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I need to cum

Posted in Dear Maurice, Sex on June 13, 2013| 26 Comments »

Hi Maurice,

I am a fan of yours and would like to meet you one day for coffee perhaps. Where do I start. I am an extremely independent woman. I am 28 and loving my life. However my issue is the men I tend to meet.

Maurice asks,

What do they have in common?

She replies,swim suit girl

I like men who can spend on a girl and I have no apologises for loving the finer things in life. When I meet a man he quickly realises that I can pay my way in life. I have a great paying job but I like to be pampered by a man with a touch of romance. I love the outdoors more than clubs and in particular I love to swim, which I do 4 times a week. I love prime hotel settings. The dining, the mature company, the flirting and sex. Mind my French but I love a good fuck, none of this making love business. I have been there and many of those love making Romeos were done in minutes so I would rather a man who has endurance. A man who puts my sexual satisfaction as his primary goal. I haven’t managed to find a man who can satisfy me. Maurice I meet very influential rich men but none have the drive to even make me cum unless I play with my clit during sex. I hate to admit it but it can be frustrating. The build up is normally so intense but the climax is such a downer. Where or how does one meet like minded people? Oh, I also like women, I know I am not a lesbian but I play for both teams depending on my mood. That is the other dilemma. I am pretty daring especially after a few glasses of Malibu. I am usually good to go.

Sexy ebony boobsIn my home I am normally in the nude having my wine and even some of my girls are like minded. Sometimes we have nude parties with a selected few. No gang bangs just adults being naughty, it’s my version of a nudist beach LoL.

Despite their inability to perform to my level the men I prefer are so afraid to explore threesome scenarios or even anal which makes me cum pretty fast. My last anal orgasm was 7 years ago and my last normal orgasm was August last year and that was by some fluke. You should have seen the guy’s face when he saw the visual of my orgasm. He was so delighted after many trials. I soon let him go. I am done with fluke orgasms. I have thought of seeking women but I fear getting addicted. By 33 I would like to have found that compatible man and hopefully start a family but with my kind of luck it may take a miracle. Even in marriage I want to be myself, I do not want to end up changing my character to please a man, that kind of relationship won’t last. Maurice what do you think I should do?

Maurice asks,

Right now my understanding is, if you were given the choice of a potential good fuck and a potential husband you would opt for the good fuck, am I correct?

She replies,

I guess so, I need to cum like yesterday.

Maurice replies,

Then I recommend you stop looking for men based on your high end criteria. The men you describe all have something in common, they have spending power, they can pamper you but that criteria does not always guarantee a man who can sexually perform to your liking.

She replies,

Can you hook me up with a guy who can perform?

Maurice replies,

As long as it is on the basis of ‘having fun’ then it is possible but I can not promise a potential boyfriend or husband. In short, meet him, enjoy each others company and take it from there.

She replies,

Maurice at this point I am open to trying anything as long as your hookup will hit the spot and deliver 🙂 I suggest I meet him first and if I like him we’ll do a weekend getaway, expenses on me, and I shall give you feedback thereafter. For your sake I hope he can perform otherwise I am coming for you.

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Older Women and Sex

Posted in Sex on May 22, 2013| 8 Comments »

A study of sexually active older women has found that sexual satisfaction in women increases with age. A majority of study participants report frequent arousal and orgasm that continue into old age, despite some having low sexual desire brought about diet and other bodily factors. 

The study evaluated sexual activity and satisfaction as reported by 1,207 oldercougar women. The study focused on a group of women who live in a planned community whose health has been tracked for medical research for 4 decades. The study measured the prevalence of current sexual activity. The characteristics associated with sexual activity including demographics, health, and hormone and herbal use; the frequency of arousal, vaginal lubrication, orgasm, and pain during sexual intercourse; and sexual desire and satisfaction in older women.

