Hi readers,
Just the other week, I had the pleasure of having a one on one session with a delightful woman who was also a superb host. Like with all my sessions, we broke the ice with
stimulating conversation that more or less covered all manner of social dynamics that define relationships today. We touched on the fact that matrimony has evolved but not for the better. In relation to men out there, I pointed out that all men will never be equal financially and unfortunately in most cases depending on social circles a man is not defined by his character but by his wallet. As we sipped our wine, setting the mood for what was to come later that night, I asked her the following questions.
1) What is your view on today’s marriage?
Today’s marriage is largely based on what either party has to offer unlike the traditional values of love, trust and loyalty. Women have been conditioned to be children bearers and hence they feel their spouses must in part compensate then for this responsibility. If I must bear you children, then you have to make the effort to ensure I am well taken care of, I drive a decent car, have a monthly allowance and live in a suburb that will not make my friends cringe when I give them directions to my home. Let’s call a spade a spade. Marriage has become a convenience. Examples: For the perks of work, that single man/woman who can’t get a promotion due to his marital status. 2) That son who has been unduly pressured by family and /or friends 3) By reason of age/science standards.
2) What about the guy who earns 100k and is finding it hard to keep up with the demand of women. Who will marry him?
Woe unto the guy who is earning 100k and is dating from the pool of women who are earning more than he is. (Seeing as they are more sane compared to the “honey I need 5k for my rent kind of girls”). Not to say that he is written off, but let’s face it, the kind of standards the woman he wants has, he can’t afford to keep up with.
3) So in your opinion the woman who is not accustomed to the Wilson airport charter a flight lifestyle will most likely stray/cheat on her ‘good caring man’ who in the pecking order of men is socially and financially inferior?
Absolutely!! Sorry to sound selfish but every woman wants to be spoiled silly and enjoy the finer things in life. Trust me, if she could get away with it without her “loving man” knowing, it’s a go!
4) What is your opinion on the young women who want to start life with a self made man and not the ‘servant’s quarter’ aka SQ guy who in 10 years could be the self made man but with the push of a woman?
As a woman who has done that before, I’d say this would be largely an individual choice. Ideally, it should be the way to go, but also there’s the off chance of having the man, once “getting to the top” flipping the card on the woman who helped him achieve success and going for a more “corporate & refined ” woman.
5)What’s your opinion on the ‘sponsor’, should women endorse such titles without considering their man could be the sponsor?
Sponsor. Allow me to laugh. This is a word coined by lazy, spoilt women who have no ambition and solely rely on a man for a season of luxury living in exchange for sex. This same women have no voice because they are totally dependent on the so called sponsors to fund their every need.
Mature, adult women who work hard to make a living do not need to have a sponsor in order to live in luxury. They have the choice of funding their own luxury lifestyle or picking from men who want to, and can afford to treat them to the finer things of life. They, have a choice in how they are treated and will not hesitate to discard a man who remotely seems to want to ‘misbehave’.
6)The Instagram culture where young women dominate, what’s your view on the social impact?
It saddens me to see how the social world defines a young woman. Unless she is half naked, partying endlessly, wearing the latest designer garb, she’s looked upon as “the chick that’s not with it”.
Parents should raise their young women to applaud and take pride in their identity, regardless of the social trends. These trends are temporary and as such shouldn’t be taken seriously. The need to instill virtue and originality has never been more crucial as it is now.
And there you have it. A woman’s view on the social dynamics and trends that mold much of our society today. When a single woman is seeking out a potential partner it is alarming
that knowledge of his character is not top of her list and yet this is a character she may have to live with day in day out. With questions like; what does he drive, what does he do and how much money does he make being on the top of her list then its no wonder the criteria ends up not favouring the woman and yet the man ‘the beast’ she married is providing all her luxuries and comforts but later after the dust has settled she realises that even though she is the kind of woman who would rather cry in a Range Rover than be happy on a scooter, that Range Rover is hardly seen on their driveway, why, because her man ‘the beast’ aka husband is busy showcasing another woman in the Range Rover. Please note, she has never cried in the Range Rover but some other woman is experiencing orgasmic spasms in the back seat. The same seat where the children sit. I know, not the best of visuals right! But facts are facts despite people pretending these dynamics don’t occur.
Ladies, ladies, ladies…. some of you may hate to hear the truth but if you ask women who have been through the trials of relationships that went from rosy to sour. They will tell you that ‘yes’ money is great, riches and wealth are everyone’s goal but at what cost. Do not go out there in search of a ‘rich guy’ or as others put it, a guy with cheddar. Why, in most cases he will belong to some other woman, and perhaps you don’t care, after all women are their own worst enemies. Women have upgraded ‘back stabbing’. But ‘wait’, the man in question ‘the sponsor’ could be your Dad or boyfriend or husband. DO NOT endorse a societal title like ‘a sponsor’ and later complain when your man becomes the sponsor. It is just unfortunate that most women will crave the taste of sudden riches, women who never cultivate but love to harvest, only to be dragged through the mud by the self made man who only played the ‘loving card’ for his own benefits knowing at some point your expiry date would come.

