Dear Maurice,
I am curious about the Eros group. It is a friend of mine who forwarded one of your 
videos where you have women looking for serious men. I want to join but I want you to clarify a few things about men. I am 37 and I have never been lucky with love. I have dated six men in my life and all turn out to have very different outlooks to life. I want a family. I want a man who is present at all times. I want a man who can play with his children and be there for me at my lowest moments. Are there men out there who want to be serious with a woman?
Maurice replies,
It would be easy for me to tell you that there are plenty of men who can fulfill a woman’s needs but for me to give you an accurate response it is better I give you a view of the broader picture by asking you to clarify a few things. Out of the men you dated, how long was the shortest and longest relationship?
She replies,
The shortest was 4 months and the longest was 3 years.
Maurice replies,
Why did those relationships end and because I know women I request you give me a brief version, be to the point?
She replies,
The 4 month relationship was amazing but I had to flee because the sex 
became addictive and he had already told me that he had come out of a 11 year marriage and was not looking to settle down again. I saw him every week and despite our agreement to be each other’s friend with benefits the feelings flooded in. At that point I asked him to let me go and he did. We were like a couple but not quite, you know what I mean!
Maurice replies,
Yes I do. He was like a boyfriend but without the title.
She replies,
He made me feel things that I was not meant to feel. He had a way of bringing out the white girl in me! He is also the only man to hold me after sex, most just turn round and sleep. He was great at the sentimental parts and for me that just made me fall deeper for him. I respected him for his honesty from the onset.
Maurice replies,
What about your longest relationship, why did that not work?
She replies,
The man was married. Matheka, when I met him through a work’s seminar I told him that I do not do married men but he persisted. He is a senior guy and could not take no for an answer. He showered me with gifts at the office and I found myself loving the attention. He was a gentleman and never pressured me for sex for about 9 months, then he flew us to Australia and that is where we had sex for the first time.
Maurice replies,
What kept him relevant for 3 years considering he caused you to break your married men rule, were you deeply in love, was it the sex, did he promise to make you his second wife?
She replies,
If I am honest, his networks and what they did for me made him as you say relevant. Did I love him, yes but I have loved more before. He treated me like a woman would like to be treated and his ability to open doors for me was an added bonus. Because of him I live in the home I have always wanted. He did not buy me my home he just made it possible for lucrative tenders to come my way. I left him earlier this year when I found a text message between him and a much younger woman. He is 52 and his wife is 44. I confronted him and he did not deny that he was having a fling with her. As we exchanged words, he reminded me of all the things I had gained from knowing him and told me I had no right to question because his own wife doesn’t. After that I knew it was time to leave.
Maurice replies,
So here we have a profile of two men who you were involved with and both had their unique relevance. Out of the six men, is there a worthy additional profile you would like to mention?
She replies,
Actually Matheka, the shortest relationship was about a month but he is not worth mentioning. Out of the six, the two are the only ones I connected with.
Maurice replies,
If I may ask, your lover who was married for 11 years, did he by any chance tell you why his marriage ended?
She replies,
He said at their 6th year, they stopped being friends and that the idea to marry only came about when she got pregnant. It was more family pressure than them wanting to get married at that point of their life. Their divorce was a mutual decision. What I admire about them is that they found a way to still be civil and friends. I would over hear them talking family things on the phone and she once found me at his place and funny enough she was absolutely cool. Then again, he had told her about our arrangement.
Maurice replies,
So to answer your question. Whenever women look for a boyfriend, companion, partner, lover, husband, whatever you label those potentials! The one word that truly ‘fucks the broth’ is the word ‘serious’. What they need to be looking for is a man who can be their best friend, a man who can hold an honest conversation, and not a man who can say all 
the right things. This is where women come to regret that word ‘serious’ when they end up with a man who seriously lies, seriously tells a woman what she wants or needs to hear, a man who says he loves you out of obligation but also tells others he loves them but in this regard the ‘I love you’ is based on how he is made to feel by external influences. A man who is serious can seriously hurt you, it is important to remember that. The couples I have ever met who I can confidently say have a functional relationship, all have something in common. No, it is not love but genuine friendship. Their relevance for each other is maintained by brutal honesty whether good or bad. They allow themselves to cry and have fun together. It is a friendship that lacks in many marriages in my experienced opinion. The other thing, and I really wish men were more honest about this. Men do not mind being providers but many today are tired of having that label define them. Economic times have changed and many men do not prescribe to women who believe in ‘my money is mine and his money is ours’ mentality. 
