Dear Matheka,
I have been following your work for many years but until I saw your video where you called certain women dating married men idiots I had no reason to write you. I admire your honesty but it was cruel in my opinion, I guess that is why you are you. Anyway I write you because I have dated a married man for the last 9 years but as of the last 3 years things between us drastically changed. Oh, I am 34 years. I was married at 21 and by 23 we were filing for divorce because he was physically violent.
I dated a few guys but nothing serious until I met the married man. The reason I agreed to the relationship is because he was honest from the beginning. He told me that he was married with four children. He also told me that he had been unfaithful to his wife two times prior to meeting me because from the onset he knew his wife was great for 
nurturing a family but was always a boring sexual lover. He basically told me that if I was a good fit, meaning if we were sexually compatible he would maintain me as his only woman apart from his wife whom he would never leave for anyone. He made it very clear that passionate kissing was also his thing and that he never had that connection with his wife. All this was shared on our first date, stating that he was not interested in wasting his or my time. He said to me ‘if I don’t hear from you have a good life’. That was it. I was so drawn to his approach that I literally held back from calling him immediately and telling him that I was going to be his naughty sexy vixen. On the third day I called him and jokingly asked ‘when do I start’, he laughed and said my decision was the beginning of a wonderful love affair. So after we had sex several times I kind of passed my probation so to speak. To be honest, your video on facebook really struck a cord. What did you mean by a woman knowing her relevance?
Maurice replies,
Thank you for reaching out but for me to give you the answer that is relevant to your context I need to understand what changed in the last 3 years, assuming for the first 6 years of your affair things were good and sustained as per your liking?
She replies,
When we started dating he gave me specific ground rules. No discussing his wife or kids, no changing into a wifely figure, no mothering him and that I should maintain my bodily figure and attitude. He never forced it, it was a take it or leave it scenario. His promise to me was that he would maintain my lifestyle, even though I too am a high flyer in my own right. He has been the perfect man in relation to my lifestyle but 3 years ago he stopped being exclusive to me. I found out that he was seeing two other ladies and I felt betrayed considering all the time I had and have put into him.
Maurice asks,
Explain what you mean by time put into him, do you by any chance feel that he used you, that your vagina was over worked and he owed you exclusivity? I would also like to know how old is the gent in question?
She replies,
If I did not know you Matheka, I would have found your line of questioning rude but I appreciate your boldness. He is 51 years old. I just feel that a man should find it in himself to stick to the woman he loves, especially after the great erotic sex he speaks about that I give you. I know he is married but he told me that I was different so why would he have sexual relations with other women?
Maurice replies,
Before I respond, tell me how old his wife is, if you know that is?
She replies,
His wife is 43 years old.
Maurice replies,
Obviously I would be able to give you a better profile reading if I met him but at this point having dealt with these scenarios plenty of times before, I can confidently tell you that my hypothesis on your case is as follows. You met a married man who was 42 with a wife who was then 35 and she had already given him two children which meant she had met her relevance of giving birth which is backed up by his testimony of not finding her sexually attractive, by your account he proceeded to tag her as a ‘boring sexual lover’. When he met you, you were 25 and a possible candidate to embark on some notion of an affair that would facilitate for both his need for sexual compatibility and focus on one woman which you translated into a declaration of exclusivity. Are we together so far? And if my findings are not to your liking please feel free to let me know!
She replies,
We are together Matheka, go on.
