Dear Maurice,
I am ready to share my story but I request to remain anonymous.
Maurice replies,
I never publicize people’s names or any sensitive/personal details. I just share stories. And thank you for accepting to share. Perhaps for my readers I should put our dialogue in context. You approached me by way of texting me on Whatsapp as you attempted to bait me with sexual chat and nudes of your vagina, is that correct?
She replies,
Yes that is correct.
Maurice replies,
I have always pointed out in my forums where I give talks that we have a time bomb on our hands. With economic social pressures what was once considered the norm is constantly mutating and people’s behavioural patterns are altering at a drastic rate. What would never be conceivable 10 years ago, today is part of life. If you may answer the following questions it will highlight an existing profile:
- How old are you?
- What is your education level?
- Do you currently have a job and what do you earn if you can share?
- Other than having a job, do you supplement your income in other ways
She replies,
I am 26 and I love love swimming. I have a degree with honours. I am in marketing. I earn a net salary of ksh62,000. I supplement my income with what most would call prostitution but for me it is just another hustle.
Maurice replies,
Describe your hustle, what does it entail, are their strategies in place that increase your probabilities of earning?
She replies,
It is very simple. I chat approximately 25 men per week. They are all driven by their thirst for pussy so I feed them what they want to hear and see. Like in your case, I was gunning to lure you with my pussy but that did not work lol. I should have researched you before trying that on you.
Maurice replies,
Well, I give you an ‘A’ for persistence and your vagina has a pleasant symmetrical presence with fluffy minora, but I digress. So what you are saying is that your marks (prey) per month total to 100 men. Why 25 men, why that specific number and what are your monthly earning from your targets if any?
She replies,
I found 25 to be a manageable number for me and the conversation are usually the same. I don’t need to be creative, most of my conversations are copy paste but they are never the wiser. I have targeted men for 5 years and after that period you get to know their basic sexual needs and pattern of speech that turns them on enough to part with their cash. You give them small tests that involve an exchange of money for a visual of me naked. Normal 5k will do the trick. At that point he will either be a regular for video calls or via a personal sex session where I charge minimum 20k. Others will pay upto 80k to fulfill a fetish they may have. I have never gone without 20 men per month.
20 men a minimum of 2 video calls per month = 200k
20 men just one sex session = 400k
Maurice replies,
Where do you find your marks and what is their profile in relation to age group, single, married?
She replies,
I target these men on social media and certain hookup/dating platforms, all it takes is the first contact via inbox. However, Instagram has made it easier for them to find women like me.
Maurice replies,
Explain, what do you mean by ‘women like me’?
She replies,
About 80% are married men who lack fun in their marriage. The 20% is a cluster of men who have no time for relationship but have the money to spend. The most common age group is between 36 and 55. The younger men are cheap or are too busy fucking older women most likely women married to the men who like fucking me lol. When it comes to how I attract men, I have look at size 12, so they say. Men say I look exotic and delicious blah blah blah yet I am only a mix of Kikuyu/Meru and Somali. Women like me are only filling a void that a lot wives forget to fill and for our efforts to excite we get paid.
Maurice replies,
Please expound on this void you fill, what do you mean?
She replies,
Just because a man marries you, it does not give you the avenue to relax and have the illusion that love alone and your weak sex will keep him interested. If am not an expert, but if there is something I have learned about men, is that they constantly crave thrills and a level of pampering that most wives will always fail at. A man is not obligated to do anything for you as a woman or wife but if you learn how to seduce him even at his lowest points he will still strife to cater for your needs.
Maurice replies,
I see you have a future in my trade. So are you saying that women should use their feminine side more often opposed to their masculine side which many unfortunately have adopted?
She replies,
Yes, that is exactly what I am saying. I used to think men were complicated creatures until I was reeducated to understand men are about ego and sex. Us women are the complex ones with our delusions of love, focus on career and family which causes us to forget or down grade a man’s needs. Once I understood our errors I put time into figuring men out.
Maurice replies,
Question, despite your refreshing knowledge, don’t you think that you will one day have a man of your own and fall into the same psychology?
She replies,
I have a boyfriend who happens to be married so he cannot take up my time even if he wanted to. He is 32 and has his use, he plays his boyfriend part, fulfills my intimacy needs and pays for my upkeep. I love money so having my own husband is not on the cards and after all the stories I have heard from married men, I would rather be the other woman any day. My benefits far out way most wives. In my opinion the status of wife is overrated.
