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Her dark secret

coupleunhappy.Dear Maurice,

I am a mother of 3 adorable children, 7,4 and a 2 year old and I am very married but for the last 2 years I have kept a dark secret from my husband.

Maurice asks,

How long have you been married?

She replies,

I have been married for 8 years. I had my first child when I was 22 years old.

Maurice asks,

So what is this dark secret?

She replies,ebonylesbiancouple

Firstly I want to share my story because I found myself in a facebook women’s group where I discovered that I was not alone. I thought I was weird suffering from some disorder until married women revealed that they too had bisexual secrets and they only felt safe to share in exclusive forums.

Maurice I am attracted to women. I have had numerous sexual encounters and truth be told I find a woman’s touch erotic, women turn me on. Am I weird?

Maurice replies,

Your sexual preference does not make you weird, it just makes you unique compared to others. When did you know that women did it for you and are you in contact with one particular woman?

She replies,

I have always known but it was 2 years ago that I had my first sexual experience with a woman and it was out of this World. Yes I have a girlfriend who is actually a fully fledged lesbian.

Maurice asks,

Why a woman, what does your girlfriend deliver that you don’t get a home?

She replies,

This is really hard for me because I love being married but sexually I married a 2 minute man and before you ask I knew it from the beginning. I have been to one of your sessions I know how you read between the lines. I knew exactly who I was marrying and I never told myself that he would improve I just knew he would be a good husband and father.

Maurice replies,

But….

ebonylesbians..She replies,

Sex for me is important. I am an extremely sexual woman, I used to make him go 3 to 4 rounds so that I too can enjoy sex. He has since slowed down and sometimes I can see him struggling to perform meaning he is only doing it for me which is a put off.

Two years ago I got chatting with one woman from the facebook group and we hit it off. We met for a girl’s night out and one thing led to another and I got addicted to her touch. She is sensual and with her I climax multiple times in a night. I thought an orgasm was what I was getting at home until I met this woman OMG.

I love the way she takes her time to navigate my body. I have over the years tried with no success to instruct my husband on how I want to be handled in bed but he has this male ego trip about him being a man so he automatically knows what I want. Why can’t you teach men to listen, to follow simple instructions. If they did women would enjoy sex more often. Many of my friends are suffering in silence, faking orgasms in the name of soothing egos. What about their pleasure is what I ask them. And I know as a result some have affairs on the down low.

Maurice replies,

It is fact that many women are having affairs to fill a certain void, a certain craving. It is also fact that many women are bi curious and some go a bit further and explore their fantasy and once they taste the forbidden fruit they tend to stick to it.

If I may ask, you have 3 kids so I am assuming your sex life at home is active?

She replies,

It is but apart from when I just want him inside me most of the time sex is for him. We don’t use protection hence the 3 kids. I have told him that I want to try out long term contraception because I don’t want more children.

I am in love with 2 people for different reasons and I don’t feel guilty when I am with her but I feel guilty when I sometimes decline my husband’s advances. I am not always in the mood to pretend I am enjoying sex. The irony is that my husband has a big dick which my girlfriends seek and yet my pleasures stem from touch and the power of the tongue.

Speaking of tongues, she is also demanding of my time and that creates a problem even though I find myself availing time to be with her. I will never leave my marriage but I know equally I will not sacrifice my sexual pleasures for the sake of morals. It is not enough to have a loving partner. Sex for me is part of the package or rather I wish it was but I guess such is life. All I can do is play my part at home and know that once in a while I go out for my orgasmic chocolate.

Maurice replies,

It is clear that you know what you want. All I advise is that you manage your home as your number one priority and never let sexual lust deter you from your family duties.

She replies,

Thanks Maurice.

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My key role in the work that I do is to liberate people sexually. That basically means that I do not discriminate when it comes to sexual ebonycouplecommunicatepreference. Whatever gets you off is your business and I encourage sexual adventure and exploration. Sexuality should be fun and exciting, it should not be a chore or obligation to please one person. It takes two to tango, ok something three or four, but you get my drift.

If you enter any relationship setting with the mind set of ‘sex will be boring’ well guess what ‘it will’. For example, if you believe that in marriage sex is not enjoyable then you have just set yourself for a very boring sexual journey. This is how some people end up in other people’s beds. I don’t write the rules those are just the inevitable dynamics of a stale sex life.

