Dear Maurice,
I hope you have been well since our last session. I am very happy with your mentorship and yes I do give you permission to publicize my journey as long as you do not publish my name of which I know you wouldn’t. I wanted to break down what has happen since the sessions I had with you.
Let me put it in context for my readers: My good man here, an Eros Group member, 36 years old, is dating two women. Each woman has her own relevance and thrill factor. The sessions we had with each woman separately, on separate weekends, was a way for him to evaluate the degree of friendship and sexual compatibility that he had with each woman. It was also the best avenue for me to deliver an analysis on his profile and what type of woman best suited him.
Firstly, I want to say that the out of town destination was extremely ideal and did set the 
mood for each weekend. As you know woman number one whom we can name Alice (26 years old), is so much fun, adventurous and far more liberal than woman number two whom we can name Betty (29 years old). When I told Alice to surprise me during our get away you saw that she brought along a friend and you got to teach both of them how to squirt and I got to witness my fantasy of watching two women making out. It was by far the 
freakiest visual excitement I have ever had. Watching them was like watching a piece of art being created. I was not aware that women were so sexy together, all that licking and sucking was such a turn on. Even though there was no nakedness, I found the segment where we had our discussion very valuable. it gave me insights on the major differences between us men and women. It was also refreshing to know that women do not all have the same expectations when it comes to sex and relationships. The discussion on polyamory was especially intriguing to say the least. Though sadly Betty was not open to it as Alice was.
Maurice replies,
How do you feel about Betty and how do you feel about Alice, and considering I threw in sensitive topics in our discussion segments to mainly evaluate the reaction each topic would ignite?
He replies,
Betty in my opinion is grounded and coming from her corporate image she is very set in her ways. She is ‘homely’ if I may call her that. She is pretty but her lady attitude is always evident. With her I have to think before I speak.
Maurice replies,
Do you recall the character in her that finally came out once she had a few drinks? What was your opinion of her other side?
He replies,
Once she was out of her shell, she was loads of fun and she was so open to being naked and learn how to squirt. But my only concern in that respect is having to intoxicate a woman every time I need to have fun with her would at some point be tiring and non attractive. The other thing I disliked was that she was so conscious of sexual intensity. Like for example, when she over squirted on the bed, she was worried about house keeping, who does that!!!! She almost put me off completely but the horny side of me was not going to waste the trip. After a few more squirting episodes she stopped caring about house keeping.
Maurice replies,
What were your thoughts in the morning?
He replies,
I had fun, the session experience was priceless but I don’t know if you could tell, I wanted us to have breakfast and checkout. My entire manhood was not responding to her morning love. Comments she had made and things she had done the previous night all hit me like a massive wave. Even in the morning, as much as I was hoping to have sex, my penis just refused to comply. I guess this is the part where women tag us men as ‘hit and run’. Only small boys hit and run but your negative vibes will make me disassociate with you.
Maurice replies,
I am glad you brought that up. Only boys hit and run. The one thing that can make a man eject himself after a weekend together is your negative attitude as a woman. Things you say or do that just paint you as a party pooper.
From the day I met you and Betty at Java before we went on our session trip, I knew that you and her were not compatible. I think for you, Betty is a safe woman to have a relationship with. She can uniquely be a wife and child bearer for the convenience of creating the family unit and that is one mistake men partake in. Because despite your professed love for such a woman, you will always ultimately indulge in sexual thrills with other women who can provide what she will never be able to provide, the thrill factor. The thrill factor is fueled by lustful intent, it’s that ignition of dopamine that gives a man a rock solid erection, the only you get when you are buying fruits thinking of how you are going to manipulate a woman’s vagina. Every man knows that feeling and Betty kind of women can never spark that arousal. The survival of sexual intent is all about character perception. Hence why you find especially married men struggling to gain an erection at home. Some even want to gain an erection but their dominant psychology of this is my wife, mother of my children has over time distorted her from being a sexual being to just having the designation of ‘home manager’.
