do. What do you have in mind?

She replies,southcoastromance i

My husband and I have been discussing having a threesome for a while now. He is far more adventurous than I am and to be honest this experience is more for me. He has had his share of threesomes in his past relationships. Though I do have one concern, as much as I am willing to bite the bullet I would hate to be in a situation where I am competing with the other woman. Is there any assurance that she will not snatch my man?

Maurice replies,

That is a valid concern. However you need to look at the dynamic where the other woman would have reason to snatch your man, the most common motive is the opportunity to gain finance followed by a mutual attraction that may lead them to an affair. The women I work with are well vetted and work within set guidelines of engagement. In your case, your man wants to give you this experience which only means he trusted you enough to share his desire to make a threesome a reality. If a man merely wanted a threesome it would be far safer to omit you from the equation. The fact that you aware is because you are relevant in his sexual adventures, many wives are not for an array of reasons. I applaud the relationship you have cultivated with your husband. In my experience majority of couples married or not do not have that degree of openness hence the social issues in our society.

in relation to the woman, what are your preferences?

She replies,

He does not like fat women, she needs to be size 10/12. She must be open minded.

Maurice replies,

Don’t you worry, my girls are extremely open minded. Will you engage in anal sex cause only some of my girls will follow through and because that falls under the category of fetishes it will cost more?

She replies,Attractive couple cuddling on the couch

Baby steps Maurice, as I said this will be my first time and I can’t believe we are having this discussion lol. Anal sex will not be on the menu.

Maurice replies,

I will share photos for the two of you to approve then we agree on a date and venue.

She replies,

We would like to have you and your girl over for a weekend, we will book a secluded venue out of town from Friday till Sunday. Is that possible? We also want you to profile us as a couple over the weekend and give us a comprehensive sincere report on where we can improve, do you do that?

Maurice replies,

The weekend stay is possible and yes I will be able to profile you from the minute I arrive to the minute we part ways. As I tell all couples I profile, you need to prepare to hear things about you that you may not necessarily like but knowing the truth will give you the avenue for improvement. It is the difference between having a functional relationship and having a relationship of convenience where both of you just coexist within your own comfort zones with maximum compromise. Just prepare to have a kinky erotic weekend. I will also teach you how to squirt.

She replies,

Wow, are you sure I will and does your girl squirt?

Maurice replies,

Let’s put it this way, you and my girl will be squirting as you go through the motions of the threesome with your husband.

She replies,

You and my husband have similar traits, he will be over the moon when I relay your optimism. Maurice, please give us the best experience. I am counting on you to elevate our sexual connection for the better.

Maurice replies,

Don’t you worry, you will be a rejuvenated woman and your bond with your man will be more solid as you progress in your sexual exploration.

 

Feedback after the session:

Hi Maurice. I hope you are keeping well. I do not know where to the start. The weekend long session was awesome. The sexual segment was great and I was shocked at my ability to squirt (go figure). However, what was most interesting was your eye openingsouthcoastromance lust statements about the relationship setting we should maintain to out survive other relationships. Your share on male psychology really hit home and made sense even though at times I wish some realities were not so. I appreciated that you were not conservative with the truth. I believe I am more informed on how to communicate with my husband going forward. I will do whatever it takes to please my man and keep him seeing me not only as his wife but more importantly for him to see me as his relevant sexual mate. Thank you for your professionalism and guidance.

Maurice replies,

You are very welcome. I thoroughly enjoyed the weekend. Please keep being the woman you are, it is always refreshing to meet a woman who is willing to get out of her comfort zone to explore new ways of relating with her man. As you witnessed, a man is driven by thrills (society calls them cheap thrills but the excitement levels for a man cannot be ignored). A man seeks thrills and fun and if you can be part of the solution (not problem) you will prevail. Oh, before I forget, keep pampering him as you do so well. Every man has a 5 year old within him, when you consistently use your feminine side to pamper a man you will gain from your gestures. One of the problems we have with this equality malarkey is that some women have found it in themselves to become men or rather behave like a man towards their man. If you dare confront a man with male traits you will be commanding him to do what comes naturally and he will go on the defense. Keep up the good work.

 

 

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Can I get her back?

Posted in Dear Maurice, Relationships on August 21, 2017| 1 Comment »

Dear Maurice,

I have been married for the last 8 years to an amazing soul or so I thought but I have recently found out that she is cheating on me, its an office romance. It has been going on for a long while based on their chats. It broke my heart to know that she has contemplated leaving me for her personal assistant. I have dedicated my life to her and to think I left a man for her, though I don’t regret that I am just wondering how she could throw away all the years we have shared. I am 34 and I don’t think I can start all over and love again.