Maurice replies,
Question, you mentioned intimacy needs that your boyfriend fulfills. What is the difference for you in regards to the sex you have with your ‘clients’ and the sex you have with your boyfriend?
She replies,
I have perfected playing sexual mind games with men and as I lead them to the build up, I play out their fantasies and desires, am their sex kitten, I take them to sexual heights
that cause them to go nuts. It’s never about me, when a man tell you that he has never cum so much semen or he has never felt his dick so hard then you get to know that your job is to facilitate their desires and hopefully give them new experiences that keep them coming back. With my man there is attraction, lust, friendship and real sensual intimacy, I love to feel his warm cum inside me whereas with my ‘clients’ I do not allow them to kiss me. After you declined my advances and became my therapist I did some research
on you, so just the way you cause a woman to squirt, in your sessions, as you teach her about her body and make her vagina happy, I do the same with my male clients. The only difference is your impact benefits the woman for life, mine is only for the moment and no one gets to squirt lol not even me. I read somewhere that you have magical fingers and to have so many reviews of the same nature there must be some truth to it. Would you like to make me squirt as I also teach you a thing or two. I promise not to bite!!! I have fantasized over a man who can make me squirt through anal, are you that guy Mr Kilungu, will you make me scream!!!
Maurice replies,
Before any squirting and biting or screaming occurs I want to thank you very much for agreeing to sharing your story. Your story may be shocking or come as a surprise to many but it is the reality of an ever changing social dynamic within the social arena. Our society is becoming more and more competitive and with that comes the willingness to cross any acceptable social boundary to achieve one’s goal especially in relation to lifestyle. Thank you.




he had left. He moved out and left us the house. He wrote a letter that basically said he wanted a modern woman with traditional character traits, that is not me. That was on the first week of December last year. He spent Christmas with the kids and I had them over new year’s. It was great to get some me time, it was refreshing. For once no man to constantly differ with.
years of trash, I feel so wasted by that man who used to ejaculate like a sperm dispenser lol. At work, I find myself getting so wet just by the thought of her. And because of your coaching I am no longer having unrealistic expectations and insecurities. I am going with the flow and enjoying every minute. To be honest when I first met you I thought you were mad and way too forward in your therapy approach but I guess your madness works. I don’t know whether I should share but here goes. When we have sex and I go down on her she squirts in my mouth and just like you said sexual exploration is immense fun. How does it feel to know you taught two women who are fucking each other how to squirt?
driving force for me to assist other women to get out of their comfort zone and achieve unknown sexual pleasures. In case you are asking if its a turn on to see two women play and squirt on each other the answer is yes. What is key is to enjoy the journey and refrain from the usual useless questions ‘where are we going’ ‘who are we’ ‘do you just see me as a sex object’. After our sessions I would shocked that you reverted to being that type of irrational woman.
nurturing a family but was always a boring sexual lover. He basically told me that if I was a good fit, meaning if we were sexually compatible he would maintain me as his only woman apart from his wife whom he would never leave for anyone. He made it very clear that passionate kissing was also his thing and that he never had that connection with his wife. All this was shared on our first date, stating that he was not interested in wasting his or my time. He said to me ‘if I don’t hear from you have a good life’. That was it. I was so drawn to his approach that I literally held back from calling him immediately and telling him that I was going to be his naughty sexy vixen. On the third day I called him and jokingly asked ‘when do I start’, he laughed and said my decision was the beginning of a wonderful love affair. So after we had sex several times I kind of passed my probation so to speak. To be honest, your video on facebook really struck a cord. What did you mean by a woman knowing her relevance?
changing panty liners with vaginal hysterics. Looking at the facts, his wife was your age when he decided to seek out what was to be your 9 year affair. Human behavioural patterns rarely deviate, most stick to their trait. The only reason you have lasted 9 years with this man is not because he loves, that’s usual fantasy romantic notions in most cases, you have had a relevancy and still do. At this point it is more probable that he has grown to care for you hence why he maintains your lifestyle but unfortunately for women, most men are too practical to mix emotion and sex. It is not uncommon for a man to detach himself once he cultivates a certain degree of emotions towards a woman and truth be told ‘erections’ don’t relate or recognize love, though there is a population of men who have mastered the art of pretending they understand or feel love just like women do. Men are more caring being than loving. A man who uses love to influence a woman’s emotional thought process has a higher probability of not being faithful compared to a man who cares enough to respect his bond and maintains fidelity because he made a conscious decision to work with one vagina.
about matters sex and relationships. I am in a dilemma and I need your advice. I am 28 years old, independent with a good job. Like yourself I am not a follower of societal rule. I have dated 9 men but I have had affairs with 3 women who have given me the best relationships and sex beyond anything the men could accomplish. I guess I dated the men at some subconscious level to fit in with the norms. It is like we are meant to finish education, find a partner of the opposite sex and get married for the soul purpose of having children so that they can continue the circle once we die. If I may ask, is everyone meant to get married and have children?