He replies,
If you already knew that Betty and I were not a viable match then why did you not say anything earlier?
Maurice replies,
The mandate you gave me was not for me to give you versions that may sound like my own opinion without assessing how you are in the social arena. It was important for me to witness how you react to topics and to what degree does your character accommodate what you do not like. Men tend to have a failing when it comes to trying too hard to please a woman who does not understand your effort and in many cases does not deserve your effect. Like many men I saw you attempt to accommodate her views even when they made your skin crawl.
He replies,
Truth be told, I was not fully there. I did think about Alice, especially when Betty was stressing her point on why monogamy is the only relationship format she understands and will ever accept. I was not aiming to change her views but her attack on people who think differently was such a turn off. Honestly Maurice, I really liked Betty and Alice was more the woman I have amazing fun with but after your profiling I got to see her for who she really is.
Maurice replies,
I know what you mean, and that is why compatibility is so critical. You must ask the uncomfortable questions that lead to the truth and also showcase the real you. Whether in marriage or in casual relationships, if you do not display your likes and dislikes on the table then you are putting on an act and at some point you will get tired and remove the mask revealing your true colours. Then your partner will say she or he changed and yet all you did is finally unveil the real you.
He replies,
The other major, and I mean major issue is that Betty, in all her corporate-ness, has a problem treating a man. After our session with you, she actually felt obligated to take me out for dinner and she was candid enough to say that she did not like the idea of her as a beautiful woman ‘her exact words’ buying a fully grown man dinner. She said it was not African.
Maurice replies,
Did you remind her that less than 60 years ago it was not an African thing to go out for an A l Carte dinner as a couple! You recall me telling her that a woman is not under any obligation to treat a man to anything but if a woman meets the calibre of man who is of the school of thought that both gender can treat each other to lunch, coffee, dinner, movies, then she needs to fit in or bail before misunderstandings weaken the union. So my question is, are you still going to see Betty?
He replies,
Last time we were together, we had goodbye sex. We agreed that only our business dealings make sense. Then she surprised me!
Maurice replies,
With what?
He replies,
I was honest about seeing Alice when she asked during our goodbye sex pillow talk. Since then despite our agreement, her behaviour has contradicted our friends only policy. She is far warmer in her communication and she is attempting to sext me which is something she would not do in the past. What the hell is going on?
Maurice replies,
Well, my good man, once you told her about your link with Alice, and she most likely thought your penis only had one lubrication point ‘hers’, her sexual demeanor towards you has changed. Alice has recalibrated her vagina. Her vagina was running on two cylinders when she thought you were solely focused on her areola but now she’s propelled by eight cylinders with maximum torque heading your way. You are in trouble my friend hahaha.
He replies,
Let her bring it, and I will remind her that we agreed to be friends, and that I will have sex with her if her flirting trail leads me down that road. What I really like about Alice is the freedom to be me. We talk about anything and everything. We are like good pals who have known each other for years and happen to share out of this World sex episodes. Her liberal out look is a breathe of fresh air and you Mr Matheka took it to another level when you taught her to squirt and you made me master the art of making a woman squirt and orgasm. Dude, you do not know how grateful I am for your teachings. You should double up as a life coach because apart from my sexual life, your motivational talk on life & work has really impacted me positively. I am hoping that my story will give more men the push to seek help. Our egos need to be put aside. Oh by the way, I am meeting up with Alice and her kinky friend for drinks and maybe more, who knows. Her pal has been sending us videos of her making herself squirt, boss you turned her into a freak lol. I have a question, why is it that Alice’s friend can make herself squirt and Alice can’t. She is mostly squirting when I penetrate her.
