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Dear Maurice,

I need your help.

Maurice replies,

What seems to be the issue?

She replies,

I am 34 and married. I love my husband to bits but I don’t have sexual feelings for him. I find myself getting excited by other men when I am at work or out socialising but when I get home, I feel obligated to have sex that I have really never enjoyed.

Maurice asks,

What do you mean by ‘I have really never enjoyed’?

She replies,

That’s just it, I have never in the last 8 years achieved orgasm by him. I have faked it all along. What is wrong with me?

Maurice replies,

I think the question is, why were you attracted to him initially that led you to be his girlfriend and later for you to accept his hand in marriage?

She replies,

I fell in-love I guess.

Maurice asks,

Would I be right in saying that a major part of your criteria was based on his ability to provide?

She replies,

Maurice, he is a great husband and yes he provides for all my needs. He has never failed in that regard.

Maurice replies,

Well, his character is not in question but from your own narration I can’t but deduce that your compatibility was tied to financial provision which led you to fall in-love with the comforts he offers. He may be the best guy on earth but you overlooked one vital ingredient called lust. The fact is, because of a woman’s initial criteria that makes a man a potential, the sexual elements of the relationship are usually not considered and that is why you are not lusting for your husband. He has never been your sexual mate and now your body is demanding for a more defined stimulus. That stimulus can never been gain just because you love someone. Bodily sexual functions do not and will never recognise the emotion or notion of love or romance, that is a psychological disposition.

If you don’t mind sharing, have you ever achieved orgasm?

She replies,

Yes I have with former partners and I miss it.

Maurice replies,

Which is understandable because you wouldn’t know unless you had someone to compare with.

She replies,

So, what you are saying is that sex has little or nothing to do with love and that is why I have never enjoyed sex with my husband?

Maurice replies,

Correct, he has never stimulated your womanhood. To put it into perspective, you do realise the vagina and penis do not know whether one is married or not and that the emotion called love only gives humans an illusion in relation to sex where the lust factor plays a role in inducing the levels of excitement aided by the neuro-chemicals that rush our brains. That is why so many who are in-love still experience below average or just plain horrid sex (experienced more by women than men).

She replies,

Is there a solution or am I doomed?

Maurice replies,

Well, luckily despite your lack of lust for your husband there is a proven way to make you enjoy sex with him based on a technique that makes you crave sex more after learning how to induce a degree of pleasure. If indeed you still want to have sex with your husband but are only put off by his inability to arouse you to your desired level, then its only logical to learn how to own 70% of your orgasm process to ensure every time you have sex you orgasm at least once or twice. For those women who take the my teachings serious they end up enjoying sex much more and having the ability to orgasm multiple times in one single sex session with their partner.

The same applies for that woman who’s man ejaculates within minutes. Instead of her opting for an alternative source of assumed pleasure, why not teach her to orgasm within those few minutes. It is all down to applied technique. Does that make sense?

She replies,

Yes, it does. When can I learn?

Maurice replies,

I am only a call away. We can schedule a private session. The pastures out there are not always as green as people say, so why not try reload your sex life which in turn will positively influence your marriage. There are solutions to sexual hurdles but the question is how bad do you want to prevail? If your husband is a willing participant it would be a welcomed bonus to the session.

She replies,

Thank you Maurice, you have been helpful and I will be calling you to schedule that session.

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