Maurice replies,officeromancetwowomen

I need to understand your predicament for us to move forward. You are a woman who is married to a woman and your spouse is having an affair with another woman or with a man?

She replies,

My partner is having an affair with a woman. We got married abroad and settled in Kenya some years ago. I was never into women but when we met 10 years ago I knew she was the human being I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. It has not been easy being with a woman in this Country. We have both sacrificed a lot to be together so how in the hell can she complicate my life like this. I have read your blogs for years but never did I think I would be a victim of love. Can I get her back?

Maurice replies,

You need to be honest with me, how is your marriage, is your relationship still functional or have you been in deep stormy waters?

She replies,

I wish I could say we were in a bad place but we are OK at home. We are not as sexual as we once were but we are happy if that makes sense. Could it be my work?

Maurice asks,

Why do you ask that?

She replies,

Last year I received a promotion which came with long hours at work and at times I work late at home. I do a 60 hour week.

Maurice replies,

I cannot be 100% sure but your type of working schedule has been known to drift couples apart. It is not about it being your fault but over a period of time your partner may have felt neglected and succumb to other lures. Social influences of lust are officeromancetwowomen IIall around us and some leave a sweet taste in our mouth. Again, I can only speculate at this point but it is fact that office romance is on the rise Worldwide. When you spend 40 to 60 hours with specific office colleagues a gradual connection develops, it starts with innocent coffees and lunches then it becomes routine, you and that person begin to share and at some point your union becomes an addiction. You can’t wait to see that person, they make you feel whole, you get a sense that they understand you better than anyone and yet it is usually artificial feelings that may manifest as love or a strong liking for someone otherwise known as infatuation.

She replies,

Are you saying there is a chance for us? And if so why would she think of leaving me for this bitch?

Maurice replies,

You must understand that lust is an extremely powerful emotion, it knocks out love any day. Lust causes people to utter all sorts of things because of the psychological charge it delivers. Most of those futuristic promises are usually momentary. So yes, there is a chance that you can revive your bond but it must be a mutual process. You need to calmly confront her and tell her you know about her affair and that you come in peace. She needs to feel secure otherwise if she is faced with a harsh environment then she will put up her defenses. The question is, do you want drama and rage or do you want to establish her true feelings and hopefully work towards mending your relationship. Please note, you need to be ready for the worst, she may want out. But we will cross that bridge if and when we get there. The ball is in your court.

She replies,

But Maurice, why do I have to be civil with her and yet she is the one hurting me?

Maurice replies,

If you want the marriage to survive, you must be civil. If you want to risk it and approach her with your rage and dislike for her then that is your choice but from experience with such cases that course of action will only further deepen the rift between you and pin her firmly in the arms of her lover who will be the consoling factor. If she admits to the affair and you both want to work things out then we can have a session and see how best we can move towards repairing your relationship.

She replies,

I just want her to feel my hurt but I do understand what you are saying. I will talk to her tonight, I need to know where we stand. I will update you. Thank you for your time.

 

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Vengeful Lust

Posted in Dear Maurice, Relationships on July 27, 2017| 2 Comments »

Dear Maurice,

I hope you have been good. I actually did not think I would be calling out for your help again. I don’t think there is anything to save in my marriage anymore. My recent revelations have really drain me and I feel revengeful.

Maurice replies,

I thought 2 years ago I left you and your wife in a better place even though I had warned you there was a chance of the harmony being short lived. What is going on, talk to me.

He replies,

She swore that she would never betray me again and all has been well until the latest discovery. Just over an year ago my nephew came to live with us so that he can attend a local University having relocated from another. My wife has gone back to her ways.worriedman Something told me to go through her phone and to my horror she has been drugging me with sleeping pills and sneaking off to the guest room at the far end of our home to screw my nephew. From the chats I can tell its been going on for awhile and here I thought my marriage was on full throttle. I can’t even tell my brother that his son has been fucking my wife. It would be a family scandal. She is such a slut.

Maurice replies,

Careful with your words, you don’t want to objectify women and piss off feminists. Don’t mind me its an elongated story! Anyway back to you. I did tell you during our one on one session that in my analysis you and your wife were mismatched and she took you as a fool because of your up standing persona. It’s always recommended that you put things into context and in your case your wife married you for the comforts you could provide for her. My honest profile of you back then was that you are actually a nice guy and unfortunately nice guys who end up with a wife like yours get eaten for breakfast knowing she can get away with it. The reality of your predicament is that you have two choices, to stay and coexist without bothering each other or you legally show her the door. As I told you, your wife has an insatiably appetite for sex, she is the true depiction of a nympho of which I know you loved but other than that, she was not of any tangible value to your life.

