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Dear Maurice,

I have been following your blogs and videos and I really admire your brutal honesty about matters sex and relationships. I am in a dilemma and I need your advice. I am 28 years old, independent with a good job. Like yourself I am not a follower of societal rule. I have dated 9 men but I have had affairs with 3 women who have given me the best relationships and sex beyond anything the men could accomplish. I guess I dated the men at some subconscious level to fit in with the norms. It is like we are meant to finish education, find a partner of the opposite sex and get married for the soul purpose of having children so that they can continue the circle once we die. If I may ask, is everyone meant to get married and have children?

Maurice replies,

The answer is no. Not everyone was born to get married and have children. It is also a fact that some people in relationships and in marriage were never meant to be in those regimental social unions. I find it strange, though it is based on socialization, that people feel guilty when they do not conform to the expected social order. A big chunk of people Worldwide were meant to be free spirits and accomplish other things in life. Having a child is down to choice, it is not mandatory to be married to raise a child.

She replies,

That is what I believe too. Now to my dilemma. I met this woman. She is 29, a true beauty, we got intimate after a few glasses of wine. It was one of the most magical nights I have ever had. As we were having breakfast the next morning she confessed that she had a man in her life. I was shocked but she went on to explain that her man and her were seeking out a polyamorous relationship and that she wanted me to meet the man we would grow to love together. I was a bit hesitant but after doing my research it felt appealing and I was curious.

Maurice asks,

Did you meet him?

She replies,

Yes I did. I was nervous as hell but they both made me the centre of attention, I felt comfortable and wanted. They were so mature about the relationship structure and guidelines on how to conduct ourselves in that relationship format. I was only looking a female partner to share my all and love her as much as I can but now I have been introduced into a threeway union and I don’t know what to do.

Maurice replies,

Let me ask you a question, why did your relationship with men not work?

She replies,

Firstly, I now know that I am more attracted to women but I still feel like I am bi-sexual. I found men egotistic and always thinking that money was the solution to everything. I have a major problem with a man who cannot apologize and he thinks that his finances will bail him out all the time. Then the sex is too masculine, always thinking that limited foreplay and pounding will get me anywhere. I rarely achieved orgasm with those 9 men but I orgasm-ed with the 3 women all the time. Matheka, your brothers may have the tools but they can’t use them. They do you like they are digging for oil. Please teach them, I have heard to mention patience in the bedroom, even before intercourse just teach them about foreplay, eating my pussy right can make me orgasms multiple times before you penetrate, please please please teach them, women are suffering in silence!

Maurice replies,

I am not a magician. I can only help those men who leave their ego at home and are willing to learn. My other question, are you willing to try out another heterosexual relationship?

She replies,

No. I can’t handle that ego again and that is why I am not sure of what I really want.

Maurice replies,

Life is all about choices. The only reason we are having this chat is because you need someone you trust to tell you that you are not crazy to enter into a polyamorous relationship. What I do know about the polyamorous format is that men in those relationships have a very liberal mindset and are psychologically wired to maintain their commitment to nurture that relationship. They are not driven by egotistic insecurities like most heterosexual men. Frankly your chances of out lasting conventional relationships are extremely high in my experienced opinion. But you will never know the probabilities until you explore and invest in that relationship. Question, how old is the man?

She replies,

He is 37.

Maurice replies,

Because of the liberal mindset in your dynamic, I actually know you will be far more happier in this relationship compared to your traditional relationship setting. I hope I have been helpful and I hope you keep me posted if you do embark on this journey.

She replies,

Matheka, you are right, I only needed you to confirm that I am not mad to try this out. Thank you so so much. I will definitely keep you updated. I may need more of your consult. Oh, I forgot to mention, one of the women I dated made me squirt, it was not a fountain but I squirted. I have tried to make myself squirt but with no success, why is that?

Maurice replies,

You know I teach women how to orgasm to the point of squirting, let us schedule a session soon so you can enter polyamory as a certified squirter. At some point I can teach your partners, it’s all about exploration.

She replies,

I can book you in December. That’s package 4b right? I want to begin this journey in January 2019. Though they want us to go out of town for new years and you know what that means lol.

Maurice replies,

That’s correct. We will agree on date, time and venue. Chat later.

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