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Dear Maurice,

I am a twenty six year old guy. I have lived with the woman I call my wife for seven years, during which I have undergone absolute hell. My wife is so cold and finds any chance to get aggressive. The problem began with a tiny disagreement about some home affairs. I wanted my wife to help me shoulder the financial burden so I encouraged her to start working. As soon as she got a job she changed abruptly. She started making calls to people in the middle of the night, being picked up from our home by strange cars and she would deny me intimacy for weeks saying that she was tired or that the weather was too hot.

Maurice asks,

Honesty how did hot weather impact negatively on her vagina?

He replies,

My point exactly Maurice, what kind of an excuse is that! Her excuses would go on for a month. The only good thing to come out of our relationship is that God blessed us with a daughter. Before I knew it my wife changed her mode of dressing. When I asked why she had changed her dressing she said she did that to secure her job but after some investigation I found that she changed her religion to Islam behind my back and changed the name of our child. Imagine for two years we lived in the same house and she never told me about the change of religion. My problem is that she does so many things behind my back and I have to squeeze the truth out of her. Please advise me.

Maurice replies,

Based on the information my opinion is that the two of you went into marriage without knowing each other. I believe your courtship foundation which led to your marriage was weak. Unfortunately the consequences of your youthful matrimony have haunted you for many years. Your wife though, if I may speculate, at this point seems to have either lost touch with you as her husband or she is living a double life. These changes have resulted to her current temperament towards you.

Changing religion is something pretty sensitive that couples normally discuss and with the fact that you were not aware until you investigated tells me that she had no intention of telling you. You need to sit down with your wife and have a candid non judgmental chat, where she can reveal the truth behind her secretive World. It might not be easy to get her to open up but you need to create that opportunity to learn the truth.

He replies,

The saddest thing about my situation is that I did my best over the years to avoid temptation and I succeeded but I did not foresee my wife to be the one to collapse our marriage out of changes that came from nowhere. It was my goal to keep my vows till death do us part. It is true, you can never satisfy a human being, no matter how good you are they will disappoint you in one way or another and make your efforts worthless. I need to know if I still have a wife but I am not optimistic about her being truthful but only time will tell.

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Hi Maurice,

I’ve been married for 5 years and I found out my husband who is 29 has been having an affair for 3 years.We have a 2 year old daughter and he is claiming I leave her behind if I choose to leave. Which is difficult so I have been hanging around and he thinks I’m around to make our marriage work which is not true because I don’t want to be married to him anymore.
I realized he was cheating on me in 2011 when he accidentally left his phone and I found messages between him and another woman, I asked him and he said the woman was following him and that she is the one who wanted the affair which I later came to learn was a lie. I forgave him and we were ok for a while until January 2013. He opened a beauty shop and I heard from a friend that the same woman he was having an affair with was running the place. I had asked to be running it since I don’t have a job, though I am a graduate, and he refused.
I passed by and the woman was there making hair and running the place. When I asked him, he said she only comes and goes until he finds someone permanent. I let it go and told him to fire her which he said he would do. I went back without his knowledge and found him with her. I sat them down and demanded to know the truth. The woman claims to be his girlfriend and the business is theirs because she has invested money in it. As I sat there listening it hit me that this light skinned woman had been in the shadows for years, we had met her in social places and it never hit me that she had anything with my husband. He did not end the affair and he was even sleeping with the woman which really hurt and scared me considering how dangerous it is now to sleep around.
He said I should stick around and look for a job and look after our daughter. It has been hard because he is apologetic and wants to touch and peck me which is kind of disgusting because I don’t want him to touch me. I’m thinking of moving out but I’m scared about my daughter’s well being and staying is hard because I’m not in love with him anymore. I think that every time he opens his mouth he is lying.I can never trust him again. I want to start life afresh and move on from this toxic relationship.
I am 23 years old and I don’t want to waste the rest of my life with tears and heartbreak because that is what his mother’s life is like because his father is also a player at the age of 55. His mother warned me that this is only the beginning and that is how they are. What should I do before I loose my mind with all the stress?

