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Dear Maurice,

I selfishly waited till this Sunday to write to you with the feedback you had asked for, why, because I want my story to be the last blog of 2012 please roleplay IIIplease please let be. Ok, the feedback, where do I start, I am glad I met you at my friend’s bridal shower. My hubby and I are happy with our newly found bedroom games. The handcuff set and french maid costume have done wonders for both myself and my hubby, Its strange but it is such little changes that make a difference, well they have for my marriage. Our sex life is no longer boring. Its not just about intercourse then we sleep. That was such a boring routine for far too long. Luckily for us that is our past, there’s lots of role play and foreplay. After 9 years of marriage and knowing a man for 12 years I had no idea that my hubby had a fetish and I did not know he had a kinky side. He actually likes to be tied up so you can imagine the cuffs are coming handy. Speaking of cuffs weroleplay II need another set, which he will pay for this time round, he wants to be tired completely ‘you know’. He likes playing the slave and to be dominated and whipped. He even has this sexy submissive voice, what a new sexual perspective wow! Personally I love the blind fold and whip. It is such a overwhelming sensation to perform doggy ‘my favorite position’ while blind folded. I really don’t know how it works but your advise to blind fold me and concentrate on nothing else but the way my hubby thrusts my vagina has given me the ability to kind of make myself create an orgasm, does that make sense! We have also made sure that all windows are closed in our bedroom and I don’t know if its psychological or not but the warmth in the room has really made a difference. Oh and I love the current sweaty episodes. I am trying to remember what other feedback is relevant. Oh oh yes, we tried the yoghurt thing. A bit messy at first but we got the hang of things after a few trials. My G’s I did not know how sensitive I was between my toes, hubby has been more than willing to lick in-between my toes after applying the yoghurt and it is sensational, Maurice thank you. I have always thought he liked natural yoghurt, surprise on me he likes banana flavor, sorry the coconut did not work roleplayfor him but who cares rite. Applying your Y dotted yoghurt formation on my body and hubby has been licking me slowly from head to toe, I never thought what happens in movies would actually one day take place in our bedroom.  The foreplay is great, my french maid role play as I cook and serve dinner makes me feel sexy and to see my hubby desire me is indescribable. In short Maurice, hubby and I have loved each other for all these years but your input has definitely made us reconnect sexually. We can’t thank you enough. I asked hubby to make a comment on your blog but he said I give you the thumbs up instead. You men and your egos I will never understand.  I will keep you posted and we will keep being adventurous and try out some of the role playing ideas you gave us. Thank you again.

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Anal Sex

Over the many years I have been asked about the safest way to have anal sex anal sex4without having to hurt her. Well, the first thing you need is patience. A virgin ass is delicate, I am tempted to use the word ‘fragile’. It is not an easy task and remember it is supposed to be enjoyable to the one receiving. And do not worry, if you are nervous about anal sex you are completely normal.

Now let me take you down memory lane 16 years back and tell you how I handled my first ever attempt to de-virgin a girl’s ass. Yes I was young, a bit of a novice, but I had the general principles mentally engraved on my mind. I knew the first few sessions would consists of gentle, patient anal finger penetrations before my penis was ever going to receive a piece of the action!

It was vital for me to make sure the girl was relaxed and comfortable. One of the best ways to achieve that status is to have her empty her bowels ‘no do not over anal sex starterfeed her’ that’s cruel, and give her a good rub down as she takes a shower or soaks in the tub. She felt clean and sexy after, that’s always a benefit. Depending on how freaky she can get it is beneficial for the girl to play with herself, to get herself in the mental mood, to get her juices flowing, to get herself warmed up and you ‘the man’ can play with her clit to help her get there a bit faster, but remember there’s no hurry, lets take our time and do this right.

