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Dear Maurice,

I have followed your work for a long long time and I never thought I would need your help, but here I am in a situation which I hope you can help with with. I have been dating this guy for 2 years and he is a great guy, very generous but I hate the way he controls my life.

Maurice replies,

What do you mean by controls your life?

She replies,

When we first met he was not as controlling, he would come over to my place and leave without fussing over some things. Nowadays, he fusses over every element of my life. He is so insecure, I realised this when I moved in with him one year ago. I think it even got worse when he bought me my Prado.

Maurice asks,

So am I to assume that he is your exclusive boyfriend?

She replies,

Yes Maurice, I love the guy so much but I hate the way he treats me. I have to follow so many rules and yet he is hardly here, I only get to see him twice a week if I am lucky.

Maurice asks,

If you moved into his place then why do you only see him twice a week?

She replies,

Because he has to go home to his wife and kids. He moved me into what he said used to be his play house, its an apartment where he used to bring girls and his wife has no knowledge of the place. He said he has had it for 9 years. I know he pays for my lifestyle but is there a way for me to change his attitude on caging me.

When I go shopping, I must be picked up by his driver. He monitors my movements through some app in installed on my phone. I have to drink whiskey in hiding with my pals. When we met he said that women should not drink whiskey and beer. I now have to pretend I like the wine he keeps buying for me.

Maurice replies,

You do realise you are dating a married man who in most cases is set in his ways and will enforce his law on you, which means the probability of changing his perceptions is nil. When you decided to embark on this journey of adventures you set in motion a trail that has gotten you into your current predicament. The truth is, this breed of man will not change. As you said he is catering for your lifestyle and I hate to speculate but if you were to try and put your foot done he would most likely eject you from his life. If you are living in his once play house it only means that he has found some form of stability with you, men do not easily give up the one place they can indulge in sex with multiple women. You are the next phase of his play boy life. There is something about you that enticed him enough to be done with his serial infidelity. I feel it has everything to do with his perceived power of you and the sexual and non sexual delights you offer him.

She replies,

You mean there is no changing him and why is he so insecure about men in general, he dislikes my male friends and at some point he hinted that I need to disconnect with them?

Maurice asks,

If I may ask, how is your sex with him, if you were to compare it with your experiences out of 10 what would you give it?

She replies,

I would give it a 4, because he cums before me and I hardly cum unless I fake it.

Maurice replies,

There you go, I know insecurity especially in a man is ugly and unattractive but you need to understand that every man on this Earth knows of his sexual prowess. Your man’s insecurity is valid in the context of his limited ability to perform between the sheets. He knows there are man who rank much higher than him so he uses his financial prowess to provide for you as his weapon. He also monitors you to keep you in check, which is all driven by his instinct to protect his ego. Team mafisi is real.

Last but not least, men pretend to women but he know that you are not in his life because of the sex, especially when he knows he does not rank highly in sexual realm that is dominated by sexual alphas. He has to secure his greatest fear of you two timing him with another man or men. You have a simple choice to stay or leave.

She replies,

You are right. I know my reasons for being in this relationship. I will do my best to keep my sanity. I am willing to do anything to try get him to trust in me more. Please send me some articles on seduction, perhaps I can implement a few tips. I need to have him play to my tune not the other way round. Thank you Maurice, you have been helpful.

To my esteemed readers, this year I have been able to conduct private sessions online with individuals and groups via video call on Whatsapp or Facebook LIVE covering different topics in relation to sexuality and relationship. Do not hesitate to contact me on 0720229351 if you would like to book and schedule an online session. Thank you for your support.

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Dear Maurice,

A friend of mine said you could help me with a problem regarding my boyfriend. We have been dating for 9 months and I really love the guy, to be honest I am deeply in love with him.

Maurice asks,

What seems to be the problem?

She replies,

I think he has been taking me for a ride, I feel we don’t want the same things in life.

Maurice replies,

Please explain.

