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Dear Matheka,

I have been following your work for many years but until I saw your video where you called certain women dating married men idiots I had no reason to write you. I admire your honesty but it was cruel in my opinion, I guess that is why you are you. Anyway I write you because I have dated a married man for the last 9 years but as of the last 3 years things between us drastically changed. Oh, I am 34 years. I was married at 21 and by 23 we were filing for divorce because he was physically violent.

I dated a few guys but nothing serious until I met the married man. The reason I agreed to the relationship is because he was honest from the beginning. He told me that he was married with four children. He also told me that he had been unfaithful to his wife two times prior to meeting me because from the onset he knew his wife was great for passionebonynurturing a family but was always a boring sexual lover. He basically told me that if I was a good fit, meaning if we were sexually compatible he would maintain me as his only woman apart from his wife whom he would never leave for anyone. He made it very clear that passionate kissing was also his thing and that he never had that connection with his wife. All this was shared on our first date, stating that he was not interested in wasting his or my time. He said to me ‘if I don’t hear from you have a good life’. That was it. I was so drawn to his approach that I literally held back from calling him immediately and telling him that I was going to be his naughty sexy vixen. On the third day I called him and jokingly asked ‘when do I start’, he laughed and said my decision was the beginning of a wonderful love affair. So after we had sex several times I kind of passed my probation so to speak. To be honest, your video on facebook really struck a cord. What did you mean by a woman knowing her relevance?

Maurice replies,

Thank you for reaching out but for me to give you the answer that is relevant to your context I need to understand what changed in the last 3 years, assuming for the first 6 years of your affair things were good and sustained as per your liking?

She replies,

When we started dating he gave me specific ground rules. No discussing his wife or kids, no changing into a wifely figure, no mothering him and that I should maintain my bodily figure and attitude. He never forced it, it was a take it or leave it scenario. His promise to me was that he would maintain my lifestyle, even though I too am a high flyer in my own right. He has been the perfect man in relation to my lifestyle but 3 years ago he stopped being exclusive to me. I found out that he was seeing two other ladies and I felt betrayed considering all the time I had and have put into him.

Maurice asks,

Explain what you mean by time put into him, do you by any chance feel that he used you, that your vagina was over worked and he owed you exclusivity? I would also like to know how old is the gent in question?

She replies,eroticsexebony

If I did not know you Matheka, I would have found your line of questioning rude but I appreciate your boldness. He is 51 years old. I just feel that a man should find it in himself to stick to the woman he loves, especially after the great erotic sex he speaks about that I give you. I know he is married but he told me that I was different so why would he have sexual relations with other women?

Maurice replies,

Before I respond, tell me how old his wife is, if you know that is?

She replies,

His wife is 43 years old.

Maurice replies,

Obviously I would be able to give you a better profile reading if I met him but at this point having dealt with these scenarios plenty of times before, I can confidently tell you that my hypothesis on your case is as follows. You met a married man who was 42 with a wife who was then 35 and she had already given him two children which meant she had met her relevance of giving birth which is backed up by his testimony of not finding her sexually attractive, by your account he proceeded to tag her as a ‘boring sexual lover’. When he met you, you were 25 and a possible candidate to embark on some notion of an affair that would facilitate for both his need for sexual compatibility and focus on one woman which you translated into a declaration of exclusivity. Are we together so far? And if my findings are not to your liking please feel free to let me know!

She replies,

We are together Matheka, go on.

Maurice replies,

At 25 you were his potential lust factor and after your probation it was clear that your vagina qualified. He then gave you a series of conditions to assess your moral point, again you qualified because his blunt honesty aroused your entire vulva causing your clitoris to flap in joy, and his lure and verbalization of his demands most likely had you mistressebonychanging panty liners with vaginal hysterics. Looking at the facts, his wife was your age when he decided to seek out what was to be your 9 year affair. Human behavioural patterns rarely deviate, most stick to their trait. The only reason you have lasted 9 years with this man is not because he loves, that’s usual fantasy romantic notions in most cases, you have had a relevancy and still do. At this point it is more probable that he has grown to care for you hence why he maintains your lifestyle but unfortunately for women, most men are too practical to mix emotion and sex. It is not uncommon for a man to detach himself once he cultivates a certain degree of emotions towards a woman and truth be told ‘erections’ don’t relate or recognize love, though there is a population of men who have mastered the art of pretending they understand or feel love just like women do. Men are more caring being than loving. A man who uses love to influence a woman’s emotional thought process has a higher probability of not being faithful compared to a man who cares enough to respect his bond and maintains fidelity because he made a conscious decision to work with one vagina.

She replies,

Oh my oh my oh my. So what you are saying is that my once relevance of having a tasty pussy and positive attitude without my knowledge turned into a wife and his perception of me changed. He has basically replaced me with younger women who project his sexual criteria, is that what you are saying?

Maurice replies,

I can see you would make a good profiler, yes that is exactly what I am saying. He does not love you any less but your relevance moved into how he can sustain his partnership with you, the same way he found a balance with his wife. Question, you mentioned ‘younger’ does that mean you know the age of the women and after 9 years does his wife know you co-share?

