Abusive relationship
November 3, 2014 by MauriceTherapy
Dear Maurice,
I am mother of three. I have been in an abusive marriage for many many years, in 2010 my husband who works with the military was tested HIV positive and did not tell me, immediately I was informed by a friend, I took the test and I was negative, I never asked him but I avoided sex with him, he tried all means to have sex but I refused demanding to know his status until I decided to separate when his relatives intervened that’s when we slept in different rooms up to 2012 when he decided to tell me the truth. I then reconciled with my ex boyfriend who has a family. It was no surprise I always loved my ex. Now my husband is so depressed, he has become an alcoholic and wants to show me he has other women, he doesn’t care about his kids, do I quit?
Maurice replies,
I have read about your situation and I must advise you the following. In most cases abusive spouses whether mentally or physically abusive hardly change that pattern of behavior. If they do it is normally a short lived change to keep you from leaving. Consider yourself lucky that you were told of your husband’s HIV status and that you then refused to give into his sexual demands without confirmation of his health status.
That said, I do not support your decision to rekindle your love with your
ex, why? Because he has a family like you. He has a wife and of all people you should be the last person to get involved with a married man and don’t forget you could ruin his marriage. You know how it feels to have a cheating husband so ask yourself why are you encouraging your ex lover to cheat on his wife.
At this point you need to terminate that relationship with your ex. Regarding your husband’s drinking problem and depression you can choose to help him through it out of the love or care you currently have for him. On the other hand if you are not willing to be there for your husband anymore you can consult with your extended family, his parents perhaps, and let them care for him and you can move on with your life. You have decisions to make and they won’t be easy however if you do leave do not sever the relationship between your children and their father, if they want to see their Dad let them do so under your supervision.
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Dear Maurice,
ex, why? Because he has a family like you. He has a wife and of all people you should be the last person to get involved with a married man and don’t forget you could ruin his marriage. You know how it feels to have a cheating husband so ask yourself why are you encouraging your ex lover to cheat on his wife.
Order your vigrx plus today.
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