What is sex?ebonyridingherman

If you think sex is when a woman spreads her legs and you thrust her with your aerodynamic organic rod then you will soon be wondering why your bed is cold as you lie there alone.

As I have always said, sex is a journey of physical and mental stimulation. It is a journey that should be enjoyed, you and your partner need to explore each other by teasing, kissing, touching, sensual whispers, licking; in short taking your partner on a roller coaster of sensations.

If you are a man, rest your rock hard penis for a while and utilize your strongest weapon ‘your tongue’, let her lead you to her vagina and touch it ‘gently’.

Before your fingers penetrate her make sure she’s wet. With all the seductive might vested in you take your time to lick around her neck and ears. DO NOT attempt to dig wax out of her ears, she’s meant to enjoy the licking experience. She is your cone of ice cream, take your time, her vagina is marinating at this point.

Now lets go south towards her nipples but tease her by licking and sucking around her areola. Then go back up and repeat what she responded well to. It is critical to study her responses to your every action, that way you get to know her arousal zones instead of guessing and performing a lot of trial and error.

When you eventually get round to her vagina area, again take your time, lick or suck her labia minora (aka pussy lips) and do it with care, you’re not eating a pie or trying to extract her uterus.

Now many of you will think the above is a tutorial but really it is there to highlight a few issues. Many couples do not communicate in the bedroom, they have never really known what there partner likes which has led to many awkward assumptions.

Hence why we have men who handle the nipple as if they were searching for a radio frequency. It is also the reason why some men wake up with a burning bruised penis because the previous night their partner ‘assumed’ saliva lubrication was not necessary as they were performing their ‘gear shift’ hand job maneuvers.

If communication was enforced non of the above would take place.

mangoesdowntownSome men may be saying that they can not lick their woman’s vagina which leads me to a simple question, if you don’t who will???? I ask this because in today’s modern age many women for one are not willing to settle for less neither are they willing to live life without experiencing certain vaginal pleasures. A curious vagina is very dangerous and determined. If I did not indulged in the art of canalingus I would be extremely worried. Why???? Because there are plenty of skilled ‘brothers’ out there who are willing to go down town and do the job for me.

The truth is harsh and this applies to both gender. What one will not do another will do it gladly, not just to pleasure but to prove that they are willing to venture into the sexual realm that you are not. Here’s a tip, don’t knock till you try it.

Now to the ladies. If you have a man who consistently comes home thinking of having sex with you then quit complaining. You have been blessed with a man who’s compass directs him to explore with you.ebonycouplemakingwaves There are far more women wondering where their penis is at, they stand by their window counting down hoping that the next car belongs to their penis. Would you rather have your man’s penis in your hand stroking it like there’s no tomorrow or would you rather turning your window into a light house hoping your man will dock at your bay!

If your man is on top of things and you can see his entire mental and physical function is focused on the job in hand then that is not the time to remind him that you have kids and a house help. Men love to her your sound effects, having sex on mute is like having sex with a tree, however if you really have to muffle then bite onto a pillow and maintain the flow of his sexual prowess. In short DO NOT attempt to stop an express train.

Whether you are a size 8 or 18, it is not your size that makes you a desirable woman in the long run, it is all about your attitude towards yourself. Most men are attracted to confident women who just ooze sexiness regardless of size. Plus size women usually have visually enticing breasts that shout out ‘suck me’ and we really like that.

Frequently asked ridiculous questions?

Maurice how do I tell my partner I like doggy?

Answer: Lets start with you opening your mouth shall we….

Maurice my wife does not undress in front of me, what could be the problem?

Answer: Considering I am not usually there with you, why don’t you ask your wife?

Maurice I can work with my husband’s penis but can you enlarge it?

Answer: The answer is in your statement, ‘work with what you have’. When you were his girlfriend you knew exactly what penis you were marrying so 4 to 10 years into your marriage why the sudden need to enlarge!

Maurice my wife tells me I need kissing classes can you help?

Answer: I do not offer kissing classes and I fear your question read in a certain context could imply a service I definitely do not partake in.