Maurice replies,
At 25 you were his potential lust factor and after your probation it was clear that your vagina qualified. He then gave you a series of conditions to assess your moral point, again you qualified because his blunt honesty aroused your entire vulva causing your clitoris to flap in joy, and his lure and verbalization of his demands most likely had you 
changing panty liners with vaginal hysterics. Looking at the facts, his wife was your age when he decided to seek out what was to be your 9 year affair. Human behavioural patterns rarely deviate, most stick to their trait. The only reason you have lasted 9 years with this man is not because he loves, that’s usual fantasy romantic notions in most cases, you have had a relevancy and still do. At this point it is more probable that he has grown to care for you hence why he maintains your lifestyle but unfortunately for women, most men are too practical to mix emotion and sex. It is not uncommon for a man to detach himself once he cultivates a certain degree of emotions towards a woman and truth be told ‘erections’ don’t relate or recognize love, though there is a population of men who have mastered the art of pretending they understand or feel love just like women do. Men are more caring being than loving. A man who uses love to influence a woman’s emotional thought process has a higher probability of not being faithful compared to a man who cares enough to respect his bond and maintains fidelity because he made a conscious decision to work with one vagina.
She replies,
Oh my oh my oh my. So what you are saying is that my once relevance of having a tasty pussy and positive attitude without my knowledge turned into a wife and his perception of me changed. He has basically replaced me with younger women who project his sexual criteria, is that what you are saying?
Maurice replies,
I can see you would make a good profiler, yes that is exactly what I am saying. He does not love you any less but your relevance moved into how he can sustain his partnership with you, the same way he found a balance with his wife. Question, you mentioned ‘younger’ does that mean you know the age of the women and after 9 years does his wife know you co-share?
She replies,
The women are 22 and 27. She called me once after the 3rd year of our affair to tell me she knows I exist and that she has no issue with me. I found that odd but I never mentioned it to him.
Maurice replies,
I have worked with women for almost 17 years now and one thing I have learnt is that women have accurate instincts whether they choose to ignore them of not. I am sure at some point in her courtship period or in her marriage she saw his character traits and made a conscious decision to stay no matter what and that is why she accorded you the call to let you know that she knew and as long as you do not affect her space she was accepting of the co-sharing. I am curious, you haven’t mentioned children with him, why is that?
She replies,
I should have mentioned, he medically made sure he could not have children and he told me before hand. I knew what I was getting into but 9 years later I am experiencing a change of heart. I would like a child but he is closed off from any option. I really wanted to be seen as special by a man and by becoming his compatible sex mate I had that but once for some reason that excitement is not there. I do not want to leave him. I know for a fact that pastures are not greener out there but how do I rewire myself to run with status quo without showing that it bothers me.
Maurice replies,
Only you can make that choice. If you left, would you find a better version of man who will give you all the social variables you want, the chances are very slim so better the devil you know. On the other hand, is your sanity and peace of mind worth status quo considering only age will slow him down and by then it is more of less guaranteed that if your sexual appetite remains you will inevitably explore other sexual suitors.
She replies,
Gosh, I never looked at it that way. So it’s up to me to decide what’s best looking into the future.
Maurice replies,
Yes my dear. Do this, take a piece of paper and draw a line in the middle. On one side list all the things that you love about him and your current life. Also list the things that you would miss if you were to leave. On the other side list what 10 years from now would look like in your ideal World, list 10 things that are important to you, especially without him in your life and probably you fall in-love again. One of the sides will draw you to pursue it, give yourself 8 weeks and after sometime you will find yourself sub consciously drifting into spicing status quo or preparing to embark on a new journey. Whatever your choice do not live your life in regret.
She replies,
Thank you Matheka. You have been more than helpful and given me a new perspective on my situation. Be blessed.