So here we go. I recall we engaged in a lot of anal play which meant I lubed up my fingers and began to play with her anus entryanal sex1 point, trust me with all the nerve ends at that area, the pleasure even without penetration is intense and she actually had a rush of sensations and without realising it eventually she had a premature orgasm. She particularly enjoyed it more when a placed a 4 speed vibrator against her anus. The moans were intense and thrilling for novice me. Though it is not mandatory to use sex toys they are just an added bonus to the journey of pleasure. After anal play using my well lubricated fingers (latex cloves can be used) I embarked on my first ‘finger penetration’. It is very important to remember that once penetration has been reached ALL MOVEMENT MUST BE STOPPED, why? so that the girl can adjust to the newly introduced foreign anomaly and the sensations that follow. After about 2 minutes I began to wiggle my finger gently rubbing and touching her rectum walls. The sensation caused her to orgasm within minutes which was both surprising to me and her at the time. So our first and second sessions went ok and so did our third and that is the time when after getting used to 3 well lubricated fingers she asked for the real deal. anal sex3Remember there’s nothing like too much lubrication. Lubrication is great, it limits friction and makes entry much easier. Once I gained entry, I knew that it was crucial for her to take control of the motions and I just stood still with my penis inside her and she started to move her body back and forth in the doggy position. I was not expecting what happened next and all I remember is hearing her say “it’s coming”, I was excited but at the same time I wondered ‘what was coming’…. you get my drift. Thankfully it was to be one of the most intense orgasms she had ever experienced, she then yelled don’t move and there again she ‘came’ in full control still moving back and forth at her pace. Its the first time that I felt like a organic dildo. I had an erection but was powerless, not in control but enjoying every moment ‘as you would’. This was to be one of my many learning curves of the art of patience and the art of reading a woman’s reactions, her body language, how she likes it, at what pace and at what point I should take control or not.

Many women who discover anal sex have testified to having the best orgasms and all due to nerve endings that are tapped during anal sex. While having intercourse penis girth all lubed up adds to the pleasure.

Recommended positions to begin with while using the fingers is in theanal sex2 missionary position with her legs suspended and spread as if giving birth.  Some women believe it or not prefer the guy sat on the bed with his back on the headrest and she in the girl on-top position. When the vagina and penis are lubricated women have managed to enjoy their first in the girl on-top position. They normally drench the shaft with lub then hold the shaft and slowly, very slowly slide it in like the slowest guided missile ever!

It is important to note that during your anal trial sessions you will also be enticed to have sex and forget about the anal session, that’s fine, everything takes time. Enjoy the journey, make her comfortable and she will thank you for every moment you have been patiently by her side.

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To my readers,

I can only tell you two things, enjoy to the maximum and don’t drink too much otherwise you may end up in bed with the wrong person!

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Let us all be merry together. Santa can knock on my door any day!

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Enjoy those finger licking moments…. as you know I am a big fan of ‘yoghurt moments’, a chocolate bar or syrup will also do the trick…. if you get my drift.

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Be spoilt for choice this holiday….

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Avoid these kind of moments, unless you have a kinky fetish…. I love the image and sound of a woman peeing…. I know!!!! naughty me…..

sexy santa mugshotLastly, in-case you find yourself on the wrong side of the law, try and avoid this mug shot.

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Dear Maurice,

Firstly, I want to wish you a Merry Merry Christmas. I have actually met you but we will get to that after I vent a little so please allow to do so. I have given my heart and soul to my man for 6 years and I have received nothing butreadytosquirt1 heartache after heartache. Thankfully we only have one child so I give provide without his petty cash that he thinks so highly of. My husband has been involved in multiple affairs always saying sorry and that he will never do it again. He has even blamed it on drinking, peer pressure, stress from work which I thought should reduce a man’s libido not throw him towards the nearest slut at our local. Speaking of our local, 5 years ago he hooked up with then a close girlfriend of mine and they had plenty of drinks and ended up in our bed. I was away at the time but the evidence and signs of a woman were all over our bed. Imagine he was too lazy to even change the sheets. Honesty if you are going to do something do it right with a bit of player flare. Anyway my main reason of writing to you is to remind you of readytosquirtpussya bridal shower in September in Kileleshwa where you miraculously made 7 of my girlfriends squirt but I was the only one that gave you a hard time due to my mental state. I am sorry it was actually the thoughts of my marriage collapsing that made it so difficult for me to concentrate, though I must admit your finger did touch the spot, how you do it I have no idea, and the tingly peeing feeling was new and rather exciting but it only lasted about a minute then I zoned out. I know you make plenty of women squirt but you must remember that particular shower.