Maurice I finger myself a lot, can that damage my vagina?

Answer: It won’t damage your vagina however considering you do it a lot, it would be wise to refrain from doing it at work, I don’t think it is part of your work place ‘vision’ and it might distract others during board meetings.

I encourage couples not to fear or judge one another but to share their desires, their fantasies so that there can be more sexual flames than candles burning between the sheets in more homes.

Send this link to 10 of your friends or to anyone you think needs to learn from the above. Help me pass on the message of sexual liberation. If it was up to me there would be an orgasm day in our calendar but that should not stop us from embarking on a mission to liberate each other.

It has been documented that women who achieve orgasms regularly are very productive at work and when they get home they have their ‘special’ way of showing their appreciation. That should be an incentive to everyman.

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A woman’s fantasy

Dear Maurice,

I would like to thank you for being so informative at the session IΒ  attended in September. Actually that was my second session with sexyebonywifeyou as the speaker, my first taste of your session was back in 2011. My husband and I appreciated your g-spot dvd. I would like to give you feedback on your latest kamasutra dvd that I bought from you. It is very sensual and informative. Needless to say watching the dvds with my husband has really made us connect as husband and wife. We have realised that we had become very conservative about sex and yet that was not the case when we met 9 years ago. You are very right about couples falling into a certain mindset after having kids which kills frequent sex or sexual desire in totality. Lucky for me my husband is a willing participant in learning new things. I was really tired of spreading my legs and that’s it. As I shared with you that day my husband and I have sex at least 3 times a week and out of the 3 times I either cum once or not at all. It can be pretty frustrating because he would always cum and I am left hanging.

But that is no more.Β  I think my husband has changed his mindset and is more prepared to be more sensual. I do not know whether the kamasutra dvd boosted his sexual ego because he is putting so much effort to making me cum. He is taking his time when he goes down on me so am able to concentrate on his tongue motion and orgasm in his mouth. The other night something awesome happened, he made me squirt using his penis head. As you had instructed in the session I pushed my vaginal muscles outward a couple of times until somehow as he throbbed his penis I begun to squirt, once I got into the mode I continued to squirt, it was amazing. I am experiencing very extreme sensations as I orgasm and squirt at the same time. My husband was thrilled. You should have seen his face he looked like he had climbed Mount Everest.

Maurice replies,

I am glad that you are experiencing intense orgasms and squirting at the same time. I am equally glad the kamasutra dvd was of value to your sex life.

She replies,

It was and still is. Expect calls from random women I have marketed you to my friends.

I have one pending thing and I guess you are the right man to ask.

After your session I got the guts to tell my husband about my fantasy and he listened and to my surprise he agreed after he had declined when I mentioned it in passing when we were courting. I assumed he would have been more open to the fantasy when I was his girlfriend?

Maurice replies,

I would be better placed to reply if I knew what the fantasy was?

She replies,ebonylesbians.

Good point. I told him I have always fantasized over having sex with a woman. While in campus I almost had the threesome experience but the guy my girlfriend and I invited ejaculated so fast and slept. My friend and I kissed but that was it, I guess we were afraid where it may lead us. I also shared that with my husband and he just laughed.

Maurice replies,

I believe your husband is open to the idea at this point of your union because of the connection you currently have, watching sex educational material has more than just liberated your sexuality, it has opened your communication level as a couple hence why he does not see your fantasy as competition but as something you can share.

She replies,

He has conditions though.

Maurice asks,

What conditions?

threesomecoupleIIShe replies,

He does not want to participate in the touching. He wants to watch and arouse himself. He then wants to cum all over our boobs. He has been taking your supplements so he has a lot of semen which he loves to off load on my boobs. I recall you stating that some men love to off load on boobs, my husband is one of them lol.

Which one of us needs to pick the third party?

Maurice replies,

Considering it is your fantasy you need to pick a woman who arouses you.

She replies,threesomecoupleIII

That is good because I had told him the same. Do you have any play tips for me.

Maurice replies,

I won’t write a manual for you because it won’t be spontaneous plus am sure you can get creative with ice cream and yoghurt. As part of your foreplay you can begin by massaging each other with baby oil or if you can get your hands on edible oils even better.