anything (which includes being more liberal sexually) to get him to view you as a sexual mate then call me. He has to see a revamped you, a much more confident woman, you must engage his primal instinct to mate and at that junction you will cease to be merely his wife but a woman who excites him sexually and stands out from the rest.





ths ago but I fear she is playing me with some guy who keeps dropping her at my place.

a man came to our office and complimented my look and the stare he gave me made me want to do him right there. At that moment, I was not a mother of two, I was not the woman who doubted herself, neither was I the woman who felt she had added weight. I felt sexy and my confidence was way up there.




helpful with my negative attitude but you never gave up. How you got my husband to agree to meet you until today it still puzzles me. I suppose as a man you are in a unique place to understand a man’s thinking. The journey was long especially for me who almost gave up on 11 years. You got us through the rough and into a relationship full of bliss through your blunt truths that got us thinking about the fact that our intimacy was non existent because we forgot how to be friends and most importantly as you put it, we forgot how to flirt and made our day to day life an extremely formal one. Four months down the line with your guidance we finally got to do something I never thought possible, not with my husband anyway. We got to experience package 6. What an experience.
hubby made me orgasm and squirt ‘twice’ for the very first time. After we left the session we went for a drink and had a long moment of silence to digest what we had just experienced. That was one of the best moments I have had with my husband in a long while. I now believe that the experiences that you offer through your packages are also a great way of determining whether a couple is willing to do anything to salvage their relationship or marriage. It was definitely a test for us and we passed with flying colours. It is almost unbelievable to think we got through it without a separation. I had told my husband for years that one day I would up and leave. Thankfully you gave us options when we first met at our first session. You made it very clear that if one of us was psychologically out of the marriage, it was time to come clean and stop wasting the others time. That statement hit us both hard but we appreciated your approach. Maurice, you are extremely passionate about your job and your confidence shows as speak your mind at your sessions, telling it as it is. That is refreshing and in my opinion this is your calling.
not of the ‘selfish’ mentality and are more driven by their goal to achieve a new sexual skill set to guarantee they will never ever ask their woman if she is satisfied because by application the results will be evident. Unless you are satisfied with procreational sex of which I do not recommend. It is every woman’s sexual right to orgasm otherwise what is the point of having sex.
helped her I was skeptical at first but thought to myself that I had nothing lose. Booking you for our private sessions was a life changer for me. My attitude towards sex has changed, a complete 360. My self esteem is somewhere I never thought possible. I know I was a bit stubborn at our first session and I thank you for not giving up on me. I was both shocked and over the moon when I squirted. For the first time I felt the intensity of and orgasm and as you recall I cried. It was a very emotional moment for me because for too long I had been made to believe I was the problem. Three months after our last session I can confidently say that I am a renewed woman who is enjoying life, I feel sexy, for the first time in my life I can walk around my apartment in my lingerie or naked and even my girls have noticed a new me. Initially I did not understand what you meant regarding a positive sexual mindset but now I know. It has impacted my life greatly and I guess its the reason why I no longer have weird mood swings. I have told all my pretentious friends to seek your services. They say they are fine and yet they are in a similar relationships as I was.
rs back. He is so open minded and currently he is the man I am exploring with. I cannot believe I am telling you this but I ‘came’ 5 times, shock on us, the bed was soaked but it was amazing. The man cannot stop calling me, am loving every minute. I have one more item in my bucket list, I will be trying out package 5 in March. Matheka, I am so damn curious it has to happen in March. Until then, stay well.
you!
n because their men were failing in the bedroom. When women described your practical sessions you could sense the tension and I guess my curiosity grew from there. I wanted to know the real you, the man behind the man, and what a night it was. I never thought the things you showed me were possible. I thought squirting was a myth, that bed was soaked and the the tongue thing was bellissimo. You remember the look on my face when I received that call, only if I had a choice you and I would still be at it. Are you still game about fulfilling my other fantasy?
was in the office when he called the other day and he made me touch myself. I was so wet, I hurried to the bathroom and aroused myself. This man is doing things to me that I never thought possible. There was no one sexual before my husband. I love my husband but I really love what this other man does to me. How can one feeling be stronger then my vows, how can it make me priorities on a singular craving?