Maurice replies,

My dear it is evident that your husband disconnected from your matrimony years ago. He may be apologetic but only when it suits him. He is probably happy in a marriage of convenience which you are currently involved in. It is also clear that his affair has advanced to something more permanent and considering he implied that you can leave if you wish he has made it obvious that he is not willing to terminate his relationship with the other woman. Based on the facts your only logical option is to leave however there’s the matter of your child’s welfare.Without an income it will be a stressful uphill task to cater for your child’s needs which out weigh any other factors. If your husband is providing at the moment, before you decide to move on with your life I would advise that you look at your options wisely. At 23 you still have a life ahead of you so it is paramount that you seek for work and secure an avenue to generate enough income to sustain yourself and your child. If you wish you can also look into the legal obligations that your husband must abide to in regards to your daughter’s welfare. Health wise, for your own peace of mind I would recommend that you confirm your HIV status.

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UPCOMING SESSIONS

On Friday 5th December I have a session in Mombasa for details call me.

———-

If you are interested in attending my next open session in Nairobi on Saturday 6th December please call me 0720229351. I recommend couples to attend too. This is my last open session for 2014 ‘don’t miss out’. Limited slots left.

To the men, I urge you to attend so you can witness a squirting performance and learn from the session. Acquiring knowledge gives you the power to take your woman places she has never been before.

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Cure premature ejaculation and gain a firm erection and elevate your sex drive. The cost per pack is 3k (exclusive of delivery charges). I have an offer at 2k per pack + 300bob in the Nairobi area. Those outside Nairobi let me know where you are so I can work out the delivery charge.

One pack has 8 capsules which can be taken just before sex or one capsule after every 3 days. To witness the best results follow a strict dose of one capsule daily then after the eighth day take a break for 3 days and repeated the daily dose, consuming a minimum of 3 packs in one month.

The 2k offer will end 31st December 2014. To order call 0720229351.

Vigrx Plus is still available.

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Dear Maurice,

I have been an ardent reader of your blog but I have also been a skeptic regarding your teachings. The reason why I say this is because the more I read about your articles on sexuality I realise that as a proud Kikuyu man I have certain values that I uphold. I was married for 18 years. My wife was 22 years old when we got married and I strongly believe that I lost her to civilisation. I am worried for our African identity.

Maurice replies,

Explain.

He replies,

In my opinion, what you write about is almost fictional and cannot be sustained in a marriage. For instance, this squirting business asserts a lot of pressure on the man, it is not our duty to please women, it is the duty of women to please us as the superior being. Even religiously the man is the dominant one but you seem to endorse empowerment of women. The worst thing to happen in the last decade was the empowerment of women. Women are not our equal. I may sound out dated but the truth is many men agree with me that women nowadays are acting like men. How do you live with such a person! Women were always there to be seen but not heard. Today they have a voice and due to their malicious character they are causing men to die due to stress related ailments. Many are not even wives but gold diggers.

My wife used to read a lot of these women’s magazines and was influenced by other women, and because she was the sharing type she would shock me with topics of love making, I would then pretend to be interested to avoid being called ignorant. When your wife reads that there is a possibility to attain multiple orgasms she expects those results at home and to be perfectly honest it is not practical. I was a great provider as she used to say but it was still not good enough for her because she left me because I refused to reform as she expected. Now she displays her toy boy publicly with no shame. These young men are being used by older women you should be stopping such behaviour.

My wife would ask me to do some odd things, there was no way I was licking her private parts, that is not even natural. And how can a woman suck my penis and expect me to kiss her after! This is not an attack on you but on civilisation which has given you the knowledge that you so passionately share on your blog but that knowledge belongs in the Western World where I believe you gained your education. In my village in Muranga no man would entertain the sex you write about. A woman’s job is to be submissive and pleasure her man period.