She replies,

To be honest I really wish my husband gets more involved on our erotic night but even if he doesn’t I will enjoy myself. Thank you Maurice you have inspired and liberated many people over the years.

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Ciao Maurice

Ciao Maurice,

I love reading your blog and I would like to be part of it by sharingbeauty 12 about my sexuality. I am Italian and funnily I have been to your Country. I holidayed there 2 years ago and I loved the beach, the food and the people. I had my first mandigo experience in Kenya and I still recall it. I have always liked walking around nude and I love when people stare, it turns me on. I am very hippy and curvacious and too often I find myself nude in the house, in the garden, out at some parks and especially when I visit a friend who has a balcony I love my exhibitionism. But I have a small labia minora is that normal? And I like playing with myself. I masturbate almost everyday. And why is it that I can make myself squirt but the men I meet cannot? You write about arousal, I can orgasm when a man sucks my nipple and plays with my clitoris. My ex hated that I preferred hand stimulation to his dick. One other thing, I really enjoy anal, I orgasm so fast with anal is that normal?

Maurice replies,

Thanks for sharing. As long as you feel vaginal and clitoral stimulation there is no course to worry about your labia. Despite what many think women who masturbate tend to enjoy their sex life more than other women. It also has a lot to do with your craving for exploration. When you play with yourself you free your mind from the World and you focus on your arousal zones which in turn releases feel good chemicals that run through your brain. For you, your nipples and clitoris are prime arousal zones. Those areas are your orgasm trigger points. Every woman is different and the only way a man can satisfy a woman, like making you squirt, is by following your instructions so that he can maneuver his way around her body without much effort. Same applies to your ability to orgasm during anal. Through anal once a man’s penis hits your nerve endings he causes you to orgasm.

When it comes to sexuality there’s nothing like normal. It is about exploring and discovering what arouses you. When you get nude and walk around at that point you are expressing your sexuality and freedom. So keep doing what you do and never ever let anyone take that away from you.

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Craving the big ‘O’

Dear Maurice,

I am a dedicated reader of your articles. I have learned a lot from you and I would like you to help me with my fantasy. I am reaching ebonymumout to you because I know you do not judge people neither do you have a typical African view of sexuality. I have been married for 14 years. I love my husband to death but when it comes to marrying the one you are compatible with in bed I guess I picked the wrong one. My husband is a traditional man who only does missionary position, he is the man on top kind of guy. For years I have tried to introduce new styles to our bedroom but he is so set in his ways it puts me off sex many a times. I am turning 40 in November and I need to experience what I once thought was the ultimate feeling.

Maurice asks,

Which is?

She replies,

I need my husband to change his ways or I will find myself having an affair. I am bi curious but I have hidden that secret from my husband because he would never understand why I would love a woman to goebonymumII down on me. It is so frustrating especially at the prime of my womanhood. I look at women at work, at the Mall and I desire them. I only wish my husband was kinky like that I wouldn’t need to masturbate as often. I wish I could finger myself in-front of my man, that would be such a turn on for me.

Truth be told I have faked orgasms for 14 years, if am lucky I’ll miraculously have an orgasm 2 times a month and that’s with a lot of concentration. I can’t take it anymore. I have served my duty as a wife and mother for far too long without sexual reward. I really envy the women who write to you explaining how their man is open minded and how they get to orgasm and squirt. It is time for mummy as they call me in our home to orgasm multiple times.

Maurice how can I have change in my home?

Maurice replies,

Do you think you can convince your husband to having a talk session about your sex life?

She replies,

Maurice that is not a possibility. How would I even bring up that discussion.

Maurice replies,

As you said your husband is set in his ways so the probability of him changing is extremely slim.

She replies,

To be honest I just wanted you to confirm that I am doomed however I am not willing to go without certain pleasures anymore. Would you recommend I take up your escort services?

Maurice replies,

My dear I am a sexologist, my key function is to liberate my clients sexually.

She asks,

Do you get many women in my situation and have they become addicted to your service?

Maurice replies,

Yes I do get many women seeking sexual pleasure. What I can not control is the possibility of one being addicted, do I have repeat clients, yes I do. I provide a service and with it comes the risk of wanting to taste the cookie over and over.