Maurice replies,
The reason is because Alice’s friend was free with self stimulus and by her own 
admission she is a seasoned masturbator who also took it upon herself to make me show her over and over until she understood what it took to make herself squirt. She also made Alice squirts which was a clear sign of her keenest to learn the required motions within the vagina. I conditioned Alice’s inner upper vagina that’s why she can squirt during intercourse but I can bet that she has not been practicing as I had recommended. Women who make time to be in sync with their inner vagina make stronger orgasms and the ability to squirt second nature much faster than those who do not put in the effort. With your acquired skills you are now able to coach her in self stimulus. You understand the needed inner upper vagina motions so you can train her until she can make herself squirt.
He replies,
She has another pal who wants to learn so I am willing to pay for another session out of town. I am a sucker for more girl on girl action lol. I will be in touch. Thank you so much bro.
Maurice replies,
Super, looking forward to round three.
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am a Kenyan but most of my up bringing has been outside the Country. Since I was 16, I have only dated Western girls. My parents gave me an opportunity to discover the World since I was 14. I am 27 years old and successful. I currently work in Vienna. I have three holiday destination that I must visit every year, Spain, Malaysia and Kenya. Kenya is home but it’s not home at the same time, if you get my drift. I always have this culture shock especially on people’s weird behaviours and disloyalty. The amount of money that I have lost due to non starter projects is colossal but that is a story for another day. What is wrong with Kenyan women?
was in Kenya in April and I took a trip out of Nairobi with a freaky 26 year old BBWI met online and boy did she show me what Kenya is made of, it was a wild weekend, full of nakedness and squirting, that shit is magical bro. She invited her pal to join us on our second night out there. I was in Kenya for 3 weeks so you can imagine the stuff that went down. My boys got me covered but after all that squirting, the major put off is the random solicitation of money. You have lived out here so you know that shit does not happen over here. Two consenting adults have sex for mutual fun but in Kenya the roller coaster is thrilling however it ends up leaving a bad taste in your mouth when you get the feeling that some woman did you a favour sleeping with you and yet I financially covered for the entire experience. No offense bro, but you guys started a culture of paying for shit that you have no need paying for. I have had Austrian, Spanish, Italian and Eastern European women take me out for dinner or on a trip, and you know how fine they can be, without the sense of doing each other favours, just two consenting adults treating each other to a good time. I am so used to going dutch, so the concept of having to pay for everything is not appealing.
going and we can meet up and have a good single malt as we discuss my options. Again, thank you for your time. For now, I will maintain my fuck mate relations that keep us mutually entertained in more ways than one. Oh, I should have mentioned, I love a woman who has a bisexual nature. We can’t be in all that wilderness and not explore with a imported third party, you feel me bro?
videos where you have women looking for serious men. I want to join but I want you to clarify a few things about men. I am 37 and I have never been lucky with love. I have dated six men in my life and all turn out to have very different outlooks to life. I want a family. I want a man who is present at all times. I want a man who can play with his children and be there for me at my lowest moments. Are there men out there who want to be serious with a woman?
became addictive and he had already told me that he had come out of a 11 year marriage and was not looking to settle down again. I saw him every week and despite our agreement to be each other’s friend with benefits the feelings flooded in. At that point I asked him to let me go and he did. We were like a couple but not quite, you know what I mean!
the right things. This is where women come to regret that word ‘serious’ when they end up with a man who seriously lies, seriously tells a woman what she wants or needs to hear, a man who says he loves you out of obligation but also tells others he loves them but in this regard the ‘I love you’ is based on how he is made to feel by external influences. A man who is serious can seriously hurt you, it is important to remember that. The couples I have ever met who I can confidently say have a functional relationship, all have something in common. No, it is not love but genuine friendship. Their relevance for each other is maintained by brutal honesty whether good or bad. They allow themselves to cry and have fun together. It is a friendship that lacks in many marriages in my experienced opinion. The other thing, and I really wish men were more honest about this. Men do not mind being providers but many today are tired of having that label define them. Economic times have changed and many men do not prescribe to women who believe in ‘my money is mine and his money is ours’ mentality. 