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and came back home highly rejuvenated. I met three guys, went on dates and decided to date two of them ‘obviously they don’t know’ but they are both giving me pleasures I never thought possible. Remember you told me to ‘let my hair down and live a little’, that is what I am doing. You also taught me to take charge of my relationship and one of the reasons I decided to date both of them is because they reacted very well, apart from the third guy who I dropped like a hot potato, when I told them that my sexual nature is all down to your sessions. One of them said ‘fair play, the dude is actually making sex enjoyable for women’. Now that kind of liberal thinking is a turn on for me. Matheka what can I tell you! You have made this woman happy. If you told me just 3 years ago that I would be able to achieve 
orgasms & squirt over and over, I would have slapped you for mocking me. I have really mastered the vaginal muscle movements but waaaah I think I over squirt because I literally soak half the bed but these two men LOVE IT! You have no idea what it feels like to have men worship and adore you, it is out of this World. Matheka, let me end by saying that you never failed me. You were truth to your word and you held my hand through that journey since 2015. I will be forever indebted to you. By the way, my girl from Narok is doing very well. I told her I was going to share with you and she asked me to let you know she is pleased with her sex life being an FGM victim. She is going to call you. I think their chama want a group session in November but she also wants any excuse to feel your magical fingers lol. Matheka, I can go on and on so let me leave it there for now. Thank you for everything.
between my wife and I. During the sessions I honestly got to understand my manhood and especially got better at pleasuring my wife. She even complimented my efforts for a period of time. But I believe our marriage is in troubled waters. After all the strides we have made to better our connection, a week ago I found out that she was still having an affair with the young man who caused us to seek your consult. As you know after 9 years of nothing but loyalty towards her it is extremely hurtful to know that your wife shares a bed with another man or in this case a 24 year old boy.
seduction. For most of your years it was obligational sex. Then the so called boy uncloaks within her periphery. She had only known you as her only sex partner. For almost 8 years she had nothing to compare. Here comes a young man who unveils to her another World of pleasures and confuses her sexual orbit. When sexual stimulus is registered in our brain it usually becomes an addiction which lapses until ignited again. When you both came to me, I made it very clear that moving forward would have to be mutual and that you needed to leave the past to have a chance of a new beginning. For the duration of our sessions, I witnessed a lot of commitment from both of you and what made it easier was that you were both willing to reconnect by doing things that were out of your comfort zone. We dealt with both your relationship & sexual psychology and by the time we had our last session you were heading in the right direction. So in your opinion what changed, have you confronted her about her continued affair?
Were those words not just meant to hurt me! Is she not just dicktimised and going through a phase. For me to write you, I am willing to do anything to fix this. You have my consent to reach out to her and tell her that this is madness. Is she willing to sacrifice the lifestyle I afford her for this loser. Remind her that with all my opportunities I never ever cheated on her. My only failure was thinking that splashing her with money and gifts was enough. Maurice, I don’t know what magic you will have to perform but I need my wife back. Whatever classes we need to attend I will but this cannot be the begin of the end.
think his mother suspects LOL. Oh by the way, my best friend and I are 22. His father is 46. He is so hot, he was a former rugby player. So anyway, I found out that his father was taking a trip out of town with his boys and I tagged along with a girlfriend of mine who got pregnant after that trip. But that’s a story for another day. In case you are wondering, I made out with his girlfriend over drinks at his place while he was out with his boys.
His father is a stallion. He does things to me that I can’t explain. I always thought men my age group were better at sex. Have you ever being addicted to a man and you can’t explain why, that is my current situation and I am loving it.
woman. You will not survive the social arena with that attitude. You have a commodity called a vagina and once men establish your material desires they will dangle that carrot and surely you will be baited ‘hook line & sinker’. By the time you realise your social errors your vagina will have mileage with nothing to show for it. Yes you made a mistake but it was not a small one. You crushed a man’s ego and now you want him back because he is doing well for himself which in my books means you want to be a parasite in his life. It is offensive to men to think that your wrongs can be rectified or forgiven by the use of your feminine lure. You are mistaken. I have seen your photo and I can attest to the fact that you are an attractive young woman but to your ex, your vagina lost value the minute your devalued his manhood. It’s as simple as that. For how long as he allowed you to stay at his place and if he were to ask you to leave where would you go?