The median age in the study was 67 years and 63% were postmenopausal. Half the respondents who reported having a partner had been sexually active frequently.  The majority of the sexually active women, 67.1%, achieved orgasm most of the time or always. The youngest and oldest women in the study reported the highest frequency of orgasm satisfaction.

40% of the women stated that they never or almost never felt sexual desire without the use of supplements, and one third of the sexually active women reported low sexual desire. 2 in 5  sexually active women reported very high sexual desire. Approximately half of the women aged 80 years or more reported arousal, vaginal lubrication, and experienced an orgasm most of the time, but rarely reported sexual desire. In contrast with traditional linear model in which desire precedes sex, these results suggest that women engage in sexual activity for multiple reasons, which may include affirmation or sustenance of a relationship.

maturewomanRegardless of partner status or sexual activity, 61% of all women were satisfied with their overall sex life. Although older age has been described as a significant predictor of low sexual satisfaction, the percentage of sexually satisfied women actually increased with age, with approximately half of the women over 80 years old reporting sexual satisfaction almost always. Not only were the oldest women in this study the most satisfied overall, those who were recently sexually active experienced orgasm satisfaction rates similar to the youngest participants. Those who were not sexually active may have achieved sexual satisfaction through touching, caressing, or other intimacies developed over the course of a long relationship.

What was very evident during the study was those who reported frequent sexual activity and sexual satisfaction were like minded in the way they perceived their sexuality. They embraced their sexual weaknesses and work on ways of improving sex rather than complaining.

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Will he get me there?

Posted in Dear Maurice, Sex on May 13, 2013| 6 Comments »

Dear Maurice,

I have been married for 7 months. I met my husband just over 2 years ago. We have no kids as yet. I would like your opinion of something that has bothered me since I met my husband.

Maurice asks,

How can I help?

Young couple naked Man and woman in love kissingShe replies,

I have read your articles on sex and I must admit a lot of it has confirmed my worries but I thought it would be better directly asking you about my sex life which to be honest I have not been happy with for a long time. When I have sex I can only cum if a man takes time, at least 20 minutes or more. It is not of my making it is just the way my body responds.

Maurice asks,

So what you are saying is your husband does not get you there or has never gotten you there.

She replies,

Correct, he has never made me cum but he thinks he has. Sometimes I feel guilty lying to him and I do tell him that I haven’t cum but I always make up an excuse. Our sex life has always been about my husband and never about me. I have read in many of your articles that couples should communicate but unfortunately my husband and I fell into a routine where he assumes he is the ultimate performer and I am the ultimate faker.

Maurice asks,

What do you need from me?

She replies,

I need to stop faking. I need to feel what I used to feel with an ex boyfriend of mine. I have realised that I met my husband and immediately fell in-love with his ability to erotic couple IVprovide for me and in that department he is perfect but now I need to experience an orgasm with my him. This is the man I chose and I thought he would improve with time but it has gotten worse because within the first 4 months of courtship our sex went from 4 times a week to 2 times a week and sometimes we can go a whole week or more without sex. My other issue is that 99% of the time I am the one that initiates. I am tired and I fear the future if this continues. I had never thought of cheating till recently when I met my ex clubbing and though I declined his advances I knew what he could offer me.

I miss the feeling of a man’s endurance and what it leads to but I know if I give into my cravings there will be no turning back. My husband has tried viagra but it does not increase his vigor to get me to orgasm. When he is on viagra we can go 2 or 3 rounds but the orgasm is always elusive because after a few minutes he cums. It is so frustrating because I start to lose my sex drive with him. I did refer my husband to your blog but after reading erotic sex for couples he said that men from your region are obsessed with sex and that most of the advise is not practical for a man his age. You see what I am dealing with and he is only 34 you could think he was 70 years old. Can the vigrx plus herbal supplement make him go for longer?