I know for a fact that this reality is causing men to withhold financially. Men are always seeking thrills, if you are not part of the thrill you are part of the problem. There must be a balance between family and fun. Some will say, fun does not pay bills or school fees, which is true. But remember thrills and fun cause erections which are not evoked by bills! Even those tenders are driven by heightened testosterone which allows for doors & vaginas to open alike! One must always find their relevance and work on maintaining it without affecting the relationship psychology. The simple equation is to meet a bigger pool of men, not for sex, but to enable you to meet an assortment of characters who you can evaluate and hopefully find compatibility rather than falling for any man just because he seems to say all the right things and most likely he is in a position to fulfill your eagerness to get married. Thereafter you become my client complaining how you gain the title but lost the man. There are also times when unknowingly women have met a perfect guy but spoil it by displaying insecurity and neediness that renders a woman unattractive. Again, know your relevance.
It is far better to meet a man who tells you things you would rather not hear but makes it his life to protect you and be your exclusive man not because he has to but because he made a conscious decision to share good and bad times without feeling obligated to that course of life.
She replies,
Wow, I was not aware of so much. There is such a major difference between men and women. But Matheka, men are not speaking out their truth.
Maurice replies,
You are right. Many of my brothers are pretending in silence. It is time for men to tell it as it is otherwise our social problems will only get worse.
She replies,
Matheka, I am willing to go by your guidance. I need to find this potential friend and hopefully we can be genuine enough to find mutual interests and map out a future. What I do know is my age bracket of interest is mostly of men who are married so I hope we can find at least a divorcee.
Maurice replies,
Only time will tell, I shall do my best.
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resolution from you. I am married to a Kenyan man from the Agikuyu tribe. I am 26 and he is 29 years old. We have been married for 3 years so I find it odd that I write you with a disturbed mind in our early years of marriage. We met 6 years ago in the UK while he was pursuing his post graduate. He was charming, romantic and funny. I have a thing for a man who can make me laugh and be goofy at times. I must admit he was my first black man so a heightened level of curiosity drove me to want to traverse, if you get my drift. He promised me the World and while we were in the UK, the World was my oyster but ever since we moved to Kenya things have gone from bad to worse. We moved here in March 2018. We both secured employment before moving so on that front all is well. Then again his family is minted, but that was never an attraction. I am more about character and the character I am witnessing is not the exotic loving man I once met.
the icing on the cake. I was so thoughtful compared to any other boyfriend and that’s saying a lot considering all were right proper gents. I have never had a bad apple until now. I love him but I do not think I can tolerate his behaviour for much longer. His family and friends keep telling me that this is acceptable behaviour. This may be customary in Kenya but I am not having any of it. I told my ma and she advised I get on a plane back home. I have two burning questions, is it normal for a man’s friends to hit on you even though they know that you are married to their friend and my second question is why do people here find it weird that in life couples fall in and out of love all the time? I ask because my Kenyan friends do not get it that my exs were all great men but due to circumstances and a shift in life trajectory we parted amicably. In my view, people here tend to tolerate and accommodate situations that cause them misery for years.