He replies,suckcock

I know you made your views very clear but I was not ready to let go of my wife. I needed to give it one more shot. I don’t think a separation is the way to go because of my young daughter who is obviously an innocent party. Maurice, I want to hurt her, I am revengeful. I know its not the right thing to do but I need to do it to make myself feel good and give her a taste of her medicine. Her statement in their chats of how she loves to suck his big cock keeps replaying in my head. I need to do something.

Maurice asks,

What did you have in mind?

He replies,

I never did tell you how I met my wife, I mean the in depth story. I used to have a fling with her younger sister and then she came into the picture and dethroned the sister. They did not talk for a long while but they kind of do. However, the sister has constantly tried to lure me back into our affair and I have resisted for the last 6 years. I want to act on man instincts which are telling me rekindle that affair. What do you think?

Maurice replies,

Well, I am Sexologist not a traditional counselor, I sell a cookie, whom you share it with is none of my business. A man has to do what a man has to do. I hear you and understand you. That said, you need to consider the repercussions. She has proven to be a very cunning manipulative she devil who can drug you at a moments notice. I know you will want her to know of your deed with her sister but what if she can somehow prove to the authorities that you are unstable and she takes your daughter away! What if she whispers tales to your extended family, remember that scandal you spoke of! What if she draws the premeditated murder card, my good man you will dead. She has the motive to drug you and stab you in your sleep. I know by reading this you may be suffering from a mynute (minut) stint of erectile dysfunction but the variables must be spelt out before your ‘game of thrones’ venture lands you in a deeper hole, pun intended.

He replies,

Hahaha…. you are still as blunt as you were when I first met you and I respect that. Should I release the video?

Maurice asks,

What video? You have lost me.

He replies,

After my revelations I bugged the room and recorded them having sex.

Maurice replies,

We both know a multitude of people will be affected if you release that video. You entire life may be turned upside down. It’s not worth it mate. Do yourself a favour delete that video if not for you but for your daughter. I can see you are gunning to stir the pot. Do this, call me and I shall lay out a plan that will quench your revengeful thirst without hurting you family. Like I said, I sell a cookie so let me give you a taste of a cookie you will enjoy for a long time to come.

He replies,

Thank you Matheka. I will call you. I need to get somethings out of my system.

 

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Our revamped sex life

Posted in Better Sex, Dear Maurice on July 24, 2017| 1 Comment »

Hi Maurice,

I would like to start by saying ‘well done’, that was a great session. You demystified many sexual things of which many I thought were pure myths. My wife and I are indebted to you. You my friend are a magician of sorts. You asked me to state the things that stood out and made a difference during the session. Let me start by stating that I had neverrevampedsexlife seen or imagined a woman could squirt within minutes. I could not believe my eyes when I managed to accomplish that for my wife. At first though, I was not understanding the technique but once I understood the flood gates began. After a lot of practice I now understand what you call ‘the swelling of the inner upper wall’. She has been squirting continuously, our only issue is wet sheets but like you said better a wet then a constant dry bed. The session was out of this World. I tell you us men have a lot to learn but the problem as I told you is that many of us think we know it all. I must confess I was once that man but since reading your blog and finally interacting with you I am a changed man and for the better because now my wife can orgasm and squirt and that was unheard of in our matrimonial bed. I must also mention how professionally you conduct yourself together with your session partner. Kweli this was your calling. I am yet to gain the skill set you presented but I am getting there. I will definitely refer my friends to try out package 6.  My only question is, how do you get a woman to squirt with the tongue motion you showed us, I have forgotten, I was too engrossed in what you were demonstrating. You said it was around the urethra area, can I video call you show use once more?

My good man, you are very welcome. I am glad you and your wife have rejuvenated your sex life and in time you will harness your skills and achieve much more in your sexual journey. By all means you we can schedule a video call, you just need a reminder of the specific area and in time you will be able to induce her squirting stimulus through gentle tongue motions as you saw during the session.

 

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A Mandigo ‘A’ student!

Posted in Dear Maurice, Relationships on July 12, 2017| 1 Comment »

Dear Maurice,

I would appreciate your advice. I am 22, an ‘A’ student and currently still studying as I figure out what I want to do with my life. But my relationship is entirely another matter! I have always liked dating an older girl, my previous girlfriend was 21 and I was 16 . Three years ago I met a woman who is 48 and we have dated ever since. She was married once but divorced 6 years ago. We live together and have done for just over 2 years. My problem is that she is overly possessive, she dislikes my pals and hates me around girls my own age. I do not think I can live under her conditions. How can I make her less stressing?

