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Hi Maurice,

I am and have been a massive fan of yours for 2 years now. I read all your blogs but the ones that fascinate me are those related to sex. My husband and I are on our 5th year of marriage. Our marriage has had it bumps I guess that is common but I am thankful that I have an open minded husband. And we both  have a kinky side. You are probably wondering why I am writing to you and what my issue is. There is no issue really. After reading erotic sex for couples, erotic outdoors and the female exhibitionism blog my husband and I got a bit wild and tried out a few things we read like fucking in our garden. I would like to say he made love to me but the truth is he fucks me and I am not complaining at all. For me it was at first weird and scary but now it is a thrill to be fucked in the out doors and for him it was a discovery of something you wrote about. My husband loves to have people watch us doing it. He can’t explain it but he says it has always been there but he never quite knew what it was until the day we had sex in our garden. We suspect neighbours have seen us. To date my husband and I have had sex in the kitchen, in our laundry room, in our sitting room when guests and our kids were asleep upstairs and it was so mentally thrilling that we keep exploring and the fear of being caught adds to the thrill. My husband is 36 and I am 32 and we are acting like teenagers whenever we get the chance. You may not remember but I bought vigrx for my husband and a handcuff set through you months ago and we have been using the cuffs and blind fold quite frequently. My husband can’t bring himself to giving you feedback about the vigrx so here I am doing it for him. By the time I bought vigrx I had done my own research and to my surprise it has given my husband the ability of a 18 year old. Before our sex life was ok but now even after a stressful day my husband can gain an erection without struggling. And gosh his ejaculation load has increased. My husband loves to see me swallow and he has his moments where he cums all over my ass, he says he likes the trickle effect.

I hope you don’t find me strange but recently my husband and I have discussed having a 3some, after I brought up the topic, and we have identified a mutual friend who I fancy and she is bisexual and has been since we knew her 7 years ago. I am a bit jealous because this will be my first time but my husband had a 3some when he was in University.

I really want this experience but my concern is the unknown effects it may have on our relationship. I have read on your blogs that it has worked for other couples but will it work for us and I know there’s no way of knowing until we embark on that journey. As I said we have tried a few things, the craziest thing we have done so far in my book is have sex after a few drinks at a friend’s place as two other people watched us. That was exciting.

Do I have anything to worry about?

Maurice replies,

There is always a chance that any new sexual fetish exploration may have a negative effect on a relationship depending on the mind set of the couple. However in your case it seems to be a mutual path of exploration. No one is going behind the others back, that is a bonus in itself, and a signal that you are merely exploring your fetishes together. You already had sex outdoors which you enjoyed and you also had sex in-front of other people and I believe that has not severed your bond as a couple.

You have clearly stated that you fancy your chosen threesome woman and I can bet you have fancied her for awhile and yet you have not embarked on having her to yourself. Which leads me to believe that you will only pursue this sexual journey if  your husband is involved.

All I can say is that so far you have enjoyed your sexual escapades and with that your communication and bond has grown stronger. I personally do not foresee any reason for concern but the ultimate decision is for the two of you to make.

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I have a session in Mombasa on Saturday 16th March. If you live in Mombasa and would like to attend call me 0720 229 351.

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Hi Maurice,

It has taken me years to accept what I am but I can finally admit that I am an exhibitionist and I am proud of that side of me. I am a career woman with a husband and 2 kids whom I love very much. Married for 5 years.

Maurice asks,

When did you know you were an exhibitionist?

She replies,

While in high school, it was a thrill to be watched by other girls in the shower but I never had sexual feelings for them it was just the glare of all those eyes that turned me on. Later in life at the age of 22 while on a weekend getaway I played strip poker with friends and they were a bit shocked that I did not mind losing :-). Luckily for me I have exposed friends who just thought of me as the crazy one who should not be dared at any one time. I have had a great social life with great friends around me but I have a personal problem brewing.

Maurice asks,

Whats is the problem?

She replies,

Oh before I forget, my then friend now husband was at that getaway so he knew what I was capable of by the time we dated and finally got married. My husband accepts my exhibitionism, he has no choice, and we get up to no go whenever possible. We have been caught by neighbours having sex in our garden but we don’t care after all its within our confines. It’s not our fault if they peep at us, is it :-). When the kids are away we get to go wild and have sex in the kitchen, sitting room and I especially like it when the curtains are wide open. The thought that someone might be watching us is exhilarating and my husband has come to like it too. He loves to launch his load all over my naked self, I love it, the feeling of his load smeared over my breasts hmmmmmm.