Africa things will change a bit and that he still loves me. Which if you ask me is absolute hogwash. You actually sorted out a friend of a friend’s marriage. I am sure you have plenty of sessions but you had several therapy sessions with them and the good review was that you sorted their relationship friendship and sex life. My sex life is amazing but I just need the Kenyan man I met in the UK back. One of the reasons why I sought you out is because we are planning to start a family next year now that we have settled down as per our schedule. Even though I work, I never want to feel like all I am worth is being a submissive wife and bearing his children, plus washing after him which I can never be. If I cannot have him back I would rather cut my losses and head back home. Maurice, if you could see me I am biting my tongue with loads of curiosity. As I was researching on you I came across
articles that you have written about squirting. I know it is off topic but it got me so damn curious. YOU TEACH WOMEN HOW TO SQUIRT, yes the cabs were necessary wow wow wow. I know of a lady who happens to be a sex therapist in Australia who teaches women how to orgasm but not in a million years did I expect to find a man of your skill set in Africa. I tell you what, if you give me back the husband I know, I will definitely have that squirting session with you. I need my man back and you need to get him back for me. My husband travels a lot but he will be available mid September. We would like to have our therapy session at our home in Kitisuru. I will confirm suitable dates then we align with your availability. Thank you Maurice and thank you for your time. No pressure but you are the only person standing between me and a flight back to Stratford-upon-avon.
children. I actually met you at a talk you gave in a bridal shower in 2010 but I will not lie to you, I was not attentive during your session mainly because my thoughts were elsewhere on that day. So, I have been researching on your work. I have gone through your blog and watched all your YouTube videos, very interesting find. I even shared your packages with hubby and we have agreed that I need to rediscover myself as a woman. I know for the last 19 years I have been more of a mother than a sexual wife so it is of a matter of urgency that I experience package 4b. We will then have package 6 with my husband at a later date. I know you have heard these couple stories and they all start sounding the 
same but I am grateful that my husband and I have always told each other the hard truth, even truths that should have broken us but we stand together no matter what. Like I said, I have not been the best wife in the bedroom department and neither has he been a great husband. He has 9 affairs to his name, some were inadvertently caused by me pushing him away and others were more about the thrills men seek. But anyway, that is water under the bridge, 2 years ago we mutually decided that we are going to rekindle our friendship and sex life. We also want a sex show in October because this time round our anniversary needs to be kink and fun none of these dinners and family parties that get you no sex at the end lol.
meet but it is burning me. After my husband and I decided to rekindle and explore on our own we got into a habit of masturbating together in bed, normally triggered by the porn we watch together from our iPad, is this normal? Do not get me wrong, we love our new found freedom of expression but at our age we always have a laugh that we were past this kind of behaviour. Hubby is specific in his fetish nowadays, he is really into going down on me and blowjobs. He loves it when he cums in my mouth. I love it when he watches me masturbate and cum.
There is nothing as humiliating and ego denting as not being able to maintain an erection for your woman. Secondly, after taking the capsules as you recommended I noticed a major change within a matter of days. My penis felt heavier, as you had said the influx of blood flow became evident and most of all to hear my wife comment on my penis as if it were brand new was the best feeling ever. It gave me back confidence that I once had over a decade ago. Do you remember me confessing that sexual relations were at rock bottom at home and I was sure that my wife would contemplate away games if I did nothing about my condition. The good news is that I can go for much longer and I am able to satisfy my wife without my prior struggles. Now, I finished my packs about a month ago and I feel like I am not as strong as I was before. What could be the problem?
and the last asshole who just wasted my time with awful sex and constant cheating. He said all the right things but did all manner of things behind my back. He was a real fisi and to think I was prepared to marry him. I broke my virginity at the age of 24 then I waited 6 years before I gave myself to the man I thought would be my last. Though as much as I want to be married I am also very afraid of marriage. You have actually had a session with two of my girls separately. You taught them how to squirt, one of them because of FGM thought she was broken but you gave her self confidence when she achieved her first orgasm. But non of them is enjoying marital sex, they both have explosive orgasms with other men but not at home. This is my fear, if this is the norm then what is the point. According to them their husbands are care givers and the other men are there is provide sexual bliss. Matheka, my question to you is why is this happening in so many homes?