She replies,

Maurice I last had satisfactory sex when I was 23. It was with my ex. I recall that part of my sex life like it was yesterday but for years I have had to suppress my sexual needs to play the good wife. I am done, it is time for me to be selfish. I need to feel like a woman and my husband keeps hinting that a woman my age should be off sexual desires. He has no clue that my libido is up there flying high and my vagina needs some thorough attention. I am traveling on business in a week or so but when I get back I am going to call you and take up your services. I hope that part of the package will include squirting lessons. Shock on him I am going to squirt all over my husband just for the fun of it and to see the look on his face will be priceless. Thank you Maurice we shall be talking when I get back.

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A healthy threesome

ebony3some1Dear Maurice,

For once you are getting a positive story which came to be through one of your sessions in 2009. After listening to you during your session I got the idea of doing something out of the norm with my husband. It was easy because we constantly share ideas and are pretty open and we discuss everything without getting offended by one’s opinions or as you call it β€˜desires’.

We had always discussed having a threesome and we did. We both agreed on a suitable candidate that we both fancied and we approached her, to our surprise she was game and we all got tested then we had a wild night out, had plenty of drinks as we pub crawled and eventually booked into an hotel. The hotel room was breatheebony3some taking (arranged by my hubby) and boy did we have an erotic night. Again as per your comments from the session we played kinky games of which we made up as the night matured. I must admit when my husband started to touch her for a second I was a bit worried but then I just snapped out of it consider how far we had already gone to make this night a reality and to my surprise my hubby was more interested in watching me and our threesome partner performing our girl on girl action. Is it every man’s dream to see women playing with each other? It was a new and thoroughly enjoyable experience I would have it everyday but we do have a family life lol. I never imagined a woman going down on me, I experienced orgasm so fast I was shocked and for awhile my body seemed to be on auto drive, words can not describe the sensations that went through my body.

I had asked my hubby to enjoy himself so as he was having sex I actually got turned on β€˜weird ah’ as I also touched our threesome partner constantly playing with her size C cup breasts that looked more like a D cup, it was a fantasy come true especially for me ebony3someIIIbecause my hubby had already had this experience during his youthful days. β€˜You see’ we shared everything about each other and I for one was not intimidated by the information we shared and for us to have a threesome was the peak of all erotic desires. My hubby is good in bed but clearly having a threesome was a real boost for him because he lasted for more than one hour without ejaculating, he was definitely the stud of the night. I’m sure you want to know how old we are and for how long we have been married. Well we are both under 45, been married for over 10 years and that’s all I’m saying because some of my friends read your blog.

I did leave out some info lol. So let me tell you that your tooth paste fore play idea actually did make my vagina tingle β€˜thank you so much’ Dr Love. I know you hate that name β€˜tough’ you are good at what you do, keep up the good work, I know you said that you don’t always manage to save all situations but I’m sure you have made a difference for many relationships.

By the way a friend of mine wants to meet you in person; she kinda has a crash on you and she especially wants to learn how to squirt. I told her about the session.

Thank you for inviting a new flavour to my marriage sex life.

Maurice I can only imagine that your sex life is awesome. I am curious would you like to share and tell what your most erotics moments and fetishes so that my husband and I can also try. Sorry to put you on the spot.

Β Maurice’s reply:

Indeed you have put me on the spot but really this blog is not about my adventures. What I can reveal is that there’s very little I haven’t tried with one or more and I do have a few fetishes! I’ll leave the rest to your imagination.

Reading your story gives me hope that as Africans we are slowly coming out of the closet and showcasing ourselves for who we really are. Instead of hiding behind out dated customs, traditions and cultures that most of us only use when it suits our agenda. Many people will not agree or understand why you and your husband can allow a third party in your marriage but it’s not their place to outline what is right or wrong. Many will have religious reasons to why your actions are wrong, of which I would rather not comment about for now.

All I can say is there are numerous ways to spice up a relationship and you found yours. I take everyone’s lifestyle and sexual preference as a way of life that is comfortable for them without judgement. You only live once so enjoy your sexual escapades and explore your limits. Whether you are liberal or conservative try something once and if it’s not for you then at least you tried rather than living life asking yourself β€˜what if’ or β€˜shoulda coulda woulda’ avoid looking back at life and wishing you had done things differently.