She brought her goods and I have been smashing it like a problem. This mami finds out after I have been smashing for 8 months that I am also smashing her pal. You guy, her pal has pussy that pours honey I kid not. She bitches & bitches and makes threats to the point that she calls my wife and tells her that ‘am fucking your husband and your husband is a bastard because he is also fucking my friend’. Now Matheka kumbe am smashing an idiot with a cleverer pussy!!!! Anyway my wife’s response ‘welcome to the club’ which shocks her further. I told her my wife indirectly knows about my affairs so calling her was a futile move, what she was trying to achieve only the universe knows.
as mamis but niggah gets bored and needs new sites and sounds, you feel me. And before I forget which was one of the reasons I decided to chat you. My side mami’s pal squirts like wolololololo and she told me it was courtesy of non other than Matheka, boss you are a miracle worker. But on a serious note Matheka, we need to link up, you must teach me how to make a mami gush, you guy the water works are crazy no wonder I don’t want to smash her pal as much anymore. Because of you I am now asking mamis ‘can you squirt’ before I smash. Non squirters are not giving me the same pleasure like for real. There is something you teach them to do with their vagina that feels great. You need to teach more me Matheka. Stop keeping these skills to yourself lol.


he gave me space with my friends and just mingled. My boyfriend’s friends went and told him that some ‘dude’ came to my birthday and that we looked close. My boyfriend was not in attendance cause he had to travel. He later asked me and I told him that yes a male friend came to my birthday and after he persisted with many questions I admitted that this man had given me the best sex ever. That nigga can suck pussy!!! He wasn’t happy as you can imagine but he had prior hurt me numerous times with stories of his team mafisi behaviours. That was the beginning of the end or so I thought.





going about with their parenting is out dated. As you said, if my mother and father are not equipt with the know how of how to mentor us and empower us with how to deal with the real World then teenage pregnancy will remain a norm. There are many girls in high school who have had more than two abortions and part of the problem is parents who think keeping the girl child indoors is the answer. At some point we are let out and it only take less than 10 minutes for me to sample that evil boy between the shopping mall and home.
decided to embark on my own adventure and now I am conflicted in so many ways. As you know I have been married for 6 years and despite trying to spice things up my sex life has been extremely pathetic. My husband has always reminded me that we are Catholics and that sex is sacred. He only knows missionary and he says any form of oral sex is sinful and demonic. I am only 26, please help me.
the chama session. We exchanged numbers solely for his massage service and we ended up doing much more. Matheka, please do not judge me but I had never felt a penis that big, my husband’s is very small in comparison. The way he licked my pussy was amazing and I had never given a blowjob before. He said I was a good student. It was the first time for me to orgasm without having to play with my clitoris. How do I get over him?
prowess over the years so for you to experience him you must pay him. I believe those are part of the rules that he stipulated. A man who has his level of sexual vigor has value. It’s unfortunate that we live in a World where ‘the penis’ has no or little value. Men who are procreational may not have value but all the guys I work with in relation to delivering sexual ecstasy are recreational sexual lovers. I have taught them to value their penis. I am also a bit conflicted because I am wondering how I can be of help in your predicament.
based on her amazing body and sex with her is beyond anything I have ever experienced with a man. I have given her a lifestyle to die for but I am disappointed that she can’t stay exclusive to me. She is bi-sexual and I know she fucks around with men behind my back. With everything I do for her would you not expect her to be loyal to me considering my husband and I only have sex like 4 to 5 times a year if that?
her to be exclusive and she stated my demands were not fair. I dress her with designer wear, I pay for her Muthaiga mansion, I bought her a brand new BMW, I cover for her club membership and her annual trips abroad (mostly shopping). She has a monthly standing order allowance of $3000.