Maurice replies,

No it cannot. It will increase his capacity to have sex by giving him the mental and physical stimulus required but it probably won’t improve his sexual longevity. Sexual endurance is what you seek in your bedroom and the unfortunate thing is there is no known remedy that substantially increases male endurance. Have you tried having him induce an orgasm by going down on you. That works for many women and his tongue shouldn’t get tired because part of satisfying a woman is asserting patience and effort.

She replies,

My husband has never sucked my pussy. From the on set he made it very clear that he can never do that. In short Maurice you are saying that I am doomed.

Maurice replies,

It is not about being doomed. When you met your husband you sampled his sexual performance and for some reason even after not being satisfied by him you decided to continue courtship and eventually married him. My dear you need to work with what you have. The two of you need to research on alternatives ways of making you achieve orgasm, that is your only option. Sometimes being open to your spouse reveals a reality which requires attention and if you are committed to each other then things can only get better or rather the potential is there.

She replies,

I see your point but I know it is going to be an uphill task to change my husband’s thinking about sex. It is as if he faults me when I don’t cum.

Maurice replies,

Nothing good comes easily in life. Remember patience and effort is what you need. If your husband cares about your sexual satisfaction he will apply the necessary effort.

She replies,

Anyway let me be positive about the possibilities. Thank you for your advise.

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Foot fetish

Posted in Better Sex, Sex on May 6, 2013| 1 Comment »

Hi Matheka,

I was in one of your sessions in March. I did learn a lot about men and even though you did not encourage us to question our husbands not knowing our they would react. I took a chance and asked my husband whether he had a kinky fetish that he had not told me aboutfootfetish after 8 years of marriage. He was a bit hesitant and looked as if he was trying to read my mind. Probably asking himself why I was asking out of the blue. Well as I consider myself pretty wise in the ways of manipulating my man I told him it was something I read and also added that I read all men must be allowed to experience their fetish. His eyes suddenly looked brighter and he crawled his way to telling me his fetish. My husband has a foot fetish, can you believe that. I actually laughed then apologised and explained it sounded funny. For all these years he has had a fetish and never told me. I then began to wonder who were the lucky girls in his past to know about it and give it to him. But because this was about now I did my best not to over think things. That night while having sex my husband showed me exactly what he liked. He took my feet and applied some oil, he then asked me to give him a foot rub, similar to a hand job but using my feet. I was amazed at his reaction as I rubbed his dick. I had no idea my feet could arouse him to the point of ejaculating, and his moans were great. Luckily for me I had cum during our sex session before delivering his fetish.

When I look back I realise that my husband and I became more closed off to discussing sex matters after we got hitched. You were right, couples do not ebonymasturbatesalways know each other as much as they think they do. I have no regrets as such but I do have 8 years of fetish delivery to catch up on :-). Funnily enough apart from masturbation which my husband likes to watch me perform I have always wanted to be with a woman and I know my husband likes girl on girl action because years ago we used to watch porn together. I will let you know how that goes :-).

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The technique worked

Posted in Better Sex, Sex on April 30, 2013| 2 Comments »

Dear Maurice,

Mine is not a long winded story. I just need to give you some feedback on the technique you showed me at the session regarding giving my man a blow job. I erotic couple standingactually thought you were making stuff up at one point until I saw my man’s reaction when I tried out the warm wet towel on his penis. He liked the feeling of warmth as you had said, and before all this happened I had told him to come home with an open mind because there was a surprise for him, as you instructed to prepare him mentally I also told him that it was sexual in nature and he should relax and let me take control of the night. I told him it was our first role play act where I would be the dominant one. He responded so well. When he got home that Friday night at 7pm he found that the kids and house help were out of sight. He was pleasantly surprised that I had let go of the kids.