By the way the girls are still talking about that night, it was a session never to be forgotten. I am not hitting on you but I envy who ever you are “mingling” with or dating. A man who does not need explanation he just knows where and how to touch. squirtebony Which leads me to my next point. I am so ready to learn how to squirt. I have decided to make life about me first and my friends agree its about time. I love my child but mummy needs some excitement in her life too. If you are free on the 2nd or 3rd week of January 2013 I would like to tentatively book you for a weekend slot, like a Friday evening. I know your fee I just need to sort out a venue that’s affordable, any suggestions? By the way, unless they already got back to you with feedback, 2 of the girls have achieved the recently thought impossible squirting with their men. Well done Maurice you are delivering results. I have a question for you. How were you so sure that most of us at the shower would be able to squirt, like I said there’s a lot of chatter about your magic finger and I want to know where the confidence comes from?

Maurice replies,

It’s years of passion and research into the realm of the female body. If you implant a positive thought or a thought of positive encouragement or curiosity then the likelihood is that the odds will favour you. Prior to the session you all knew that I was going to teach you how to squirt so you mentally prepared for it and made individual decisions on whether to go with the flow or decline. The only variables I can not control are the negative thoughts that may linger from your brain’s frontal lobes. Like I always say, there’s a science to most great things.

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Naughty NurseFrench Maid frontPlease visit Mary’s shop she has plenty of bedroom related products plus she is now stocking the Nurse and French Maid costumes

DO NOT miss out, I know the minute I post this people will rush to call and book their costume or visit the shop,  after-all this Christmas it is time to get sexier.

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And when you do play kinky, play safe…. do not cuff your partner to the bed and disappear for a few hours….

Let the spanking begin….

I wonder who is spanking me this Christmas…. oh yah that blind fold ‘I have a few ideas’

 

So call Mary on 0731495485, her shop is on Biashara Street.

*To the Men, make an effort and go visit the shop and buy your woman something for Christmas.

The last time I imported sexy costumes they sold like hot cakes ‘thanks to you’ and now my Naughty Nurseconsignment has arrived. Women love to feel sexy and every woman should feel sexy and men too love sexy outfits on women and especially those that come in the costumes designs like Naughty Nurse, French Maid, Police Woman, Sexy Bunny, Kinky School Girl and many more. However I must say that out of the above the costumes that were most popular were the Naughty Nurse and the French Maid. Free size costumes, they will fit size 10 to 12.

Naughty Nurse is Ksh3,000 inclusive of courier

This xmas every woman needs to feel extra sexy and I am very sure there are plenty of holiday getaways planned for the season and many of us men will love to see a woman (whether she belongs to us or not) all dressed up in a slinky costume. So as the season is here order your costume NOW before they are SOLD OUT.

For those who had pre-ordered do not worry I have kept your costumes aside. French Maid frontFrench Maid back

mmmmmmmmhhhhh…. I can just imagine what will be taking place in many resorts, hotel rooms, lodges in the wilderness this season.

French Maid is Ksh2,500 inclusive of courier

Oh, how can I not mention that I also imported a Kama Sutra cuff set so that you can cuff each other to the bed or wherever…. I know some of you are very freaky like that….

The cuff set includes: Fur handcuffs, Blind fold and a whip. Cuff Set is ksh2,300 inclusive of courier. I can hear the men OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERArole playing in their minds…. “honey I have been a bad naughty boy, I need to be punished, cuff me!!!!” and the girl says “baby blind fold me then lick me all over and after…. take me from behind hmmmmm damn, is it hot or is it just me”

So let the games begins….