She replies,

The women are 22 and 27. She called me once after the 3rd year of our affair to tell me she knows I exist and that she has no issue with me. I found that odd but I never mentioned it to him.

Maurice replies,

I have worked with women for almost 17 years now and one thing I have learnt is that women have accurate instincts whether they choose to ignore them of not. I am sure at some point in her courtship period or in her marriage she saw his character traits and made a conscious decision to stay no matter what and that is why she accorded you the call to let you know that she knew and as long as you do not affect her space she was accepting of the co-sharing. I am curious, you haven’t mentioned children with him, why is that?

She replies,

I should have mentioned, he medically made sure he could not have children and he told me before hand. I knew what I was getting into but 9 years later I am experiencing a change of heart. I would like a child but he is closed off from any option. I really wanted to be seen as special by a man and by becoming his compatible sex mate I had that but once for some reason that excitement is not there. I do not want to leave him. I know for a fact that pastures are not greener out there but how do I rewire myself to run with status quo without showing that it bothers me.

Maurice replies,

Only you can make that choice. If you left, would you find a better version of man who will give you all the social variables you want, the chances are very slim so better the devil you know. On the other hand, is your sanity and peace of mind worth status quo considering only age will slow him down and by then it is more of less guaranteed that if your sexual appetite remains you will inevitably explore other sexual suitors.

She replies,ebonythinking

Gosh, I never looked at it that way. So it’s up to me to decide what’s best looking into the future.

Maurice replies,

Yes my dear. Do this, take a piece of paper and draw a line in the middle. On one side list all the things that you love about him and your current life. Also list the things that you would miss if you were to leave. On the other side list what 10 years from now would look like in your ideal World, list 10 things that are important to you, especially without him in your life and probably you fall in-love again. One of the sides will draw you to pursue it, give yourself 8 weeks and after sometime you will find yourself sub consciously drifting into spicing status quo or preparing to embark on a new journey. Whatever your choice do not live your life in regret.

She replies,

Thank you Matheka. You have been more than helpful and given me a new perspective on my situation. Be blessed.


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Introduced into a threeway

Dear Maurice,

I have been following your blogs and videos and I really admire your brutal honesty polyamory3about matters sex and relationships. I am in a dilemma and I need your advice. I am 28 years old, independent with a good job. Like yourself I am not a follower of societal rule. I have dated 9 men but I have had affairs with 3 women who have given me the best relationships and sex beyond anything the men could accomplish. I guess I dated the men at some subconscious level to fit in with the norms. It is like we are meant to finish education, find a partner of the opposite sex and get married for the soul purpose of having children so that they can continue the circle once we die. If I may ask, is everyone meant to get married and have children?

Maurice replies,

The answer is no. Not everyone was born to get married and have children. It is also a fact that some people in relationships and in marriage were never meant to be in those regimental social unions. I find it strange, though it is based on socialization, that people feel guilty when they do not conform to the expected social order. A big chunk of people Worldwide were meant to be free spirits and accomplish other things in life. Having a child is down to choice, it is not mandatory to be married to raise a child.

She replies, polyamory2

That is what I believe too. Now to my dilemma. I met this woman. She is 29, a true beauty, we got intimate after a few glasses of wine. It was one of the most magical nights I have ever had. As we were having breakfast the next morning she confessed that she had a man in her life. I was shocked but she went on to explain that her man and her were seeking out a polyamorous relationship and that she wanted me to meet the man we would grow to love together. I was a bit hesitant but after doing my research it felt appealing and I was curious.

Maurice asks,

Did you meet him?

She replies, polyamory1

Yes I did. I was nervous as hell but they both made me the centre of attention, I felt comfortable and wanted. They were so mature about the relationship structure and guidelines on how to conduct ourselves in that relationship format. I was only looking a female partner to share my all and love her as much as I can but now I have been introduced into a threeway union and I don’t know what to do.

Maurice replies,

Let me ask you a question, why did your relationship with men not work?

She replies,

Firstly, I now know that I am more attracted to women but I still feel like I am bi-sexual. I found men egotistic and always thinking that money was the solution to everything. I have a major problem with a man who cannot apologize and he thinks that his finances will bail him out all the time. Then the sex is too masculine, always thinking that limited foreplay and pounding will get me anywhere. I rarely achieved orgasm with those 9 men but I orgasm-ed with the 3 women all the time. Matheka, your brothers may have the tools but they can’t use them. They do you like they are digging for oil. Please teach them, I have heard to mention patience in the bedroom, even before intercourse just teach them about foreplay, eating my pussy right can make me orgasms multiple times before you penetrate, please please please teach them, women are suffering in silence!

Maurice replies,

I am not a magician. I can only help those men who leave their ego at home and are willing to learn. My other question, are you willing to try out another heterosexual relationship?

She replies,

No. I can’t handle that ego again and that is why I am not sure of what I really want.

