The good news is, there is no age limit on sex for women. Although older women especially in their 50’s may become aroused more slowly than younger ones, many find that their desire increases when they no longer have to worry about being interrupted by their children or about getting pregnant. Most older women, especially those who remain sexually active, retain the ability to have normal orgasms. But as women age, their bodies change and so do their sexual organs. Most women start to peak sexually between 29 and 31 years of age. By the time they are in their mid 30’s a pool of men usually run away from home or rather come home late hoping that dear wifey is asleep otherwise they fear for their manhood which is usually taken through a marathon of sexual prowess with their woman being overly horny.
After menopause, women’s bodies produce less estrogen, the female hormone. The lower estrogen level creates some physical changes that may affect sexual activity. You may find that it takes longer for your vagina to swell and lubricate when you’re sexually aroused. Your vagina also becomes less elastic. This may make intercourse less comfortable or even painful. Some women even avoid sex because they find it less pleasurable than before. You shouldn’t have to suffer through painful intercourse just because your natural lubrication just isn’t doing the job. There are other ways to make entry smooth and enjoyable. There are many practices and products that can help stimulate your natural lubrication. If you or your partner rubs your vaginal nerve endings (the g-spot) using their index finger then you will find yourself getting wet. On the other hand you do have the option of gels which should be applied on the vagina and penis just prior to sex.
There are scientific research programs that have shown that women who masturbate at least 3 times or more a week are less likely to have lubrication problems, why, because they psychological embrace their sexuality and trigger more sexual thoughts that promote vaginal wetness and a higher degree of sexual satisfaction. However, it does not mean that they will enjoy all sexual encounters, it is important to have a partner who knows how to read your mood, who knows how to arouse you and who knows how to apply foreplay to ignite your flow of juices.
After menopause, women’s bodies also produce less testosterone, the male hormone. Testosterone plays an important role in creating sexual thoughts and arousal in both men and women. Declining levels of testosterone often make your desire for sex less strong. This is normal, but it doesn’t mean that your desire goes away completely. While there are hormone replacement options for testosterone as well as for estrogen, there are also associated risks.
A decrease in desire can also be related to a number of other factors, such as depression, stress, fatigue or the use of some medications such contraceptives, high-blood pressure medication and some anti-depressants.
If you want to sustain a healthy satisfactory sex life it is paramount that you learn to embrace sexuality and do not be shy about it. The mind is a powerful tool and it can elevate your sexual experience if you allow it.
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To ladies in Mombasa
I have created a group on whatsapp for Mombasa based ladies, I am planning a session with practicals for Saturday March 8th. If you want to be part of that session whatsapp me on 0720229351 then I will add you to the group. If you are not on whatsapp text me. It will be 3k per person.
The package will consist of a sex talk, 2 female performers and one male performer. You do not want to miss this session. I am targeting 40 ladies so spread the word.
My husband needs to read this and pull up his socks, he thinks at 42 I am over sexed
Thank you Maurice I feel much better knowing that my heightened libido is normal. When I turned 34 my desire for sex went up, my husband can attest to that and thankfully he can keep up with my cravings.
Now I know. A good read.
This may help someone, after years of trying out different contraception pills I eventually found that norplant did not affect my weight nor did it reduce my sex drive. Consult with your doctor first but I recommend it as a contraceptive.
The woman in the middle photo is so hot. Maurice can you organise a session for us ladies in Nakuru.
I am 52 years old and what helped boost my libido was horny goat weed and maca of which I have used for 6 years. After a session with Matheka I am now able to orgasm multiple times.
It is time women stopped settling for less, we deserve to orgasm, why should a man enjoy sex and you don’t. I gave 24 years to a man who told me my vagina was broken and I believed him after sometime only for Matheka to confirm that the problem was that bastard of a man.
Try me Patricia, i believe old is gold, no regrets.
I am 39 and I have a husband who is hardly home when I am horny I think he falls in the category of those who fear the sexual marathon however my vibrator never lets me down.
why does it have to be the opposite n unfair, my girl is 24 n she claims im too horny for her even though she cums all the time we have it…… she claims im an addict n sex should be thrice a month, who does that at her age???
Why subject yourself to a vibrator and some of us are here?
Maurice, this is educative. I used to have sexual mental blocks with my ex husband but since my transition into lesbianism 4 years ago at the age of 46 I nolonger experience a decline in sexual desire.
Keep up the good work.
I am 48 and very sexually active blessed with an energetic toy boy. It is refreshing that men like Matheka can highlight the realities of today’s World. Out dated ideologies and traditions are one of the many reasons why marriages are failing. My daughter at 26 divorsed after 2 years when her husband mistreated her in the name of traditional believes. She was married to his community
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IIm a miserable 44years old married and hubby is bizy giving satisfaction out there and denied me what i love most. Been a year since we shared a bedroom its totally depressing
am single an 42.bt got 1 guy who just does it right for me.ooh fuck hes a beast in be an almost my half age.can lend u girls no hardfeelings.
i can help shalon. u have all right to enjoy sex.0710144157.call him