She replies,

When we met it was all fun and games but after our talk the other day I kind of realised that is all he wants from me. I told him that its time to move to the next level, he asked what that meant and I told him that I wanted him exclusively as my man.

Maurice asks,

What did he say?

She replies,

His reply was both heart breaking and shocking, he said he was not built for a monogamous relationship. He reminded me of what he had said when we were on our first date.

Maurice replies,

Which was?

She replies,

He had told me that he was not into having one woman in his life and if we were going to have anything I needed to accept it or walk away. Maurice, I thought he was testing me at the time and I stayed on because we hadn’t gotten serious like we are now. I thought by now he would have changed his mind about his polygamous ways. I have given him my all, my body and mind. Why can’t he appreciate all that I have done for him. I have slaved in his kitchen to make him delicious meals and done his laundry only for him to reject me despite the love I have for him. Maurice is this fair?

Maurice replies,

I can only give you my analysis on your predicament based on facts. It is evident that he made it crystal clear that he was not going to be exclusive to you. It is also clear that your thoughts reflect certain expectations that were not shared on your part during your first date. That is where all your problems started. He read you his terms and conditions and you jumped right in and signed on the dotted line. You did not even need to read the fine print, the contract you were embarking on was clear as day.

She replies,

Does that mean I must tolerate his going out ‘with the boys’ where I know he meets other women? Maurice, I don’t think you understand what I have done for this guy. I have never been so sexual with any other guy. For 9 months, I have given my body to him, constantly on the phone wanting more of him. I have gone the extra mile to please him. Which leads me to my other issue with him. He hardly initiates a conversation on chat, its always me. Granted when we are together he makes me feel good but I want more from him. Its like we only have fun together, having sex, going out, eating and more sex. That can’t be all we will ever have.

Maurice replies,

If I may ask, is the sex close to the best or the best you have ever had?

She replies,

OK Maurice, to be honest, it is beyond the best. I am so sexually connected to him and that is why I want more from this relationship.

Maurice replies,

Well, great sex due to the stimulus levels the body receives has a way of bonding you to a person and that is exactly what has happened here. As the connection intensified you grew to know him and at some point you gradually fell in love. I can guess that sometimes he doesn’t even pick your calls because he believes it will only lead to a fight, is that correct?

She replies,

Yes, that is the excuse he uses a lot.

Maurice replies,

It is not an excuse, it is the reality. He knows he can’t deliver what you want from this relationship so he finds avenues to minimise quarrels. The truth is he never lied to you about how he wanted your relationship to work. He gave you the format and you went a long with the program. Right now you have a choice, to stay or walk away before you invest even deeper emotionally.

She replies,

Are you saying he will never change? Will he never want to settle down?

Maurice replies,

Well, only he will decide on what he wants in the future and considering he said he is not built for monogamy, I would not bet against him. There are men who are not designed for the picket fence, children and dog setting. You need to accept what you signed up for or move on. The ball is in your court.

She replies,

Maurice, I love this guy. What if I don’t find another like him?

Maurice replies,

Despite his stand on monogamy, the questions you should be asking yourself are, does he make you happy, does he make you feel like a woman…. and to add to the pudding if his sex is as great as you say it is, if I were you, considering you can’t detach his penis, I would stick around.

The fact is you can do far worse with a man who marries you and promises you bliss and ends up feeding you nothing but misery ‘day in day out’ with a combination of horrid sex. Like I said, the ball is in your court.

She replies,

Thank you Maurice. I will weigh my options and seriously consider your consult. Though I wish by some miracle he could see things through my eyes.

Lessons to learn:

Never assume a relationship will always move to the next level (whatever that means)

DO NOT associate sex with love (sex is a source of stimulus, it is driven by degrees of LUST)

Having good/great sex does not mean we are dating, it does not mean we are going to get married (it means we mutually have sex with beneficial outcomes)

Appreciate a man who tells you the bitter truth and stop celebrating men who only tell you what you want to hear as a means to an end, either way you will be fucked in more ways than one!