Maurice replies,

My question to you is simple. For a man who is against what you call civilisation, how is it that you were comfortable with fellatio (oral sex given to a man)? After all fellatio according to your sentiments must be a western culture sex act and yet you received it, is receiving a blow job a natural act? If you are such a cultured conservative man then where did you learn about fellatio? Do your fellow villagers endorse your tolerance for fellatio? You, my good man are the man I describe as the ‘double standards man’. You have one set of rules for your home and another for the social arena. I may be speculating but I can bet you would not reject sex from a random attractive woman. Again I speculate that you are probably that man who enforces rules on your wife like washing her vagina before you have sex with her and yet when you are in the social realm you will suck/lick a random vagina without questioning where that vagina has been. We are in 2014, in an era where science is making our day to day life easier and opening our eyes to effective forms of sexual pleasure. My advice, adapt or be left behind. The true is this, what one person will not do for you sexually, another will do gladly and with much passion. Your other option is to go deep into the jungles of Congo and find yourself a unexposed virgin. The only problem I foresee with that option is if you introduce her to modern life she will adapt and unless you cage her (which is illegal) she will learn much from her female peers and soon enough she will be demanding for sexual satisfaction.

Time waits for no man and the modern day vagina will not wait for you to snap out of your conservative cocoon.

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SESSION

If you interested in attending my next open session on Saturday 6th December in Nairobi please call me 0720229351. I recommend couples to attend too.

To the men, I urge you to attend so you can witness a squirting performance and learn from the session. Acquiring knowledge gives you the power to take your woman places she has never been before.

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I am 33 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend who I love so much for nine years. I had my dream day all figured out but hurdles are slowly making my dream life a nightmare. We were to get married last year but we did not have enough money and were unable to formalize our relationship as planned. Last year I suspected he was cheating after reading a message on his phone. It was from a lady saying: “You are an impatient man. When I decide to love someone I love him with all my heart”. I confronted my boyfriend, who denied the accusation and our relationship soured. We later made up and he told me I had misunderstood the SMS, but since then he does not treat me as well as he used to and I don’t trust him as much. Should we shelve our wedding plans or go ahead with them?

You have clearly invested many years in this relationship and for you to seek counsel instead of leave him you must believe that there’s some hope for things to work out positively in the future. That said, I can not give you false hope. I strongly suggest that you postpone any wedding plans and seek the truth from your boyfriend. For him to open up he needs to feel that you will not attack him with the truth when he tells you ‘now and in the future’ if at all you decide to stay together. Your predicament is not easy to settle but if you both listen to each other and digest the information you will be one step ahead of resolving your issues. The biggest problem is that people listen but they do not ‘hear’ each other out. They allow personal egos to get in the way of salvaging their relationship. You then find pointing fingers becomes the order of the day and taking people down guilt trip lane has never solved anything. A civil non malicious approach is highly recommended for both of you to adopt so as to move forward.

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Dear Maurice,

I am a 30 year old married man. My wife and I are blessed with two kids: a boy and a girl. When we got married I was earning good money and life was good, but as soon as I started experiencing cash shortages we started having disagreements with my wife. She has gone to the extent of threatening to leave me, saying that I am meaningless to her. She avoids me in bed and when she allows for intimacy she keeps telling me to hurry up and finish quickly, so I do not even enjoy it. I have thought of looking for another woman, but being a born again Christian and a pastor for that matter, I know that option would not be taken well by the church. Please help me because I do not want to go past my matrimonial bed to anyone else.

Maurice replies,

I have read your letter and in doing so it has raised questions that require clarification to avoid speculation. Even though you say that your wife began to retreat from your affection after you started to experience financial problems I feel as if there may be other factors that lead her to distance herself from you. There are cases where if a lifestyle is altered then human characteristics also change but without your wife’s side of the story it is mere speculation at this point.

There must be a core cause of your current marital predicament and I believe the truth can only be found if the two of you can have a candid chat about it. It is very common for couples to mask the core problem with other on going issues. If you can trust each other enough to create a platform of dialogue where you can both vent all that needs to be said without judgement then when all the issues have been tabled you will be closer to establishing a way forward. I also want you to consider external help through counseling, why? Because it may be the only other avenue where you can both open up in the presence of a neutral person.

My other concern is that you have already thought of infidelity to satisfy your sexual craving, it is common amongst men, which leads me to ask if your sexual attraction for your wife has slowly dwindled?

