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What do you think of when you think of the word massage? Do you think of slow music, candle light, soothing hands, moments of extreme comfort, perhaps a glass of wine after. It sounds awesome, to some it may even be a turn on depending on where that massage may lead…. are you with me! Imagine you are the one doing the massaging, touching her silky skin and erotic curves of her body…. I don’t know about you but I am already turned on mmmmh!

We could go really deep into the wide variety of pressures, movements and techniques but we won’t. Remember even though you are not a professional, what really matters is perfecting the massage gesture, you can use the art as foreplay and tease her over and over and over till she can’t take it anymore.

Most men run away from giving a massage because they have the notion that a massage is meant to be given for 30 minutes or 1 hour, its not in the time but in the pleasure and sensation you deliver even in 10 minutes you can take her places.

It is important that you set the mood for her to enjoy her treat. Setting the mood is key to her enjoying that sensual massage. Yes you heard me right, the massage is meant to be sensual! You are not baking bread or making chapatis, you need to take you time, let your hands talk to her body, let your fingers explore her contours from head to toe ‘literally’. If you have edible oils you can suck between her toes, one toe at a time, be keen to listen to her moans, movements, her body will lead you along the path that will deliver to her most sensitive areas. As you set the mood make sure the lighting is right, the dimmer the better, a few candles normally does the trick. Women are positively triggered by romantic ambiance.

Now, we can not afford to forget the audio effect. Music is key to setting the mood, it is important to relate the music with the age group of the woman you are massaging otherwise the night might not go as you may have planned. If you are in doubt easy listening music like jazz in the back ground will do. Make sure you know what your goal is; either to make her relaxed and ready for sex or to put her to sleep. If your erotic massage is an appetizer before the main course, then choose something sexy like soul music or if its for relaxation then go for blues, or even nature sounds such as running water or the sounds of the rain forest. I don’t know about you but running water makes me want to taste her squirt.

In case you do not have access to edible oils, I recommend Almond oil. It is one of the most popular massage oils. It is slightly oily, but allows your hands to slide smoothly. Plus, it doesn’t get absorbed too easily so you won’t need to keep reapplying it. Here’s a tip, when you get to her inner thigh region, take your time and sensually massage that area, slide your hands up and down her inner thigh and at intervals as you go upwards take your hand inches from her vagina and slide back down, that will drive her crazy, not knowing when you will finally touch her secret garden. Before you know it she will be absolutely gagging for your shaft inside her.

Enjoy the journey around her body. If you pleasure her right she will thank you, how she does that all depends on what you induce in her during the massage session.

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Many are probably wondering what tribbing is. After a discussion with a group of ladies I decided to showcase the trib activity. It is a form of scissors commonly practiced by two women although some women trib on their male partner.

The most popular position in tribbing is the missionary position. One woman rests between the legs of her female partner and both can move with their hips to rub their clitoris, on each other. The submissive female can wrap her legs around the body of the other female, or even get a good grip on her back or her ass to pull her closer. The active part is advised for those women who want to control the speed and strength of the rubbing. If you need quick, strong and powerful moves to reach a climax you should be in the dominant position. Some women need that kind of pressure to achieve climax. Of course, whatever position one chooses, the two partners can always change their positions and roles as often as they would like.

Another more popular position is the crossed missionary position. The bodies rest on each other in a position so that each clit touches the upper thigh of the other woman but not the other clit. Since the bodies are resting closely on each other, often breast to breast and intense kissing is witnessed. Their thighs are intertwined so there is no way that the crotches can touch each other in that position. Although there is hardly any clit to clit contact possible, this position can still have its advantages and create lots of pleasure for both women. It’s rather easy to reach a climax quite quickly in this position since both can control the power, speed and strength of their rubbing. This position is often used by young women who are having their first bi curious experience, I guess that is why they call it the student position.

The open scissors has one advantage. The advantage is that both females can easily find the clits of their partner. They can find and actually touch the top of the other clit exactly with theirs if they desire. They can both control the intensity, pressure and strength of the actual contact as much as they find it to be convenient and exciting. Many women may find great pleasure when performing this position and it creates a wide variety of additional positions if more than two women are involved ‘awesome as I bite my lip’. However, beginners should know that this position does not satisfy all women. Although most female trib fantasies are about this position, in reality it lacks visual contact which is critical in intimacy. It also makes it difficult to touch the rest of the body.

