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Hi Maurice,

I am and have been a massive fan of yours for 2 years now. I read all your blogs but the ones that fascinate me are those related to sex. My husband and I are on our 5th year of marriage. Our marriage has had it bumps I guess that is common but I am thankful that I have an open minded husband. And we both  have a kinky side. You are probably wondering why I am writing to you and what my issue is. There is no issue really. After reading erotic sex for couples, erotic outdoors and the female exhibitionism blog my husband and I got a bit wild and tried out a few things we read like fucking in our garden. I would like to say he made love to me but the truth is he fucks me and I am not complaining at all. For me it was at first weird and scary but now it is a thrill to be fucked in the out doors and for him it was a discovery of something you wrote about. My husband loves to have people watch us doing it. He can’t explain it but he says it has always been there but he never quite knew what it was until the day we had sex in our garden. We suspect neighbours have seen us. To date my husband and I have had sex in the kitchen, in our laundry room, in our sitting room when guests and our kids were asleep upstairs and it was so mentally thrilling that we keep exploring and the fear of being caught adds to the thrill. My husband is 36 and I am 32 and we are acting like teenagers whenever we get the chance. You may not remember but I bought vigrx for my husband and a handcuff set through you months ago and we have been using the cuffs and blind fold quite frequently. My husband can’t bring himself to giving you feedback about the vigrx so here I am doing it for him. By the time I bought vigrx I had done my own research and to my surprise it has given my husband the ability of a 18 year old. Before our sex life was ok but now even after a stressful day my husband can gain an erection without struggling. And gosh his ejaculation load has increased. My husband loves to see me swallow and he has his moments where he cums all over my ass, he says he likes the trickle effect.

I hope you don’t find me strange but recently my husband and I have discussed having a 3some, after I brought up the topic, and we have identified a mutual friend who I fancy and she is bisexual and has been since we knew her 7 years ago. I am a bit jealous because this will be my first time but my husband had a 3some when he was in University.

I really want this experience but my concern is the unknown effects it may have on our relationship. I have read on your blogs that it has worked for other couples but will it work for us and I know there’s no way of knowing until we embark on that journey. As I said we have tried a few things, the craziest thing we have done so far in my book is have sex after a few drinks at a friend’s place as two other people watched us. That was exciting.

Do I have anything to worry about?

Maurice replies,

There is always a chance that any new sexual fetish exploration may have a negative effect on a relationship depending on the mind set of the couple. However in your case it seems to be a mutual path of exploration. No one is going behind the others back, that is a bonus in itself, and a signal that you are merely exploring your fetishes together. You already had sex outdoors which you enjoyed and you also had sex in-front of other people and I believe that has not severed your bond as a couple.

You have clearly stated that you fancy your chosen threesome woman and I can bet you have fancied her for awhile and yet you have not embarked on having her to yourself. Which leads me to believe that you will only pursue this sexual journey if  your husband is involved.

All I can say is that so far you have enjoyed your sexual escapades and with that your communication and bond has grown stronger. I personally do not foresee any reason for concern but the ultimate decision is for the two of you to make.

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