Maurice replies,

Life is all about choices. The only reason we are having this chat is because you need someone you trust to tell you that you are not crazy to enter into a polyamorous relationship. What I do know about the polyamorous format is that men in those relationships have a very liberal mindset and are psychologically wired to maintain their commitment to nurture that relationship. They are not driven by egotistic insecurities like most heterosexual men. Frankly your chances of out lasting conventional relationships are extremely high in my experienced opinion. But you will never know the probabilities until you explore and invest in that relationship. Question, how old is the man?

She replies,

He is 37.

Maurice replies,

Because of the liberal mindset in your dynamic, I actually know you will be far more happier in this relationship compared to your traditional relationship setting. I hope I have been helpful and I hope you keep me posted if you do embark on this journey.

She replies,

Matheka, you are right, I only needed you to confirm that I am not mad to try this out. Thank you so so much. I will definitely keep you updated. I may need more of your consult. Oh, I forgot to mention, one of the women I dated made me squirt, it was not a fountain but I squirted. I have tried to make myself squirt but with no success, why is that?

Maurice replies,

You know I teach women how to orgasm to the point of squirting, let us schedule a session soon so you can enter polyamory as a certified squirter. At some point I can teach your partners, it’s all about exploration.

She replies,

I can book you in December. That’s package 4b right? I want to begin this journey in January 2019. Though they want us to go out of town for new years and you know what that means lol.

Maurice replies,

That’s correct. We will agree on date, time and venue. Chat later.


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Hi Matheka,

I have a story for you and I would appreciate your insight. Let me begin by saying dude in my next life I want to be you, you guy! Mamas pay you to touch their punani ‘you are the man’, as a matter of fact my boys and I want to book you but you must tailor for us some wild session, less talking more bootylicious women squirting you feel me bro!

This is a small World. So now there is this mami I am smashing or was, we’ll see how things pan out. When we met I told her straight up that I am a married man with famo.ebonyargueShe brought her goods and I have been smashing it like a problem. This mami finds out after I have been smashing for 8 months that I am also smashing her pal. You guy, her pal has pussy that pours honey I kid not. She bitches & bitches and makes threats to the point that she calls my wife and tells her that ‘am fucking your husband and your husband is a bastard because he is also fucking my friend’. Now Matheka kumbe am smashing an idiot with a cleverer pussy!!!! Anyway my wife’s response ‘welcome to the club’ which shocks her further. I told her my wife indirectly knows about my affairs so calling her was a futile move, what she was trying to achieve only the universe knows.

Maurice replies,

Bro, you are killing me lol. But I need to ask, how old are you? I need to profile you as we have this chat.

He replies,wealthyman

I am 34 my wife is 26. Been married for 6 years with 2 kids. I live a very good life. I come from wealth in short. I am that guy who gets what I want when I want it. I hope that helps.

Maurice replies,

Yes it does, very much so. Let’s go back to the part where you said your wife knows about your affairs indirectly, explain that if you don’t mind.

He replies,

Not at all. How do I put this! When I met my wife it was through friends of friends and we clicked. I was planning on smashing her 4, 5 times then am out but pussy got too good to leave alone but I told her I was a womanizer and if she couldn’t handle she was free to bail. We mingle, we travel out of town as you do, mingled some more, more smashing adventures and at some point I just thought to myself let me ride the wave. Evidently the wave is now my wife. For me marriage is a passage of life and to keep famo happy, especially mathe, I needed to wed so I did. I proposed on holiday in Malta and the rest is history as they say. I recall before we got married she said she was going to tame me and here we are LMAO. It’s refreshing to see a professional who in context can educate women that a certain large clusters of men never married for love or for any kind of exclusivity. In my case I don’t know how to love but I love moments shared with a woman. I love things a woman can make me feel at that moment in time and the ones who survive with me learn how to sustain those thrills or they take a hike! I like your realistic approach to relationship counseling. I follow your work, kudos to you Matheka.

Maurice replies,

Thank you my good Sir for your reviews and for sharing your persona traits. You seem to have your hands full with your love triangle or is it rectangle. What insights did you want from me?

He replies,

Dude, you are the one who deals with these creatures called women. What’s the story here. My wife has had many reasons to leave me and these mamis don’t get the hint when am done and want to move on to fresh punani. Don’t get me wrong, these are fine waterworksas mamis but niggah gets bored and needs new sites and sounds, you feel me. And before I forget which was one of the reasons I decided to chat you. My side mami’s pal squirts like wolololololo and she told me it was courtesy of non other than Matheka, boss you are a miracle worker. But on a serious note Matheka, we need to link up, you must teach me how to make a mami gush, you guy the water works are crazy no wonder I don’t want to smash her pal as much anymore. Because of you I am now asking mamis ‘can you squirt’ before I smash. Non squirters are not giving me the same pleasure like for real. There is something you teach them to do with their vagina that feels great. You need to teach more me Matheka. Stop keeping these skills to yourself lol.

