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Dear Maurice,

I have been dating this woman who I met 14 months ago but I fear she is playing me with some guy who keeps dropping her at my place.

Maurice asks,

Why do you suspect her, after all the man is dropping her at your place?

He replies,

I don’t know, but something does not feel right about him.

Maurice replies,

Can I assume she is your woman, based on that fact, are you not in the loop of who this guy is, have you not met him, spoken to him?

He replies,

I have met him once socially. She introduced me to him when we first started dating. They work together and she told me at the beginning that ‘that’s her boy’. He drops her at my place then she goes home later.

Maurice replies,

So you leave separately and she sleeps over at times?

He replies,

How do I put this, she is married. At some point she has to go home to her family. We both make time for each other and especially during the week, we both leave work early to take advantage of the few hours we have together.

Maurice asks,

So if you are having an affair with a married woman, why do you care who drops her? Aren’t you having a non exclusive relationship. Even if she was double dealing you and her ‘friend driver’aka work colleague, it shouldn’t bother you based on your relationship.

He replies,

Things got out of hand and I grew feelings for her a few months ago. This was not my intended outcome and that is why the husband is not aware as he should have been.

Maurice replies,

Suddenly I am curious, I hope this is not going where I think its going!

He replies,

In 2014 her husband pursued the woman I was to marry and he brain washed her with his money and got her pregnant. He has been housing her in an apartment since then. She left me a note, narrating how happy and content she was with him. She said, she never meant to hurt me after all the things I had done for her and the way I treated her like a Queen but she could not ignore her affections for this other man. That was the most painful time of my life. I am 34 and this asshole is 45, my ex is 26 and his wife is 32.

Maurice asks,

What was your initial game plan?

He replies,

After the heartbreak, I schemed to one day revenge by sleeping with his daughter or wife. The daughter angle did not result to anything fruitful but my lure finally worked on the wife. She has no clue. I have sex videos and photos of us in the nude and I was to mail them to him 5 months ago but in the process I fell for her. She says she is happy with the comforts he provides but their emotional bond and sex life is not the best, that was my way in. Why do these kind of men always get their way, women just run to them. I am convinced a big portion of women just enjoy some element of dysfunction in their relationship. Would she be grateful if she were to learn that I reconsidered my agenda for her, I highly doubt.

Maurice asks,

So, she is not even aware that your ex exists in her husband’s life?

He replies,

No she is completely in the dark.

Maurice replies,

You do realise, there is no happy ending in this story. The bottom line is that she belongs to another man and your affair has an expiry date. It is unfortunate that your ex did not stand by her man and decided to be with another. We can’t change the events that lead you here but you can start a fresh without digging yourself into more trouble. Men are being killed over women, is it worth it! I think not.

He replies,

Are you saying I should forget and move on?

Maurice replies,

I am just saying that if you do go through with your intended then be prepared for any repercussion that may follow. What I do acknowledge is letting go is easier said than done. Your premeditated revenge is sweet but at what cost is the question. Don’t punish this woman you now have feelings for thinking it will be the ultimate blow to her husband. You have a choice to continue playing this game of Russian roulette. However my advice, walk away, live to fight another day.

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