And please, when you have great sex DO NOT over value your vagina and down play the man’s function (when you were screaming his name and flooding the bed with squirt, someone asserted themselves to make it rain so take a moment and give credit where it is due)

#allwomendeservetoorgasm If you are a man and you don’t agree with this hashtag, please step aside and watch #orgasminducers do what they do best

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Dear Maurice,

I really need your advice. I have followed your blog for a while now but I never thought I would be asking for your help ‘no offense’. I live in Atlanta and I am soon going back home to Kenya. I have lived here for 12 years. In that time I have studied, worked and dated my share of African American, Kenyan and Caucasian women. I am in love with my woman who happens to be Caucasian. I am 32 and she is 27. We have dated for the last 4 years and it has been an amazing 4 years. This is the woman I want to settle with but I have a major problem. My mother does not like the idea of me dating a white woman as she puts it. When we last spoke and I quote, she said ‘have your fun with those people and come back home to real women of your kind’. I had no clue how racist my mother was! It has made me reconsider moving back. What should I do?

Maurice asks,

If I may ask, does anyone in your family support your relationship?

He replies,

My Dad is cool, he is the only person who has spoken to her over the phone but he says this is my fight not his. In short he does not want to be seen as opposing his wife, loyalties and all. My sister and brother would careless to be honest, according to my mother one of them married into the wrong tribe.

Maurice replies,

Are you really in love or are you infatuated by her? I don’t ask to doubt you, but to win this battle you must be 100% sure. This is a woman you are going to relocate to the unknown, to a totally different social climate, it is paramount that she is the one for you. Are you afraid to hurt or disappoint your mother’s wishes?

He replies,

Good question. I am partly to blame for my predicament. I told my mother that I was dating a white girl on our 2nd year and from what I can tell she thought it was a rebound from the Kenyan girl I used to date prior. You see, my mother knows her folks despite only dating for 14 months. Once my mother knew I was dating a steady Kenyan she took it upon herself to know her folks. Even though we were taking it one day at a time, my mother had her own futuristic plans for us. I love and respect my mother but I do not want to choose between home and the woman I love. I am sure you have dealt with such cases before. I need your professional opinion so I can make my decision.

Maurice replies,

I should have asked you this, has your woman ever been to Kenya?

He replies,

No, this will be her first time out of the Continent.

Maurice replies,

With the fact that you are uprooting her to Africa apart from your mother you need to have the following in check. You need to have secured your own home and an income stream(s), you must be in a position to give your woman the same lifestyle or better while in Kenya. You also need to address her career (assuming she has one). While coming to Kenya will seem exotic and like a dream holiday when the dust settles she needs to be working. It is important for her own sanity for her to have something to do after you settle in that is.

Now about you and family. What I have witnessed over many years of dealing with this kind of case is that you need to follow your own life and prove to the World (your mother) that your decision is final and they must see that truly you are both in love and living life to the fullest. One thing that any parent comes to appreciate with time is your ability to stand firm for what you believe. If you always give in they consider you weak without telling you to your face, to the point where they begin to micro manage your every move. You must affirm to your mother that you love her and you must also shine your unwavering commitment to your woman for all to see, that is the only way  you will gain respect from those who doubted your decision. Come home and create your own comfort zone. That is what being a man is all about.

He replies,

Okay Maurice. If I didn’t know better I would have said you were a mind reader. You have literally gone over my checklist. All the above are covered or should I say will be covered. My woman does have a career and luckily she received an offer to advance in Kenya. It is now up to us to decide on whether to move or not. At least you have shed some clarity to the family matter and I am forever thank you for your insight.

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Hi Maurice,

We have just seen your post in a group on facebook and we were wondering whether you could teach us about squirting through social media platforms like Whatsapp. I have never attended your sessions but I heard a lot about you and your work. We are in Embu and eager to learn at a fee, all we ask is that you instruct us step by step. Will that be possible?

