mauricetherapy

Dear Maurice,

I read one of your articles and it described my current sex life. My wife and I have been married for 7 years and I love her very much. My problem is that I cannot fulfill her sexual appetite and it has been a struggle for a long while however I have had to sacrifice for her to gain her pleasures.

Maurice replies,

I am curious to know how you have sacrificed for your wife to gain pleasure. If seems to me that you some how found a solution but you are not happy with that solution, is that correct?

He replies,

When I met my wife in campus 10 years ago she was a very free spontaneous spirit and I have always felt that she sacrificed part of her character to conform to family life. In turn I decided that I would do anything to make sure she did not seek pleasure outside our home.

Maurice replies,

Let me take you back, you have implied that you do not satisfy your wife sexually. If so how do you know, has she told you or hinted at any point in your marriage?

He replies,

No, she has not but from one man to another you just know when your game to low. I knew a long time ago that she fakes it to sooth my ego and it was the most difficult experience of my life. My manhood is everything to me. But I have never had the courage to let her know that I know she fakes her pleasure.

Maurice asks,

So what do you have to sacrifice?

He replies,

That character I spoke of once jokingly asked if I would be up for a threesome and that was while we were in campus. I never did give her an answer but I knew it was her fantasy. She has always complimented women wherever we go and it was something I got used to over the years.

My next step was to accept that I was not performing. I then decided to make my wife’s fantasy a reality. We have two women, who we alternate, who pleasure my wife. I do not partake in the action I just watch and even though at times it is a turn on for me I still wish I could satisfy her.

Maurice asks,

It was a bold move on your part to introduce another woman into your bedroom but what drove you to that option?

He replies,

My biggest fear was my wife meeting a man who has the sexual prowess that I lack. I can live with a woman touching my wife but not another man. That would kill me inside.

Maurice asks,

In your opinion, what does it take to satisfy your woman. Do you understand her sexual needs?

He replies,

I know she has always talked about foreplay and especially clitoral stimulation but I have failed in the delivery. She would ask me to go down on her and I just can’t do that but the woman can. She has also over the years asked for anal sex and I have always declined. I know that as her husband I should be more open to exploring but there are things I can not do. Most of her orgasms stem from clitoral stimulation. I have tried to make her orgasm using my fingers and the results are usually negative. Once in a while she might orgasm but that is after she mentally concentrates and rubs her clitoris so really my input is limited.

I have tried viagra and vega, they both give me headaches and a massive erection but my major problem is that I ejaculate within minutes whether I take it slow or not. That frustrates my wife because it takes her a while to orgasm unless she masturbates. I have tried everything to improve but all has been in vain. Is there food that can boost my performance. I need to last longer.

Maurice replies,

I normally recommend herbal supplements. But it is important to understand that supplements are not medicine, they are not a cure, they are merely a scientific combination of herbs from around the World that produce a tablet or capsule that enhances sexual desire and performance. Most men and women who take them take a tablet or two per day as a lifestyle. Why the need for supplements? People forget that back in the day especially in the rural areas men would boil specific herbs picked from surrounding forests and drink the mixture and they would do this as part of their lifestyle hence why they were able to father 10 or more children. It also helped that they ate organic food that had no additives unlike most of today’s food.

At the age of 30 men experience a decline in libido, what varies from one man to the next is the degree. In today’s World male and female herbal supplements are necessary to sustain sexual desire. We all live in a stressful environment with work and family duties always keeping us busy so we need a boost to enable us to function in the bedroom.

In your case I would like to ask you to be open enough to try some of the things you have avoided. It is time you ventured and had a taste of the unknown, you might actually have a change of perception but you will never know until you try.

I do not know what horror stories you have heard about going down on a woman but what I can tell you is that you will not find a stinking fish market between your wife’s thighs. If anything her natural vaginal scent will arouse you. I urge you to be more liberal in your bedroom so that instead of a third party you can get to discover your wife’s pleasure zones. I applaud you for going the extra mile to make sure your partner is sexually satisfied but it is equally important for you to be proactive in your bedroom affairs instead of being the man behind the scene.

He replies,

I agree that I need to change my mentality. Thank you.