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Dear Maurice,

I am struggling in my marriage and I need your advice.

Maurice asks,

What seems to be the problem?

She replies,

Looking back now, I used to date a certain type of guy, the bad boy variety and I rather enjoyed it until I felt it was time to get married. I met my current husband 3 years ago and decided to disconnect with all other men that were in and out of my life. It was time for some stability and I wanted a focused man who I can share life with. I can say that I was blessed with that man who caters for all my needs as his wife but I am bored. He is overly good to me and too predicable for life. He has friends but it is like they avoid him or something. I don’t think he has social skills.

Maurice replies,

Please expound on his lack of social skills.

She replies,

He tries to blend in with general talk but before you know it, his discussions always linger around politics and his line of work, he is a know it all lawyer, which can be quite annoying. He must be centre of attention and he loves to discredit our people’s views. Maurice, even when we go out of town to have fun, he wonders why I cannot get wet with the same discussions as other people with us (couples) are trying to set the mood with light hearted talk.

Maurice replies,

Based on what you have shared, you have your answer to why his friends tend to avoid him. My question is, how can I help you?

She replies,

Like I said, I am bored. Our sex life is extremely bad. With all his big talk, his game is pathetic. He is usually done in minutes and likes to praise his performance which is non existent. I have never had an orgasm by him. I masturbate when he falls asleep, that has been the norm for 4 years. Is it normal for a man never to ask if you have cum? In our 4 years together he has been consistent. He just pumps away and ejaculates then straight to sleep. He has never asked about my orgasm. In some weird way I think he believes he is very good, it is perplexing to say the least.

Maurice replies,

Remind me of why you married him?

She replies,

If you had asked me this question 3 years ago the answer would have been motivated by his financial capacity and his ability to treat me well away from the bedroom. I think or should I say I know I fell in love with the comforts he could offer. He is a generous man who has taken care of me and my parents like you would never believe but at this juncture of my womanhood I need what I used to call ‘good dick’. I know what is out there, because I have had a taste but I know once I venture out it will be the end of my marriage. Unlike some of my girlfriends I do not know how to balance marriage and my sex life separately. They must come as a package. Can I send him to you, for you to teach him how to be more sexually aggressive, and while you are at it, you can kill the romance within him, it is too much and honestly sometimes its like dating a 16 year old who is trying too hard to please. I know you think I am odd or I don’t appreciate my husband but that is how I feel, I can’t help it.

Maurice replies,

It is not my job to judge you. My job is clear, to assess the potential variables and give you my honest opinion on way forward. If I were to ever have a session with your husband, he would have to want to meet me so I can profile him and hear his side of the story. I cannot change his character trait. I can only guide him with information that can improve your sexual life. But for all the above to happen, he must be willing to accept there is a problem in your marriage. That would be the basis of us having the initial session to determine the future and what can be accomplished through his input.

She replies,

If you can work your magic and turn him into the sexual man I need him to be I would be so grateful. I keep thinking about a married guy I used to have casual sex with and that really turns me on. I made the mistake of calling him and his voice just ignited memories of his vigor. He almost convinced me to rekindle our escapades but with both of us being married that would complicate my life, not mentioning the addiction I would fall into. That is why I decided to seek your help.

Maurice replies,

Like I said, for us to move forward, I need to have a session with your husband. Once we are all on the same page, I can work out a program for you to follow and I would also recommend we have a couples session which is fun and full of sexual education that will open both your minds to new beginnings. We can only achieve your desired results if the process is mutual between you and your husband. What you are selling to your husband is ‘its time to revamp your sex life to make it better’. Please note, you are not telling him that he is disastrous in bed, that strategy will not work and will be detrimental to your marriage.

She replies,

Okay Maurice. I will talk to him and hopefully he will accept to see you. Is it advisable for me to share with him some of your sexual articles?

Maurice replies,

Well, considering this is a new journey for the both of you. It is perfectly alright to share sexual information that will aid in your path of discovery. I will send you some relevant articles for you to enjoy together, it will also be a good way to find out how open your husband can be to sexual knowledge.

She replies,

I really hope this works out because I cannot see myself having babies and a future with a man who cannot satisfy me. Thank you for your time.

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