The closed scissors, is probably the most important amongst all trib positions; however, it demands of the dominant woman some flexibility, fitness and endurance. Not unlike the open scissors position, one female rests on her back and she opens her legs like a scissors upwards. The dominant female sits or kneels with her spread legs on the genitals of the female below her. She controls the intensity, the moves and pressure of the activity with her own hips. The more flexible both females are the deeper and more intensely the two women will feel each other and the deeper the woman with a big clit could theoretically insert her clit into the vagina of the other female. Some women are even able then to stimulate the G-spot of her counterpart with her clit, we can all masturbate over that visual.

Of course, touching each other with their clits is easy to do in that position too. The two women can look each other in the eyes. They can touch the others breasts and they can intensely feel and see all four legs and thighs too. It is intriguing and exciting for many women who trib in that position when they can then even have a look at both of their clits while they’re touching. Those who have the necessary fitness and endurance can probably climax quite quickly and easily by caressing each other in that position. In the closed scissors position multiple orgasms are possible.

For the above intimacy to produce out of this World sensations it is about embracing the act with no inhibitions, the ability to centre your attention to all motions and sounds. In short, you must attain a mental ‘visa’ to explore, it is important that you create body warmth to make it easier to stimulate each other. Ladies as you enjoy the moment let get my popcorn out, this one show I am not missing.

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Dear Maurice,

I am so inspired by your blog and especially when I came across your articles ‘erotic outdoors’ and ‘female exhibitionism’. That definitely describes what I like when exploring my sexuality. It is so raw and exhilarating. I thought to share so here goes. I love nature and I wish I could spend more time in my birthday suit but society is restrictive. I love the feeling of tree bark, the firmness of an erect tree just turns me on. You’ll find me in the garden many a times feeling free in my own little cocoon where I can walk naked without a care in the World. As I walk towards the pool I undress one garment after the other hoping that someone, a neighbour perhaps is getting turned on by my journey to nudity. I then take a dip and after a few laps I relax at the corner of the pool and admire my boobs, I love them. I take my time and feel myself up, playing with my nipples as I yearn for a man’s touch. At that moment I am normally thinking what if a man’s manhood was throbbing between my thighs. I am all about exploring. I love it in the kitchen which I hardly use if I may add. Instead I utilise it to cook up an appetite in more ways than one before the take out. I desire a mix of passion and endurance, a man who can make me feel as light as a feather, a man who can work his tongue around the lips between my thighs. Tantric sex always gets me there combined with a man’s girth deep within me. Short firm strokes make me achieve orgasm multiple times. I guess electric sexual chemistry with a ‘willing to do anything to pleasure me’ kind of man also plays a major part.

*It is important to explore your limits, to embrace what you like most in the realm of sexuality. Never be afraid to express yourself, do not let medieval traditions or cultures get in your way.

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Dear Maurice,

I have been referred to you by my girlfriend who had a private session with you and she says you know your stuff. I have been married for 8 months and before our marriage we had only been physically together for an accumulated time of about 3 months over a period of 2 years. The reason is because we met and fell for each other while we were both holidaying in Mauritius. We lived in different Countries so most of our knowing each other was online. I keep myself sexy for my man and I have a high sex drive and now that we are married I want to give my man the best sexual experience ever. Is there a specific way to ride a man cause I like being on top?

Maurice replies,

Well, riding a man is not nuclear science but it does require a certain degree of knowledge. That knowledge is all about the motions once you are on top of him. When you are on top of a man he instinctively holds onto your waist, why does he do this considering he is not about to fall off, its not like he is seeking leverage!

He holds onto your waist so that he can steer you to maintain the right motion, the ‘back and forth’ motion that stimulates his penis considering at that point he is throbbing inside you. The motion is even more intense if he is blessed with penis girth, the girth rubs on your vaginal walls and excites him, aiding his penetration and thrust prowess. If you know the right way to ride a man, you can actually make him more horny, the visual of you riding him is so sexy he could eat you up given the chance.