I reminded him that I was in control. We then sat down and had some rum together. I do not know why but rum just get me in the mood. Still in the sitting room after our 3nd glass I told him we should undress and he was so quick that I had to slow him down so that we could undress each other in a sexy manner. I then majestically walked into our kitchen with my ass swaying ‘left to right’ the way he likes it and came back with the face towel soaked in a bowl of warm water. As soon as I placed the rinsed warm towel around his penis I could see his facial expression which was more or less grateful for the introduced warmth. This night was all about my man. I proceeded to rub his shaft with the warm towel and as I made my strokes he was curious to know where I had gotten the idea from and what he had done to deserve this treat. In my own sexy voice I toldblow job I him that I should have been doing this often and that shut him up. I asked him several times how he was feeling and within minutes he seemed to have drifted away into a World of pleasure. His eyes were all over the place as he tilted his head backwards as a sign of pure ecstasy. At this point I was applying the twirl motion, from the rim of his shaft to the bottom and back up again. He was clearly feeling the motions of my hand because he began to moan and groan. His manly groans were turning me on, it was difficult to keep from mounting him but I held back my selfish intent and continued to pleasure him. About 15 minutes into my hand job I removed the towel and placed my lips around his penis head, from his sudden knee jerk reaction I knew the sensations were intensifying. I sucked him from top to bottom, generously lubricating with my saliva. He was sat on the couch and I was kneeling, his penis was facing me and I positioned it with slight pressure downwards and it got so hard as I continued the hand and sucking motion he said ‘faster’ so I increased the tempo, his moans and breathing grew more intense, stroke after stroke after stroke he finally let me know that he was near climaxing as I widened my mouth to receive his load. It was warm and tangy I must admit but I enjoyed seeing my man satisfied. I had given him blow jobs before but never was the mood and setting as thrilling. I guess it had a lot to do with our mind set, that evening was more about having fun rather than having sex for the sake of having sex which is usually the case many a times. I am no spring chicken but I felt youthful. I actually felt naughty and sexy. When he was my boyfriend he always called me his bedroom bitch. I wish we hadn’t lost that open sexual connection. But as you said it is never too late if we are both in it.

My husband and I after 11 years of marriage still love each other dearly and we try to keep the sex going but I guess we were doing it as part of our weekly chore which diluted the essence of love making, and as you said love making is not just about intercourse but about wanting to explore how to pleasure your partner in more ways than one. He has already hinted that he wants more of those nights just the two of us.

All I can say is my husband enjoyed every bit of it and I think apart from stating how great it was he also showed me his appreciation by spooning me and holding me tight till dawn upon which I woke him up for some morning delight. It was bliss.

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My womanhood needs….

Posted in Dear Maurice, Sex on April 28, 2013| 3 Comments »

Dear Maurice,

I have been married for 5 years. I met my husband while in campus and we hit eroticcouple..it off and 1 year later he became my lawful husband. We have no kids by choice. He was my first love and also my first sexual partner after marriage. He had dated before so he had some form of experience. I really do not know how to come out and say it but I seem to be changing as a woman. In the last year I have found my womanhood drifting away from status quo.

Maurice asks,

What do you mean by drifting away?

She replies,

My husband has been everything to me, he has been a friend and a mentor in the ways of life but since my own experiences I have realised that something was always lacking in our relationship. I love my husband and yet I feel as if he has limited my exposure over the years.

Maurice asks,

So can you pin point what is lacking in your marriage?

She replies,

For years I have heard women friends talking about sex. It always struck me that some of their descriptions did not relate with what I was experiencing at home. I always heard about the orgasm, how some of them would moan and even scream while having sex with their partners. It was a bit intimidating because I thought that I as a woman was most likely doing something wrong, not adding to the spice of love making.

Maurice replies,

I notice you said ‘you thought’, does this mean you know better, which only leads to one conclusion in my book?

She replies,

Yes I do know better. I have had an affair for almost one year. I am not proud of it but at the same time I am not guilty either. At one point I was curious and I felt my body demanding for sex beyond what my husband could offer which fueled me to venture out.

Maurice asks,

So what did you find?