Maurice replies,

Fantastic. You should feed your husband pineapple about 3 hours before sex, you know why.

She replies,

LOL yes I do.

Maurice replies,

I can see your sex life is healthy the way it should be in marriage. Couples should always make time for erotic intimacy. Your sex life is exciting and has no limits no boundaries. So where is the problem?

She replies,

Two years ago we went to Menorca on our annual holiday abroad. I went to the nudist part of a beach and met this guy who was so full of life and we got chatty. He met my husband and they too hit it off but on one of the nights after I exhausted my hubby to sleep, I slipped out and had dirty sex with the native. Was it worth it, yes. Was I guilty, no. Anyway I got that out of my system and for another week my husband and I had a lot of fun in Menorca.

A year ago we had our second successful threesome in Watamu courtesy of me. Hubby was a bit reluctant after our last experience but when he saw the girl I had invited he soon got with the program. Our next experience was with a couple we met online. That foursome did not go as planned because the other man could hardly keep it up long enough. In the end the men shared a drink and left us to it and I thoroughly enjoyed being all girly with that woman. I am not surprised because it was her that I engaged with and planned for the foursome. What a night :-).

Maurice my exhibitionism is mutating to the point where I want to take off my clothes at any opportunity. When I am at work you would never think I was such a freaky psychosexual woman but that’s my way of venting and expressing myself other than allowing day to day problems to stress me. And after reading your honest and liberal blog for the last 2 years I have come to understand myself better.

Maurice asks,

If you had the choice what would you do with your exhibitionist side?

She replies,

I would like to be on a bench in a park naked and playing with my vagina.  I fantasize on serving passengers on a long haul flight, naked with nipple clamps. Not because I want sex but because the status arouses me.

Maurice replies,

I do understand your condition. You are a compulsive exhibitionist. You long for certain attention through being naked, you are very confident about your body and unlike most women your seek attention not just from your husband but from the public whenever you get the chance.

She replies,

So I am definitely not normal and will this behaviour go away one day?

Maurice replies,

What is the definition of normal unless you are following unwritten societal rules of acceptable behaviour. My dear you are not alone. I can totally relate. I too are stimulated by the thought that someone is watching when I am having sex. Does that make me an exhibitionist, to some degree but to an extreme exhibitionist I am nothing but a novice in that domain.

We all have sexual traits that may seem abnormal to others but who is to judge us and why should they, each to their own. Embrace that side of you and I must say you are very lucky to have a husband who is compatible, couples are rarely that lucky. All I advise is that you refrain from exploring without your husband because it may become a habit and you know what they say about ‘breaking habits’.

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I am seeking contacts in other parts of the Country apart from Nairobi. If you live outside Nairobi and are interested in helping me organise sessions please email me…. maurice_concepts@yahoo.co.uk

I am looking forward to the Mombasa session in March.

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In late October 2012 I had this dialogue.

Hi Maurice,

My name is Mr X. My wife and I need your services.

Maurice asks,

Which one of my services do you want?

He replies,

We want to learn more about our sexuality.

Maurice asks,

Are you currently having problems?

He replies,

My wife says she wants to explore beyond the horizon and feel sexy again. She wants to climax and truth be told that does not always happen when we have sex. Our marriage is intact but for years we have sat on the idea of exploring our fantasies and after reading erotic sex for couples on you blog we are convinced that we need your assistance.

Maurice replies,

I still don’t know what you want from me?

He replies,

Well, we are interested in your practical sessions, we want to try out new things and we have both agreed to exploring that avenue with your help.

Maurice asks,

How and when did you hear about my services?

He replies,

I was referred to you by a friend, you taught her how to squirt during a session. She speaks highly of you. She said you were the man for the job. You actually send my wife a copy of your g-spot dvd a few months ago. The dvd was insightful but we need a practical session that is more hands on.

Maurice asks,

So let me get this straight, you want me to teach you and your wife how to have better sex?

He replies,

No offense but I cannot trust the out come so I would rather have the girl you work with teach us. I hear you have trained her well so she is my preferred choice. When we are ready we shall let you know. I believe we need to book a venue cause we have kids at home and how long is the session?

