Mr Matheka. I hope this finds you well. I have a pressing matter and I was referred to you by a counsel that I had initially consulted. He was not able to satisfy my quest, he implied you were more open to tackling sexual matters.
Maurice asks,
What is your issue?
He replies,
Firstly, I am 36 years old. I am an accomplished Engineer and a giver at heart. My issue is about a lady who is currently in my life. She is 25 and jobless. I cater for all her needs. I bought her an apartment and a car. I maintain her day to day life and I do my best to love her but after all this pampering she dares to insult me with her sexual needs.
Maurice asks,
Would you say you are conservative?
He replies,
Matheka, don’t get me wrong. I am exposed, in my studies I have traveled the World but I do not see why I should indulge in unnatural acts. For example, she wants me to suck or
lick her private parts, am not sure which is which. She tries to touch and suck my member during sex and it feels very uncomfortable when she sucks me. There is a time I felt like doing my business in her mouth and she was not fearing me cumming, what is wrong with this woman. I told her about my past sex life where I would climb the woman and after I was done that was it. She told me there was more to sex between a man and woman. She tells me to hold it in and I can’t. it is alleged men go for long like 10 to 15 minutes, is this even practical? I do not know why she insists on this kind of engagement.
Maurice replies,
What you may call unnatural acts are natural sexual acts for many people in our ever evolving World. You may be well traveled but I have a feeling your travels were about your studies and field of expertise so I highly doubt you dabbled in sexual exploration hence your demeanor. There is actually nothing wrong with your sexually preference, each to their own, but your problem is stemming from the fact that you are dating a woman who is more versed in the sexual realm. In my professional opinion, a conservative should never date a liberal because at some point your persona differences will creep up and begin to tare into your relationship.
He replies,
I have told her to quit behaving like she does. Considering I am running her existence can she not sacrifice her ungodly exposure and settle with me without stressing my life.
Maurice asks,
I am curious, for how long have you dated her?
He replies,
I have known her for almost 2 years. By the way, I consider her my second wife. I am married with children. I want to tame her. She needs to conform to my traditional lifestyle.
Maurice replies,
If I may ask, did you not begin your relationship with her for her to be your fun factor considering you have a wife?
He replies,
Yes, I got bored with my wife and found a lot fun with her. What is your point?
Maurice replies,
Well, you may not understand male sexual psychology but the fact is if you attempt to change her, when she is meant to be your girlfriend not wife, you will only be molding another wife and at some point you will again find boredom in another woman and the circle will repeat itself. You will replace her, I guarantee you. For whatever reason you found your wife boring and proceeded to seek thrills elsewhere, men do this all the time. But I urge you not to transform your girlfriend into a wife, your mindset, your perception about your union will kill your relationship.
That said, in context, your relationship will be difficult. Unless she is willing to transform into your ideal conservative traditional woman, of which I do not advocate for, I foresee a string of future issues and many will be driven by her resentment towards you. Humans have been known to change their entire character to please others but that creates room for long term resentment. Only you and her can come to a mutual agreement but in an ideal World you would seek out for an equally conservative woman and officiate your second wife union with consent from your wife. Again, I remind you, despite your distaste for cunnilingus and fellatio you engaged another woman for her ability to give you thrills that lack in your home. If you continue with your current trajectory your lust factor for her will disintegrate.
He replies,
I am confident that she will conform otherwise I will take back everything I her availed for her.
Maurice replies,
That my friend is your prerogative. However, in my book it defines you as a man who is willing to use his financial prowess to in-slave a woman. She is most likely grateful that you are taking care of her but do not ignore the fact that there is a part of her that in time will rebel especially if she feels entrapped beyond her threshold to persevere with what she may rightfully perceive as harsh conditions. My job is to highlight the possible social variables that may destabilize your relationship. Take my consult into consideration and re-evaluate you true need for another woman in your life.
He replies,
Matheka, as much as I did not want you to over analyse me, I respect your trade and I will consider your advice. I am curious as to why you did not ask or bring up my wife?
Maurice replies,
Only amateurs would bring up your wife. Your consult was about your relationship with girlfriend. I deal with each case as presented. To give you constructive consult I must address your issue with facts relating to your dynamic and not through emotional disposition or social psychological engineering. People like yourself come to me because my job is not to judge you but to understand your dilemma and give you information, based on a professional perceptive, that will aid in your quest, what you do with that information is entirely up to you.
He replies.
Asante Matheka. If you don’t mind I shall revert back for more consult once I figure out what I want. Be blessed.
Maurice replies,
You are very welcome.
I have been trying to slow things down in relation to our overly active kinky lifestyle. I have been hinting that I want to settle down with her but she has resisted claiming that we are fine as we are. She even put me in a situation where I had to make her choose between me and her girlfriend.
within the confines of my home but I never felt threatened until she walked out when I asked her to choose between us.
watching her make out with other women and I am sure you indulge in threesomes and more, am I on the right track?
of me finding out and that made me feel vulnerable. I asked him why would he cheat, and his reply was “you lied to me years ago, we made a pact that if ever we were to get married we would not be sexually conservative like most married people” he added “you have declined all our opportunities to explore our kinky side and have concentrated squarely on your career and family life forgetting that your man needed your undivided attention, so when you failed to deliver I opted for other fruitful avenues”. I asked him, did you have to fuck my friend. He replied, you were the one who fed her information about your short comings and she availed herself , I could not resist her offer. She knew exactly what I wanted and she offered with extra bonuses, deal with it, this is a situation of your own making.