the variables your odds are extremely slim. Maybe in the future he may want you back for some reason or another but for now I would advice that you live by his rules and seek out an alternative place to stay. Find a balance, live within your means as you reconnect with your son and find ways to improve your business. Those in my opinion are the things you need to concentrate on and stop meddling in your ex’s affair otherwise he might eject you sooner. I strongly urge you to remodel yourself and strife to becoming a better focused independent woman. If you continue to flaunt your youthful beauty the vultures of this World will devour you and if you meet the wrong click they will turn you in their recreational centre.
luxury and love. In my analysis, he delivered 100% on the luxury but in the department of love I can give him 2/10. He is the kind of man who has never apologized but finds it necessary to buy me a gift or take me out for an expensive dinner rather than say sorry and I have to put on a face of happiness. The only good thing to come out of our marriage is our 2 lovely daughters. Regrettably, if I knew what I know today I would not have entered into marriage. I don’t know whether these are words from a bitter woman but I think that men who overly shower women with money are compensating for something. I say this because I met my husband during a period when I was dating several guys and even though my husband
has a sizable tool our sex life as been terrible. Yes, he is the father of my children but bad sex is just bad sex. I will quote your words ‘a vagina responds to stimulus, it does not recognize relationship labels’ ..PREACH ON. When I read those words, it’s like you were talking about my vagina. I have never had an orgasm with my husband, mind you he is built like a rock. He is one of those gym fanatics. To look at he looks delicious but his game is usually a 2 minute or less affair, he only has energy to lift weights lol. His spontaneous ejaculating has been horribly consistent. My ex who is married used to give me the most sweaty sex ever, complimented by his ability to make me orgasm with his tongue. I digress, its been 12 years of settling and I am done.
made love in 14 months and since 2009 we have probably had sex once or twice a year. Matheka save me from my frustrations! What has kept me busy has been my children and work. So are your magical fingers up to the task, I would like us to begin in 2 weeks? I have an apartment in Kilimani of which my husband does not know of (a girl must take care of herself lol) and that will be our venue for our sessions. Oh, I also want you to teach me how to engage and manipulate men. May be I am old skool. I have always given a man the lead but now the confidence instilled by our sessions should give me the upper hand, does that make sense?
support of you the session would not have taken place. But once you commenced with your voice notes and you spoke a lot sense you suddenly became the best speaker we have ever had in our forum. Some of your previous haters are not your biggest fans, it was a job well done. Now, I have an issue that I could not share in the group though I did ask a few questions and I appreciated your responses. I am 32 and a self made successful software developer. For 3 years I have been dating my soul mate. I could marry her tomorrow but I am so afraid to give her my love. Truth be told 4/5 years ago I was a womanizer but since meeting her, life shifted for me. I fell in-love and her sex is off the hook, it feels great to be with her. But even though she professes to love me I don’t think she is ready to be fully mine.
do you have laughs that leave your ribs hurting, do you go out socializing and instead of allowing your environment to control you you stay united and embrace each moment together, do you sometimes feel like you breath the same air, yours is uncontaminated and pure? If none of the above resonates with your relationship attributes then my friend, your relationship was most likely formed on a weak foundation. Loving someone is sweet and intoxicating, you can even taste it in your mouth but the problem is, that sweetness is not replicated in her mouth for you to share in the delights. She is most likely enjoying the tidal wave not knowing that in the horizon you seek to find calmer shores where you can settle with her.
years. Secondly, apart from my sexual life, which I will go into, I am thankful for the information you shared which hit home in relation to my marriage. My husband and I had a serious talk where we looked at our viable options and we recently decided not to get a divorce but live together as friends. Frankly, a divorce would be too expensive and we feel our kids still need both of us to live under one roof. Even though my husband refused to attend our initial consult session he agreed with 80% of what you shared with me. We have a guest wing and that is where he will be living and we shall review that status after 2 years. Our discussion also touched on the sensitive matter of dating other people and we came to a mutual agreement. We have a transition to adapt to but I am confident that the harmony you spoke about will be achieved.
