Dear Maurice,
I have been an ardent reader of your blog but I have also been a skeptic regarding your teachings. The reason why I say this is because the more I read about your articles on sexuality I realise that as a proud Kikuyu man I have certain values that I uphold. I was married for 18 years. My wife was 22 years old when we got married and I strongly believe that I lost her to civilisation. I am worried for our African identity.
Maurice replies,
Explain.
He replies,
In my opinion, what you write about is almost fictional and cannot be sustained in a marriage. For instance, this squirting business asserts a lot of pressure on the man, it is not our duty to please women, it is the duty of women to please us as the superior being. Even religiously the man is the dominant one but you seem to endorse empowerment of women. The worst thing to happen in the last decade was the empowerment of women. Women are not our equal. I may sound out dated but the truth is many men agree with me that women nowadays are acting like men. How do you live with such a person! Women were always there to be seen but not heard. Today they have a voice and due to their malicious character they are causing men to die due to stress related ailments. Many are not even wives but gold diggers.
My wife used to read a lot of these women’s magazines and was influenced by other women, and because she was the sharing type she would shock me with topics of love making, I would then pretend to be interested to avoid being called ignorant. When your wife reads that there is a possibility to attain multiple orgasms she expects those results at home and to be perfectly honest it is not practical. I was a great provider as she used to say but it was still not good enough for her because she left me because I refused to reform as she expected. Now she displays her toy boy publicly with no shame. These young men are being used by older women you should be stopping such behaviour.
My wife would ask me to do some odd things, there was no way I was licking her private parts, that is not even natural. And how can a woman suck my penis and expect me to kiss her after! This is not an attack on you but on civilisation which has given you the knowledge that you so passionately share on your blog but that knowledge belongs in the Western World where I believe you gained your education. In my village in Muranga no man would entertain the sex you write about. A woman’s job is to be submissive and pleasure her man period.
Maurice replies,
My question to you is simple. For a man who is against what you call civilisation, how is it that you were comfortable with fellatio (oral sex given to a man)? After all fellatio according to your sentiments must be a western culture sex act and yet you received it, is receiving a blow job a natural act? If you are such a cultured conservative man then where did you learn about fellatio? Do your fellow villagers endorse your tolerance for fellatio? You, my good man are the man I describe as the ‘double standards man’. You have one set of rules for your home and another for the social arena. I may be speculating but I can bet you would not reject sex from a random attractive woman. Again I speculate that you are probably that man who enforces rules on your wife like washing her vagina before you have sex with her and yet when you are in the social realm you will suck/lick a random vagina without questioning where that vagina has been. We are in 2014, in an era where science is making our day to day life easier and opening our eyes to effective forms of sexual pleasure. My advice, adapt or be left behind. The true is this, what one person will not do for you sexually, another will do gladly and with much passion. Your other option is to go deep into the jungles of Congo and find yourself a unexposed virgin. The only problem I foresee with that option is if you introduce her to modern life she will adapt and unless you cage her (which is illegal) she will learn much from her female peers and soon enough she will be demanding for sexual satisfaction.
Time waits for no man and the modern day vagina will not wait for you to snap out of your conservative cocoon.
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hahahaha I like the jungles of Congo comment
That is why the guy talks of past tense in reference to the wife…..and yes, he is not civilized if he lost her to civilization. If you don’t trEAT your woman right, another one will
I must be that young guy he is talking about. I am 23 in an affair with a married woman who is 35. She likes how I give it.
This guy is giving Muranga men a bad name. We all do not subscribe to his school of thought. Kwani this guy did not get the memo!
I am married to one of those, Maurice how do you change such a man’s mind set or am I wishing for a miracle?
Cecilia pole sana…Only change will change him…
If this fellow man from Muranga understands clear meaning of the word civilization, why would he complain again? Its so unfortunate he willingly refused to listen to his wife. Now face the hurdle Sir.
Maurice where do I meet men who think like you. I want to get married but I am afraid of being a victim to such a man.
Utter rubbish! My hubby is a Murang’a man and he pleases me. Don’t use that as an excuse for your backward thinking. I have had a healthy sex life where we mutually please and satisfy each other. There are days when I spoil him and days when he spoils me. If this man and so many out there were open to pleasing their women, they would still be married in stead of their wives screwing guys young enough to be their sons. Some men need to grow up!
This Kikuyu man has lost it and yet he’s complaining? I guess he has not learned his lessons. The fact is women evolve sexually faster than men. Most men wanna indulge in fellatio or cunnilingus and all sorts of oral sex outside home, but not with their lovely wives. Be a role player, spontaneous, free spirited, open minded and reciprocate when it comes to sex. If a woman is not a saint outside and a tigress freak in the bedroom, with a cougar instinct to conquer her territory, then what you call modern civilization robbing your woman is a myth to me. Get in or out. Play the game or be played.