Maurice replies,

Thank you for the compliment bro. I do want I can. Then again I have a massive passion when it comes to sexual empowerment of women. I strongly believe that every woman deserves to gain immense pleasure, at least one or two orgasms otherwise what is the point of her spreading her legs. Men have three resources, the mighty tongue, the finger magic that makes her gush and penis girth, in that order. When a man effects those resources her vagina will twitch whenever thoughts of him flow through her cerebral. I agree more men need to learn and I am willing to teach/train anyone who approaches me but my biggest hurdle with men is #boychild egos. It is not my desire, mandate or job to satisfy all women. My job is to teach a woman how to be a better sexual lover and especially what she needs to learn about utilizing her inner vagina so that she can achieve orgasm to the point of squirting and better yet she gains confidence in and out of the bedroom. If we had more men learn how to apply seduction, foreplay and bodily arousal we would have happier bedrooms with far more productive people in the work place. I hope that makes sense?

He replies,

Matheka I know your passion, like I said I on the ‘down low’ follow your work like many men who can’t admit it. But now I want to join your ranks of #teammasimba so I can smash mamis and leave an ever lasting mark. That’s just who I am don’t judge! If it wasn’t for my schedule this weekend I would have joined you in Meru for your show, you see I follow again on the ‘down low’ lol. In November I am looking for you vibaya sana.

Maurice replies,wealthymanebony

My assessment is simple. We haven’t met but I sense you have some form of presence that does something to women. You might also have good/great game, I wouldn’t know. However, what I do know for a fact is that your wealth and the lifestyle you can present to a woman keeps you relevant in the pecking order of laws of attraction. It’s that simple bro. You don’t need to work as hard as most men because your environment speaks for you, when you unleash your potential her nipples go into archery mode, her panties begin to fight with gravity, she needs to stock up panty liners, her vagina’s labia minora are clapping out of excitement, bro your kinetic energy keeps her juices in motion. Your statue and influence is beyond most my good Sir.

He replies,

You guy, too much LMAO, ati what!!!! You need to write a book about your Worldly experiences, best seller right there.

Maurice replies,

I am stating it as it is. Some may say you are full of yourself and arrogant but I get that from some people because of my skill set but in life you need to move forward and do not deviate from your tangent. I appreciate you sharing and I hope my comments have satisfied what you were seeking.

He replies,

Matheka, it’s been an honour dude. I am serious November my boys and I are looking forward to you organizing some squirting session with hot mamis, we shall also tag along some of our own non dramatic mamis. I know you are a whisky man so plenty will be flowing as mamis squirt lol. Ma-laters dude.


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Dear Maurice,love wrangles1

I need your thoughts on a situation. Since 2015 I have been dating a guy on and off mainly because of exclusivity issues that arise and we break it off then return back to one another. I met him through mutual social circles and I fell for him. He just has a way of confusing me and his sex is great, like really good.

Maurice replies,

He sounds like a guy whom you have a sexual connection with. What is the problem?

She replies,

Ok, for one, he stopped confusing me as he used to. This is complicated so let me break it down. I found out, like in 2016, that one of the chicks in our social circle used to date him and why I found out late was because she got married to another man, left our social group, but kept in touch with him ‘my boyfriend’. I asked him and he denied. After her marriage collapsed, she left her husband then pursued him again to the point they would meet frequently as he was dating me. She gathered my clothes at his place and cut them up and had them delivered to my office ‘can you imagine the nerve’. I confronted him and he apologized stating that he only allowed her to go to his place unsupervised because he wanted her to pick any thing she may have at his place so that he can commit to me. Obviously I knew he was trying to seduce me with his bull shit (I follow your work so I know men better, I am much wiser). Yes I was mad but I kept my cool with him. Late last year after we broke off for the last time he had text me that his girlfriend ‘the ex chick’ who was once a friend of mine did not like us communicating and that he had been pressured to text me the message. So what I did, is seduce him and implied I wanted his dick knowing he had a weakness for my pussy ‘you know lol’. I went over to his office and picked his house keys. I had bought a new pair of scissors. I went over to his place and cut all her clothes and shoes. Especially one pair of shoes he had given her as a gift and she flossed on social media saying ‘my boo bought me these’ blah blah blah. I even sent her real time photos as I was cutting them. I text her that her so called man was sucking my pussy, the previous night, while I was wearing her panties lol I was lying but it hurt her. I needed her to picture it.

Maurice replies,

OOOOOOOK…. clearly you were out for some form of revenge. If I may ask, at what point did you break off for good assuming you are now done with him and were you both dating others during your breaks.

She replies,

Maurice it’s like you are reading my mind. I was getting there. Whenever we broke up we were not exclusive. Early last year some married guy I met on social media came for my birthday. He surprised me and all my friends noticed ‘something between us’. Thoughlove wrangles3 he gave me space with my friends and just mingled. My boyfriend’s friends went and told him that some ‘dude’ came to my birthday and that we looked close. My boyfriend was not in attendance cause he had to travel. He later asked me and I told him that yes a male friend came to my birthday and after he persisted with many questions I admitted that this man had given me the best sex ever. That nigga can suck pussy!!! He wasn’t happy as you can imagine but he had prior hurt me numerous times with stories of his team mafisi behaviours. That was the beginning of the end or so I thought.

Maurice replies,

So what’s the story with you and married guy and what do you mean by ‘so I thought’?

