mauricetherapy

Hi Maurice,

It has taken me years to accept what I am but I can finally admit that I am an exhibitionist and I am proud of that side of me. I am a career woman with a husband and 2 kids whom I love very much. Married for 5 years.

Maurice asks,

When did you know you were an exhibitionist?

She replies,

While in high school, it was a thrill to be watched by other girls in the shower but I never had sexual feelings for them it was just the glare of all those eyes that turned me on. Later in life at the age of 22 while on a weekend getaway I played strip poker with friends and they were a bit shocked that I did not mind losing :-). Luckily for me I have exposed friends who just thought of me as the crazy one who should not be dared at any one time. I have had a great social life with great friends around me but I have a personal problem brewing.

Maurice asks,

Whats is the problem?

She replies,

Oh before I forget, my then friend now husband was at that getaway so he knew what I was capable of by the time we dated and finally got married. My husband accepts my exhibitionism, he has no choice, and we get up to no go whenever possible. We have been caught by neighbours having sex in our garden but we don’t care after all its within our confines. It’s not our fault if they peep at us, is it :-). When the kids are away we get to go wild and have sex in the kitchen, sitting room and I especially like it when the curtains are wide open. The thought that someone might be watching us is exhilarating and my husband has come to like it too. He loves to launch his load all over my naked self, I love it, the feeling of his load smeared over my breasts hmmmmmm.

Maurice replies,

Fantastic. You should feed your husband pineapple about 3 hours before sex, you know why.

She replies,

LOL yes I do.

Maurice replies,

I can see your sex life is healthy the way it should be in marriage. Couples should always make time for erotic intimacy. Your sex life is exciting and has no limits no boundaries. So where is the problem?

She replies,

Two years ago we went to Menorca on our annual holiday abroad. I went to the nudist part of a beach and met this guy who was so full of life and we got chatty. He met my husband and they too hit it off but on one of the nights after I exhausted my hubby to sleep, I slipped out and had dirty sex with the native. Was it worth it, yes. Was I guilty, no. Anyway I got that out of my system and for another week my husband and I had a lot of fun in Menorca.

A year ago we had our second successful threesome in Watamu courtesy of me. Hubby was a bit reluctant after our last experience but when he saw the girl I had invited he soon got with the program. Our next experience was with a couple we met online. That foursome did not go as planned because the other man could hardly keep it up long enough. In the end the men shared a drink and left us to it and I thoroughly enjoyed being all girly with that woman. I am not surprised because it was her that I engaged with and planned for the foursome. What a night :-).

Maurice my exhibitionism is mutating to the point where I want to take off my clothes at any opportunity. When I am at work you would never think I was such a freaky psychosexual woman but that’s my way of venting and expressing myself other than allowing day to day problems to stress me. And after reading your honest and liberal blog for the last 2 years I have come to understand myself better.

Maurice asks,

If you had the choice what would you do with your exhibitionist side?

She replies,

I would like to be on a bench in a park naked and playing with my vagina.  I fantasize on serving passengers on a long haul flight, naked with nipple clamps. Not because I want sex but because the status arouses me.

Maurice replies,

I do understand your condition. You are a compulsive exhibitionist. You long for certain attention through being naked, you are very confident about your body and unlike most women your seek attention not just from your husband but from the public whenever you get the chance.

She replies,

So I am definitely not normal and will this behaviour go away one day?

Maurice replies,

What is the definition of normal unless you are following unwritten societal rules of acceptable behaviour. My dear you are not alone. I can totally relate. I too are stimulated by the thought that someone is watching when I am having sex. Does that make me an exhibitionist, to some degree but to an extreme exhibitionist I am nothing but a novice in that domain.

We all have sexual traits that may seem abnormal to others but who is to judge us and why should they, each to their own. Embrace that side of you and I must say you are very lucky to have a husband who is compatible, couples are rarely that lucky. All I advise is that you refrain from exploring without your husband because it may become a habit and you know what they say about ‘breaking habits’.

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I am seeking contacts in other parts of the Country apart from Nairobi. If you live outside Nairobi and are interested in helping me organise sessions please email me…. maurice_concepts@yahoo.co.uk

I am looking forward to the Mombasa session in March.