the years in one on one sessions with men it has been common to hear a man say ‘I love my wife but initially when we met my only agenda was sex’, which means once he prolonged their fling expiry date that relationship grew into a boyfriend & girlfriend’ setting and later into a marriage. Do not get me wrong, there are functional marriages where both parties are committed to each other without external influences but those are the minority in society. After profiling those minority couples I have always found that their secret is genuine friendship where no one feels caged or micro managed by the other. The other important psychology behind their success is that they were not out to gain social status. They married because they wanted to officiate their bond but it was never to please society or family which seems to be the case with many couples. Unfortunately majority of marriages are driven by degrees of insecurities and falsehood characters, relying too much on a human emotion called love which is merely a psychological notion of attachment and extremely erratic. Friendship is the most powerful ingredient when it comes to sustaining any relationship format.
know sexual liberation starts with freedom of self discovery. I also want to know more about the male psychology. I want to learn to be more appealing in the eyes of a man. I want to learn how to seduce a man and much more but first I need to feel like a woman. I have thought of myself as a lesser woman because I have never had an orgasm, sleepless nights and me crying needs to be a thing of the past and my girls said you are the man for the job. I hope I am not putting too much pressure on you but this is me at the age of 32 saying I need your help. Oh, last question I promise, my pussy lips are not equal, one is much longer than the other and I have always been embarrassed and self conscious not knowing what a man thinks when he sees my pussy.
know your stuff and I am hoping to learn a lot from you.
video while still at the apartment with you, he actually left his home, yes at 2am ‘who does that’. He got in trouble with his wife but he said he doesn’t care. He needed to drive somewhere so he could call me and ask about what he had just seen. He was behaving how my campus boyfriend behaves lol like a child!!! Remember I had to lie I was out of town otherwise he would have joined me. I had told him I was traveling with my girls and that’s how I got the money to pay you. Yes am crafty like that, a girl must know how to survive.
relationship. My sex life with sponsor is amazing, the things he does can’t compare, he introduced me to foreplay and my orgasms with him are much stronger and happened all the time. I love the fact that he can use a sex toy with me. Now I get it, that orgasm that makes you squirt is happening all the time after our session, like my pussy throbs which it never did before. I don’t understand why my campus boyfriend is freaking out and yet he is able to make me cum within his consistent 5 minute game which he couldn’t before. The other night he pissed me off, I almost told him ‘do you know that speaker Maurice Matheka has really helped you satisfy me’ but I thought it would demolish his ego poor thing lol. My sponsor wants to get me an apartment nearer campus where he is also able to come and chill out. I am ok with it but why have things changed for him, some favours he used to decline are now him doing them without me asking.
feel like peeing, at which point I told you you were not going to pee but squirt, then you would push against my finger using your inner upper vagina, that is the process of conditioning the vagina to react to minimal stimulus and because we had a lengthy session and you mastered the technique so fast, your entire vulva is now optimized. You will also be able to rub your urethra and squirt effortless as long as you put in the vaginal exercises that I taught you.
crave for more then we are talking! There is always this lingering question on whether he or she is delivering as expected. Well, stop expecting and begin instructing, tell him or her how you really like it and notice how much of a difference it makes. Let me tell you a story about this African woman who fulfills any man’s desires but most importantly her free spirited nature allows her to penetrate and explore her own dark and wet sexual fetishes. She is hard working, career focused, sometimes she’s a student but the real her has a very seductive character that she only reveals to those who ignite her taste buds for sexual thrills. She is bi-sexual with a taste for both sides of the coin. As much as she loves ‘dick’ she has a fetish for the scent of another woman. She has the fetish known as tribbin’ and over the years she has had many an erotic story with women who have satisfied her girl on girl lustful episodes. Every time she goes for a