She replies,

My ex is now texting telling me how he regrets his actions and that he wants me back. Anyway, I met the married guy and we hit it off. This man totally gets me. We can talk for hours and he can take me places for hours if you know what I mean #shymoment. He just gets me. He is not pushy and he knows how to make me feel like a woman. I guess his patience and maturity helps. For example, there is time we hookup for some nasty night of pleasures but for some reason my body was not feeling the whole venture. Unlike most men who would behave like apes that have been denied sex, he just engaged in conversation and watched me sleep. When I woke up he was by my side and he cooked me a full English breakfast. Like I said he gets me and he makes me smile. It’s the small things that us women really care about and he encompasses those things.

Maurice replies,

I hear you. What I have gotten from this story is that your boyfriend dated a girl, she got married, quit the marriage and at some point came back to your boyfriend. I understand you were on and off but you were in this web of relations. So what advice do you seek from me?

She replies,

My ex is on my case. Now what could he be wanting from me after he made it clear he had a girlfriend, he says he misses me and what we had and that he loves me?

Maurice replies,love wrangles2

In my opinion, your ex just knows that he has gotten away with his team mafisi antics plenty of times before, he is good at feeding women with the stories of hope they want to hear and that is why he is so confident in his pursuit. He is also channeling your emotional competitive side as women, creating a scenario where two women hate each other and never the man who inflicts all the pain. Unless you are turned on by relationship disorder you would be wise to explore new territories and take a needed long break from that love triangle.

She replies,

Do you think this married guy is an option?

Maurice replies,

I am not a big fan of titles. I only seek happiness for all those who approach me and at times that happiness does not materialize in a conventional manner. What I would like to know is…. does he make you happy, do you feel good around him, has he a way of reminding you that you are sexy and luring. If the answer is yes, then explore, have fun, take a break from buying scissors and enjoy more best sex & English breakfasts. Invite happiness to your soul and go with the flow. If I may add, I hope there is squirting in all this sexual exploration before and after English breakfast, just saying!

She replies,

Funny you mention. He attended a session with you years ago. He said you taught him a few tricks so yes he does make me squirt, like loads, the bed is soaked until sleeping becomes a problem but I am not complaining. His wife refused to go for the session sighting it is unholy. Too bad for her I am going to enjoy the fruits. Thank you Maurice. I knew I could count on you to give me needed perceptive. By the way, there is a girlfriend of mine who needs a really good fuck and to learn to squirt. Can you organize, she is willing to pay. She says free is cheap so she wants orgasmic guarantees.

Maurice replies,

You are very welcome my dear. Tell her to contact me, I can facilitate for one’s fantasy/fetish.


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Dear Maurice,

I need your help. I don’t know where to begin because I don’t want judgement. I need to figure out why my girl is stepping out on me. I am Ghanaian. I have lived in Kenya for 6 years.

Maurice replies,

My job is not to judge, that’s the job for non professionals. Once I have all the social variables of your story, mine is to profile, deduce and share my analysis of your predicament. Does that make sense?

He replies,

Yes it does. Thank you. I was a bit worried because I consulted with a religious counselor and there was nothing but judgement.

Maurice replies,

Worry not, please do share.

He replies,foreignlover

I have been seeing this lady for the last 2 years. It’s an affair that went beyond it’s expiry date but I am not complaining because I grew to really like her but now I noticed, after going through her phone, that she is still fucking her ex-husband who lives with another woman.

Maurice asks,

You mentioned it was an affair, does that mean she is currently dating someone else, I just need to be clear with the facts?

He replies,

Yes, she separated with her ex-husband 6 years ago. She has a current boyfriend, they have been together about 3 years. When we met she told me she quickly realised she did not love him and at the time they met she just needed a companion. They live apart because of her two children.

Maurice asks,

How old are you and how old are the people in this love nest if you don’t mind me asking?

He replies,

I am 41. She is 32. Her ex is 47 and her current boyfriend is 35.

Maurice asks,

Have you confronted her with the information and why would you do through her phone? What are you seeking to be in her life?

He replies,

I did not tell her I went through her phone but I told her that I had a feeling she was fucking another man and she did not hesitate to casually share with me that she was sexual active with her ex.

Maurice replies,

Well, why is that a problem considering you are also having sexual relations with her, it can’t be an issue of exclusivity because you are tasting her vagina without consent from her boyfriend, isn’t that fact?

He replies, dollarsseduction

I was just shocked and hurt that she was fucking another behind my back. I am okay with her fucking her boyfriend but I don’t expect to share her with two men. I am spending over $1,000 every month to give her a certain lifestyle so she should limit her sexual activities to me and her boyfriend.

Maurice asks,

Did you ask her why she was still having sex with her ex and I am curious, do you by any chance know their sex schedule?

He replies,sweetdick

From their chat, they normally meet at different venues. I could not believe that she was honest enough to tell me that they made a pact that if they ever broke up she would still have the privilege of his ‘sweet dick’. How could she share such with me, your Kenyan women are strange. Where I am from a woman would not dare to reveal such in fear of a beating.