Maurice asks,

Very interesting dynamic, question, how did you meet? And what keeps you together and thirdly what led you to live with her, what do your parents think?

He replies,cougarwithprey

We met at a party, my older brother took me to some party and one thing led to another. She at first gave me a hard time, the whole ‘am too young’ vibe but I persisted and by some luck I got to fuck her. That is when things changed. She began to pursue me ‘guns blazing’, texts every day of how much she missed my dick blah blah blah. It felt good to be told how my dick was much bigger than her ex husband and that I lasted longer than she ever thought possible. She says am cute, and I am equally attracted to her, she has massive boobs and she puts many girls my age to shame. Maurice this woman is FINE. On finding out I was dating an older woman my mum threw me out. Dad had an issue but he did not give me the ultimatums that caused me to leave home. He pays for my education.

Maurice asks,

Do you have much in common in regards to conversation?

He replies,

I believe we do. She has always told me how mature I am but she just hates my other social circle.

Maurice replies,

Let us make one thing clear, my job is not to judge but to give you a practical analysis of your predicament and on that note I must speculate that she caters for you 100% under her roof. She basically caters for your everything is that correct?

He replies,

Yes she does.

Maurice replies,

If you do not mind sharing, can you tell me what she has done for you in way of investment?

He replies,

When we met one of the first things she did was to change my wardrobe and she has consistently kept me fashionable. In May last year she bought me a BMW and it is in my name. The list is endless, she is generous.

Maurice replies,

I hear you, but now my good man, you need to understand the lifestyle dynamic you live in comes with conditions. There is a reason men decline being kept by a woman. Some men have at some point in their life come across a woman who had the financial capacity to willingly take care of them as a trade off for something she craved but those men weighed their options, and though tempting they opted not to subscribe to living conditions that would only be short lived. If you are living under her roof, living off her money then you must abide by her rules or walk away. This is a grown woman with a somewhat set mind mould, there is no changing her perception on how you should behave within her space.

I am curious, when did your problems with her begin?

He replies,

Last year she followed me out of town and caught me red handed with another girl. She really embarrassed me in front of my friends. On the spot, she asked me to make a choice between her and my friends. She gave me 10 minutes as she walked towards her car. I  grabbed my stuff and we left in a convoy. It was a Friday night, it was in Naivasha. We did not even drive home, I followed her into some resort and we spent the weekend there. I thought we were done but clearly she had other plans. I remember she told me as we were fucking that if she ever catches me again we are done. I have been a good boy ever since.

Maurice replies,

I don’t envy you, you have had a taste of good living for the last 3 years. The question is simple, if you want freedom will you muster the will to walk away? It’s a similar choice that young women make when dating much older men. The good life is lustful, its succulent in so many ways, am sure it avails the sexual prowess conditions that keep you shafting her the way you do. My good man, you have a choice to make!

My advice to you, from one man to another. You need to concentrate on your studies and achieve those ultimate grades to secure and steer your own future. She could drop you tomorrow and then what!!!! Make sure she is not your only focus. As for your relationship, keep giving her what she likes (better you than men much older who will fail her between the sheets). In my book every woman deserve a tasty cookie (ok maybe not all). I believe you get my drift. Thank you for sharing your story. I am relieved to know that there is a younger generation of men that represent sexual alphas, I was getting worried!

He replies,

I see your point. Thank you Sir.

 

 

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He was a distraction from….

Posted in Dear Maurice on March 29, 2017| 3 Comments »

Dear Maurice,

I have been following your work for some time now and I need your opinion on my current love life. I am dating 3 men. Let me explain. About 2 years ago I started dating this guy and by our fourth month I got bored and met this married man who treated me so well and still does to date. Then a year ago I met the third guy who I am in-love with but I feel the need to dump him because he treats me with a degree of arrogance. He is hardly there for me, he does not make any effort to pursue me. He loves it when its me in need of him. We can even be out clubbing and he decides to leave me there alone not minding how I will get home or even my safety.

Maurice asks,

How can I help?

She replies,

I fell in-love with him because he felt right, there was a sense of ownership, that I can have a man of my own, whom I don’t need to share. He was a distraction from the married man but shock on me. This guy mistreats me and only tries to make me happy when it suits him. He is hot and cold, but mostly cold and yet I find myself hanging out with him, why, only the Universe knows.

To be honest despite my love for Mr ‘mistreatment’, I still regard the married man as my firstbld059668 option. He is mature, focused, pleasant to speak to and has no dramas unlike Mr you know who. I love the way he wines & dines me. I love the fact that I get to dress up and look fabulous for him.