Maurice replies,

Yes you do need to avail a venue and the session will take 2 hours. It really depends on the liberal momentum of the session.

In January 2013 I received feedback.

Hi Maurice,

We do apologize for the delay in giving you feedback. December was busy for us and the festivities took priority. Now where do I start. The experience was thrilling. And your girl was great even though that does not entirely describe our experience that afternoon. She was very professional and in her own way she made us very comfortable which was initially a major concern for us. I had my whisky to relax the nerves and they had their glasses of wine and we chatted as form of the build up and soon enough we were thoroughly engaged in what I can only describe as the ultimate fantasy. What did I learn about my wife. Well, I never knew it was her fantasy to play with another woman so that was new. About myself, I realised I have a hidden kinky nature to watch two women. I was very keen to learn so I watched everything she did to my wife. For a minute it was a bit intimidating to hear my wife moaning the way she did but I told myself there was no turning back and as you had earlier said I can only learn more from the session if I let go of elements that inhibit me. Dude it was mind blowing, and guess what, my wife had another surprise request up her sleeve. As much as I had made it crystal clear that I was only going to have intercourse with her. It was my wife that asked me to have full on (protected) sex because it would turn her on, my first question at that moment was; has she done this before. I almost lost my erection but some voice said ‘what the hell’. My wife was playing with herself and climaxed and that had a tremendous positive effect on my ability to maintain my erection. Talk of multitasking that was something very new to me. All I can add is that my wife and I let go that day and we enjoyed every moment. Weeks later we had a chat and we both agreed that something from that experience changed our attitude towards each other and not just sexually, after 11 years together we have become closer than ever. We can share anything now.

We both want to thank you for being openly frank by telling us that there was a slight downside to what we were embarking on and thankfully neither my wife nor I got addicted to the experience. Will we ever do it again, we might but for now it’s not on our to do list. If anything we are having that support cushion on one of the scenes of your dvd custom made for us. We are going to try everything and will never fall in the loop of ignoring our sex life which we admitted we had lost due to day to day life at work and at home with the kids. Since November my wife has come first above all. I love my kids but like you said their mother needs to feel like a sexy woman and only I can make her feel that way. Her sexual needs and her need for a loving husband will be my priority. Oh by the way I did try your psyche theory about closing my eyes and being one with my penis as I throb it inside her and I actually did feel the warmth you spoke of after a few trials but it’s intense stuff dude, I broke a sweat while in that zone.

I think I have said all I had to say. Thank you for everything.

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Hi Maurice,

I have been reading your blog since March 2012 and I love your work. I am 19 years old and have been sexually active for 3 years now. My girls and I have been debating over female masturbation and we have really learned a lot from each other through sharing our experiences. Just to give you an idea. My girlfriends are between 17 and 20 and out of a group of 7 girls we are all sexually active and have had similar experiences with men and masturbation. My first boyfriend was 22 and I was 16. He was my first sexual partner and I can’t really describe the wow factor because there was non at all. It was a bit painful for me but it was over pretty quick. My second boyfriend was nothing to talk about but my last boyfriend made me feel things that were extra-ordinary. My pussy would get so wet with him and I would notice a whitish fluid coming from my pussy. It was during that extra-ordinary sensation that I would feel the flow. He dumped me mid last year and I decided to masturbate which I was doing before but since having sex with him I am able to touch myself till that fluid flows out of me. I told my girls and they too were masturbating though some were clueless on the sensation and the white fluid but they enjoyed touching themselves. I love the feeling of touching myself and I do it at least twice a day. At night I am afraid my folks will hear me cause I can do it more than twice. And the risk makes the feeling intense. When I am home alone I love walking around the house naked, usually I have to send the maid out for some freedom but I love the feeling of being free. I first look into the mirror then I begin to play with my nipples and once in a while I lick chocolate off my nipples and fingers. I love white chocolate. My friends say I am a freak and maybe I am and I am proud of it. Over the December break I had my first kiss from a girl I met at the Coast and it was awesome. I soooo wanted to fuck her but I did not know where to start so we made out at my hotel room and almost got caught by my brother, the little brat. Oh lawd when she licked my pussy I had to bite a pillow, out of nowhere I felt like screaming. Maurice it was incredible. Too bad she lives far away but we still chat hoping we can hookup later this year. That’s all I had to share and please attach sexy photos of girls so I can masturbate over them on my smartphone.