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I miss my kinky life

Dear Maurice,ethiopian

I have been married for 2 years 7 months and there are elements of my life that I thought I could ignore or suppress but I can’t. I am pretty, extremely independent and I love the erotic nature of sexuality. I have read so much of your work and I think you will understand me better than most. I met my husband clubbing with my girls and apart from liking my bodily attributes he also liked the fact that I was bi curious and at times me and some of my girls would host sexy dress themed parties and all sorts of things would occur during those nights. Now that we are married I am having less and less of my sexual needs met.Β  I miss being me, being naughty, taking my clothes off as we play poker. My husband still makes me feel sexy but I feel as if we are in a cocoon, as if we have limitations now that we are married.

Maurice asks,

What is it that you miss?

She replies,

I miss so much where do I start. Before I met my husband I used to have multiple female sexual partners, some friends and some random girls I would meet clubbing. When I met my husband he was very open to sexual adventure as my boyfriend but now things are not as they were before. About 11 months ago we drippinebonygirlhad what you can call our last adventure and it did not go well. For the first time ever during our 3some session with a mutual friend my husband bailed out as things were getting steamy and went to watch television. I at that point should have followed him but I continued having sex so he must have been pissed off listening to 2 women moaning for most of the night. After that incident our sex life has gone downhill. Truth be told I miss the touch of a woman and I miss the man I met in the beginning who was open to my sexuality. I miss my man taking nude photos of me in the wild, in our garden. I miss how he would get turned on by watching me playing with another woman. I miss our cat and mouse games at home and especially when we were out of town in some cottage out in the woods of Mount Kenya. I miss being one with nature. My husband as my boyfriend knew I was a exhibitionist and he was supportive. For some reason his sexual drive is not there.

Maurice asks,

Has he made a drastic change in character as you describe or has he changed less to your liking?

She replies,

He is just not as open to my adventures as he once was. I was walking around the house naked and to my disbelieve he asked me to put on some clothes and act like a wife. Where did that come from? I will not change who I am and make him forget the sexiness in initially saw in me. I am going to fight him and remind him that I may be his wife but I want to be his bitch more than ever before.

Maurice replies,

I totally agree with you. You should not change who he fell for and much of his attraction stemmed from the physical, he only got to know you as a woman during the courtship that led you to marriage. It is my opinion that what used to be fun for him is now more competition. He has gained feelings for you that go beyond the physical so your sexual escapades are most likely creating jealousy instead of erotic expression. Men are not the best at communicating their fears so do yourself a favour and make your husband feel that he will never cease to be your hunk, your bedroom master. You need to spark that sense of fun into him. Once he feels that no matter what you get up to he is your number one ‘always’ he will soon enough ‘hopefully’ go back to being the man who embraced your sexuality.

One’s sexuality is not redefined in marriage. Those couples that change their out look on their sexuality in marriage will always find themselves at loggerheads, why? Because human sexual desire is not altered by marriage, neurochemicals that define who we are and especially sexually do not readjust. Everyone has a sexual desire and it must be met regardless of societal status.Β  Be wise, put as much energy and priority in your ‘between the sheets affairs‘ as you do in other areas of your life. In the World we live in today, if you do not priorities your partner’s sexual needs there is a possibility that someone else will.

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How do I seduce a man?

black woman smilingWell, well, well. It is a common question and the answer is usually simple. You being of the opposite sex and looking sexy alone usually does the trick but if you really want to get results you need to fully implement the following to turn the hunter into the hunted.

Lets get one myth out of the way. Opposites do not attract, not unless you are experimenting in the sciences! Men are more drawn to women with similar interests hence why compatibility is an essential social agent in foundation making.

If you are in a club for instance you will find mirroring or mimicking a man will get you his attention. How does this work, its simple, if he sips his drink, you sip yours. It creates a sense of connection but it is important to establish some formcoupleinlaughter of eye contact for a period of time. Why is eye contact important? Most men are never good at reading signals so the more eye contact a man receives the better. If you glance at a man twice he may not get the message but if you glance at him 10 or more times he may actually gain the confidence to walk up to you. So make sure he gets your attention before you end up drinking litres of liquid in the search of a one night adventure or love.

