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Blow jobs, otherwise known as fellatio. It’s not often that you hear a man requesting for a fellatio, if you ask me it sounds too official something you would probably ask for during a corporate board meeting ‘perhaps’.

So do men really like blow jobs. The answer is ‘yes’ we do. As long as the woman is fully aware that its not a piece of meat or a salami sausage we are fairly confident that we will get out of it in one piece ‘hopefully’.

Lets start with the basics. What is a blow job? Unless you complicate matters with K9 looking teeth, a blow job is where a willing woman attempts to positively stimulate a man’s penis with her mouth.

It is important for a woman while giving a blow job to have on a face that says “honey I am enjoying this”. Some women get it wrong when their facial expression reflect an accountant who’s having a bad day or a Rottweiler that hasn’t been fed for days. For the receiver (the man) to remain stimulated it is crucial that a woman displays a face of passion. Show him that you are enjoying what you are doing. Because there is no actual ‘blowing’ while giving a blow job, unless the penis is on fire, you should be generous with your saliva to avoid painful skin friction as you run your hand up and down. To maximise on pleasure it is far better for a man when you stroke the penis shaft with a twirl effect so that you randomly stimulate his penis nerve endings. It is also more productive in regards to creating sensations than merely stroking the penis up and down. Again I must stress, be extremely generous with your natural lubrication ‘your saliva’. When it comes to grip, it is not a vehicle gear stick it is a penis ‘handle with care’. Some women get carried away and start to show off their dominance with a very hardy grip that literally diminishes a man’s erection. Avoid such spontaneous trial and error maneuvers. If  in doubt just ask the man to tell you or show you how he likes his penis handled.

Because communication is key you must watch the man’s reactions to your hand motions. Eye contact is great but in-case he has his eyes closed don’t be offended he is probably in cloud 9 or in the worst case scenario he is waiting for you to detach his penis due to your overly gripped motion.

Now that we are clear it is a penis you are handling, take your time while giving a blow job. It is not a race against time. Slow your roll ‘literally’. The more sensual the blow job the more positive sensations run through his shaft. Apart from the hand motion, suck and lick his penis from top to bottom, kiss the penis and as you perform these actions ask him what he likes the most. Get to know his penis, it is unique, do not copy paste your skills from a foreign penis.

Sensitive areas of the penis will give some men out of this World pleasure. Explore the tip of his penis with the tip of your tongue. With most men do not try and insert your tongue in his urethra, he prefers stuff coming out not going in.

If you are dealing with a chunky girthy penis when giving a blow job just use both your hand and mouth to stimulate him. Do not feel obligated to perform the act of ‘deep throat’ unless he wants it or you happened to enjoying stuffing a big penis down your throat. I know as a woman you want to please the man but sexual acts are supposed to be enjoyable for both parties so stipulate your limits before his hand holds onto your head and force dives you onto his penis. Trust me, the pig like sound you make during deep throat is not sexy at all.

If you are dealing with a 2 to 4 inch penis do not hold it in any manner that screams “where is the rest of your penis”. Do not hold the penis as if it were a cigarette.

While giving a blow job some men react to being kissed ‘gently’ around the inner thigh and testicles. Depending on his positioning you can lick the area between his testicles and anus. That area is super sensitive for many men.

In case you did not know ‘warmth’ on the penis is great for maintaining an erection. Avoid opening windows while engaging in sexual acts. There’s an element of warmth that intensifies a sex session. Some men tend to enjoy a hot shower because if the temperature is right the hot running water will warm up his penis and because he is conscious to the flow he may gain a soft or hard erection as he scrums his penis with soap. You can try an experiment, and it is advisable that you try this on a familiar penis. Pour yourself a cup of hot chocolate and take a mouthful. Make sure you gurgle so as to warm up your entire mouth after which you swallow then you take the penis into your mouth and let him feel that warmth from the beverage. If you do suck the penis at this point do it in slow motion. Remember this is foreplay for the penis, the idea is for him to feel the warmth from your mouth.

As you take him through the clouds of bliss with your sucking and hand job motion he will at some point indicate that he is about to reach climax. He is about to cum. When a man starts to show the signs of wanting to ejaculate women get excited having put all their efforts into reaching this point but as the penis begins to throb and somehow looks inflated with blood flow a question bulb appears…. “should I shallow or not”, it is a testing time for any woman especially if it is a new penis, ‘who knows what it will taste like’. These are the options you have; move his penis in time so that he cums on your face or breasts. Men love ejaculating on breasts. And equally love to see the semen dripping down your body. You also have the option of letting him cum in your mouth then spit it out. However, so that you avoid a debate as he reaches climax it is wise to prior communicate and agree on the sperm landing bay.

For those women who are experienced swallows for a tastier semen I recommend that you have a man drink pineapple juice or lemon juice.

Lets recap. Giving a blow job should be fun for the receiver and giver. Facial expression especially for the giver should imply she is enjoying. With hand movement, twirl and create spirals as you stroke his shaft. Relax on the grip and be sensual unless he requests for a firmer grip. Most importantly, communicate as part of your foreplay (use your sexy voice), and ask questions that will lead to a satisfactory blow job session.