I am only selling the above via this media. If you wish to make an order please text me your physical address and mpesa me, 0720229351. You will then receive the product within 48hours. Most deliveries are received the next day by midday. Order NOW while stocks last.

If you are in Nairobi call Mary on 0731495485. She is now stocking the above items.

HAVE A FREAKY & KINKY HOLIDAY THIS SEASON.

Lactating boobs….

Dear Maurice,

After my wife introduced me to your blog it has been quite the fascination, well done. Now boss, I wanted you to confirm to me that I am not a weird guy and iflactating man suck I am what makes me like the things that I do. My wife and I have been together for 8 years, I totally adore that woman and I am blessed to have her in my life. Let me get to the point. We have 3 kids. During her first pregnancy I was clueless about women hormones and sexual desires or lack of so I kept my distance but I noticed I was aroused by her pregnant shape. I don’t know why but I would gain the hardest boner wherever we were, that if I stared at her and went into this zone. Then came the day we attempted to have sex while she was still pregnant, I was always worried about the child so my concentration was limited. In-short during her pregnancy sex lactating boob3was more for her but all that changed once she gave birth and she breasts were full of milk. I wish my wife could lactate all the time without adding the babies, it would be heaven on earth. Her breasts became a big part of  our foreplay, their fully rounded shape just turns me on, and during sex I would want her onto so that they hang downwards and slap my face around as I play with them. Because they are full of milk that bulky feel on my palms just turns me on. As I throb her and she moans, at that point I lactating boob2 usually squeeze her breasts till they squirt milk all over me, ooooh boss I love that visual and the milk is sweet. I can squeeze them for hours. Why does that squirting of the milk on my face on my chest arouse me so much, I have found that I can maintain an erection without ejaculation for much longer when I am playing with her breasts and enjoying the milking spraying all over me. My wife one day told me that she loves it too, that was the best day of my life, she loves the relief I give her when I suck on them.

Is this normal?

Maurice replies,

I must admit even for me it was a turn on just reading your story. When women are overly excited/aroused their breasts easily squirt milk, the mental picture in itself is awesome. My good man ‘normal’ is lactating boobs1relative, it is a massive fetish with many men around the World but unfortunately many will never get to play it out in fear that their partners may not understand their excitement. While playing with them and squeezing a man’s primary visual cortex activates his limbic system and all those feel good juices are released. I have that fetish too, the visual of squirting milk from loaded breasts is a massive turn on. So you are not weird, it is your fetish and you are very lucky that you have an open minded sexually compatible wife who enjoys the thrill as much as you do.

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Husband’s confession

Dear Maurice,

I have been married to my husband for 4 years. We have no kids yet but I know we are deeply in-love with each other. That said our sex life has always been lacking. I had dated 2 other guys before my husband and in comparison my laptop fantasyhusband lacks the endurance and mental will to satisfy me. It takes me almost 30 minutes or more to get me there and from reading your sex blogs I know I don’t have a problem it’s just that I have a high sex drive and like you normally point out, sex is about the journey not the destination, I love to be driven and stimulated before I eventually climax. I know over the years he has really put in his best but it has never been enoughgirl on girl fantasy to make me cum. Last month hence why I am writing to you my husband surprised me with a revelation. He disclosed that he knew he had never satisfied me in bed and before I could utter any words feeling sorry for him, he gently said that I do not need to feel sorry for him nor should I explain myself. He then further surprised me by revealing that he had stumbled upon a certain folder on my laptop and immediately my face was rushed by a feeling of worry because I knew exactly what folder he was talking about.

He calmly said “baby I know that you have certain fantasies”, he posed, and if those fantasies are real for you I am going to experience them with you. strap on coupleMaurice he had found a folder that contained girl on girl porn and for years I had used it to masturbate whenever the opportunity presented itself. Little did I know that more surprises were in-store for me. In the porn he had seen the girls fucking each other using strap-ons and to my shock my husband had sourced a strap-on, from where he refuses to say, but who cares. Maurice I saw a degree of devotion in my husband that I had never seen. He was willing to swallow his male pride and do anything to satisfy me. I do not think you can fathom what that meant to me.