She replies,

I quickly found out that sexual desire is not linked to the love you share with your partner. After 2 coffee dates a man I met shopping at my local supermarket took me to his bed girlinshowerand overwhelmed me with sexual sensations that I had never experienced. The way he touches me, rubs me down and looks at me is so different to the technical sex I have at home. When am with him he makes me feel sexy. The sex takes me to the greatest heights. I know what it feels like to have foreplay, to orgasm, I also know how it feels to have a man’s lips and tongue on my clitoris. When I am in the shower I close my eyes and imagine each drop as his touch. I never had such erotic thoughts before.

Maurice I may sound selfish but I am angry with my husband for making me settle for less. Why did he not make the effort to be a better lover in bed?

Maurice replies,

I do not play judge nor jury neither do I favor but I must point out that your husband sexually gave you what he could manage based on his endurance and sexual vitality. You only had a change of heart once you explored what has evidently become greener pastures for you.

She replies,

Maurice I hope you are not going to giving me the speech of how I have been a bad girl because I already got it from a few close friends and family thinking that they would be able to think beyond the societal expectation that I should not commit adultery. The only reason I am sharing is because I know from your blog that you do not judge one’s sexual escapades but may shade some light on how to handle mine.

Maurice replies,

My primary domain is sexuality, what people do sexually is not for me to judge. However I am curious to know how you intend to mask your sexual cravings when it comes to your husband. Are you going to end your escapades?

She replies,

I guess what I want to know is if my husband can change into the sexual being I need him to be?

Maurice asks,

Have you hinted to him that your sex life needs more spice, most importantly have you tried to direct him to your arousal zones during the start of your sex session?

She replies,

My husband is a know it all kind of man. The minute I attempt to suggest something regarding sex he will immediately know that I am hiding something. I can not risk him knowing.

Maurice replies,

My dear you already took a risk when you slept with another man so I do not believe directing your husband to understanding your body better is a risk. You just need to be tactful. My other concern is that your husband will not turn into the stallion you seek. That is impossible and you in the other hand will not be able to erase your indiscretion experiences. You have a renewed bench mark set by another man and I do not believe that after 5 years of marriage your husband will deliver to your expectations. Without sounding harsh those are the consequences of not drive testing a vehicle before you buy it.

You need to make a decision about your marriage. I have dealt with these scenarios and most of the time the wife has made a conscious decision on whether to stay in the marriage or not. I personally do not encourage people to settle for less but neither do I encourage people to part with the sole reason being sex. You must ask yourself if you truly are still in-love with your husband and whether you can risk it all for what may seem like greener pastures. It is a life changing decision but you must decide so that you do not have to deceive your husband by living a double life that you will not be able to maintain for much longer without your husband noticing slight affection changes.

She replies,

All I know is that I love my husband for the man that he is but sexually I cannot settle knowing what is out there.

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My husband referred me to you

Posted in Dear Maurice, Sex on April 27, 2013| 1 Comment »

Hi Maurice,

I want to take this opportunity to thank you for the experience that you gave me and the girls who are still praising you and your skill. We have named you the Squirt King LoL.  I must also thank my hubby because if it wasn’t for his open minded character he would not have referred me to your blog which led me to calling you about booking a squirting session.

Thankfully my hubby has gained from this, he is over the moon that we have added the phenomena of squirting to our vibrant sex life after 12 years of marriage. Believe it or not but my hubby is quite the fast learner, he managed to make me squirt using his finger within 5 minutes, he is attentive and keen when he puts his mind to it, it was a wow moment for both of us.