spa treat, she can’t help but indulge in desserts that were not listed on the service menu. She likes to come home and cook, oh and by the way she is single and always ready to mingle ‘did I not mention that’ my bad. She loves her wine, but sometimes she can rough it out ‘if you get my drift’ with some whisky or gin. She especially goes over board and gushes after knocking down some dry gin shots! Yes folks, she makes it rain, it floods and you know how us Kambas appreciate water, her clitoris swells to the point of looking like a mini penis. She has a wild imagination, so when you court her via text, she likes a man who can flirt using his environment. She gets turned on when you cleverly insinuate sexual escapades, the bolder the better. But do not tell her that you will make her climb walls & chandeliers if you have never made anyone climb anything lol. When she lets you into her World she likes scenarios where the two of you end up in the kitchen and you begin to tenderize her ‘or is it the food’, she likes a man who knows his way around the kitchen, it is a massive turn on for her and she tends to dress in a way that would provoke any warm blooded alpha. As you both slice down your ingredients she will enter into another dimension, her breathing will change and as she lures you into her lustful thoughts you
will find yourself penetrating her, but don’t rush it, she likes to take control at that junction as your penis begins to throb inside her she will bend and fuck you ‘back and forth’ will commence, a motion that will entice blood flow to your penis, veins will appear and your penis will flex with girth. She will be moaning and uttering words that will make your girthy shaft want to explode. Back and forth she goes again and again, she gives you control, you give her a good shafting until the point she uses her inner vagina muscles to make you cum, and when she senses your arrival she says in this sexy voice ‘cum all over my ass’. Every stroke has led up to this moment, your semen gushing out as if rushing to battle! She turns around and kisses you with words of hope ‘your spunk is sooooo warm I want more inside me’. You finish cooking ‘miraculously’ and the wine flows into her mouth, every drop igniting a fire within. Remember those gin shots, she wants them, one, two, three, followed by a look the she gives you, 
indicating her need for your manhood, she wants you assertive but gentle. She yearns to feel your fingers around her bodily contours. She lies on her stomach, curving her body mapping out her back and ass for you to touch, she wants you to lick her from head to clit to toe. She loves sensual. She loves to feel your tongue glide up and down her contours, especially is she feels you drifting towards her anus and softly lingering the tip of your tongue around that erogenous area! She could scream. If the fridge is not too far ‘go on its never too far’ she wants you to be playful with yoghurt, spotting and dotting her around her neck, her areola, her inner thigh all the way down to her toes. Lick it, lick it, lick it and add more, you are driving her nuts! Your tongue keeps teasing her rimming her areola and labia minora, her breathing and moaning gives you a penis rush, your beefy girthy shaft is visibly expanding. Your eyes lock and you know what she wants as she moves her upper body towards you. You can see her eyes telling you that she wants you to take her to those 
heights that men of men speak of. A jolt of energy overcomes you, the Spartacus within you takes charge, she mounts you like the stallion you are. She can feel your girthy shaft inside her, you are hitting that spot that the last guy couldn’t find if his life depended on it. Her vagina with all this stimulus is self lubricating, all her pistons are firing, it’s getting wetter and wetter, she whispers ‘don’t stop’ repeatedly, you are the King of Kings. You hold back your 300 Spartans from her Persian egg ‘it is not time yet’. The whisky you took earlier is causing you to energize and aiding to your prowess. You lean back as you hold her, your penis shaft is spreading her vaginal track, her inner membrane is equally massaging your girth. Her g-spot is swelling and pulsating as your shaft slides in and out, the motions between you are creating kinetic energy. Her vagina feels like a worm hole of unspeakable pleasures. You, my friend, have entered the realm of sexual bliss, every stroke, every pulse is generating vaginal spasms, she can’t control her orgasms, both of you are in a bubble of ecstasy ‘this should never end’ is your subconscious Vulcan mind
meld talking. Your thoughts become one, you French kiss and breath into each other, she whispers ‘make me squirt’ ‘make me squirt’ ‘I want to feel him inside me’ ‘fuck me fuck me fuck me’. Her voice goes into a wave of seductive rage. You hear a distinct voice say ‘you know what you must do, may the forces be with you’. The survival of her pleasures are in your hands, you want to shout ‘this is Sparta’ but you know she will think you are mad. But you shout anyway. She falls back into position, arches her legs and again she says ‘make me squirt’, your muscular girth penetrates her and the beast within you takes over, you throb, you thrust, you throb and thrust over and over until you find the rhythm that seeds her vagina with spasms that make her moist, her labia gateway is opened, droplets after droplets after droplets squirt from her secret garden. Her orgasmic voyage continues for hours with your every strengthening prowess until her body can take no more. At dawn you awake and feed each other as you ready to face the day. She departs but not before alerting you to the fact that she wants more of you and you oblige telling her that it is a mutual endeavor. You bid each other farewell till the next episode.