defined labels but responds to a stimulus which contradicted what we are taught by society, that you will only enjoy sex with the man you love. Your stimulus theory has been confirmed repeatedly because despite loving him and thinking of him as my ultimate man, sex with my husband was nothing but obligational and has been for years. Then a week into our session I applied what you taught me with some other guy and the water works were in full display. He even commented ‘your husband doesn’t appreciate this’, I had to tell him that it had never happened with any other man. You should have seen the pride in his face, as if he had conquered the World. Just as instructed I told him to patiently alternate between licking my urethra zone and my clit. I felt the build up and he told me to let go. I splashed on his face. He got up with this mighty look on his face totally convinced he could move Mountains and like you recommended I gave him the credit. Oh, before I forget, I ventured out and tried out my
fantasy with a woman and I love it. It was by far the most sensual sex I have ever experienced. All in all my sex life and over all outlook on life has changed. As you well noted, one of my main issues was that I was a stickler for societal rules and morals. I have since learnt to be more flexible in my day to day life. I have also learnt to find happiness within myself instead of relying on external love and affirmation. I believe that the work you do is critical in changing mindsets and giving people direction in their relationships. Many of us are sold into the Disney version of marriage ‘happily ever after’ and to be perfectly honest, if I could turn back time, I would never have rushed for a marital status that would become my source of misery for 8 years out of 9. Anyway enough with memory lane, I will now only focus on the things that bring me joy and Matheka you have bought me a lot of joy and I will be forever indebted to you. I have asked a friend of mine to see pronto, she is also a member of the denial club and I know she will benefit from your session(s). God bless you and have a marvelous 2018.
confidence and self esteem was at its lowest point but through our sessions I gain self awareness and inner love for myself that had be beaten out of me for 9 years. Marriage is overrated and until I met you I actually thought it was my fault that my husband repeated emotionally crucified me. If I knew then at 22 what I know today I would have taken my time before getting into marriage of which I thought was the epitome to becoming a woman. I believed in my husband, he was my King almost a God in my World. How could a man who loved me hurt me was my thinking. I always heard women complain about men but I told myself that my baby was different, he was the exception to the rule. Little did I know he fed me a false narrative, constantly seduced me with his charming ways as he cultivated relationships with other women who facilitated in his sexual escapades. Then I met Matheka. The man who tells you as it is and truth be told I kind of hated you for telling me the truth about my marriage. One trait I hope you maintain is your ability to listen, that was refreshing. You let me vent without judgement and for that I appreciate your patience.
towards sex has totally changed for the better all thanks to you. When you kept saying you teach a woman to own 70% of her ability to orgasm, I had no idea what you meant but now I know and I am a beneficiary of your teachings. Excuse my TMI moment but after months of practicing the vagina muscle movements you taught me, I had sex with that stud I told you about and he was so thrilled when I squirted. The man can’t stop texting and calling me, he always finds an angle to bring up squirting. It’s laughable, the things that excite you men but I am not complaining. After your counsel I am getting to learn the true nature of men rather than the mythical man most of us women want men to be. Matheka, because of you and I never thought I would say this but I am able to have casual sex and enjoy sex like never before, whom am I kidding, in my marriage orgasms were miracles almost unheard of but today I can make it rain lol. As you can see I am on a roller-coaster which was influenced by you. You took me from a very dark place to a place full of peace, hope and happiness. Thank you for all that you did for me and I hope my story will encourage other women to spread their wings and rediscover themselves. Be blessed Matheka.
lick her private parts, am not sure which is which. She tries to touch and suck my member during sex and it feels very uncomfortable when she sucks me. There is a time I felt like doing my business in her mouth and she was not fearing me cumming, what is wrong with this woman. I told her about my past sex life where I would climb the woman and after I was done that was it. She told me there was more to sex between a man and woman. She tells me to hold it in and I can’t. it is alleged men go for long like 10 to 15 minutes, is this even practical? I do not know why she insists on this kind of engagement.
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