In my opinion in marriage it is the bad choices you make, made by both parties, that complicate the sanctity. In your case seeking sexual satisfaction else where may seem like a good option but I would advise you exhaust dialogue first. Men are sexual beings and need a woman’s touch to keep them sane and grounded. But like I said exhaust dialogue before giving up. If your wife is a good listener she will do her part to make you feel relevant as her man in your relationship.

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Dear Maurice,

I am 23 years old and I am six weeks pregnant. Unfortunately the baby I’m carrying belongs to a married man and not my boyfriend. My boyfriend loves me very much but we have never had sex, because he is waiting for us to get married in the near future. We even already met each others families in preparation for our marriage. The married man says that I should carry the baby to term and that he will support and take care of it, yet we have no future together. What should I do because I love my boyfriend so much. Please help.

Maurice replies,

I will give you my opinion based on certain facts. Abortion is definitely not an option and never is in case the thought was linger in your mind. We now have a scenario where a child is involved and should be considered priority number one. You currently need resources and mental stability (no stress) until you give birth and thereafter. If you can provide for yourself and your child well and good that is your choice, that said, if indeed the father (the sperm donor) has confirmed that he will be responsible you need to consider securing that avenue. To avoid disappointments in the future I recommend that you seek legal advise. It is crucial that your child’s welfare comes first.

I do not want to dwell on your love status or point fingers but you need to realise that you made a choice to sleep with another man yet you state to love your boyfriend. The right thing to do is to be honest with your boyfriend however my concern with that is I do not know of his temperament. Your safety takes priority and regardless of how much you think you know someone you can never know how they will react to certain news. Perhaps you can break the news with someone neutral present.

If your boyfriend decides to stay by your side then the future will tell if that wedding will take place. From past experience with these scenarios I would advise strongly that you do not solely rely on your boyfriend to be by yourself always. I say this because it is common for a man to take up responsibility based on current emotional attachment only to later disclose to you that he is either no longer going to provide for your child or he has suddenly changed his mind about loving you and he wants to leave, why? Because all along through the months and years it has been eating him up that he is raising another man’s child. That is a risk that you cannot afford to take. So please legally secure your child’s future and whether you have a man in your life or not secure your future by attaining financial independence. If you are pursing further studies then make sure you complete them. If you are currently working, it is your duty to secure your job and career so that you can be self reliant.

I hope my advise has helped. If you need any further clarification do not hesitate to contact me.

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Dear Maurice,

I am mother of three. I have been in an abusive marriage for many many years, in 2010 my husband who works with the military was tested HIV positive and did not tell me, immediately I was informed by a friend, I took the test and I was negative, I never asked him but I avoided sex with him, he tried all means to have sex but I refused demanding to know his status until I decided to separate when his relatives intervened that’s when we slept in different rooms up to 2012 when he decided to tell me the truth. I then reconciled with my ex boyfriend who has a family. It was no surprise I always loved my ex. Now my husband is so depressed, he has become an alcoholic and wants to show me he has other women, he doesn’t care about his kids, do I quit?

Maurice replies,

That said, I do not support your decision to rekindle your love with your ex, why? Because he has a family like you. He has a wife and of all people you should be the last person to get involved with a married man and don’t forget you could ruin his marriage. You know how it feels to have a cheating husband so ask yourself why are you encouraging your ex lover to cheat on his wife.

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Dear Maurice,

Based on the information you have given me I believe that your reconnection led to a reunion that was bound to fail. Considering the limited time you had spent together your first error was to have unprotected sex with a man you hardly knew. Once you got pregnant he most likely felt an obligation to support you but this obligation was not based on love. Despite his suggestion to get married I believe that he was not entirely ready to become a family man hence why he is currently behaving in that manner. Two months is not an adequate period to take such a step as to plan for a family. It is unfortunate but it was circumstances that led you to your current predicament. 