Maurice replies,

Well, I normally prefer a one on one session to maximize on the success rate but as long as you are attentive and you can follow instructions we may just achieve your wanted results. I am assuming it will be you and your partner?

She replies,

It’s a long story, I am married but my partner for today is female, she is my girlfriend. We are both bi-sexual.

Maurice replies,

Super. When would you like to have the session?

She replies,

Can we call you tonight at 9pm? I will pay you via mpesa.

Maurice replies,

That’s fine. I will await your call then we can have our Whatsapp session. I will be using voice notes and I request that you follow up with a review of the session.

*The session commenced as scheduled.

The Review after the session….

Maurice, that was intense. Your instructions were on point and even though my first attempt failed as I was getting the hang of it, it finally happened. Wow she squirted. It was amazing. You were right, the initial communication between myself and her was crucial to our success. Tonight, it will be her trying it on me, I can’t wait.

Thank you so much.

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In June 2016, the following dialogue took place….

Dear Maurice,

Please do not judge me for asking if you offer sexual hookups?

Maurice replies,

My dear, I deal with sex ‘day in day out’. My job is not to judge one’s sexual preference but to deliver to your sexual need. What do you have in mind?

She replies,

My girlfriend and I over a drink decided that we need to experience our first threesome with a man. We heard you provide such at a fee, is that possible?

Maurice replies,

Yes it is very possible. I do have escort services for that woman who wants to experience something different from the norm. That is package 5b on my blog page that highlights the packages I have. Do you have any preferences in regards to what you expect from the man?

She replies,

It is important that he can manage the two of us. He must have stamina and be creative in bed. We both enjoy cunnilingus and he must be open to it. We are paying for hopefully a sexual journey that we have never experienced before.

Maurice replies,

Part of what I do is create avenues for people to live out their fantasies. I am all about delivery. All need to do is agree on a date, time and place (you avail the venue).

Review in August 2016….

I know it has taken a while for me to give you my review of the service you provided but as they say good things come to those who wait. My girlfriend and I have nothing but praise for the services you provided. We had always had the mutual fantasy to have a threesome with a man who could hold his own and who knew such a service was available in our conservative Country. I never did tell you how I got to hear about you. It was through a friend who had taken up your escort service after she gave up on meeting a man who could satisfy her. Once she had a taste she got hooked and became a regular client and that got my attention enough to call you. To answer your question, my girl and I had high expectations and you delivered with extras. We never in a million years thought one man could handle the two of us and do it to perfection. My friend is here and she wants you to know she had never been sucked and fucked like that before and we both agreed that none of us had experienced multiple orgasms in one night. I personally thought squirting was a myth despite seeing your leaked video clip and having squirted throughout the night during the session, it was mind blowing to say the least. How do I sum up package 5b? Having tried kinky stuff with other men and received nothing but disappointment. I would recommend the package to those individuals or couples who want to explore and achieve their sexual fantasy.

Your work is truly your calling. Without you, women would be in the dark and sexually deprived considering the rate of selfish men who have nothing but money to impress women not knowing we enjoy their money but we hate their sex game.

Your session opened me up to a few relationship myths that I believed in and never ever will I deny myself sexual pleasure to smooth a man’s ego. I have other fantasies in my bucket list so expect my call.

My packages: https://mauricetherapy.com/session-packages/

Those who are interesting in my upcoming open session please Whatsapp me on 0720229351 so I can add you onto the attendee list. If you happened to be in a chama or women’s group please call me.

I also have tailored session packages for men, so if you and your boys are game, give me a call.

I have been looking forward to visiting the following towns, Nakuru, Kisumu, Meru, Embu, Kericho, Eldoret (well overdue), Kajiado, Narok…. If you live in those towns please call me, I have a good deal for a group of 8 or more.

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