It is true that most men like to conquer a woman but there is a thin line between playing hard to get and putting a man through a military drill to becoming a killer ranger. If you like a man make it clear to him that he can have you after playing your ‘cat and mouse’ game. In today’s World just like in a supermarket there are endless products so make sure your brand of woman is visually enticing and accessible otherwise a man will assume you to be nothing but a tease and he will move on.

Does food seduce a man. No, but it fills his belly. On the other hand if you are attempting to seduce him during a light meal I recommend avocado as part of the serving, it may not yield instant results but it has the properties to elevate a man’s arousal. Whatever you do, ‘do not’ feed him with 1kg of avocado hoping to accelerate his libido you might as well taking him sky diving and scare him to death. If you can get your hands on raw cacao powder it will surely stimulate a man’s neurochemicals.

Will you seduce a man with a short dress, tight jeans, mini skirt, sexy slutty lingerie, with cleavage shouting ‘suck me’. You most probably will attract the kind of man who sleeps with anything that moves but something tells me that is not the quality you are looking for. Men are attracted by a woman’s dressing because we aresexyebonycampusgirl visual by nature and if your dressing shows off your female attributes (minus your great heart), we will response by staring with a ‘I want to eat you in many ways’ face.Β  But what really stands out is your confidence. You may wear a sexy number but your beautiful face shows vulnerability that is not always attractive.

If you do not have confidence in yourself how do you expect to reflect a positive signal in a man’s eyes. Whether a size 8 or 16, what matters most is your confidence. Hence why most men get confused when we hear “baby my ass has grown too big”, there is no such thing as a too big ass, we like to see it, touch it (that rounded formation is awesome), we want to suck it, lick yoghurt off it and spank it. The same applies to your breasts otherwise referred to as ‘boobs’, we loved suck on them as babies and we still do as grown men. Hmmm the thought of rock hard nipples and lactation just does it for me.

Lastly (as I smile), men themselves may not know this but for decades studies have shown that men identify women who are ovulating, it should not be strange considering our earthly function is to procreate and how do you guarantee life goes on if you don’t have the natural instinct to pick the right one to mate with.

A word of caution to those women who get along better with male friends. You may not know this but about 20% of affairs are with women who indirectly seduce their male friend (one thing leads to another). You may think you are part of the boys click but in reality 60% of your male friends have sexual intentions towards you but may never tell you.

Good hunting….

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What can’t she tell me

Dear Maurice,

My wife and I have been married for 9 years. When we met we quickly discovered that we were very compatible in the extreme sexual preferences.blacklust We were candid enough to share our fantasies and fetishes and from there on we dated and eventually got married.

I am 37 and my wife is 33. We are your everyday family with 2 kids but while the kids are away my wife and I love to dapple in our sexual fantasies. I am seeking your opinion because after reading your posts I have related to your sex articles and I believe you are the right man to query with.

Maurice asks,

What is the issue?

He replies,

Until now my wife and I have been the envy of all our friends. We have always been known to defy all societal rules and we have been happy for years making our own.

Maurice asks,

So what has changed?

He replies,

As I said we are the extreme couple, we have had threesomes, foursome, you name it for years, once in awhile to spice a random weekend and it has alwaysGirlylust been a mutual thing but recently I over heard my wife telling one of our bunnies, that is what we call them, that she is in-love and is so confused because she also loves me. She also said “when am I seeing you again” to imply they met behind my back. For 9 years in marriage and another 3 years dating we have shared everything, it doesn’t matter how good or bad we have been an open book with one another so why can’t she just tell me that she has developed feelings towards one of our bunnies.

Maurice replies,

So let me get this straight, you are not pissed off by her love for this woman its more about not sharing with you, is that correct?

He replies,

Maurice you may think I am nuts but yes that is my only issue. Why now, what has changed for her not to be able to share with me. When we started to explore the extreme side of our fantasies it was her who had a problem and was a bit reluctant because she thought I would be lured by another woman while engaging in our adult games. But to date that has never happened because for me the thrill and excitement is only there if I am sharing that experience with my wife.