Ciao Maurice

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Over the many years I have been asked about the safest way to have anal sex without having to hurt her. Well, the first thing you need is patience. A virgin ass is delicate, I am tempted to use the word ‘fragile’. It is not an easy task and remember it is supposed to be enjoyable to the one receiving. And do not worry, if you are nervous about anal sex you are completely normal.

Now let me take you down memory lane 16 years back and tell you how I handled my first ever attempt to de-virgin a girl’s ass. Yes I was young, a bit of a novice, but I had the general principles mentally engraved on my mind. I knew the first few sessions would consists of gentle, patient anal finger penetrations before my penis was ever going to receive a piece of the action!

It was vital for me to make sure the girl was relaxed and comfortable. One of the best ways to achieve that status is to have her empty her bowels ‘no do not over feed her’ that’s cruel, and give her a good rub down as she takes a shower or soaks in the tub. She felt clean and sexy after, that’s always a benefit. Depending on how freaky she can get it is beneficial for the girl to play with herself, to get herself in the mental mood, to get her juices flowing, to get herself warmed up and you ‘the man’ can play with her clit to help her get there a bit faster, but remember there’s no hurry, lets take our time and do this right.

So here we go. I recall we engaged in a lot of anal play which meant I lubed up my fingers and began to play with her anus entry point, trust me with all the nerve ends at that area, the pleasure even without penetration is intense and she actually had a rush of sensations and without realising it eventually she had a premature orgasm. She particularly enjoyed it more when a placed a 4 speed vibrator against her anus. The moans were intense and thrilling for novice me. Though it is not mandatory to use sex toys they are just an added bonus to the journey of pleasure. After anal play using my well lubricated fingers (latex cloves can be used) I embarked on my first ‘finger penetration’. It is very important to remember that once penetration has been reached ALL MOVEMENT MUST BE STOPPED, why? so that the girl can adjust to the newly introduced foreign anomaly and the sensations that follow. After about 2 minutes I began to wiggle my finger gently rubbing and touching her rectum walls. The sensation caused her to orgasm within minutes which was both surprising to me and her at the time. So our first and second sessions went ok and so did our third and that is the time when after getting used to 3 well lubricated fingers she asked for the real deal. Remember there’s nothing like too much lubrication. Lubrication is great, it limits friction and makes entry much easier. Once I gained entry, I knew that it was crucial for her to take control of the motions and I just stood still with my penis inside her and she started to move her body back and forth in the doggy position. I was not expecting what happened next and all I remember is hearing her say “it’s coming”, I was excited but at the same time I wondered ‘what was coming’…. you get my drift. Thankfully it was to be one of the most intense orgasms she had ever experienced, she then yelled don’t move and there again she ‘came’ in full control still moving back and forth at her pace. Its the first time that I felt like a organic dildo. I had an erection but was powerless, not in control but enjoying every moment ‘as you would’. This was to be one of my many learning curves of the art of patience and the art of reading a woman’s reactions, her body language, how she likes it, at what pace and at what point I should take control or not.

Many women who discover anal sex have testified to having the best orgasms and all due to nerve endings that are tapped during anal sex. While having intercourse penis girth all lubed up adds to the pleasure.

Recommended positions to begin with while using the fingers is in the missionary position with her legs suspended and spread as if giving birth.  Some women believe it or not prefer the guy sat on the bed with his back on the headrest and she in the girl on-top position. When the vagina and penis are lubricated women have managed to enjoy their first in the girl on-top position. They normally drench the shaft with lub then hold the shaft and slowly, very slowly slide it in like the slowest guided missile ever!

It is important to note that during your anal trial sessions you will also be enticed to have sex and forget about the anal session, that’s fine, everything takes time. Enjoy the journey, make her comfortable and she will thank you for every moment you have been patiently by her side.

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To my readers,

I can only tell you two things, enjoy to the maximum and don’t drink too much otherwise you may end up in bed with the wrong person!

Let us all be merry together. Santa can knock on my door any day!

Enjoy those finger licking moments…. as you know I am a big fan of ‘yoghurt moments’, a chocolate bar or syrup will also do the trick…. if you get my drift.

Be spoilt for choice this holiday….

Avoid these kind of moments, unless you have a kinky fetish…. I love the image and sound of a woman peeing…. I know!!!! naughty me…..

Lastly, in-case you find yourself on the wrong side of the law, try and avoid this mug shot.

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