Did I mention Mr ‘mistreatment’ has a temper and likes fighting with men who look at me. I am laughing as I type because I have just remembered that I mentioned the interest of having a private session with you to Mr ‘mistreatment’ and he got so annoyed, he was so insecure. But when I mentioned you to the married man he was so up for it, his exact words were ‘go learn and teach me’. So open minded and believes in his own manhood. I find that sexy.

Whether he has been joking or not, the married man has be consistent in telling me that he can have me as his second wife if I am ready. I have always declined but now I want to give it a try. He has promised a lot and he is the only man who has been there for me financially without pressure for sex. Oh, by the way, we have not slept together in all that time even when we go out of town we just cuddle and spoon till morning. Maurice, this man is mature and responsible and I connect with him.

The other thing I like about him is that he does not speak ill of his wife. Though, I once had a confrontation with her but that is a story for another day. Maurice, this man can give me a good life and provide well for me. At first I was reluctant to invest my feelings hence how I met Mr ‘mistreatment’ but now I want to risk it. Unless I venture I will never know what could have been.

Maurice asks,

You seem to have left out the first guy, am curious to know whats going on there?

She replies,

He is like my spare wheel, he has his use when I need him to do a few things for me but his expiry date is coming up real soon.

Maurice asks,

How old are you and how old is the married man?

She replies,

I am 23, he is 35.

Maurice replies,

I am not one to follow societal rules but have you thought about your family, will they embrace your decision to date a married man and embark on the journey of being his second wife. Is the wife even aware that her husband plans to introduce polygamy to his matrimony! In short, are you ready for possible resistance from a variety of people. What you do with your life is your business but your choices will have consequences. Men can be extremely convincing when they have an agenda that suits them. You need to trend carefully as much as you believe he is being honest with you. You must ascertain that his words have substance so that you avoid being a victim of the euphoria of what could be your near perfect life. Indeed, your goal may be achieved but you must evaluate the down sides of your actions to avoid being just another statistic while the man continues living his life as you wallow in misery and regret.

She replies,weddingdress

Noted Maurice. I told him that I need to see him about the promises he made. He knows am ready to be his and I am willing to weather the storm until my wants and desires are realised with him. I told him if his wife was that good he wouldn’t be with me and anyway am not here to fight her, I just need to secure my place in his life. He wants a baby and I am giving him one without question. But first I need to dismiss the luggage I am carrying so I can concentrate on one man. He must also show that he will cater for me and the baby for the long haul. Maurice, thank you so much for your insight. I appreciate your time.

Maurice replies,

Anytime my dear. Please keep me in the loop.

She replies,

Will do. Have a good evening.

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Diaspora Love II

Posted in Dear Maurice on March 6, 2017| Leave a Comment »

Dear Maurice,

I need you advice. I got your number from a friend last year in November, I was supposed to call you and book you for the squirting private session, I really want to learn how to squirt but there has been developments in my life that have caused me to postpone. My boyfriend has been stressing my life and I need your counsel to decide on what to do.

Maurice replies,

What is going on, tell me more?

She replies,

I met my boyfriend in May 2015 and after dating for a few months I moved in with him. In November 2015 he received word that he had be accepted to work in Dubai. By mid December 2015, he had flown to start his new job. There were many promises for me to join him but that discussion has never been. I am not complaining because I have a good job and I live rent free. He also sends money to cover for my other expenses so I hardly use my salary. The problem is that he keeps threatening to chase me from my house and he also keeps saying he will sell the car or give it to his brother.

Maurice replies,

I need to be clear, so who’s name is on the lease or who owns the house? Regarding the car, who owns it? And why does he threaten you and how many times has he done it?

She replies,

The house is under his name, it is a rental. He owns the car, he bought it for me last year in June 2016. Since he bought the car he has accused me of cheating twice, that is the same time he threatened to have me evicted and the car taken away. The last time he threatened me was in December and he canceled his trip home because he said we are over. That was why I postpone our private session. My ability to squirt was meant to be a surprise for him but he spoilt my plans.

Maurice asks,

Well, I must ask, have you been faithful to him?

She replies,black-couple-cuddling

Maurice, the truth is I get lonely and I once made out with my neighbour but he refused to have sex with me in the house, he said he can’t have sex on another man’s bed. He is married so we couldn’t go to his house. That was in October 2016.

Maurice replies,

At least you have a somewhat considerate neighbour. Is that the only time you have fallen prey to lust? And how did your boyfriend know?