I know for a fact that this reality is causing men to withhold financially. Men are always seeking thrills, if you are not part of the thrill you are part of the problem. There must be a balance between family and fun. Some will say, fun does not pay bills or school fees, which is true. But remember thrills and fun cause erections which are not evoked by bills! Even those tenders are driven by heightened testosterone which allows for doors & vaginas to open alike! One must always find their relevance and work on maintaining it without affecting the relationship psychology. The simple equation is to meet a bigger pool of men, not for sex, but to enable you to meet an assortment of characters who you can evaluate and hopefully find compatibility rather than falling for any man just because he seems to say all the right things and most likely he is in a position to fulfill your eagerness to get married. Thereafter you become my client complaining how you gain the title but lost the man. There are also times when unknowingly women have met a perfect guy but spoil it by displaying insecurity and neediness that renders a woman unattractive. Again, know your relevance.
resolution from you. I am married to a Kenyan man from the Agikuyu tribe. I am 26 and he is 29 years old. We have been married for 3 years so I find it odd that I write you with a disturbed mind in our early years of marriage. We met 6 years ago in the UK while he was pursuing his post graduate. He was charming, romantic and funny. I have a thing for a man who can make me laugh and be goofy at times. I must admit he was my first black man so a heightened level of curiosity drove me to want to traverse, if you get my drift. He promised me the World and while we were in the UK, the World was my oyster but ever since we moved to Kenya things have gone from bad to worse. We moved here in March 2018. We both secured employment before moving so on that front all is well. Then again his family is minted, but that was never an attraction. I am more about character and the character I am witnessing is not the exotic loving man I once met.
the icing on the cake. I was so thoughtful compared to any other boyfriend and that’s saying a lot considering all were right proper gents. I have never had a bad apple until now. I love him but I do not think I can tolerate his behaviour for much longer. His family and friends keep telling me that this is acceptable behaviour. This may be customary in Kenya but I am not having any of it. I told my ma and she advised I get on a plane back home. I have two burning questions, is it normal for a man’s friends to hit on you even though they know that you are married to their friend and my second question is why do people here find it weird that in life couples fall in and out of love all the time? I ask because my Kenyan friends do not get it that my exs were all great men but due to circumstances and a shift in life trajectory we parted amicably. In my view, people here tend to tolerate and accommodate situations that cause them misery for years.
Africa things will change a bit and that he still loves me. Which if you ask me is absolute hogwash. You actually sorted out a friend of a friend’s marriage. I am sure you have plenty of sessions but you had several therapy sessions with them and the good review was that you sorted their relationship friendship and sex life. My sex life is amazing but I just need the Kenyan man I met in the UK back. One of the reasons why I sought you out is because we are planning to start a family next year now that we have settled down as per our schedule. Even though I work, I never want to feel like all I am worth is being a submissive wife and bearing his children, plus washing after him which I can never be. If I cannot have him back I would rather cut my losses and head back home. Maurice, if you could see me I am biting my tongue with loads of curiosity. As I was researching on you I came across
articles that you have written about squirting. I know it is off topic but it got me so damn curious. YOU TEACH WOMEN HOW TO SQUIRT, yes the cabs were necessary wow wow wow. I know of a lady who happens to be a sex therapist in Australia who teaches women how to orgasm but not in a million years did I expect to find a man of your skill set in Africa. I tell you what, if you give me back the husband I know, I will definitely have that squirting session with you. I need my man back and you need to get him back for me. My husband travels a lot but he will be available mid September. We would like to have our therapy session at our home in Kitisuru. I will confirm suitable dates then we align with your availability. Thank you Maurice and thank you for your time. No pressure but you are the only person standing between me and a flight back to Stratford-upon-avon.