Now to the reason I write to you. After your advise on foreplay hubby and I sat down and really asked ourselves if we could make foreplay work for us as a lifestyle and not just for the short term fun. We fortunately came to a mutual agreement that we would be brutally blunt if one of us was to lack commitment s&mroleplayin that area from now on. As I had explained we had lost our sexual connection to our careers and overall busy days that turned into weeks, months and years. I still consider myself a young woman at 34 and I hope to be sexually attractive to my hubby another 12 years from now. With your advise I am confident it will happened. We did eventually use the cuff set. It was funny at first because neither of us had experienced being blind folded and the whole whipping each other thing was hilarious. I am used to seeing my husband in a suit or in shorts and polo shirts so seeing him butt naked in cuffs was new and boy was I surprised that he has an uncoordinated sexy dance which is so cute. We forgot to buy yoghurt but we definitely had fun on our first trial night. We are looking forward to more nights especially away from home. Our scheduled getaway is from April 30th to May 5th. This will be our chance to share some quality time, as per your advice we have agreed to switch off our phones, we have activated a dormant line for family to contact us in-case of any emergency. Maurice you have opened our eyes to a new way of embracing our sex life and most importantly our marriage, I am grateful. I am equally certain that I will be getting back to you with good news of our getaway.

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My labia, is it too big?

Posted in Dear Maurice, Sex on April 27, 2013| 3 Comments »

Dear Maurice,

I am a 28 year old woman. I am very concerned about my labia minora (inner lips). In my opinion I have always had an abnormal labia. I say this because according to what I see on one side my labia minora is a bit longer than the other side. I know it isn’t going to cause me any actual health problems, labiaminorahowever it is pretty embarrassing having a fairly large extra piece of skin in that region. I have tried to go with the “everyone is different” excuse but I am getting increasingly self conscious about it. I have always be uncomfortable with my husband realizing that it is abnormal. First of all I want to know if this really is common with women? I have read that in the West some women opt for surgery, is that an option for me? I have attached my labia photo of which you can publish. I believe many women like me would like to know if this is abnormal or not. For 6 years I have dimmed the lights to avoid my husband staring at it, please help.

Maurice replies,

Your minora is perfectly fine. There is no such thing as ‘normal’ otherwise it would imply that there is a recommended size of labia minora. Minora size differs from one woman to the next. What studies have shown is that larger women tend to have bigger majora (outer lips) because the fat pads within the labia get bigger if you have more fat.

If your husband has hinted or glanced at your minora in a way to suggest shock or horror then he just need a bit of exposure. Lets start with him reading my reply to you.

You mentioned surgery, in the West it is more for those who can afford it and believe that their vagina requires a cosmetic make over. I totally do not recommend surgery. If a frog or strange anomaly was growing on your labia then surgery may be required, that is not the case here so surgery is out.

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Do you give a good blow job?

Posted in Sex on March 28, 2013| 10 Comments »

Blow jobs, otherwise known as fellatio. It’s not often that you hear a man blowjob2requesting for a fellatio, if you ask me it sounds too official something you would probably ask for during a corporate board meeting ‘perhaps’.

So do men really like blow jobs. The answer is ‘yes’ we do. As long as the woman is fully aware that its not a piece of meat or a salami sausage we are fairly confident that we will get out of it in one piece ‘hopefully’.

Lets start with the basics. What is a blow job? Unless you complicate matters with K9 looking teeth, a blow job is where a willing woman attempts to positively stimulate a man’s penis with her mouth.

It is important for a woman while giving a blow job to have on a face that saysblowjob6 “honey I am enjoying this”. Some women get it wrong when their facial expression reflect an accountant who’s having a bad day or a Rottweiler that hasn’t been fed for days. For the receiver (the man) to remain stimulated it is crucial that a woman displays a face of passion. Show him that you are enjoying what you are doing. Because there is no actual ‘blowing’ while giving a blow job, unless the penis is on fire, you should be generous with your saliva to avoid painful skin friction as you run your hand up and down. To maximise on pleasure it is far better for a man when you stroke the penis shaft with a twirl effect so that you randomly stimulate his penis nerve endings. It is also more productive in regards to creating sensations than merely stroking the penis up and down. Again I must stress, be extremely generous with your natural lubrication ‘your saliva’. When it comes to grip, it is not a vehicle gear stick it is a penis ‘handle with care’. Some women get carried away and start to show off their dominance with a very hardy grip that literally diminishes a man’s erection. Avoid such spontaneous trial and error maneuvers. If  in doubt just ask the man to tell you or show you how he likes his penis handled.