She replies,

I have kissed a few guys while clubbing but it was just a kiss nothing more. I don’t know how his suspicions started but he keeps saying that he has spies in the Estate who tell himunhappy-black-couple about my whereabouts. But he has no actual evidence. He is currently back home and he has not brought up the chasing me away story. It has been 2 weeks since I picked him up from the airport. We have only been out for a drink once, most of the time he drives off and comes back at his own leisure. Maurice, what is going on here, does he love me, am I wasting my time, do we have a future considering he is always posting pictures of him and other women on facebook, sometimes in bathing suits. When I ask he says those are his friends and that he hates women who nag, in short I should keep quiet about his social life.

Maurice asks,

Have you been having sex for the last 2 weeks?

She replies,

Yes. Despite everything he still wants to have sex when he gets home. He has a routine. He gets home, he pours us a drink and I serve him his meal then at some point in the night he indicates or physically suggests having sex. He is not romantic at all so he just tells you ‘lets fuck’. I must admit he knows how to fuck me and that’s about it when it comes to our relationship.

Maurice replies,

The reason I am asking is because you might just be his convenient fuck for now. You may have had a chance at cultivating and nurturing a solid relationship but after his new life in Dubai set in, things may have changed for him. He probably wants to have his cake and eat it too. He knows he holds all the cards, he pays for the house and for your lifestyle. He even bought you a car. Whether you have been loyal to him or not, that really doesn’t matter at this point. If he is fearless enough to post photos of him and other women, that in itself is a red flag stipulating that things are not good on the relationship front.

She replies,

Maurice, are you saying our relationship has no chance? I need you to make it work.

Maurice replies,

I am not trying to demoralize you but stating the facts based on the information I have. For how long is he going to be in Dubai?

She replies,

He is there for at least another 6 years as per his contract.

Maurice replies,

Do you think your relationship will survive another 6 years with you here and him in Dubai. From dealing with couples in long distance relationships I know better than to promise the impossible. As it is you have not been faithful and without any doubt he will not be sexually faithful to you. Like I said, this man most likely wants to have his cake and eat it too. In my opinion, he will have you in his life as long as he can afford it and deems it viable. The day he is done, he will for sure evict you and take away anything that belongs to him. If I were you, I would start planning my back up strategy. You need a car, so buy one. While you are still living within your comforts you need to secure your lifestyle so that if the day comes you are ready to move on. Unless he has a sudden change of heart and makes plans for you to be together I really wouldn’t commit fully to this relationship arrangement. You need to take control of your life and let a man be a bonus but not everything in your life. That will minimize future disappointment.

She replies,

I get your point loud & clear. What you are saying is that I should take as much advantage of him before he boots me out.

Maurice replies,

Well, am glad you said it not me. Just make sure you take care of your interests. Good hunting.

She replies,

Thank you Maurice. I know what to do now, and I will be calling you for that session once he flies back.

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I have felt trapped….

Posted in Dear Maurice on February 27, 2017| 1 Comment »

Dear Maurice,

I am an avid fan of your work.

I have been married for 9 years. My husband and I have 2 beautiful children, a boy and a girl. I love my family but I have reached a cross road and I need your advice on how best to handle my dilemma.

Maurice asks,

What is the dilemma?

She replies,

I am 35, and when I met my husband I was 23, very much in love with a fellow woman. We had dated for 3 years. Pressure from my parents was mounting, they completely dismissed my bi-curious somewhat lesbian lifestyle. Mother understood but she had to side with her husband and extended family. Maurice, that was the beginning of my fake life. I have neverlesbianaffair really been in love with my husband. All I know is that he has been a good man to me and an extremely dedicated father to our children. I thought I could learn to love him but that has not been the case. Our sex life has suffered since day one, even though I am sometimes attracted to other men, I have never found my husband sexually attractive. We have sex once every two month and we have even gone for almost one year without sex. Because of this, he has had several affairs that I know of but I have never confronted him. He deserves to be happy like any other man so I ignore his infidelity. I have felt trapped for the last 7 years, at the point I knew I could never love him the way I should. How do I gain my freedom and how do I explain to my children that I need to live a separate life from their father?

Maurice asks,

Does this mean you want to leave your marriage and have you had your own affair within your marriage?

She replies,lesbianaffair-ii

What are my options Maurice. I have lived a lie for too long but my worry is my children. I have had two occasions where I had sex with my former girlfriend who now lives in the UK. She has been home twice in the last 7 years and every time she has been around we have hooked up. There was a time I almost had a one night stand but on the night I backed out. The guy was married and I wasn’t ready to get onto that roller coaster.

Maurice asks,

Does your husband seem happy, is he content with your current living setting?