children. I actually met you at a talk you gave in a bridal shower in 2010 but I will not lie to you, I was not attentive during your session mainly because my thoughts were elsewhere on that day. So, I have been researching on your work. I have gone through your blog and watched all your YouTube videos, very interesting find. I even shared your packages with hubby and we have agreed that I need to rediscover myself as a woman. I know for the last 19 years I have been more of a mother than a sexual wife so it is of a matter of urgency that I experience package 4b. We will then have package 6 with my husband at a later date. I know you have heard these couple stories and they all start sounding the 
same but I am grateful that my husband and I have always told each other the hard truth, even truths that should have broken us but we stand together no matter what. Like I said, I have not been the best wife in the bedroom department and neither has he been a great husband. He has 9 affairs to his name, some were inadvertently caused by me pushing him away and others were more about the thrills men seek. But anyway, that is water under the bridge, 2 years ago we mutually decided that we are going to rekindle our friendship and sex life. We also want a sex show in October because this time round our anniversary needs to be kink and fun none of these dinners and family parties that get you no sex at the end lol.
meet but it is burning me. After my husband and I decided to rekindle and explore on our own we got into a habit of masturbating together in bed, normally triggered by the porn we watch together from our iPad, is this normal? Do not get me wrong, we love our new found freedom of expression but at our age we always have a laugh that we were past this kind of behaviour. Hubby is specific in his fetish nowadays, he is really into going down on me and blowjobs. He loves it when he cums in my mouth. I love it when he watches me masturbate and cum.
and the last asshole who just wasted my time with awful sex and constant cheating. He said all the right things but did all manner of things behind my back. He was a real fisi and to think I was prepared to marry him. I broke my virginity at the age of 24 then I waited 6 years before I gave myself to the man I thought would be my last. Though as much as I want to be married I am also very afraid of marriage. You have actually had a session with two of my girls separately. You taught them how to squirt, one of them because of FGM thought she was broken but you gave her self confidence when she achieved her first orgasm. But non of them is enjoying marital sex, they both have explosive orgasms with other men but not at home. This is my fear, if this is the norm then what is the point. According to them their husbands are care givers and the other men are there is provide sexual bliss. Matheka, my question to you is why is this happening in so many homes?
the years in one on one sessions with men it has been common to hear a man say ‘I love my wife but initially when we met my only agenda was sex’, which means once he prolonged their fling expiry date that relationship grew into a boyfriend & girlfriend’ setting and later into a marriage. Do not get me wrong, there are functional marriages where both parties are committed to each other without external influences but those are the minority in society. After profiling those minority couples I have always found that their secret is genuine friendship where no one feels caged or micro managed by the other. The other important psychology behind their success is that they were not out to gain social status. They married because they wanted to officiate their bond but it was never to please society or family which seems to be the case with many couples. Unfortunately majority of marriages are driven by degrees of insecurities and falsehood characters, relying too much on a human emotion called love which is merely a psychological notion of attachment and extremely erratic. Friendship is the most powerful ingredient when it comes to sustaining any relationship format.
know sexual liberation starts with freedom of self discovery. I also want to know more about the male psychology. I want to learn to be more appealing in the eyes of a man. I want to learn how to seduce a man and much more but first I need to feel like a woman. I have thought of myself as a lesser woman because I have never had an orgasm, sleepless nights and me crying needs to be a thing of the past and my girls said you are the man for the job. I hope I am not putting too much pressure on you but this is me at the age of 32 saying I need your help. Oh, last question I promise, my pussy lips are not equal, one is much longer than the other and I have always been embarrassed and self conscious not knowing what a man thinks when he sees my pussy.
like a life coach. As you said, you were teaching me how to control my environment instead of my environment controlling me. In talking to my husband, with my new way of thinking, and less over thinking. I noticed I was far more rational in my thought process and that petty things were no longer affecting me. If we are honest many of us go into relationships with unrealistic expectations and totally unprepared on how to communicate with less emotions but with practicality. One thing that my husband and I agreed on is that after you delivered your profile of us, we were both in-love with the idea of having a future but we were not ready to face the work that comes with that kind of commitment. I for one was so excited to finally find a man who could propose to have me as his wife but once the dust settled and the thrill subsided, I was not able to fulfill the attention he expected, more so I was not in-love with him but with the idea of love. Your profile was harsh but accurate, I guess we are never prepared to hear the truth. As I told you my husband and I went for marriage counseling at two separate places before we were referred to you.