Because communication is key you must watch the man’s reactions to your hand motions. Eye contact is great but in-case he has his eyes closed don’t be offended he is probably in cloud 9 or in the worst case scenario he is waiting for you to detach his penis due to your overly gripped motion.

Now that we are clear it is a penis you are handling, take your time while giving a blow job. It is not a race against time. Slow your roll ‘literally’. The more sensual the blow job the more positive sensations run through his shaft. Apart from the hand motion, suck and lick his penis from top to bottom, kiss the penis and as you perform these actions ask him what he likes the most. Get to know his penis, it is unique, do not copy paste your skills from a foreign penis.

Sensitive areas of the penis will give some men out of this World pleasure. Explore the tip of his penis with the tip of your tongue. With most men do not try and insert your tongue in his urethra, he prefers stuff coming out not going in.

blowjob5If you are dealing with a chunky girthy penis when giving a blow job just use both your hand and mouth to stimulate him. Do not feel obligated to perform the act of ‘deep throat’ unless he wants it or you happened to enjoying stuffing a big penis down your throat. I know as a woman you want to please the man but sexual acts are supposed to be enjoyable for both parties so stipulate your limits before his hand holds onto your head and force dives you onto his penis. Trust me, the pig like sound you make during deep throat is not sexy at all.

If you are dealing with a 2 to 4 inch penis do not hold it in any manner that screams “where is the rest of your penis”. Do not hold the penis as if it were a cigarette.

While giving a blow job some men react to being kissed ‘gently’ around the inner thigh and testicles. Depending on his positioning you can lick the area between his testicles and anus. That area is super sensitive for many men.

In case you did not know ‘warmth’ on the penis is great for maintaining an erection. Avoid opening windows while engaging in sexual acts. There’s an element of warmth that intensifies a sex session. Some men tend to enjoy a hot shower because if the temperature is right the hot running water will warm up his penis and because he is conscious to the flow he may gain a soft or hard erection as he scrums his penis with soap. You can try an experiment, and it is advisable that you try this on a familiar penis. Pour yourself a cup of hot chocolate and take a mouthful. Make sure you gurgle so as to warm up your entire mouth after which you swallow then you take the penis into your mouth and let him feel that warmth from the beverage. If you do suck the penis at this point do it in slow motion. Remember this is foreplay for the penis, the idea is for him to feel the warmth from your mouth.

As you take him through the clouds of bliss with your sucking and hand jobblowjob4 motion he will at some point indicate that he is about to reach climax. He is about to cum. When a man starts to show the signs of wanting to ejaculate women get excited having put all their efforts into reaching this point but as the penis begins to throb and somehow looks inflated with blood flow a question bulb appears…. “should I shallow or not”, it is a testing time for any woman especially if it is a new penis, ‘who knows what it will taste like’. These are the options you have; move his penis in time so that he cums on your face or breasts. Men love ejaculating on breasts. And equally love to see the semen dripping down your body. You also have the option of letting blowjob3him cum in your mouth then spit it out. However, so that you avoid a debate as he reaches climax it is wise to prior communicate and agree on the sperm landing bay.

For those women who are experienced swallows for a tastier semen I recommend that you have a man drink pineapple juice or lemon juice.

Lets recap. Giving a blow job should be fun for the receiver and giver. Facial expression especially for the giver should imply she is enjoying. With hand movement, twirl and create spirals as you stroke his shaft. Relax on the grip and be sensual unless he requests for a firmer grip. Most importantly, communicate as part of your foreplay (use your sexy voice), and ask questions that will lead to a satisfactory blow job session.