My husband strapped up and turned me around, removed my panty with his teeth, put me in the doggy position and fucked me senseless, he gave it to me to the point I was screaming so loud my close neighbour and friend actually heard my cries and she wondered what was different on that particular night, I later explained. Maurice I was dripping wet, I had cum multiple times and my legs were hanging on to dear live as he pounded me with all his might. That night he was determined to be my sexual slave, and gladiator all in one.

That night was full of passion, selflessness, erotic intent and I loved my husband even more for proving to be more of a man than I ever thought possible.

Please use one of my photos that I emailed you. Thanks Maurice.

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Hi Maurice,

I just love your work it has really influenced my life. How you may ask, well since I started reading your blog and hearing stories about your sessions from friends who had attended I have come to rely on you work to believe that i am not weird or perverted. You know how our African society can be so primitive in condemning anything that does not conform to customs and traditions. It is unfortunate but there are millions out there, I think anyway, that would do with reading you blog so that they can understand that sexuality differs from one person to the other. I want to share a bit about how you have made me embrace my sexuality. I am 26 and I have dated 5 guys but only had sex with 2 of them. I have always known that I was bi curious and boy did I connect with your bi curious article, I so related in many levels. Anyway to my story.

I was at the Coast 4 months ago on some work assignment and I happened to reside there for 6 unforgettable weeks. One day I was taking a walk on the beach and from a far something caught my eye. As I walked close it became more evident that I was staring at what I can only describe as seduction. I walked up to her and said hi and she said hello back. We then began chatting as we walked further down the coast line. I had a beach wrap on and she wore a bikini and a tiny t-shirt. She looked so amazing I can’t quite put it in words. Finally we got to a spot where we could sun bathe.

I helped her lay her towel on the sand and there as if in slow motion she tossed wet tshirt river girlher bikini top onto her towel and then her perfect thumbs when into her bikini bottoms and with perfect grace she took them off. Maurice I marveled at her shape, oh my g’s she was naked, her breasts free from confinement were stunning. They were round and even, not small and not overly big, they were the right fit to her shape. What a curvy body and her nipples OMG, her nipples stood at attention yet the sun was scorching hot, not a cold breeze insight. In my mind I just wanted to suck them and I hoped my facial expression would not sell me out. The sun was getting hotter and she offered to rub me down with lotion I quickly accepted, her touch was out of this World, she spoke to me as she massaged me but truth be told I was in a alternate universe wet tshirt malta girl storysoaking up every stroke of her soft firm motions. Wow its getting hot in here Maurice. I then applied lotion on her worried that I would not give her the same effect but as I was done she leaned over to my side and kissed me, she whispered “don’t say a thing” and proceeded to do things to me that I only saw in movies. She touched me in those arousal zones you speak of, she sucked on my c cup breast and my nipples hardened and I got so wet, I could feel the wetness soaking into my panty as I touched myself, she whispered “I like your body” and I was so turned on and as soon as she went down on me I came twice from there on I was lost in erotic paradise, Maurice I am using your words, I’ve been a good student don’t you think :-), I could continue with the beach experience but that night we had dinner over looking the beach and little did we know we were staying at neighbouring Hotel. Our fling lasted one month then she had to fly back home to Malta. Her dad is from Malta and her mum Kenyan. We still keep in touch and she is due to visit me after the new year when she has some free time. She is a diving instructor who loves to vacation in Mombasa, specifically the South Coast.

I never ever thought I would be able to open up and share my fantasy and I surely never thought it would come true. Maurice Matheka thank you so so much for giving me this platform to share and for giving me the courage to explore my sexuality. I owe you a coffee date and I won’t take no for an answer. Hint hint I have never squirted, to do list pap!

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Maurice, my partner and I recently started having sexual intercourse after dating for 4 months. He has a lot of girth to his penis so there’s a lot of vaginal wall friction. Another problem is that I am on a low estrogen birth control and have difficulties with vaginal lubrication, but he doesn’t like to use lubrication. Is there anything I can do to make it easier for us, and easier for me to get lubricated vaginally?