She replies,

He looks happy, we used to fight a lot about sex but after he begun to sort himself out I can say he is happier than before, we have not fought about sex in over a year. We still do family things and for some reason he still plays his part as my husband and takes me out on dinners and holidays. Like I said, he is a good man.

Maurice replies,

I have dealt with similar cases and the only way for both of you to have fulfillment is for you to tell him the truth. It is the only way for you to maintain your family structure without disrupting your children. It has worked for many couples and I am sure with my mediation it can work for you. Unless your husband is the most selfish man on earth of which I doubt, once he has the facts, I do not see him refusing to mold a lifestyle that suits both of you. The idea is to find the best formula for you and him to co-exist under the same roof.

She replies,

I already feel a sense of relief that there is an avenue we can take. I know my husband will be willing to meet you because he has always sighted that we should consult with a relationship expert but I have always been reluctant because I did not want to meet a traditional counselor who would more or less force me to try and love my husband which would mean living in misery for the rest of my life.

Maurice, if I may ask, why do we have such conducive rules for our African men and yet what I am asking for is given to men free of charge, it is not even a debatable subject when it comes to men. Men can live their family life and still have another fulfilling life outside marriage, why do we women have to beg for the same conditions.

Maurice replies,

I am a liberal, that is a question for the majority conservative men who form our African society. If it were up to me the playing field would be level.

She replies,

Noted.

Maurice asks,

So to be clear, during the mediation you want your husband to give you the freedom to date, is that correct?

She replies,

I want him to know that my feelings for my ex lover are still there and she feels the same. She is willing to relocate for me because I told her I can’t leave my children. But at first we would commit to our long distance relationship until she can figure out her career options in Kenya. She has also tried dating men since we parted and it has failed to work for her too. That is why I know where my heart lies. Let me talk to my husband and schedule our session for possibly next week. I will leave the handling of the mediation to you. Please, make this work for us, for me.

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Why I married him?

Posted in Dear Maurice, Relationships on January 30, 2017| 4 Comments »

Dear Maurice,

I am struggling in my marriage and I need your advice.

Maurice asks,

What seems to be the problem?

She replies,rich-black-man

Looking back now, I used to date a certain type of guy, the bad boy variety and I rather enjoyed it until I felt it was time to get married. I met my current husband 3 years ago and decided to disconnect with all other men that were in and out of my life. It was time for some stability and I wanted a focused man who I can share life with. I can say that I was blessed with that man who caters for all my needs as his wife but I am bored. He is overly good to me and too predicable for life. He has friends but it is like they avoid him or something. I don’t think he has social skills.

Maurice replies,

Please expound on his lack of social skills.

She replies,

He tries to blend in with general talk but before you know it, his discussions always linger around politics and his line of work, he is a know it all lawyer, which can be quite annoying. He must be centre of attention and he loves to discredit our people’s views. Maurice, even when we go out of town to have fun, he wonders why I cannot get wet with the same discussions as other people with us (couples) are trying to set the mood with light hearted talk.

Maurice replies,

Based on what you have shared, you have your answer to why his friends tend to avoid him. My question is, how can I help you?

She replies,

Like I said, I am bored. Our sex life is extremely bad. With all his big talk, his game is pathetic. He is usually done in minutes and likes to praise his performance which is non existent. I have never had an orgasm by him. I masturbate when he falls asleep, that has been the norm for 4 years. Is it normal for a man never to ask if you have cum? In our 4 years together he has been consistent. He just pumps away and ejaculates then straight to sleep. He has never asked about my orgasm. In some weird way I think he believes he is very good, it is perplexing to say the least.

Maurice replies,

Remind me of why you married him?

She replies,

If you had asked me this question 3 years ago the answer would have been motivated by his financial capacity and his ability to treat me well away from the bedroom. I think or should I say I know I fell in love with the comforts he could offer. He is a generous man who hasseduction101 taken care of me and my parents like you would never believe but at this juncture of my womanhood I need what I used to call ‘good dick’. I know what is out there, because I have had a taste but I know once I venture out it will be the end of my marriage. Unlike some of my girlfriends I do not know how to balance marriage and my sex life separately. They must come as a package. Can I send him to you, for you to teach him how to be more sexually aggressive, and while you are at it, you can kill the romance within him, it is too much and honestly sometimes its like dating a 16 year old who is trying too hard to please. I know you think I am odd or I don’t appreciate my husband but that is how I feel, I can’t help it.