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I really need your help on a certain issue I find rather disturbing considering we are in the 21st century and not the Stone Age. I am a 23 year-old student and I have a good job. I have been dating a 29-year-old guy since last month. He is a good person, but I find it hard to accommodate his requests. He insists that as his girlfriend I should iron his clothes, wash his boxers, serve him food and take it to him; clean his house and bedding among other things. In short he wants me to perform wifely duties for him. We argue a lot because clearly we are not on the same page. This man insists that women should treat their men the way he wants me to treat him. Having been raised by a single mum and with no father figure, I am not sure if what he says is true. Shouldn’t those duties be performed when one is married or almost married rather than in the infant stages of the relationship?

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Dear Maurice,

I have only been married for 9 months and already things have changed in our home. I am 26 and he is 31.

Maurice asks,

What has changed?

She replies,

My husband has been coming home at 2am and sometimes at 5am even on week days and yet he has to go to work.

Maurice asks,

Was this his character before you got married?

She replies,

In the 4 years I have known him he has always liked his outings but we were mostly together and if we were out late it was during the weekend. For some reason after our honeymoon he changed. He leaves me at home and never bothers to inform me of his whereabouts. When I text him he does not reply so I get worried. I call his phone and sometimes he answers and sometimes he does not bother. I need to ask, am I becoming the stay home wife who will eventually have to chase their man begging him to come home? If that is the case I would rather not go on and bail before a life of misery befalls me.

Maurice asks,

What does he say when you confront him?

She replies,

When he gets home most of the time it is pointless talking to him, he is drunk and when he does speak he says “we’ll talk tomorrow let me rest”. He then goes on a mission of invading that discussion. Its a circle, our sex life has been affected. There is no connection. I miss the way we were, the laughs and the way we occasionally cooked together and enjoy our wine.

Maurice asks,

Did you live together before marriage?

She replies,

No. We were dating but we did not live in the same town. Luckily the company I work for has branches around the Country so I transferred to make sure our marriage would work.

Maurice asks,

How much time did you spend together while you were dating considering you lived in different towns?

She replies,

Every other weekend one of us would visit the other and on long weekends we would milk every minute. It was fun when we were dating but currently I do not recognise the man I an living with. The only positive I can think of is the weekly flowers I receive at the office. But I would rather have his attention I don’t care much for treats. There is a weekend I was away with my girlfriends and during that whole time he did not call to check up on me, all I received was a text saying ‘safe trip love you’.

Maurice asks,

I need an honest non emotional answer, why did you get married?

She replies,

After 4 years of dating we thought it was the next step to affirming our relationship. I needed his commitment, I want a family and I can only have that with a man I am married to. Does that make sense?

Maurice replies,

Yes and no. Yes because you wanted to move your relationship to the next level as people say ‘especially women’ but no because your union affirmation was based on gaining a status in society and there lies your root problem hence your predicament. Like many women you wanted a ‘serious’ relationship, whatever that means and the variables of that type of foundation have led you to your current dilemma.

She replies,

Maurice, are you saying my husband was not ready for marriage?

Maurice replies,

No, what I am saying is that your husband most likely fulfilled your need to become a wife. For him nothing has changed, by any chance have you in any way hinted he needs to be more responsible now that he is your husband?

She replies,

I have done what any woman would do and told him that in marriage one must change and focus on other things apart from having fun and taking road trips. If we are to start a family we need to get our priorities in order.

Maurice replies,

My dear, I hear you loud and clear but the problem is that your expectations are not aligned with his. If anything based on dealing with similar cases your husband is most likely pushed away by the changes he knows he has to make to satisfy your future expectations. What you desire to move forward in your relationship makes sense but it has to be mutual for it to impact positively. For now I believe your husband has put up a fence and gone on the defensive which for many men translates to ‘keeping away’ to avoid confrontation or arguments. What was once fun has turned serious for your husband and unfortunately that has altered his mindset.

The average couple, who live together, in our modern busy World see each other 10 to 15 hours per week, and I am not talking about actual quality time. Even though you have dated for 4 years your accumulated time together in my opinion was not enough time to get into matrimony. I recommend that you seek guidance from an impartial professional so that the facts can be laid down and hopefully that platform will allow both of you to open up and state your true feelings. The outcome of that forum will steer your relationship. I am here if you need me.

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