It can be challenging enough to find a partner who is attractive, smart, interesting, exciting, and compatible. To find someone who has all of these african sweet pussyqualities, and whose body fits with one’s own, can be an even bigger challenge. Fortunately, human beings are adaptive. We look for ways to make our lives and our bodies fit comfortably with that of our partner.

Because estrogen is associated with vaginal lubrication, some women do notice a change in their vaginal lubrication when they use a low dose estrogen birth control pill.

Then again, many women notice differences in their vaginal lubrication throughout their menstrual cycle and regardless of whether or not they are using a hormonal method of birth control.

If you would like to try another type of pill, or another form of birth control, to see if it makes a difference to your vaginal lubrication, ask your general practitioner or gynecologist about your options.

Many women find that they can enhance their ability to become “wet” through vaginal lubrication by spending more time doing the kinds of things that they fingeringfind sexually arousing prior to indulging in vaginal penetration, whether that means sexual intercourse, fingering (self stimulus), or by using a toy like the famous rabbit, emissary rabbit, g-spot finder and bullet. For many couples, this means spending more time in the sensual act of foreplay. More time spent kissing, licking, vacuum sucking, touching over and over and over and over, under the clothes, breast touching, back massages, or time spent doing things to your partner’s body that you find exciting or arousing. This can be an opportune moment to bring out the yoghurt “don’t you think”.

For some couples, it may also be worth exploring your feelings about your partner, as you didn’t mention how you feel about him. Are you romantically or sexually attracted to him?

It may be worth sitting down and talking with your partner, during a time when you are not about to have sex and sharing with each other what you each find exciting, arousing and most pleasurable as part of your sexual play.

When a woman becomes sexually aroused, vaginal lubrication tends to increase and a process called vaginal tenting occurs whereby the uterus tips upward, making the vagina grow in length and width, it blossoms, such a spectacular phenomena, allowing more room for a sizable penis, a girthy penis.

It is worth noting that although there is some amount of vaginal expansion that occurs with sexual intercourse, the fact that you have limited sexual intercourse experience is not to “blame” in terms of sex being uncomfortable for you two, and your vagina is extremely unlikely to enlarge permanently as a result of having sex with your new partner.

The vagina is muscular and tends to return to its typical size internally, even though the labia minora itself may slightly enlarge with sexual experience or other types of experience such as vaginal birth. Though it eventually contracts.

Also, as wondrous a process as vaginal tenting may be, there is a limit to the amount of tenting that occurs. A vagina can only grow so much.

If your partner’s size is considerable in relation to your body, then a personal lubricant may be necessary in terms of enhancing your pleasure, minimizing discomfort or pain, or simply making intercourse possible at all.

That said,  lubricants vary considerably in terms of their consistency and it may be that you two might want to try different types of lubricants so that you can find one that feels good for both of you.

More important than penis size, is its functionality. It is known that a membergirthy penis gone through some form of intervention is more prone to erectile dysfunction in the future due to the growing need for blood to maintain an erection. Also, the risk of needing future treatment is much greater.

Bottom line, you do not want to jeopardize your male health. Another interesting fact is the woman’s sexual anatomy. The vagina has depths ranging from 9 to 12 cm. Most nerve endings related to sexual pleasure ‘the G-spot’ are just at the entrance. The thickness of the penis becomes more important.

In addition, the penis to the cervix in women causes discomfort, although the girthy sexvagina can increase internal size because of its greater elasticity when excited. Another key issue is the opinion of women on the subject. As much as most of the time who say cliches like “size does matter,  it is the work” in many cases size matters, yes, but it depends on the woman. Start by seeing your partner’s penis, and in view of the most talented member is associated with virility and performance. The opposite occurs when penis is small. So, how the penis girth comes to play here? The sense of accomplishment for women is also important, as there is a big boost by sensual rhythmic friction where girth rubs against the vaginal walls.
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