Before you climb on top of your Stallion, it is important that you share in dominating one another unless your man has a fetish for submissiveness. Your man is aroused by confidence, it makes you sexier if you can dominate him with actions that make you the Queen of seduction. A man is always sexually triggered by a wild woman so you need to be that wild feline. You need to reflect a certain degree of power over him and make him your slave especially if you can incorporate role play as you build up to riding him.

In my opinion, the best ‘rider’ is that woman who gets into her ride and embraces what comes naturally, when you over think the motions you limit the flow of feel good juices hence limiting the excitement and synchronized orgasm that could erupt from the motions. If your man likes to hold your breasts ‘let him’, some men love when the breasts smack their face as you ride back and forth. I am sure so many men reading this can relating to galloping breasts slapping their face as the woman rides and moans. You can try riding him facing away from him, the reverse cow girl position can equally be satisfying. In that position your man can see your ass moving and he can also touch it, the waves of a female ass can be a very powerful stimulus.

What you should avoid doing when riding is moving your body and waist as if you are in a hula hoop contest. There is a myth about moving your waist like an Hawaiian dancer, then again unless your man likes to see you dancing on top of him the physical action does not result to any positive penis stimulation. If anything his penis might as well be in a blender with all those rotations. For your man it is visually important for your facial expression to suggest lust, sexiness, desire, erotic passion or else he will find it impossible to sustain his erection. Let me take you back to the instinctive hold, when you move your waist from side to side instead of back and forth have you ever noticed that the man attempts to grip your waist firmly so as to correct your motion and rhythm. When you are up there you have the aerial view and it is wise to follow your man’s indicators.

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To ladies in Mombasa

I have created a group on whatsapp for Mombasa based ladies, I am planning a session with practicals for Saturday March 8th. If you want to be part of that session whatsapp me on 0720229351 then I will add you to the group. If you are not on whatsapp text me. It will be 3k per person.

The package will consist of a sex talk, 2 female performers and one male performer. You do not want to miss this session. I am targeting 40 ladies so spread the word.

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Ladies in Nairobi, I have created a group for you on whatsapp. This is for those ladies who would like to attend my session but cannot mobilize a group.

I have also created a group for ladies in Nakuru and Eldoret. Please whatsapp me 0720229351 requesting to join your relevant group.

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For those interested….

I am selling a 5 inch Gspot finder category vibrator for ksh4,000 + 300bob for discreet courier to you.

It has 4 vibrate modes. One of the modes is effective for clitoris stimulation. Uses AAA batteries.

I only have 2 left.

If you are interested please give me a call 0720229351.

*Always make sure you use lubrication

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The good news is, there is no age limit on sex for women. Although older women especially in their 50’s may become aroused more slowly than younger ones, many find that their desire increases when they no longer have to worry about being interrupted by their children or about getting pregnant. Most older women, especially those who remain sexually active, retain the ability to have normal orgasms. But as women age, their bodies change and so do their sexual organs. Most women start to peak sexually between 29 and 31 years of age. By the time they are in their mid 30’s a pool of men usually run away from home or rather come home late hoping that dear wifey is asleep otherwise they fear for their manhood which is usually taken through a marathon of sexual prowess with their woman being overly horny.

After menopause, women’s bodies produce less estrogen, the female hormone. The lower estrogen level creates some physical changes that may affect sexual activity. You may find that it takes longer for your vagina to swell and lubricate when you’re sexually aroused. Your vagina also becomes less elastic. This may make intercourse less comfortable or even painful. Some women even avoid sex because they find it less pleasurable than before. You shouldn’t have to suffer through painful intercourse just because your natural lubrication just isn’t doing the job. There are other ways to make entry smooth and enjoyable. There are many practices and products that can help stimulate your natural lubrication. If you or your partner rubs your vaginal nerve endings (the g-spot) using their index finger then you will find yourself getting wet. On the other hand you do have the option of gels which should be applied on the vagina and penis just prior to sex.