Maurice replies,

It is not my job to judge you. My job is clear, to assess the potential variables and give you my honest opinion on way forward. If I were to ever have a session with your husband, he would have to want to meet me so I can profile him and hear his side of the story. I cannot change his character trait. I can only guide him with information that can improve your sexual life. But for all the above to happen, he must be willing to accept there is a problem in your marriage. That would be the basis of us having the initial session to determine the future and what can be accomplished through his input.

She replies,

If you can work your magic and turn him into the sexual man I need him to be I would be so grateful. I keep thinking about a married guy I used to have casual sex with and that really turns me on. I made the mistake of calling him and his voice just ignited memories of his vigor. He almost convinced me to rekindle our escapades but with both of us being married that would complicate my life, not mentioning the addiction I would fall into. That is why I decided to seek your help.

Maurice replies,

Like I said, for us to move forward, I need to have a session with your husband. Once we are all on the same page, I can work out a program for you to follow and I would also recommend we have a couples session which is fun and full of sexual education that will open both your minds to new beginnings. We can only achieve your desired results if the process is mutual between you and your husband. What you are selling to your husband is ‘its time to revamp your sex life to make it better’. Please note, you are not telling him that he is disastrous in bed, that strategy will not work and will be detrimental to your marriage.

She replies,

Okay Maurice. I will talk to him and hopefully he will accept to see you. Is it advisable for me to share with him some of your sexual articles?

Maurice replies,

Well, considering this is a new journey for the both of you. It is perfectly alright to share sexual information that will aid in your path of discovery. I will send you some relevant articles for you to enjoy together, it will also be a good way to find out how open your husband can be to sexual knowledge.

She replies,

I really hope this works out because I cannot see myself having babies and a future with a man who cannot satisfy me. Thank you for your time.

 

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My Husband’s friend

Posted in Dear Maurice, Uncategorized on November 24, 2016| 5 Comments »

Dear Maurice,

You had asked for feedback after our session and I have both good and kind of bad news for you. The good news is that I have perfected everything you taught me, thank you, the art of squirting is now something that occurs naturally for me.

Maurice asks,

What is the bad news?

She replies,blackmancheating

In the last 48 hours I have found out that my husband has been having an affair for 7 months. I really don’t care at this junction of our marriage but I would like to know if I should demand for HIV testing before we continue with our sex life? He says he has been using protection with the other lady but you can never be too careful, and how do I tell my partner that his wife has been fucking my husband without spoiling what we have?

Maurice replies.

I must say you have completely lost me. Can you explain your love triangle or should I say square!

She replies,

I have been sleeping with my husband friend for the last 6 years. He is the man who introduced us 8 years ago. He has been having problems with the wife for as long as I can remember and now I know my husband has been having an affair with his wife.

Maurice asks,

Does this revelation not shock you?

She replies,

Not at all. They obviously grew a bond over the last 2 years after becoming our mediators whenever arguments would brew between spouses. I do not know if you recall that I told you during our sessions that my sexual education was for my own benefit. What I did not tell you is another man other than my husband was also a beneficiary of those sessions. He is the only man I have ever been free with. He encouraged me to come and see you, something my hubby would never do. I apologize for not being forthright with you.

Maurice replies,

There is a no need to apologize, who you sleep with is not my business. In relation to your revelation, I would recommend that you ask your husband for both of you to be tested before you map out your next move in your sex life. I am assuming he is aware that you know of his affair?

She replies,

Yes he knows, he was the one who revealed it to me after he said he felt guilty coming home after being with her. I played it cool and affirmed his weakness as a man as I once heard you mention in one of your blogs and we are good. He was shocked that I did not make a fuss about it. I played a subtle guilt card before making him feel comfortable after assuring him that I was not leaving him. How do I handle this other guy, our sex is amazing? He is the suckingvaginaonly man whom I can say has made me orgasm ‘like for real’ over and over.

Maurice replies,

Well, unless you or his wife tells him, I am hoping your husband won’t let the cat out of the bag again?

She replies,

My husband will not be telling him anything. I told him to continue being friends with her otherwise it might create some suspicion and considering she does not want to end it, damage control has been managed to some degree. Maurice, some us women who are over 35 have found a balance between our family life and sex life otherwise you will find yourself getting older and suffering from ulcers as you try and mold your man into a man he will never become. I am sure you have heard it before but I also needed you to perhaps share my story so that women in my predicament can know that they are not alone. Men seldom feel guilty about there sexual actions, apart from one that I know, so why should we women put our sex life on hold to do what!!!! “COOK FOR THESE UNGRATEFUL EGOTISTIC MEN” please, CRY ME A RIVER. I am going to put to use everything you taught me and live my life to the fullest. Again, thank you for everything and for being a good listener.

 

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