your husband has already nurtured a connection with her then it is only logical in the realm of sexual preference to involve her. There is a high probability that he will not connect with any other women you may want to involve at this junction, perhaps later. Blatantly omitting her will also make you look sexually insecure and that won’t trigger well in your sexual escapades with your husband. Remember you need to showcase the kinkier you not the vulnerable wife! Plus we don’t even know whether she would like to be party to any of this. Anyway, that’s my professional advice, mine is to share crucial key indicators, what you do from there on is your choice.
broke his silence. He said he stopped finding me sexy years ago and to my shock he admitted that one of the reasons he went off me sexually was because I over powered him in the bedroom. I remember you mentioning that my sexuality most likely increased when I hit 30 and his either stagnated or decreased. Maurice, I really tried to make it work. I did all I could to revive our sexual life but clearly he stopped trying years ago. I did not tell you but during our session you highlighted quite a bit and many of the things have come to be. I have come to terms with my marriage status and that is why I made the step to call you and book our session. Like you said, sexuality is about me not him. Thanks to you I know my potential and thanks to you again I have been able to teach that guy I told you about. I bit the man’s bait and started an extremely electric sexual affair. If you saw me now you would be proud. I don’t know how you do it but you have transformed me completely. You remember I was once skeptical about you and you told me that until I experience the motions of squirting I would never know the feeling and the psychology behind it. I am
so glad I made that call. You gave me back my confidence and as you predicted in time I would be a renewed woman. Despite your teachings I am amazed how I went from a woman who could not enjoy sex or even orgasm to a woman who can orgasm multiple times and I can make myself squirt endlessly, it is astonishing. At 32, I feel like I have wasted many years begging a man to love me. When I was in my early 20s I believed in Mr Right, the chivalrous knight in shining armour but after understanding male psychology from you I know better. It is time to rediscover and enjoy not good but great sex, and with your guidance I know I will never fail. All I can finish with is keep up the good work. I believe you are doing a lot to educate people about sexuality even if somethings it is tied with bitter truths of failed relationships.
statements about the relationship setting we should maintain to out survive other relationships. Your share on male psychology really hit home and made sense even though at times I wish some realities were not so. I appreciated that you were not conservative with the truth. I believe I am more informed on how to communicate with my husband going forward. I will do whatever it takes to please my man and keep him seeing me not only as his wife but more importantly for him to see me as his relevant sexual mate. Thank you for your professionalism and guidance.
the process and I got comfortable. I have both good and bad news. The good news is that I have been able to gain orgasm and squirt following the weekly practice you recommended. I managed to squirt multiple times during sex, it was amazing but it was with the guy I told you about. The bad news is that with my husband it had failed completely and as you explained I think I stopped viewing him as a sexual partner awhile ago. Like I said, I do not love this other guy but his attitude and willingness to learn how to satisfy me just turns me on. After your teachings I even noticed that my vagina blossoms when I am with him but the same does not happened at home. He has even encouraged me to learn more from you. I wish those were my husband’s thoughts. I hate the fact that I have to be with another man to gain my sexual satisfaction but I am also not willing to sacrifice my sex life for my husband.
women are receiving substandard sex from a man who thinks he knows it all. Apart from my ability to enjoy sex like never before, one thing you did for me of which I am forever grateful is that you boosted my self esteem. I thought for years that I was the problem but our session confirmed that all I needed was to rediscover my womanhood. If you thought I squirted a lot during our session you should see me now only 2 months later. This guy I am with is your big fan and I am thinking of inviting him to the next session. He is very open minded and I would like him to learn more about sensual love making and that clitoris vacuum sucking, if he gets that right, I will be the happiest woman in Kenya.
all around us and some leave a sweet taste in our mouth. Again, I can only speculate at this point but it is fact that office romance is on the rise Worldwide. When you spend 40 to 60 hours with specific office colleagues a gradual connection develops, it starts with innocent coffees and lunches then it becomes routine, you and that person begin to share and at some point your union becomes an addiction. You can’t wait to see that person, they make you feel whole, you get a sense that they understand you better than anyone and yet it is usually artificial feelings that may manifest as love or a strong liking for someone otherwise known as infatuation.
Something told me to go through her phone and to my horror she has been drugging me with sleeping pills and sneaking off to the guest room at the far end of our home to screw my nephew. From the chats I can tell its been going on for awhile and here I thought my marriage was on full throttle. I can’t even tell my brother that his son has been fucking my wife. It would be a family scandal. She is such a slut.
seen or imagined a woman could squirt within minutes. I could not believe my eyes when I managed to accomplish that for my wife. At first though, I was not understanding the technique but once I understood the flood gates began. After a lot of practice I now understand what you call ‘the swelling of the inner upper wall’. She has been squirting continuously, our only issue is wet sheets but like you said better a wet then a constant dry bed. The session was out of this World. I tell you us men have a lot to learn but the problem as I told you is that many of us think we know it all. I must confess I was once that man but since reading your blog and finally interacting with you I am a changed man and for the better because now my wife can orgasm and squirt and that was unheard of in our matrimonial bed. I must also mention how professionally you conduct yourself together with your session partner. Kweli this was your calling. I am yet to gain the skill set you presented but I am getting there. I will definitely refer my friends to try out package 6. My only question is, how do you get a woman to squirt with the tongue motion you showed us, I have forgotten, I was too engrossed in what you were demonstrating. You said it was around the urethra area, can I video call you show use once more?
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