Maurice replies,

My good man, let us stay away from beating women, not unless you are referring to a tongue lashing on her clit that makes her cum in your mouth. Anyway, I digress, as you have said, you had no intention of making your affair long term but due to human feelings that grow and change the relationship dynamic at some point you got hooked. Most of all, you forgot your relevance in your relations with her. You were her fling, her avenue of thrills but once you prolonged your stay, your psychology became one of provision. You became what Kenyans call a ‘sponsor’. I am sure you did not receive the memo but that is your relevance at this point in time. Her ex-husband’s relevance is ‘his dick’ and that is why despite having you and her boyfriend she indulges with his shaft. For those who care to listen, I have always stated that lust is the driving force behind human sexual behaviour. In my opinion, her boyfriend is her companion. Someone she finds stability with, with whom she can attempt to love and co-exist. She may not love him the way she once thought she could but he still has some relevance. You, my friend, were her foreign thrill and still remain to have relevance but your main problem right now hence why you approached me, is the story of that man’s penis. I don’t know whether she ever complimented your sexual prowess but this revelation about her ex’s sexual skills is burning you from the inside out and has most likely made you doubt your own manhood.

The reason why she confidently shared is because she feels you have that liberal friendship and connection that allows for anything to be shared. My only worry for you, is that if you show her that you are intimidated by her sharing trait then she might in turn point out that your relationship is not about exclusivity nor conservative relations. I hope you understand what I am saying otherwise you need to rethink your relationship with her. Sometimes a woman just needs a liberal male friend she can fuck once in awhile and most of all a man who is a non-judgmental friend with whom she can share her life stories with. Perhaps her boyfriend is not the listener type. Unless you want to leave, if I were you I would be working on improving my relevance, be a better listener, a better lover, work on new ways of delivering orgasmic intimacy and stop thinking about a penis that is not on your body.

He replies,

Boss, you do not mince your words do you! I never looked at it that way. Very insightful. But also not easy to accept but I appreciate your candor. Actually a Kenyan friend of mine was like Matheka will lay it down for you.

Maurice replies,

I am curious, after 2 years of this affair what made you suspicious of her?

He replies,

I have known her routine and she is usually honest about her day to day activities. But there is a day I asked her where she was and she lied she was at work. She works in Nairobi but her phone locator said she was in Naivasha. She told me they had a Directors meeting only for me to find out she was in another type of ‘meeting’. I asked her why she had never told me about fucking her ex expeditions and she replied “I don’t tell him about you fucking me and neither do I ask you if you are fucking anyone else”.

Maurice replies,

Clearly she knows what she wants from her relations. It’s time you realign yourself into the network or you eject yourself. I do not see her conforming to any restrictive conservative parameters.

He replies,

Thank you Maurice. What I have understood is that I was ready to fool around with someone’s woman but the minute I grew feelings for her I became obsessive and emotionally invested in a relationship I manufactured in my head.

Maurice replies,

That is a very good prognosis of your psychological condition. So now, its down to choice. Please do keep me posted.

 

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Dear Maurice,millennialgirl

I am 18 years old and I am a big fan of your blog, especially your videos on facebook. You tell it as it is and I would like to share my story with you as long as you do not name me.

Maurice replies,

You have nothing to worry about, in the last 8 years of blogging I have never mentioned anyone in any of my stories. I only seek to share human relationship and sexual experiences. Please feel free to share.

She replies,

I am 18 like I mentioned and from a middle class family. I have never lacked in my life and I am grateful for that. However, my parents have never been keen to educate me on matters sex. There is a massive failure of parents especially as we millennials reach 10 to 14, we are exposed to so much and if you do not have an adult to guide you, you can easily be led astray by social media and peers.

I was lucky enough to have my Dad’s friend mentor me in the different stages of my life. My Dad asked him to be my mentor because I always looked up to him as my ‘uncle’. He was the father figure that was willing to talk to me about boys. My mum refused to mentor me, all she ever said was that boys were evil and she would only be comfortable talking about boys once I was legally an adult but to this day she still feeds me useless information thinking am still a child. Anyway, if it wasn’t for you and my Dad’s friend I would have made a lot of mistakes that girls make at the age of 14, where we rush into sex because most of our friends are doing it. Parents think we are stupid and immature, and yet we know right from wrong but we choose to defy them because we either do not want to be ‘left out’ or we just reach a point where being treated like a baby just makes us vengeful.

Maurice asks,

So what you are saying is that many girls at 14 years of age will enter into sexual relations because they want to fit in with their peers?

She replies,

Exactly, and when your mum tells you that boys are evil, she makes you curious enough to want to find out ‘how evil can they be’. You get me Maurice?

Maurice replies,millennialgirlfriends

Oh yes, I get you loud and clear but unfortunately most parents don’t want to have this discussion. Then you have a segment of parents who don’t want their unless parenting skills to be questioned. I recall a concerned mother contracting me to have several sessions with her 14 year old daughter and one of her concerns was social media. Her exact question was ‘if I take away my daughter’s phone she finds an alternative source of communication so how do I protect my daughter from men on social media, how do I make sure they don’t text her’. I told her that her biggest error was attempting to mask her daughter from the real World. So in our sessions, all I did is expose her daughter to the realities of social media and how to counter and manage her surroundings (how to deal with those men). It is vital to empower young people with social tactics so they can protect themselves.

