What do you think of when you think of the word massage? Do you think of slow music, candle light, soothing hands, moments of extreme comfort, perhaps a glass of wine after. It sounds awesome, to some it may even be a turn on depending on where that massage may lead…. are you with me! Imagine you are the one doing the massaging, touching her silky skin and erotic curves of her body…. I don’t know about you but I am already turned on mmmmh!
We could go really deep into the wide variety of pressures, movements and techniques but we won’t. Remember even though you are not a professional, what really matters is perfecting the massage gesture, you can use the art as foreplay and tease her over and over and over till she can’t take it anymore.
Most men run away from giving a massage because they have the notion that a massage is meant to be given for 30 minutes or 1 hour, its not in the time but in the pleasure and sensation you deliver even in 10 minutes you can take her places.
It is important that you set the mood for her to enjoy her treat. Setting the mood is key to her enjoying that sensual massage. Yes you heard me right, the massage is meant to be sensual! You are not baking bread or making chapatis, you need to take you time, let your hands talk to her body, let your fingers explore her contours from head to toe ‘literally’. If you have edible oils you can suck between her toes, one toe at a time, be keen to listen to her moans, movements, her body will lead you along the path that will deliver to her most sensitive areas. As you set the mood make sure the lighting is right, the dimmer the better, a few candles normally does the trick. Women are positively triggered by romantic ambiance.
Now, we can not afford to forget the audio effect. Music is key to setting the mood, it is important to relate the music with the age group of the woman you are massaging otherwise the night might not go as you may have planned. If you are in doubt easy listening music like jazz in the back ground will do. Make sure you know what your goal is; either to make her relaxed and ready for sex or to put her to sleep. If your erotic massage is an appetizer before the main course, then choose something sexy like soul music or if its for relaxation then go for blues, or even nature sounds such as running water or the sounds of the rain forest. I don’t know about you but running water makes me want to taste her squirt.
In case you do not have access to edible oils, I recommend Almond oil. It is one of the most popular massage oils. It is slightly oily, but allows your hands to slide smoothly. Plus, it doesn’t get absorbed too easily so you won’t need to keep reapplying it. Here’s a tip, when you get to her inner thigh region, take your time and sensually massage that area, slide your hands up and down her inner thigh and at intervals as you go upwards take your hand inches from her vagina and slide back down, that will drive her crazy, not knowing when you will finally touch her secret garden. Before you know it she will be absolutely gagging for your shaft inside her.
Enjoy the journey around her body. If you pleasure her right she will thank you, how she does that all depends on what you induce in her during the massage session.
Nice work Matheka
Can I book you for that massage?
Belinda, can i offer you a sensual massage
You must give good loving
Mind blowing