Hi Matheka,
I was in one of your sessions in March. I did learn a lot about men and even though you did not encourage us to question our husbands not knowing our they would react. I took a chance and asked my husband whether he had a kinky fetish that he had not told me about after 8 years of marriage. He was a bit hesitant and looked as if he was trying to read my mind. Probably asking himself why I was asking out of the blue. Well as I consider myself pretty wise in the ways of manipulating my man I told him it was something I read and also added that I read all men must be allowed to experience their fetish. His eyes suddenly looked brighter and he crawled his way to telling me his fetish. My husband has a foot fetish, can you believe that. I actually laughed then apologised and explained it sounded funny. For all these years he has had a fetish and never told me. I then began to wonder who were the lucky girls in his past to know about it and give it to him. But because this was about now I did my best not to over think things. That night while having sex my husband showed me exactly what he liked. He took my feet and applied some oil, he then asked me to give him a foot rub, similar to a hand job but using my feet. I was amazed at his reaction as I rubbed his dick. I had no idea my feet could arouse him to the point of ejaculating, and his moans were great. Luckily for me I had cum during our sex session before delivering his fetish.
When I look back I realise that my husband and I became more closed off to discussing sex matters after we got hitched. You were right, couples do not always know each other as much as they think they do. I have no regrets as such but I do have 8 years of fetish delivery to catch up on :-). Funnily enough apart from masturbation which my husband likes to watch me perform I have always wanted to be with a woman and I know my husband likes girl on girl action because years ago we used to watch porn together. I will let you know how that goes :-).
I was recently introduced to your blog, very informative and realistic well done, but I have one question. With all this knowledge do you enjoy sex? I mean you deal with sex day in day out. Doesn’t the topic of sex become lethargic?