were of concern. At the end he admitted that he was not interested in rediscovering our bond. He confessed that after 6 years of marriage he fell out of love with me and fell in-love with another, and I accepted it because as you well put it, never force a man to love you and never be with a man who only comes home because he feels obligated, it only means his physical self will be home but his thoughts are elsewhere.
assess whether ‘we’ still had the spark as he put it. He said that he loved the session but he always knew that he never had the sexual prowess a woman like me needs. Before I met you, I would not have understood what he meant but now I do. The truth is, during our session he saw a woman who had sexual potential that he was not willing to work towards hence why he prefers the other woman because she is docile in bed. And that is why I requested we have sessions just the two of us because:
even though I thought squirting was a myth you totally shocked me when I saw myself squirt numerous times and at that point Matheka I knew the following:
with boring sex. If I can now make myself squirt then as a man you better put effort into sucking my pussy till I scream and cum and not necessarily in that order lol. Touch my breasts and nipples until my clit rises, apply foreplay and don’t just remove your dick like you are going to War, take your time. Matheka you have taught me so much that I can’t hack a man who cannot explore my bodily and figure out in what sequence I need my buttons pressed. And seriously, why am I giving a man oral sex when he refuses to do the same. Speaking of oral sex, I must master how to give a man a blow job till he goes crazy, expect a call real soon.
quite learnt how to get me there but fortunately I was keen and dedicated enough to master how to get myself to orgasm and squirt during sex, with or without a man. It is the one gift that you gave me that I really cherish if that is the right word. I was miserable until last year November. I don’t have the perfect home but my distraction is worth it.
within days he was making me squirt like you can never imagine. I don’t envy the house keepers in the Hotels we frequent. Even that vacuum sucking you teach, he is a master, making my clit swell until it’s almost the size of me husband’s penis lol. He really knows his way around a woman’s body. He gives me a good sensual fuck in the bath tub. Oh by the way, when my husband miraculously made me orgasm during our session with you in 2011, that was sadly the last time he made me cum. That is why I am grateful that you upgraded my sexual know how to being able to make myself orgasm with those vagina muscle movements. What makes me enjoy this guy is his sexual patients and foreplay.
compatible so it has just been boring in the bedroom for the last 9 years. But that’s not my business. I just need to reboot and rediscover my sex life. He says he is open to a session with you. He wants us to venture into anal sex, a threesome with another man involved, so they both pleasure me and he also wants a foursome. That’s his bucket list and funny enough I am equally agreeable to explore. Though my ultimate desire is to make another woman squirt. That is definitely on my bucket list. I know a girlfriend of mine who had a session with you in 2016 achieves out of this World orgasms from anal penetration and I want to experience the same. He said whether it takes multiple sessions or not he is willing to take time to give me the experience I deserve. You see, that patience from a man is such a turn on.
heard your name brought up for one good deed or another. And clearly men too follow you on the down low. Let us just say that you have met several times, he is more a friend or a friend and he speaks highly of you. There is a time you organize a kinky stag party for his boys and he was there. He trusts you and your privacy discreet policy and that is why he wants us to have our first session in May. Somewhere in all this exploration you must make sure I get to learn to make a woman squirt.
found my best friend and lover. We never once presented our relationship and we made sure we stole every moment and it has been the case for the last 26 years. We are both married and our wives know each other. They have always thought of us as close friends but they have no idea how close. Our life has been like a social experiment, at every corner pretending we are heterosexual, following societal rules and expectations that add to the challenge of ever being together. We once contemplated on moving to Europe considering we can both qualify for good jobs but we thought of the damage it would cause of families. My question to you is, we are thinking of coming out to our family and telling them the truth, would you recommend that course of action?
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