like a life coach. As you said, you were teaching me how to control my environment instead of my environment controlling me. In talking to my husband, with my new way of thinking, and less over thinking. I noticed I was far more rational in my thought process and that petty things were no longer affecting me. If we are honest many of us go into relationships with unrealistic expectations and totally unprepared on how to communicate with less emotions but with practicality. One thing that my husband and I agreed on is that after you delivered your profile of us, we were both in-love with the idea of having a future but we were not ready to face the work that comes with that kind of commitment. I for one was so excited to finally find a man who could propose to have me as his wife but once the dust settled and the thrill subsided, I was not able to fulfill the attention he expected, more so I was not in-love with him but with the idea of love. Your profile was harsh but accurate, I guess we are never prepared to hear the truth. As I told you my husband and I went for marriage counseling at two separate places before we were referred to you.
were of concern. At the end he admitted that he was not interested in rediscovering our bond. He confessed that after 6 years of marriage he fell out of love with me and fell in-love with another, and I accepted it because as you well put it, never force a man to love you and never be with a man who only comes home because he feels obligated, it only means his physical self will be home but his thoughts are elsewhere.
assess whether ‘we’ still had the spark as he put it. He said that he loved the session but he always knew that he never had the sexual prowess a woman like me needs. Before I met you, I would not have understood what he meant but now I do. The truth is, during our session he saw a woman who had sexual potential that he was not willing to work towards hence why he prefers the other woman because she is docile in bed. And that is why I requested we have sessions just the two of us because:
even though I thought squirting was a myth you totally shocked me when I saw myself squirt numerous times and at that point Matheka I knew the following:
with boring sex. If I can now make myself squirt then as a man you better put effort into sucking my pussy till I scream and cum and not necessarily in that order lol. Touch my breasts and nipples until my clit rises, apply foreplay and don’t just remove your dick like you are going to War, take your time. Matheka you have taught me so much that I can’t hack a man who cannot explore my bodily and figure out in what sequence I need my buttons pressed. And seriously, why am I giving a man oral sex when he refuses to do the same. Speaking of oral sex, I must master how to give a man a blow job till he goes crazy, expect a call real soon.
quite learnt how to get me there but fortunately I was keen and dedicated enough to master how to get myself to orgasm and squirt during sex, with or without a man. It is the one gift that you gave me that I really cherish if that is the right word. I was miserable until last year November. I don’t have the perfect home but my distraction is worth it.
within days he was making me squirt like you can never imagine. I don’t envy the house keepers in the Hotels we frequent. Even that vacuum sucking you teach, he is a master, making my clit swell until it’s almost the size of me husband’s penis lol. He really knows his way around a woman’s body. He gives me a good sensual fuck in the bath tub. Oh by the way, when my husband miraculously made me orgasm during our session with you in 2011, that was sadly the last time he made me cum. That is why I am grateful that you upgraded my sexual know how to being able to make myself orgasm with those vagina muscle movements. What makes me enjoy this guy is his sexual patients and foreplay.
compatible so it has just been boring in the bedroom for the last 9 years. But that’s not my business. I just need to reboot and rediscover my sex life. He says he is open to a session with you. He wants us to venture into anal sex, a threesome with another man involved, so they both pleasure me and he also wants a foursome. That’s his bucket list and funny enough I am equally agreeable to explore. Though my ultimate desire is to make another woman squirt. That is definitely on my bucket list. I know a girlfriend of mine who had a session with you in 2016 achieves out of this World orgasms from anal penetration and I want to experience the same. He said whether it takes multiple sessions or not he is willing to take time to give me the experience I deserve. You see, that patience from a man is such a turn on.
heard your name brought up for one good deed or another. And clearly men too follow you on the down low. Let us just say that you have met several times, he is more a friend or a friend and he speaks highly of you. There is a time you organize a kinky stag party for his boys and he was there. He trusts you and your privacy discreet policy and that is why he wants us to have our first session in May. Somewhere in all this exploration you must make sure I get to learn to make a woman squirt.
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