There are scientific research programs that have shown that women who masturbate at least 3 times or more a week are less likely to have lubrication problems, why, because they psychological embrace their sexuality and trigger more sexual thoughts that promote vaginal wetness and a higher degree of sexual satisfaction. However, it does not mean that they will enjoy all sexual encounters, it is important to have a partner who knows how to read your mood, who knows how to arouse you and who knows how to apply foreplay to ignite your flow of juices.

After menopause, women’s bodies also produce less testosterone, the male hormone. Testosterone plays an important role in creating sexual thoughts and arousal in both men and women. Declining levels of testosterone often make your desire for sex less strong. This is normal, but it doesn’t mean that your desire goes away completely. While there are hormone replacement options for testosterone as well as for estrogen, there are also associated risks.

A decrease in desire can also be related to a number of other factors, such as depression,  stress, fatigue or the use of some medications such contraceptives, high-blood pressure medication and some anti-depressants.

If you want to sustain a healthy satisfactory sex life it is paramount that you learn to embrace sexuality and do not be shy about it. The mind is a powerful tool and it can elevate your sexual experience if you allow it.

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To ladies in Mombasa

I have created a group on whatsapp for Mombasa based ladies, I am planning a session with practicals for Saturday March 8th. If you want to be part of that session whatsapp me on 0720229351 then I will add you to the group. If you are not on whatsapp text me. It will be 3k per person.

The package will consist of a sex talk, 2 female performers and one male performer. You do not want to miss this session. I am targeting 40 ladies so spread the word.

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Dear Maurice,

I have been married for 7 years. We have 2 lovely kids but I am afraid my husband and I are going to disrupt this family setting, we may soon be living separately if a solution is not found. When we got to the stage of getting married we mutually agreed that we would not change each other and yet one year into our marriage my husband begun setting terms and conditions which I profusely fought over the years.

Maurice asks,

What could be so wrong to lead you to separate?

She replies,

Before marriage we dated for 4 amazing years. My hubby was fun and adventurous and he loved me as I am. I am who I am and marriage was not going to change that, and he said we would always be the same and still play the role of bringing up our children.

Maurice replies,

I get the feeling there is something you like that your husband changed his mind about.

She replies,

When we met he knew I was bisexual and if anything over the 4 years he repeatedly said I was his dream woman. Granted he is not as liberal as I am but our dating years were the best. For 6 years I can say I have struggled fighting for my personality. I related to your article about a woman having several men, the difference is that I have had 2 serious affairs with women since I got married. Four nights ago my husband came across a message on my phone that was pretty graphic. He asked me if I was having an affair with a woman and I could not lie so I told him everything.

He asked me why? I told him it was because he changed into a man I could no longer recognise. Marriage took us to a place I can only describe as the sanctity of boredom. I love my husband to bits but I never prescribed to the predictable sexual life we have today. Three was never a crowd in our bed, even after the kids came we only had one over night getaway and it was my idea. I am 44 and I know what I want as a woman away from family life.

Maurice replies,

What you are saying is that your husband breached the verbal contract you mutually agreed to regarding your sex life?

She replies,

Yes, he has become the kind of man I avoided in my mid 20’s. Today he is judgmental and all of a sudden he is the author of the book of morals. Where were his morals when we used to have threesomes with my girlfriends!

Maurice I am a career woman, if you met me at work you would never guess that I had specific sexual preferences. When I am at home I play the wife and mother role to the best of my ability. But as you know all work and no play can be very boring. Should I be judged because I fancy a woman sharing a bed with me, I think not.

Maurice replies,

How is your sex life with your husband?

She replies,

Our sex life is great, he has endurance so he still gets me there, orgasms are not my problem. I just don’t understand his change of attitude towards my sexual needs. If I knew this would one day be a problem I would have had a friends with benefits arrangement.

Maurice asks,

So how can I help?

She replies,

I have told him that we need to seek advice from a neutral person and I recommended we meet you. He has gone through your blog so he knows of you and thankfully he has agreed to meet you.

Maurice replies,

The ball is in your court. All we need now is a date, time and place. Once I get to hear both sides of the story I will be able to advice further and hopefully we can establish a mutual way forward.

She replies,

Thank you Maurice, I will get back to you soon.

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