Maurice replies,

My job is not to judge people’s sexually escapades. I encourage sexually liberation. In your case its pretty simple. Based on what you have told me it should not be a problem rationally confronting your wife in a composed manner and telling her that you over heard her sharing what seemed like an intimate moment in the context of words with someone and you need her to know that you are not judging her but you need to know what that conversation was all about.

He replies,

I have a bad feeling about this. She could be planning to leave me.

Maurice replies,

Lets not go overboard and speculate, that will only stress you for no good reason. Unless you ask her you will never know the truth about that conversation she had.

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He wants it all the time….

Dear Maurice,

First let me say you are doing a great service telling it as it is on your blog. IeroticcoupleIII have a problem, ok maybe it is not a problem but I want your opinion. I have been dating this guy for 1 year 2 months. He is a awesome guy, a great lover but I just cant keep up with him and he annoyed me with something he said a few days ago.

Maurice replies,

What do you mean with keep up?

She replies,

When we met we hit it off like wild fire, everyday we would have sex and it was out of this World. I just could not get enough of him and the same applies to him.

Maurice asks,

So where is the problem?

She replies,

I thought that after a few months the sex would slow down, it hasn’t. If anything his libido seems to be intensifying.

Maurice replies,

Again where is the problem?

She replies,

Imagine Maurice sometimes its too much for me to handle.

Maurice replies,

Let me take you down memory lane. You said that you had sex everyday is that correct?

She replies,

Yes.

Maurice asks,

For how long did this ‘everyday’ period last for?

She replies,

For about 4 to 5 months.

Maurice asks,

After that period did his penis suddenly mutate to something you do not crave anymore?

She replies,

Lol. No it did not.

Maurice asks,

Is your vagina tired, exhausted, does it need to take a break?

She replies,

Maurice I just can’t keep up with his sexual appetite.

Maurice replies,

This is my opinion. For those 4 to 5 months you mentally adopted to pleasing your man and now that you feel you own him, you have seized to go the extra mile. You are not alone, most first encounters force people to play a part to please and to keep the other person interested but once you realise your hunt is done people tend to slow down and stop acting the role they had taken up. Am I making sense?

She replies,

I guess I did play a role to keep him interested. Plus at the time there were other women who also wanted him.

Maurice replies,

So you went the extra mile to conquer the man’s attention, to make him yours. That was your driving force. I am curious what did he say to annoy you?

She replies,

During an argument about sex he said at least he is not fucking someone else but he is tired of initiating sex which I must admit he does most of the time.

Maurice replies,

I can not force my views on you but I must ask, are you ‘really’ sexually attracted to him or has the honeymoon period for you lapsed in that department?

She replies,

Maurice I wish you could be there to witness his appetite. He is the best lover I have ever had but waaah this nigga likes pussy too much.

Maurice asks,

The question is ‘who’s vagina does he like’, yours or someone else? My dear you do not have to have sex whenever he craves it but you need to snap back into that woman who was going the extra mile to please her man. I do not know your man but from your description of him he is most likely an alpha between the sheets. That breed of man is rear ‘trust me’.

A man who would rather have an argument about his sex craving towards one woman ‘you’ is a man who is true to you and you alone otherwise he would not bother with you at all. The other thing, your man knows that there are other men aka predators out there so he asserts himself fully to make sure that you are satisfied or in your case over satisfied.

My dear embrace the man you have, if you are tired or not in the mood, tell him that he will still receive your cookie the way he likes it once you are ready. His kind of breed likes to know that he is still wanted, that he is still your hunk, your stallion. Do not just say no to his advances and leave him hanging. That will only breed a man who eventually looks for it elsewhere. Men are visual sexual beings and only ignorant women overlook that fact, don’t be one of them.

Question, is marriage on the cards?

She replies,

Yes. I would marry him in a heart beat.

Maurice replies,

In that case have a firm grip on his penis before it falls in the wrong hands. What I am telling you applies to everyone. The reality of today’s World is if I do not satisfy my woman she may at one point seek it elsewhere. I am man enough to accept that fact of sexual nature in humans and so should everyone. If he is your chosen long term partner you must adapt to his craving for you or let him go.

She replies,

I get your point. I know I have a good man and from now on I will attempt to put effort like I did before.

Maurice replies,

Don’t attempt just focus on a positive mentality towards his advances and hold onto your man.

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