She replies,

I agree. It is important to empower girls with ways of dealing with predators instead of imprisoning us then releasing us into the World with zero skills. It is equivalent to releasing a goat into a Lion infested savanna. Maurice, I lost my virginity last year and I am thankful it was with a man who gave me a good experience compared to most of my girlfriends who had really bad experiences, enough to put them off sex. As young girls we always hear how magical and amazing sex is so we become curious but with fear of the act and judgement. This leads me to the real reason I approached you. For almost 8 years the person I could confide to about my feelings and boys was my Dad’s friend.

Maurice replies,

Sorry to butt in but how old is your Dad’s friend?

She replies,

He is 44, my Dad is 43.

Maurice replies,

Please continue, so the only person you could confide to was your Dad’s friend….

She replies,

Yes, I got to like him a lot because he was always there for me, he even attended my school events and took me out on picnics with his kids when my parents were too busy. By the time I was 16 a level of attraction kick in, he became my biggest crush. Please don’t judge me, I don’t know where the feelings came from , they just manifested and it gets worse. Last year at a family function I told him that I wanted to fuck him. He was like ‘what stop messing around, you shouldn’t say such things to me’. He further went on with ‘I am like your Dad’ , I responded ‘true but you are not’. He said ‘you are like my daughter’. I said ‘true but you are not blood’. I made it very clear that he needed to fuck me or I would run to my Dad and tell me that ‘uncle tried to touch me inappropriately’. I told him that he had to make a choice, have sex with me or say bye bye to his long friendship with my Dad. Even if he proved that he never advanced on me I knew my parents would never trust me again. One thing I have learnt is that people are very emotionally fragile so taking advantage is so easy.

Maurice replies,

So you black mailed him and I need to ask why considering he was there for you?

She replies,

This was in July and earlier in the year my first experience was so bad and I reckoned an older patient and experienced man was what I needed. It was a gamble that paid off.

Maurice asks,

How old was the guy who gave you the bad experience and is he still in your life?

She replies,

It was my friend’s brother, he is 22. My experience with him was traumatic. His inexperience was evident and that is why girls my age opt for older men who hopefully know what they are doing.

Maurice replies,

So you had sex with your Dad’s friend?

She asks,

Daaaah. It was incredible.

Maurice asks,

Did that not affect your relationship with him being like your father figure for all those years?

She replies,

He did not look traumatized while inside me so no that did not change much. Though, I do not see him as much at our place. But I know he meets with my Dad at the club every week. I think he is more upset that the sex stopped when I got him out my system. He failed to understand that he was only relevant the 4 times I needed his amazing sex. It’s bizarre how a grown ass man can sulk when he misses good pussy LOL.

Maurice asks,

So he wanted more even after his initial reluctance?

She replies,

Maurice, granted I am new in this game but after seeing his reaction while having sex even you would want more of this!

Maurice replies,

Let us keep me out of the equation. Question, what was your main reason of sharing this story?

She replies,

You have a following and many are parents. I want people to know that how they areteenage pregnancy going about with their parenting is out dated. As you said, if my mother and father are not equipt with the know how of how to mentor us and empower us with how to deal with the real World then teenage pregnancy will remain a norm. There are many girls in high school who have had more than two abortions and part of the problem is parents who think keeping the girl child indoors is the answer. At some point we are let out and it only take less than 10 minutes for me to sample that evil boy between the shopping mall and home.

Maurice asks,

You want to shock parents into changing their conservative mindset to sexual education?

She replies,

Yes, even you Maurice. Because you are out spoken and practical in your delivery you must be part of the solution. We are brought for some uninteresting speakers and mentors in schools but we lack someone with your knowledge. Parents scare us with illogical truths, you however would be listened to because you would engage us as adults and tell us the consequences of our actions. We do not need to be shouted at, or addressed like children. We need a non judgmental person who will give us the low down with options, take door A and your choices may fail you, take door B and you can experience life in stages. That is what my generation wants, a person who scares us with the realities of today’s World not yesterday’s but also reminds us that ultimately it’s our individual choice that will map out our destiny.

Maurice replies,

I have tried to engage governing bodies for this to be a National debate that translates to a curriculum to empower young people who in turn nurture better morals in the fabric of society but the religious types and uninformed moral police are too stuck in the old conservative ways of educating society. In my professional opinion, their goal to save our African culture will fail because they do nothing but bandage a growing wound. Understanding the sexual psychology of an ever evolving generation will allow you to formulate social projects/programs that make a difference in the long run. I must say it has been enlightening to chat with you and thank you very much for sharing. It is just unfortunate that the deeper social problems in our society today will be ignored or ridiculed by those who evaluate through emotions that project their own inner insecurities opposed to being debated by progressive thinkers who can recognize a problem and see potential in implementing out of the box solutions that impact our society positively. Again, thank you for sharing.