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I miss her but….

Posted in Relationships, Sex on March 12, 2013| 7 Comments »

Dear Maurice,

I am 32 year old woman and I love women. Maurice I don’t think there’s a woman in Kenya who loves women more than I do. I can cum just by thinking ebonylesbiansof a woman going down on me or touching and licking my inner thigh. I watch a lot of porn and my favourite is girl on girl action. I have dated 34 women in the last 17 years and two of those relationships were what I consider serious. My last breakup was from a serious relationship. It occurred last year in October. Since then I have been with 4 women. One from my past and three that I met while clubbing. Whenever I breakup with someone I tend to go overboard and end up sleeping with random women. It is my way of dealing my emotions and the loneliness I feel.

Maurice asks,

What is your current dilemma?

She replies,

I feel guilty for moving onto some other woman’s bed so quick after my breakup. I miss my ex so much and yet I know I can’t go back.

Maurice asks,

Why can’t you go back?

She replies,

She said she loved me but I was too possessive to live with. She then moved out a month after that revelation. The minute she said we need a break I knew it was the end of the road for us.

Maurice asks,

For how long did you date and were the signs there?

She replies,

We dated for 16 months. But she only moved in 5 months prior to our breakup. We had our issues but there were no signs of how unhappy she was with me to the point of leaving me.

Maurice asks,

Why would she label you as possessive?

She replies,

She would go out clubbing and come home late at 5am or even 7am and that would not go down well with me. At times she would come home smelling of a perfume that neither of us use and that would lead to questioning and an argument would erupt. I guess I was the mother goose in that relationship.

Maurice asks,

How old is your ex?

She replies,

She is 24 years old.

Maurice asks,

Did you start your relationship based on a mutual exclusive status?

She replies,

During our first five months we were not exclusive. We ventured out together and had loads of fun. Into the seventh month things got a bit more serious and thereafter we decided to be exclusive or so I hoped. I do not know for sure if she cheated but I have my suspicions.

Maurice asks,

What do mean by ventured out?

She replies,

Maurice do I really need to spell it out for you.

Maurice replies,

Humour me.

She replies,

We attended parties and clubs together and flirted with busty women. We bothebonywomen like breasts and she had a major thing for nipples. If we liked a woman or women we would invite them over for some girl fun. It was awesome.

Maurice asks,

So you both hunted down female victims in pursuit of your sexual desires and you had fun together for awhile, is that correct?

She replies,

Yes we did.

My first squirting experience was courtesy of my ex. She knows my body andebonymouthsquirt what to do to get me there. I miss her.

Maurice asks,

So what went wrong to change your social pattern?

She replies,

While we were still non exclusive she told me that she was having sex with 2 men. She said she loves both pussy and dick. I was so hurt but I never did show her that I was hurting.

Maurice replies,

Let me get this straight, despite mentioning that she came home smelling of foreign perfume your main concern was her craving for dick?

She replies,

Yes.

Maurice asks,

Why, what did dick ever do to you?

She replies,

I just don’t believe in the female bisexual life style and I did not want a partnerebonylikesdick who sleeps with men. It may not make sense to you but it is my stand when it comes to my relationship with a woman. If she wants to have sex with men she has no place in my life.

Maurice asks,

So how can I help and are you currently communicating?

She replies,

Yes we are talking and I know from her voice she still loves me. If I do convince her for us to get back together how can I tell her that I hate the fact she likes men without annoying her into an argument?

Maurice asks,

My dear based on what you have told me, when you met her she told you she was bisexual and if so it makes no sense that you went along with the relationship knowing that she liked men as well. I can only advise that you do not attempt to change her sexual preference in any way otherwise she will lose all desire towards you as a sexual partner and lover. If you wish to gain her back it will be wise to give her your exclusivity terms before you re-ignite what you had. She will then decide for herself which will limit further future disagreements.

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