Oh, one more question. What is your take on the boychild, specifically boys of your generation.

She replies,

Empowering girls is great but if you do not empower boys in the same measure then you will cultivate a society where the boychild is not able to handle the girlchild. I can speak for all girls but I know that when we date a boy our age it is just mainly for show to our peers. He is there for coffee dates, ice creams runs, pizza dates but our primary attraction is the older guy who not only fucks us for his pleasures but also empowers us with information that adds value in our day to day life. One day the boychild will be my boyfriend or husband. I know we won’t gel but I will keep him around to please mother but I will secretly have an older guy who understands me better in every single way. It is exciting to have a man who arouses your thought process, he just has relevance despite me having a boyfriend or husband. Personally I view marriage has an illogical process where the rules favor the same repressed boychild.

Maurice replies,

Wow, you should definitely consider majoring in some form of psychology. At your very youthful age you understand human behavioural science better than women two to three times your age.

She replies,

Maurice, they are seeking to be loved. We millennials are seeking relevance in our life, you can love us but if you don’t add value you can keep your love. Older women like my mum package love and sex together hence why she constantly has issue with my Dad who just wants pussy that motivates him. It’s not my fight so I do not meddle, but I could teach my mum a thing or two about men.

Maurice replies,

Oooook.

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Is he being selfish????

Dear Matheka,

I want to thank you for the advice you gave me during the session with my chama. But I think I have put myself in hot soup since then. Due to my frustrations in my marriage I frustratedblackwomandecided to embark on my own adventure and now I am conflicted in so many ways. As you know I have been married for 6 years and despite trying to spice things up my sex life has been extremely pathetic. My husband has always reminded me that we are Catholics and that sex is sacred. He only knows missionary and he says any form of oral sex is sinful and demonic. I am only 26, please help me.

Maurice replies,

You mentioned hot soup!

She replies,

I was getting to that. I kind of flirted with your friend who was part of the live sex duringlickingebonypussy the chama session. We exchanged numbers solely for his massage service and we ended up doing much more. Matheka, please do not judge me but I had never felt a penis that big, my husband’s is very small in comparison. The way he licked my pussy was amazing and I had never given a blowjob before. He said I was a good student. It was the first time for me to orgasm without having to play with my clitoris. How do I get over him?

Maurice asks,

When you decided to explore with him, what did you mutually agree to? I know him well so I am sure this is just a fling.

She replies,

He was very clear that it was just fun but after fucking him several times, I can’t do without him. He told me we can fuck for as long as I want, as long as I know the rules. But I feel he is being selfish.

Maurice asks,

How is he being selfish and if I may ask, how many times have you had sex with him since you met him in November?

She replies,

He is selfish because he wants me to provide a venue and pay him every time we have sex and yet he is also enjoying the sex. I have met him 5 times.

Maurice replies,

You do realise that you need him more than he needs you. He has acquired his sexual ebonypoundingprowess over the years so for you to experience him you must pay him. I believe those are part of the rules that he stipulated. A man who has his level of sexual vigor has value. It’s unfortunate that we live in a World where ‘the penis’ has no or little value. Men who are procreational may not have value but all the guys I work with in relation to delivering sexual ecstasy are recreational sexual lovers. I have taught them to value their penis. I am also a bit conflicted because I am wondering how I can be of help in your predicament.

She replies,

I understand what you are saying but does he have to charge me all the time. I feel I can be more of value to him in the long run if he treats me like a woman instead of a client. I feel like he is holding back, he told me he likes me and misses our time together, does that not sound like a man who is playing safe?

Maurice replies,

My dear, I hear you but to me you sound like a woman who just wanted to venture out and at some point you fell in-love with a man who you knew was out of reach. Men generally have some form of liking towards a woman they are having sex with. It’s also normal for a man to miss your sex and your company but it is not a sign of exclusivity or obligation towards you. If the sex was bad we would not be having this dialogue, so it is good to love the sex but don’t over step the terms & conditions and love the man. I also need to remind you that I cannot have any part in your romance. You have a choice, extinguish your fling with him and return to your Catholic husband or continue your arrangement with expectations that do not go beyond ‘having fun’.

She replies,

He said he has a girlfriend and if so where is he continuing his relations with me?

Maurice replies,

I cannot speak on is behave, only he can answer that question. However, you must have known that your relations are both fun and business for him. And even if he has a girlfriend that is none of your business. I am certain he is not bothered about you having a husband either. Again, you are asking questions as if this fling could ever graduate into something else more exclusive. Clearly from your own marriage status you have learnt that acquiring marital status is overrated especially when your compatibility is lacking. As much as money is great, if he has agreed to see you 5 times then he must enjoy sex with you. I know him, he is extremely picky. If that is not good enough for you then you need to reconsider your sexual escapades with him before you land yourself into an emotional place of no return. He is a seasoned man, set in his ways. He can sustain a casual sex affair for years without plaguing unnecessary emotions into it. That is something most women can’t do, so understand the game you are playing and decide on whether you are in or out.

She replies,

I am meeting him on Saturday, I will let you know how it goes.

Maurice replies,

Have fun.


 

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